1. You try to solve your own problems, but ask for help when you need it. 2. You know people don't owe you assistance. 3. You're attentive to your finances. 4. You don't rely on others' opinions on you. 5. You accept constructive criticism. Edit: omg 425 likes!!! Thank you
@@jahnavibhargava2572 I've been trying to get out of my mothers house ...but the terrible pay puts you in a bad position...doesnt mean that I'm not independent.. I really want to get out .
1. You try to solve problems by yourself 2. You are aware that people don’t owe you support 3. You are attentive to your finances 4. You don’t care about people’s opinion on how you live your life 5. You do well with getting constructive criticism
@@Psych2go hey please I need your help. I get obsessed easily and I find myself begging to others for attention many times (I have an abusive family). How do I stop it can you make a video on how to stop being obsessed
Whatever this was me as well just distance yourself and keep repeating to yourself in your head im my own person and i can do it myself whenever theres a problem make sure not to ask you can later on after youve stopped being obsessive i also think you might be co dependent so just you know stop relying on ppl
i have all these signs and i am a pretty independent person, but sometimes i wish i had someone to be with me when i need it when i get tired of always dealing with my problems alone.
Me: *sees the title and clicks* I already know I'm a pretty independent person. I had to be because of how I was raised. My mother kind of neglected me and my brothers, so I had to figure things out. But thankfully I don't live with her anymore. I'm safe and happy. Edit: I should clarify that I'm still in highschool and live my dad. All contact has been cut off with my mother. I haven't talked to, seen, or heard from my mother in 3 years. I don't even know where she is or what she's doing. There's so many things that happened that a child shouldn't have experienced, but I did. I'm not too comfortable talking about all of it, but bottom line; I'm safe. That's all that matters.
I have been an independent person since I was 21. I got my first apartment when I was 24. I am 28 now. I have friends but I still do things by myself when I feel like it.
I can definitely see myself as an independent person. I’m always use to working alone on certain things. I can also take care of myself as well. And your drawing is evolving. Amazing! 😊😊😊🙂
I'm still working on being independent, financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, but I can see the gradual improvements more each day in small ways. I'm happy with my progress. Can't wait when I can feel true independence.
I'm an independent dependant.. I rely on my mom for support, and a roof over my head, as I cannot get a job, due to mental and physical disabilities. I do however, cook, clean, and fix up the apartment. If I could work from home, I'd still need help making and getting to appointments, as well as getting groceries, as my anxiety keeps me from leaving the apartment by myself, and making calls.
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Yeah I am an independent person, i resolve problems myself and i like writing, drawing, or thinking to myself to express my feelings, and it is like i am in in my own universe, i dont need people’s help usually, because i have tactics to solve them myself. Who else is like this?? Is it just me???
I lived with my parents for 2 years after I finished college. Despite a degree, I did not find a stable job until I was 29! Yes, it is embarrassing and took that long. I'm not particularly gifted nor do I have a super brain. I also suffered from clinical depression for years. All I did was continue to talke small steps forward. And if a f*ck up like me can do it, you can too. Head up, mate.
I don't think living with your parents is flag for immaturity/ dependancy. You can't made a one for one that independent means able to have your own place. Some aren't in a financial place to live alone. Like the area they live has a high cost of living and only a few jobs would guarantee able to afford the rent by yourself. And some could make the argument that having a roommate isn't independent because you're relying on the other to do their part. Financial and otherwise.
@@7184610369 You don't have to be embarrassed about it. I understand that in the West you usually go out of your parents' house quite early. But in Asia, well in particularly China (because I'm not 100% sure on other countries but I reckon it's similar), people often stay with their parents for a long time as well, often until they're married (or they go to a different place for college). There really shouldn't be such a stigma on people living with their parents at an older age as long as you help your parents out during those extra years
self reliance, a lack of a need for validation, and mental point of origin are the main 3 things to not only be independent but build a confident independent life.
I'm a extremely independent person! Always have been. I lost everything I knew at age 13 because my house caught fire. My mom, sister, & 8 month old niece died. I lost every material thing I owned, & ended up moving to a new state and ultimately having to have myself placed in foster care. I at a young age very quickly learned to only depend on myself & be independent 😢. No one going to look out for you the way you will. No one owes you anything!
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1. You try to solve problems by yourself, but you don't hesitate to ask for help when you need it. 2. You know that people do not owe you assistance. 3. You're attentive to your finances. 4. You don't rely on the opinions of others regarding yourself and your livelihood. 5. You accept and are receptive to constructive criticism.
I love the idea how that little-plant-on-the-head man open the book titled with the topic of this video, like he is one of us, the audience. And at the end close the book, and go handle with something need to be handle, independently.
This made me feel very good! I'm 21 one and one of my biggest goals currently is being financially independent! And I really resonated with all of these signs! Let the future come!!!
