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5 Behaviors That Destroy Relationships - Relationship Killer 

Ismael Gomez III
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5 Behaviors That Destroy Relationships - Relationship Killer
Relationship Advice For WOMEN
Whether you're currently in a relationship or navigating the complexities of dating, these insights are essential for fostering meaningful connections.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Topic Summary
00:41 Behaviors That Destroy Relationships 01
02:00 Behaviors That Destroy Relationships 02
03:42 Behaviors That Destroy Relationships 03
05:22 Behaviors That Destroy Relationships 04
06:23 Behaviors That Destroy Relationships 05
08:17 Ending
It's natural to feel defensive when receiving feedback, especially from someone we care about deeply. However, reacting with hostility can escalate conflicts and erode the foundation of trust in a relationship. Instead, approach criticism with an open mind and a willingness to learn and grow together.
Transparency and honesty are important, but so is respecting each other's boundaries. Healthy relationships are built on a foundation of trust and understanding, where both partners feel comfortable expressing themselves authentically without fear of judgment or intrusion.
Insecurity can manifest in various ways, such as jealousy, constant reassurance-seeking, or an overreliance on external validation. We must recognize these feelings within ourselves and cultivate self-love and confidence. When we feel secure in ourselves, we can contribute positively to the relationship and support our partner's growth and happiness.
Relationships should not be transactional but based on generosity, empathy, and mutual respect. Instead of focusing on who did what, foster a culture of appreciation and understanding. By prioritizing the health and happiness of the relationship over individual grievances, we can create a more fulfilling and harmonious partnership.
Creating a safe space for dialogue allows both partners to express their feelings and resolve conflicts effectively. By fostering a culture of communication and understanding, we can strengthen the bond between us and our partners and navigate challenges together with grace and compassion.
Ismael Gomez III
I'm a Cuban-American author, coach, and speaker.
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@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 месяца назад
Please support our RU-vid channel by Subscribing - ru-vid.com It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.
@ykt4343
@ykt4343 3 месяца назад
I have subscribed and I always wait for your videos. Make more videos please. Your videos really help. Can you please make a video to help with guys who play mind games and don't express their feelings. I am a very expressive person and I know someone who doesn't even like to show he cares most of the time but the second I back away or back off from him he starts to show care and it's like he gets scared that I will back away completely. But I think it's really unfair to keep doing that to me. Can you help please? Thank you so much for your videos in helping to understand men better and thank you in advance for helping me.
@AnimeN7
@AnimeN7 3 месяца назад
My men is still wearing the ring i gave him , what is the meaning of this
@makelifematter1896
@makelifematter1896 11 дней назад
Red flags paid off for me my X and I never hid our phones but then one day I walked by his ringing phone and when I picked it up to take over to him as he was sitting on the couch he said "why are you looking at my phone...sadly the cheater was caught...
@mariadelpilargarcia9561
@mariadelpilargarcia9561 3 месяца назад
I do not remember giving silent treatment to anybody! It is horrible. Thanks for explaining what you use it for and how to react
@Newtonwilson-yw4kg
@Newtonwilson-yw4kg 3 месяца назад
Great video. You see, silent treatment is never a mature way to handle differences. Always best to talk about things. There is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it.
@oglaskubuot
@oglaskubuot 3 месяца назад
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things!!!
