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3 SECRETS To Letting Go Of Caring What PEOPLE THINK... 

Aaron Doughty
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@AaronDoughty44
@AaronDoughty44 2 года назад
What are you letting go of? Let me know in the comments below! Also you can download the 3 most powerful meditations I've ever made FOR FREE here: www.AaronDoughty.com/meditation
@crystallizeyourlife839
@crystallizeyourlife839 2 года назад
I let go of colors, of myself. It's an interesting correlation but I used to be all about being playful and colorful ("sparkly") and expressive, but I'm realizing it was not authentic to me... my true self doesn't care about none of that, I'm recreating my entire page and realized I don't like sparkly things, I like simple things. So I let go of "sparkly" and embrace simplicity. Also letting go of being nice and embracing being more polarizing in my relationships.. it's a muscle but I've gotten better over time
@crystallizeyourlife839
@crystallizeyourlife839 2 года назад
Lol I just moved to queens NY recently (more by force than choice) a bunch of crazy people here.. BTW people have their own head on their own shoulders if they fall for something like that that's really on them.. you have a good heart, the right people will know..others will learn on their own timeframe I guess... Thank you for sharing this 🙏
@theladyraven961
@theladyraven961 2 года назад
This feels so synchronous once again Aaron bless your heart, I to am letting go of what others think of me, I’ve never had a problem speaking my truth and being vulnerable I’m a poet, but as you described beautifully an empath after childhood trauma and trying to tune in to what people are feeling, recently I’ve felt disrespected and ghosted so I spoke up, it was received as aggression when I felt assertive, I realised very quickly I was surrounded by in authentic people and looking for approval from them, back to the drawing board amazing video thank you for vulnerability and sharing this all the love ❤️
@kaypriest7777
@kaypriest7777 2 года назад
❤️
@jessicablair9828
@jessicablair9828 2 года назад
I'm letting go of my desire to be understood.
@notyayo
@notyayo 2 года назад
When you stop caring about what people think, you realize how much energy you regain. You have more peace.🌱
@HealingElements
@HealingElements 2 года назад
Wisdom & truth 🙏🏼🦋❤
@ivayloarnaudov88
@ivayloarnaudov88 2 года назад
Respect ❤️🌈🦋😇
@yutoob6181
@yutoob6181 2 года назад
It’s incredible, like rebirth
@LucidLivingLL
@LucidLivingLL 2 года назад
Pay attention to the source of people's criticisms. Pay attention only to those who emulate the lives you wanna get to. Everything else is noise, Aaron makes a good point here about discernment. Learn to discriminate between things that touch your spirit and things that are just distractions.
@Simplyv888
@Simplyv888 2 года назад
Super powerful to listen to your story. I was healing in the past month a lot my abandonment wound and now I feel secure within me and my new relationship ❤️
@jordantoronto863
@jordantoronto863 2 года назад
“The separation is what makes you magnetic.” Wow. That is powerful. And contrary to what I’ve believed most of my life… What I realize is I’ve always thought what draws people to me is how relatable and in tune I am with THEM. And now it’s more important to me that I’m in tune with ME. 🥰
@ekb6212
@ekb6212 2 года назад
‘You must give yourself the validation that you crave from other people. ‘
@gavinspeaks
@gavinspeaks 2 года назад
“Kindness is a language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” - Mark Twain 💜 Heart-Based Manifestation RU-vidr
@HealingElements
@HealingElements 2 года назад
💯
@crystallizeyourlife839
@crystallizeyourlife839 2 года назад
"The separation is what makes you magnetic" 💯❤ yess!! I've experienced this too. When I ground to my body it makes ppl drawn to me like a magnet it's almost scary the power you can have. But it's amazing how that works I love it
@TruckerNyaG
@TruckerNyaG 2 года назад
Aaron I can’t even explain what this technique has done to me. I will complete the 21 days on Dec 13th. Every time I go to the grocery store, I get stared at, people move out of my way. (Not to be cocky) I’m still a kind person, and have manners and I’m not arrogant with this magnetism. People smile at me, and every time I ask for help, people literally jump to help me. I used to be a nice girl and a people pleaser where I felt like I didn’t even exist on this earth. Now I feel so grounded and in my own body and you know what’s most IMPORTANT IS THE SEPARATION! This meditation saved my life.
@dantepepper
@dantepepper 2 года назад
It’s only you who is able to create your reality other only have the control you give them 💯
@TheGreyShaman
@TheGreyShaman 2 года назад
The only thing you have control over is your perception, so why allow other people’s perceptions to control you?
