Buddha says ‘‘Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace”. We hope that you enjoyed this video and for more videos to help you find success and happiness using beautiful philosophical wisdom, don’t forget to subscribe. Thanks so much for watching.’
This is religious thinking. God will forgive them. And I can be in peace without them that are evil I don’t need to forgive them when they did it knowingly to hurt someone. It’s nice to say I forgive but nobody can and nobody will for real only the Divine
I say I don’t forgive until they realise their mistake. I have peace of mind like this. Believe it or not. I am my own master. I know myself and I don’t follow what is not logic.
I have been tested in my life, by people who want to cause me hurt, I know life is suffering, and it has been difficult to find a balance between accepting toxic people and trying to help and better them, sometimes it just can't be done, you have to accept that with time and still wish nothing but the best for them in this life, we can't judge other peoples mindsets, everyone is who they are, love should be unconditional, but stay true to yourself and keep your own peace of mind, over everything 🙏
Excellent motivational moral story for today's generation where life is full of twists & turns which not only boosts our confidence but also makes us stronger to face challenges in all our lives
I feel that people find it easier to label others "difficult" or "toxic" rather than reflecting on how they approach others. Yes, people will make mistakes and will treat you unfairly occasionally. The book The chimp paradox illustrates brilliantly how our brain works.
Mistakes are not done on purpose others love hurting u because their spirit is far from The Divine goodness. They know what they do and they have to do it because is who they are.
Isn't it possible their spirit is only far from their divine good, because of pain and experiences that differ from ours? When we see that and love that, they feel divine love and might recognize it. If we withhold i, we again just spread the negative.That doesn't mean we can't have boundaries. But boundaries held with love and understanding stay up pretty much by themselves. And labeling with those unkind words, almost holds them there. Not allowing them to change and grow as a person. They might never change, but there's a better chance than when we pile on judgment.
For passive aggressive attitude, see their behavior as it is meant to be "aggressive" and confront them with it. Even when they deny it keep confronting them with it, that usually shakes them and makes them rethink what they did/said. I find that passive aggressive behavior usually comes from people who are ignorant of their own feelings about a situation. They may not even realise they're being passive aggressive and so you keeping confronting them with it makes them aware. They're then free to either be more aggressive about it or try to change. It's not your problem, it's theirs. With silent treatment behaviour, just keep silent. Again, it's not your problem. They're the one's ignoring facing their own feelings by being silent, it's not your fault. Face silence with silence until they decide to talk.
‘‘Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace”. -Buddha- This was the quote that helped me calm my mind when someone hurt me. Just let them go
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Buddha used to always talk about the Human Psyche, He always meant to forgive anything and everything for your own Inner Peace, Reporting them is also necessary for the Peace in a Society.
They mentioned it in video twice. Its not about actively forgiving them or letting them free card to abuse you again. Its about getting the piece of your mind and letting it go. Dont dwell on it forever. You acknowledge why they did it and accept it already happen and cannot be changed. It doesnt mean its ok.
Forgiving them doesn't mean allowing them to hurt you again. For example: of one of your good friends lied to you. Forgiving them doesn't mean ignoring the fact that they lied. It means you acknowledge that this person lied to you for whatever reason, do they still deserve to be your friend? if yes then you forgave them and give them another chance, if the lie was to a point that you can't accept, then you forgive them and let them go because you can't be their friend anymore. Forgiving them means you're not actively angry and holding grudges every time you see this person, but you accept that they lied to you and you don't want to be their friend anymore but you let go of the anger you feel towards them.
@@yuzan3607 I don’t understand your point. If I don’t forgive them doesn’t mean I am angry with them or hold grudges. So why I should forgive them? I’m fine I feel fine and I don’t hate them or anything else. I think religions think that you need to feel good and think you are better and you should think you forgive them. Well there’s no difference if you don’t forgive them. Who is evil can’t be forgiven if doesn’t change. Evil means lover or evil not a mistake.
No. The way is go far from them. Ignoring them. No matter who they are they HAVE to respect you or walk away. They may learn like my daughter did. Only positive people need to be near you. Meditation means not doing and it’s impossible to empty your mind. Self proximity is liberation (ancient Buddhism, and the name was not the same)
You are contradicting yourself. You say that you cannot empty the mind, but then you say must go far away and ignore. Great advice provided you empty of them from your mind which you confirm that you can not.
@@marka2188 ignoring someone is emoting your mind? Ignoring someone is leaving and never contact them. How you don’t understand? Simple Your mind it’s always thinking even when you sleep
You sound full of resentment and conte 20:39 mpt, and seem to be quite high of you own negative opinions and speak them as fact. Maybe keep a more open mind? Or you could keep watching positive videos and making comments that state the opposite of the message preached and argue with people in the comments section. That rigid mindset is going to keep you angry, and prevent any growth or understanding, be careful with that mindset, your ego seems to be pretty set in its ways.
