5 WAYS Women Make Themselves LOOK Desperate (MAJOR Turn Offs)

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5 WAYS Women Make Themselves LOOK Desperate (MAJOR Turn Offs)... When it comes to dating and relationships, there are a few things that make women look desperate, like constantly seeking validation or going to greater lengths to impress your man. I want you to understand men better, know what men want, and how to avoid the things that make a woman look desperate. This relationship advice for women will help you avoid the things that make women look desperate so you can focus on building relationships based on mutual respect.
One thing that makes women look desperate is when they put themselves down or apologize for being themselves. When a woman looks desperate, she may unintentionally push his man away by appearing overly eager or needy in her interactions, which may hinder the development of healthy and balanced relationships. Women should learn from these things that make them desperate to avoid pushing good men away.
Things that make women desperate are embarrassing because they can be seen as signs of weakness, insecurity, and neediness. Women who look desperate should take time to reflect on the reasons for their behavior so that they can identify and address the underlying issues. Understanding these things that make women desperate is essential as it will help you overcome desperation.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you can enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

★Get my books and more! 👉www.stephanspeaksshop.com

@ladyent3674 8 месяцев назад

I think both parties should plan or at least give an input of preference when it comes to date night. If one person does all the planning then things can become one sided and unfair. The payer may end up paying for things they don't enjoy; they may resent time spent. The planner may never discover the interest of the payer. How do you find middle ground in a situation like that?

@pazlacostaverde2453 5 месяцев назад

I am desperate, but I don't give out my number.. 😂😂😂😂

@Portia620 Месяц назад

Looking and realistically desperate is two things .

@joyricherson4570 9 месяцев назад

"You wont be clingy to the man that wants to cling to you."

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Most definitely!

@r828realty 9 месяцев назад

exactly

@Pinkcandy777 9 месяцев назад

I like Cling ons😅😅😅

@angie-jo1mn 9 месяцев назад

💯🎯👌

@marygranke204 9 месяцев назад

I don't like clingy people and especially my partner.

@ATenderTouch 9 месяцев назад

Rejection is God’s redirection to someone better in your life ❤

@pamelabrown2028 9 месяцев назад

Yes !!!

@piyu2003 9 месяцев назад

Or to become better yourself first, so that you may find someone better.

@pamelabrown2028 9 месяцев назад

@@piyu2003 only my opinion...but i think we should work on ourselves to be the best we can , not to find someone, but because thats what God designed us for. If HE wants us to be with someone He will bring them in His perfect timing !!

@ATenderTouch 9 месяцев назад

@@piyu2003 I’m quoting @meetstephanspeaks

@Dollface2186 9 месяцев назад

I felt that!

@patriciapatricia3586 9 месяцев назад

I don't think women's interests change all the time. I think a woman loses interest in a man when he starts to give mixed messages or draws back with no reason 🤷

@leannegraceliberty 9 месяцев назад

Correct 💯💯

@mariesmall688 9 месяцев назад

This!

@CLJ7519 9 месяцев назад

💯

@celestinebennett212 9 месяцев назад

You are 100% right

@mzion4686 9 месяцев назад

Amen, and Amen!! Let them know ❤

@Taruna1 9 месяцев назад

Dealt with a man before, I expressed interest without being overboard. He still went out of his way to try to get me jealous and to try to chase him. I walked away . No time for immature men

@Victoriaistalented 9 месяцев назад

Yes glad you walked away!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

@heatherjeffrey8997 9 месяцев назад

Hi Stephan, you are so good at explaining everything so good. i like to initiate sometimes to talk about a topic .

@BlackCatholicGirl 9 месяцев назад

that's because you expressed interrest duhhhh, you are actually the immature one.

@Taruna1 9 месяцев назад

@@BlackCatholicGirl Did you actually listen to the video ???!! Expressing interest is not a bad thing. your comment is immature

@yue1029 7 месяцев назад

Dating has become so complicated, physically and emotionally exhausting. I kinda want to give up and just accept the fact that I'm going to be forever alone with cats and travel the world.

@Ashtarot77 4 месяца назад

I'm at that point now. Ready to throw in the towel. Travel the world before you get the cats though cause you'll have to put them in a boarding kennel while you're away 😂

@erinalexander4017 3 месяца назад

Same here!

@serenitygilles7064 3 месяца назад

have a cat laying on me right now lol

@Kennedigracee_ 3 месяца назад

Same here. I only had one relationship & it seems so difficult when you wanted a life so bad with the person you wanted forever.

