On a related topic, I have noticed a lot of psychologists (online and otherwise) who give advice about narcissists seem to have narcissistic tendencies themselves.
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It almost like they gave the professor autistic lack of shame instead of narcissistic lack of shame, and now we have access to some of the greatest insights about narcissisms available.
From what I have learned, my understanding is that Narc’s are full of shame and perhaps self loathing, disgust with others perceived inferiority. In turn revealing their projection of their subconscious fear of being interior?
Your work is real. As you don’t sell anti-narcisist t-shirts, bags and other merch, making money on victimhood. Isn’t that abuse itself? Respect for your work mr.V ✌🏼thanks
I had a saviour narcissist. I wanted him so badly but we did not have sex because he was in a relationship. It drove me insane because he groomed me to want him desperately for months on end.
How do communal narcissists interact with each other, e.g. I see a lot of them in groups (niches) for example work related and it’s so obvious they are narcissists but also friends?! What is the dynamic between friends who are narcissists or even in romantic relationships? I see narcissists of the same type together? Is it all unspoken who will be the dominant one or do they switch roles?
Bonded together in a shameless game of dominance. I think they operate as fule for each other and take turns pretending to be human for the sake of the other one as long as the favor is returned in kind at a later time.
@@CakeslyMcShakesly makes sense. Gosh it’s disgusting, I mean they relate to each other based on their fake selves and take turns?! I literally see them in horrible shape when they are on the bottom and then blossom when they are on top but still stay together… suffering?! They would rather be absolutely miserable and fake rather than authentic and happy. I really don’t know how to act around them as I have to interact with them for work or training related reasons. They act as if they are doing me a favour giving me their attention and time but I’m paying them for it (in the case of classes etc) and they are so sweet as they are trying to lure me in 🤯 little do they know I already know the game (thanks to my covert sadistic narcissist mother, she has trained me well)
If you want to meet a pack of communal narcissists who cooperate (likely including mild psychopaths and normal individuals from the lower strata who find a space for affirmation and who ensure cohesion), look for a neo-Protestant church that is part of a relatively decent mainstream religion or movement (Baptist or Adventist). The main characteristic should be the number of members exceeding 500. Pay particular attention to the leaders (elders and the committee) over a period of more than 9 months. Try to find out how they got into their positions. Some of them got involved in charitable activities initiated by honest people, took advantage, promoted themselves, and then ended up in leadership positions, managing diplomacy somewhat like in the game Civilization 6. Small cults and sects derived from mainstream neo-Protestant religions have a different dynamic with less sophisticated diplomacy. Communal narcissists with social skills and business reputation prefer large mainstream religious communities, not the small or dubious ones. After they reach certain positions, they develop relationships with political leaders and popular NGOs. The struggles between them are more subtle and limited to small tasteless jokes. Otherwise, they focus on obtaining consensus and the approval of others. They don't risk conflicts that could lead to schisms. Sometimes bad narcissists appear, who end up moving to smaller communities after causing chaos where they achieve minimal advancement just enough to avoid collapsing.
@@MingPhoenix-Romania it is so funny you wrote that. My aunt that has been diagnosed with schizophrenia and in my opinion she is also a narcissist got involved in 1 of those. I have no words
