Great video, love your sense of humor! I have a question about the free gift video. I tried to erase my phone number, but that was not possible. I am Norwegian, and I am concerned about the cost of receiving a message on my phone. In Norway it is free to send and receive messages on the phone when sent within the country, but how will it work when I receive a message from the US? Or will the messages be sent through Messenger and be free for all?
@@arianaheisholt4764 I collect cell phone numbers but never text anyone. Don't worry, you won't be texted. If one day I decide to start sending sms you will be able to opt out.
Beautiful video with great content. Here's a summary of the points 👇 1. Do you have the same talking style? *Figurative =less concerned about word structure and more about actions. *Structural =listen to you precisely (pays attention to every word) 2. Are you best friends genuinely? Talk for hours and loose track of time. Conversation flows well. You don't want to stop talking. 3. Do you crave sex the same way? *Physical = When horny they rip clothes off and just have sex once they like you and all walls are down. *Mental emotional= Need to feel something, want to be talked to and wine and dine. Feelings are very important. 4. Are you speaking the same love language? Five love languages are words of appreciation, acts of service, quality time, gifts and touch. Each person have a primary love language and a secondary one too.
Mike you are truly my favorite relationship coach. You're honest and upfront with your advice and don't create unrealistic expectations with your advice. Love you muchly!!🥰🤗
This is MY VERY FAVORITE Dating Coach Video EVER ! This makes MIKE GOLDSTEIN - EZ Dating Coach -- my # 1 FAVORITE Dating Coach ! LOVE your videos !!! Thanks !
Out of all the male coaches helping females, you're the most helpful! I still need help because I love him so much. He called me hun today and said never mind, Natalia, I said you can call me hun. He said, "I don't want to lead you on." Yet he took his shirt off for 20 minutes while he got ready for work lol! This is my husband eventhough he says we broke up. 😊😁
EZ Dating Coach Me too Hon. I’m not giving up. He just had a long over due surgery and now needs healing time. Need to see what positive changes come from him just being able to breathe better! All is not lost. His parents have been married 59 years, grand parents over 75 when they passed, & 2 of his brothers are over 30 years. This bump in the road will pass one way or another. But not because we gave up. That is not an option. He’s still the best, funniest person I know. But change IS coming. I just need to learn how to get out of my head, aka out of my own way, lean back and let him figure it out. If HE lost interest it’s on him, not me. I can’t figure it out for him or knock him over the head aggressively with it either. It just sucks I can’t wake him up. Only so far you can lean back when you live together, & he doesn’t think he has to work for anything because he won the prize. 🤦🏼♀️
@@scrapdaisy691 - ask for what you want when he is feeling better. "You would make me the happiest woman in the world if you did x" then when he does it give him massive appreciation. This is a starting point and then we can do more.
I know he does, I just need him to wake the heck up. And maybe he is. Our daughter & I recently started a business. I make signs and got a big order & guess who is now assembling my sign boards? (Which is good bc he’s so much better than I am!) I get a call from HD ‘This is what they have, what do you need?’ Seems like he’s starting to pay attention🤔. I think he’s feeling better a week post op is helping. There’s still so much here it just irks me that the best part has gone on vacation without us! I can’t get him to read the love language book to save his life. Math wizard but he hates reading because he reads a lot at work. 🤦🏼♀️ I’m going to open the conversation. Then see what he does. That will be an answer.
Wow, talk about "cursing" a relationship. I trust that she managed to change her talking style rather than getting him on board with that kind of talk - yikes. I agree - this is "so important" - where we might want to go is negative and positive in both talking styles - be emotive if that is your style but be positive always because words create reality. I absolutely love #2 - yeah two cell phones and I used up all the battery time on both, then switched to next option. To take #3 even further - it is absolutely horrible being in a "relationship" (using the term loosely) when they just don't want sex - the worst ever! Kissing absolute must. I am definitely not emotional sex person but got to have kissing! Love languages, for sure got to know what he/she is to survive. You are the greatest, Mike, and you definitely need to brag a bit more about your success rate, or maybe we your "fan-girls" should be the one's bragging. Hey, folks, Mike has a success rate second to none, he is the best!
