5 Negative INTJ Misconceptions (Stereotypes)

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This video goes over 5 negative stereotypes of an INTJ.
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@feicchi 10 месяцев назад

When you said "I wanna be productive as soon as possible so that I can be as lazy as long as possible " I couldn't relate more XD

@genowefatrabka2046 10 месяцев назад

This is probably the most INTJ trait of all XD

@priskasama 10 месяцев назад

Goal!

@Pinkywinkykinky 10 месяцев назад

feel that as an enfp too honestly

@Perseondelt 10 месяцев назад

Is that inferior Se?

@shillout 10 месяцев назад

Same, but I'm INFJ

@PaleGhost69 10 месяцев назад

Socializing is so much easier when we're the ones leading. I think most intjs are so traumatized, for lack of a better word, to not take the reins because of our peers from childhood.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

A wise monkey once said, "Oh yes, the past can hurt. But from the way I see it, you can either run from it or learn from it." -Rafiki

@ramsesemerson 10 месяцев назад

Doing stuff so we can have as much time to be lazy is so relatable.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

💯

@crystalpink2929 10 месяцев назад

That is beyond hilarious! "a girl can't be an INTJ because she is attractive." 😂 How rude like we are all just trolls living under a bridge! You most definitely can! I love how you blast these ridiculous stereo types. I definitely agree I can be social in burst. I just have to balance it with my alone time to recharge my batteries. I think my favorite thing about the pandemic was it gave me permission to be less social. It was so freeing! I like engaging in the world but I hate being obligated to do so. I want it to be on my terms and at my pace. I really liked your flower analogy. We see the the entire garden but only a few roses are worth our attention. This is a really cool way of putting it. I personally love when I get an opportunity to help a stranger out. It's called being a good person and we should all strive to be good people regardless of our personality types.

@hollistantang9469 10 месяцев назад

I like that term, trolls living under a bridge hahaha

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

I rolled my eyes soooo hard when I first heard the comment about an INTJ and attractiveness. Keep helping strangers out my INTJ sister, the world will never fully appreciate us or see what we do, but they really do need our kindness ✊

@mumm-ratheeverliving3138 10 месяцев назад

“Having to deal with our emotions in front of people…” Thanks for shedding some light on that!

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

I gotcha ✊

@hyshimey 10 месяцев назад

Debunking edgy stereotypes of our MBTI is truly an INTJ moment! I'm so tired of being called NPC because I'm hard to surprise and have low social energy lol

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

People really just don't care to know who we really are sometimes 🙃

@jeffrey-825 10 месяцев назад

Good points, Jon! There are many videos out on youtube and many people going off of typings based on stereotypical behaviours. INTJs can be fun to hang out with, INTJs do want an efficient and esthetically pleasing physical world, INTJs can be sporty, INTJs can be caring. But the same goes for other types. It's not just the behaviours and the decisions, but the why and how a type came to the point of doing this or that.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Exactly! Our MBTI label doesn't determine who we are as a person. The beauty of life is that is our choice ✊

@apushman 2 месяца назад

For me an easy way to explain these misconceptions is that we pick our spots. If we want to be social when we go out, we'll jump into the conversation if we are interested. If we are not, then we sit back and listen. If we see a stranger who needs help, we help them and then be on our way. I love going on hikes or being on the water, I do both solo as it helps me unwind and regather my thoughts. I can engage with the world, I simply do it at my pace and how I want to. Finally, with us wanting to decide when events happen being surprised by others really throws us off. I generally get mad if I get a randomly surprised or become the center of attention in public. I dont want to stand out and if its a situation where I cant gtfo then I'm really uncomfortable and annoyed.

@madlynlithasya Месяц назад

i relate to this so deeply. ive always questioned why im not a stereotype intj but glad to know there’s someone out there that’s the same as me

@sudoGL 2 месяца назад

"The faster I get there, the longer I get to relax." That is so true! Sometimes I'm called lazy, which to a point I am, but only after I make sure I get done what needs done beforehand. Fellow INTJ here.

@justcallmejon22 2 месяца назад

One of the best feeling is relaxing after completing a project 😀

@user-pw1io1zd3q 10 месяцев назад

"I want to be productive as soon as possible, so I can be lazy as long as possible." "we will socialize or lead a conversation. We'll if we have too, but it's not preferred." "... this is why time is the most valuable resource for an INTJ." I'm an INTJ and these sentences speaks to me on so many levels, and I can say that it is 100% true, at least for me. Also on another note: I hardly ever wear black. I usually prefer Summer colors or bright warm ones, like bright orange or light pink.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

I wish I could pull out lighter colors! My skintone will make me look like dookie water or a poorly colored character 😅

@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 10 месяцев назад

As a "non attractive" INTJ female, I approve all your points ! Great video. Misconceptions is what's happen when people don't watch the authentic video of the INTJ content creators...and when they lack of knowledge, experience and awareness. No matters where we are, always people to invalidate something in ourselves. For me the stereotype seems just represent the theory, the base type at birth and when we are not improved (and without all the others layers of the personality). More often the INTJ stereotype is the INTJ enneagram 5 (which is surely less than 50% of the INTJ) I love to see INTJ destroying the misconceptions one by one. Keep going ! I love this association white & green. You are so fun with all the "hello" and "the backup plans" 🤣 Fun thing I realized I am more social, helpful, more "human" than most of people, thanks the awareness & improvements. Every INTJ is unique, like every human being. INTJ are cute & adorable ! And they attract me ! 💙

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

I don't remember where I heard this but someone said this and I couldn't agree more: "The goal of MBTI is outgrow your type (Or be better than your type)"

@psychcasserole 10 месяцев назад

Finally a video that debunks the INTJ stereotypes. I know from personal experience that the stereotype doesn’t show up accurately in they real world.

