Our society is too obsessed with physical appearance to where they leave no room for human decency & overall humanity. This woman needs help, her appearance shouldn't be the focus here.
How are the landlords going to know unless they live in the same house? Do you know how many Mexican folks live in a apt or house over the maximum occupancy and it gets a blind eye? 😂 There's a reason she's not their and her sister is. Imo.
This happened to my friend's mom's bf. The complex found out he was living with them and said he needed to be on the lease to stay there. In the process of adding him to the lease something must've came up the background check that they did not like at all because it went from "he needs to be on the lease" to "he cannot be on the property at all" and implied if he was seen on the premises they would get the police involved. I don't think that relationship lasted long after that.
@jrenee1040 cases like this are rare, it's obvious it's deeper than what she's telling us. Funny how it be our own people (usually) that rat us out when it comes to being over occupancy...Orientals been living with dozens of generations for years and ain't nobody tell them to separate due to over crowding. And 1 br = 2 person max and so forth, for apartments.
The way she said "Yes Ma'am" to the lady at the door was very complacent. Interesting that she's from NYC. She has an approachable personality once you get to know her.
It’s crazy when people say they’re homeless because “there’s no room” at their parents, siblings, etc. house. I know there are instances where the one who is homeless may not want to be a burden especially if their child is already staying with said family member, but if any of my close family members were homeless they would have a roof over their head. I don’t care if we had to make someone a pallet in the tub I’m not letting them sleep on the streets in the cold. Unless it was a situation where they didn’t want to help themselves get over that setback. Then again we never get the complete and/or honest back story from some of these people.
a reality for many is that they will only agree to staying with family/friends if the situations enables them to use...most families/friends opt to let them fend for themselves on the streets in order to shield family/friends from the impact of their continued drug use (i.e. sketch people showing up at the family/friend home, addict stealing or selling themselves at the home while family/friend is at work, family/friends choosing the safety of their own kids/elderly versus risking their safety with the addict and its elements around, etc.)
Some family members will say that they will help you if you ever need anything but when the time actually comes where you need their help they are unwilling to help...You would be surprised at how many families won't actually help their relatives not even in a short term emergency situation.. Especially in the black community...SMH IT'S SAD!!
I've been homeless and had the same answer. Sometimes "no room" means "no room for any more problems in the samehousehold". People don't know/understand the dysfunction &/or trauma that they're trying to send you back to. Just from my personal experience
This young woman has been traumatized more than once. Anytime a man can scare this woman that badly. This an't her first time. Listen to her when she was telling the interviewer how bad it was for a woman especially at night out on the streets by herself. She has trusted people mainly men who have tooken advantage of her vulnerability of being homeless. She needs help with her mental health which is to be able to have someone she can trust and open up to. My heart goes out to her because it is very dangerous at night for anybody out on the streets 😢
I like the idea however the thing about that is he’ll probably have to pay them, he has a significant other (not sure she’ll agree with that) and he’ll also have to protect her when it comes to being around these unpredictable homeless mentally ill drug addicted men (not saying all but a good amount ).
She had a good childhood and still turned out like this. This goes to show people choose their life when they reach a certain age and you just have to let them do them
NY shelters are too crowded and most likely she will def be on the streets there. She will have to go to a state that has government funding and not enough ppl to give it out too. For instance NC. Housing and Section 8 is max approx 8 month vs other places 10 plus yrs
She's a hard 34-year-old she don't have nobody to turn to I would like to know what them dark circles up on her eyes from and she looks really scared stressed out I wish you all the best to be safe on the streets🤔🙏🏽🙏🏽❤
Every family is not the same. There’s a reason why she can’t stay there. Just ask the questions and move on. Everyone is not going to tell the world everything. Everyone doesn’t need to know everything. Ijs
I respect the fact she would not tell her son this will trumatize him it's best if she never tells him just tell him.he wasn't a good person and leave it as that but the rest of this lady situation is confusing me
Living on the streets running the streets take a toll on your appearance and Mentel will being Prayers to her always when you think you got it bad someone always have it badder sad but true I keep her in my Prayers always❤️
I like her personality & her humbleness. Likely everyone on the street is struggling with life, or drugs, or mental disorder.. If not all 3. There is a VERY small % clear of all those just fell on hard times. She had been kicked out and/or evicted for the 2nd time, so there us something not being disclosed. Which is fine she is allowed to withhold whatever she wants. I wish her all the best & pray she is safe wherever she lay 🙏. MARCUS not everyone has a family like yours believe it or not.
