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Research shows that confidence is crucial in the workplace. Those who exude confidence are generally perceived as more competent and are more likely to be considered for leadership or promotion opportunities.
Feeling confident is important because it contributes to increased productivity and risk-taking that can lead to career advancement.
But, it's not just about how you 'feel'. The external appearance of confidence is equally crucial, because those who appear confident, instil confidence in others. They're generally more likely to secure a promotion and opportunities and are more influential, even if others may have accomplished more yet lack perceived confidence.
And here's the good news- While some believe that confidence is an innate trait (and there's some degree of truth to that), it's also a skill that can be acquired through learning.
In this video I share 5 simple research-based tips to help you exude greater confidence. This is especially helpful if you're an introvert, or you know you're doing great work but you're not being recognized for it.
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@vishal3927
@vishal3927 3 года назад
Summary 1 posture / body language 2 keep smiling (positivity) 3 speak slowly and in controled manner 4 walk confidently 5 eye contact
@rahmanrzayev797
@rahmanrzayev797 3 года назад
Thanks
@tamizhi2598
@tamizhi2598 3 года назад
❤️
@ramaraju4621
@ramaraju4621 3 года назад
So Become Putin...
@TomJerry-bp9ig
@TomJerry-bp9ig 3 года назад
Bruh..u saved me from torcher😒
@ChandanKumar-wn2em
@ChandanKumar-wn2em 3 года назад
Thank you cheete 🐆
@DrJonTam
@DrJonTam 2 года назад
Timestamps: 2:01 1. Posture 3:10 2. Smile more 3:46 3. Speak slowly and clearly 4:14 4. Walk with confidence 5:14 5. Eye contact
@m_sharif
@m_sharif Год назад
Thanks.
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад
Thank you 🥰🥰😊😊
@gouravpatel7407
@gouravpatel7407 Год назад
saved my time... thanks
@upsc3526
@upsc3526 Год назад
People in India who speak loudly are called confident 🤣
@adityakumargupta6641
@adityakumargupta6641 Год назад
Thanks
@mystyle7121
@mystyle7121 Год назад
One more way I'd like to add is to learn more & gain knowledge as much as you can. Knowledge boosts our confidence & gives us the strength to outsmart people who talk shit or poses smarter than other. When you're full of knowledge, it restores confidence in you then you won't feel afraid in standing anywhere whether it's a group or a crowd. I have practiced it & now I'm so much more confident about myself.
@FatoumataBa-tg4sk
@FatoumataBa-tg4sk 10 месяцев назад
For sure
@PinupSticknerd
@PinupSticknerd 5 месяцев назад
Yup. Quite restorative
@AppleThink
@AppleThink 3 года назад
Today is the 1st day I seen in you ever in RU-vid- my 1st thought is “This is an angel” Thank you for the service you do into Earth ❤️
@galaxy999in
@galaxy999in 2 года назад
Confidence, it's a feeling. You feel it and it shows all around naturally, without any particular projection or effort. If you don't feel it, perhaps for a while you can bluff with some or the other projection, but eventually people see through your nervousness.
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад
I totally agree with you, my friend
@powerplay6864
@powerplay6864 Год назад
But I think what she is trying to convey that looking confident is equally important
@HameedKhan-cs6cy
@HameedKhan-cs6cy Год назад
Fake it,till you make it.
@rachitpatel3189
@rachitpatel3189 7 месяцев назад
Well said 👏
@escahmet7487
@escahmet7487 3 года назад
The self-confident is the most important thing for myself because I really reach my goals just with my self-confidence. Thank you for this episode Shade!