@llezmollah217 10 месяцев назад

I don't fit the stereotype at all 😂😅

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

INFPs are one of the only types that truly sees an INTJ for who we really are ✊

@julijovanovski5272 10 месяцев назад

I hate the stereotypes surrounding Inferior Se. I was told I wasn't INTJ because I did ballet and enjoy dancing, and an INTJ's Inferior Se means that we're all clumsy and awkward. Nah, dude... I worked at it relentlessly, four days a week, three hours a day, for years, because I wanted to be the best I could be and I loved it. I think that's awfully INTJ of me LOL.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Exactly! The placement of a cognitive function does not determine mastery because of what you said, you've worked on it relentlessly. People mistake me for an Se dom all the time because I've good on my feet and have lots of balance, but it's as you said, I've work on it my entire life as well. On a side note, I saw my first ballet not too long ago and the quads on the girls and the dudes are impressive 😂

@RaidenShogun.. 7 месяцев назад

My aunt is intj and she likes baking breads and give to people to eat, as a hobby.

@genowefatrabka2046 10 месяцев назад

I LOVE BEING LAZY. I just don't have much time for it, because reality is constantly changing and I don't want to be behind - and that's exhausting itself. That why i prefer to do things quick and in best way possible to have time for my Ni shit. My one of most hated stereotype is that we are some kind of fucking wizards and can predict exactly whats happen in future. We aren't masterminds - architect fits much better at INTJ personality.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

There will be no more gambling if INTJs can see the future because we'd all be millionaires 😆

@ColorfulMixx5318 2 месяца назад

11:02 i think it should be something along the lines "INTJ care for their loved ones before strangers" or something- cuz this actually makes sense

@randyandretti 10 месяцев назад

I never wear all black. I like spontaneity, socializing and engaging in the world. It’s true I don’t like certain surprises or care much about what strangers think about me.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

💯

@marekczesc1982 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for this. As an older INTJ who has grown into being adept at other functions, these things need to be communicated to the younger INTJs before they start emulating the stereotypes versus being themselves (the INTJ subreddit is a great example). What's with that other commenter posting responses to different times in your video? Chill out, INTP! ::: ducks:::

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Reddit is a sesspool but I frequent it because there are a few healthy INTJs in there that provide great advice. I can't really be too upset at the dude commenting all the nonsense on this video, he's helping this video with the algorithm 😆

@oasis8172 10 месяцев назад

I couldn't agree more with the first topic you mentioned. I even saw an INTJ saying, in a sweeping generalization, that we cannot be social. Or to say, outgoing to be more precise. By definition, outgoing means: friendly and socially confident. Like you said: people are complex. To believe we can't be social would be highly inefficient for us. On top of that, you could mess with the wrong person, who now wants to take your life because you didn't attempt to learn how to talk to people or be decent. So why wouldn't we attempt to be better at socializing? Especially for our vision?

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Exactly! There are so many benefits to learn how to be social that's both preemptive or preventative such as what you mentioned. Close mindedness is what gives the MBTI community a bad reputatoin 😢

@ColorfulMixx5318 2 месяца назад

5:54 I am laughing because i can’t relate (unless it’s not essentially my work/someone assigned it to me - i can never have that approach😂

@epyon02alpha42 10 месяцев назад

A lot of these are funny to see as stereotypes both because I can understand how people get to that misconception, but also because anyone who has a strong relationship with an INTJ could tell you all of these would be "contextually true" at best. Though I will say stereotype #3, and also surprise type #3, were the reason for a long time I had a general policy of, "I'm not going to any event or place in which I cannot leave under my own power." Cause when that social battery was done, so was I, and I'm not trying to ruin everyone else's fun because I'm ready to go home. I'll just go home. 😆

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

I used drive myself to parties that my roommate was going to for the exact same reason. I'm a professional at Irish Goodbyes 😆

@JJ-rp2df 6 месяцев назад

Excellent overview and breakdown. Rather than fixed absolutes, I find stereotypes useful tools in empathising with external perceptions, forcing self awareness and deciding any needed changes.

@justcallmejon22 6 месяцев назад

That's a great way to approach stereotypes ✊

@kevinbeers768 10 месяцев назад

It took me nearly 50 years to understand the importance of navigating the social world. I am an engineer, so it wasn't that important or necessary for me. But once I got into it, the world of possibilities grew exponentially. Now I am a student of "human nature" and can see why some things will fail while the others thrive. I especially like predicting the "unexpected consequences" of an action, making them "expected", all based on what human beings do strictly because they are human beings. I love your videos. Keep up the good work!

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Glad to hear that you've found the importance of being social! I agree that it really does open up a world of possibilities when we learn to enjoy engaging with other people. Take care of your loved ones my INTJ brother, the world needs our Te more than they are aware of it 🙂

@meechipeachi 9 месяцев назад

Hooray! Humans are a fascinating subject.... as long as I'm not under their rule and can observe from afar😂

@androroyed5305 10 месяцев назад

True about learning social skills. I put myself in different situations where i wasn't comfort at all, I have disgraced myself many times and still this is my goal number one to hone socializing to perfection.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

It's a rite of passage for INTJs to experience all the embarassments 😂

@deborat 10 месяцев назад

1. I can be quite social - those who only meet me in social gatherings would agree. Don’t be fooled, I have prepared for that, and will need a lot of alone time afterwards. And by alone, I mean literally. If there’s someone sitting quietly around me, it still doesn’t do the job. 2. I am sure of my vision. But I allow room for my plans on how to get there to change. 3. I don’t like surprises! But I have absolutely no interest in planning a trip to the details, for example. 4. I care about strangers and appear to have more empathy than a lot of the stereotype INTJs. I definitely think this has more to do with your upbringing than anything else (unless you have psychological issues). I don’t care much about what they think of me, but I do care about how children are not able to access education in many places, for example. 5. Well, I like engaging with the world, just not all the time.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

💯 to everything you said especially #4 about kids and education.

