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@Tracey-NZ
@Tracey-NZ 9 месяцев назад
Meet or DELETE in a week - excellent advice 👏👏
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 9 месяцев назад
That’s all you need! Problem solved. *brushes off hands* 😎😆
@barbc7698
@barbc7698 11 месяцев назад
I’m big on Social Catfish! I can spot fake profile a mile away
@michelebartlett3921
@michelebartlett3921 11 месяцев назад
I love that show
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 11 месяцев назад
it all seems pretty redundant after a while, doesn’t it?
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
@@TP-vu3tc I am not really understanding your question. But if I were to make a guess… I think only you can answer that question based on who you are meeting and connecting with.
@TP-vu3tc
@TP-vu3tc 10 месяцев назад
@CoffeewithCarey A girl on Instagram who has the same views about having God in our life to get us to no each other better. In other words, using God, faith, praying, topics replacing sex topics, financial topics, etc. I go hand in hand with her religious thinking
@TP-vu3tc
@TP-vu3tc 10 месяцев назад
First time listening to you. I can't wait to watch them all. I did subscribe and will recommend your site to others. Thanks for your time, Carey
@joannevanbelleghem1435
@joannevanbelleghem1435 11 месяцев назад
Great video! The scammers are everywhere these days! You look good in green!
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 11 месяцев назад
thank you! I was having a green moment this week. ;-)
@TheRjb2010
@TheRjb2010 2 месяца назад
The line that I always use when they ask for money is, "If you want money, you have to come and get it." That usually shuts them down.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 2 месяца назад
Why are you letting it get to that point?
@TheresaWebster-rz5ny
@TheresaWebster-rz5ny Месяц назад
Hey I did that .
@omekamary
@omekamary 16 дней назад
You might as well use your naked body to lure scammers in your town! Be on video not pictures
@omekamary
@omekamary 16 дней назад
If scammers blackmailed you, find naked beach, colony and/or Resort!
@michelebartlett3921
@michelebartlett3921 11 месяцев назад
I never take or send nude photos. I have more sense than that
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 11 месяцев назад
keep up the good work!! 😆
@user-hy9be4in1e
@user-hy9be4in1e 10 месяцев назад
My niece laughingly told her daughter, if you send a picture never include your face. 👍🏽
@omekamary
@omekamary 16 дней назад
I would find naked people in Miami and video myself with someone I love and say goodbye to the scammer's
@omekamary
@omekamary 16 дней назад
I would find naked people in Miami and video myself with someone I love and say goodbye to the scammer's
@julialednicky7542
@julialednicky7542 10 месяцев назад
Stunning in green❤️ thank you for the information!
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
and thank you for the comment and compliment, Julia. 🤎👍
@heathersmiliekiwi8528
@heathersmiliekiwi8528 10 месяцев назад
NEVER SEND COMPROMISING PHOTOS TO ANYONE ! They may be trustworthy now …. But who knows what will happen in the future.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
thank you for agreeing with me
@SanFranDentist94301
@SanFranDentist94301 8 месяцев назад
Even with a trustworthy person. They can still be lost, stolen, or misplaced.
@beverleymiller1035
@beverleymiller1035 4 месяца назад
Never send nude pictures
@hump1953
@hump1953 11 месяцев назад
I really liked this video.... I read a story about a young man who was threatened with sextortion and he subsequently committed suicide...😢
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 11 месяцев назад
oh nooo. horrible. 😞 trust me, you would all be seeing naked pictures of my chubby body all over and everywhere before I even thought about offing myself from this fabulous life!
@hump1953
@hump1953 11 месяцев назад
@@CoffeewithCarey 😜
@ssiegreen5292
@ssiegreen5292 11 месяцев назад
@@CoffeewithCarey It was a kid - 17 yrs old - with a life waiting for him to live... Very sad!
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 11 месяцев назад
@@ssiegreen5292 beyond.