@cheyenneburn8342 3 месяца назад

Same

@AliceInWonderlandWasHigh2020 9 месяцев назад

If a man is genuinely showing interest in you and you like him too, don’t play silly games like “playing hard to get or making him jealous “. It’s as simple as that!

@IslandGurl85 9 месяцев назад

Agree both mature just be vulnerable and honest tell each other how you really feel. Don’t play games one thing ppl get so scared of having their heart broken they walk away from something that could be worth it in the long run. But we give up so easily tomorrow is it guaranteed so be brave and tell them how you feel

@Hexterify15 9 месяцев назад

What about a man who likes and cares about you according to him but because she's older he refuse to commit just want to have sex. He's always acting like you are both in a serious relationship, making you feel like you are his babe when he has already mentioned from onset it's just sex because of the age difference, tho she believes he is not even ready apart from the age difference and he also likes hiding his emotions never expressive. Please what do you say on this kind of situation?

@AliceInWonderlandWasHigh2020 9 месяцев назад

@Hexterify15 first things first you have to know what you want, I’m not an encourager of premarital sex, but in this case I’ll say that if you are willing to accept his conditions of “no commitment “ then continue with him. But if you want a serious relationship then end it so that you don’t waste many years with a man who eventually tells you that he’s done with you. He’s lack of vulnerability with you shows that he’s not interested in letting you into his world. That man is not ready for anything serious as you have already stated, so move on sis. Get you a man who is intentionally pursuing you for a serious relationship if that’s what you want. Don’t look at the potential of what could possibly happen, the “maybe I can show him that he can be with me and ask me to be his woman”. As women we get more emotionally invested in relationships than men. Men can literally have s!x with a woman they are not emotionally invested in. I hope this helps.

@AliceInWonderlandWasHigh2020 9 месяцев назад

Another thing…. the fact that he doesn’t mind sleeping with despite him being “bothered “ by the age difference screams liar to me. If he is so bothered by the age difference, he would have gone for someone his age. For as long as you are 2 concerting adults the age difference shouldn’t be an issue.

@Hexterify15 9 месяцев назад

@@AliceInWonderlandWasHigh2020 thank you so much for your response, well appreciated.

@godseed79 9 месяцев назад

I would love to see good men get back to feeling confident enough to approach a woman he's interested in. Of course, women have to make this process more pleasant.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Indeed, it really helps when women embrace that.

@eddieneyman4035 9 месяцев назад

Thanks for this comment. It is really kind and understanding of the good men out there who do have anxieties and could use the help.

@Medietos 8 месяцев назад

Agree, with the asddition that both sexes have to do healing and maturation work, love dosn't go, dvelop and keep by itself

@ImJazzmineLeigh 8 месяцев назад

Strongly agree.

@amandblucher6630 2 месяца назад

Alot of good men been hurt

@joyh.729 8 месяцев назад

‘If you have to keep pushing for a relationship then you need to start walking.’ 🎯🎯🎯

@heathergrahame9647 9 месяцев назад

A decent man would say "no thanks" to a woman rather than be silent and leave her hanging, not knowing. It's a bit revolting that rather than the man being honest and clear, the woman is expected to review her own behaviour and question whether she is going too far.

@user-jg6ib5cj4k 9 месяцев назад

Say that again!!!

@frankG335 8 месяцев назад

Just like women, men aren't perfect communicators. They think a woman will get the hint when they don't respond, or stop responding.

@mariellazavala72 5 месяцев назад

This is happening to to me at the moment . I wish he’d be just upfront about it & let me know if he’s interested or not . If not , no big deal ! Instead of having me guess & texting me one day and then ghosting me for days . I can’t with that . & I’ve just met him through text from a mutual friend .

@sosoata6512 5 месяцев назад

@@mariellazavala72 ghost him

@pqt112 2 месяца назад

Lol men never tell a woman no

@rhondawyatt398 4 месяца назад

Love the man who loves you , don't bend over backward for a man who doesn't pay you any attention

@bunnyboonot4u 4 месяца назад

💯!! Don't waste your time! Right?

@user-jg6ib5cj4k 9 месяцев назад

Listen Ladies…a vast majority of these men out here aren’t worth pursuing. They think they’re Gods Gift To a Woman…wanna be players both young and old! It’s not worth it if they’re not interested MOVE ON!!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Kindly don’t say that, there are a lot of good men out there!

