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20 Steps to Fix This Horrible Mess We Are All In (Shot Magazine) 

Prof. Sam Vaknin
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Watch the first part here: • Accepting the Horrifyi... Interview transcript here: www.narcissisti...
Sometimes, civilizations reach a point where the only way out is a reset and starting from scratch.
I fully believe that we are at such an inflection or tipping point.
What needs to happen? We need to transition from cities back to nature - both mentally and physically • From Narcissistic Citi...
From Narcissistic Cities to Psychopathic Metaverse (EXCERPT)
We need to suppress some kinds of pernicious speech, some ideologies (as we do today with fascism, Nazism, white supremacy, and racism). Example: third wave feminism, advertising (Althusser’s interpellation)
• Feminism: From Equity ...
Feminism: From Equity to Psychopathy
We need to force people back into families and communities by monetarily penalizing certain asocial and antisocial behaviors.
We need to redesign and reform the workplace by seamlessly integrating it with the community and the home. But it should be obligatory to work with other people face to face. Workplace intrusions into private time should be criminalized. • Workaholism: Addiction...
Workaholism: Addiction or Lifestyle?
We need to ban certain types of immersive technologies (the way we ban cloning, for example).
We need to certify people to use certain kinds of technology the same way we run background checks on people who use guns today.
We need to limit the use of all social media technologies to 2 hours a day.
We need to ban relative positioning practices such as “likes”.
Friends online could be only people you have actually met in real life.
We need to verify the identity of all users and criminalize the use of pseudonyms. Blockchain technology could be of great help here.
We need to educate children regarding sex and its physiological, medical, and mental implications.
Example:
We know that compulsive casual sex and sexting have deleterious outcomes later in life. We need to share this info widely. Sex positivity is a seriously bad idea.
Similarly, we need to inculcate in children the importance and benefits of intimacy and long term relationships.
We need to license parenting. Prospective parents would be required to complete a curriculum in child psychology, relationship management, age-appropriate technology use and so on. • Parenting should be Li...
Parenting should be Licensed!
We need to enforce age-related restrictions on entertainment venues such as nightclubs, the use of alcohol in campuses, and other measures.
Education is a public good. We need to DEprivatize it.
We need to reorient education around the twin concepts of phronetics and eudaimonia - as well as life skilling (including how to manage relationships, for example).
Finally: psychology should become an obligatory subject starting in middle school.
Lifelong self-auditing and journaling should be taught and encouraged as ways to obtain insight and secure introspection.

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@rainyapril178
@rainyapril178 2 года назад
I was a sophomore in high school when I wrote in an English assignment that parents needed to be licensed before having children. The teacher looked at me like he thought I was nuts. That was in 1971.
@electricmayhem8147
@electricmayhem8147 2 года назад
agreed 100% some people just shouldnt have kids. especially if they are not able to provide and care for them in the formative years. bad parents create bad children create bad adults.
@badbeachindustry1615
@badbeachindustry1615 2 года назад
I'm 24 and I've always had this idea since I was a kid.....like really. Just coz you can start a family doesn't mean you should
@wcbibb
@wcbibb Год назад
You should have to post a bond to indemnify society against the costs of raising your children. Spreading your DNA is narcissist by definition. Now, if we adopt ecosocialism, we would have a rational, equalitarian society. But the pursuit of money gentrifies society where we cannot not afford children. Rent takes about 60% of the family budget, on average. Food, transportation, and health care costs take up the rest of the average budget. This economy shapes family size and societal attitudes, values, and beliefs.
@kate3264
@kate3264 2 года назад
I have been ready to start a family for a long time. I don’t want to live alone but it’s hard to find a good quality man.
@kalman0966
@kalman0966 2 года назад
Build yourself into a good women and they will come to you (I’m talking character not looks)
@CynicalBastard
@CynicalBastard 3 месяца назад
You can't decide who you're going to meet in this life...life isn't a machine.
@maryanndolan6508
@maryanndolan6508 2 года назад
Great thoughts, Sam..I’m eighty seven years old…thanks so much for your clear explanations on hard subjects. ❤️❤️
@kate3264
@kate3264 2 года назад
Hello I’m happy you’re here at 87 :)
@ElainaWilliams994
@ElainaWilliams994 2 года назад
I really like how you look at the big picture to solve problems instead of going the instant gratification route. I'd also like to add that as much as I love music, what we listen to should be regulated to an extent as well. Some stuff we hear shouldn't even pass as music, especially if it influences people to kill or degrade women. I've been criticized a long time for having this view. But so many people don't realize how deeply young people are influenced by pop culture, especially America.
@samvaknin
@samvaknin 2 года назад
I agree.
