Samee... not knowing you're infj and having to deal with such weird expressions you have that you don't see in anyone else, that would've been too crazyyy
I love how the INFJ's level of detachment from reality has the potential to help us see the impossible as being possible if we direct that energy toward our own self-improvement.
It is liberating. When you get there you JUST don't care anymore. I know it sounds bad but it really isn't. For me, I had to go through a stressful ordeal but once I got through it, I became invincible. I just chat back to ANYONE without restraints. Any narcissists? get ready for a brawl. Sociopaths? you've been warned. Psychopaths? errmm... you can stick to yourself.
I've found it liberating, too. When I stopped caring, I voiced my opinions more freely and yeah, not everyone likes me because of that. I don't shy away from telling older people when they are being ignorant even when often they don't like that very much.
Thank you Wenzes! The day I realized I was an INFJ my life FINALLY made sense. There is no shortage of people who were indeed anchoring me to their [generally unhappy] perception of reality. I’ve been talked down by those who called me “idealistic” while they themselves remained idle on their own unsatisfactory existence. Meanwhile all the “impossible” feats I set for myself became real and part of my life story. Sadly (and predictably so), those naysayers remained back in their idle state. All this humble brag (since we are in INFJ family) to agree to the larger point that most people won’t be able to understand how we’ve already traced a winning path - even though we expect tribulations along the journey. Anyone can relate to that?
This sounds like being an INTJ, as we all know they don't give a damn. Tapping more into Te than Fe to prioritize ourself? Be aware of our wants, needs, and boundaries just like Fi? Well if that's the case, I'm in! It's so draining to people-please and getting to their emotional state most of the time. A perfect time to make my goals as tangible as possible here in my reality, this upcoming year. I realized I have to start accomplishing things (starts with taking action) to boost my confidence! _Good luck fellow INFJs
This is a practical video. I know that for personal reasons and many others, 2024 could be a challenging year. But it also could be a successful one. Practicing what you talk about on this video can help a great deal in one of the big things I want to do in 2024, and that is to really cultivate Se (extraverted sensing) because that while I know it's our weaker function, it's doable and maybe doesn't even have to be all that hard. This video along with the book that you have suggested in the past (Atomic Habits) can make things easier to break down into steps and to actually do. I've already started. By the way, I would suggest that anyone who is reading this should go back in this video to step three. It's one of the best treatments I've heard on "doing your best."
This is where I am reaching as well. Just don't care about others for once and just look into yourself and live in your era. This is your era 2024 :) Love this channel and this community.
You know, my name means fire. But i feel like I'm a fire without glare, without heat. I feel like I'm deep inside a well screaming for help. Sometimes i don't know how to explain how I feel.. sometimes i don't know what I feel. Before, I used to think I was half INFP and half ISTJ. But a friend of mine asked me to do a cognitive mbti test. After that it came out that I'm an INFJ. I was scared and asked my friend if I've got a bad personality or something? My friend said it's very unique personality and a great personality. And now I understand I'm an INFJ truly. Everything matches with me. I think i understand myself better than I used to before. Aaaam.. I'd like to make some INFJ/ENFJ friends. If anyone okay with it, you can add me.
It's about the victory not the battle 😤 inner strength is a super power many fear. "Fear has no place here" has become my mantra. 💪528 and 917Hz have really helped with releasing emotional trauma. Loving my hermit mode 🥰 I apperciate you and these little nuggets of wisdom. Much obliged.🙌
sound frequency. Tones and vibration to move stagnant energies from the bodies meridians. The meridians are connected to chakras and become blocked. 528 and 917 are connected to emotional release. @@mochimeng2637
I have said it before and I'll say it again, everything begins from you. To feel desperate means that you are rejecting your potential to impact the environment surrounding you. The significant difference between us and most people is that when we feel desperate we tend to isolate ourselfs in hermit mode, but that doesn't mean that other people who we feel rejected and misunderstood by are happy, no. It's just the extroversion and the hierarchy acceptance that is holding their heads above water. In this case why we have to be so hard on ourselfs and reject our own potential? The mainstream people who seems to be always understood and valued for everything they are doing are actually the most miserable because connecting with people comes naturally to them, but in that process they forget to connect with their own souls. #FightINFJFight
My life just got significantly worse. My best friend of over 55 years just told me, in very hateful times, that we're no longer friends. I was there to take him out for lunch after not hearing from him for 3 months. But he refused in a very angry way and told me that not only he but that NOBODY wanted to be my friend. It has hit me really hard. Both he and I are only children, we've been like brothers. He said he owed me no explanation and refused to talk. I am devastated and blindsided. For an insightful INFJ I feel totally at a loss and alone. I have no insight as to the why of this situation.
@@tnt01 thank you for your vote of confidence in me. I have been driven crazy trying to think of what I did wrong. To end a relationship of over 55 years would suggest something dramatic but for the life of me I can't see what it was. It's maddening.
