I always thought when a man was in love with you he sent flowers, sent candy, bought you expensive gifts and took you on exotic vacations. I have been married for 54 years (I was 19 and he was 21). My husband did none of these. What he did do was respect me, took care of me during two bouts of breast cancer and bladder cancer, does laundry, pays bills, when we brought our newborn home from the hospital, he let me sleep and got up with the baby every night and fed and rocked him. He had a full time job but did all this because he loved me and our baby. He is my Rock. I thank God everyday for him. Three years ago he had Quadruple bypass surgery. He also suffered two mini strokes but by the grace of God, he survived both and is doing very well. I am so very blessed.
Your kind words give others hope and faith that good human (specially Man) exists in this world. And I’m glad that you have one of them. May Almighty bless you both with good health and prosperity.
I still watch it even though I know he absolutely loves me. So many men told me they love me but only he proves me his love every single day. So I watch it and remind myself he's very special
I like what you said. I am someone who will be alone forever .... not loved by anyone. My family physically disabled me in childhood and now I'm crippled forever. I will never experience being loved by a man and will never experience being married to a man. I can't have children either because of the damage to my spine. So, if you have a good loving man be grateful that you have him.
1. He devotes time to you & invests effort into the relationship often. Priorities 2. He protects you, would give his life for you 3. Not manipulative, will listen to your feelings. Accepts you the way you are 4. He tells you he loves you
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
You just described my dog. LOL 1) when I'm upset he takes me to my favourite place. 2) Chases away mad dogs and pulls me up to walk on the pavement. 3) He listens to my whining without interrupting. 4) He looks at me like I'm the only one.
I lived in a town house with my ex-boyfriend and one day out of the blue someone kicked in our front door. My boyfriend jumped behind me and literally used me as a human shield. In that moment I knew that he was not the one.
This is the moment i have realized i have never been loved by someone. (Update: Now, I am in relationship for 2 years. All these signs are true and he is doing all of these. Love will come and find you. If you love yourself, discover yourself, love will come to you naturally. Just believe in yourself and life flow❤ )
I wish I cn find a guy like my dad. He really loved my mom. On his sick bed before taking his last breath, he once again reminded my sister and I to take care of our mom when he is gone.
jane chungu Most likely communication, respect, honesty, compromise and loving each other how they truly are. Relationships have problems and take work but both people need to make that happen. Unfortunately a lot of relationships out here are one-sided with too many selfish people in them. People say they fall out of love but I wonder if it was really the person that they love or did they love what the person does for them. In my opinion real love never dies and this woman and her husband are proof of that. Congratulations to her and her husband☺
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
@@brianhardwick4673 umm I don’t think doing that is right...if you really love her then you would trust her. I know it must feel horrible thinking that she would do something but I mean still
I remember while dating my now husband, how we figured out we loved each other beyond like or infatuation. We told each other everything after we became close. The worst regrets, the family hurts, why we struggle with certain things… we shared it all. We agreed that if we even do wrong in a big way someday the love won’t change. We won’t keep mistakes secret; and we’ll encourage each other to grow to become better TOGETHER ☀️ If honesty and the safe space to talk about everything with that person doesn’t exist in the relationship. Move on!! If they can’t accept your worst, your past, the journey to become who you presently are… then they do not deserve you.
One thing I always hold on to, that my mom taught me. "A man who loves you will say I LOVE YOU with so much conviction, that it would be like its the first time you hear him say those words to you. Even after 20 years of marriage"
At least how many months in a relationship... I. Confused really, in my current situation it's been 6months but says he feels like he hasn't achieved much in his life thus he hasn't invited me to his place
I found someone who passed all of these signs! He is even coming to see me after my surgery and offered to be there to take of me!!! Its real just believe! It can happen!
I always have said that actions speak louder than words. My ex gave me all the words I wanted to hear but the actions loudly said hate, disrespect, manipulation. And I am showing by my actions that he is history.
My ex narcissist did all of these signs in the love bomb stage. By the time the devalue and discard came around, I was paralyzed by cognitive dissonance. I really thought he loved me and that I was the only one. My point is, be careful, always.
