As a Mom of girls, I cried this whole interview. It is heartbreaking to know she never had a chance. While her peers were playing with dolls, she was being r*ped & p’d out😮💨😢 She is obviously intelligent, so much potential in her but she cannot see herself as more than the lifestyle that was forced upon her. Lord Jesus, help her and send angels that will guide her.🙏🏽
This is sad but what’s even is sadder is that this will not end anytime soon especially with these new female rappers promoting this type of stuff and types of lifestyle
It makes sense when she said she hasn’t processed it. She said “Why put myself through that pain?” That’s a defense mechanism. Her not processing this trauma helps her to survive from day to day because she does not have the skills or resources to do so. The brain is a powerful organ, and when people experience significant trauma it does what it needs to do in order to protect you mentally. You ever heard of denial, dissociation, suppression, and repression? What she is doing is suppression. She will need the help of a professional to process her trauma. It makes sense. This girl is trying to survive.
Further enhances my belief that black women in particular do not engage reality very well at all a matter in fact not a lot of black people male or female can effectively engage reality
Every mother who puts a man before her children is cursed and will go to hell, how can people rush to bring men home when their children r sooo young!!!
@@juicemane7655you can blame massa but the fact that nobody wants to punish and give overdue retribution to predators who go after the children of the community and gatekeepers of the sexual abuse is just disgusting
She's not lying about men wanting it raw with a sex worker that sees multiple men every day. Unfortunately most of those men are also married so what they do in the streets also comes home with them. To any married women reading this if you're not using condoms with your husband you should go to a free clinic and get tested every few months. Certain STDs like syphilis have little to no symptoms but need to be treated in early stages before the damage is done.
If you Love yourself..Turn Your Pain into Purpose. I had some of the same experiences..I'm from Brooklyn too..and I made it my business to overcome those obstacles through education and being the best Mom to my two daughters so they can look up to me and I can be their role model. I have 3 college degrees (A.S, B.S, MBA) and I'm a Notary Public in NYC..Yet we have a similar background. ⚘️
@@ericmcmillan2831 Nothing about my comment sounds judgemental. I was using my words and stating we had some of the same experiences as a way of motivation. Of course you and others are always trying to turn a positive into a negative. Did you ask if I mentored others? Or did your comment sound like YOU WERE JUDGING ME and insinuating I don't. Yet, I'm also a Teacher, and spend 6 years working in a men's shelter helping them obtain housing, and another 7 years providing case management to substance users who have some of the same stories as this young lady.
Understanding a lot of the horrible situations that are out there in people family's and on the streets, I understand that we all have different strengths and not everyone is capable of making it out of the hell hole that they were thrown into due to no fault of their own. My mom had foster kids and she adopted one whose parent was on drugs so the baby was addicted she's a grown woman now and she struggled with drugs maybe it was just that craving that she was not able to get rid of😢. As I said we all have different strengths so more power to anyone that is able to fight the struggle and move forward and turn their life into something positive. More power to you ❗
@@qbrown8753 A lot of Ppl cover up pain by acting tough and as if they don’t care! All along they really never had no one to show them they care and worthy! She is literally screaming for a hug and love🙏 and has not overcame the childhood trauma!
This young lady has been through too many negative situations. It's horrible to see what's happening to our people. These men aren't taking care of their offspring. The young ladies aren't respecting themselves. We must do better💞💞..
The problem seem to have been before she was born. Her mother life was a mess wondering what happen to her mom life to end up dating a lowlife beater she end up dating another lowlife after her daughter was 7.
Poor baby girl 💔😢 I have 1 daughter and she's 30 I was so overprotective of her, I can't imagine someone hurting her. I wish that I could help this young lady, her eyes look so tired and sad 😢
Makes me wanna cry. I got a daughter she’s 19 months and someone would have to beat me to death literally kill me before I’d allow her to be hurt. I just can’t
I'm so sad for what happened to her 💔 That man needs to be prosecuted to the fullest. 🤬 No one was there to protect her and childhood was robbed. I pray you are doing well and take care of yourself ❤
This is sooooo sad. She was failed by everyone in her life and mentally in a hole that she doesn’t even realize she’s in. She doesn’t know real love, compassion, protection, security. She’s intelligent and I wonder where she’d be had she had parents who did right by her. Probably a doctor, lawyer… she can still turn it around but she’s so far gone she doesn’t even see the wrong it is. This is not it babygirl…. Only 23 and I would absolutely die at age 35! I could not…. I feel so sad for her.