@Newtonwilson-yw4kg
@Newtonwilson-yw4kg 3 месяца назад
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@oglaskubuot
@oglaskubuot 3 месяца назад
I hope this works for me too, because i am going to look her up right away
@Newtonwilson-yw4kg
@Newtonwilson-yw4kg 3 месяца назад
You definitely should. You wont regret it
@Braveh3artGirl
@Braveh3artGirl 3 месяца назад
@@oglaskubuotsometimes the best thing you can do for her is to become a better listener ❤ she usually will be very forward throughout the relationship and give you ideas of how to love her the way she wants and needs. Think backwards to those times. God bless
@MissHellKitten
@MissHellKitten 3 месяца назад
The truth is, we all act sh*tty in certain moments, and thats completely normal. Its not about being or even finding the perfect partner. Its about being and finding someone whos willing to grow, adapt, and upgrade themselves, when faced with the challenges and obstacles in life, while sharing life with someone else, and working together with that person, to build a safe place at home where you can both feel safe to be vulnerable and relax, at the end of the day. A place where you dont need to keep up the charade that you show the rest of the world all day long. Its about communicating, even when its hard. Because its usually the most difficult conversations that end up being the most important conversations. No one wants to come home from a long day of work and be talked down to, complained at, and annoyed. Nobody. You can tell someone that you dont like something they are doing, without being negative about it. You wouldnt like it if someone was doing this to you every day, after you just had to deal with your horrible boss, and useless co-workers all day long. So why would you put someone else through that? Listen, if you have to repeatedly tell someone that something they are doing is hurting you, or affecting you negatively, and you dont want to feel that way anymore, and they arent working together with you to figure out a win/win solution, where neither of you are forced to accept your needs not being met, then they dont actually care about you, or the relationship, and you should probably get out now, before 20 years goes by and all youve got out of the relationship is resentment and hate. People should co-operate, compromise, and grow when they are together. You cant force someone to change. Ever. They need to be willing to put the effort in, to find a solution together with you, so that no one is left feeling unheard, unimportant, unloved, and hurt. Remember its not you vs. your partner. Its you and your partner vs. the problem. Because if only one of you "wins" (be it an argument or whatever), then its the relationship thats losing.
@trishdavi7049
@trishdavi7049 День назад
Holy. When I started reading this I thought you should be a counsellor . Part way through though we hen referring to boss and co workers....maybe the person needs a better workplace and the partner at home doesn't want to hear about the day to day badness, of which they have no control, dumped on them. Perhaps avoiding dumping day to day stress factors on a partner would be better.
@starlight705
@starlight705 3 месяца назад
I'm watching you because i want to prepare myself for my future half. I hope God will give my other half.
@lans2226
@lans2226 3 месяца назад
The best relationship is the relationship to yourself. Both couples must be whole/ complete before they enter into a commitment, otherwise it wont work. Thus, know who you are, what you want, and where you're heading.❤
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 месяца назад
Much wisdom in your words.
@mahogoneywaites2172
@mahogoneywaites2172 2 месяца назад
Thank you so much for sharing these videos! The are very inspiring and helpful 🙏🏽
@gratefulblessed4918
@gratefulblessed4918 4 дня назад
I like your delivery, and sharing a bit of your own personal work.
@DivyaSingh-mm1pk
@DivyaSingh-mm1pk 3 месяца назад
Thank you sir 😊🎉 Sure I will follow all your tips .
@monalisalowery148
@monalisalowery148 4 дня назад
Thank you for sharing your time and consideration
@vartikaguleria5752
@vartikaguleria5752 3 месяца назад
Thank you Ismael for your explicit explanation & guidance once again :)
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 месяца назад
Glad to see you're learning and growing from my content.
@pariadavoudian4849
@pariadavoudian4849 3 месяца назад
Thank you so much that was great 😊
@pamelabough2008
@pamelabough2008 6 дней назад
Gaslighting is gaslighting! Someone constantly telling you what you do, say or think is wrong. Telling lies and saying it's not lead me to find out a day after we broke up he was telling lies about another woman being with him. Kept saying she was an "old family friend". Women are not idiots.
@sambandamcecilia1979
@sambandamcecilia1979 3 месяца назад
Thank you Sir.
@superamanda
@superamanda 3 месяца назад
This is an excellent video.
@jhumasarker1859
@jhumasarker1859 3 месяца назад
tnx for ur valuable information 🙂
@alalice7484
@alalice7484 3 месяца назад
Great video❤
@rubynsumor1477
@rubynsumor1477 3 месяца назад
Thanks alot
@user-vz9yi5ob4v
@user-vz9yi5ob4v 3 месяца назад
Thank you coz u have expressed many things that wud make things better. Yes each one is diff but one needs space n communication is the key it's good to respect ur partner n also appreciate things they do for one another npatience is the key. Thanks ❤🌹🙏
@AishwaryaSharmahere
@AishwaryaSharmahere 2 месяца назад
Silent treatment - stay unaffected! Thats a bad solution. As i i did it for days. But for how long u should react that you are unaffected and how many times. I have been given Silent treatment multiple times i cant even imagine…like 100s of times. Hence dont be with those who do it! Also i have never done it to my parents siblings and etc!