@patriciamcdermott9589
@patriciamcdermott9589 10 месяцев назад
lots and lots of people have. i had a friend that killed himself over a romance scam.
@arfriedman4577
@arfriedman4577 9 месяцев назад
First time I see you. Glad you're exposing scams. I hope a lot of people see this. Much success and health to all.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 9 месяцев назад
thank you. And I appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment.
@debithackston9976
@debithackston9976 Месяц назад
It"s not being stupid ,, It"s just some of us just want love in there life. But 1st of all no real man that's also looking for love the real love is ever going to ask you for money.. thank you for sharing this
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey Месяц назад
🤎👍
@dougallred6341
@dougallred6341 Месяц назад
Truth
@patriciamcdermott9589
@patriciamcdermott9589 10 месяцев назад
good advice, wish every person on the planet would see this.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
That’s interesting to ponder. 🤔 that would be a lot of eyes. But if I had to pick an episode that everyone watched, this would probably not be the one. Now I have to think about which one would… Thanks for the comment!🤎👍
@mildredpierce4506
@mildredpierce4506 3 месяца назад
This is the first time I’m watching one of your videos and I give you two thumbs up. I follow people who communicate with scammers of various types on purpose. They engage with scammers, and you can hear firsthand how scammers treat the victims. The manipulation, the control, the belittling, etc. A lot of people know about romance scams, but they do not know how evil the scammers can be with their victims. They can be so vicious.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 3 месяца назад
Oh yeah. They get mean!
@rhayes1391
@rhayes1391 5 месяцев назад
Great advice as usual!
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 5 месяцев назад
Thank you
@DebraFlower
@DebraFlower 11 месяцев назад
Always helpful
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 11 месяцев назад
Glad you think so!
@stargazer1313
@stargazer1313 10 месяцев назад
Great info!
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
glad you think so! 🤎👍
@connieevans3321
@connieevans3321 9 месяцев назад
Thank you. Great info.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 9 месяцев назад
thank you for leaving a comment to let me know you think so!🤎
@bettywinn8296
@bettywinn8296 2 месяца назад
Thank you for addressing this horrible issue. Was caught in a few, myself, but since I was aware did not ever send 💲💲& at the end, confronted the person & told them I was aware of what they were doing. One guy, really got mad. I deleted him from contact list. (They also use other profiles as their own.) They use professions as : military, oil rigs and a lot of them say they are widowed. One guy even went on the diabetic line I was on & pretended to be "prediabetic." So, they are not just on social media altho I have received many msgs from guys on FB. Agree you look nice in green.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 2 месяца назад
Sadly, you are reiterating what everybody knows if they have been contacted by a scammer! Glad you never lost 💰 So predictable but glad that my one rule will keep everyone from ever being scammed again!
@pamquinlan8912
@pamquinlan8912 10 месяцев назад
Fun, informative and gosh, green is a great color for you. Namaste.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
so glad it was both informative AND enjoyable. Thanks for the compliment, Pam. I AM green, so I rarely wear green lol. must be the color adjustments in my editing! hahah
@AdamCarter30
@AdamCarter30 10 месяцев назад
Good advice, I do a lot of scam baiting, and I'm glad to see more people on here spread some awareness of these scams.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
happy to help!!!
@t-point7569
@t-point7569 9 месяцев назад
@@CoffeewithCarey which dating app do they use for this crime.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 9 месяцев назад
@@t-point7569 All dating apps, AND all social media! Be safe out there and make sure sure you follow my rule!
@shirlainewilliams152
@shirlainewilliams152 10 месяцев назад
fantastic great info ,if a person cannot meet you within that week then end it make no excuses
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
Yes!!! cheers to quick learning.. ☕️☕️
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
but a quick reminder that if they were just traveling and they’re back in town in two weeks…, you’re starting from scratch again. 🤎👍
@katsybo
@katsybo 11 месяцев назад
Good advice.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 11 месяцев назад
thanks, Kathleen!
