3 Attractive Habits That Make Women Want You 

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he's absolutely right on this stuff... especially the "dont have a sniper mentality" point; everyone is an opportunity for us to practice outgoingness and "flirting" with the world.

1. Be interesting 2. Genuine standards 3. Hold and enjoy sexual tension - Setting a vibe and sharing your values - be curious - Vibe and be outgoing with everyone, don't snipe

Found these points most enlightening 1. Flirtation is world building. 2. A good flirt is capable of creating a pleasant "world" through communication. 3. Flirt with the world. Everyone wants to inhabit a pleasant world!

Even though I’m married, this is still great advice. People in long-term committed relationships still need to take their significant others on dates where the two can just vibe and have fun and charm each other.

Absolutely love the "flirt with the world" idea. I've always thought of flirtation as being strictly sexual, but it's really the foundation of pleasant interaction. Whenever you find yourself in a pleasant social situation, you're usually flirting with a person or a concept. It's a creative process 🤔.

I currently work in customer service. I try to talk and engage in playful conversation with everyone at all times. its been over a month now and it comes so naturally to just flirt with more attractive young ladies now because being flirtatious with everyone makes it as easy as breathing. Not having a sniper mentality is probably the number one key in my opinion. Hes absolutely right

I used to get nerves around attractive women, and then i would think to myself "supposing things went well, 6 months in there's things i would start to despise, and things i would take for granted. Why wait six months when i can start now?" The point wasn't to have a bad attitude, but to not absurdly overvalue some stranger because lizard brain and to counter it in a way my brain would genuinely accept. You too can imagine genuinely hating anyone! lol

"Flirt with the world." So true. Definitely makes you more attractive to anyone witnessing it as well. Masterclass. Thank you!

Ok, here are some practical tips from a straight woman. Feel free to add/disagree.0 1. He's absolutely right about breaking the touch barrier early. My "move" is to walk up to a bloke I like (and usually already know but want to let him know I like him) and give him a shove and walk off. Works every time. If you're going to do that though, be gentle. We're smaller than you lol. A hand touch is nice but I would find someone grabbing my arm way too much. If she's wearing a ring, gently taking her hand to look closely at it works. 2. If it's raining and neither of you have an umbrella, shelter her under your jacket. It's gentlemanly, gets you nice and close to each other and makes for lots of laughs. 3. Other old school gentlemanly stuff is nice like opening doors or even offering an elbow as you walk. We get to serrupticiously feel up your biceps and is another good way of breaking the touch barrier. 4. This one works well at a bar: If you're approaching someone for the first time, standing side-on is much less threatening than face to face (especially if it's crowded) and personally I love a bloke looking down at me out of the corner of his eye. Dunno why. Try a lop sided smile too. 5. The most charismatic people often are the ones who have developed genuine interests and persuits. Go try a quirky hobby. It gets you in the habit of striking up a good rapport with new people and there might even be some good looking women there :) Good luck.

Charisma On Command has legitimately changed my life for the better. I owe so much to this dude.

Love the idea of “flirting with the world”. I’m 21, and used to be so nervous talking to women. Recently working in a busy restaurant as a host really really helped me with this concept! I’d recommend it to anyone who’s young and looking for a job, and to build their social confidence at the same time. You’re constantly interacting with people from all walks of life, while walking them to their table you can practice your conversational abilities. Great advice.

I found its actually a lot easier, to pick up women, working in a liquor store than going to bars. It's quieter, so easier to have conversation, the women are are less defensive, plus, you get to meet the introverted bookish nerd girls who spend their weekend at home with video games and a bottle of wine, instead of going to bars.

Flirt with the world. What a powerful message put so succinctly. I'mma embody this.

Those last lines from the video are gold💯👏 flirt with the world, and have patterns of communication that are habituated in that way

I genuinely like this guest.

That last advise is so on point! I know because it's naturally how I am with anyone. And women especially always mention "the vibe". If it's how you normally roll, it's never a stretch!

The world-building thing is SO on the nose. Perfect.

He gives an example of two people dating if they match online… most men can’t even get a quality match.

This was the best video I have seen on this topic. Useful, practical and relevant advice.

I think I need to make a video on this topic myself. The sexiest thing a man ever did for me was come up and introduce himself and shake my hand. Now I'm the type of woman who values old fashionedness, so maybe not every woman will be so appreciative of this type of introduction. But for me, it represented manners, confidence, and sincerity. Three things I deeply value and admire. He had a humility about him too, and he completely captured my attention. I often compare his way to what I'm mostly used to. Men approaching me who immediately launch into a barrage of information about themselves, boasting and bragging, trying to force a good impression and agreeing with everything I say. A combination of arrogance and insincerity that will turn me off the most and quickest.