Watching this channel just proves that age is nothing but a number. It's not our age that determines our mental or psychological mind state but merely our experiences in life. Our experiences either constrict our growth or broaden it. We all can learn something new from one another. 🙏🏾 🌎
It seems she has mental issues now as a result of her life😔 She's totally disconnected. Thanks Marcus for your patience with her. You really made her smile a lot!💞
She might be a lost case, how could she be saved all she experienced in life was trauma she doesn't even know what a real hug from a guy is. She would need some serious therapy. Too much trauma for most people to rap their mind around of.
She looks much older that what she says. Look, I can feel sorry at first but damn, did we not hear her? She's happy as a hoe. She has choices. Let her be a hoe if she wanna. Her eyes have no look. Her pain is obvious, but she tries to hide it. She three kids and probably doesn't do a damn thing for them. Tsk tsk. At some point personal accountability kicks in.
From one older Brooklynite to this younger Brooklynite…. I’m very sorry our community failed you… I’m going to pray one day you find your worth …. You appear stronger than you think… you deserve all the best
I think she’s accepted her circumstances with cards she was dealt many people do that even those of us are healed / healing ❤️🩹 acceptance is part of the process until she can get to a place of stability an deal with her trauma.
@@MsIcollins she ain’t got no trauma. She like being ghetto and hood and ignorant. I grew up around people like this. They actually think this type of shit is cute and funny. And will hate you if you try to help them change.
She seems to be a strong woman, imagine her trading the street life , and turning it into something Amazing for herself & children I pray for her and her children
My wife and I take food to one of the Homeless Shelters and of course there's many men and women there. I've spoken to some of the women, and they said exactly what she said about being molested and the sad part is that this is rampant in the Black community because it's believed or treated as a White person sickness. There are Fathers, Uncles, Brothers and Cousins doing some so real vile things to women and this need to be addressed and not swept under the rug or pretend that it's not happening. It's a Taboo but it's happening every day. Finally, if anyone reading this has any old toys, PLEASE take them to the Women Battered Shelters because the kids would greatly appreciate the toys to ease their suffering. Thanks.
I am a Victim, what you are saying is 💯. My daughter is turning 18 in 6 weeks & Never been touched. She is a stunning beauty and we flew our kids to another country to live, that’s how serious I was to keep them protected. My cruelest monster died & did not get the privilege of meeting my children.
Women molest too as well. I was at 9. I mentor boys and most of them had there first sexual experience at 11 and 12 by older women. It's just not talked about because "we liked it" is what they say.
@@jennypatterson5889 it's a way how you do things I'm not finna tell no human who barely functioning enough to process childhood trauma without giving them resources if they want it...dude is just very insensitive with his approach its really creepy
@@Nonofyobusiness from what I understand, he provides them with resources/connections after the camera stops rolling. He doesn't just say "see you later" and walk off into the sunset.
Allowing your daughter to get molested because your too broke to have motion on your own or to scared to leave. This is why women need to make there own money and not try to secure a stay at home wife position. When you got your own you can leave whenever you want. Every single decent looking woman has 20 good guys within a 15 mile radius that'd treat them nice but they choose the abusive bastards. Hard to feel sorry for them.
Beautiful kids get Hurt by their Awful Parents They don't have a Chance. She's strong in the mindset. Keep that Love yourself and keep the focus on you and what you want out of life
I am happy that when she said that God have her strength to reach down and grab a root to stop the hurt. It’s awful how she was hurt but managed to have children and continue life. She has a strong mindset and she never let the guy to tell her how she felt on talk down to her because she is aware but she is definitely holding her head up. God bless her and her children ❤
He keep attacking her darkest secrets. You can tell she is uncomfortable. He hurt me to hear him stab into those wounds. I believe her story look into her eyes when he is pouring salt on those wounds. I feel so bad for her sending prayers.
She got paid for it🤷🏾♂️ he pay them for it. What kind of people with mental illnesses or people normal would a random person ask to interview about trauma as kid. And then he go into asking the question to the interviee most of time. They barely come out like how she did. The reason she came out with that all fast, u can just tell it was discussion before and he jazzed her all up. Its the Rape work get boy enticed. Freakzoid fr.