@Plysdyret1
@Plysdyret1 10 месяцев назад
I often get a mail where the sender claims that I have watched p***movies and, at the same time, been satisfying myself. He says that he has recorded me while I was doing this, ( with my own webcam), and he will share these videos if I don't pay a certain amount of money. I can't be the naked man in the videos he has sent me to try and prove this, as I am a woman of 45 with no camera on my computer. 😄
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
hahaha
@user370Z
@user370Z 3 месяца назад
I have received the same. In Australia here. Just delete.
@donnahilton471
@donnahilton471 2 месяца назад
You need to turn that person in!
@donnahilton471
@donnahilton471 2 месяца назад
All investments online are frauds! If they are making that much money, they're not on Facebook!😉
@mildredpierce4506
@mildredpierce4506 3 месяца назад
I love social catfish/catfished. I’ve been subscribed for at least a year or two by now.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 3 месяца назад
They do good work. I’m always yelling at the screen though, because I feel they don’t do enough to tell or stress that the person in the pictures is not the scammer and that you are likely talking to a whole other person in another country. They’re good with their thumbnails to grab me every once in a while for a new episode but I sort of walk away feeling you’ve seen 10 you’ve seen them all. 😉
@marXmon
@marXmon Месяц назад
This is hilarious. I say "yes" to all requests knowing they're scams. This one invited me to WhatsApp, of which I was curious why... I decided I wanted to turn it into a documentary song, so I set up to record everything on whatsapp lololpl and now I see that person is going to be recording me... This is funny, because I'm a super gentleman and had no plans of going lude, because I'm a super gentleman, but also of course it's a scam. Thank you.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey Месяц назад
I would argue that you should say no to all requests that you recognize as scams, because these men are keeping you from meeting women you would want to date. But then I also, like you, realize you’re keeping them from scamming somebody else. 🤷‍♀️
@marXmon
@marXmon Месяц назад
@@CoffeewithCarey I appreciate the reply Carey. I'm making an adjustment to my thinking. I dropped out of the scam last night after I realized everything from there on out needs to rhyme so I can put it in a song. When I had that realization I wrote way to many bars, disguised them as a normal paragraph, but if you knew when you read it, it would rhyme in proper bar structure. I then realized it would be better to go in with this advance thinking, and be prepped, knowing they are going to say one word answers I can have my premeditated bars to fit easily. So I'm going to take my time and go in prepped making a Catfish:Docu-musical. I'll send it your way whenever I get around to it. You'll be impressed. Anywho, I subscribed and look forward to watching more of your advice. Thanks!
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey Месяц назад
@@marXmon I’ll look forward to hearing it!
@christinamarti4441
@christinamarti4441 4 месяца назад
Thank you
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 4 месяца назад
You’re welcome Christina. 🤎
@prettynitter
@prettynitter 3 месяца назад
The most unbelievable part is these clowns know they are doing something illegal and when you SWING NOTCH catch them at it, they go off on a tirade and make threats.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 3 месяца назад
Brazen is the word you’re looking for! 🤎👍
@sallyclay1974
@sallyclay1974 10 месяцев назад
I can tell when a romance scammer is lurking around
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
Not at all difficult once you know what you’re looking for, right?! 😎👍
@martybritton267
@martybritton267 9 месяцев назад
Unfortunately I fell for this and if he/she won't give you their phone number run this woman went as far as to give me an address but not her number when I finally did a background check on her I did not find that address connected to her
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 9 месяцев назад
Isn’t it wonderful to know that you don’t have to do a background check on anyone anymore? You just follow my one rule. “Meet them or delete them!” Within a week.
@makashihakayusa8318
@makashihakayusa8318 8 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing... lots of scammers from africa, india, indonesia and Philippines.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 8 месяцев назад
yes!
@makashihakayusa8318
@makashihakayusa8318 8 месяцев назад
@@CoffeewithCarey and also combodia i forgot.