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
@LOVE♏️♌️ I TOTALLY DISAGREE I HAVE A VERY LOVING PARTNER I JUST HAD EYE SURGERY YESTERDAY AND MY HUSBAND IS VERY NURTURING TAKING CARE OF MY EVERY NEED CLEANING MY EYE 👁 AND PUTTING THE MEDICINE IN.. HES MADE SURE IM TAKEN CARE OF BEFORE WORK IN THE MIDDLE OF WORK AND THEN HE TAKES OVER NEVER LEAVING ME ALONE... HES VERY SUPPORTIVE DEVOTED AND DEDICATED TO BEING MY PARTNER💍🔐 I LOVE YOU MARTIN I APPRECIATE EVERYTHING THAT YOU DO FOR ME MY LOVE🐻🐸🐣🐒💫🌈
I have been with my husband for 52 years and he just passed away and he was the love of my life and he lived me the same we were "TWO HEARTS BEATING AS ONE"
I was married to my husband for 18 whole years and he always pit me and our 4 children first in everything he did. Totally spoilt me. He died 6 months ago and our lives turned upside down. For the first time in almost 2 decades, I am suddenly talking to the plumber, the carpenter, the mechanic and other repair men. He did everything for us and more.
The same mine! My husband died this New Years day! Very sorrow and painful!😢 he was the best husband and father! He was a great God fearing man..We had a healthy and happy family! He spoiled me also..😢
I am a man and I do have to admit what he's saying is 100% true. We don't act to protect our lady but it strikes in our head immediately when she's in danger as a mother does to her baby. And the last point is 200% correct. Our body wants to shut down.
I grew up in a dysfunctional and broken home and never believed that a man could/would put me before himself. I was so blessed to find the man that would gladly put me first over 6 years ago. I know he loves me for me, regardless of how I look or act at times. He's been proud of me when I looked like a fat troll carrying our two children, when I dealt with postpartum psychosis, and all the times I couldn't see my own worth. Two kids, multiple family deaths, a lost job, illness, and 6 years later we are more in love than ever. There is someone out there for everyone, and that initial wave of love won't decrease over time or during challenging times, but instead it will become stronger.
You guys truly are blessed! Never in my 21 years of living have I even seen my parents even hold hands. Sometimes I wonder why they even are still married. :/
My hubby does all of this. When our daughter was born,hole in lung, in NICU,after emergency Csection, after I got home,was in bed with him,he was so upset our newborn daughter was alone at the hospital, he asked me if I minded that he got up and went to the hospital to visit her. (parents could visit anytime). He went to be with her. Melts my heart thinking about it even though it was 18 years ago now.
Brian. The only thing I wanna say here is that you're love. The way you say all things, and gently teach and the energy you put in and that one handsome smile. Too refreshing to see honestly
I am blessed. I've been Married for the second time to a Man who worships the ground I walk on. We've been Married since January of 1989. We both Love God and He is in the middle of our relationship which makes both of us stonger and if the emotions are slipping I know I can ask of God and He always pours more love for him into my soul and into His.
Happy to say my husband does all of the four actions discussed and more to let me know how much I am loved. My husband does not just show/tell me once in a while, he makes sure to let me know every day throughout the day. I am truly blessed.
My husband is was extremely nervous of me when I use to work for a hotel at night. He would always remind me to take my gun with me to work. Thankfully, nothing ever happened...other than some rude ass customers. And when men staying there hit on me, I always stayed professional so they never got too friendly. Had a few that asked to take me out to dinner but I was quick to tell them I'm married and showed them my ring finger. I'm lucky to have my husband. Always texting me to make sure I'm ok. If he gets worried whenever I don't text back, he calls.❤😘
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
@@samanthacatcher7838 well I think feeling insecure is just human nature...I need to be showered with love on a daily else I’ll think the connection is no longer there ,but at least I’m more at ease knowing her location always and getting to see her conversations on social media. All thanks to 7hackman on Instagram
I'm so glad that my boyfriend is really like that 😭❤️ and I love him so much. Even with my panic attacks he goes straight to the bed and hold me and tells me how much he loves me until I felt better. We are so connected since we met. Now in distance we are more in love every day. ❤️ I'm so happy with him.
Your video made me cry tears of joy! I'm gonna text my husband at work right now and just say thank you and I appreciate him very much, and I can't help but tell him I love him so very much! You just described my husband!
