3 Signs God is Removing Toxic People From Your Life

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Are you feeling uneasy in your relationship? Like things just aren't the same anymore? Or perhaps a loved one has suddenly walked out on you leaving you wondering what you've done wrong?
Before you blame yourself, you may want to consider that God may be the one stepping in to clean house.
But how do you know?
In today's episode, we're going to dive into what we can expect when God removes toxic people from your life.
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@Kris_Reece Месяц назад

FREE Toxic People Survival Guide krisreece.com/toxic-people-survival-guide Conquering Codependency Biblically Online Course krisreece.com/conquering-codependency/

@calapandayancalap 12 дней назад

@@Kris_Reece you have nice explanation of stuff I went through with certain people! Thank you very much God bless.

@katelyn442 Месяц назад

"You don't miss the person, you miss the person you hoped they be for you." Yes! Spot on ❤

@marinagallant1847 3 дня назад

Excellent summary

@sarahloffler 3 дня назад

Yes! This struck me,too!

@fruitypebblez4309 Месяц назад

A lion does not become a lamb. Don't marry someone with the hope they will change.

@martaszabo3561 Месяц назад

Agree

@MB-tr8sq Месяц назад

Never !! NOT EVER!! I have seen it.....VERY VERY BAD> DOES NOT WORK> PERIOD

@valariesullivan9691 Месяц назад

Did that twice!!! Learned my lessons!!

@applefarm6126 Месяц назад

Amen!

@Missblu1961 16 дней назад

I did not marry my husband in hopes that he would change. I married him for who he WAS. He's changed

@GeraldaZainalvand Месяц назад

Most narcissist don't go to counseling, they don't see nothing wrong with them therefore, there is nothing to change.

@danielforde-pogson Месяц назад

But they want you to go!

@LS-fs6nc Месяц назад

Ohhh!they know!!!gaslighting,for exemple, is intentionally 😁

@jennifervierstraete7987 Месяц назад

Yes. And in my experience, they will try to prevent you from getting sound counsel.

@jaynewallace-bohannon6317 Месяц назад

My narcissistic husband use to go to counseling. He would cry, be sorry, but never do the work. He even deceived the counselor (our pastor).

@user-yq4xm2cd7b 10 дней назад

YEP, I TRIED TO GET HIM TO GO TO MARRIAGE COUNSELING WITH ME , HE SAID HE DIDNT NEED IT !!!

@kathyyodertreat Месяц назад

God is separating His SHEEP from those abusive GOATS

@ironfist859 Месяц назад

I totally agree with you. I believe he is doing this because we are nearing the end.

@shirleyjusino7269 Месяц назад

@@ironfist859 I totally agree! I was left homeless because of friends and family. I was crying and depressed , but now years later all of those people are going down the wrong path! I’m not saying that I am better than them, but they are drinking , doing drugs, and all the wrong things and I’m not heading toward that path. I wanted unconditional love & support and not any earthly person can live up to that. I’m not expecting perfection, but they have been cruel, absolutely abusive. And I could see it since I was a toddler. And now I understand. My family was like this and Narcassistically abused me for kicks, and to make me more like them. Never! I understand it now. I never understood and have been depressed 😔, and even angry about it. But now I see , God seperated me from them for a reason. Now I am sadden for them and feel sorry for them . I was crying because they were hurting me, now I know, they were hurting themselves and God.

@priscillamaston6701 Месяц назад

I lost my marriage, the closer I got to GOD. I choose GOD!

@richardbensinger6922 28 дней назад

My last ditched effort should have been the first. She had an actual look of disappointment when I told her Christ, being the center of our marriage, was the only way it could work. She wanted no part of that. I did. Actually, I prayed that if things needed to get worse to bring closer to God, so be it. It was already worse.

@allseeingeye2491 14 дней назад

That’s a true thing I’m emotional about what you said I don’t want to lose my marriage but it feels like the common denominator has to be faith and without it in the relationship I am just battling self instead of having the spirit .

@user-yq4xm2cd7b 10 дней назад

I TOLD MY HUSBAND CHRIST HAS TO BE FIRST IN OUR MARRIAGE, HE DIDNT WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT !!!