@raselarvin1807
@raselarvin1807 Год назад
1. Speak slowly 2. Walk confine 3. Eye contact 4. Smile 5. posture That's enough for me. I will keep the rule. Thank you so much
@arthoormoorgen9492
@arthoormoorgen9492 3 года назад
I really need this, pandemics really has been decreasing my social skills 🤣
@ioftendontreplybacktoidiot5251
@ioftendontreplybacktoidiot5251 2 года назад
Ikr It's even worse when you are an extrovert or wait when you WAS an extrovert💀
@asinazeez4014
@asinazeez4014 2 года назад
Exactly
@phillyfan-182
@phillyfan-182 2 года назад
Me too!!! On the up and up again!!!
@lawrencefox563
@lawrencefox563 Год назад
Berry nice
@muhammadbinmomin5752
@muhammadbinmomin5752 Год назад
The same is true for me, really !
@advaithhegde5553
@advaithhegde5553 2 года назад
Looking confident: 1)Neck straight and shoulders relaxed 2)Keep smiling 3)Speak slowly in a controlled manner 4)Walk confidently 5)Keep eye contact
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад
Thank you for that. I am so gratitude for that
@rehandhani7574
@rehandhani7574 2 года назад
Confidence first rule is to accept whatever you are.be ok with ur looks and don't care of others thoughts as u can't change them at all. then confidence will itself run towards u
@sum5687
@sum5687 Год назад
Im confident from inside but i hv below average looking face so my face doesn't look confidnt n that's y im stil not successful n depressed frm last 7 yrs n now ovr 30 n still struggling
@rachitpatel3189
@rachitpatel3189 7 месяцев назад
Wow, good point 👍
@OrganizationXIII
@OrganizationXIII 6 месяцев назад
This
@savin1999
@savin1999 2 года назад
Ma'am, your speech clarity reflects the hard yards you had put over the years to strive for perfection. I want to do the same and hopefully this video can inspire me to begin it ☺️
@ValentinaGulpe
@ValentinaGulpe Год назад
Confidence is extremely important for any human being! I find that the more I am an expert in a field I am trying to be confident in the easier it is to be, for example, you wanna be confident in your dancing! then practice! Improve yourself! By improving yourself you are improving your confidence. From one creator to another great WORK! Love your videos!
@bazmerashid9960
@bazmerashid9960 2 года назад
The way you express yourself on different topics is really amazing. Your guidelines are of great importance for learners.
@bhimpokhrel4059
@bhimpokhrel4059 3 года назад
Yes, I actually want to be confident in public speaking. Confident also reflect our personality. Awesome strategies.Thank you so much.
@myNAMEisKIRSTY
@myNAMEisKIRSTY Год назад
I tried walking more upright and looking straight ahead while I walk at work, to see if it made any difference. I was shocked at the difference it made in how senior coworkers interacted with me and the respect I felt! Definately worth it!
@vaidyanathanrs6109
@vaidyanathanrs6109 Месяц назад
Shade quite inspiring confidence listening to you. Only your fast american accent a bit unnatiral as it sounds is msking it difficult to follow. Hopefully will come up with Clsrity. I ❤U.
@irshadahmadkhan5257
@irshadahmadkhan5257 Год назад
In my opinion the more honest and hardworking a person is, the more confident he/She will appear, but thank you so much for your very important points in this regard...Watching from Kashmir India...
@sandiepyaadav
@sandiepyaadav 3 года назад
Superb as always! Amazing tips backed by strong research. Thank you so much for this efforts! Wish I could attend your seminars! I am sure it will have an amazing energy and positivity. 👍
@umeshmehta5132
@umeshmehta5132 Год назад
Confidence isn't a skill, its a trait of your personality. It can't be cultivated overnight. It can't be like that you decide "oh let's look confident tomorrow". It doesn't work that way. You can't fake confidence. Confidence is consequence of hard work, honesty & consistency over a prolonged period. This way it is build up organically as an extension of your personality & it oozes out naturally from you without any need to project it artificially.
@salmasl5339
@salmasl5339 Год назад
But we can fake it till we make it .why not .tbh I'm not confident but I try my best to be confident i usually fake confidence . Yeah its working very well .