@TT-cj3ek
@TT-cj3ek 2 года назад
Just finished my early morning route . Going to make some coffee and breakfast and enjoy this as a prepare for my other other job
@matchalatte4101
@matchalatte4101 2 года назад
they should conduct background checks on people intending to be parents esp their mental & emotional well being. if we do that, there will be so many less wounded & traumatized people in this world. so many people have kids when they're not fit to be parents.
@danak5958
@danak5958 2 года назад
Just a few questions from the top of my head this suggestion brings up: How do you quantify a persons mental state? Is it only some formal diagnosis that would be required for cluster Bs? Or does anxiety or depression diagnosis will disqualify a person? Who decides on the limits? What about grieving parents that otherwise stable mentally? (can be emotionally absent) Will it deter people with anxiety for example to get help for those issues? What will be the consequences of that on the society? And then how do you enforce it? Do you monitor people’s intercourse? What happens if they get pregnant without “license”? Will they get a penalty? If they are already having harder times financially, wouldn’t this have a negative impact on their child? So now does it mean you will also disqualify parents by their economical status? In that case there is nothing significantly detering in a penalty when you can pay it relatively easily. So how else can you enforce it without harming the child? Personally, I think requiring a form of training to increase awareness and understanding of child development is more feasible, with the potential to improve a child's life, and without potential worse unintentional consequences on the society as a whole.
@matchalatte4101
@matchalatte4101 2 года назад
​@@danak5958 for a start, they can conduct background checks on whether a person has been to prison, has bad debts or a history of substance abuse or addictions, because these are the main reasons why parents are emotionally and/or physically unavailable. single parents also cause the children to have low self esteem, esp for women. daddy issues/fatherless daughter syndrome is very real because it makes women put men on a pedestal when they've been brought up by women only (mother, aunt, grandma etc), not knowing men have their own issues & insecurities as well. you dont need to have cluster b in order to traumatize a child, you can simply be emotionally unavailable, distant or ignorant which is why education on child psychology is necessary.
@danak5958
@danak5958 2 года назад
@@matchalatte4101 oh I agree that cluster B is not necessary to screw up a child. Also, education on child psychology is the idea I suggested and supported. I challenged the “Lisence to parent” and how it can be enforced. It sounds that you are suggesting that people who ever been in jail- can’t have children. Woman who are not tied to a man- can’t have children. People who got some debt- can’t have children. How can you evaluate emotional availability or predict how emotionally available a person would be to a child? There is a huge difference between trying to teach people of being parents and child psychology and “licensing” them based on who they are. Also, substance abuse is a very real reason why people are emotionally unavailable to their children. But I think the primary is inability to deal with life in general. Like job, responsibilities, bad relationships. Inability to manage their own emotions, and prioritize, inability to deal and generational trauma.
@mudrok6810
@mudrok6810 2 года назад
Kids should be taught healthy communication/empathy early in the education system and heathy attachment parenting practices to stop generational trauma. We need to teach people to support moms with new born infants so the moms have more love and compassion to give to the infants so the infants brain develops healthier. I would so enjoy a conversation on society improvements with Sam…
@joannedieckmann2153
@joannedieckmann2153 2 года назад
The problem is people don't want to change. All the qualities you list are in limited supply.
@Autumno_reggio
@Autumno_reggio 2 года назад
I've been coming to your channel just to drink this shot of reality. Cheers from Rio, Sam!
@itsmystupidname
@itsmystupidname 2 года назад
This is why we’re called “users” on the internet because social media is a drug. A very dangerous drug. Now more than ever do I feel I do not have community. I have few friends and when I do see them to spend time together they are just using their phones.
@noelbecker7002
@noelbecker7002 2 года назад
Thank you for your message. Very much needed at this time, and you are one of the few who can deliver it with authority.
@TT-cj3ek
@TT-cj3ek 2 года назад
Boy , I disagree with you on some points , but for the most part , you really educated me . As I was in agreement but by different reasons and beliefs . You offered insight I’ve never thought of. People need people , I think it’s ingrained in us to want to be a part of an intimate relationship , family unit … and for the government and corporations to have enough skill , power , deception and the will to have helped foster in 30 percent ratio of single people with no social skills , ( how ironic with the social media in everyone’s face) lack of emotional maturity , a drug crisis , and other addictions … a birthright of the need and wanting to belong , to love and be loved , has been eroded selfishly with greed and intent by these big corporations and government… follow the money . They hate us , they are not our friend , yet we choose to be slaves to them and in some cases forced if you want what freedom you have left .
@SarahEWalsh
@SarahEWalsh 2 года назад
I’m the first one up in the house, enjoying coffee this sabbath and listening to Sam Vaknin ❤
@thewhidbeyhouse
@thewhidbeyhouse Месяц назад
The most sane thing I've ever heard. Thank you so much.