First at all thanks for speaking so clear. English isn't my native language and I really like watch these videos first because I love learning about relationships and also because this way I can practice my listening. You're the best.
Mike… you are the greatest dating coach on the planet! ❤️….and…. you ARE my favourite dating coach out there! You best REALLY REALLY at the best!!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
What caught my ear was the comment that we all want a partner for the rest of our lives. What if we do not? Relationships that are fulfilling and loving and run their course and end nicely can be fine! How to make the relationship intimate while it lasts is a topic no relationship guide ever covers. Such monogamist moralists all....
HaHa - I don't judge anyone and want people to get whatever they are looking for. However, no one will pay me a lot of money to help them find a hook up buddy. :) People who hire me want love.
Thanks Mike. I’m seeing too much info lately about how men retreat after being with a new gal for awhile. It’s been scaring me though I see no signs of that after solid 3 months w new man. I see from this video we may indeed be able to go the distance as we are what you describe here. 🥰. It happened fast but in our 60a we know what we want and don’t have time to waste Whew 😅
Hey Mike .. Since You are "Words of Appreciation " Love Language person ; then we wanted to remind You that : You are the Best and Sweet and Warm and Sincere and From the Heart and Smart Cool Charming Attractive Wise Relationship Coach ... Just for You to know ... Peace & Love ..
Number 3 is why my marriage became sexless...my husband's emotional state effects his sex drive so much it's impossible to keep it. I'm just physically driven
I’m figuring this out in a distance relationship. We are forced to talk to each other and I realised that I emotionally react and say something that I don’t mean. Mean time, I can manage my self in my elevated position not my down position. I liked your opinion on sex: physical , emotional. I think ideally you should have both done people are stronger in one side because they carry bagages. Such as self love or over weight. Physically fit people are more expressive that gives them more confidence. Emotional people on the other hand have more attention to details and quality. More human, spiritual side the love making of physical contact.
I think you are a Great dating coach, and you are my first one and only one who I get advice from. I have been taking my time and I will find the Right Man for me. Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge 🙏😊☺
If you’re going to talk about the differences of how people crave sex, you should also talk about how the differences are felt after sex. That information is also an important component in the report of the creator of this concept. The beginning and the ending go hand in hand of the full sexual interaction for both styles.
@Samanta Ērgle Helena Hart has a video you should watch called The Hidden Factor that Indicates Whether Your Relationship will Last. Also you can search Larry Michel to hear the full description of the two different styles.
This may help going the distance and make it more possible but its naive to think these are the only things. Life is way more complicated than just having these 4 things. 😊
Agreed! It is difficult to make clickable titles that fully tell the story. I am just trying to help women get as close to amazing at dating and relationships as possible. 😀💜💜
We don’t talk the same or view sex the same we have some similar love languages. We have been together 4 years. Things tend to get tense when we don’t understand each other. I have never lived someone so deeply regardless of our differences and want to make it work. Is it possible being so different? What tips would you offer to be able to come to a middle ground where both are fulfilled.
Talking styles, I like to call those language barriers sometimes. When someone use to say "I suppose" to me they meant yes apparently. Before it was explained to me, "I suppose" meant meh, I guess or maybe. I apparently am structural, who knew! LOL I guess I'm a black and white kind of gal and think that grey is a hue that belongs on a wall or the color of furniture..LOL. Thanks Mike!