@jennifervierstraete7987 Месяц назад

God revealed a series of rejections as blessings in disguise.

@Psalm8_DominiRican Месяц назад

Amen! ❤

@s-lo5291 Месяц назад

“You don’t miss the person - you just miss what you hoped they’d be for you. “ Truth❤

@eatnplaytoday Месяц назад

My parents over the years keep complaining about each other to my siblings and I. I recommended counseling and they both refused. I will not listen to them complain anymore when they don’t do anything themselves to fix their own issues. Children cannot fix your marital problems

@ChildofGod98765 Месяц назад

I lost so many friends and family over the years due to me getting closer to God. Heavenly Father please continue to protect me and my sons. As a single mother God has carried me. Both of my sons are special needs. I’m overwhelmed because I’m struggling to provide the necessities for my sons like food and clothing and I struggle to pay rent each and every single month yet my struggles have brought me closer to Jesus. I know he will get me through this hard time in Jesus name.❤️💕

@stephaniecollins8904 Месяц назад

AMEN ❤️ 🙏

@nataliebowen8924 Месяц назад

You are so brave and I pray God continues to carry you and provide in ways you could never imagine and move mountains on your behalf. Blessings to you ❤

@Waldbridg Месяц назад

Stay faithful and He will always stay faithful 🙌🏼

@realliving7340 Месяц назад

I made it as a single mom in God's strength. He will get you through❤

@brendapearce8473 Месяц назад

I’m grieving what could’ve been . 😢But thanking God for prayers answered. Peace and healing in my life.

@casperinsight3524 Месяц назад

Repeatted patterns has shown me that some ppl are aware of their deliberate toxicity and dont care and there are others who are completely unaware but can and do care.

@faithful8942 20 дней назад

You don’t miss the person , you just miss what you hoped they would be for you WOW 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@Steven-fs5qi Месяц назад

I think to hear God you need to be alone or have quite time,s to hear him...God has removed two toxic people from my life in the last two months n my life is getting better.the abuse n hard time,s are over for me..I'm happy..thanks to our heavenly father 🙏💯❤️

@tammys8711 Месяц назад

Not everyone we have a problem with is a narcissist, sometimes we’re the problem, or the problem is our responsibility.

@texaslovelylady Месяц назад

More toxic with time. 🎯

@scruffscrofula Месяц назад

Dead on!

@lindas8752 Месяц назад

I have a very toxic daughter in law. She has been a nightmare ever since meeting my son. She is a very disrespectful person, always thinking she is right. She tried to injure me in my sons car and I ended up with a broken foot from bracing myself. She controls everything in my sons life including my sons relationship.with his parents. I had to completely cut contact with both of them because the state of the relationship was making me ill. It's not always the toxic moms it is very often the felt serving destructive daughter in laws.

@t_a_r_r_y_n_ Месяц назад

I have a narcissist mother in law. I glad I cut contact with her 😌 She didn't like me because I didn't let her control things in our marriage. Best decision I have ever made ❤

@SnarkasticSunny 9 дней назад

she sounds just like my MIL. No broken foot, but broken marriage for sure. Mothers: do not tell your children they're perfect - no one is perfect! When they think they're perfect, they're impoosible to live with... & when you die, they end up all alone. (of course, it isn't their fault... cuz' they still think they're perfect!)

@jennifervierstraete7987 Месяц назад

The best thing I ever asked God was "what is it in me that's tolerating and allowing this?".... the answers have been ongoing and life changing.

@user-tt1ef2bi1f 16 дней назад

Eye opening isn’t it. I did the same thing.

@user-ke5yu1gj2q Месяц назад

Amen God removed my ex after 22 years of marriage- dishonesty, marital abuse and affairs… I would have continued to try to work things out with my ex. I was enabling his behavior by turning the other cheek, ignoring the red flags… God brought me to my knees do he could build me up in my faith, his love, grace and mercy. I’m grateful and humbled for this lesson and blessing. 🙏

@priscillamaston6701 Месяц назад

Same thing is happening to me

@dawnroberts8701 19 дней назад

After two plus years of "marriage" punctuated with countless infidelities, I cried out to God asking Him what I had failed to do and what I should do to make it work. His inner response was totally unexpected: "You have never been married in My sight." I filed for divorce the following Monday and it was the wisest decision I've ever made.😊

@keddy5627 9 дней назад

24 years for me and I am soooooo thankful!