@DevastatorJr
@DevastatorJr 2 года назад
I agree with much of your diagnosis, less so with some of your prescriptions, but nevertheless, the real problem is that no real change on the scale you propose can be implemented because the power to do so is monopolized by those who would prevent it. Exactly how we overcome this stranglehold is the real pivotal question, and platitudes like 'We must all rise up' or 'Or we must all come together' won't cut it. I would like to hear your thoughts on this.
@DevastatorJr
@DevastatorJr 2 года назад
@norm simpson I wish we could count on a savior, unfortunately, I don't think one is coming.
@CynicalBastard
@CynicalBastard 3 месяца назад
@@DevastatorJr Nothing will change until people do. And if they could, they would have already done so.
@jomo3321
@jomo3321 2 года назад
Right on. I appreciate the wisdom and truth. Much needed
@jmdloving
@jmdloving 2 года назад
These are some really good points/perspective.
@runwiththewind3281
@runwiththewind3281 2 года назад
Professor Vaknin, thank you.
@cletuswyns
@cletuswyns 2 года назад
Alright that’s it! I’m gonna buy some land and grow food with my woman
@katadam2186
@katadam2186 2 года назад
Back to nature the best way and learning all the old ways of canning and a small gentleman’s farm is the best living.. why do you think the elites always had a country house and
@sueallegar4602
@sueallegar4602 2 года назад
Agree! Put me on a task force..we are headed for a crash in our society....sickness .. Greed, loss of family, promiscuous sex and again workaholism , lonely people , sick relationships, too much tech and isolation .....all... Destructive and evil moving in. All part of a cloud dark and like a drug ... suppresses us. Weakens us. Thank you Sam.... Strive to teach and help mental health...your efforts are so valuable. We need reform and prayer. New commitments for the health of mental needs. You are a warrior. Keep getting word out. I will share this video. Spot on...
@maryremke5215
@maryremke5215 2 года назад
Excellent video Prof Vaknin! A lot more of our society needs to think like this . You are a voice we need to head .
@LindaAuriemma
@LindaAuriemma 2 месяца назад
So bang on, Sam. Thank you❤
@joannedieckmann2153
@joannedieckmann2153 2 года назад
In south Africa it is the opposite, education and health, mostly only private work, government ones don't,the problem.is large scale corruptions so limited funds for educationsupplies or hospitals. We have clinics thatdont even have band aids to.dispense to the public. Equipment broken down,even beds are stolen
@carolegyptienne
@carolegyptienne 2 года назад
I agree that I purchase stuff probably because I feel lonely.
@debbiemclennan438
@debbiemclennan438 2 года назад
I really really couldn't agree more than I do with this assessment eloquently expressed in this video. We are nearly exactly the same age, we having been born in the same year. I do believe the internet and its social media aspect has completely destroyed the very cohesiveness of the structure of society. I used to want to be a teacher. Now, I could never teach the young, because they are more interested in deciding which gender they want to be than building upon the biological gender they were born with. If you can't learn how to be and fit into a society as a man, or how to be and fit into society as a woman, aren't we already starting with a educational foundation made of crumbs? I LOVE this quote " we need to FORCE people back into families." Humans are social creatures. So much in this video is so offensive to this " woke" generation. I applaud and enthusiastically support everything said by you in this video. I have been saying this to my own children, my personal friends, and I have been getting such derision and I've been called too old fashioned and against "technical digitical progress". Finally, Dr. Vaknin, bravo, and this needed to be said. I will be sharing and recommending this video to all I know.
@Jazzmarcel
@Jazzmarcel Год назад
Absolutely brilliant!!! I agree on all!!!!!!………wow just fucking brilliant!👍🏾
@catfancier270
@catfancier270 2 года назад
I feel like my generation, GenX, are kinder than our parents. All my friends and I are living with our Boomer parents to make sure they are alright in their old age-something none of them were willing to do for their parents.
@gunn7830
@gunn7830 2 года назад
I hope more people start to think like this. Thank you!
@SJ-um8zc
@SJ-um8zc 2 года назад
HI Sam, Can you speak to why Boomer generations was so easily deceived into psychopathic and narcissistic ways of living as a collective group? and resulted in them governing with politics which favored the dystopian conditions of today? This is an honest questions, as I believe biologically Boomers are not that different from any human being, but why and how a specific generation of people all collectively had similar ideologies and worked together to create this?
@katadam2186
@katadam2186 2 года назад
Major advertising as he said it’s been geared so hard in the USA since the 1950’s check out who Edward Bernay’s is and what he did then watch interviews with Yuri Bezmenov that should get you started on the depth of the SalesPitch and Industry of Indoctrination.. good luck and it’s a real eye opener to whom profits from all these lies
@Vid7872
@Vid7872 2 года назад
St Ignatius of Loyola (1491-1556) already knew how important it was to examine one's behavior on a regular basis. The Examination of Conscience is practiced by millions of catholics every year who attend Ignatian retreats to take inventory of their lives. After which, confession to a live person is performed to unload all that toxic baggage. Why a live person? Well, confessing alone in your car doesn't instill the requisite shame to deter repeating the behavior. Examination of Conscience - shame - regret - amend one's life. Ignatius had it right
@divamariaribeiroguimaraes4486
@divamariaribeiroguimaraes4486 2 года назад
Thanks . I make your words mine.
