2 Questions That Will Change The Way You Declutter FOREVER

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I have two questions that you can ask yourself that will change the way you declutter forever. The purpose of these questions is to get to the heart of your genuine attitude toward your stuff, and if you ask these questions, they will help you make decluttering decisions quicker and with a lot less stress. So let’s talk about what these questions are.
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@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Which question are you most excited about using? ALSO, get access to the Clutter to Clarity Starter Kit here: www.ronaldlbanks.com/starterkit

@kaytanabladesrichardson6669 Год назад

The question that resonates with me is question #2. If someone were to offer me money for this would I part with it. The answer is yes, so I will be taking active steps to declutter my wardrobe. I will attempt to sell them on second hand sites, if not I will donate them.

@kristiluce2838 Год назад

The first question is very revealing about how much I really need that item. Thank you!

@ac-v5360 Год назад

I enjoy your videos immensely. Your introspection is admirable and I suspect the results of years of thought on this topic. Well done, subscribed! On a side note…Do you practise yoga? My wife and I were speculating that insight like these comes out of a yoga practise over time. Just curious 😊

@SusanBame Год назад

"If I lose it, would I replace it" and "would I take money for this item," when you boil them down to their essence, mean "do I love this?" (Or, "does this item spark joy?") It's all getting at the same thing. When you are surrounded only by the things you love, your life actually changes. Imagine...walking into your space, surrounded by love and only love, and not "oh, THAT needs to be fixed, THAT needs to go to the trash..." When you love your stuff and your stuff loves you back, it's an amazing feeling.

@susanbernier9399 Год назад

Thank you. This is thought provoking Susan. I look forward to having this feeling myself.😊

@lizziebkennedy7505 Год назад

Such great helpful capture here. Thank you!

@thisnthat42 Год назад

Yes. I will say there are some items that I own that do spark joy but I wouldn't replace, either because they are sentimental items so a copy wouldn't be the same anyway or it's something decorative that I love but I wouldn't want to spend money chasing after an exact copy of. But the question does help with practical tools or things like books. I would replace my game controller with the same version, I would buy another kettle, I would need another bathrobe, that sort of thing. The second question is good to separate out the, I like it but don't love it stuff. I might enjoy it for a while but know that I'll be getting rid of it sooner rather than later.

@jesusislord7488 Год назад

Aaah, I disagree a bit. If I lose my toilet plunger, I’ll replace it…but I don’t love my toilet plunger nor does it spark joy. Also, I really don’t want any objects (material possessions) to give me joy or rise to a level of love. Just a different worldview, I guess. And I guess that means decluttering may mean different things to different people, and maybe done for different reasons. Peace ❤

@thisnthat42 Год назад

@@jesusislord7488 A toilet plunger is not beautiful to look at but it is a useful tool and having the right tools when you need them to me is a source of joy. It’s not shout it from the roof tops joy but it’s a quiet appreciation for having the needed tool for the job.

@amyli092 Год назад

I feel like your content just continues to get better over time, Ronald! I love how your stance on minimalism has evolved more into helping to adjust our mindsets, rather than keeping the focus on just the material stuff. Keep up the great work! 😊

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Thanks Amy! You’re becoming a familiar face in the community and I really appreciate you and this comment. Also, I’m glad that you’re enjoying this evolution in my content. There are some many nuances to this journey that I would love to talk about and I’m slowly figuring out how I can do that effectively. Thanks again for being here!

@lisaburmood5540 Год назад

I "thought" I had lost my favorite jean shorts. I blew my house up and tried to find a replacement pair by ordering a ton of possible replacements. They were actually in a drawer underneath all the crap I wouldnt have cared if I lost. I restarted my decluttering journey.

@siaeva Год назад

I like that you just focussed on two really thought-provoking questions rather than feeling the need to put e.g. 10. Quality over quantity! Very minimalist of you :)

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Thank you! I’ve realized on my own journey that it’s not about how many questions you ask, but rather it’s about asking the right questions that lead to the right answers for you! Keep growing on your journey Siaeva!

@tyfightermd Год назад

You have such a calming presence. I love the direction you take your videos, it makes decluttering seem like almost a zen activity rather than stressful!

