She has lots of Trauma. I don't judge people anymore because I myself been through a lot through 17-24 I know people who couldn't have a walked a day in my shoes. I happen to be mentally strong but not everyone is unfortunately. I will say these videos do keep my sanity in check when I think about my past bad experiences. I hope everyone on these videos heal from the suffering in their heart.
I understand her pain cause I was 17yrs old when I loss my 2 1/2 month old son to SIDS and my mother accused me as well to the point I did an autopsy that I didn’t want to do just to prove to her that I didn’t rollover on my baby. I left then she forced me back home when my father threatened to have my child support check sent to his house so he could give them to me himself. She later told me that either me or her husband had to go and he wasn’t going nowhere so I said that only leaves me 🤦🏽♀️ When she passed away 11yrs ago, the first thing my stepdad asked me was why was my mother so mean to me cause I’ve never been a bad kid 🤷🏽♀️ I can only imagine it was because of her illnesses with arthritis and the medication had her miserable. I asked her the day before she passed why did she hate me but she claimed that she didn’t and that she loved me 😢 My life was already in shambles being that it was abusive marriage had then spiraled down from there, I had a failed marriage, became homeless, mistreated by family members, my children had to live with their father which made him feel empowered to mistreat me even more cause he was bitter about me divorcing him. God turned it all around for me and my children to be back together again 🙌🏼❤️🙏🏼 Won’t he do it 🥰🥰🥰
So happy you’re united with your children again… no better feeling 🙏🏼 thank you for sharing and I hope you continue to do better for yourself and your children 🤍
@@TyTy_EAstay on course, don’t allow others to take you out of character because that’s what they want in order to say they’re right about you. Within time, it’ll turn around for you as well. Do your part and let God handle the rest 🙏🏼
This is the problem with black families. No one ever wants to admit the mama or women in our families is at fault for letting kids get abused. Also folks always get ur dad side of story cuz u might just be a one night stand baby....
You also have to understand that these older generations were trained to blame the victims over the man... that's why men never had accountability.. their favorite word....if a woman gets pregnant its her fault if shes molested its her fault
Doesn’t matter if it was a one night stand, he knew he had a child. Fathers are supposed to be the protectors, he alo failed this young woman🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
She has such a warm smile. I love how honest she was and it made me proud when she became comfortable enough to start facing the camera as she was answering the questions and telling her story. God bless her and I pray someday she figures it out 💜💯. I just adore when people are honest in these interviews. It helps us understand better ya know.
People don't realize how easy it can be for someone to checkout of life after major trauma. And it literally takes everything in you to want to overcome your circumstances. But to add addiction to all of that is just something almost out of control. But God! I pray for this lady,she needs healing from the passing of her baby and her other kids getting taken. When she recover from this,she gone have a serious story to tell. I also hope her babies are okay and well taken care of too 💕
At 14, decision making and critical thinking isn’t the same as it is for an adult; especially if the child hasn’t been educated. Things are changing, but typically 14 year olds are not as courageous as adults are especially when they know there are potential consequences.
@@ThatAlleyCatsBack maybe in the African American community it’s most , in the Afro Caribbean communities and African communities black mothers most of the time dont treat their daughters bad, they typically don’t even kick them out when they turn 18 which I have heard is a common occurrence among African Americans
Sad how the women in her life failed her. Her mother and Aunt both knew what was going on. Some mothers who were R when they were young feel like it's a right of passage for the same to happen to their daughters. They have no sympathy and will even go as far as to set their own daughters up to be R. Like the interviewer asked, i wouldn't be surprised if the mom did actually make some type of payment arrangement with the uncle. Why else would she allow for her daughter to go alone with the uncle, even though there was no relation? She knew! She didn't care bc it had happened to her when she was a child she internalized this as normal behavior.
Exactly that mother knew that it was a possibility of him doing that to her. She partially wanted it to because it happened to her. Plus some mothers are jealous of their daughters. Ain’t no way I’m sending my daughter of with a unrelated couple let alone anybody that’s been even accused of SA. The hell u tryna get my daughter off alone for nope nope and nope
I agree ! Her mother most likely set her up to get “R” by that man , most likely for $$$ , just sad how her own mother who’s supposed to protect her let that happen, what’s even more strange about this part of her story is the fact he didn’t offer to take his own nieces with them to family reunion smh how suspicious is that and as far as his wife she knew what he was up to all along !