@LukesLightsaber1
@LukesLightsaber1 2 года назад
"Don't hold back your love, your joy, and your exuberance. Only what you give becomes your quality, not what you hold back."
@jordantoronto863
@jordantoronto863 2 года назад
Oh wow, YES!
@kaimarcosmic
@kaimarcosmic 2 года назад
I admire your vulnerability in speaking about the scammers issue and relating it to the video ✨ it’s great to remember that at any level of spirituality, there are new lessons to be learned 😌
@ritu__7073
@ritu__7073 2 года назад
*Universe is always with me🌍🌎🌍*
@pablowoods9886
@pablowoods9886 2 года назад
The bit about the chakras and embodying the top three chakras is very profound. It essentially sums up the feeling of anxiety. not grounded, trying to tune in to everyone all at once, total mental and physcal overload, body shuts down. Thats exactly it
@Tiff143
@Tiff143 2 года назад
PS I really admire that you are honest about caring what people think about the scammers we’re only human no one‘s perfect and it’s only human to care if someone thinks you’re a scammer or not. But you’re acknowledging it and that’s the first step to overcoming it.❤️
@لمىالشريف-غ8ك
@لمىالشريف-غ8ك 2 года назад
I had the same experience when I was little. Whenever my parents had a fight or when there was a problem, I would take it on myself and think if I helped out, they wouldn’t fight. They would enjoy themselves if I took over the housework. I acknowledge the tendency to people please in me but it drove me at one point in my life to the other extreme. To completely dismiss everyone. To stop caring about anyone’s opinion. We don’t want the extremes. Aim for balance. I only care about the validation of people who are important to me. Role models or mentors. I care about the people who care about me. I think that is balance.
@stonethrown333
@stonethrown333 2 года назад
Hi Aaron. I just wanted to say that one of my favorite topics you're absolutely correct about is, when we are ready for the information, the information will present itself. Your content will find me at just the right times and nothing before the right time. You'll go away for a while. Then I'll be going through a situation. Bam! You show back up with it all. Thank you.
@kingjulixn2485
@kingjulixn2485 2 года назад
“I’m accepting what IS, and letting go of what WAS. I’m having faith in what COULD be if I just one-up myself every time.” -Russ
@kingjulixn2485
@kingjulixn2485 2 года назад
Emergency by Russ
@geovanisalazar8024
@geovanisalazar8024 2 года назад
🔥🔥🔥
@kingjulixn2485
@kingjulixn2485 2 года назад
@@geovanisalazar8024 💯💯
@LukesLightsaber1
@LukesLightsaber1 2 года назад
🔥
@kingjulixn2485
@kingjulixn2485 2 года назад
@@LukesLightsaber1 💯💯
@jeffhoffmann4234
@jeffhoffmann4234 2 года назад
I have just landed a great new job... Thank you Aaron... I have "let go" of as ll my fears and finally went for it and got the job. So grateful. You are special
@jordantoronto863
@jordantoronto863 2 года назад
“I can relax and feel good when everyone else feels good…” Oh, how I resonate with that.
@heathermerideth1200
@heathermerideth1200 2 года назад
#1-Reciprocity ❣️❣️❣️
@jasonkolaritsch7535
@jasonkolaritsch7535 2 года назад
Good Job Aaron Doughty, all you can do is voice your opinion and if people listen they listen 👂
@MeccaAnn11
@MeccaAnn11 2 года назад
This has helped me so much! I care too much sometimes about how others perceive me and I’m learning how to let go of that. Gratitude Aaron 🙏🏽❤️
@cynthiastenstrom5361
@cynthiastenstrom5361 2 года назад
I LOVE YOU AARON!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH, FOR BEING VULNERABLE, LIKE ME!!! YOU ARE AWESOME!!! I LOVE YOUR WORK. YOU'RE THE BEST!!!
@Tiff143
@Tiff143 2 года назад
I’ve gotten a lot better with my people pleasing but I’m always been a nice person even before becoming spiritual and I don’t ever expect anything in return I just like giving I love seeing someone smile that makes my day is seeing someone smile.