@NicholasHallows Год назад

I recently started replacing some of my Star Wars figures (with better versions) that I sold & donated 5 years ago when I got into minimalism. Still keeping it minimal (one shelf & very intentional purchases) but now I realise the joy my SW shelf brings me. Whereas they used to be boxed up and stored away, now they're opened and on a display I enjoy on a daily basis.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

That is awesome! Really shows how you can still keep things that you enjoy as long as you’re truly enjoying them! Thanks for sharing this with us Nicholas!

@9latinumStudioz Год назад

✨🤘✨ I noticed when you have a structured daily schedule - you notice exactly what you use and need everyday 👌⚡

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

This is true! Although it’s a good idea to switch up your routine from time to time, you’re absolutely right. When you have structure you have clarity! Keep it up my friend!

@TreJ999 11 месяцев назад

I just found your videos!! Thank you. I love your calm demeanor. I feel like I can take this on!!

@susanjeffay3851 11 месяцев назад

I'm trying to overcome the money variable. I have boxes of stuff I want to sell in a yard sale/ craigslist etc. Reality is, less than half would sell, so I need just to donate and forget about the money I "imagine" I could get. Thanks to this video, Ronald, I can just load it in the car and be done!

@frannygrace2191 Год назад

I once lost a book from the library in my cluttered home and had to pay for it. The subject of the book was decluttering.

@SpeakTruthBeKind Год назад

😆😆😆 Did you ever find it? 😊

@Susan-nm3sx 6 месяцев назад

😂😂😂

@wildlifegardenssydney7492 5 месяцев назад

🎯🎯🎯👁

@juliem.3936 Год назад

Good points: will I immediately replace the item or would I sell the item if offered money? pretty much tells me I'm NOT attached to it. 😂

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

These questions definitely change the way you look at your stuff for sure!

@JaneH3675 Год назад

And he said unto them, take heed and beware of covetousness; for a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesses. Luke 12:15 . ... My go to scripture. The Lord spoke this over 2000 years ago. He knew about living with less long before anyone started making videos about it. This a truth that still holds today.

@mirisoji8406 Год назад

"If someone offered me money, whould I part with this item" was the question I asked myself when I was decluttering my clothes and it helped a lot!

@Kphutton Год назад

Of all the decluttering questions offered by so many decluttering encouragers, these had the most impact on me--really stopped me in my tracks when I asked myself. I'm stunned how little I would try to replace...and most of the things that come to mind could not be replaced (heirlooms) anyway. I guess the tricky part is to ask myself the questions, then act on my answers! Thank you for sharing your insights and wisdom week after week. You're a gifted communicator. Thank you.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Thank you much Kathy! I’m very happy that these questions had an impact on you. I’d love to know how they help you on your journey. Keep me updated! I’m rooting for you!

@dobycorder3206 Год назад

I haven’t yet gone thru my stuff with these questions but like you, much is heirloom and could not be replaced, nor would I try to replace the function they served (serving ware, furniture, mementos) . Mind blown 🤯.

@thebowmac Год назад

These are great questions! The second one about money gets the most emotional response from me. I realized I’d sell about 1/3 of my stuff or more if someone offered me cash for it. 😆

@KattNat Год назад

Quality as usual. There are many things in my home that I would not replace if I lost them, even after years of practicing minimalism. This is a difficult one though because those same things I wouldn't replace still mean a lot to me.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

These questions definitely challenge your thinking and your attitude towards your stuff. I’m glad you enjoyed this conversation Isla!

@kbelle9854 Год назад

I have been at this for YEARS, and your questions help me think about stuff from a completely different angle. Thank you! Just today I put something up for sale online and someone immediately bought it and I was a teeny bit sad to see it go. Then I watched this video and found the mindset shift I needed. Thanks again!

@aflack1000 Год назад

My question is, "If you saw this at the thrift store for $ .99 (or any amount of your choice) would you buy it? If the answer is "no" - it's gone. 😀 However, your questions are great too and I may add them to mine.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

That’s a really good question as well! It encourages you to think differently about your stuff so I like that! Thanks for sharing it with us.