@kimlogan1278 Месяц назад

I was in a Narc relationship with my son's father for awhile. In the beginning he was nice, the fake phase. When we moved into a house together after 3 years, I found out he was woman beater, he bleached my clothes, he hid my phone, and he was cheating one. After 8 years we went our separate ways. Thank God. I felt so much better when I got away from him. He had a new supply the whole time. When he got with her, she did to him what he had done to me. Long story short, people don't change and what goes around comes around.

@JesusizmyLordandSavior Месяц назад

Good word! As a former codependent, I am FREE to allow Him to work on me and leave the other to Him!

@shirleyjusino7269 Месяц назад

@KrisReece 😢😢I been listening to you for the past few weeks and today, this morning, Wednesday , June 26, 2024 it hit me like a ton of bricks. All of the people who hurt me, when I have done nothing to them, have actually been removed and hurt me and are all on the wrong path. 😢Now that I see it that way, they are not on the path toward God or heaven. That they have to change to make it to the kingdom of heaven someday and now that I see it that way, I am crying. My entire life I been bullied, and it’s been cruel. I now realize what is going on , after 50 years of my life of confusion. I started my Christian business this year, and I making something beautiful. I am not trying to be the victim, but I know to stay away. It’s scares me now to be around them. I have stayed away. 😢 But it it brings me great comfort that myself and a few people on earth are chosen to go on the right path. It’s not easy. I feel so different sometimes, but I have to keep going.

@givingvoice1 Месяц назад

I find ppl who pray all day long and don't do the work, still stay in scarcity, drama and abuse. I always encourage ppl to say, "God help me, show me" and tgat way the are required to engage, pay attention. LOVE all your work Kris!!!

@ethanmiller5487 Месяц назад

It's very difficult to balance the desire to not be selfish and the need to focus on the self (in a Biblical way). The years of hearing ANY thoughts about myself are selfish, left lasting habits, and pain.

@mialambert6873 Месяц назад

I’m struggling with the VERY same things. 😢😊 Praying that our Heavenly Father will give us His, strength, Courage and Faith to fight and have victory over these lies! ❤❤❤

@texaslovelylady Месяц назад

I am trying so hard to change my family dynamics and generational destiny towards God and away from toxic , boundaryless behaviors. I can't control others and what they do. I can only control myself and how I perceive and respond to it.

@brandiehopkins3538 Месяц назад

I needed this today. I was ready to walk away last week after realizing what I actually have been deaking with for 20yrs. Thank you!

@EVA-ki5vw Месяц назад

I'm 22 and I've finally come to my senses and realized I'm living in an abusive, evil family mainly the wife of my father (I won't even call her my mother bcuz it feels evil and foreign to my soul) My parents are TOXIC, EVIL AND FAR FROM GOD! THEY HATE EACH OTHER! I grew up suicidal, been dealing with many demons and negativity ever since I was a child damn I don't remember being a child in the first place but anyways I've been dying to be Godly and Holy since the age of 10 or 13 but they always bring the worst out of me. I ask Jesus for His wisdom. I'm choosing Him and with Him, I'll find and create my own beautiful garden of life and will have the happy, joyful, successful, and Godly family I've always wanted. Amen. Thank you for your content Kris God bless you!

@k60c85 Месяц назад

Prayers for you in your journey. Generational curses are being broken. God bless you! ✝️🙏🏻💕

@deannamartinez7233 Месяц назад

Just Prayed❤ John 3:16 KJV Proverbs 3:5-6 KJV 🙌❤️✝️ Start Praying now for, Our Heavenly Father to bring “A Man Of GOD” in your Life… not a Godly man- anyone could just be godly. And when you start making your Family read The Bible/Childrens Bible to them. Hugging you tightly, right now!! ❤️🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️

@amywoodson1623 Месяц назад

You will have a big, beautiful family in heaven one day!