@KenRuan
@KenRuan 2 года назад
@11:13 is the CORE MESSAGE❤️ Aaron, this situation is teaching you something ❤️
@AscendedWarriors
@AscendedWarriors 2 года назад
I used to have a pretty strong frame until a sociopath left a trauma in me this made me an empath, however. thanks to these videos I finally see what is wrong with me and why I used to be so confident. I like you better than most youtubers because you do the inner work and share your knowledge
@victoriadupuy5963
@victoriadupuy5963 2 года назад
Aaron daughty been following you for a year. Been transfortionmal. I adore your vulnerablity and your beyond honesty. Those that follow and know you..although I dont know you and know your content. You dont do readings and YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN OTHER THEN YOU. Your content is priceless. Anyone reading this...Aaron is Aaron..your content your insights Thx you for what you put out Would never follow anything then your personal content
@kaypriest7777
@kaypriest7777 2 года назад
Thank you Aaron for your vulnerability. 😇
@plantmama7442
@plantmama7442 2 года назад
WOW. People pleasing is “I only like me if YOU like me”. Amazing. Thank you.
@bellakim9404
@bellakim9404 2 года назад
Your true followers are Firmly Aware of the Quality of your material. I can understand you wanting to Protect Your Reputation. & there is Absolutely nothing wrong with that. I appreciate you & all that you do 💙
@DPO1111
@DPO1111 2 года назад
Thank you for being vulnerable. It's truly how we tap into our magic.. In our truths. Thank you 💛
@riseandshine11
@riseandshine11 2 года назад
I can't believe I'm first. Hello Aaron!
@StillPointJourneywithMarla
@StillPointJourneywithMarla 2 года назад
So sorry you're experiencing this! I am SO glad you mentioned people having discernment!! Think people before you just launch into giving money....especially these days with soooooo many scammers out there. Accountability , discernment, plain commen sense. Ga damn annoying actually. Thank you for being you Aron!
@christinasmith1598
@christinasmith1598 2 года назад
I really appreciate your authenticity. Thanks for sharing so honestly 🌟
@mentalhealth-withkarolis4594
@mentalhealth-withkarolis4594 2 года назад
I did the free meditation about a month ago, it definitely has improved my life! :) Also it was so cool how the limiting beliefs just presented themselves.
@francesdematteo6994
@francesdematteo6994 2 года назад
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@Patmahan__
@Patmahan__ 2 года назад
❤️❤️❤️❤️ love to you who read this and all who don’t
@لمىالشريف-غ8ك
@لمىالشريف-غ8ك 2 года назад
You don’t want people to get scammed under your name. That is caring about other people and it is actually caring about your reputation. That is self love. There is nothing wrong with that!
@turkanismail1848
@turkanismail1848 2 года назад
I think Aaron needs more time to see its probably as you say, I thought the same. He would have to have a care for his followers, surely!
@ivayloarnaudov88
@ivayloarnaudov88 2 года назад
Aaron Doughty 🙃, every single video give me atleast a lesson , Thank You ,love from London !
@basilia_terrazas
@basilia_terrazas 2 года назад
I found it weird that the fake Aaron accounts would pop on the comment section and target certain people. I am extremely happy you are now taking legal action
@melaniepnail1978
@melaniepnail1978 2 года назад
Ive gotten those dms on Instagram. I've reported some. Sometimes you cannot report them. I'm sorry this keeps happening to you. You're not responsible for people doing shitty things. I disassociate chronically. And I literally bleed energy, constantly. I can feel it pour out of my hands and feet constantly. I can feel everyone but me. You've helped me more than anyone. Im enjoying you being more real. Thank you Aaron 💙💙💙
@hollymarie4115
@hollymarie4115 2 года назад
Love the energy exchange - you tell your story then your listeners get the 3 tips. Great video 👏 Thank you!
@SteveoStories
@SteveoStories 2 года назад
You and my brother are changing my life. Thank you.
@SD-369
@SD-369 2 года назад
Learning to be more presence
@kathleenknevett5971
@kathleenknevett5971 2 года назад
Thanks Aaron. Your work is truly awesome x
@yutoob6181
@yutoob6181 2 года назад
I grew up as the only black kid in a privileged white town. Even though I was idolized and fetishized my core wound was a fear of being ostracized because I was viewed as a foreign entity.
@abundantras6287
@abundantras6287 2 года назад
“A bridge can still be built, while the bitter waters are flowing beneath.” 🥀🌹🌱🐉💫🙏🏿 -Anthony Liccione
@tinkergodd3ss25
@tinkergodd3ss25 2 года назад
When my ex shot me and killed himself I use to worry about what ppl had to say about me but after my spiritual awakening I gained all my power back and began to walk In my purpose I enjoy helping others to heal, and love themselves !
@DarlingsDomain
@DarlingsDomain 2 года назад
This resonated with me for some reason. Today I spent 5 hours guiding and reading someone. When they said how do I have a perfect life like you, I told them I'm not perfect at all and explained how. Well somehow that turned into them judging me like I would have never expected you been through that... And you're here helping people anyways. Well yeah? What else am I supposed to do ...