@metrazeltina2708 10 месяцев назад

And thanks again to Brother Jon for shedding light on common misconceptions! You nailed it and it couldn't be more true! We aren't antisocial, we are efficient and so we will be with people because that's how you get stuff done faster and more efficient!

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Exactly! Gotta learn how to navigate people to maintain efficiency 😂

@ColorfulMixx5318 2 месяца назад

I can't believe people base their stereotype on appearances 😅 0:58 Only if... AnYWaYS 3:59 You caught me there 😂 but no, i understand- being an INFP small talks or the boring socializing had always been a pain but i always try to convince myself to be familiar with it- i think "efficiently" socializing in general is very necessary for anyone... so its a pain and i am not good at it- but hey it's a must have (in the line of career i have chosen)

@Intuitioncalling 10 месяцев назад

The way people open up to me, and the way they seek and pay heed to my counsel, kept me believing that I might be an INFJ despite being officially typed as an INTJ by Mr. Harry from CPT. It is only now, when I understand things better, that I can tell that the lack of Fe does not equate to having poor people skills, and that Te cannot just be so dumb that it may end up eliminating people management skills from the equation altogether. Te’s job is to get the job done, and without factoring in people, no job can ever be executed efficiently. These stereotypes can hurt people quite seriously and waste their valuable time and energy, so they must be debunked actively.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Exactly! Most things in life are about collaborating and understanding how humans work such as driving on the road, grocery shopping etiquette, or just accidentally bumping into someone in an awkward situation where small talk will make everyone more comfortable. This really is my biggest pet peeve in the community and I'm glad that there are other INTJs out there who believe the same ✊

@Intuitioncalling 10 месяцев назад

@@justcallmejon22 Yes. Over the passage of time, we as a human species have managed to not just survive but thrive as well, and it can all be attributed to the social and communal human spirit of our species. If our caveman ancestors hadn't banded together, we'd have never been able to come this far. I'd recommend you to read Yuval Noah Harari on this, if you haven't already.

@priskasama 10 месяцев назад

0:25 bro stop it lmao. There's such a difference between young and adult intjs too. People tend to forget and it gets annoying. We are constantly learning and transforming ourselves, which means the way we were few months ago will be different. Therefore, even without the personality type thing, people around you might see a difference, whether be in your attitude, your goals, your apparence etc... We're not set in stone nor clones. I recommend some people to go outside more often, cut a bit with the virtual world and meet real people. They truly lack some SE data, need to update 💀 (oh shit, I can't be intj because I'm using emojis 🫢) Peace out, cool and interesting video I laughed a lot!

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

I'm going to fangirl if Ashley Olsen responds to this video! I agree that INTJs usually outgrow the stereotype and that we're always changing. I've met a few INTJs that never outgrew it either and it's really sad, because you can tell there's so much pain in their response or actions being jaded at the world. I use emojis because it's the easiest way to Fe 😆

@priscillahap 10 месяцев назад

Great video, thank you. Unfortunately some INTJs are to blame for perpetuating these stereotypes. They learn they’re an INTJ and they immerse themselves into the cold, black wardrobe having, antisocial robot stereotype lol I love a chic all black outfit but c’mon. The stereotypes have been taken too far. I’m sick of the rigid box we’ve been shoehorned into, we’re all individual human beings with our own unique differences within the INTJ type. #1. I can be very social, just depends on my mood and if I like the people I’m socializing with (I can only fake it for so long). #2. Who isn’t unsure of their plans at one point or another? My plans have often been dynamic and I’ve had to roll with the changes. You just figure out a new “plan” as you go. #3. I don’t “like” surprises if I know I’m about to be surprised, because then I want to know wth is going on. If I have no idea I’m about to be surprised, then being surprised (with something I want/like) is great! If the surprise sucks, I won’t hesitate to let you know (so it doesn’t happen again). #4. Can’t care about strangers… this one’s utterly ridiculous. Guess we lack empathy and sympathy now lol I can’t stand to see someone struggle, and prefer to help anonymously if the circumstances allow. #5. I willingly enjoy engaging with the world every day. I have a job that literally requires me to and I enjoy every minute of it because I love what I do. Do I need to decompress after a long day with clients? Absolutely. Also, all INTJs are ugly? Who comes up with this stuff? 😂Could not be farther from the truth, wish I could post a pic here to debunk.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

It's wild how strict some people adhere to stereotypes and I'm happy to see all the healthier INTJs respond with your take on them. Always happy to meet other healthier INTJs, sister ✊

@meechipeachi 9 месяцев назад

I feel like we're friends already. Certainly plenty of commonality

@RaidenShogun.. 7 месяцев назад

I don’t know about other intjs but my intj aunt likes to wear colorful dresses and stare at you haha.