@keddy5627 9 дней назад

“I’m going to remove this one and do a work in you…!” Amen!

@Graustarkian2 Месяц назад

The open/closed doors at the end is SO spot on. Trust God and let him guide you. ❤

@erikalagunas7717 Месяц назад

This is confirmation to grieve the “what if” the “could have been” amazing. Your not responsible for their actions but you are responsible for your reaction. An ultimate acceptance. This reminds me of the serenity prayer.

@rosalindr4975 Месяц назад

Increased awareness. ( prayerful and careful)

@Snack-well 5 дней назад

Personal growth requires recognizing the part I played in my own problem relationships.

@marinagallant1847 3 дня назад

You are 100% correct about expectations setting us up for trouble

@user-tt1ef2bi1f 16 дней назад

God will not let me leave. He wants ME to change so sitting here and trusting God to heal and help me is showing me a lot about myself and definitely showing me more about God. We don’t fight at all since I shut up. However , we don’t talk either. He refuses to talk at all about our relationship. So I’m concentrating on learning and changing my life under God’s direction and care and waiting for God’s next step for me.

@Cowboy19735 Месяц назад

I never should have got with my ex-wife! She was definitely NOT the person for me! She had " RED FLAGS " , she presented herself as a " Harlot / Immoral " woman. Turns out, she abandoned her son twice, and was involved in a triangle affair with her two former husband's and she is a Covert Narcissist! God please forgive me 🙏

@user-rj2id7zu8l Месяц назад

This is such good information. When everyone is saying to just get away or stay, we need the wisdom to know the difference ❤

@DennisD-yv4ys Месяц назад

I'm pretty sure God was snoozing a little with toxic people in my life! Now I'll be expending enormous energy trying to heal and recover rather then progress in other aspects of life

@beaglerescue5281 Месяц назад

Your blaming God? Accusing him of snoozing? Take accountability for your life choices.

@DennisD-yv4ys Месяц назад

@@beaglerescue5281 how would you best fit into the drama triangle?

@susanbarr9688 Месяц назад

The timing of this is perfect. I am grieving and grateful that even though I went through 43 years with my relationship. My prayers have always been for Roman's 8:28-29 to become reality. I am going through. The doors have been opened and And I want to know who I am fully in Christ.

@samxsara 7 дней назад

I had a dream, where I was tormented by entities, millions or thousands and I was hopeless, anxiously tortured and depressed, I thought I’d die. The anxiety was thru the roof. I had to call on Jesus name in my dream (and I never do that!!) that’s the only way these things would ease their grip on me and disappear. It was so powerful. This was just a few days after I saw a narc again after 4 years…

@solideogloria007 Месяц назад

Increased awareness is my second name for a few months... working on my way out.. finally, after 20 years of abuse for me and my children...

@pearldupreez4432 Месяц назад

I can confirm, was in a 27year old marriage and after praying for years getting nowhere, when I started asking God to remove me from this within 1 week I got new accommodation, house was sold and I had courage to walk out, now divorced 5 years and we are better friends than husband and wife

@ingodsgoodness2160 7 дней назад

So true. I heard a preacher say: "Another person's happiness is not my responsibility". This phrase stuck with me because I was raised in a family, believing I had to be a victim to many of my family members' harsh narcissism and verbal abuse. But thanks to God, I have learned to not let people blame me for their own self-hatred, unhappiness, and unresolved issues; and to stop letting them use me as their scapegoat. -Each person needs to deal with their own issues, and should take the issues, hurts, and inner-pain to God for true healing and satisfaction in life.

@mariachiguira2k Месяц назад

God gave me signs I began calling her out. Then…three days before it all started crumbling, I prayed at mom’s final resting place and asked him to show me. I couldn’t ignore what he showed me. Pretty much threw it in my face.

@richardbensinger6922 28 дней назад

It's hard when you desire the truth so badly, and then you see it all. God won't leave you in this time of realization. I'm so thankful this all finally broke me. His ways are not our ways.