@275MsParis 9 месяцев назад

You’re so right about that

@heatherjeffrey8997 9 месяцев назад

Stephan thanks much nice topic.

@ravenraven966 9 месяцев назад

@@user-jg6ib5cj4k, hello sister... I happen to agree with you 💯 percent... Stephan has much great advice... but as for there being a lot of good men out there... I too respectfully disagree. From what I've seen and personally experienced...then again it does go both ways...I know a great guy who is too young for me.. but him and I have been friends for over eight years and this guy has not been able to find a down to earth woman either.. it's a tough world for sure.. thanks for speaking your truth🕊️

@user-jg6ib5cj4k 9 месяцев назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks respectfully Steven that’s not what I said. I said the majority of these men aren’t worth pursuing. There are still a few good men out there. I’ve heard horror stories from a lot of good women who have encountered wolves in sheep clothing… playing the game disrespecting good women. This is coming from a confident sister with 6 decades of life experience. I feel lm qualified to speak truth into this issue. The more a woman puts herself out there the more likely she’ll be “plowed and played”.

@ofkgjsl 9 месяцев назад

After working in sales I learned one thing about relationships: Always make the best offer. Never try to convince. And don‘t lower your value until it‘s very cheap and heeeeell naw - never ever give anything away for free.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@user-jg6ib5cj4k 9 месяцев назад

Amen Sister! Tell it like it is!

@KM-oy5yh 8 месяцев назад

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

@bnb0510 9 месяцев назад

If a man wants you to be the chaser, he’s a player! Period!

@soundtravels4348 3 месяца назад

I told him "I'm not interested in being your friend, I'd like to date and get to know each other better. So you just let me know if you ever want to take me on a date" and then I left it alone. We shall see.

@kimberlyjackson8064 26 дней назад

Update? Did he respond?

@Savingrace457 9 месяцев назад

Some men move very slowly, and I do not think that we give ourselves enough time to get to know a person because we jump head-first into a serious relationship. If I had given myself enough time, I wouldn't have married the wrong man after a year of dating. I looked past so many things, red flags because I wanted to get married badly, mainly because I was 42. Now, I am taking my time before I jump into a relationship with someone because I need something more than now. A bond made of concrete and steel, a friendship, sounds healthy to me. And allow things to move organically. At 49 years old, I am too old to keep making the same mistakes of dealing with the actions of desperation.

@lnaph 9 месяцев назад

I'm curious how that effected thr way you date. A year seems like a good amount of time. Curioud how you move differently now

@Savingrace457 9 месяцев назад

@@lnaph Great question. I am working on myself, and I am allowing myself to move according to my comfort zone. So, I am moving slowly because I need to do what is best for me, and if a man wants to move faster, that will make me feel uncomfortable.

@Savingrace457 9 месяцев назад

@@lnaph A year is good enough if you are desperate. There were too many red flags that I ignored. Not all red flags are wrong; it is what a person can handle. A man moving too fast for me is a big red g flag and will cause me to run and run fast

@lnaph 9 месяцев назад

@@Savingrace457 agreed lovebombing or pushing a relationship too soon is trouble.

@lnaph 9 месяцев назад

@@Savingrace457 I heard men usually know by 6 months if they want to marry a girl or not... so while I wouldn't get married then, I wouldn't personally want to drag it out too long either...

@joyricherson4570 9 месяцев назад

Just make sure you're ok with rejection. Also be prepared for that argument when he says I DIDN'T EVEN LIKE YOU, YOU CAME TO ME!

@IDChannel24 9 месяцев назад

I felt that one😢

@Itsnurselo2you 9 месяцев назад

That’s crazy because I definitely experienced and the only reason who I went to him is because he wasn’t man enough to speak up and express interest and I say that because after I was notified he got my number my friend said he was excited than I guess he called him self feeling spicy a few weeks in trying to throw a shot

@luvingmerevivedandblessed8520 9 месяцев назад

Except when they're and twist things when they approached u in the first place.👀

@mabathomosekeli 9 месяцев назад

Exactly 💯

@FreeQueen-md7zm 9 месяцев назад

@@Itsnurselo2you feelin' spicy, 😂😂😂

@emithesheep 9 месяцев назад

My singing coach used to say “Don’t chase, attract” Something I am working on as a young woman, is to put the same energy as he does. It’s hard to do this in practise, but it is worth saving yourself from the heartache.