Mental illness many people do not understand, but most of us do understand she is a human being, she has a soul. And most families do not know what to do when a family member has an episode or psychotic break, fear is the first thing and confusion is next but really most people are triggered by something and a lot of times they do not know their triggers, the deepest mental illness is BPD , and it’s the most intense….. but whatever she is going through she deserves compassion like anyone else. I wish her love, care, and a chance in life❤ Marcus you are doing good works, because ppl don’t understand and this is a moment to educate.
Hold up wait a minute she said after it happened to her she didn't see him never again afterwards so how did u ask ppl who he was to find out his name if she never seen him after the incident 🤔
Some people have horrible/nasty attitudes, they won’t clean, they don’t want to do their chores, don’t want to contribute financially, etc. so they have to move out. I think she doesn’t want to follow any rules, so she’s choosing to be outside.
Bro if they say they CANT stay it doesn't matter how YOUR family does this ir that, there YOUR FAMILY ..UT has ZERO to do either these ppl or thru situation
Marcus, take it from a women. please, when she says she doesn’t want to talk about it, cut it. You have to know that some things can trigger and traumatize a women all over again, as if it just happened. You get to jump in your white jeep, go home and sleep tight. I’m telling you, she will have a horrible night.
Well she's 34 and she needs to have a job to contribute to her living expenses it's obvious She making these choices because she doesn't want any responsibilities and she seems to be in her right mind and she's not a bad looking person to where she can't fix herself up and get a job!!!!
She has burned some bridges with her family, because if she was straight her family will make room for her before they just left her out in the streets!!
That's not always the case, you can't assume... I know some heartless individuals out here when it comes to family. Bridges don't always have to be burnt... you just never know.. It's a cold game, trust me.
people, how great are you supposed to look when you are actively sleeping on the street? in the elements everyday. the comments about her appearance are ignorant. hope you never lose your home.
Yeah, no! IMHO, you can’t tell anybody what to do with their body, especially the female reproductive system. But you can at least get an education, trade/skill, college, however, people have issues with anybody saying (trade/skill, college) that, and have a steady work history.
It's halfway funny how people in the comments section always take what the interviewees say for truth. Y'all be slicing and dicing things up so it sounds logical in your head, but lies don't work like that. If you can't tell a lie from the truth, the hint is Marcus asks them to backtrack and explain a little more. Just sayin.
Actually being fat makes your face look younger...if she lost weight she would likely look even older. And probably look more sickly like a drug addicted skeleton
All families aren’t close knit Marcus. I’ve been on my own since 19. ‘Moved back with my mom at 21 when she got sick but thankfilly I’ve always kept a job and my own means. On my mothers death bed my uncle (her brother) said when she dies I would have to go to a shelter. I was 24 at that time. She passed away and I’ve never lived with anyone, I’m 36 now. Family is effed up. I’ve watched him allow others to live with him but never offered me even when I was struggling.
And this be true baby. 😢I understand you trust.❤I'm sorry about your mom 😢 that's terrible 😞 I pray your holiday 🙏 be a good 1😢 you be encouraged honey God is a father to the motherless.If you knew what I'm going through you would know there's a God and if she can make it I can make it. Bless you 🙏 i pray comfort and peace.
Marcus!!!! You were acting slow on this interview! It’s very clear what she meant in regards to the guy raping her and threatening her after, she meant after the act!!! She was actually very clear in everything she was saying. Slow down and listen!