@mariachiguira2k 28 дней назад

@@richardbensinger6922 the truth when you feel something is off is such a relief. painful but it allows you to see you weren't going crazy

@thecraftymugger Месяц назад

Oh my goodness!! You hit the nail on the head in so many ways for me! ❤ I've been grieving the loss of my alcoholic husband for the last three years of my sobriety. And my codependent nature keeps getting in the way. 😢😢😢🙏🙏🙏❤️

@richardjohanson6421 Месяц назад

The carrot 🥕 taste good! But then chewing I noticed a string attached to it with a stick 🤔. Then it moved... and I had to move with it to eat! Then suddenly I was picked up moved! Given a carrot 🥕 I could hold myself! 😊

@richardjohanson6421 Месяц назад

Hebrews 4 13And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account. James 1 5If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.

@richardjohanson6421 Месяц назад

Proverbs 15 3The eyes of the Lord are in every place, Keeping watch on the evil and the good.

@richardjohanson6421 Месяц назад

Isaiah 45 4For Jacob My servant’s sake, And Israel My elect, I have even called you by your name; I have named you, though you have not known Me. 5I am the Lord, and there is no other; There is no God besides Me. I will gird you, though you have not known Me, 6That they may know from the rising of the sun to its setting That there is none besides Me. I am the Lord, and there is no other; 7I form the light and create darkness, I make peace and create calamity; I, the Lord, do all these things.’ 8“Rain down, you heavens, from above, And let the skies pour down righteousness; Let the earth open, let them bring forth salvation, And let righteousness spring up together. I, the Lord, have created it.

@loriegreen8840 7 дней назад

I'm so glad I found your channel...I've binged it today, because I was SO in need of your guidance. I attribute your channel popping up to my prayers of seeking God's help for the strength to get through the heartache of my toxic dangerous adult son & my decision to distance myself from him.😢

@Steven-fs5qi Месяц назад

Oh thanks heaps kris for helping me understand n making wiser..your awsum 🙏💯

@susanbryan1829 Месяц назад

Thank you for all your insight, I really appreciate it! 😢

@larissabewick6310 Месяц назад

Thank you so much for the insight.😊

@yvonnemariehorvatr.h.n.nut3315 Месяц назад

OMG are you kidding. Absolutely God can take you out of a marriage He doesnt want you in. This is a great Episode. 6 years of not listening to red flags has ended me in trouble that is now finishing and going into recovery. Please, please please do not disobey God is for your own good and protection.

@1948rambo Месяц назад

Nothing works with a narcissist and most therapist don't know much about covert narcissist.

@deanelyjah712 Месяц назад

I just wanted to take this opportunity to say thank you Kris & your Team. We find your videos so insightful, helpful and authentic ❤❤ thank 👌 you ♥️

@user-fx8pq4rn1m Месяц назад

What a blessing this video was.

@AlfredaJones-ei2bs Месяц назад

This topic is interesting I was in a toxic relationship for six years God removed me from that relationship I'm free hallijjuah thank you God and is son jesus 😂 God is real let him work he can do it we have to move aside and stop trying to do it are self.

@griselle.w8017 Месяц назад

I am separated from my husband due to his infidelity. We do have other issues but that was the drop the cup needed. I feel confused about doing the right thing. I love my husband but part of me felt I needed to take a break. I pray God for wisdom and discernment. I wonder at times, if it is God putting this need to get away in my heart.

@SonOfDavid-andMe Месяц назад

Wow, amazing! Thank you for this inside 🙏💠 I feel like I do need to change.

@melissadiegan5442 Месяц назад

Thank yous Kris you have so much wisdom and I greatly appreciate it.

@gabriellera6413 27 дней назад

I really appreciate this video!

@marjattaelliott1158 Месяц назад

Thank you, this was very helpful.❤ God bless you.

@masoodpervaiz6044 Месяц назад

Nice detailed teaching. I pray for those who don't understand, may God touch them. God bless you my dear Kris.

@APeculiarDiaryVideos 24 дня назад

The best, just the best, such strong insight.