@umeshmehta5132
@umeshmehta5132 Год назад
@@salmasl5339 may be you can fake it & it will work at times but this habit will never let you develop the real confidence one that is extension of your personality. Remember in the time of crisis or real test fake confidence will fall flat & only confidence which has developed organically over a long period of time will take you places.
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226
Exactly. What most people didn’t know is that not even bod language is necessary to convey it. There becomes a light from within visible, a mystical energy, when one is core confident. It’s the energy which introduces us before we even show our bodies. So, all the guys pumping up their shoulders don’t know they just make themselves look quite unnatural and ridiculous. Women feel their energy without even needing to look at them. They call it „charismatic masculine energy“ which is, as you say, impossible to fake
@hsd2002123
@hsd2002123 Год назад
@@salmasl5339 Then you'll cultivate your personality/reputation as a fake person. I learned from experts that, you need to be humble even though you are the smartest person on the planet😏
@psrv97
@psrv97 4 месяца назад
Perfectly agreed to all the points. Pandemic and bad company hindered my growth in confidence. It definitely is a task to conquer. I would also like to add that confidence grows better with increased subjective knowledge and experience.
@DonYutuc
@DonYutuc 2 месяца назад
Wow, Shadé! These are very helpful. I've heard, "fake it till you make it." When I was in high school, I stood by a wall and straightened my back, balanced a book on my head and started walking. Today I'm 63 but I feel confident like a 63-year-old. At heart, ❤ I feel 23.
@AntySsy
@AntySsy 2 месяца назад
Juat wow❤
@mrrishiraj88
@mrrishiraj88 2 года назад
🤔 Even the initial seconds of this episode elevated my confidence. Gratitude!
@himashreehazarika5112
@himashreehazarika5112 3 года назад
I just can't skip your videos by half watching. Thanks lot for sharing such kind of videos which are always require in our everyday life.
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад
I totally agree with you, my friend. They are so useful for everyone
@awaisjamil9956
@awaisjamil9956 Месяц назад
I remember watching these videos a few years back and there would be around a thousand views. Now im seeing this video and it has 1.4 million views, so happy to see this and the level of success that youve achieved, very much deserved.
@sinanhamad2579
@sinanhamad2579 2 года назад
In addition to the time-tested qualities of the ways you are recommending, the vedio production is of a high quality and soothing in and of itself. Thank you Shade, you rock!
@triciajensen9679
@triciajensen9679 2 года назад
I absolutely love listening to you & find the content very useful and practical. I really appreciate all the information that you pass along.
@user-dl4hn6um1d
@user-dl4hn6um1d 10 месяцев назад
Hi sweet gf
@abdulrazzak3976
@abdulrazzak3976 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing these outstanding tips regarding confidence... May God Bless You 👍👍👍
@Dinesh-ks4yc
@Dinesh-ks4yc 5 месяцев назад
I can see , you have gone through pain. But that , has made you , a much , stronger person. Kudos
@KimikoMaui
@KimikoMaui Год назад
I am so happy to find this. I am a massage therpist and corrective exercise specialist with focus in posture for musculoskeletal health. But I also teach clients to create energy by standing open and tall, keep eyes ahead and looking a bit foward, and activate toes while walking. It's an instant energy booster. This intrisincly increases confidence internally and your confidence will be recognized quickly by others. I advocate the use of body management in order to support the mind. Stand tall and activated and the mind will follow.