@brianjohnson7367
@brianjohnson7367 10 месяцев назад
They have a new rebranded one. They actually have a real person that will vid chat with you to gain your confidence. Then they move to investing. It was pretty sophisticated operation. I'm thinking they have a call center. I have all the images and chats. I did the social catfish which was okay but you need all the features.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
Wow. Thanks for sharing Brian. I’ll look into this! Fortunately, my rule still works! Meet them or delete them -within a week!
@whytewabbit
@whytewabbit 7 месяцев назад
I fell for it; i lost some money. Everything checked out, a real legit person with real profile, highly educated and everything including the platform was a real copy of the legit except it was recently hosted.
@bobcabana9506
@bobcabana9506 6 месяцев назад
Thats happen to me right now. She had a verify profile on tinder. An i been video chating with her too.
@GirlyParaggua-qk6jv
@GirlyParaggua-qk6jv 2 месяца назад
I got scammed by a man using a US ARMY picture, I have video call that profile who scammed me and I found out that man on profile and on video call were the same but after 5 seconds of video call he ended the call and he only answered audio call. He kept telling me that he's not a scammer but until now he haven't give my money back. He used that same profile to scammed other woman but same like he blocked us on messenger. IS THERE ANY POSSIBILITIES TO TRACK DOWN THE SCAMMER? Thank you.
@TP-vu3tc
@TP-vu3tc 10 месяцев назад
Very good Carey. Im a 68 year married man, no kids, going into a divorce. Been chatting with a nice religious, God and Bible type of lady, who wants to see where this all goes with us. She's ask to see me, but I live in the west and she's in the mid-west. She said it dosnt matter about the long distance, money or my higher age. She works a regular job like everyone else. Texts me though out the day, and night. Also, my wife knows, and told me to "go for it"
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
and you have video chatted with this woman?
@TP-vu3tc
@TP-vu3tc 10 месяцев назад
@@CoffeewithCarey NO not yet
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
@@TP-vu3tc ***SCAM ALERT*** I suggest you make that happen right away!!! If she has any excuses, or cannot make that happen within the next day or two, I suggest you stop talking to this ‘person’ immediately. also, a sidenote, that her lips and her voice need to be perfectly aligned, because scammers are currently using other peoples videos, and trying to blend the audio with limited success to a keen eye. And do NOT ever ever ever send one penny of your money to this person or anyone they know!!!
@TP-vu3tc
@TP-vu3tc 10 месяцев назад
I prayed. God delivered my Queen? Or did evil deliver a scam. We know God works in mysterious ways. Cutting off is going to break my heart
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
@@TP-vu3tc Your job to quickly figure out whether you have found a lady or a lesson. 🤎
@nickandrei51
@nickandrei51 27 дней назад
Hi. Where is the social catfish tool for reverse images in the description?
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 27 дней назад
I think I removed it when I realized they were now charging and we could do it on our own with just Google searches. But you can certainly Google those terms together and pay for their services if you are so inclined. My thought on this, just so you know, is that if you are feeling you have to double check in this way… you already have your answer. 🤎
@autumnbrooke1721
@autumnbrooke1721 7 месяцев назад
I’m trying to get my mom out of one where she met him on words with friends . He’s supposedly and Italian native who lives in California but he’s working as a logger (project manager ) in Norway . Can’t send a copy of Id or passport as he’s in the woods . He told her that he could do better and gave supposedly real banking info . He didn’t ask her for money but wanted her to do transfers . She has stage 4 breast cancer and he said that his ex wife died from that .. that he has a 13 year old daughter in boarding school in England … she lost her husband in February and I’m worried sick
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 7 месяцев назад
oh no!! you should be. show her some videos of actual people on the “Catfished” channel. stream it on tv if you can. Preview a couple stories and find one that is similar to hers. youtube.com/@CatfishedOnline?si=9C9772mhD_K06wGZ
@autumnbrooke1721
@autumnbrooke1721 7 месяцев назад
Yes . She’s not ready to watch but I’m going to send them tomorrow. He asked today for her to buy 2k worth of bitcoin to then send him so that he can fly out of Norway (he can’t use his bank card bc it will be flagged for fraud ; ironically) . Thank you for what you’re doing to help everyone .