@SLLiberty23 13 дней назад

So beautiful, peaceful, informative and validating. I thank God for you 🙏🏻♥️🕊️

@marinagallant1847 3 дня назад

Thanking in advance is called faith

@janiegolden5338 Месяц назад

You are awesome Kris 😊

@ALC77787 Месяц назад

My abusive mother rang the police on me who rang my landlady. So now I am being evicted because of my landlady's anxiety

@peterbroom4286 Месяц назад

Pray, give it all to God, constantly

@jidoorifalcon Месяц назад

I will be keeping you in prayer. The Lord will provide for you, the righteous one. When we seek the kingdom above all else, all things will be added. What a hard situation. I pray the Lord gives you the strength to trust him in this situation ❤❤❤ Rooting for you ❤

@glendapeglau4694 Месяц назад

Great points. Thank you ❤🎉😊

@AldeanCooper Месяц назад

I think of Abigail and Nabal.

@bornagain2890 Месяц назад

That is a very powerful story

@l40knuck Месяц назад

I tried very hard in my marriage to work things out. I did counseling everything I could do. She found that her dad would cover her bills because he just prayed her stepmom into dying and fed her alcohol as often as he could she know how to place to go and she threw me out, all my Christian friends began to tell me things that they were saying and that they believe that God did separated us because I couldn’t believe that he would ask me to leave that situation so I believe that you’re right God will separate the goats from the sheep

@marypalmer1027 10 дней назад

In my life, I believe the church kept me in an abusive relationship because they never addressed abuse at all. As abuse did not happen in christian homes. What I heard was. Marriage is a commitment for better or for worse. As martiage vow includes " For better or for worse, till death do us part. When my husband literally promised to make life hell for me ( As if it weren't bad enough) I left. In spite of what I thought the church taught at the time.

@marianperron9219 Месяц назад

Sounds great. After 22 yrs of lies, I don’t trust him anymore. Can God do anything? Absolutely! Will He? I don’t know.

@debrakarr996 11 дней назад

Why would u put up with someone lying to u for 22 yrs. Do u not have self love or respect for yourself? God is not going to do it all for you. If you aren't helping the situation and just waiting on God you will be waiting he doesn't even work that way. It takes 2 in any relationship even with God. It's God n you. Isn't that 2? Prayers for u to have the strength u need to change what needs changed in your life.

@IrmaQP-zk1ni Месяц назад

Thank you JESUS, 4 divine connections. Thanks Kris, GOD bless you!,

@jonanon8193 Месяц назад

The best way to avoid partnering someone toxic is to read the book "Dating Radar".

@jennifers5778 Месяц назад

Hope is dope. Actions speak.

@Yuefoh Месяц назад

Amen!

@user-zi5km2px7r 12 дней назад

Ambiguous greif is hard. I went and am still going thru this re: and ex of many yrs who who was an addict- drugs. Very very very hard. It left me feeling like a fool and full of rage

@greene-sl7vn Месяц назад

Kris, I have forgiven those who have sinned against me. It has brought me peace. They never said sorry, but the bitterness was overtaking me. I find myself having to do this often, clearing my heart of bitterness. But these family members are quite arrogant and scapegoat me. I don't want a relationship with them. I feel guilty for this because God is about love and reconciliation. Yet I fear these people and think about how awful they've made me feel. I don't see them as people who care about me, just mean enemies really. Event though some claim to be believers. I just don't feel safe. Then I feel guilty for feeling this way. I feel awful and like a coward, and then I think well I'm protecting myself aren't I? I tried for so many years but none of them want a true relationship. They just want to use me as the family scapegoat. I don't like this role. One of them even told me I needed to humilate myself in order to maintain the relationship. It's all so darn confusing.

@sharober1 Месяц назад

It's not just spouses, family, friends....God removed a hairdresser and several acquaintances that I thought would friends

@karen1306 Месяц назад

Just a small tip, in the beginning, wish the interviewer was more looking at the audience/camera instead of the teleprompter and body language was more involved with the content of the interview. Otherwise, Kris Reece Your videos are always of great content.