@thanurprannavm7066
@thanurprannavm7066 Год назад
When you're dolled up like Shàde Zehrai, you will be confident
@edgemarastazi8804
@edgemarastazi8804 3 года назад
This message is so instructive and covers many realm of Life!! Thanks a lot dear Ma
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад
❤❤👍👍
@HussainA.Selmia
@HussainA.Selmia 10 месяцев назад
Absolutely loved this video, Shade Zahrai! 😊 Your tips on boosting confidence are pure gold. It's incredible how you've broken down the process into 5 simple yet impactful steps. The way you emphasize the power of body language and self-expression truly resonates. Your insights are not just about looking confident, but about feeling it from within. Thank you for sharing such practical advice that anyone can apply in their daily lives. Keep shining your positivity and wisdom! Can't wait to put these tips into action. 💪🌟
@balraambalraam905
@balraambalraam905 Год назад
The self confident is the most important thing for my self because I really reach my goals just with my self confidence thank you for this episode❤❤❤❤
@bitcointradinginternationa1260
@bitcointradinginternationa1260 2 года назад
Thank you Shade. Love the short videos!
@GurpreetSinghKalsiking
@GurpreetSinghKalsiking 3 года назад
You are Amazing... and so confident!
@sunofpeter2
@sunofpeter2 2 года назад
I dig this gals message and delivery. I have a short conversation with her and she listens and delivers. Good stuff
@BrothersGame77
@BrothersGame77 2 года назад
I wish I could return my confidence back. Really struggling to find a job, my qualifications can’t helping me. Very respect you and love your every video. Wish you the best of luck. This video is very helpful 👍
@Answersonapostcard
@Answersonapostcard Год назад
Regarding walking, I think having a straight but relaxed posture with shoulders back makes you feel (and project) more confident. In the west people walk a lot faster than in say Latin America where they have a totally different concept of time, but this often means that people are in a rush all the time when they don't really need to be. If you look rushed and stressed then this can make you appear less approachable. You can still walk slowly and appear confident. Think of people like Hank Moody from the TV show Californication, or producer Mark Ronson. Both are confident people, but very relaxed and are not rushing around..
@garvitgarg3854
@garvitgarg3854 3 года назад
Hello Mam, I really admire your videos.😊I have a request if you can make a video on "how to convey our thoughts to people without being rude especially to our seniors and elders who believe they know more than anybody".
@sangrambaliarsingh8719
@sangrambaliarsingh8719 Год назад
I really love her powerful teaching
@laxmitiwari9285
@laxmitiwari9285 Год назад
I really happy ur teaching style
@thepluralist5856
@thepluralist5856 Год назад
You confidently speak on the topic of confidence and body posture! :-)
@snazzyquizzes2336
@snazzyquizzes2336 3 года назад
Great advice! Now I know how to seem more confident!
@marygrace5054
@marygrace5054 2 года назад
I love this more Shadé. All your tips was very helpful 😍😍💖💖💞💞 confidence is the skills that can be learn . Yayyyyy .
@kotasudhakar
@kotasudhakar Год назад
the voice..... man o man...... Your voice is just too good to be true...
@adwaitdalvi6406
@adwaitdalvi6406 3 года назад
THE PERSON WHO DISLIKED THIS VIDEO SHOULD BE FROM PARALLEL UNIVERSE WHERE CONFIDENCE IS BAD HABIT 😂 LOVED THIS VIDEO & LOVE SHADE ZAHRAI❤️
@prajask9516
@prajask9516 5 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing valuable information❤
@pacificviews2796
@pacificviews2796 2 года назад
Thanks you are discussing topics concerned with today's world and lifestyle and giving proper advice to improve.😀🌹
@shekhargupta6718
@shekhargupta6718 Год назад
In situations such as interviews, presentations and even just regular conversations, appearing poised and assured can make a real impact on how you portray yourself. In these instances, a lack of confidence can make you seem unsure of what you are saying, which in turn can make you seem less credible
@Chronade
@Chronade 3 года назад
That's very useful, Shadé... Thank you! 🧡
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 3 года назад
You're so welcome! 😊
@PhokenKuul
@PhokenKuul 3 года назад
And here's why the Dunning-Kruger Effect causes most organizations to lose their edge over time.
@hassanbabapour
@hassanbabapour Год назад
Due to social skills being the nuts and bolts of social interaction, your tips are gonna be really worthwhile.