@californianorma876 Год назад

I haven't finished the video, but I think I'm about to cry ...a lot. Something you just said really really resonated and reached my brain. I opened a storage container with T-shirts in it this morning. I looked at them all, I remembered when I bought them, and I put them all back. I don't wear them. One of them is three sizes too big for me. 😳😣🤦🏽‍♀️ Why don't I just get rid of them? One I will keep. One has very, very sentimental value. It is irreplaceable and I will keep it. God bless you!!!!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💕 (Will be donating to the local homeless shelter, a whole mile away.)

@michaela_fk Год назад

Love these questions! I’ve had a time where I lost my water tumbler at work and I immediately went out to buy a new one to replace it. I reflect back and question myself for being so quick to rebuy, when I should have waited at least a week to question myself if I can go without it - or possibly find the tumbler at a later time. Thanks for promoting these questions in my declutter and buy less journey!

@chrischabre9382 Год назад

I guess it’s a time thing. If it takes too long to find it, it’s not worth the trouble. I just try to put things back where they belong. A place for everything and everything in its place.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Absolutely! Even if you don’t have a ton of stuff. When the stuff you do have doesn’t have an assigned home it can make your space fee cluttered for sure and that makes it easier to misplace things! Keep growing on your journey my friend!

@ToolsfortheJobofLear Год назад

Very helpful questions. I am going to start helping a friend declutter tomorrow and I will keep those questions in my back pocket. If she is very interested in continuing with her decluttering I will be sure to send her this episode. Thank you so much.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Absolutely! Give her a copy of my core values worksheet as well. I’m glad you enjoyed this video my friend! Thanks for watching and sharing!

@DagmarWalle 10 месяцев назад

I would end up in A tent with just my bed glasses phone and My childhood cuddle toy 😂

@RonaldLBanks 10 месяцев назад

😂😂

@Mmemicheles Год назад

Hello, Ronald! New subscriber here! These two questions are invaluable! You are really an inspiration! Love your channel!

@deericcio3379 Год назад

I lost my favorite sweater after wearing it for years last daily , and it was sad to lose it , but I look at it as, it served me well ( especially since I bought it second hand) I have also lost well used gloves and sun glasses , again , if I was using it enough for it to get lost out in public , then it served me …, I used it well , stuff that sits in the closet 100% of the time never gets lost .

@Lifestylebysamad Год назад

Yes that was so me now I’ve got rid of a lot of things I was just keeping just to keep! I feel so much better about my self.✨

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

It’s amazing how that works isn’t. The more you get rid of, the more clarity you gain around who you are as a person and what’s important to you!

@Lifestylebysamad Год назад

@@RonaldLBanks omg yes I can focus more without opening a closet filled with cloths that I can’t fit or books it don’t read!

@cynthiaa2644 21 день назад

This was an incredibly helpful video for me right now. Thank you!

@RonaldLBanks 19 дней назад

You're so welcome! I’m glad this reached you when it did!

@brigidbutler4312 Год назад

Really helpful! I haven't heard these before and the explaination makes them even more impactful. Thanks!

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Perfect! Glad this was helpful and impactful for you. I would love to know how these questions help you navigate some of our items. Keep me updated & keep growing on your journey!

@Hey___you Год назад

New sub, loving your channel. Good advice, gentle voice, sanpaku eyes.

@liztaiNCAD Год назад

Excellent suggestions - now to motivate myself to ask (and answer) those questions! Elizabeth age 86

@lizzabbott Год назад

Thank you, Sir ! Great video as always, my friend. Food for thought for sure ! Love it !! - Liz

@shirleyburnham2782 Год назад

If I lose it would I replace it then if someone offers you money for it. Will be using these a lot starting right now x

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Awesome! I would love to know how they help you going forward. Keep my updated!

@juliem.3936 Год назад

That's so true - we can do something about clutter!

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Absolutely! You can do something about it, every time!

@kasko8550 Год назад

Love these helpful questions!!

@zennoodle Год назад

🖐I'll raise my hand on this video. Do I want to replace a lot of things? Definitely. This video gets my wheels spinning! And the money part....a lot would end up going! haha

@christinemurphy4367 Год назад

ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT!!!! Thank you! 🎉❤

@lynettamurdoch5443 Год назад

Thanks! These questions help me more than most of the other ones I’ve read about!