My boyfriend is that man...and I think the reason people fail to find that man is because they spend too much time looking for superficial things like good looks and money...but I am so happy that I was able to get over this and finally found a real man. At 25 years I had my first boyfriend and I am so proud of him
Sometimes adoration can be lethal. Always be wary of patterns of behavior. Narcissists do the very worst they can possibly do to a person, and sometimes, it simply is Not safe to forgive that individual face to face. Personal safety must always be kept in mind. Narcissists don't find twin flames or soul mates - they simply move onto the next individual whose energy they want to devour. Belittling a another person's experience doesn't shine the light on you at all ... for those of us who have experienced that atrocity in our lives, negative comments by others prove as a warning sign. Brian Nox, you do provide some great information, and what you have said is treasured. Thank you - it reminds us there are still very good people out there - we simply need to pay closer attention :)
Great video, as usual. I own a few of your books too. Awesome advice. I'm dating a man who does these. #2 example. We were holding hands, walking to the parking lot of a large mall. We stepped from the sidewalk, and he squeezed and pulled my hand toward him as a protective gesture. It was subtle. I told him I appreciated this gesture. He didn't even realize he'd done it. One thing he said is he really likes that I tell him I appreciate what he does for me.
Nope! It's because men like that don't attract women nowadays, some women goes further saying "he's too nice". Well it's the world we live in today. Good things are less valuable while bad things are more valuable
@@fabkings7612 I don't see that at all especially here in Colorado guys just want sex and if you don't give it up then the guy will find the next female that will.....then get this When that female gives them AIDS or HIV then they say all women are hoes or all women are bad. It's really messed up. Good women like me are overlooked just because we are not hoes or wanting to have sex with random guys.
I was married to my love partner for just shy of 34 years. I NEVER doubted that he loved me. This video had totally illuminated that. I will never settle for less if someone else can bless my life with that kind of unselfish love. Thank you for reaffirming my joyful marriage. I miss that security of knowing he always had my back.
My ex used to read me a book until i fell asleep. He sang songs to me and wrote songs for me. We always said i love you at least 2 a day. He would hug me super tight and kiss my forehead when i would cry. He was amazing until he slowly stopped doing all of that. He left me 2 days before vday. I miss the way we used to be.
Thank you so much for all the valuable content and information. Your channel is very inspiring and helpful. Relationships now can be a bit of a pickle it’s amazing to have people out here giving out tips to help us young women
Mines to, when I was really sick he saw me at my worst, made me hot water bottles, cooked for me, cleaned up my vomit, played my favorite music, massaged me, told me I was beautiful. He said he would wait for me if I die and we can be together again in paradise. I'm selfish I fully expect him to keep his promise, I don't want to live without him, he is my forever soul mate. Thank you to my God for my greatest blessing and your Son Christ Jesus for making it all possible, to love my husband forever. I can't wait to live the real life in paradise and have more babies that look exactly like him.
@@happyhiker965 oh please. Comments like yours bother me. I watched my mother wither away to half a person when the love of her life - my father - passed away. Be strong in yourself as one day you too could be heartbroken.
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
You are pretty...search for the only true love for all eternity....JESUS CHRIST .... if you know him you'll know what true love is.. and HE never leaves us
yeah you're right!!! find a man who loves you...just what i did... I don't waste time with people I like most but for me, I focus on people who loves me most...
Hey, what u r saying is actually a contradiction because if you are with someone who loves you, and you may not be in that much love with him, what about him then? Is he not with someone he loves but who actually does not like him the way he does? Is this not being selfish? In the same way, you can be with someone you love, but who may not feel that much love for you....relationships are complicated.
Fontbuena Fleurdeliz I learnt that after 3 heartbreaks and I'm glad I learnt it . Even princess Diana taught her kids to never let go if someone truly loves you . Hold on to that person.
Surprisingly, number four was the one that shocked me and opened my eyes. Thank you so very much for posting this/sharing this with all of us, this truly means a lot to me and I would love to believe also to others as well!!!!!!! THANK YOU AGAIN!!!!!!!
Chad Massey not necessarily. It depends. Sometimes you quit seeing each other or not. If there is still some value to it like you get along together very well (which woild be kinda strange if you got divorced) then yes. If not then not. I have ppl whom i dont wanna see anymore. Its hard to do it at first but it is always better if you know that in the long term you dont want to have to do anything with that person anymore. Though in my case those were school friends and such. You live and you learn and i like my new surroundings a lot better ;)
I am female and I don't wish to be 'adored' by anyone. Simple compatibility and friendship are more important. But we live in a throw-away world where a replacement is a click away on Tinder. Everyone has too many options which makes people more discontent than they realize.
That's why I took myself off of Facebook and other forms of social media. I only want a guy I can meet in real life and have a genuine connection with.
I have been blessed as to finding two men in my life time. I lost my first one a, service man, to cancer. I have been blessed to find another gentleman, again a former service man. This one is all the above mentioned. We are like a mirror to each other. It is such a glorious feeling. We are both loved so deeply and pasionately. I can not wait to see what the future holds for us. I LOVE YOU DARRIN S. E.
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