Interesting and useful concepts. Thank you! I'm totally structural except when it comes to sex - then, I am totally mental and emotional. He is the same. When it comes to talking style, he is nearly silent so I patiently fill the empty space he leaves with conversation I know we both enjoy. I don't think this means we don't have enough in common, rather, there are walls up and there is fear of being hurt from past on both our parts, and patience, faith and good behavior are required on both our parts. Going the distance TBD :)
I cried all night when my bf broke up with me. I searched for help on how I could get him cos the breakup hurt me so bad. then I came across this India spell temple online. I ordered a love spell from the temple and it work, I was not expecting that to work because I just have it a try with a token$. I was surprise it just worked. So I take out this time to share this online. If you in same situation email (indianspelltemple@gmail.com)
My bf and I are having problem, I’m doing no contact to get him talk and back together. I think new job and Pokémon go destroyed our relationship. Wish the video was there before. :(
I cried all night when my bf broke up with me. I searched for help on how I could get him cos the breakup hurt me so bad. then I came across this India spell temple online. I ordered a love spell from the temple and it work, I was not expecting that to work because I just have it a try with a token$. I was surprise it just worked. So I take out this time to share this online. If you in same situation email (indianspelltemple@gmail.com)
And someone I have been exploring is making me crazy asking me what every thing in-text means... But!!! It's good to clarify and it makes me realize everything has to follow with context, I'm figurative. I try to be more correct english speaking since I'm in another country, but because I'm so Figurative, they have to know enough about Anericans and our language. but you're right. It's draining on both sides as it's been prefaced. I think I've decided no on this talking style. I saw larry's video some months ago. There's another that we flow. This is good advice.
I found it very informative I knew about the love Styles but I didn't quite understand the thing about sex Styles I mean I could see the differences but I never really thought about it. Thanks for the food for thought.
When a man tells you after 3 weeks of texting.. Then he tells you that he is married to his job.. What do you do ,keep texting and wait for him to come back . He left for over seas for 2 months.. l'd like to see what you think about this..
May I offer two points on your compatibility it's from my understanding on sexual compatibility there are peopke that have sex versus Make love and that it feels worlds apart. And second style that must be considered is attachment style. Good luck😌
Quick question- how can I open my heart again, I am trying to go on a date but I’m having a problem to fall again since I got hurt 9 years ago from my past
Hey Julie, don't over think it right now. Go on the date, have fun, and that is the first step. Once you complete step one, then we can work on step 2. 💜💜
EZ Dating Coach, I am trying and tried but they all have the same comment after few months of dating- they say that they don’t feel that I love them or have feelings on them which for deep inside it’s true, I feel like paralyzed inside like not being normal ( I moved on already long time ago but it leaves me paralyzed)
I’m curious about #1... I think I emote figuratively but react structurally. Is that possible? And is it possible to still make it work long term if you are aware of your different styles? Although I think my partner sort of does the same thing as me...emotes figuratively and definitely responds structurally. I’m going to pay closer attention to this. Thanks Mike for this video, very informative!
People are usually 1 or the other. I talk about that principle and the other four big ones in the following video. I think this information should help you a lot: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-pOmB2DMchds.html&t=
Oh, god, yes talking style. I'm literal (structural) and people who are figurative and meander all over the place instead of saying what they mean and meaning what they say drive me crazy! They're either overly dramatic, like in your example, or they want you to guess from their bread crumb trail what they're actually talking about! And yes Larry Michel is genius.......
Is there hope being with someone who has the opposite talking and sexual style? Time does fly by when we're together and can talk for hours, we also have identical primary love language.
Mike you rock the best catch ever I never herd of this I’m very confused dose he generally love me he asked me if I loved him during a very venerable moment I did not lie he told me he did we been best friends since June 7th
EZ Dating Coach you known Mike you are more then you rock you are freaking awesome he disappeared for almost one month then I let him know it was very nice to get to know and be his friend 100% but I’m going out to give this other guy a shot and I told him he is 100%replaceable and I mean it 100% he can’t stand it he is on his toes very responsible and the intimacy well you know where I’m going we crave physical and mentally
Hmmm now I just need to find out if we share the same love language. We have all the others in common...I’m the one who was scared last week. I realized I was scared because this relationship seems like the real deal. Now I’m super excited cause I accepted it for what it is. So just enjoying it now ☺️😎🥰