This poor girl, everyone failed her...I don't understand how a mother could let this happen to her precious daughter...I would catch a murder case...I pray she does better...
You can tell she's a very smart and intelligent young woman although she's surviving in the streets. I admire the fact that Shes not hiding from her truth or pain. And with the right access, tools, team, resources,environment and whenever she's ready...her light will shine so brightly. I commend her for sharing with us..and your soul is beautiful and God loves you. I listened to the inner child within her and the adult survivor. She told the enemy no yet laid down her life to protect her mother. She didnt play the victim and said "I Chose"! She announced her condition- she'sbrave & courageous, although her abuser started her she never said she was ready to 🛑 - that's her truth from the residue of other people's betrayal & brokenness. She said I didn't hurt that little girl😢. (To the 7year old "sweet angel" thank you for still existing) ❤️ "Keep loving her until while healing you'll! Thank you🙏🏼
23 year old woman that has lived the life of a 50+ year old and all over her face. It's not normal for a 23yr old to have wrinkles, that's if she is telling the truth about about her age. Wishing her a better life and some love.
This life succz life out of you , so i believe her age , n she so stressed , may God help her turn away from this life n actually have a life with her kidz , may God bless her , she still has a good heart AMEN!!
What wrinkles? I dont see any wrinkles. She looks like a young 25 year old woman. Yes she’s 23, but she’s close. I’ve studied aging. At 18-20 you look the same, childish and young. At 21-25 you start looking like a young adult. and at 25-35 you keep that appearance for a long time. Once you hit 25, you keep that youth up until your mid 30’s. That’s because by 25 you’re fully developed. After that, you start looking more mature. Up until you hit 40. Then you’re looking day 1 of being old. Not old yet. But at 50 is when you start looking old old. Wrinkles are noticeable and everything else weakens.
This broke my heart she's very strong for not letting that defined her I'm so sorry grown ass men really would date a woman just to molest her kids I got one son I have to protect him at all cost I'm afraid to even bring any man home not alone allow him to move in if your parents don't protect you who will they all need to have their genitals mutilated they give boosters more time in jail the pedophiles I will never understand this system 😢😢
I've seen some cases on this channel but she takes the cake. She is broken beyond belief. Molested at 7 for 7 years. Then pimped out by her molester. Who's to say that the stepdad didn't pay you for the bio dad to leave town so he could have his way with her. That's probably y she feels that way about her bumuo dad. If she wants to be any kind of stable and understanding mother to her kids, she needs very, very intense therapy for a long time
This woman is strong. She doesn't look back and doesn't let pass events take over her life. If I had the money all the pimps will try to kill me because I will take all of them off the street and create a legit business with them. These women are very smart and are being taken advantage of, and they allow it just to make ends meet and eventually be on their own. God, please bless and look out for them. Although they holding up on the outside deep down they are hurting.
She is stuck. Didn’t you listen to the part where she states she has “ companionship” with a person that is not a boyfriend but his relationship would is criminal in nature.? She is doing what she has been doing her whole life and doesn’t take care of her own children.
I started watching these videos last month & I can’t stop, they are so informative & sad. Marcus is bringing to light things left in the dark that nobody wants to talk about. Everybody wants to whisper or ignore or blame the trama vic. The things ppl go thru that we aren’t aware of cause we live in a bubble is so disheartening. Marcus is asking the questions that a lot of ppl will comment & ask anyway no matter how disgusting it is. He repeatedly says that in his videos as to why he asks the questions that he asks. Ain’t no point in being soft bout it when these live this life all day everyday. Thanks Marcus for going to the streets & letting us know that’s not the life & making it ok to call out pedifiles, rapists, abusers, etc
This could've been my story i thank god everyday that he gave me strength and wisdom to go thru life i was raped and molested at 12 and i was in an orphanage for 4yrs then i was placed in foster care my mother was on drugs my father left and im sitting here listening to this young lady and she reminds me of myself i suffer frim depression and i did intensive threapy because i was sooo broken and i would just check out now at 43 i have three grown son's married and live a good life im a nurse and hairstylist and my kids are so blessed they never had to go thru any of what i went thru i thank god i thank god i pray this young lady get the strength and god can guide her in the right direction to get her life on track i just want to give her a hug and tell her you matter your loved god loves you omg this breaks my heart😢
Gotta be one of my favorites. She’s not into the blame game. Just playing with the cards she was dealt with…. Def think the last girl was lying about how much she makes
A mother's consistently poor decision-making in relationships with irresponsible males can plague future generations of her descendants. You can blame the men in her life for their abusive behaviors, but the mother continued to expose her children to the abuse just so she can have financial support. The woman in the video has only trauma to teach her kids. The legacy of the grandmother's trauma lives on. She is incapable of loving anyone.