@Azdaja13 7 месяцев назад

I don't wear all black! There's some blue in there somewhere! And some grey sometimes. xD

@belyuby14 10 месяцев назад

I love you Jon, your claims are so unique that what I though it wasn't normal now its, even if its just for me.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Never aim for normal, you're better than that. Aim to be as 'you' as possible 😊

@djhorn1622 10 месяцев назад

Love your videos and thank you for making the volume better for me. 🙂 When I first had a coworker have me take the personality test, I thought it was stupid. Then I read the description of my results and I have never been more intimately described. This sent me down a rabbit hole of RU-vid videos learning more about INTJ and in turn, myself. The first thing I came to realize is that most people making videos about INTJ’s, were not one themselves and their content was subpar and not as accurate and missing that intimate feeling. Which made me start trying to find content creators that were an INTJ. Thank you for putting out quality content.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Welcome to the INTJ community! There are drinks and snacks in the back, go help yourself to them. If you haven't seen their videos yet, Lijo/Alexis Kingsley/AsuraPysche are all other great INTJ content creators so check them out when you get the chance 😊

@JDrocks4ever 9 месяцев назад

I typed as an INTJ. I’m not super deep into knowing the functions yet, but I have been passively learning more over time. I’ve only watched a few of your videos and you’re my favorite RU-vidr on this subject. I really feel like you’re calling me out all the time lol. Like “how tf does this guy know the way I think?” I appreciate how you’re not so narrow on your views. It seems like sometimes when others explain it, they have to keep it narrow for their own comprehension or self-sorting of different types. It kinda ignores the fact that everyone’s on a spectrum and can certainly develop in other functions. I for example, have been in various situations in life in which developing other functions served as a benefit towards my success. Sure, in many cases it was a means to an end, but these “non-orthodox” functions were able to be developed nonetheless. I’m aware that at the base level, I do operate out of INTJ. Yet, I can definitely see how depending on circumstance/environment, I may seem more like an ENTP or INFJ.

@justcallmejon22 9 месяцев назад

Welcome to the community! I'm always happy to hear that my videos are helpful. Regardless of what type you are, just remember that MBTI is a tool and should not be used as your identity. In regards to your last sentence about changing based on the environment, that's a powerful skill set that most INTJs learn that is misrepresented or underrepresented in the community. It sounds like you're winning in life ✊

@skeralars 3 месяца назад

Same I also look like an ENTP or an INFJ depending on the situation

@sparklenights5421 8 месяцев назад

One of the stereotypes i hear a lot is that intjs have no social skills and that we are the unpopular nerds in class, personally i developed and i im still developing strong social skills, because i know its extremely important to help me achieve my goals. I made sure to develope strong social skills and become somewhat known and popular in school so that i can be in control, and make sure my working skills are noticed and that i am respected, friendship or being popular is needed for people to listen to me in group work when i have to take the leadership or want to contribute, but trust is needed for that, and developing social status is just the right thing even though i absolutely hate it, i have to work with it by making myself see meaning in it, all of this, so that i can get the grades i want and reach my ni goal. Because of that i seem like an extrovert, especially because i join parties (school parties), but thats not because i wanna be social, 1. its because of curiosity and the experience itself even though i know it will be draining, i know it can be useful and i need to experience the other side of life, i remember so many times saying "i was right, this is horrible, never doing this again" 2. THIS IS WHERE YOU DEVELOPE YOUR SOCIAL SKILLS, and understand what kind of people that are around you, what is this culture and how can i work with it, and how could these people contribute to my goal? yeah, thats what going on up in my mind at a party, i analyse everything and everyone, and everything i do, contributes to my goal. I wanna note that, i started out being social and have now degraded, because i see no meaning in having to be as social as i was before, and also i have absolutely no energy to, by choice in free time i am always alone, i rarely hang out with anyone in my freetime unless its hobby related or if im EXTREMELY BORED, but when im forced around people i make the impression if i see the means to. So to conclude i just wanted to show from my perspective is that intjs can socialise, but the intention behind it is not the same as for extroverts and maybe other introverts(?) its either typically "the socialising contribute to my ni goal and fi values, i am feeling unhealthy/bored/lonely i need good energy or the way i do my hobby makes it that people are around and maybe i have to socialise with them"

@justcallmejon22 8 месяцев назад

I agree 100% with what you said, especially the part where I only reach out to people when I'm extremely bored. It's a bad habit I'm trying to break but boy is my alone time peaceful 😅

@sparklenights5421 8 месяцев назад

yeah lmao, i think the majority if not all intjs struggle with that, and thus we also lose contact with people, and because of the lack of our fe, we hardly notice. i think the only way to break that bad habit is to change fi values or look at how useful it can be (te), but sometimes its okay to be alone longer, not everyone has the same social battery life, and being too social can be really unhealthy. Ig its all about finding that balance in life, and its hard af, but the more we make ourselves care and look at ourselves as less stereotypical, the better we can work on ourselves and create that balance. @@justcallmejon22

@molan863 10 месяцев назад

7:54 bro I am so proud of you that you explained NI so well, people always get confused that NI couldn't figure all possibilities but and its difficult to explain them that (esp. to sensors ) but you explained it so well , proud of you man 🎉🎉🤩

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Thank you! I'm just happy my analogies make sense 😂

@Azdaja13 10 месяцев назад

My wardrobe is mostly black and blue both because those colours just pair well together (it saves time in thinking of what to wear) and also because I like them (been trying to upgrade my wardrobe recently since I don't really have much that is very me though I tend to fall back on what I usually wear day-to-day and only wear some of the better stuff when going out to see people I care about). And yeah, I've had a big plan for about eleven years but numerous factors have led to second-guessing if everything would work, if what I'm doing is the best it could be, thinking of better ways of doing things mid-work and having to scrap everything and start again from scratch... then wondering if it's all really actually what I want. Then there's the tiredness and just mental blocks which form over it. But I still end up being fixed on it.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