@sharicoburn5475 21 день назад

I think it's a big mistake to think that people inherently who they are will change people do not change we are what we are and if a narcissist is our partner we have to recognize that that person will not change that is their personality style so if we choose to stay with them it has to be with the radical acceptance that nothing will change and this will always be bad

@sweetlysing51 25 дней назад

I had so many godly people in my life who loved me deeply. As I have aged people I cared about either moved or died. Removing toxic people has been a blessing but when it’s your children it hurts. They choose to live their life without God & now are reaping the consequences. They changed from sweet kind caring & loving to cruel hurtful mocking without any love, abusive & see nothing wrong with their behavior. They live a life of sin & blame me. They don’t want advise nor correction. Their abusive alcoholic dad passed last year & I hoped with him being gone things would change. It did change but for the worse. My close friends live in other states. Trying to find healthy people who live close to me is difficult. I spend more time with God than ever & my time with Him is cherished.

@Chantelace Месяц назад

The point at 2 minutes about already being married to them and not using God as an excuse👌🏼✅

@authorGinaGeorge Месяц назад

I stopped being a people pleaser and started saying no and now I have no friends. They didn't even wish me a happy birthday.

@marywolfe6598 Месяц назад

In wish you happy birthday!

@The7Jules Месяц назад

Happy Birthday!

@tja8071 Месяц назад

I am married to a narcissist husband. I have been more self aware. I made a marriage counselor appointment for us. He did not show up. His narcissism is also affecting our daughters. They are now walking on egg shells, not wanting to have him react in a negative way. Is God releasing me from my marriage?

@michelerobertson6323 17 дней назад

Why is it always talked about regarding mothers? My issue is with my narcissitic dad. I wish there was more talking about that.

@user-yq4xm2cd7b 10 дней назад

YES IT WAS A VERY HARD SPOT FOR ME TO BE IN, CAUSE I DID THE PRAYERS OVER & OVER & OVER, TO STOP HIM FROM DRINKING THROWING AWAY THE MONEY BEATING ON ME, BUT INSTEAD GOD LET ME CATCH HIM GOING OUT ON ME, IT WAS THEN THAT I FELT LIKE OK THIS MEANS , IT'S OVER I DIDNT WANT IT TO BE OVER BUT IT WAS , I WANTED THE SAME SWEET MAN BACK THAT I MARRIED, WE WAS MARRIED 10 YEARS & A FEW MONTHS !!!

@dimahSD Месяц назад

Hi I know my request is not related to this video but it is important. Can you talk more about the flying monkeys and what they do to enable or support the toxic narcissist and how to set boundaries with them without sounding aggressive or hurtful. Or is there a way to open their eyes to see the truth! And are they flying in the sense of gossip from one person to another or something else. I need elaboration on this subject. Thank you for your great work and guidance.

@jocelynviloria21 24 дня назад

Wow, this is a real deal having a partner then , it is so hurtful that the person gone or there is a close door for this person in our lives without expecting God will take it away ...so the acceptance takes long really...

@antheabrouwer3258 29 дней назад

Hi Kris. What about children who estranged you because of a narcissistic husband and a new partner who is just as toxic. crazy time.

@raggaahmed8626 2 дня назад

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@zoomkatvideo Месяц назад

Is there such a thing as "guardian angles", and if so how do they operate?

@mday3821 Месяц назад

From my understanding there is no evidence that we have a personal Guardian Angel; however, when we cry out to God, God has no problems sending us His Angels to help us...guide us...protect us...and even comfort us. This is only my understanding.

@randallfox4265 23 дня назад

Almost everyone is a narcissist. We are living in 2 Timothy. The last days.

@ellenberg7961 День назад

How many toxic people will god remove? I don't want any new toxic people in my life.

@renearosser1466 Месяц назад

I didn’t get the part where it says even though someone is engaging in bad behavior we have some part of our own that we are responsible for the problem. Then later it is said we are not responsible for their behavior. Sure in a marriage when there is a problem both may be contributing. But there are some behaviors where it is totally one spouses fault. Seems this was contradictory.

@rob12468 Месяц назад

What if a Christian wife leaves due to a toxic relationship and separates, but during the year of separation the wife does little counselling and never wants to do joint counselling or even talk person to person with her Christian husband (who has done heaps of counselling on his own) to work it out.

