3 Ways To Tell a Persons Attachment Style Early 

I learned my attachment style 3 months go. 2 weeks after a breakup with a DA. I realized I am a FA. I felt amazing because I was able to see in words what I couldn't describe. The push pull and protest behavior was spot on. I have been in therapy but my therapist didnt really touch on attachment styles. I'm doing the work with her now and also learning on my own.The plan is to earn secure. I already see a difference because I can aloud I'm in an activated state. It makes me so much more aware. I wish I had the knowledge a few months ago that I have now but I'm trusting God. Everything happens at its appointed time. The knowledge has given me more clarity and makes me less upset at my DA ex and also at myself. I wish I could educate him, I am educating myself. I realize that ppl can cause you to learn more anxious or avoidant. I was married to someone who was secure, I now know what to look for early in dating and my plan is to be there myself by putting in the work. Its not easy but it is worth it.

Thank you! This was helpful! Also something else to look out for in early dating, if the person can take accountability for their part in the demise of a prior relationship. If they are blaming the other person for the break up, this isnt good.

Spot on

So many gems in this video. Very educational, insightful, & helpful content.

Can you expand on this video

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