I went on vacation recently and realized that I mostly packed dark colors because as you said, they usually pair well together. I older I get, the more I realize that my plans are more generalizations than concrete ideas, I tend to figure out the details as I go and I'm okay with that. It makes life more stressful but also more exciting at the same time 😆

@shillout 10 месяцев назад

Just wanted to say, that you are definitely my cup of joe 😄 You look great dude! And I love your videos, can relate to many things /INFJ

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for the compliment although it's always weird to recieve one 😅

@Ky-kg1zy 10 месяцев назад

THANK YOU

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

✊

@hollistantang9469 10 месяцев назад

That is true... It is very inefficient not to be able to socialize... How can we use our Te when we don't really socialize? I believe for myself, I love to learn about new people.. That's only meant to let me know and measure the new person's capability... And multiple plans is also what I do. I sometimes just go with the flow and using the series of events as triggers for my next plans...

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Learning about new people and their experience is one of the best joys in life! I get my kick from reading everyone and their comments 😅

@meechipeachi 9 месяцев назад

I finally started putting things up! I may have been identified as WitchDoctor Peachi in our last interaction months ago. So far , it's mostly me babbling in the dark or doing self massage. Now I'm going to go watch this video of yours, and I'm sure get some nice insights and distinctions. Don't you know I love a good distinction! And I'm sure I'll laugh some, and occasionally I Cry. Thank you for your encouragement to me✌🏽🌻

@justcallmejon22 9 месяцев назад

Congrats on beginning your journey! It's tough at times but it's always worth it in the end ✊

@meechipeachi 9 месяцев назад

@@justcallmejon22 I'm following the "entertain myself, and if it entertains others , it's a bonus " method 🌸 But I have been gifted so much worthy information in my life, I want to pay it forward and pass it along

@kristenscott8181 9 месяцев назад

He's trolling me! "I'll say it again for the Ne users doing something else right now". I legit was into reading a magazine at that very moment hahahah #iCantHelpIt #enfp

@justcallmejon22 9 месяцев назад

Don't worry ENFP, I won't take it personal 😉

@kitlitmitt 10 месяцев назад

Waiting for more videos!

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Thank you! I'm happy to hear that you're enjoying them 😊

@Starcraftghost 10 месяцев назад

Just started delving into MBTI. My first test said I’m INTJ. The succeeding tests got me something else (it one time said I was some extrovert). I was questioning myself if I was indeed an INTJ. Watching your videos made me solidify that I’m an INTJ. You were right about efficiency and optimization; those are the words that best describe me and how I like to operate in the world.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Welcome to the INTJ community! We ran out of drinks and snacks but I'm sure we'll find a donor soon enough to help us replenish. Since you're new member, I want to reiterate that MBTI is a tool for self-developement and should not be your identity or used to justify your actions. Stay as long as your need my fellow INTJ, you're always welcomed here ✊

@f1nvv329 10 месяцев назад

Hey Jon, great video, thank you for cleaning up misconceptions. Recently I found the YT channel of Hailey Harber who tests (and identifies) as INTJ 5w4. She might be a great example for INTJ outliars - as I'm not in her head I won't give a judgement about her being INTJ or not though.

@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 10 месяцев назад

I found it too, it was in my RU-vid suggestions. I was just curious how Asperger/Autism may manifest in another INTJ. I think in her case it's crucial to learn what is Fe, to be diagnosed and helped. Certain of her content and banner is inappropriate (her channels and what she does) (I signaled it) It may be a good example of how an unhealthy Fe blindspot can manifest, and Se overindulge, or a good example of Asperger/Autism trait : weird with sensory and unusual behavior. Not a good example of INTJ to show at all. It's just my perception. (I just wish I never found these channels) Before share something or someone, please do more research, because what she does is not appropriate at all. Take care of what you share and of what you put in other people mind.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

She might be an INTJ, but I'm not sure. I do have a personal rule not to publically type other content creators because if they're helping people, then the benefit they're providing outweighs the truth. I'm sorry if that's not the type of answer you want but I am an INTJ who believes in harmony within this small community 😊

@adelinamarice5887 9 месяцев назад

I have lots of energy when it's about teaching or mentoring. I had run an 16 hours coffeeshop workshop before. I did it for free and I was really happy doing that. But ofc I slept all day after that. I have also a lot of energy when it is about learning. To gain skill in coffee, I had to work at my shop from 12 noon to 8 pm. Then went back home to sleep for 2-3 hours then return to my shop to work until dawn. Sleep, rinse and repeat. But yeah for travelling or hanging out I don't have energy for that. That's why to see how much we care is really by watching how much time we are willing to invest on someone or something.

@justcallmejon22 9 месяцев назад

Working that many hours pro-bono sounds like you were really invested in learning 😅

@adelinamarice5887 9 месяцев назад

@@justcallmejon22 yes to gain certain skill or to serve ppl I really care about I can really work like a dog. I now avoid it tho. Burning out intj can be vicious

@tiffany_james 10 месяцев назад

Very interesting video, thank you. There's def stereotypes out there + ppl that are down 2 pigeon-hole themselves into said stereotypes 2 be more dramatic lolll. I think for myself, I understand in this world + many countries appearance is somewhat important, not just looks but also hygiene so I try 2 make an effort bcuz society in many cultures do place importance on presentation/aesthetics. I don't have any issues with this lol, I understand that our world's previous civilizations and past empires placed importance on appearance/aesthetics so it's not a big deal for me 2 make an effort. I would just make an effort in my own way whether the style I'm going for is trending or not, popular or not I will still wear it. Other days I can be more calculated on how I dress, usually 2 achieve a certain objective + will plan outfits beforehand. Planning out outfits + accessories can be a good thing sometimes. Also things like not forgetting 2 pack an umbrella, sunglasses or sweater depending on the occasion. I am social + can chit chat w' ppl but don't deeply care about being accepted by ppl socially. I do wish I was more of a social butterfly 2 achieve more things but the socializing thing does not come very natural 2 me. I am happy for others that are able 2 do so, it does take some effort + investment 2 be up and up with people.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