@Chris-hp2gg
@Chris-hp2gg Месяц назад
Shoulders back, stomach in, chest out. Learn it, know it, live it.❤
@saikumarbolamwar93
@saikumarbolamwar93 3 года назад
My friend suggest me your videos and each day I'm growing and learning.. Thank you mam. Love from India 🇮🇳
@ankitamalick8626
@ankitamalick8626 2 года назад
Yess. Me too. And also from India
@Smart-wh4oe
@Smart-wh4oe 2 года назад
Wow. I’m more confident after this video ❤️
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb Год назад
Amo suas aulas prof ❤
@rr67001
@rr67001 Год назад
Hi Shade, that was a very brilliant video. Highly indebted to you for making such videos in between your busy schedule. Thanks a lot , for your hardwork and sincerity. Cheers!!!!!!!!!
@louiscooks4943
@louiscooks4943 3 года назад
This is amazing advice, thank you :))
@mohzmmedzia3165
@mohzmmedzia3165 3 года назад
It's not about looking confident. You have to feel confident. That's important
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 3 года назад
Exactly. That is the aim. 👍🏽
@mbs0710
@mbs0710 3 года назад
@@ShadeZahrai noted :)
@nazopedia6577
@nazopedia6577 Год назад
@@ShadeZahrai just fell in love what you said. immediately subscribed to your channel. would you please give advice how can i improve my English Speaking like you?
@ManaMind
@ManaMind 23 дня назад
and Be Kind to Yourself . Accept yourself as you are in the present. Acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses without judgment. ☘☘🌟
@EnglandEngland-cr2sh
@EnglandEngland-cr2sh 3 года назад
Confidence is really incredible skill
@PraveenSY
@PraveenSY Год назад
Summary: Walk with a confident stride, speak slowly & clearly with great posture, smile & effective eye contact
@lokeshn07
@lokeshn07 3 года назад
I'll anytime choose to work with people with clarity than confidence. Confidence without clarity is damaging in the long run. Your co-workers or subordinates will suffer if you're a non performer even if you have confidence.
@harshmakwana8001
@harshmakwana8001 3 года назад
Well if the person is speaking with clarity, it means that the person has proper knowledge of the subject, which in other terms is that he is confident in his experience and knowledge, so on some level its the same thing!
@junaid.ahsan_ind
@junaid.ahsan_ind 3 года назад
Awesome Shades! Thanks for the lovely help I think u r doing a great work. Keep it up..
@proudindian982
@proudindian982 3 года назад
I would like to know your suggestions for choosing career
@monk729
@monk729 3 года назад
Take a career test
@aaronjohn6586
@aaronjohn6586 3 года назад
Check out Mike Rowe and then ask yourself 1 question "What are you good", what things are your hobbies that you can turn into a career?"
@roxrtk3299
@roxrtk3299 3 года назад
Whatever u would like to spend ur life doing... Just go for it dude, life is short
@navyak7036
@navyak7036 3 года назад
I can help you with that
@markdailey8526
@markdailey8526 3 года назад
Choose a career, there that’s your advice.
@ChinmayDhumal
@ChinmayDhumal 3 года назад
How confident one should be to click so fast Shade's video? 😛
@earnmoneyonline5370
@earnmoneyonline5370 3 года назад
🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️
@SatishKumar-qb3gm
@SatishKumar-qb3gm 2 года назад
Absolutely , it's very necessary
@mrrishiraj88
@mrrishiraj88 2 года назад
Quite helpful tips, esp. keeping one's chin lifted well. Thanks, Shadé!
@meowmeow3405
@meowmeow3405 2 года назад
The best tip to be confident is "do the right thing and avoid doing bad things" just keep it in mind that what you're doing is right then you'll be naturally confident in any situation...
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb Год назад
Amo suas aulas prof ❤❤❤ very thank you ❤❤❤
@TxscratchoffWinner
@TxscratchoffWinner Год назад
I love your confidence Shadé!