This is a great format: you have the full podcast which you can watch in its completion, or pick a topic from the podcast in separate videos that have specific titles in 10 minute chunks. Perfect for RU-vid’s taste, and for the viewers who like either long or short form content, or perhaps someone who wants to hammer in a topic into their daily mantra.

That last piece of advice is GOLD. Don't become someone for the top girls. Become someone for anyone, or rather any situation worth of your time. It comes down to your values. Don't value only sex. Value your time being around others and by yourself. So much more than pleasure only, it's so a tiny glimpse of the spectrum, which unfortunaly tend to obscure the whole set.

"Flirting with the world" just makes your day better - and often the other people too (hopefully) chatting to an old lady walking her dog etc. Helps the world go round.

I have noticed the days i have more conversations with normal people, it warms me up. And so moving forward i am already in the right mindset to talk to people I might otherwise be too cold for. For work, as a delivery guy, i had headphones in a lot and hardly took them out thinking the music helped overcome nerves but it did the opposite. Taking them out and engaging has helped me go from transactional to full attention. So now i warm up and give my attention and it does numbers. This flirting with the world idea is exactly what I experienced in the process.

Really great tips for spicing up a boring work meeting or gathering of family or friends too. Even just striking up a conversation at the bus stop with the right energy can be an awesome part of your day and others'

I knew it! Definitely it's not just the girls that I'm attracted to, but one must be able to be vulnerable. How I like to view people are just as life-forms roaming the Earth, with all their different flavours and spices about them. This way, I've been able to see people just as they are, and not judging them at face value. I just like to also look as tough experiences, not limited to dating, as something that will make me stronger and a better man.

Astonishing! Just WOW to your videos! Definitely will share this video with my friends. Also, I’ll share a product Spanish Fly natural aphrodisiacs with them because my sex experience was unbelievable! I’m really excited about all the effects 🔥.

I've flirted with the world in the past, as an introvert it is absolutely exhausting. The type of girl that attracts would have me exhausted for the rest of my life. The best advice is actually "be yourself", specifically be the best version of yourself. The rich, ripped, interesting worldly version.

not having to always crack a joke when there is sexual tension is really hard to achieve, but is a really good point

"flirt with the world" is a good legit advice

Chris you earned a new subscriber with his one, thanks a lot for what you do

“2:45” the way he’s broken down sexual tension is really intuitive and interesting. I’ve experienced this a lot but didn’t know how to describe it. Such a great topic to touch on 🎉

I love Charisma On Command! I found it from when he made the 3 vids on Russel Brand and spontaneously being witty. The advice he gives on his channel is dead-on!

The last part was eye opening, thanks

Thanks Chris! Great video

Fantastic interview

This is exactly what ive had to learn over the last decade.. best advice ever!

Some good advice in here… Coming from two beautifully symmetrical people.

More of this. Love it.

Bro on the left was FOCUSED at 5:12

It doesn’t matter what u do if u don’t believe in yourself. Try something what’s the worse than no is the regret of not knowing if. I learned two years ago the hard way now I must use that regret as motivation. Best of luck to everyone.

This is actually helpful. Thank you.

I have never once heard #3 on that list. That's simple yet clever thinking.

Very pertinent content, thanks a lot!

That eye contact is what made me lean in for the first kiss. My man gave me that approval with his eyes. It was magical 😌

The best podcast there is.

I remember someone saying men think in yes and no. Women think in maybe. Getting into the maybe playful type of conversation and just having fun is preferable for both the women and you :D

This is a collab I definitely did not see coming

Good job female that joke was great! Here's a hug 😂

Fellow northener. Haway the lads! Proud of you for doing what you do

Constantly asking “why”? after a simple question is a good way to keep a conversation going and to better connect with someone as well I’ve learned

Wow he provided a tonne of tangible examples and explained himself in a concise fashion, this was very informative ! At the end he brought up "sniper" type men, which I strongly identify with as I'm an introvert that is really productive. I have no inclination to flirt with the world, and to have it turned on all the time would be exhausting. My question is if being/acting extroverted is the only way to get women and their attention ? Talking and flirting with women comes very easy to me, my biggest difficulty is being able to do this with total strangers. If it's a girl in my class or at work it's easy, but talking to the cute barista or girl in the library seems so daunting.

Thanks for the insights!

1 - Be handsome 2 - Don’t be Ugly 3 - Avoid to do 1 and 2

flirting with the world is the best way i can think of to put it, bravo

My two cents: 1) Be comfortable in your own skin 2) Have something interesting to say 3) Be interested in what she has to say 4) Enjoy the interaction

He is 100% correct

You get confident when you look like these guys 😂

Went into this with a roll of the eyes and a groan, but exited nodding and saying, that really makes sense

Great clip and solid, sensible advice. Have a positive vibe and let your values be your virtues. Experience says that if you get the basics right, health, wealth, mindset, patience. You'll be alright

That was good. Thanks!