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 7 месяцев назад
@@autumnbrooke1721 it’s so sad and obvious to the rest of us. Hopefully you can convince her that this is exactly what they do to so many people -and most especially lonely seniors. if she sees it with along with all the details, he is throwing at her. perhaps you can get through to her. It’s like Stockholm syndrome
@debmccafferty1007
@debmccafferty1007 7 месяцев назад
Sounds like the oil rig scammer I ran into on FB Dating. He FAILED.
@kevindavis4709
@kevindavis4709 7 месяцев назад
Yup some of them will share their personal problems etc. etc. to a person behind a screen they hadn’t met. My counter with a friendship scammer she told me things about her family how they can’t get alone with her. She doesn’t have a social life her friends don’t wanna hangout with her. After a year of being her friend she asked if I can send her some money she said I’ll pay you back. I got a yellow envelope put 40$ in a card mailed it to her mailing address she doesn’t know I did some checking behind her before then gave her the benefit of the doubt because she seemed legit. Anyway month later she told me we can’t be friends anymore we can still talk on email so I blocked her from my RU-vid channel blocked her number and email. You know I wondered why out of all the people on RU-vid why she single me out? Wasn’t looking for a date nor a friend I was just posting videos.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 7 месяцев назад
you must read as a kind person is my only guess. Not a bad thing.
@dianaberry2961
@dianaberry2961 18 дней назад
I need to find out how to get someone help that just cannot give up the attention that they get and now they like the drama and now he's lying about everything to your face because he's sending the scammer everything he's got in money wise I need to help him and I don't know what to do or where to turn
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 18 дней назад
Ugh. So horrible. Maybe force him to watch an episode or two of Catfished. Where they show real life people discovering they are being scammed.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 18 дней назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7Ia6_szKRBc.htmlsi=qx4aMShpOJ59NLhk
@ionlyemergeafterdark
@ionlyemergeafterdark 2 месяца назад
The second scam is called “Pig Butchering”, I believe.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 2 месяца назад
🐽
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 2 месяца назад
🐽
@arnoldgomez9545
@arnoldgomez9545 4 месяца назад
I’ve tried that method of searching somebody and I don’t get nothing back
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 4 месяца назад
Well, then, just follow my one rule and don’t worry about it so much.
@cleovernebaptiste2747
@cleovernebaptiste2747 8 месяцев назад
A guy tried to scam me with the crypto scam I call him out and block him
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 8 месяцев назад
good job. 👍
@LauraSchendel-ko1qk
@LauraSchendel-ko1qk 2 месяца назад
Within a couple of days of texting someone, I casually mention that I hold several Federal Security Clearances with the FBI (because I do). That sends the scammers running for cover! LOL! I’m not suggesting that you lie, but in the very beginning you could say that your father is a policeman. That will work too. If things work out for you two, you can later explain that you say that as part of your vetting process. Either he will understand or you will never hear from that scammer again! LOL!
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 2 месяца назад
That’s funny. Hahhaha. 🤎 But also unnecessary if you just follow my one simple rule. ;)
@user-fn8oy6cv1g
@user-fn8oy6cv1g 3 месяца назад
I would never
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 3 месяца назад
🤎
@MuzicTunes-lk6np
@MuzicTunes-lk6np 4 месяца назад
Someone made a sweet comment on Facebook about a song I really loved. She said that we had the same taste in music, even though she was much younger. All of a sudden, she sent me a nude photo of herself(WHAT?), which I never asked her to do. Then she told me to send her a nude photo of myself. I told her that's not going to happen. I think she got my trust with music, I think her intentions were to blackmail me if that was even her in the first place. 🤔
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 4 месяца назад
Thats the scam. She is not a she. She is a man who hijacked an innocent woman’s photos. Delete and move on. Sorry.