@serenityjewel 4 месяца назад

My questions: If this had disappeared yesterday, 1. would I even know it was gone and 2. would I care?

@cindysmith9213 Год назад

I get the impression people are madly in love with money. I consider it important to offer safety and opportunity. I do save it up. I also challenge myself to not buy some items to save money. The things I love are vintage and many of them I wouldn't often run across them to replace or it would take a long time. I just usually focus on that I can't have everything. Others will also love it, I hope. And what will work together and make my home a haven and not just a store house.

@silo3448 7 месяцев назад

Thank you. These questions act as excellent mental/emotional filters. I was struggling recently to decide if I should sell some items that I’ve collected over the last 25 years or so. A friend asked me a similar question, would I buy the item now if I didn’t already have it? Lots of stuff went straight on eBay!

@OtherDianne Год назад

When I come across items that I can't quite make a decision about, but didn't really know that I had, I ask what I would do if I didn't have that item? Since so much of the time, I didn't know I had it, I figure that I won't know that I don't have it, either, so it can go. Or I can sometimes see something that I would use instead anyway. Either way, that question has helped me tremendously.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Love it!! Thanks for sharing this with us Dianne! It truly shows that power of asking the right questions that lead you to the right answers for you! Keep it up!!

@jgs2277 8 месяцев назад

I'm not quite sure I follow the rationale of the second question about someone offering you money for a particular item... determining whether or not you want or need it. If someone walks up and offers you $100 for shirt That only cost you 20 bucks, you would probably give them the shirt. But does that really determine whether or not it needed to be decluttered in the first place?🤔 Perhaps I'm oversimplifying.

@xXxShairaxXx Год назад

Some time ago I lost my favourite necklace. I spent months looking into stores for that necklace, but with no luck. When I finally found one that was nearly similar, I was so relieved! The same would happen with one other necklace, if I lost that. When I think about your first question as a criteria, I wonder if I could let go of the 20 other necklaces, which I have no such feelings for... It's so hard though! Because "what if I need this" for an other outfit? It seems such a waste to get rid of something perfectly fine. The struggle! >__< Anyway, thank you for your content. I never regret watching your vids!☺

@MissMcD Год назад

Ok I like these. I've used 2 that are kind of similar have you worn this at all within the last year? If not toss it because you pronably wint miss it if it's no longer there and secondly if you saw this in the store now would you buy it all over again with your hard earned money ... then keep or toss based on that answer.

@kayligo 4 месяца назад

If the price was right there isn’t anything in my house I wouldn’t sell 😅 but the would I BUY it again works for me

@nm9330 Год назад

I love this guy! He so “gets it”. Is he a therapist irl?

@adelesvetnicka810 Год назад

Thank you. These questions are brilliant and will be instrumental in for me in letting go of the hard stuff now (my ‘favorites’ that have survived previous purgings). The question on whether or not I would it is ESPECIALLY perfect for me right now! Thank you for your videos!

@KitsuneHB Год назад

Two very helpful questions. Thank you!

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

You’re very welcome! I’m glad you found these questions valuable and helpful!

@susanbernier9399 Год назад

Thank you Mr. Banks! 🤚🏻This is a great way to start the week!!!! I think both of these questions are the essence of creating a new life for one self. I don’t have trouble with parting with ‘things’ but I have noticed a pattern with having several boxes to bring to charity all too regularly. That tells me that what I bring in isn’t working for me. I live way below the poverty line and get into town once or twice a month... I have been journaling regularly for a few months and still can seem to pin point what is going on. Sometimes I get so frustrated. Would you consider tackling this problem?

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Hey Susan… Great question and you’re right. If you’ve noticed a pattern of having several boxes of stuff you’re constantly donating. Then I agree with you, something isn’t working. Now without digging too much into your personal journey in a public space like this, I have a question for you: What are your core values? The reason I ask is because it sounds to me like there is a disconnect between what you “think is” important to you and what “is” important to you. It’s possible that the reason the things you’re bringing into your life aren’t working for you, is because they don’t completely align with your actual values. If there is a disconnect there then you’ll start to notice that pattern you’ve talked about. It’s also important to note that as we grow on our journey, our values will change. So even if you think you know what they are it’s good practice to review and realign yourself. You can do this with my free core values worksheet: www.ronaldlbanks.com/values Next steps after would be to observe your behavior and make it a priority to keep your values front and center in all that you do and in every decision you make. Hope this helps! If you have any questions or you want to dive into this further shoot me an email.