@sylvievachon1020 9 месяцев назад

Yes be yourself. Find the one who matches your energy 😊

@RachelSDay1982 9 месяцев назад

I've always been old-fashioned, I guess, because I feel the man should take the lead. If he's really interested in you and he's actually emotionally available, he will initiate things.

@Princessfrmalmighty 7 месяцев назад

Me to I'm old fashion and been that way since little girl

@Kenyagirly 3 месяца назад

You are just scared of getting rejected

@karenmassey8354 Месяц назад

@@KenyagirlyNah. Life experience will teach you that if he wanted to he would. Period.

@junehat4217 21 час назад

Same, we're pretty much screwed. We will be waiting forever...

@rosebelizaire6397 8 месяцев назад

Don't complicate things in life. What meant for you will be

@aminahreviewsstuff 9 месяцев назад

Sometimes it's not desperate. I have a lot of guys interested in me but I happen to like this one guy in particular. But I get the message I'm gonna leave him alone.

@lynnmcmillian5137 9 месяцев назад

Don’t chase period! I’m too precious for that!❤❤❤❤❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@basicinfo2022 9 месяцев назад

👏👏👏

@AKgirl_ 9 месяцев назад

Some of us women aren’t desperate or needy, we have EXPECTATIONS that some men can’t handle. I had this experience with this one guy who i last contacted with, at the end, he was a turned off. We texted at times, he CALLED ME, asked for my #, always talked sexually & slid into my DMs. I cut off contact after a week.

@celestinebennett212 9 месяцев назад

Sometimes as a woman, it is good to pull back and watch everything from An "Aerial Perspective point of view" and Cut Lips...

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@shakeenasmith1193 9 месяцев назад

I love the way you put God into everything

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@ChocolateLover4365 4 месяца назад

Yes!!! ❤ 🙏

@vanniar2021 9 месяцев назад

I think there’s nothing wrong with showing I interest by flirting first. However after that the ball is in his court 😂

@kaoshi_kutie 9 месяцев назад

Agreed!!

@ambermontgomery1844 9 месяцев назад

I appreciate your transparency when you expressed that you are not a planner. I think some women try to force men into having certain qualities that aren’t natural to who they are and as a result create drama within the relationship. We woman can frustrate ourselves by expecting y’all to be something you just are not. This might even just be our way of trying to be in control. A topic for another day lol. I do believe that a man who’s attempting every once and awhile to honor their partner through their love language is demonstrating a willingness to want to meet the needs of their partner. Communication and respecting each others differences is what can create a beautiful partnership.

@KaimaVixen 8 месяцев назад

I love this comment! I realize a lot of women project how they are in a relationship onto their partners and inadvertently create resentment instead of trying to understand how their person operates. I think also there is so much unrealistic advice out there about how we need to be in relationships.

@annnee6818 3 месяца назад

@@KaimaVixen I agree to a certain extent but when a guy wants to see you high frequency and then suddenly just won't even give you a ball park figure? He's just not interested. He's got you on the back burner... he's not operating differently. He's being a dick

@coreviaflynn594 9 месяцев назад

I am so happy for your page it has helped me to keep My emotions stable as I began dating again after my husband passed away. I had not dated very much before getting married and felt adrift. Still learning but enjoying dating with such pertinent insights.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Glad I could help 🙏

@loveleiparadise9393 9 месяцев назад

"Be true to you".. always & forever & you'll never go wrong. Until you meet the right match, stay focused & be the best version of yourself that you can be 😊

@thewayofthewell4547 28 дней назад

Best and "to the point" answer! Fall in love with Jesus FIRST.

@zeljkamarson950 7 месяцев назад

This is so complicated and there are so many difficulties for something to go wrong that I don't want to be involved in any relationships at all.

@JanetTuttle-cb3xx 9 месяцев назад

This really helps, I was brought up ols school, as I am 66 yrs, my mother always told us to respect people's privacy, not chase men, etc. These days in a technological world, things are so much more difficult.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@cynthiahopper2025 2 месяца назад

…”Rejection is God’s redirection to something better in your life “…👏🏼💯💯💯 Stephan, that’s deep! I love it❤️

@KaimaVixen 3 месяца назад

Look ladies, I’m reading a lot of these comments and we are putting a lot of the onus on the men. We have to be real with ourselves… alot of us chase relationships because we are insecure with ourselves and our going to partners to validate the wounds within us (if you’re operating from a desperate place). When you’re needy you will always attract a dissatisfying person who is going to mirror back to you what you believe about your self… One thing to consider, it takes time to fall in love… a guy calling you everyday doesn’t mean he’s interested either… you have ti and yourself if it’s sustainable for someone to be with you at that intensity and if it will hold over for a long time. If to it doesn’t work out ask yourself what did you learn about yourself. Demonizing someone who rejected or didn’t give you the outcome you wanted will only hinder you from getting the love you desire. Take from this experience if someone one unwilling to love you as a sign that that’s not where you need to go but ask are you pouring love into yourself so you are not attracted to such people.

