6 Qualities Christian Guys Find Attractive in a Woman 

1. Secure with herself. 2. Respectful 3. Modesty 4. Emotionally predictable/ men like patterns. 5. Inviting 6. Genuine relationship with God.

Thank you for this and may God bless you more! :) 1. Secure with herself because her identity is in Christ. 2. A respectful Christian woman. 3. Outward beauty expressed through modesty rooted in her character. 4. An emotionally predictable woman. 5. An inviting Christian woman. 6. A woman who has a genuine relationship with God rooted in truth.

Modesty IS SOO attractive!

Dear future husband, I’m praying for u..Keep focusing on God’s work 🙏🏾

Feel like I’ll meet Jesus before I meet my husband. 1) Church-All married 2) Online-All weirdos 3) Bible Study-All women 4) Work- All secular 5) Youth Group-Too young ...... and on and on we go....

I like that point about a woman being immodest. For me, if a woman is immodest, I'll have trouble not lusting after her. And,for that very reason, I won't seek any further relationship. I simply don't want to be around her because she causes me to lust and that is against God's will.

I always admired Joseph in the bible. May God help the singles to wait on the Lord for the one He has for us. God bless you all

Ok. I have all these qualities. Where is my husband?

Great points! No games or mixed signals💘

GREAT reasons and I certainly agree. Also, what's extremely attractive to me is a woman using her gifts! My Lord, a woman using her gift, regardless of what it is, is an absolutely beautiful characteristic. That's not to say she's fully in her calling, but she's flowing in what God has placed in her. I could sit around her all day and not say a word but just marvel at what she does. So to my dear sisters in the faith, use your gift, whether it's in the church, arts and crafts, music, business, leadership, etc.

You are so right about the Christian man being turned off by an immodest woman. Seductive dress in a woman does not bring respect for the woman, quite the opposite.

Thank you for teaching regarding modesty. Women and even especially Christian Women have forsaken dressing modestly and respectfully even when attending Church!!

This is extremely well worded and explained! Thank you brother for your understanding and sharing this in a very clear way! So important christian brothers and sisters.

Well, now I See what is attractive about the girl I like. I couldn't discribe it, but now I know what I like about her character and her spiritual side as well. Thanks Mark

Wow so much wisdom and truth💯

I feel like he was talking directly to me I need to keep making changes God bless you 💕

I'm waiting for my husband that God has for me

Amen! On all 6 points...well said!

Thank u . Am African and respect for men is a major issue . you just spoke like an African we Fear God a lot we run away from immorality. I kept my self as a celibate and God has bless me with a Good man a pastor .

This week God showed me who is the lady He has for me. And the thing that attracted me to her was to see how she really loves God. She's a single mother and I'm already visualizing being a husband and a father at once when we get married. It's really exciting. I always wanted to be a dad.

Very thoughtful and helpful list. Thanks Mark!

This is such good teaching! There’s been a lack of this kind of teaching in the church and in families, especially here in Norway where we don’t really even have a real dating culture. People just try the best they can. I wish I had heard this teaching 15-20 years ago! Thanks:)

I need to work on an inviting presence

Excellent info... listening again...Thank you! 💖💖

Valid points! Need to work on myself a bit :)

This is so good!! Thank you so much for this. You’re videos are so biblical - love that; Truth of the word. 🙏🏾

Thanks for you're video, may God Bless You Man of God.

I think it’s pretty reasonable! Thanks for sharing that well appreciate.

I love you and what you stand for.. Keep doing what God wants u to do

Number three is 100 percent true. I find a woman who is modest a thousand times more attractive.

Really liked this topic There were enough areas discussed to give me a better understanding of what to do and do as I wait for my future husband! Thanks for taking the time to do this. May God bless and protect you always in Christ!

That was a quite brilliant video indeed god bless you again my bro

So many valid points!! Ty for putting this out. Am currently making a list of traits / desires for me personally that im seeking to find in a future wife. Ty for your input! Sincerely helped me make the list a lil longer lol. Am seeking the lord in all of this and am grateful for your input!! Carry on as u were and may his countance shine upon you! Amen.

Thank you! learned a few things🙏🏻

Good Job!!!

Wow…so well said. Thank you for elaborating on these items so specifically. Very helpful and encouraging!

This is perfect for our generation!!!!

Oh my this is so right on the trolley!👍

Nice Video.Thankyou for the information. god bless

I'll take these advices when I am ready..

This is such good teaching! There’s been a lack of this kind of teaching in the church and in families, especially here in Norway where we don’t really even have a real dating culture. People just try the best they can. I wish I had heard this teaching 15-25 years ago! Tanks:)

Wow great video and I learning about this and hope that I can understand it more

Thank you AGW for these wonderfull vedio.