@susanbernier9399 Год назад

@@RonaldLBanks Thank you for a great response! I appreciate the time that you gave to my question. Next, an update. After reading your thoughts I decided to revisit my values again using your core value work sheet. To my great surprise my values had changed ( I didn’t even realize this was possible but of course makes perfect sense) as I myself had changed as a person. After much thinking /journaling I recognized that 1) I needed to complete the final process of clearing items that weren’t ‘me’ without the quilt, worry, cost or opinions of others. Those constant trips to the donation store were my way of not feeling so bad and hiding just how much I wanted to get rid of - nearly 95% of my stuff over a couple of years. 2) secondly, to stop making purchases that were not in keeping with my values as temporary emotional support ( better than nothing... maybe this will fix the pain mentality) 3) Get clear on how I can better live my values both emotionally as well as physically in my space. While it certainly isn’t all done yet I wanted to take a moment to say Thank you 🙏 I’m on a much better path to being true to me. 💕🇨🇦

@pamelapartl384 Год назад

Oh my gosh, what a way to go about decluttering, thank you!

@tamarap387 Год назад

Wow!! The mind that came up with these 2 questions!! These above anything else is definitely gonna be the game changer for me! Thank you!

@r.heathclavin8431 Год назад

If someone offered me money for something I owned, first it would depend on its monitory value, second it would depend on how much they offered me.

@jacquelineclauson4891 Год назад

These are possibly the best decluttering questions I’ve ever asked myself, thanks.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Awesome!! I’m happy that I was able to share something with you that gave you a new perspective…or as you said “the best decluttering questions you’ve ever asked yourself.” Love it and I’m rooting for you on your journey! Keep growing!

@cathylynnpietranton Год назад

Excellent questions. Thanks Ron👍👍❤️

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Glad you enjoyed it Cathy!

@ambikawolf664 Год назад

When I moved from Chicago to TN I lost about 90 percent of my stuff somehow. Only a small amount was replaced in TN... Wornout shoes, that kind of thing.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

It amazing how little we actually replace when we start to lose or misplaced things! Keep growing on your journey my friend!

@ambikawolf664 Год назад

@@RonaldLBanks minimalism is the rule here.

@misssenior06 9 месяцев назад

🤚

@kenn1936 4 месяца назад

In other words if you don't love it or use it - get rid of it.

@grandadslifehacks8992 Год назад

Ronald, I love the questions. You are right about the money variable mattering. If you are not using an item and it is sitting in a closet or storage unit, you are paying to store the item. So donating an item might be challenging, but think about all of those saved storage costs.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Absolutely! Paying for storage is a huge cost for many people that could otherwise save you a ton of money every month that you can put towards other passions or interests you have.

@Knowledgeseeker567 Год назад

i must ask how many clothing items do you have ?

@mathewdallaway Год назад

Great questions! Thank you.

@CindyClough Год назад

Ronald, you bring an interesting viewpoint & questions!! I will be using the question, "If I we're to lose the item, would I actively seek to replace it?" Thank you for sharing!!

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Yes, absolutely Cindy! I’m glad this was helpful. I’d love to know how these questions help you on your journey. Keep me updated!

@leisure057blank3 11 месяцев назад

Your closet is beautiful.

@d14551 Год назад

I'm thinking about these questions right now, thanks!

@Sarah_and_her_buns Год назад

Great content!

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Thank you Sarah! I’m happy this video resonated with you!

@maryannerazzo1737 Год назад

I love your channel.

@julie-sophietremblay5774 Год назад

Awesome points!!

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Glad you enjoyed them my friend!

@theresewalters1696 Год назад

Great questions!

@thewriterstuff Год назад

I'm in the process of packing for a move; the struggle is real. That first question especially really hit home. I expect it's a question I will ask going forward. I may have to open a few boxes and reassess. 😉

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

You got this! Use these questions to help you gain clarity and make better decluttering decisions. Also congrats on the move! I hope all goes well and I’m confident that this next chapter for you will be great!