@YogisBoo
@YogisBoo 3 месяца назад
Hello Ismael!😂 I just found this site yesterday and have seen maybe 12-15 episodes. I think most of your advice is quite valid if not really entertaining. There are a couple of things i would really like to discuss with you about your videos, but I'd rather not say them in such a public forum. I really don't know much about how to send you an.email, but if you'd like to tell me where I could find an address to use, that would be awesome. Thanks so much!
@Leveled2586
@Leveled2586 3 месяца назад
Yep
@JenniferBurbank
@JenniferBurbank 4 дня назад
True…
@psychogirl3919
@psychogirl3919 3 месяца назад
I've never checked my partner phone because if there's trust issues i prefer single Being in a relationship need to know each other very well it's very important 😊 But if u both like each other It is better prefer dating before relationship
@Annamelanie
@Annamelanie 3 месяца назад
Ismael, where you have been 10 years ago!?!? Like your honesty and approach to women that maybe would not be lisen if you would talk in some other way. (Sorry I am bad in English, never learn it in my life.) Before I was a wreck and needed a man in life just too feel alive. Then I met God. Now I am single, for a 7-8 years, and feel bether now when I am no longer "emotional vampire" or "drama queen". Like your work and hope that girls and women will learn from you!
@user-nm6bs9ru6x
@user-nm6bs9ru6x 3 месяца назад
This applies to men and women.
@jennalavena
@jennalavena 3 месяца назад
i don’t believe a man should love me unconditionally. as much as i’d WANT that. a man loving me under certain conditions teaches me to be a better version of myself. men like mature and emotionally stable women. so if a man loves me while i’m all over the place, it’s okay if he didn’t because i don’t blame him. it’s a lot loving someone who isn’t stable. no one is obligated to give me the amount of love that i want
@madelynsage8728
@madelynsage8728 7 дней назад
I agree. I don’t think love can be 100% unconditional between couples, but that’s okay. It just means that if someone starts treating me badly, I have the right to leave them.
@jennalavena
@jennalavena 7 дней назад
@@madelynsage8728 yes!!
@ellieon
@ellieon 3 месяца назад
Thanks for this message.
@Serenity_escapes
@Serenity_escapes 3 месяца назад
I don't think unconditional love is realistic for relationships outside of childern and pets. As people we set boundaries and those boundaries need to be respected. Now are there people that we will love regardless of their flaws absolutely. But I consider that to be true accepting love not unconditional
@taliatut
@taliatut 3 месяца назад
This. And I would add, SMALL children.
@trishdavi7049
@trishdavi7049 День назад
Unconditional love is not just a fantasy. Some parents have that for their children. Some relationships that endured the test of time do too. A soldier returned from war injured. He did not love his wife any less nor did she love him less. He asked their friend to satisfy her in bed because due to his injuries he no longer could. He was whole when they married, and though he no longer was due to his employment/ deployment, it never stopped him from wanting her happiness to be fullfilled. Without jealousy, without self pity, they loved each other unconditionally. In your points you said to walk away and return when the arguement is less heated. Then you numbered the silent treatment. Theres a fine line when the pausing an argument becomes the silent treatment. These points go both ways and are not just what women do. A question for you is how do you stop a person from generally exaggerating in discussions where they repetatively use the words always and never?
@AarahAidah6644
@AarahAidah6644 3 месяца назад
Reward him when he is open and communicating I didnt understand the solution
@angelm6497
@angelm6497 14 дней назад
My X had a favourite one liner that would really hit my angry button: "Your in a C***t of a Mood!". Usually after he had Pis**d me off. 2 reasons, he was the source of my mood and the fact I hated the "C" word. Eventually I turned that one on him!