And the women in they life failed them, and the women of today are failing their daughters as well...no changes, but don't give this woman no crutch we all have endured pain and trauma. But ain't no excuses
If we as women can do this ONE THING☝🏾 right now is to PLEASE 🙏🏽 STOP CREATING INNOCENT LIVES, PERIOD. Use birth control, it's free! 8 kids, 8 bums is as unfair to her children as her mother's decision was to bring her into a life of chaos, instability and dysfunction. And people tend to be blindly loyal to their mothers no matter how terrible they are. I don't believe in giving credit just for having sex and giving birth, especially when you do nothing to nurture and protect the life you created. This woman needs help that she'll never afford and there are 8 lives to potentially create another generation of hurt, abandonment, promiscuity, rejection, trauma, dysfunction and pain. This is human tragedy, with no end in sight.
Wish u was in the Miami area. U are the best interviewer out of all that I’ve seen. And I also love how u ask for their cash app/ social media info. U do a great job
Yes, you are absolutely right...and as they say " a problem shared is a problem halved " Because the best solution of any problem is to discuss it so that you can find out where you went wrong and to find an advice and help
Her family failed her! Pray for change. I watch these videos and learn from them. I watch my kids closely and watch their reactions to things. I stay focus. I tell my kids pray. I say I love them. I talk them everyday. Whether its school or family.
Lord please bless this woman. We all think that things n our life is funky sometimes. Some have it worse. U never know what people go through. Have compassion. Amen
I just want everyone to know that is reading this,No matter your past if you are breathing in 2022 & on you are meant to be here. The Most high love's you all. This may sound cold,🥶 people bring this on themselves. I watch the videos because I have a similar experience. I'm 37, I lost my Mom and dad at 12 year's old. My grandmother adopted me, she did the best she can. When I became 16,17 I worked my butt off to have an be better. I met a young man at 21, we married a year later at 22, no children, we are watching this video together now in our warm bed ,15, 16 years later.. Please guys, don't let what other people do to you have you stagnant & feeling unworthy . 💕💖😍🙏🏼🙌
Homelessness is a terrible situation it have became an epidemic here in America it is so many homeless people roaming around although, I have never experienced homelessness myself, but once upon a time not Long ago, I was on the verge of being homeless well the Lord made a way for me therefore I can empathize with them believe me homelessness is no joke.
The damage is real but when we get a relationship with JESUS CHRIST he changes things he does find JESUS CHRIST he will make you brand new GOD will take care of us try JESUS CHRIST he takes the pain away
@@PhDiva02 Get a relationship with JESUS CHRIST we are all a flawed people get a relationship with JESUS CHRIST he will make it better and that's a fact
@@WomanforGOD chile I know people who had a relationship with jesus and lived a life filled with misery til the day they died. go preach that stupid ish to somebody else.
At age 71 , I believe God gave us all a will of our own. Everything I did against God that happened to me I deserved it. It was not until shook off those grave clothes ,did my life change
Would a street cat look as healthy and taken cared of as a domesticated cat? No, stop the foolishness and unnecessary shade. Drugs, and homelessness will make you age horribly. That’s common sense
@@happyme2989 No need for the profanity. Not making something out of anything. Thought processes are different. If that was the thought process a compliment of nice of someone to braid her hair. It looks nice.
I used to think homeless people was lazy and just didn't want to work but what I learned was its not that they be mentally broken because I have those same mental feelings I work everyday stay in a hotel no family and there are days when I wake up I just wanna give up quit my job and die so I understand how
Yea I use to think the same way but it is the stuff people go through with other people & people intentionally abandoning them praying they will fail in life & then turn around talk about the very same people that are praying & hope to do. Don't give up those people who abandoned you are hoping to see you fail & when they see you fall their face will light up like a Christmas tree. People are evil!! Keep going
@@mysticpaths7751 no love will break anybody that's why it's so many violent teens because some of them have nobody to love them and when nobody loves u u don't give love which leads to anger and not caring
You gotta learn to interpret people from their perspective. Although, she didn't really know how, because of the way you were asking questions, her responses were a lil off. She was saying her mother did more for her younger sisters because THEY were the babies. You talnbout some "and why was that?" Be more specific bro. That's why she explained it the way she did, because of how you ask the questions. Really tune in and listen when you talking to these people bro.