I got 4 out of 5. I'm 34, I still don't have financials I want, but I'm actively taking steps to achieve it. I went back to school to be a doctor at the age of 30 (I'm 10 years older than most of my classmates), in addition to a formal education I do self-studies (everything from marketing to relationships to psychology). I'm also building connections and trying out various side hustles. It has not been easy. I lost thousands of dollars on my latest business attempt (the pandemic is not to blame) and destroyed my credit score. I also failed several classes, even though I studied A LOT, and had to retake them. ...Life has its ups and downs...when a young man asked, "What should every adult have by the age of 30?" A wise man replied: That should be a positive attitude about your future. As a 66-year-old I can tell you that your next 30 years will probably be far better than your previous one. It certainly was for me. And, who knows? I may still have an even better thirty years in front of me yet to go. After all, my father is doing great and he is 93.
I guess I'm quite an independent person as I'm very quiet and very introverted. I prefer to keep things to myself and help myself as there's not really anyone to help me. I don't care about what people's opinions are on me and don't care if I get criticised.
i just cut the world off for a while recently...havent spoken to friends in a long time trying to do me right now...might reconnect in the future or might not we'll see...leaning to be independent as i go
@@pikalee3492 I've always put people first and that made me miserable now im in the pursuit of my own happiness im just trying to make myself smile doing stuff i enjoy havent paved it all out yet but as i said just learning as i go
Me to a tee! Growing up in certain ways MAKES you be independent, self-reliant & self-sufficient! AND it’s a good feeling too! Also means you don’t owe anyone anything 😃Great video 🤩
10 years ago I was scared to leave my home and I relied on everyone around me, but as the years went on I gained confidence and learned to stand on my own two feet. I'm happier where I am now as I've become independent, but I still need to work on myself a little more.
@@yourbeloved5251 you do get he is just doing that for subs right with his name basicly begging for subs and "wholesome" text it's actually pretty misleading
It's so relevant to me exactly!!! I think the independent person can be both introvert and extrovert. Frankly, I am extrovert who was raised from the warm family. As the youngest kid of the family, all members keep supporting me a lot. But my youngest brother concerned about my future. Then my family started to reinforce me to reliance on my own. At the beginning, I feels sorrowful, why they didn't help me as they did before. After more than 20 years of living as independent person, I feels so proud and confident to solve any problems no matter what how complicated it was. When get back to my beginning of self-reliance, I really appreciated what my family did to me. I know how hard they have to keep ignoring my feellimg and convincing me that I can do it. Now if I were them, I will do it absolutely. 😤
Aww, this helped me understand my little brother more. As the middle oldest child I grew up to be very self reliant and independent. I couldn't understand why my little bro was so dependent at first. Now that he's older he's really growing into himself and is becoming much more independent and proud of his accomplishments. Best wishes to you!
I'm more independent now as i was a year ago. Had a toxic relationship and needed help to get out of it. My family and friends helped me a lot and i was so thankful, that they listend to my worries and how i feel. I try to ask for help more, because i tend to bottle things up or tried to solve them on my own and it didn't work verry well... Even saving money is no problem for me, but i get a lot of financial help from my parents - i'm thankful for that too, but i want to earn it and i have a lot to solve psychological bevor i get a job aside from my studies. I also learned not to rely on others opinions. Sometimes it's hard to deal with criticism, but i'm working on that. One step at a time is okay. Have to have more patience with myselfe and don't rush things ^^
Great video! I actually grew into my independence before I needed to- my parents were fully supportive of me while I was doing a low-pay internship, but I wanted to become fully independent already. I lost a lot of weight because I couldn’t afford food (telling my parents I was fine, that I didn’t need any money). Eventually I broke down and told them the truth and they were like “Why didn’t you tell us!! You know we would send you grocery money!!” I felt very blessed to have them 😭
I have always been independent since I was like a toddler since my parents always had arguments so I taught my self things like tieing my shoes or being able to do my hair by my self ngl I feel proud of this doing it since the first day
I noticed that there are random frames where things change colors. Such as a tool changing from pink to gray. Also, I'm not very independent. I can work on that though
I feel so thankful that i watch this video, this video gets me more knowledge about independent. Lately i experience being downfall because of the people surrounds me. It is very hard for me facing the struggles and difficuties at the same time but ill always pushing myself to be calm everyday and facing the problems at the same time. And now i decided to be an independent, i want to see myself improving each day. I decided that i dont need to depend on others just to make my day happy and i realize that i need to distance myself between them and now I feel so blessed that finally i overcome those challenges that i owe lately and i really thankful to God that finally it feels me okay without them.🥺🥰
Really needed this! I'm going off to college, anxiety and nerves are trying to get to me, but I am excited to experience an independent environment. Now I can only pray that I mature for my own growth. This video is very encouraging. thank you!