I believe she's a little slow... and there's a reason her parents won't allow her to live with them...possible mental illness? Whatever the case, God bless her. And those waiting lists be years long. And here in Atl, we full. That's one wait i don't wish nobody to have.
having a disability is not a reason to not love your own child that didn't ask to be here. if she has developmental issues that could be her parents fault with not raising her properly
Why do ppl swear they know pls lives story… folks don’t want to go into too much detail. The devils in the detail. Maybe her parents wants something of her she can’t give. Until you’re in their shoes… be careful of how we judge, life will turn your table and you could be eating from that same plate.
@@koveredbykey8372 they be going hard on these ppl on the comments. It breaks my heart. Have some sympathy! If everyone was coming at them individually they’d probably lose their mind. It comes off so hateful and as having no compassion. They’re going through enough. They don’t need our judgement
I'm sorry that she had that traumatic experience but her story is somewhat confusing because of her short answers. I hope she's blessed with a comfortable place real soon🙏
I know it's the way she answers the questions little words she would use like he keeps threatening makes it seems like it happened multiple times and then she feared for her baby how did she know she was pregnant... it's very confusing but still a shame that this happened to her and I hope she finds the shelter and assistance she needs Blessings🙏🏾
@@SONJASAVEDBYGRACE mee tooo😩; 1 tsp of both tumeric & buttermilk; stir til sorta pasty; place under eyes for 15mins; remove with cotton ball…remove quicker if it irritates; may burn slightly. It helps but kinda have me yellow under there lol. Trial & error lol
Clearly Marcus has no skills to help people who have different circumstances than him. Like, not even discussions about it. A journalist nor therapist judges a person based on their own childhood or family life. This man says everything but what he should to these people with trauma. Like he really didnt understand. As well as the girl being threatened & scared to say she was attacked by the offender right after the assault. He didnt understand that i believe genuinely the 1st few times she tried to explain it to him. Then he acted like he was gonna blame her for not going to the police or telling period. How many victims period get their life threatened or get told some1 will hurt their loved ones if they tell on the offender? That should b easy to remember or believe. Thats universal. He has no business asking these questions on topics like this cuz he just dont got nothing to exchange of great value. Donations r not enuff for a person to relive this. She was even looking at him like he was crazy when she explained her life was in danger & that does happen usually in those situations. It's just a mess. This is sad. I wish the lady the best tho. Once their story is out there, its out there & every1 gonna have their opinion now of her character smh.
Marcus is a guy with a camera who is interviewing people on the streets. If these people want therapy, there are programs around that they could get involved in.
@@blacksilverchair3315and he helps them get involved in those programs off camera if they want the help from my understandings. These ppl just hate him
Idc how homeless and/or hungry I am....I don't have pride but I value my life so you would have to pay me alot more than $10 to be all in my personal face asking personal questions bc the CAs from viewers are not instance or guaranteed
@@yettawinda9851 exactly. They just hate him. Most sit on their fat, lazy azz with no achievements to their name. But can type all manner of hate comments on every video released on this page. If anyone feels they can do a better job, let them pick up a camera and show us.
Pride always come before the fall. I wish she stop saying she can’t sacrifice living with her parents without knowing what they will sacrifice for her. I don’t give a Daym. My children are 23 & 21 and as they embark in this life, I always remind them coming back home is not a disadvantage. It’s a reset to continue on. Praying she get an inflatable bed and go home and get her life in order. To produce a child from SA & but taking away your ability to parent is disheartening 💔Hope she finds herself🙏🏾 and shout out my home state NYNY!!
They probably don't want her bk I'm sure she would if could .Every family is not a good one like yours 😢or they treat you funny so you rather be outside. True story.❤
In California when i see a black couple there always fighting inside the car imagine families Also African men will make a white lady or asian lady become homeless with him that is sad
I’m 49 . I’m not going to lie I got 2 grown girls one with a son and my 19 year old son. My oldest with the son moved out. If she was to have to come back I don’t know if I would be able to deal with it. She’s 31 she’s going to want to have company and do what she wants to do. I do have my grandson while she works and has a place for her and her son. He’s with her on the weekends. And I live in Brooklyn. And these new apartments are not big like the apartments back in the days. I want everyone to live comfortably.