@wejoin 9 месяцев назад

Two strikes…yes. I’m too old to waste time. If he’s undecided, ain’t nobody got time for dat!😂

@73odus 9 месяцев назад

The secretary at my school left a staff phone list of emergency contact numbers on the staff room table (for staff to update). I took the bull by the horns and texted (one of my colleagues). We've been dating ever since (10 months) and are now talking about marriage.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

@itsstillhair6263 9 месяцев назад

Decernment is the opposite of desperation

@xojorgettexo3776 9 месяцев назад

I would say desperation can get in the way of discernment

@itsstillhair6263 9 месяцев назад

@@xojorgettexo3776 Definitely can

@smarco428 6 месяцев назад

My uncle used to say, "I'll buy, you fly"....meaning that he would pay for whatever the family dinner/event was & my aunt/we would make all of the arrangements. So, I really like your, "I'll pay, you plan" saying. I don't mind organizing the event, if it helps make the time we spend together actually happens, run smoothly & is awesome. Reciprocating each others' energy is key!

@ncrollberg360 2 месяца назад

I think dressing provocatively gets the wrong attention. Being feminine and understanding men well are keys that seem to be lost.

@ShanitaBartlett 17 дней назад

Gotta dress sexy classy

@thenutrientwhisperer3700 9 месяцев назад

I feel that in order to get someone to step towards you… you need to step back to give them that space💣

@thankfulblessed8496 9 месяцев назад

I’ve never been desperate and I always have let the man pursue me

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@mermer418 9 месяцев назад

This was so insightful. It’s great hearing things from a man’s perspective because men and women are so different. Hearing things straightforward from a man is necessary. At least for me. Thanks Stephan!

@leannegraceliberty 9 месяцев назад

Beautiful shirt! I love the colours 👌 Please note! 😂😂 I noticed the shirt, and typed this before you said it's okay to "Give a man a compliment" I approve of this message ❤

@sherry2250 9 месяцев назад

Lynn Whitfield was the obsessed/excessive actress in the movie A Thin Line Between Love and Hate with Martin Lawrence. The reason she was all up on him like that is because he decided to chase & string her along. She was happy in her real estate career until he decided it was ok for him to toy with her feelings knowing his real interest was for Regina King's character. He made promises to her that he never kept...he used and abused her which was totally wrong. Even though this was just a movie, it yet resonates in real life situations. All too often, men view women as toys for them to play with. They do not at all realize that KARMA will be something horrifying for them based upon their blatant mistreatment of women who only did right by and desired to love those men. The best gift any man can do for any woman is to NOT flirt with, talk to, look at or direct any other kind of flirty gestures at her if he is not genuinely interested. This behavior represents the WORST emotional damage he could ever do to her 😑!

@freeyeam752 25 дней назад

Well said 👏🏾

@debralitton4600 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for clearing some things up on here because I wasnt sure about some of this. Thanks so much for sharing.

@franniephilip8371 9 месяцев назад

Stephan, I love your approach and delivery of so much invaluable advice!!! I could listen to you all day every day❤🙌

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@Julie_loves_YHVH 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for being lighthearted with some not so light content. I appreciate when you laugh like out of blue like “sliding in on the DM’s”. I always crack up. Sometimes I can take myself too seriously so I enjoy opportunities to lighten up and laugh. 😄

@joyricherson4570 9 месяцев назад

But the thing is if HE THINKS YOU'RE DESPERATE, THEN YOU ARE TO HIM.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@BamaMotherTrucker 9 месяцев назад

I’m with you on the planning. I don’t do planning. I just go with the flow. If I want to do something, I just do it.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@terriwhalen3618 7 месяцев назад

I agree 👍! Presenting your interest in a sincere authentic way is priceless. It is being who you are. If the man doesn't show interest or is not ready, then we women need to respect this. Not everyone in society is going to like us or approve of us. We best get this truth down and understand that it's ok. If we can't be ourselves, then why attempt at a relationship. It will not work. Know who you are, know your standards, you be high standard yourself. Be sincere. Amen!