I'm almost independent! But my Family still want me to be taken Care of against my will 🙄😑 ! Plus if I try to do certain things for myself. I might get cussed out. accused of not knowing how to do. one time I try to make calls for myself. and I was told "not to talk to strangers". I feel like I'm being controlled and Judged against my own will !
When you bring to us the basic behavioural concepts we possess, it helps us to recognize our own credits that we haven't ever considered so far. Thank you psuche2go
Me seeing this video: "oh, so i'm an independent person-" My mom: "Why didn't you clean up your room?! And why are you didn't sweep the house, why is it always me. You aren't independent, you have to bla bla bla" Me: "Oh, nvm then.."
Yeah I’m none of these 😅 I’m co-dependent on my mom still at my big age. I just want to get my first job (a remote one) so I can be useful financially for our home but also for myself😔
I love be independent because I see couple's being cute lovey dovey makes me feel even more glad I'm independent and I don't missed it...being in relationship or friends with guy's. I'am alone I ain't lonely.😁👏😀!!!!!!!! I ain't quite being single or independent because guy's hate it.
I highly recommend this channel for teenagers to watch,im 14 and it helped me grow up to be a great person and role model to others,im still getting to know myself from this channel but I started watching Psych2Go since I was 12 (I think)helped me improve my english too(since English is not my first language)I discovered so many things about me that I didn't know even existed in the first place,like im actually experiencing too much bipolar disorder symptoms(not claiming i have it since i haven't been diagnosed)but im too much of a coward to tell my mom about how sorry I am for yelling at her to stop doing stuffs bc they annoy me and that i possibly need help,anyways,Psych2Go is literally the best channel to watch growing up💖
Yup, I'm pretty independent. Except for the fact that my parents live in the same house. But we're more like room mates now. I pay rent and do all my own stuff myself. I dunno.
@@_Tae.kook_ I understand, it can be really is difficult. Thankfully it doesn't last forever, believe me. Just try your best to get in the mentality of wanting to change. Be stubborn with it. It may be easier said than done, but hey it's better to try than not.
It's odd. The largest most crippling pit fall of my life has become my motivation. This is my 14th time moving and the first time living in my own apartment.
I believe I’m independent since I was a child - let’s find out for sure. My husband sure isn’t. It’s very tiresome. I have learned though that it is okay to ask for help if you are overwhelmed.
funny how this came up the moment i decided to take a break from my social medias because of my excessive dependency. i rarely comment on videos, but having just realized that those restless nights venting on every server that i am in bothers everyone pried my eyes wide open. i realized that this may be the reason why no one is paying attention to me anymore. that i should stand up on my own two feet and that i don't need attention from other people to make me feel more valid. i was so dependent on people and social media that it has been slowly eating me away mentally and emotionally, and it caused me a lot of loneliness and frustration and other things. i'm still working on everything, and though this is my second day of my break i could say that i'm slowly getting there. thank you for making this video, i truly appreciate it.
Guys, these animations 😭😭♥️♥️ Could we name that leafy character something cute? Pleaaaaaase?! Ps- I'm very co dependent 😮 I'll try to be more independent.
So I am texting my friend this moring she was being very ''depressd''. She self diagnosis herself with depression. I do not like what she is doing its getting me feel mad. Please pyshc2go help and if you ever happen to you feel welcome to repley. Thank you have a wonderful day!
I LOVE amanda's voice. Its so soothing. And the content is informative and stimulating. I realize I have some work to do but am encouraged to maken changes. Thanks Amanda and Psych to go team. Please keep up the good work!
1. You try to solve your own problems, but ask for help when you need it. 2. You know people don't owe you assistance. 3. You're attentive to your finances. 4. You don't rely on others' opinions on you. 5. You accept constructive criticism.
The most hardest situation independent person can be is being independent for a long time then fall inlove get used to the situation being with someone and suddenly one day she/he will learn to be independent again.
I already know I am. Needed to do anything since age 5. Parents worked day & night and if I didn't clean, I wouldn't have a clean house. If I didn't shower, I wouldn't be clean. If I did make my food, I wouldn't eat or have food for school. If I didn't do the laundry or iron, I wouldn't have clean clothes. There is a bad side to it though. I can't ask for help, and my fiance can get cross about it. My parents were never there (unless to beat me), so it's just easy for me to do everything myself.
I do not ask for help when solving my problems anymore. It is not the case that I am able to deal with it all on my own, but, I remember when I was getting depressive some ten (10)years ago, I went to my uncle who I trusted was on top of issues for help and all he said to me was that it was a "state of my mind" so there was no cause for me to complain. Three (3) years after my discussion with him, my situation worsened and had to be taken to a psychiatric hospital and when I came back, the news all around was my Uncles and Aunties discussion that my doing drugs was what led to my hospitalization. Meanwhile, I do not even take alcohol, smoke,sniff or inject myself even with drugs that are legal in my country. This situation has left me more shattered to the degree that I feel people won't give me the help I need even when I ask for it.