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb 11 месяцев назад
Amo suas aulas prof ❤❤❤❤❤
@user-io5qt7fk3k
@user-io5qt7fk3k 6 месяцев назад
Thank you! Shade, I really love this video.
@neerajsaxena
@neerajsaxena Год назад
No person on this planet was born with a talent, It is either perspective or hard work. Everything or anything could be learned.
@RiseWithin787
@RiseWithin787 3 месяца назад
Thank you Shadé for sharing these valuable insights
@silentopedia
@silentopedia Год назад
Thanks for the tips and found it so relatable and trustworthy because you seemed so confident throughout the whole video. I always talk fast when it comes to presentation day at university and it definitely shows the nerves, but will try working on it to be a better speaker.
@yasinros426
@yasinros426 Год назад
Thanks for sharing. Will definitely give a try. The "psychology of posture" was something new I learnt about.
@bharatVAK
@bharatVAK 3 года назад
Upped the ante with this episode. Very useful Shadè Zahrai
@hasanal-dhabyani1950
@hasanal-dhabyani1950 Год назад
Like the way you talk about things and explain their nature!! ❤️
@jfgraham45
@jfgraham45 6 месяцев назад
I really enjoy your positive approach and great ideas. The world news is so negative. If we are not careful, the weeds grow faster than the flowers. Thanks again.😊
@komalupadhyaya30
@komalupadhyaya30 Год назад
A soft spoken person can be confident, it's all about past experiences and learnings
@ahmedaliwazir258
@ahmedaliwazir258 9 месяцев назад
Thanks for making and posting this video. I am expecting more such valuable experience based video on your channel
@existensistrubczthentruscatt
@existensistrubczthentruscatt 3 года назад
You are the example of what you saying,i like it.💓🙏
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb Год назад
Belíssima amo suas aulas ❤❤❤❤❤
@homechef8383
@homechef8383 2 года назад
Great,thanks for sharing so valuable tips.
@uzmaali5559
@uzmaali5559 Год назад
Thank you for such anazing tips. I m gonna apply them in my daily life. I hope these are gonna work🌸
@kingriff5178
@kingriff5178 Год назад
Ooh man@ Watching n listening this lady is something more than anything.❤❤❤
@djp91p21
@djp91p21 2 года назад
Just love this woman 💗
@bapsymcdowall9574
@bapsymcdowall9574 2 года назад
Good on you for explaining, great video for men and woman..
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb Год назад
Prof❤ sua aula tá maravilhosa obg❤❤❤❤
@powerplay6864
@powerplay6864 Год назад
All great points, worth inculcating in day to day life
@Funk0088
@Funk0088 2 года назад
Confidence is the righteously giving gratitude .....
@odairrodriguesmarques4245
@odairrodriguesmarques4245 3 года назад
Hummm... Nice one. Very interesting . I do agree.
@ThanhTran-kd5pv
@ThanhTran-kd5pv 4 месяца назад
We want to confident in my life. We have to a lot of knowledge about any field. Confidence- proficiency- success !
@ANUJKUMAR-un6iv
@ANUJKUMAR-un6iv Год назад
coming here after watching your Tiktok videos....love your content...keep motivating cheers
@Sachin_Sharma08
@Sachin_Sharma08 Год назад
Love from India..👍👍🥰🥰 I saw ur Videos on regular way..& they give me too much Benifits in daily life..👻👻
@umaradhami
@umaradhami 3 года назад
You are simply amazing. The best
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb
@gidalvopinheiro-ho5qb Год назад
Sua aula tá linda obg prof ❤❤❤❤ bom demais ❤❤
@pratulshetty
@pratulshetty 2 года назад
She's Glowing bright ✨
@anwarmamun2020
@anwarmamun2020 3 года назад
So amazing! A woman knows so much! 😉
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