@tinkergodd3ss25
@tinkergodd3ss25 2 года назад
@@DarlingsDomain :) I have been through so much and use to always wonder why my life has been so hard but once i began a soul realignment training everything made sense to me so my soul purpose is spiritual teacher and spirit says my truth is what can help heal other people and then slowly I begin to speak my truth I never thought I could and I understand that in my past lives it was certain lessons that I fail to understand so I had to go through so many hard times just to learn the lesson lol.
@DarlingsDomain
@DarlingsDomain 2 года назад
@@tinkergodd3ss25 yes!!! That's how I feel too. Thanks for sharing. I'm going to stop caring and just share my truth too and whoever resonates like I did with you will be helped
@tinkergodd3ss25
@tinkergodd3ss25 2 года назад
@@DarlingsDomain yes girl, definitely share your truth it really can help others ! 💜💜🙌🌛
@mayhtoo3576
@mayhtoo3576 Год назад
Heyyy!!so happy 😊 to see you there!!
@Meandmymirror
@Meandmymirror 2 года назад
You can only control what you can. You are who u are. Scammers are everywhere….people have to ‘buyer beware” and let it go..
@sawyerfarrell4594
@sawyerfarrell4594 2 года назад
I got sent here from the email message - it’s comforting to know there is somebody out here that speaks this language
@paradisemusiclibrary1756
@paradisemusiclibrary1756 2 года назад
To the person who is reading this comment, I wish you great success, health, love and happiness! Have a good day!! ⭐🙏💖
@Jake-lifeandfitness
@Jake-lifeandfitness 2 года назад
Right meow 😸 lol love it
@Child_of_the_HolyTrinity1732
@Child_of_the_HolyTrinity1732 2 года назад
I absolutely love it when you have a plethora of "mic🎤 drop" moments woven throughout your videos!!! 💜🕊️🤟
@trishapackham3911
@trishapackham3911 2 года назад
So much value in this video. Thank you for your openness in sharing 🙌 the timing of this video is soooo perfect, legit similar processes.
@shansjams2623
@shansjams2623 2 года назад
Yess! You are helping so many people with this shit man! 🙏 you helped me with my confidence to create my own RU-vid channel months ago and it made me realise what my passion is 💕
@andipandi9826
@andipandi9826 2 года назад
I just got that request this morning from your friend Victor! What an odd thing to listen to this video just 1 hour later of that message!
@deanmustard3304
@deanmustard3304 2 года назад
BEING EMPATHIC YOU NEED TO SAVE SOMETHING FOR YOU DON'T LET THE THOUGHTS OF OTHERS BECOME YOURS AND REMEMBER THE TIMES YOU WERE RIGHT IF IT DOES NOT FEEL RIGHT OR DOUBTFUL TO YOU THEN DON'T DO IT STEP BACK AND THNIK AND FEEL IT THROUGH YOU WILL LIKELY FIND YOU'RE MORE ACCURATE THAN YOU THOUGHT HELPING YOU TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF GAINING CONFIDENCE IN YOU IT WORKED FOR ME 😺😺
@griesburner
@griesburner 2 года назад
powerful authentic energy. i love it.
@naveenreddy5992
@naveenreddy5992 2 года назад
love your work, you are helping people who are going through bad time, positive vibes
@144SLRP
@144SLRP 2 года назад
I have this problem, I am growing and learning how to over come it
@maythemysticmuse4071
@maythemysticmuse4071 2 года назад
gosh i still can't believe people still fall for this ... it is really concerning when ppl can't recognise scammers then it will be EVEN HARDER for them to discern true light from false light. Thanks for sharing very important topic.
@mayhtoo3576
@mayhtoo3576 Год назад
So good conversation!!
@sherrymatthews2199
@sherrymatthews2199 2 года назад
Always keep’n it real brother! Interesting, the more vulnerable you are, is what resonates the loudest for me. 6mths following you & I wouldn’t believe that scam in a hot minute.
@SD-369
@SD-369 2 года назад
I needed this. Thanks Aaron 👍👍👍
@garycordle5295
@garycordle5295 2 года назад
Learn to validate yourself and who cares what people think 🤔 and trust yourself and your opinions matter, have confidence in yourself and that right there attracts people, and another thing is to observe not absorb from people 👍 up Aaron
@DarlingsDomain
@DarlingsDomain 2 года назад
I have a stalker idk who they are but they definitely know me. They've spent 90 hours every week for 4 years. They have created thousands of accounts, caused me to put tons of words into filters, and lots of stress. They have triangulated other RU-vidrs with me constantly and try to create drama and slander my character with other RU-vidrs. It's very very annoying. Especially when they use VPN and there's nothing to track them.