@t-point7569
@t-point7569 9 месяцев назад
Which websites or dating apps do they use
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 9 месяцев назад
All of them. And all the social media sites! Make sure you follow my one rule, and stay safe out there!
@user-fv6cd9bf8w
@user-fv6cd9bf8w 22 дня назад
I been through this black mailed for me and my family a billionaire used me for his own happiness Robert stolle was his name used me for his own ex military helped him cover his own AZZ while I looked like a dumb asz
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 22 дня назад
I’m sorry to hear that if you watch a couple other episodes on this subject, and elsewhere, I’m sure you would come to realize it wasn’t an actual billionaire and that definitely wasn’t his name … and he wasn’t really military. It’s a sad situation these scammers.😡
@user-fv6cd9bf8w
@user-fv6cd9bf8w 21 день назад
@@CoffeewithCarey yes he was a billionaire like I said none of you believe in me besides he knows what he did and what the military did believe in me or not he will deal with God in time I know how real my situation is I can prove it still none of you believe in me
@TheresaWebster-rz5ny
@TheresaWebster-rz5ny Месяц назад
So yes be very careful they move fast in love and need cards $$$$. I told one one time he have to talk to my financial investor before he would release but needed to talk to him face to face wanted forms . A contract. We never made it any farther he blocked.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey Месяц назад
Or you could’ve just followed my one rule…
@arfriedman4577
@arfriedman4577 9 месяцев назад
My parents said you talk to strangers by talking about the weather.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 9 месяцев назад
Can’t say I agree with us, but they were not talking about the Internet, your folks.
@terriwhalen3618
@terriwhalen3618 10 месяцев назад
Amen
@lindaandreula2724
@lindaandreula2724 6 месяцев назад
If they ask for money it is a scam Block him or her!!!
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 6 месяцев назад
Lol
@nerdout8639
@nerdout8639 13 дней назад
I'm watching this because I've just lost all my money to a romantic scammer
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 13 дней назад
☹️
@nerdout8639
@nerdout8639 13 дней назад
​@CoffeewithCarey that was before watching your video I've feel for a lot of different romantic scams each one different from the last. For context I'm a 26 year old disabled male with cerebral palsy I can't walk im in a wheelchair my disability makes it very hard for me to find a relationship and this in turn makes my depression worse so yes your right I really crave connection and them evill people exploit that for there own personal gane and then eventually I get even more sad lonely and depressed because I realise I've been scammed out of a lot of money and sometimes because they promise a way I can make good money I send them what they want and then end up Not getting the money I was promised hope this small overview of my bad experiences at least helps someone
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 13 дней назад
@@nerdout8639 “Meet them within a week or delete them!” my basic rule holds. Nobody’s falling madly in love with people that they haven’t met in person.
@TheresaWebster-rz5ny
@TheresaWebster-rz5ny Месяц назад
Yea i know i shouldnt do this but oh well they get nothing out of me and they dont realize i in cobtrol not them
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey Месяц назад
You’re just letting them suck energy out of you in the dating world where you could be putting it towards meeting somebody real. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@user-vm8si8mu6s
@user-vm8si8mu6s 8 дней назад
How can I find out who is texting me.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 8 дней назад
🤷🏻‍♀️
@arfriedman4577
@arfriedman4577 9 месяцев назад
Who takes money advice from a complete stranger. You go to a reputable financial company such as Charles scrabble, vanguard, fidelity.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 9 месяцев назад
trusting people.
@rangerannie5636
@rangerannie5636 3 месяца назад
The last scammer I interacted with was demanding numerous photos from the beginning of the conversation. There's a red flag! 🚩
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 3 месяца назад
If they were G rated pics requested then that’s pretty common amongst men in general. They think they’re more visual than women. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@rangerannie5636
@rangerannie5636 3 месяца назад
@CoffeewithCarey They weren't specific as to the "rating". I've never had anyone but a scammer demand pic after pic in the first conversation.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 3 месяца назад
@@rangerannie5636 The “rating”. Lol. Well if they’re not looking for somebody to blackmail or extort I’m not sure the purpose.