@Xadthor
@Xadthor Год назад
Read Ascent of Humanity by Eisenstein, it’s about how humans became disconnected from nature
@LoriSings65
@LoriSings65 2 года назад
Thank You ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@sabinev5928
@sabinev5928 2 года назад
How can I get in contact with you? I am involved in climate change fixing solutions a what you say speaks out of my heart! We have to fix everything.
@LoriSings65
@LoriSings65 2 года назад
Your best video yet bravo 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@renatapeters3681
@renatapeters3681 2 года назад
Thank you
@adamferrara3808
@adamferrara3808 2 года назад
I agree with everything but incentivizing people to live together. Ive never felt more alone than when I was living at home with my dad, then later with my ex gf. I dont want to isolate, but I need my time and space to myself as well as with others. What about polyamory instead of casual promiscuity? Love the license/education for parenting idea, that would be revolutionary! Your other ideas for education reform are great too! Thank you for taking responsibility for the boomer generation!
@adamferrara3808
@adamferrara3808 2 года назад
@@bonbon__candy__1 thanks for using retarded in your comment, i know not to listen to you!
@AJWRAJWR
@AJWRAJWR 2 года назад
​@@bonbon__candy__1 No one asked.
@dianeoneil5376
@dianeoneil5376 2 года назад
Amazing content and insights!
@hayleyohoh3685
@hayleyohoh3685 2 года назад
Love❤ this......👍🍁
@boblee2682
@boblee2682 2 года назад
Great video
@peteroxx
@peteroxx 2 года назад
I agree. Very good.
@user-tr2ly8yc7v
@user-tr2ly8yc7v 2 года назад
8:07 what about the mansophere?
@ewaslo6682
@ewaslo6682 2 года назад
I agree 100%..
@naomicorban8703
@naomicorban8703 2 года назад
Thank you Professor🙏
@danicadegooijer2219
@danicadegooijer2219 2 года назад
Evrythink can be revers...but human most see the nakith thruth
@danicadegooijer2219
@danicadegooijer2219 2 года назад
We are bad..irrisponceble only form
@danicadegooijer2219
@danicadegooijer2219 2 года назад
Advertising is lie..also I agree...limit emydetly
@jinaneaboujaoude919
@jinaneaboujaoude919 2 года назад
Thank you sooo much for this video! i think like you i thought i was the only one. thank you for saying the Truthhhh
@aliciabadashian7234
@aliciabadashian7234 2 года назад
Bravo! 100% agree.
@joannedieckmann2153
@joannedieckmann2153 2 года назад
Funny that RU-vid only hide dislikes. Even worse .
@danicadegooijer2219
@danicadegooijer2219 2 года назад
I am agenst also free speech.. but I Toth I am only crazy..tnx God I am not only one
@LoriSings65
@LoriSings65 2 года назад
Agree
@danicadegooijer2219
@danicadegooijer2219 2 года назад
Inside reset
@cameron2506
@cameron2506 2 года назад
What do you think about a mass return towards Christianity.
@aprobstayahoo
@aprobstayahoo 2 года назад
We wish. As for Vaknin, he is an atheist. He even did a 'Jesus as narcissist' video essay.
@danicadegooijer2219
@danicadegooijer2219 2 года назад
I agree
@patleino3118
@patleino3118 2 года назад
KEEP TALKING...YOU ARE THE CAT'S MEOW....AND I'M FEMALE.....DON'T EVER STOP TALKING!!!!!!
@lederpsta42
@lederpsta42 2 года назад
Reckon this is more or less Penti linkola’s master plan sans the trenchant environmentalist precepts
@danicadegooijer2219
@danicadegooijer2219 2 года назад
Vision
@daniela_k
@daniela_k 2 года назад
You do the best with what is available at the moment. It is no use crying over spilled milk as we say here in Sweden. We who were born in the 50s, 60s and even the 70s have built a society of prosperity, progress, democracy and freedom. It is the young people's time to take over and create the society they want to live in. ❤
@mendi1122
@mendi1122 2 года назад
We are doomed anyway, in 20 years AI will take over.
@joannedieckmann2153
@joannedieckmann2153 2 года назад
They need to be yes but at the right age, not at age 3
@andamaandama3190
@andamaandama3190 2 года назад
You are genius
@danicadegooijer2219
@danicadegooijer2219 2 года назад
I agree feminism is posion
@ML-sr9ih
@ML-sr9ih 2 года назад
Free Palestine!
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