@fluffysox6072
@fluffysox6072 2 года назад
Lovin the hair growth. You’re turning into more and more of a Sage lol
@jujubean3353
@jujubean3353 2 года назад
Thank you 🙏
@larac0
@larac0 2 года назад
Why people think something? Good question!! I believe that frequently they don't think, they just "follow" "suggestions" without thinking
@larac0
@larac0 2 года назад
Aaron, I've been watching you for a couple of years now, you are way more authentic now... you were always wise, but it's delicious seeing you so "raw" now.... makes me happy!, but you should not give a FCK what any of us think, right?! 😉
@user-Friendly.1.2.3
@user-Friendly.1.2.3 2 года назад
You help alot Thanks
@Jackeline_Nyx
@Jackeline_Nyx 2 года назад
Thank you! I love you! This is perfect timing. 😘💕
@mattiadallabenetta7233
@mattiadallabenetta7233 Год назад
Thanks that was very synchronistic
@zoedukuly284
@zoedukuly284 2 года назад
Thanks
@TNOY1000
@TNOY1000 2 года назад
Thanks.
@tybronco9563
@tybronco9563 2 года назад
Good video young sir. Resonated well
@jenniferwright8063
@jenniferwright8063 2 года назад
Yep. I learned this.
@MsIntention911
@MsIntention911 2 года назад
Yep! Stop giving a SHIT about people who are stuck in their heads and try to destroy you. I let go of the biggest monster in my life on Nov. 11, 2021.
@robochels
@robochels 2 года назад
I really want to work out at the gym but I care way too much what people think.. like if I look dumb and I get severe anxiety and leave. I also care in all other aspects of my life and I hate it
@VanguardOfLight
@VanguardOfLight 2 года назад
Keep up the good work.
@lifechanges4097
@lifechanges4097 2 года назад
Freaking love this !!!!!
@Catindrip
@Catindrip 2 года назад
Go Aaron!
@BobBarkerII
@BobBarkerII 2 года назад
Let people know that this is a scam and this is not your behavior and other people should be smart enough and love and live in the fifth dimension. Thank you for all your work and thank you for caring.
@Mmmhrmm
@Mmmhrmm 2 года назад
You have fake accts on yt also in comments
@Bestodds1
@Bestodds1 2 года назад
Mr. Aaron Doughty, how does one be completely authentic, honest and transparent with others without never, Ever, NEVER experiencing tension with them?
@julianaskyangel2luv
@julianaskyangel2luv 2 года назад
So many scammers online once your a victim they never leave you alone! Keep reporting them and block them because they can ruin your lives they almost caused a divorce in my family!
@artshoshi1111
@artshoshi1111 2 года назад
This video is so good.
@محمدجمعة-ح5ن7د
@محمدجمعة-ح5ن7د 2 года назад
More manifestation vids please
@lililu5030
@lililu5030 2 года назад
Aaron your timing with this video👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
@stacielivinthedream8510
@stacielivinthedream8510 2 года назад
Appreciate you Aaron!!!!💓💗💖💞💕❣💔❤🧡💛💚💙💜💢💯💥💫💨💦🤍😊
@mayhtoo3576
@mayhtoo3576 Год назад
.....I like the way u saying!!quite great!!
@Phelishia
@Phelishia 2 года назад
🦋🦋🦋
@SoulPhotog
@SoulPhotog 2 года назад
♥️💋🌹 What you care about… is that people don’t get scammed… that’s a good thing…❣️❣️ 🌹💋♥️
@AngelicPitstop-rn9oj
@AngelicPitstop-rn9oj 2 года назад
False Light Test - Talk to your guides - while they are talking say - I cast thee out in the name of Christ - if its false light they will stop talking and leave. Much Love - Archangel Michael Xx
@winniewinkles
@winniewinkles 2 года назад
Aaron you were in my dream and I came and said Hi and thanks for helping me so much with your vids
@OfftoShambala
@OfftoShambala 2 года назад
There is a balance. I’ve never cared about this, and it has been a problem for me.
@yutoob6181
@yutoob6181 2 года назад
My mom always said, “What you think of me is none of my business.”
@teologiaenlineaaicroca6030
@teologiaenlineaaicroca6030 2 года назад
Treat topic, thanks man.
@SleepChopTravels
@SleepChopTravels 2 года назад
Nobody knows what’s going on any better than you do
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