@chelbelASMR 9 месяцев назад

This isn’t just women to be fair.. this goes both ways. I agree with every single thing you’ve said, but for men and women. can see it from both angles 👏

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@MrsGoodbrainPresents 9 месяцев назад

Thanks. I’m happy I am on the right track. Communication is key spoken and unspoken. Pay attention to both especially your own.

@Britney_O 9 месяцев назад

I really needed this! Thanks for the update 😸

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

@authorlarhondanfelton9152 9 месяцев назад

Thank you Stephan. At some point it goes from desperation to begging. Either way, it’s not a good look 💜💜

@TeluguGirlInCanada 9 месяцев назад

I’m so happy for your page. It’s make me realize about my situations.

@marygranke204 9 месяцев назад

I like to plan. I am very much a planner. I would not have a problem planning if the man doesn't want to do that. And I am not a clingy person and I can't take a man who constantly needs to be underneath me all the time. The man has to have a life outside of me. Good information. Thank you so much.

@lifeasiknowit4137 8 месяцев назад

I loved the term situationship. You hit the nail on the head. And, on the topic of seeming sexually desperate, I'm latin so I'm a passionate lover, and the last 4 committed relationships I've been in 1-2 years, he made his sexual desires known at first, then 3 months into the relationship rejected my advances satisfied with just 1 time a month rather than a few times a week. My experience is that they want to be satisfied but won't put effort into reciprocating. Yet they would be the first to call me a cheater if I had my needs met elsewhere after being rejected by them. I just haven't met men with a true libido. Starting to think it's a fallacy.

@cheekytitaable 8 месяцев назад

Interesting! The part where you say they slow down esp in the bedroom is true… it makes me wonder.. one theory I have is they lose interest.

@frankG335 8 месяцев назад

You're having sex WAY TOO SOON. Men don't bond through sex until they're all the way in love. Studies with male rats, even, show that they lose interest early in the situation UNTIL a DIFFERENT female rat is introduced. Then, suddenly, he's into it again. This is just nature's way. Men take much longer to bond, but if you have sex with him too soon, he's not truly bonded to you. This has everything to do with brain differences and brain structure.

@SteffiNovaASMR_Replays 8 месяцев назад

I agree with you.

@SteffiNovaASMR_Replays 8 месяцев назад

@@cheekytitaableI think they lose interest when there’s no chase

@pqt112 2 месяца назад

Wtf did I just read?😂

@michellekatarina17 4 месяца назад

I am listening to your videos for almost a year and actually, from what I see RU-vid is sending me, your videos makes so much sense. I feel you are speaking from experience and I found so much truth in everything you say. I think, as a woman, we need to work on ourselves and really understand that no one is more special than the other. I think man should respect a woman and treat her like a queen, but because she is a lady and respects him too. I see many things out there from other women and I do not agree with them. The lake of education, bad language or disrespectful attitude are a NO for a woman. I enjoy your great work and I am grateful that I have the chance of coming back and listen your great videos whenever I feel I need some adjustments . Most of them work so good. Thank you! Be blessed and happy 😇🙏🏻

@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 месяца назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

@CLJ7519 9 месяцев назад

Great informative video for real, especially the excessive calling/texting!🙌🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@lesleykillens6257 4 месяца назад

Wow I needed this😢 Thank you Stephen! You gave me clarity on whether I was calling too much! He definitely responds he was calling more tho🤷🏽‍♀️

@sacampbr1 9 месяцев назад

Powerful video with many priceless gems!🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@phumzilelekunyane 9 месяцев назад

12:04 felt this loud and clear ❤ Thank you very much to such wonderful insight

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

I appreciate that 🙏

@victoriousneish429 9 месяцев назад

Very true! at the same time, women should reserve that level attachment/closeness for when they're well into the relationship and commitment has been established(as opposed to the early stages) . It's safe that way, considering the fact that men are hunters..

@noramaghanoy4941 12 дней назад

Been following you for almost five years now StephanSpeaks. I must say, you keep getting better and better. Thank you for being you. 🙏🏼

@debbiekiely2741 8 месяцев назад

Stephen I think you are great! You say it as it is and that takes courage. The problem I have had as a woman is I didn't know how to speak my boundaries. I didn't know how to deal with toxic or uncomfortable situations that can arise from a certain type of narcissistic, manipulative guys. You are helping women so much with your wise and straight forward advice. I love the way that you are honest that you like being a payer. No woman wants a mangina. Who is looking for a mummy to pay his way. Can you do a video on how to deal with situations when a man shirks his financial obligations. Ie he dodges the conversations about paying for things. Ie bills and dates,or trips away. You are amazing 😊

@frankG335 8 месяцев назад

You don't. You leave. He's not a man you want to be with, period. Move on!