Excellent.

That was a beautiful message to me I fully understand

Thank you! Your teachings are very clear and so helpful. 🙂

Thanks Mike...

Great video and job of breaking down these points. As some have said, (yes) there are indicators of what qualities in a Christian man are appealing, too-as another of this channel's videos walks through :) Theme for both (bottom line)? It's basic of commandments. Love God above all else.. with all your mind, heart, and strength.. and body (Romans 12). What's that look like for each? Litmus test: The fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-26). We see those present?... it's attractive in a potential partner. Problem is that the world culture has so engulfed us (to varying degrees) that we're consumed with the lusts or "deeds" of the flesh (Galatians 5:19-21). 2 Timothy 3:2-5 describes the carnality of even what Christians are told and pressured as "must haves" in a partner. Couple that with the Galatians passage, and it reads like this: "It's about you. What makes you happy. No rules, nobody can tell you differently. It's your life and whatever serves you best. If they're not about that, send em packing. You have no room for that nonsense in your life. You want someone who will treat you like a king or queen... who will gladly fulfill all of your desires; basically give you whatever you want, because you "deserve it." If they're "worth your time," they'd better be: absolutely fine-looking and dress with style, successful in their career and have a nice bank account (willing to regularly spend money on you), have a nice car and house, be into all of the things you're into, be well-liked and admired by others.. and good in bed-because you gotta try it out before ya buy it, right? Oh and always remember: "If they can't appreciate me on my worst days, then they don't deserve me on my best days," because Marilyn Monroe was/is the ultimate Christian values and dating role model, right?" See where this type of thinking leads? = broken hearts-ville AND... away from God. With this mindset, "self" has replaced God, so no human being will ever measure up. It's rooted in idolatry, which is why it'll always fail. God doesn't only tell us to avoid idolatry in all forms because He's "a jealous God" (which should be enough in itself)... but also because He knows that anything we make idols out of in our lives (even another person or ourselves)-will always break our hearts and leave us feeling empty inside; something He will never do, being able to fulfill us completely! :)

Good stuff!

Amen! This is good 😊

Thank you for the content 🙏

This man here is preaching facts! I can say this as a man myself.

This is actually very encouraging. There is a guy who is very interested in me and we're doing our best to put our trust in God and see where God leads us.

I asked for the Lord to give me confirmation while watching this and he sure did. Thank you for your obedience to God's will! Boy it's hard sometimes waiting for the best and ordained but this too shall pass. Lord you work all things for the good of those who love you and are called according to your will. We love you and may we be joyful in our wait. No one can complete us like you can! May these young women of faith know that sometimes our heavenly father just wants to spend time with us first! We love you. Your plans are always better than ours! Your timing is always perfect! In Jesus name, Amen!

This is excellent. I am sharing with an online Christian singles group. God bless you.

I enjoyed the video! I found an additional verse that could shed more light on point three; 1st Peter 3:4 "Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight"

So good :) !

Spot on, Mark! No. 1 in particular is probably the single most attractive trait in a Christian woman. Ladies, you are coheirs to the Kingdom with Christ (Rom 8:17 for the full verse)! This is not only beauty, it is strength. Even better is that this can never be taken away. 'She laughs at the days to come' as it says in Proverbs 31:25. Know who it is that holds your future and smile because of it. God bless!

Thank you for this excellent teaching brother Mark 👍👍👍. God bless you brother 🕊🙏❣.

Nice blog

I m not a christian.but luvdd this video .and I like manyyyy of your videos.. praiseworthy truly....👍👍👍👍👍

Well said :)

I like it. Standing by…

Awesome

Powerful

Thank you Mark! I I'm in the dating ring since June. Dated some and I decided not to compromise on my Christian believes and purity as a christian- even though get upset when someone ghosts me or discontinue after some dates. But I was encouraged after listening to one of your videos that God was protecting me. I am celebate for the past 16 years after the dissolution of my marriage. Since God's promises are upon me, waiting for my 'Kingdom- husband'. Your videos are very encouraging because at my age group, dating in a cut-throat world because many men are looking how financially settled a woman is. I am submitting myself to God.Thanks again.

I know that i do this because this basically exactly what I look for in a Christian woman

Your Belief is in the Lord..

Waiting for "Traits Christian women find attractive in men" ☺

2:30 Women like to be respected too.. 🤔 ( #respect is a two way thing)

Great words👍 hard to find

Wow this used to me but I have grown so much in Christ. I know that I’ll meet the right one soon.