I agree that aesthetics is very important depending on the situation. For example, I can't take entrepreneurs seriously if they don't look professional or at least part of what they are selling. It's also very subconscious because we feel comfortable with what we associate with so I instantly like someone who wears certain clothes such as Jordan shoes while socializing because there's a high percentage that we have similar interests 😁

@billyhilly313 10 месяцев назад

You all are more than fabulous. 'they' only mock you a little. 'they' do it democratically with everybody. Hugs

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

"They hate us because they aint us" 😆

@roughrosa Месяц назад

There are a lot of attractive INTJs out there. For me personally, as female INTJ this can be a struggle (not that I saying I am THAT attractive), but tad bit of attractiveness just adds to the stereotypical arrogance and coldness, ‘I am superior’ that we are already experiencing. You add a slight attractiveness (such as dressing well, taking care of our figures and such, which adds to overall confidence), it’s a lethal recipe for people to hate you for no reason. Even when what you did is walking into the room. I don’t know if i am making sense, I am still learning about this INTJ thing, and how myself operates, but I can’t be friends with most females that aren’t confidence in their own personality and uniqueness, probably they see me as a threat. At least this is the vibe I am sensing. For me, if they don’t offer friendship, I am fine. But being a victim suddenly for baseless hate is another story. I want to know if any of you female INTJs out there ever had to feel or sense such hostility before. I am curious.

@justcallmejon22 Месяц назад

Welcome to the community! I understand being seen as a threat but I also learned ways to look more friendly. I find myself a lot happier if I put in a little effort to be more approachable. I know that approach isn't for everyone but I've been happier since 😊

@anemowanderer2507 8 месяцев назад

The funny part is that I'm considered sociable, dare I say outgoing. It's just, most of the topics are usually on the professional and/or intellectual side(I'm a social 5 in enneagram). If it's something which feels too mundane or too emotional(a decent amount is fine), then that would just drain my social battery faster but my battery life can be decent if it's the good stuff. The being unable to socialise part is total bs.

@justcallmejon22 7 месяцев назад

Exactly. It's unrealistic to believe that all INTJs are not sociable just because of our type 😂

@trauma2happiness 2 месяца назад

The person who says that is shallow. You are right. They mustn't know any INTJs. I know attractive ones.

@justcallmejon22 Месяц назад

I've met plenty as well 🙂

@lucy4614 6 месяцев назад

As an INTJa female, people often called me “goddess “.

@justcallmejon22 6 месяцев назад

I've been told I have "Superstar

@shaneaverystarr 7 месяцев назад

While I agree with your points, the problem is that without a behavior-based model anyone can claim to be any type. To put my contention in another way, while I would concede that a person could be each of the things you mentioned and still be an INTJ, I would find it very difficult to believe and would most certainly not type anyone as an INTJ who is all those things (the myths you mentioned). While we don't want to make our categories too rigid, because as you stated human personality is too complex for that, we cannot make the opposite error and open up the possibilities where everyone could be anything. This is why we have more INFJs - the supposedly rarest type- than all the other 15 types combined, because no matter what their behavior is they frame it or reframe it in such a way so that it fits... at least to themselves.

@justcallmejon22 7 месяцев назад

I agree with what you said and I'm the type of person who doesn't believe a person is the type that they claim themselves to be. I have to study them first and arrive at my own conclusion because there are so many internal biases when typing yourself. Humans are complex but there are certain personality traits (cognitive functions) that stand out more for some than others ✊

@arnoldroozenburg1279 10 месяцев назад

lol NE user is probbably doing something else and has this video on the background!! I feel caught! Also intesting you mentioned the routine beings not effecting as you don’t learn something new. Nice perspective

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

I feel like I heard Ne users say that more than I ever had 😂

@arnoldroozenburg1279 10 месяцев назад

Ohhh I see, that is why I hear the word “focus” during my day. A lot. lol. Although INTJ know what’s going on and they will manipulate me, just to get my attention.

@godKiller.369 3 месяца назад

"Oh so hard to be INTJ mastermind like meee, inferior Se makes me fall and get hurt all the time, ow ow sob sob sob" GTFO, we don't do that, we learn and get over it, humanoid! 😂

@skeralars 3 месяца назад

Because of stereotypes I thought I was an ENTP because i socialize but now it make sense sometimes I act like an ENTP or INFJ depending on the situation (how I act mostly depends on my energy) I am on researching cognitive functions to know more

@justcallmejon22 3 месяца назад

Enjoy the journey of self discovery! It's fun 😀

@skeralars 3 месяца назад

@@justcallmejon22 do you have a video about types of INTJ?