@user-sz6vy7xt6j 9 месяцев назад

I just want to say you are doing an awesome job educating us in this ever changing dating arena.... Always the first to listen and adjust! I have a question ??????? not related to this, you covered it well! BUT I would really LOVE for you to address older woman, younger man!!!!! How much younger is too young!!! I think I've found him but a 10yr spand.....I know I'm not the only one.... HELP!!!!!

@kelligray1848 2 дня назад

I started watching your videos after I divorced. I have learned soooo much and have had a great time dating and building friendships. I’ve now found someone who could be the one but we are going super slow and it is the richest relationship I’ve ever had. Thank you! Your videos should be shown in every high school in the world. Much appreciation and love from rural Alaska. My 60s are definitely my happiest decade yet.

@vickiegillum26 7 месяцев назад

You've opened up my eyes on a player Gemini man who ghosted me in August. He is healing from past relationships and a marriage. I moved on.

@firstbestbaby 9 месяцев назад

I did this the other day, as I see a guy on the school run and it is hard to speak, it is busy/crowded. We instinctively winked n' smiled at eachother at the same time, so I 'slid into his DM' and we're still speaking a week later and arranged to meet up soon ☺️

@harmoniousandtranquilhannah 9 месяцев назад

I’m happy for you! I hope it works out 😊 ❤️

@firstbestbaby 9 месяцев назад

@@harmoniousandtranquilhannah Awe, that's really lovely. Such a kind message to receive 🙏 💜

@angelictigerette 8 месяцев назад

Thanks for this. I was guilty of doing this in the past, but have since moved forward.

@sonyadouglas8565 23 дня назад

I'm becoming more comfortable in showing my interests! I'm learning about the eye contact and holding it for a few seconds or so. However, I'm not desperate, lonely or thristy.

@eugenaarnold3965 9 месяцев назад

Yes, sliding in DM's🤔I definitely gave the side eye😂but when I talk to ppl who met ppl online, they have a better connection. I haven't had good luck with meeting ppl online😢

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

@melissYAH1986 9 месяцев назад

Stephan I absolutely appreciate this video. I can honestly say i have been in the desperate woman shoes just recently even though this man was making me think i wasnt being that way... come to find out he was still married and allegedly been getting a divorce for the past 4 years (HINT into why he couldnt provide me with an relationship after 6 months of dating) Never the less I walked away from him and have my eyes on a gentlemen who is actually keeping my attention, very consistent with effective POSITIVE communication and I guess you can say IM HIS TYPE OF CLINGY 😊. APTTMH YAHUAH Shalom.

@Pharm_Ifeoma 9 месяцев назад

17:18 I love the way you laugh Stephan 😅

@Meyouletsgo 9 месяцев назад

I needed this clip ! ❤🎉 Thank You !

@juliecroteau2954 7 месяцев назад

I am so very thankful for this helpful, positive advice 🙏 Extremely positive and helpful, especially to the ladies who tend to overthink. 😳 I feel so much more clearer and confident with each video. As you have said, “there is much poor advice on relationships “ Thank you ❤ So freeing! I don’t have to change myself in ways that don’t feel authentically me 🦋

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@patrice7p 6 месяцев назад

The best information i have ever heared about this topic! Thank you for making things clear

@lisasunshine7654 9 месяцев назад

27:51 Constantly pushing for a relationship. 2 strikes and you’re (he’s) out! If you continue on in a gray area, it becomes a Situationship.

@stephisticatedlifestyle 9 месяцев назад

Awesome event in NY, had a great time! Thanks for always giving the best tips.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@maipham4766 5 месяцев назад

Omg you know women and relationships on such a deep level learning so much about women and men here. Thank you 🙏🏼

@dianaross1055 8 месяцев назад

yes🎉 very helpful ✊🏼 and always appreciate you 💜😍💜 and your wise advice, thank you 💜🤝🏼

@12MarieAnne 6 месяцев назад

Thank you so so much for this. You really opened my eyes.