Damn I'm confused how she's pregnant and had 3kids that means those men got syphilis as well 😮 right ? Her mom knew 9 out of 10 the parents do no they just turn head and act like they didn't see it or asked questions. She should have new her daughter's behavior change
It depends on when she got treated for syphilis. 2 weeks of pills and you're cured but it will always show up in a blood test that you had it even though you're cured.
These interviews gives you a different perspective of how your life can change or could be when someone suppose to protect you as a child. Then this is how your life turns out to be. Especially if you dont get help or dont see it as child hood truma. When I see people on the street its more to them than meets the eye. My parents were not perfect but they did protect me as a child. Thank god for that. Hopefully she stops for herself and kids
Many years ago, I worked at a group home for SA victims like this young lady. I was surprised to find there are thousands just like her across the country; and while I became familiar with some of their cases, it bothered me so much that some days I left that place in tears. One of the worst for me was a young man who had brutally stabbed his mother and younger brother to death; his trauma was his mother have verbally abused him and neglected him over his lifetime, so at some point, he exploded; he was 14 when he did this. He arrived at that group home at 15 yrs old and he was the gentleless, sweetest person there.
She should be living good in Houston...very good jobs,and great place to live...she can make a turn around ....very beautiful young lady...look like( Nia Long)you can make it program that in your mind by working.... don't put your kid in danger break that Cruse...Now!!!
She’s got the perfect attitude and amount of confidence for legal sales. If she cleaned herself up and created a legal product, she could be just as successful if not more than she is now. 💡
I would like her to know. That many have been through this and more. And are damaged worse than her. Never give or quit to strive. Or be broken...Always want and strive for the best normality you can achieve.
I’m sure she never got to tell her mom what she needed to and she probably has so much pain built up since she’s passed now. Now she out here lost and alone.
Wow this is sad af. She's proud of this lifestyle being a ho. Girl ain't nothing stomp down abt this shiit. Stomp down would be having your college degree and working in a good job environment making a decent salary providing for yourself to own a house, car..etc...etc...Just making boss moves of accomplishments that's what to really be proud of...this ain't it. As my dear momma used to say "people do better when they know better" and "u can't expect any better when they haven't been taught any better" So this young woman is a product of her own sad environment while growing up. Her mom and that man who gave this girl a lifetime horrible disease should be under the jail. Now the cycle continues bringing more kids in this world, them ending up without their mom in their lives, oh my goodness. God bless her and her children. 😢🙏🏽😮
I feel bad for her she's hurting. I totally understand that wall she has up. I know how it feels not to feel the love for your father. My mom was amazing, so that helped me. 🙏🏽❤️
she is very very smart but so much trauma and hurt life is so unfair I would gladly help her something very genuine about this Lady I hope she finds happiness and love she truly deserves it
It's sad 😔 that she thinks all guys lie cheat steal & are drama filled & we can say that about women too but I digress she had a man steal her pride joy and soul she's broken hard to fix I'm so sorry sista
Not all…but MOST do. It’s sick that men look at kids in a sexual way. Yeah, I know “women do it too.” But this is way too prevalent with males. It’s really sick and disgusting!
How sad! Also being from New York is tough! Im sure everything she went through plus her environment… she’s surviving the best way she can! She needs lots of love! She needs for someone to love her.. poor girl! I hope she finds her way in this life
Praying for her and hope she finds a way to use her strong mind and passions to have her not stomping the streets. I tried to pull up her insta says no account so Idk but it would be nice to encourage her through these days of life we all call living!
She knows what love is, it's engrained in us, but there are some brothers and sisters out there that won't allow it to flow. We love ourselves and sometimes our children but are cold towards any other. Self-destruction is in effect
No anybody daughter wouldn’t cause I’m going to the police or anybody that’s gone hear me I am very grateful for my life I will never complain again about anything!