@aiuchiha111 10 месяцев назад

The online INTJ friend I made shattered all of the misconceptions I had about them. I thought they were too scary and I should make an exit if I ever come across one😅. But after getting to know her, I feel way more cold in comparison to her. You guys are the real deal. - INFJ

@nihwa6691 10 месяцев назад

I guess the main thing to take from that is the efficiency she's learned to not be cold and make people feel heard so that the day goes by smoother. She's probably still very detatched and dismissive in her head, but knows how to navigate a conversation and social cues. That's what I've at least taken from learning to communicate while being an INTJ haha When we're younger we're usually called intimidating until we learn communication. Whats your thoughts on it? I'm curious to see your take on another INTJ female and her communication style :)

@TheMasterSlasher 10 месяцев назад

That INTJ was only pretending to "human." You got fooled. Work on Ni+Fe.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Take care of her for us! I promise that she'll be one of your most loyal friend if you allow her to be heard just as much as I'm sure she creates a safe space for you 😊

@aiuchiha111 10 месяцев назад

@@justcallmejon22 I am trying my best, there's a reason she keeps me around hehe. We have reversed the roles now.

@Judges. 2 месяца назад

G-Dragon and Ryujin from ITZY are INTJ's!

@nickolaszissimos1189 10 месяцев назад

Dude, for the exception of another INTJ, no other type understands you guys better than us INFJs. Of course because literally half our functions are exactly the same. It also seems that all dominant intuition types, both introverted and extroverted, spend allot of our energy on our dominant and inferior functions. And have depth as a high priority concern really also can be draining. I already know that you guys may be a bit more logical than us INFJs but your feelings do run as deep as they do for us INFJs. Also, we may be a bit more emotional but our thoughts can run as deep as yours do. I admit, it is difficult for us to hide our thoughts from you guys, but it is just as difficult for you guys to hide your emotions from us. The Ni Fe/Te combo is extremely powerful.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

What I love about the INFJ/INTJ combo is that we seek understanding above all else and it's really refreshing to hear it from a Feeling lense as a Thinker. You guys are really one of the best types out there ✊

@shelleywalsh1500 10 месяцев назад

I find this really amusing, because I feel exactly the same in reverse about ENFP stereotypes, although perhaps in part, because I am one who has at times been accused of having an INTJ alter ego. I like INTJs mostly, most conflicts I have had with them stem from the unequal relationship of needing people more than they do, I think because Ne doms need other N doms to think outloud to, and there aren’t enough of them around. So if you are a decent INTJ, ENFPs will like your company more than you have time for.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

I'll speak for INTJs and say that we enjoy the company of an ENFP just as proportionately as ya'll enjoy ours. It's just that we have low energy so we can't do it as often but of the times that we are social, ENFPs are the type we gravitate towards. In regards to your first sentence about the stereotype but reverse, do you mean ENFPs are all the things I mentioned but just the opposite meaning? I hope that made sense, I'd like to understand ya'll more 😁

@shelleywalsh1500 10 месяцев назад

Almost everything you said could have been loosely interpreted as INTJs are more like ENFPs than people realise. You get this cool mastermind stereo type. We get a bubbly all the time airhead stereotype. You have to defend that you have a heart, we have to defend with have a head. One thing that annoys me in type descriptions in general is they overemphasis the T/F distinctions in pretty much all the N doms. Perhaps the only one they get the complicated T/F relationship in is the INFJs. ENTPs, ENFPs, and INTJ are all just as T/F complicated as INFJs, but you wouldn’t know it from the way they get described. As to the low energy thing, I get it, know there is not easy answer to it, but it does sort of create the illusion of you being like celebrities that we have to take a number and wait in line for.

@lythd 10 месяцев назад

another good video! turns out most intjs arent sociopaths... who wouldve thought!

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

*Insert Surprised Pikachu meme* 😂

@namez2a 10 месяцев назад

Bleeding Love is an INTJ song 🎵 Fight me.

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

The Leona Lewis song? I love that song! There's definitely a lot of Fi in the lyrics 🎵

@lynnh1682 21 день назад

Ive heard if you're an INTJ you're unable to like hobbies or are able to cry if you're sad. If you enjoy anything you cant be an INTJ. Im thinking pfft. Dont tell me what i can or cant do.

@justcallmejon22 18 дней назад

I swear some people don't think INTJs are humans 😅

@lynnh1682 18 дней назад

@@justcallmejon22 i wouldn't be me if i didn't love doing a 2k piece puzzle in 3 days by hyper focusing but then not be able to remember if ive eaten for those 3 days.

@CosmicHoneyMotherShip 10 месяцев назад

:: clap ::

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

🙏

@koketso_dithipe 9 месяцев назад

Has that person seen Lindsay (LiJo)?

@justcallmejon22 9 месяцев назад

She's the most famous INTJ content creator! What about her though?

@koketso_dithipe 9 месяцев назад

You started out by saying you heard a person saying a girl couldn't be an INTJ if she is attractive, and I'm wondering if said person has seen LiJo she's really attractive and a direct flaw in that person's claim, in addition to the ones you mentioned right after that.

@justcallmejon22 9 месяцев назад

@@koketso_dithipe oh yup she's super pretty! Oddly enough, there's a small group of people on RU-vid that don't believe she's an INTJ which I assume they never watched the video she did with her dad. She's the epitome of an INTJ.

@_Thunderball_ 8 месяцев назад

Pretty sure #4 is generally true. Yes, you dont mean to behave like that but you do because you either dont care about upsetting the social dynamics, deem helping others inefficient or are simply too buried into your Ni to notice that people might need your help. I do notice that I'm often persuaded to feel for other people when they're hurt or feeling down. Dont expect me to cheer you up with a warm word or a witty joke however, I'm usually going to do something to help. Another thing I keep hearing is that INTJs are selfish. I guess it's kinda true. I'd say INTJs are self-centered (nuance matters ofc). Ni mostly plans around it's user, but it also makes you pretty objective and fair (Fi plays a part aswell, I guess) so you're not likely to let yourself step over other people to get things that you dont deserve.