OmG I ❤️ her. She is SO REAL & genuine. Got more sense than the grown people that was in her life....may God bless her and be with her. She is so Intelligent....on the st or not. I love her and I wish her nothing but healing and the best❤️
People can be so judgmental. My heart goes out to her, it is hard when you lose a child through illness and then get blamed as the parent for the unpreventable death.
Whatever her mother knew or didn't know about the guy is irrelevant, cuz regardless of his background she knew damn well her daughter shouldn’t be going nowhere with no grown ass man. Period.
#SheIsSoBeautiful . I pray she seeks the therapy she deserves so that she can heal and get on track with a life of love and light.. You are Worthy, Sis. #SendingLoveAndLightToEvery1 #Nameste
Like I said the first time she has beautiful teeth and I want her to know when she's a beautiful person and whoever don't understand that I really don't give a crap
I am a different breed. That last bit of the story... she has The power to take back what he took from her and send him to his ancestors. Women have got to do better. Shame on the women who allow men to get away with this mess
Y'all in here talking about her age but don't you know trauma and hard times can cause you to look older. That's why people use the term "NEVER LOOK LIKE WHAT YOU GOING THROUGH" !
Once again it's hard to feel sorry for her when she has 8 children and 8 baby daddy, learn to know when enough is enough. Homeless 6 years but still manage to keep having children. Smdh. Hope you get it together sis
It's a survival technique like a man getting turned out in prison. That's why I don't judge people no matter their situation. I try to help instead. This is why I need to start my business back full-time.
Mom, wife and pervert were all a part of what happened to the young lady. Wife appears to me to be a voyeur….which leads me to question how many other kids this happened to, just sickening.
That’s why it is important to know Christ!, to break those generational curses and stay prayed up and cover our children with the blood! Jesus loves you all.
She could be with her children (visit) but she couldn’t live in the same house as her children. If they found out 6 months ago that her child passed away from SID, she couldn’t went back to court to get her children back. I pray she is able to get them back!
This is so sad. A similar thing happened to me while growing up. I am a new mother and my fear is for my kids to get touched. I have both a boy and a girl. I have been thinking the hardest to come up with a platform to where we start naming these monsters to protect ournext generation. This has triggered me!
Where are her children? Who’s taking care of them? All you talked about her trauma from sexual abuse drug addiction She’s has 8 children including a 6 month old. What does she do for her Children? Are they in safe place? Are They getting therapy, counseling or education? Ok, the Whole interview was about sexual exploitation and drug use. We get it. But No questions about the system or Her views on braking cycle of homelessness, support of children, mental health etc.
She is actually a very beautiful woman. And very intelligent. The produtivity lost to this country because she wasn't protected and allowed to flourish is immeasurable. This interview kinda broke my heart
@@cristyluv1205 I just don't know what I would have done with my life if my parents allowed me to be raped at age 14. Even with what she has been through she still has a light. She seems like she has intelligence that could have been useful to our community
@@mommolette3607 No one deserves to be raped…. NOONE. But if you’re choosing to sell your body for money, use protection and quit bringing innocent lives into chaos, never even giving them a fair chance in life. She’s not intelligent at all. She’s irresponsible, unprogressive ,extremely selfish lacking ANY type of motherly instinct or direction. It’s disgusting. The ones who are suffering are the crack babies she birthed. Who knows what any of those EIGHT children are going through, the potential abuse and mental issues that are probably going untreated, As she stands her ass on the corner accepting her “blessings”, free as a bird. Intelligent my ass
She is an example that what you do is for a greater cause because you helped her in a way that no amount of money or by giving her housing ever could because you helped her to start releasing the things that she was carrying inside that were keeping her bound to destruction.