@hazeleyes9101 Месяц назад

Be patient and trust God. Work on yourself, pray and thank Him in advance for the changes you want to see happen in your life. God has perfect timing.

@tinajhennis495 Месяц назад

I've been watching you for a few months looking for professional faith based counseling to move forward from the last decision I made to move forward with great care and constant God consciousness that many times may freeze me. I believe it'd due to lack of professional faith based counselor and sessions. I would like to know to see how snd/or if it is a possibility? 🙏 🤲 👍

@dbaker7796 Месяц назад

Ezekiel 34

@mariep4018 23 дня назад

It’s time to be held accountable and go to jail for all their crimes, and then manipulation and a fraud. God is not gonna take care of them soon enough they need to be taken care of right here on earth that’s why we have laws that’s why we have a law-enforcement. And it’s a shame a real shame that half of them are law enforcers.

@SuperDrJeckyl 20 дней назад

These are so helpful as Christians. We are so often hounded that we must put up with toxic jerks because it's supposed the Christian thing to do.

@debrakarr996 11 дней назад

No it's not the Christian thing to do.

@SuperDrJeckyl 10 дней назад

@@debrakarr996 Not every single time, but it is when it merits. Paul told the Corinthian church to disassociate themselves from the guy who was sleeping with his father's wife. Don't throw pearls before swine? You are wrong.

@debrakarr996 10 дней назад

@@SuperDrJeckyl so I'm wrong that I'm not going to stay in a toxic relationship that can kill everything about a person. Wow I'm confused. Christian or not no one deserves to be treated badly just cause.

@SuperDrJeckyl 10 дней назад

@@debrakarr996 I think you are confused. I said in my original post that it's the right thing to do to not put up with "toxic jerks." YOU...said, "No it's not the Christian thing to do." which sounds like you were disagreeing with me. NOW, you sound like you agree with me. Maybe you worded it wrong, but you sound very confusing to me.

@debrakarr996 10 дней назад

@@SuperDrJeckyl u r the one confused not me. U never said it was the right thing to do. Show me where u even said the word right. Sorry I read what I see not trying to figure the hidden meaning of the words u choose to use. Better quit lying to. U just tried to make me look confused u r the confused one trying to convince me what u said in a hidden message I guess. I do understand certain words have many meanings depending on how it is used. Right is right no matter what unless u r telling someone to turn right or a right hand it's direct. Just like wrong is wrong. Lol prayers to us all to not find another person that is wrong for us.

@maryannestevenson5993 27 дней назад

What are the three signs 😍

@MrsKuhn.2 28 дней назад

What happens when they try to come back? Using family to worm they back in?

@michellemcmillan5878 27 дней назад

I grieved the loss of my daughter. I do not know why she became narcissistic, but she is. She is very manipulative. She desires a grandiose life style. Someone told her she looked like a movie star. She started going out of her way to smile just like her. She wants to be on a stage like the red carpet getting her photo taken. She told me multiple times I could not provide the things or life style she wanted. I cannot tell you the devastation I felt. I was completely blocked from her life. She wanted her friends mother. She claimed she was just like her and the friends mother loved her more than her daughter. They both had blonde hair, she liked to work out and jog like the other mother. She got a breast job like the mother. She wanted a boyfriend she thought was going to be a professional athlete. He dumped her. Told her she needed to learn humility. She met a body builder who literally competes on stage in a thong and she claimed to be a Christian. She is working at a mega church. She was belemic and they had to move her away from teen age girls because of her unhealthy behavior. She even thought she could pass her driving test by complementing a female officer rather than following the officers commands on the road at 18 years old, not 16. When she married, she had the other mother do everything because she would give her a trip for her and her bridal party. She would provide better gifts. My other daughter told me she said I was not good enough to participate. This went in full force after I divorced my husband of 33 years who tried to take my life while in the hospital from cancer surgery. I became a burden. Financially. His sister came to me and told me I was lucky he didn't divorce me because that is what most men do when their wives get cancer and become a financial burden. The betrayal, the hurt, and yes, when I say this behavior is wrong, I am called crazy.