@justcallmejon22 8 месяцев назад

I really feel like Te is undervalued in a social dynamic and that a lot of our social faux pas wouldn't be an issue if it's seen as a way of carrying by non-Te users 🙃

@_Thunderball_ 8 месяцев назад

@@justcallmejon22 I think that's because modern ways of obtaining information (the fact that any information is pretty much one search query away) and various other modern tools that helps you get your life in order inherently devalue an advantage high level Te users are supposed to have. When someone gives you accurate information it's not that impressive anymore because the person you're talking to are just going to assume that you just googled it/read of Wikipedia, etc. Critical thinking that we have has never been valued either (makes sense with the kind of representation SI doms have in society). Leadership part is always going to be important but INTJs are not going to prefer filling leadership roles, typically only do it unless there's no other suitable option.

@linuxzone92 10 месяцев назад

i don't even like black 😂, prefer blue

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Navy blue goes with almost everything too 😊

@jorgepenaloza6834 10 месяцев назад

Edited. Comment down explains my current position better. 🧐

@justcallmejon22 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for comparing me to Lijo! She's a fantastic content creator and is a great representation of the INTJ community. With the pleasantries out of the way, let's address your comments in a concise manner. Let's look at it from my perspective: You don't think I'm an INTJ, that's okay, you have the right to your own opinion and so do I. You're a stranger with no credibility, why in the world would I believe you? I have 5K+ people who believe that I'm an INTJ or at least know what I'm talking about. You saying that I'm not one is you saying that all 5K people are wrong and you're the only person that's right. I'm not going to go into herd mentality, I'm just stating the data that we have. You believe that you are right and everyone is wrong. Now let's look at the alternative. What if you're right? What if I'm not really an INTJ and I'm secretly something else? Wouldn't that mean that a non-INTJ is putting out higher-quality content than real INTJs? If that is the case you should be so embarrassed and humiliated that a non-INTJ is bodying INTJs because there are a lot of INTJ content creators and their channel has a difficult time growing. I'd be embarrassed and I'm embarrassed for you in this situation. You need to step your game up 'real' INTJ because you're inefficient to your own community. Lastly, the entire purpose of my channel is to elevate people. Why do you take offense to that? Being an INTJ should not be an identity, you're attaching your self-worth to a tool. Feel all your feelings, be as upset as you need to be, and then move on. It's really not that serious. If you don't like my content you can unsubscribe and feel free to make your own videos. Because you attacking my videos with all the essay of comments makes me wonder...are YOU really an INTJ?

@jorgepenaloza6834 10 месяцев назад

Hello@@justcallmejon22 I left this comment 4 days ago. And I am glad you replied, since it gives me the opportunity to flesh out some ideas I have since some months now. I think MBTI is not really accurate or truthful as a field of study for people. Before crystallizying that conclusion I did leave these comments, still a pro-MBTI sort of person, but yes, not as interested as to create my own youtube channel on that topic (I do have youtube channels on other email accounts, but on other topics, not MBTI). In this case, finding your videos (some weeks ago) did help me come to this recent conclusion of mine. So, thank you :) Since I know this comment shouldn't be too long, here is a bullet-point list on why MBTI is not a reliable tool for what it aims to achieve. 1.- Functions as pairs of opposites where not discovered through a scientific process, but they were proposed by Jung as a religious-first kind of revelation (Cfr. The Red Book and the seven sermons of the dead). If the initial insight was a religious & occultist type of thingy, then trying to argue about any of this is not really objectively-productive. 2.- Pairs of opposites tends to be a logically contradictory idea. For Jung the "solution" to this fundamental tension or contradiction was to become a transcendent being (again, religion) and develop a 5th function. The transcendent function, at that point is pure religion. Since modernized Jungian MBTi (its more secularized version) doesn't talk or accept the idea of a 5th function, you get the core message as "you are pairs of opposites in a life-long tension or struggle, why? because Jung said so, and why he said so? ohhh nevermind, don't ask that" 3.- If introversion or extraversion were an important or strong force within the minds of humans, a chart of that charachteristic would show most people tending to either being introverted or extraverted, and therefore the chart will look like most people at either extreme or getting close, and not many in the middle. (Myers-Briggs pointed out extraversion-introversion as being left-handed or right handed) but the distribution is the opposite, as a bell curve. Meaning, most people are not that introverted OR extraverted, but sort of in the middle. This GUARANTEES mistypes if the idea is to say one is either introverted or extroverted (as an either/or choice) since most people will be 51% "intjs" or 49% ESFP,... that's why you get so many mistypes, since most people are not that bent towards either extreme. The bell curve also suggest that duality in extraversion/introversion to be a non-thing. 4.- You and I don't agree on who is or is not an INTJ, nor does many other mbti youtubers on other mbti youtubers, and sometimes drama erupts because of this. The fact that a consensus is so elusive should be a gigantic red flag on the ambiguity of the test, the cognitive functions, the interpretations of it, and even the explanations of how these functions work. Broken Telephone 101 Thanks man, your mistype-it-ness helped me understand that types in themselves are not even that strong and objective of a category. Much less as MBTI portrays it. (By the way, it seems that the MBTI say that INTJs had extraverted feeling as their third function in the 80s, they change that later, according to some.) At this point I am much close to do an anti-mbti channel, but who knows, I am busy on other topics that are more solid and objective. Take care. I will remove the other comments, since no longer reflect or represent my position. I was also subscribed to you, but will move on from this topic. Assuming that every subscriber agrees with you is not really an accurate belief to have. :)