@julieolson1402
@julieolson1402 3 месяца назад
Your comment about "unconscious men" could use clarification.
@user-ny9wt5ex6j
@user-ny9wt5ex6j 6 дней назад
But at times these men don't even allow u to move out without him yet all expenses on me while him he hangs alone is that right?
@user-ko9dc4zs6s
@user-ko9dc4zs6s 3 месяца назад
🎉🎉🎉
@ykt4343
@ykt4343 3 месяца назад
Make more videos please. Your videos really help. Can you please make a video to help with guys who play mind games and don't express their feelings. I am a very expressive person and I know someone who doesn't even like to show he cares most of the time but the second I back away or back off from him he starts to show care and it's like he gets scared that I will back away completely. But I think it's really unfair to keep doing that to me. Can you help please? Thank you so much for your videos in helping to understand men better and thank you in advance for helping me.
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 месяца назад
Go check here on my channel the video I made about emotionally unavailable men.
@ykt4343
@ykt4343 3 месяца назад
@SaveTheMessenger Thank you very much for your reply. I have seen your video on emotionally unavailable men and although I did find it to be useful I am still unclear on why they play mind games. Could you help me understand this? As if he is always showing he doesn't care then why does he start showing care when I start backing off? Thank you once again. And please make more videos to help us please.
@treasureandasong
@treasureandasong 3 месяца назад
I just don't think the average mind gamer wakes up and says 🤔 I think I am going to learn how to not play mind games, let me Google that.
@michellemcfarland80
@michellemcfarland80 3 месяца назад
👍👍
@HateYou1111
@HateYou1111 3 месяца назад
None of this is possible with a narc
@vidhyapooja7071
@vidhyapooja7071 3 месяца назад
I just have few questions?? How can I get in touch? Mail Id??
@Jan-qv8ku
@Jan-qv8ku 2 месяца назад
The silent treatment is extremely abusive and I will never tolerate it again.
@JenniferBurbank
@JenniferBurbank 4 дня назад
🤗
@treasureandasong
@treasureandasong 3 месяца назад
I am not taking any more advice from men. I am a woman and do not need a man to tell me how to be one. Love me or don't. I don't care. My edit is: there are several things that are genderless that are most important kindness, do not be rude, trusts, tell the truth, do not get angry easily to name a few. The part about being a woman cannot be known to a man nor can the part about being a man be known to a woman but the parts that are important that I listed are what both genders should strive for.
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 3 месяца назад
I personally listen to many women with the hopes of becoming a better partner, brother and son. But I understand if you feel overwhelmed.
@treasureandasong
@treasureandasong 3 месяца назад
​@@SaveTheMessengeri edited my comment and I think that probably could cover over alot. 🤷‍♀️
@cynthiafreeman2995
@cynthiafreeman2995 3 месяца назад
I’m not having sex CLEARLY Idc about it
@azsuehayes
@azsuehayes 2 дня назад
Sounds like coddling an emotionally immature person. It's not a good strategy in my experience.
@veronicamaliner8387
@veronicamaliner8387 3 месяца назад
Men that do not talk and they give silent treatment is very immature If you talked without screaming he should not be silent
@sarahb9106
@sarahb9106 3 месяца назад
No sorry critism wrong or right !!!! Hey man u not know us women are always right listen toyour mother son, they have it right !!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@audreypistor4610
@audreypistor4610 5 дней назад
Why is always about the women changing what about the man who is a narcissist?
@audreypistor4610
@audreypistor4610 5 дней назад
Why is it always about the women what about the man who is a narcissist?
@survival6614
@survival6614 3 месяца назад
Ismael, you are so cute. If you shave your facial hair, you will be so handsome ! I love your videos, they are educating me; I was never taught any of this male knowledge in school.
@yasmineali9862
@yasmineali9862 3 месяца назад
😂 He looks good with the goatee and stache though...
@Melody-bv4eh
@Melody-bv4eh 3 месяца назад
Facial hair is whats more attractive tho lol atleast for us young girls
@yo07
@yo07 3 месяца назад
No, you’re fine just the way you are!! You don’t need to change anything! 😊❤
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