What goes on in the mind of a person with avoidant attachment? | Dr Sia

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Hi, my name is Dr Sia. I am a psychotherapist, lecturer, and researcher. As per usual, I hope you comment, subscribe, and press that bell icon for regular updates.
In this video I discuss what goes on in the mind of a person with avoidant attachment, called narratives. I will make more in depth videos about this later on but this is an overhaul of what can be done. I hope you find the video useful and that is resonates with you!
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24 июл 2024

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Комментарии : 29

@avonleamontague2469 2 года назад

You're an underrated channel. Thanks for sharing!

@drsia2323 2 года назад

Thank you kindly Avonlea

@LovingMe732 Год назад

How do you go about? Maintaining communication with an avoidant. When they continue to go hot and cold.

@krystalgomez2300 9 месяцев назад

I love how in just a 5 min vid barely U summed it all up so easily. And i love it

@denisemay3996 2 месяца назад

This was extremely helpful. I was feeling this and asked my Angels if I should reach out to them and my Angels keep telling me no…to wait for them to reach out. Ugh! This is my twin flame, so this is not just any person. This person was divinely guided to come to me and vise versa. This seems crazy, but it is real and it is a spiritual relationship over many lifetimes. Loved your video, so much. It was short and right to the clear picture of their wounds!!! Thank you so very much! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍🏻🙏🏻💫

@chiaraA. 10 месяцев назад

You are absolutely correct.... and therefore having been on the receiving end of such behavior, run run run from that person and never look back - if you want a healthy romantic relationship with another

@jhlfsc 9 месяцев назад

Countless Dismissive Avoidants have good relationships. No one is everyone's match.

@Mosstafa97 2 года назад

I can relate to this to some level.

@drsia2323 2 года назад

Ty for commenting

@marka.9202 2 года назад

Thank you for making another really interesting & educational video.

@drsia2323 2 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@Pacifica74 2 месяца назад

Very insightful

@Silly_Hobbit_Twix_Are_4_Squids 7 месяцев назад

So, if you're also an introvert your solace is both your haven and your prison cell.

@moarawkwarder 2 месяца назад

I recently found out I have a ‘disorganised attachment’ type (I think it’s also called ‘fearful avoidant’), which means you alternate between the traits of both anxious and avoidant attachment styles. You described how I feel perfectly - time alone is my haven and then suddenly, it feels like a cold dark cell. I’m working on identifying my triggers, and on self-regulating and managing my emotions - otherwise staying single is probably better for me (and any of the poor mf’ers who get close enough to attempt a relationship with me 😂)

@paupersluck8868 2 года назад

Loved it 💚👌

@drsia2323 2 года назад

So glad!

@yaldahashong-ny6jl Год назад

this is one hundred percent me

@yaldahashong-ny6jl Год назад

oh no.

@leeman6101 Месяц назад

How about the opposite? That is, I can come to you, but you can not come to me? Can that also be avoidant?

@eac.6808 Год назад

It is me😮...

@krystalgomez2300 9 месяцев назад

I feel called out 💀💀💀

@mathews0618 2 года назад

Without watching, what goes through their mind is "me me me me me me me"

@drsia2323 2 года назад

😀

@jhlfsc 9 месяцев назад

Not really...

@freewoman Месяц назад

I disagree. Mine is very caring but pushes me away when he gets overwhelmed.. which isn't fair.. he has actually told me that he can't handle it. But he is a sweetheart.