Two words: "booty shorts". I live in Hawaii, I am a Man, I am responsible for my own thoughts, but! many women single or not, old or even children, wear shorts so short they are shorter than women-boxer-underwear, I am openly opposed to this and avoid these people.

Maybe I over looked it, but I didn’t hear you mentioned physical beauty. Those 6 qualities, I totally agree with and they are a must but one thing about any or most men is no matter what she looks like he desires an attractive woman. I’ve read it all in the scriptures with Abraham, Isaac, Jacob and more. I do believe inner beauty can not be over looked at all and it’s responsible for a eternal strong relationship but just remember in most cases the first thing you’re going to notice about anyone is there appearance...

loving god as much as I do.

Hello, I'm here in 2020. Grateful for this channel its factual and following the word of God that means its very true. All in all does point number 2 on respetful have Bible verse references like point 1 , 3-6 ?

Thank you

Why didn't I know that 30yrs ago. I need to go back in time

I am waiting for my christian women in my life.

These are good points! 1. My identity is only growing more in Christ 2. I am pretty sure I'm respectful, or try to be at least 3. I currently dress modest, but that will be something for me to keep an eye out for in the future 4. I am pretty predictable most times lol! 5. I'd say I'm inviting 6. My relationship with God is genuine and not fake like how it was two years ago Looks like I have all of the qualities! Now I just need to stay humble. Thanks Mark for more clarification!

Thank you so much. You are very good teacher. You make each point very clear. I have to have faith for a christain partner. There arent many around where I live and even more difficult to find someone who love God as much as I do. But still have hope that one day God will bring us together.

As a Christian man, I can attest to all these points. Lol :)

5:15 man, what he saying is so true... Like obviously a woman can wear whatever she wants, she can wear "sexy" dresses if she wants but she shouldn't expect the right Godly man to be attracted to her, because we are trying to please God more than pleasing humans, so woman shouldn't think they can get a godly man the Worldy seductive way....amen broo

Yes all of these are true. If I sense the girl is relying on me for self esteem and she isn't seeking a relationship with God or if she dosent open herself up for me to pursue I just stop pursuing all together instead of texting every once or 2 days I may only once or twice a week because if there are other guys she chose over me I'm not going to compete knowing I give my all to prove from the beginning

Please my brothers and sisters if you could find a minute to say a little prayer for me. I’m at peace with my singleness but satan keeps attacking me everyday saying things like “you’ll never find the one” “no man can ever love you” “you don’t have the love factor” (whatever that even means) and these attacks keep getting stronger by the day threatening to drive me crazy. Please say a word of prayer for me. Thank you and God bless.

Please send all the single women to Wisconsin!

Thank you for the video. Men need to look on the heart first of a Godly Woman and then her outer appearance because all that glitters is not gold. I know that there has to be chemistry, some attraction but that is not first or foremost. Sadly, that is what a lot of men see and desire. Good Godly Women come in all shapes and sizes. Look beyond the physical. Look for the Spiritual first and go on the leading of the Spirit of Abba Yah and you will get a Proverbs 31 Woman. You both will be blessed.

Hello Mark, thank God for ur life, I, m learning a lot from u, I would appreciate it much if u could discuss about a widow who hav kids, and have a desire to remarried again,. I, m a beleiver of christ, n I'm 45 y old now, thank u

I like this video does make sense😅❤👍👍

I feel a call from God marriage is what He is wanting me to do, that the Lord says it would be great for me.

Thank you for these videos. I hope to find a guy who loves Jesus just as much as I do to marry in the next year!

Wow I didn't know that

Values a man's strength? What is you also love their weaknesses? To take value of what is broken and hurt?

Listen ladies, being inviting is so important because it is one of the biggest reasons I am single. Lotta girls like to complicate the get to know process. It’s all we do to know when you’re not interested in so we’re not gonna pursue something when you’re not allowing us to pursue.

I’m a single Christian male almost 3 years in Christ and I agree with all these.. im waiting on My abba To send me to my beautiful queen 👑 when it’s time. Til then im on the wait til it’s my time

He's Christian and had good QUALITIES IN HIM

These "evangelical feminists" will have much more trouble finding husbands. I don't understand how the gentlemanly act of pulling a chair out or opening a door for a woman is demeaning. That's stupid.

Excuse me but is it not in error to claim that sexual attraction plays NO part in a man choosing a mate? He's looking for someone to make babies with. Yes these other qualities are very important, but you can't have an asexual marriage.

I appreciate your content. I am in a season where my focus is on God and His will for my life but, I do desire marriage to a Godly husband, at the right time. I am committed to doing things differently as, I have failed in the past.

Hi! Are you single or married? Did you apply it to your self too in finding a woman to love?