@rangerannie5636
@rangerannie5636 3 месяца назад
@@CoffeewithCarey I'm not sure what they were up to either unless they were just working up to "X rated" pics. I kept sending him pics of Trisha Yearwood, lol, and they finally gave up. LOL! 🤣
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 3 месяца назад
@@rangerannie5636 Hahhaha
@gpower689
@gpower689 6 месяцев назад
How can I have a true dating chat
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 6 месяцев назад
this is the wrong episode to answer that question.
@marknewton6984
@marknewton6984 2 месяца назад
You can't. Real men don't date online. 😮
@MsSMoxleyBarnett
@MsSMoxleyBarnett 6 месяцев назад
David Caruso romance scam got me. 😢💔💔
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 6 месяцев назад
ugh. sorry i was too late.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 6 месяцев назад
honestly, he is the most uncharismatic actor ever, in my book. He could be standing in front of me and I couldn’t be more disinterested.
@MsSMoxleyBarnett
@MsSMoxleyBarnett 6 месяцев назад
@@CoffeewithCarey I've been enamored with him for years. That's me though
@arfriedman4577
@arfriedman4577 9 месяцев назад
Charles schwabb
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 9 месяцев назад
meet them or delete them!
@donnahilton471
@donnahilton471 2 месяца назад
They are getting younger and more are trying.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 2 месяца назад
It’s one of the most lucrative jobs in some countries.
@jodyknowlton6775
@jodyknowlton6775 9 месяцев назад
Do you know what the bottom line is somebody ask you for money you say no
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 9 месяцев назад
no, no and no way!
@jodyknowlton6775
@jodyknowlton6775 9 месяцев назад
@@CoffeewithCarey no no no n hell no
@simonsswinglee6039
@simonsswinglee6039 7 месяцев назад
There is no doubt that a scamer is unable to prove the true identity beyond online. Ring her or make a video call, and you can get a sense that another man responds you...holy shit!.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 7 месяцев назад
@@simonsswinglee6039 wasting time. if you feel the need to have someone prove their identity just delete the conversation. 🤦🏻‍♀️
@jodyknowlton6775
@jodyknowlton6775 7 месяцев назад
@@simonsswinglee6039 yeah 🤣🤣
@nata3467
@nata3467 2 месяца назад
Seriously I very much struggle with the victims in the situations I don't care how swept the way you are common sense would tell you these are scams.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 2 месяца назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-x73BeauV0Zg.htmlsi=Cds_QflU-eekfj-B
@JCcanU
@JCcanU 4 месяца назад
I been talking with a nice lady for over a month , Her facebook photos go back to 2021 , she got a home in Missouri I think its a real house and it was a video sale . but she been refusing to meet, right now she is very sick allergies . but she will spend 10 hours on the phone. she refusing to send me photos of her body only her face and will not facetime . she has a dog and a bird as pets . i hear them and she has photos of her bird and dog . I did google map her address its a real home just no way to tell who lives there , she has sent me a few photos showing me junk left behind by the last owner lot of what she tells me is true but I still think there is reason she will not meet up other than her being sick . Married ? or looking to gain something out of me lol I have nothing I live 110 miles away been thinking of going by but im not a crazy stalker. If I did drive by I feel i be invading her space . i have my guard up i have nothing to lose other than my time , no one wants to date they all want a pen pal at 50 to 70 .
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 4 месяца назад
“Meet them (within a week) or delete them!” Why have you signed up for a penpal or phone buddy, when you’re looking for someone to date/a relationship. This is called Catfishing.
@JCcanU
@JCcanU 4 месяца назад
@@CoffeewithCarey What do they have to gain by catfishing ? age 60 plus it gets hard to find a women or a women looking for a man . I have meet 7 women since Oct 2023 they say its crazy out there . I know its crazy 80% fake profiles than get the pen pal .