I hope someone sees this but when it was talked about flirting with everyone a) I figured out this on my own (I'm just trying to be a more charismatic person as a whole) b) once I came to this conclusion I found it's just fun. I honestly look forward to talking to the cashier because it makes my day better. One thing I do what to point out is, It really helps to not be afraid of people and I am not. Since childhood I have had little problems interacting with people (the times I had problems I wasn't being sincere/self confidence was low).

LMAO so hard "By the power of GraySkull ..." 😂 !! Great insight, guys!!! Thank you

This is the most attractive I’ve seen Charlie

9:43 He's very right on what he says from this point. Gotta talk to everyone, even flirt with women you aren't attracted to or have no intention of pursuing .

Life changing about those sniper guys and flirting with the world I was like that too, you have to be able to talk to anyone and make a lasting conversation out of anything and to do that you have to be a certain type of person

Just enjoy the evening...or what ever you are doing is a good start.... Just ignoring those moment of "empasse" , being comfortable in most of the situations... Being classy, not overdoing it... Being mysterious enough....

When I was in a "flirt with the world" mood at a party I got a date from a hot girl (unfortunately when we were by ourselves I was not able to be in the same mood, neither was she, so it did not lead anywhere) and the second time the interest from another one - It was like the first times I was behaving like that in years, so I would say that's very good advice.

What a cool concept flirting with the world! Makes so much sense ! Thanks fellas! I'm new to the dating world as I have been in 15 years worth of relationships .. and achieving said girls came all to easy.. hence why I'm not still there today.. anyway.. this was incredibly well broken down and I believe I'm halfway there but that concept seems to open up the world now , excited for my first day next Friday! Thanks!

One principe. It's money. 100%

take the world seriously but yourself lightly. that's how you flirt.

Having standards, sharing your values, your why - these are all great things to apply in business too. Be silly, share values-your why, qualify clients so they sense you might reject them if they aren't a fit for you. Not sure how to translate sexual tension. But being curious in them of course is great.

1. Be handsome 2. Don't be unattractive 3. All of the above

Be yourself and actively listen. As long as it’s real life that’s pretty much it. This isn’t how to get any woman. But if there’s chemistry. This is your best chance.

brilliant

This would have been great advice 10 years ago 😊

im naturally a good talker, i love telling stories and even other people stories. I'll have some beers with my friends and I end up having conversations with waitresses or hair dressers and my friends look at me like why didnt you ask her number she totally is into you. I tend to flirt without even realizing it and i cant get a clue if shes into me or not.

Damn solid video

I used to be a "sniper" ...obv without the "snipe effect" and about 9 month ago i started forcing myself to have converstions (and trying to enjoy them) with literally everybody. Made awesome new friends since them, got a few dating opportunities from real life AND when i think about engaging into a conversation with a cute girl on the street or whereever... not that scary any more...In general, people really dont mind being talked to.

It does help to be stunningly beatiful, and have this guys voice.

This guy really gets it.

As a guy who was 10 years out and gaming girls as a sport and is now in a relationship this man is 100% right with everything he said. And also thank you for this reminder that I should flirt more with my girl and not allow the everyday work to beat me down.

Someone who's flirting with the world... this really got me thinking 🤔

I really like the concept of worldbuilding. Just seems to be a really fun idea. I'll be sure to try it out when I actually start dating.

I was a little straightforward with my conversation style usually and that resulted in a lot of quiet moments where I ran out of things to say. Once I switched it up to have more easygoing/flirty filler stuff it became a bit easy

Nice advice , FOR CHADs

Gold

wise words

For me the biggest takeaway is „flirt with the world“ :D ❤

actually pretty good stuff

Who ever said “1st base is kissing” got it wrong and I think a lot of people have been mislead by this growing up and taking into adult hood.. first base is eye contact/talking, second base is touching, kissing is at least 3rd. Every time I’ve ever hooked up at a club there was plenty of touching before kissing I’ve always found this to be so much more comfortable

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This is so true. It takes lots of-uncomfortable-practice. Women love real charm (and no you don’t have to look perfect). The least attractive thing is unfortunately self-pity…

Sounds good, no toxic red pill crap.

I found insightful

Very good

Hate to admit it but i definitely fall into that sniper category.. lol. Im always overthinking and shy and feel entitled to a good woman for no logical reason. Im going to really start working on breaking out of this and learn to make pleasant conversations with anyone i can. Thanks for the good advice

Look at Charlie's micro-expressions after getting these questions for the millionth time...

Easiest way is to just start trying with the mindset of reality that for most men its a numbers game. If yiu reflect some you will be able to learn as you go.