@tiashadae1143 Год назад

Thank you ❤

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

You’re very welcome! I’m glad you found these questions helpful!

@alejandrabruzual Год назад

Love your videos. Excellent content. Have a nice and beautiful day🥰

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Thank you so much!! I love that you’re loving them! Keep growing on your journey and I hope you she a great day as well!

@cynthiajuarez2609 Год назад

I don't have money but I do have clutter... and a lot of it

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Let’s tackle that clutter together! I have tons of valuable tools and guidance across my RU-vid channel. Dive in and let me know if you have any questions. The Clutter to Clarity Starter Kit is available to you as well if or when you want to jump into that as well! I’m here to help you!

@Laelin123 Год назад

Ronald, I like you a lot! Thanks for a great video

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

You are very welcome my friend! Keep growing and learning on your journey.

@jackieswe 6 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for your insightful advice. I've started the whole process of decluttering and reorganising my house, which is overwhelming at times! So far my wardrobe is the hardest (it's been 4 days so far🙃) I haven't let go of as much as I hoped for but I know that it will be easier now that it's organised and I can see everything. I'll keep reviewing what I have and continue decluttering 🤞

@sdophoto1405 Год назад

These are very interesting questions and I think much better than the standard ones that you always hear. The first question is the one that really resonated with me. I feel like I have done a good job and then a few weeks later I look around and I think wow I did not do as much as I think.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

I’m glad you found these questions helpful and different from others you’ve heard. I’d love to know how they help you on your journey. Keep me updated!

@CherryBerryFashion Год назад

GENIUS.

@sokalbenoit 11 месяцев назад

The question if smn paid me for this is really unique and changed my perspective. I have a few items I have struggled to declutter for over 20 years. They are special to me, I don't wanna get rid of them, but at the same time they are bugging me and if smn paid me just a little but needed it I would totally and gladly got rid of those. I would be happy! Game changing question! Thank you :)

@receptivity1884 Год назад

2 REALLY great questions I have never thought of. Thank you for sharing this guidance. I needed it!!!

@Starry_Night_Sky7455 Год назад

Gray shirts. This is most of my wardrobe. Black and gray clothes. Im just not wasting time deciding what to wear. After 2020, I ask if it's comfy. That's what I choose.

@t.k3025 Год назад

The question asking “would I take money for this,” is a trap for me and I am sure others. Yes, I could sell, and make a few dollars, but I tend to hold things for this reason. Antiques, collectibles, they are a trap. I have learned to donate many things. I love your content, and your voice. My latest question is, is this worth carrying thru climate change? And I am serious.

@naomisandoz3448 Год назад

This very good explantion video :)

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Glad it was helpful Naomi!

@junelovvorn3221 Год назад

First time here. I totally enjoyed this video. I'm trying so hard to declutter and somehow i think I'm stuck.

@vazlet Год назад

Great questions and as always great video! -Lety from Chicago 😊

@Dil.Careem Год назад

The speaker discusses the challenges of decluttering and presents two questions: 1) Would I actively replace this item if lost? 2) Would I part with it for money? These questions help reevaluate our attachment to possessions for a clutter-free life.

@dobycorder3206 Год назад

Good lord I loved this so much! I have a family quilt, torn by my dog, I was sad and said I can mend it, but there it sits a year later, unmended. What does that say about how much I really want to use it/ have it? Thank you for this insight, I want to paint it on my wall!

@TheHighHeart Год назад

GENIUS! Thank u for these questions!!

@MmM20978 Год назад

Lost my debit card today, will replace it but act like I don't have one.

@craigmerkey8518 Год назад

Really enjoy absorbing your ideas! In the journey of streamlining my life, a prominent aspect from childhood was understanding and evaluating the motivations from a confusing and irrational scarcity mentality. This untangled a lot of needless cultural programing.

@maribethvance9958 Год назад

Your voice is so soothing, you should consider making some meditation audios.

@mariel1533 Год назад

Great two questions! I like that they're simple enough that you'll usually have an instant yes or no reaction when you think it

@ren8240 Год назад

"If somebody offered me money for this item, would I sell it?" Brilliant question Ron, this is probably the most helpful question ever in terms of decluttering & determining what truly holds value! 😀