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 4 месяца назад
I’m sure they have different goals some hope to get money down the road but some might just be getting out of it what you are. Somebody to talk to, or a pretend relationship.
@annbet3684
@annbet3684 7 месяцев назад
I don't meet them forget it
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 7 месяцев назад
I don’t know what that means but when I first read it, I thought you were making a play on my phrase “meet them or delete them”, and you were saying “meet them and forget them”. Lol
@devilsadvocacy
@devilsadvocacy 10 месяцев назад
I’d like to see someone deconstruct the most common of all romance scams, the foodie call. Specifically, how can men avoid getting scammed into paying for expensive dates and such when the woman is only feigning interest? Perhaps a topic for a new video
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 10 месяцев назад
first dates should never be expensive… or for dinner. problem solved. 🤎👍
@janepurcell6747
@janepurcell6747 9 месяцев назад
Try a coffee date. If it's awful, you've only paid for an overpriced cappucino. If it's fantastic, then you can both go for lunch.
@SanFranDentist94301
@SanFranDentist94301 8 месяцев назад
Hey, that scam is almost as prevalent as the "I want something serious" scam When men pretend to want a relationship until they get the sex they really wanted....
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 8 месяцев назад
@@SanFranDentist94301 just an FYI that women also perpetrate that same scam. And a reminder to everyone to do unto others as you would have them do unto you. #honestyplease
@SanFranDentist94301
@SanFranDentist94301 8 месяцев назад
@@CoffeewithCarey Fo shiz women pretend that they love men to get access to sex all the time. Yes, let's be VERY honest.
@juliebarks3195
@juliebarks3195 7 месяцев назад
Had to give up listening. Loud and distracting background music.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 7 месяцев назад
Turn down your volume. Then it’s just distracting. 🙃👍
@michaeldowney7614
@michaeldowney7614 2 месяца назад
I worked out a way to test scammers, apart from their bad spelling and punctuation, one thought after a bit of talk and they want to get to know you better,I say something like am I talking to a genuine person or a bot. I then say I'm going to send you a code number, and you write it down straight away ona piece of paper, hold it up under your neck, for me to read, within 5 minutes, and I will do the same. Well what do know, the they come back, what crap is this, F__ck off, mostly in perfect english Works every time, if the lady is the actual person, she will do its I will, Cheers
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 2 месяца назад
I could Photoshop that within five minutes. 🤷🏻‍♀️ So I believe my suggestions still stand. Meet them or delete them within a week and we don’t talk to people. We don’t know on the Internet unless we’re making plans to get acquainted or having a video chat before the in-person date.
@deedeejoseph9311
@deedeejoseph9311 6 месяцев назад
You’re so beautiful, I can’t even pay attention to what you’re saying 😊
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 6 месяцев назад
well, aren’t you the loveliest of complement givers?! ☺️🤎
@kalvinlabuik3366
@kalvinlabuik3366 2 месяца назад
Do you think the rise of online dating scam is because today’s poor economy ?
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 2 месяца назад
No. Whose economy? Scammers are most often located in Africa and India. And this has been a problem for a long, long time.
@hamayoonshah1990
@hamayoonshah1990 8 месяцев назад
A lady is having a discussion with me for the past two weeks. I thought she is real but now she wants me to invest in US stocks and she would help me in that.
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 8 месяцев назад
SCAM!!!! delete!!!
@a0983492165
@a0983492165 8 месяцев назад
Love your work sister. you have a gift and great talent to counter successful recovery, i got €149,000 i also love the fact that *GRIND TECHIEI* stand up for these old people who have been vulnerable
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 8 месяцев назад
thanks. 👍
@Johnson-mt9cs
@Johnson-mt9cs 3 месяца назад
Thank you for spending time and resources on trying to do this. SWINGNOTCH The world needs more people like you!
@CoffeewithCarey
@CoffeewithCarey 3 месяца назад
😂
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