@karanolson 9 месяцев назад

Stephan speaking FACTS again! If you are clear with your interest, and he doesn't take that bait, he's going to at least try to secure SOMETHING. Truth.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@karanolson 9 месяцев назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I watch your videos all the time...no exaggeration. So much insightful, good information for all of us. Plus you're just hilarious. Keep on with your purpose....it helps so many people! I am also a member of Jay Shetty's Genius Community and saw your video with him. Brilliant!

@ivettelee5340 9 месяцев назад

exactly! excessive depends on the person. Introverts don’t like texting every day even thought it’s their preferred mode of communication. Every other day one text and a variety of types of text (ex. humor, flirty, compliments, memes etc).

@DontTakeItLiteral 9 месяцев назад

Stephan I was with you all the way up until you said “nothing wrong with DM’ing a man first” uhhh, yea it is 😂 that’s definitely giving desperate vibes. I would take a man’s number simply bc he asked me for it, but seeking him in his DM is what men do. Ladies please don’t DM that man 😂 if he wants you he would have DM you. But everything else , I agree 😊🩷🫶🏽

@mzion4686 9 месяцев назад

Amen! Thank you for speaking out the truth ❤

@fairpoet81 9 месяцев назад

Yes Ma'am, agreed. I have worked on my Attachment Style (was Anxious, since childhood), and some time after becoming a widow, I became comfortable in my own skin without even companionship, friend or lover (it didn't happen overnight). What I've noticed is: friends, family even people (journalists and podcasters) have noticed my absence when I go within and have stopped the comments or reaching out to them. It seems that those who actually care about my welfare and seem to appreciate my presence will inevitably reach out, when I'm just occupied tending to my own world (like work, paying property taxes, being independent). It's almost alarming to see that the folks (family, friends, etc) that we think love us, are the ones that only reciprocated to our calls to them. Being a loner ain't everyone's cup of tea, but let me tell you!!!---- it shows who actually appreciates you! Love & Light, beautiful Ladies. 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@gigi9301 9 месяцев назад

Okay, I guess I'm too old to be watching these dating videos, but would someone please tell me the difference between a text and a DM? Are they the same thing? Thank you~

@englishapplications6323 9 месяцев назад

@@gigi9301yes

@mandacraytonm.c.detroit5465 8 месяцев назад

Very good points Mr. Speaks.

@mercimercime 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for all your valuable information. For the men/women who will not speak up you have spoken volumes. I am a female so I can't tell you how MEN feel. I will NEVER be a man. You were very positive and objective. I share a lot of your beliefs. Blessings. My main 3 things are Respect , Appreciation and Honesty.....or I like to use Common letters like "C" which is Communication, Compromise and Commitment. The commitment can be a friendship or commitment to LEAVE. I do believe ANY relationship can Flourish with these guidelines with God as our foundation 😇🙏😇 Blessings

@enaalexis92 9 месяцев назад

The part where you were freaked out by the 14 messages, had me laughing, you are funny when you aren’t even trying. 😅

@beefaye6861 9 месяцев назад

😂....I could never send a man 14 messages....u lucky to get one 😅

@brittthecancerqueenempress9137 9 месяцев назад

Facts I just don’t have time for anymore childish games from immature men who refuse to grow up and then love to gas light manipulative I just had to leave it took a min because I was questioning myself like what I do but noo I clearly seen it wasn’t me it was him and principle of it smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

@Savingrace457 9 месяцев назад

Wow! You are amazing! Thank you so much

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 месяцев назад

My pleasure ❤️

@tonyajohnson9064 9 месяцев назад

Yesssssss you did Mr. Speaks‼️🙏🏽☺️❤️I was there‼️👏🏽🔥#BROOKLYN🔥

@ramonaphillipsteach3284 8 месяцев назад

Great video. The women that calles you 14 times, probably was triggered by rejection. She needed to have a conversation with herself, address that issue. There are tools she couls have used.

@mmhmm1974 7 месяцев назад

I'm so happy u said that giving my number isn't desperate, I was having a conversation with a guy that was flowing very easily as I happened to be in his place of business, so when someone else was approaching and in need of assistance I dug out my business card and handed it to him offering to call if he'd like. Later on I wondered if that was OK, if I came across desperate 🤔, so thanku for clarifying 😊, we shall see what happens that was 3 days ago.

@khaizenbey5036 9 месяцев назад

Oh my word, Stephan THANKS! I thought much of those actions were what's called ' shooting your shot ', and sometimes I would feel a bit embarrassed when Afterwards, I recalled mentors saying women shouldn't do that! Thanks for clarifying 😁