6 Signs You're Being Manipulated (And You Don’t Even Realize It) 

no clue

girl from nowhere kinda has that theme

Don't know

Gone girl !

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Thanks!

@@PsychologyRefresh you're welcome :D

Perfect description of my dad

100% my mother

same with my dad

I've even seen people being manipulated and talked down on by doctors and therapists. It's messed up

@@S0FTFUZZYMAN_XO Just, Wow. People aren't the best kind of animal.

@@sorafujita6659 agreed

IM LITERALLY BEING MANIPULATED BY A PEER RN

You are so true when you said that. I agree it can be anyone no matter who they are to you.

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These irresponsible dysfunctional people constantly pushing THIER AGENDA onto ME!!

I agree with u all mom was once a very kind soul but she's now cold, guiltripping me and my sis and we r afraid when we make a small mistake she will freak and I wish WISH to leave but I can't since I don't have a job yet 😭😢😥

this is my office workplace culture omg

@@elenafarichildfair858 I’m so sorry. That’s really tough, esp if she wasn’t like that previously. What changed, do you think? Big, gentle hugs to you and your sister from a mama in the Midwest. ❤️‍🩹

U love them more than yourself, you lose yourself in a toxic relationship, that’s why it’s hard

Yes. If that person loves you the same way, they would've changed their behavior long ago. You deserve better. Stay strong!

You said it! It can be painful to leave, though the pain of staying is far worse.

My mother and sister I’ve noticed tend to give off this behaviour, my sister tried to guilt trip me into sending my mom to rehab and my mom lies and plays victim saying everyone is manipulating her children into believing she’s a drug addict. When she is. I’ve watched her!

I also just got out of a relationship and i couldn't believe how many signs i recognized from this video. This channel and all of its videos have been extremely helpful and comforting to know I'm not going insane

@@nickoyasu2407 so proud of you. You’re doing awesome!

@@shahendaelamir3053 and I'm proud of you too !

Very cool. You both deserve so much better. Best wishes.

Stay strong May God bless you 💖

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Dad is trying to do this to me because he doesn't want me to transition. I've been out as trans to my parents for 5 years and I am not going to let him control my happiness. Its my body. My decisions. I am over the age of 18. Under his roof or not I have the right to seek gender affirming care.

@@smolmuffin Never let other people make decisions for you. Definitely take whatever advice they may have that seems good to you and dump the rest to the side walk. Ultimately, this is your life. Don't waste it living someone else's life. Transition is definitely a really big decision. Especially if you're getting gender reassignment surgery. Give yourself enough time to think it through thoroughly. No doubt you have already been thinking about that. Just make sure you don't rush into anything that can drastically change the rest of your life. Give yourself the necessary time that comes with transition. Personally, if I were you. I'd focus on building my life first. Move out of your father's house. Have a stable work and home life. And definitely get professional help for any mental health issues you may have like, trauma, depression, anxiety ect. That way you can properly be ready for your transition. Ultimately, if you feel unsafe, or that you're at risk of physical or psychological violence then it's best if you seek help and move out. I apologise if I've assumed too much about you. I'm just trying to help. Thank you for listening.

What if they always cry and play the victim where your stuck between being a bad friend or comforting them even if it makes you uncomfortable? What if they start ignoring and looking angry as if you did something but they don’t tell you the reason?

@@inevermetnobodylikeyou7738 That type of person may have mental health issues. Even if they do not, this behaviour is unacceptable. You need to hear this because I've delt with a similar situation. Hear this and take it in: YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON IF YOU CHOOSE NOT TO SUPPORT A PERSON THAT MAKES YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE OR WHO DOESN'T TREAT YOU RIGHT. You have no obligation to offer your time, love, effort and mind to 'help' someone, especially someone who doesn't treat you right. The only person you should look out for is yourself and those who treat you right. I put 'help' in quotations because I believe that the type of help in which that person needs is not what you are offering, or can offer. (It's not your fault for wanting to help, just understand that some people can't be helped in that traditional support fashion.) That person needs professional help from a mental health specialist. As far as I can tell, with the little information you've given me, and in relation to a similar situation I've delt with before. This person you're dealing with may be using you to get that sympathy from you. That attention you give that person. And in effect, they are trying to control you. I'll explain. When you try to leave the situation and that person. They may threaten you to keep you, by suggesting that, "You're a bad person for leaving and not supporting me." DO NOT LISTEN TO THAT! You are NOT a bad person. You simply can't help them, they need professional help. If the relationship is especially toxic, that person may say, "If you leave I'll harm myself or kill myself!" This scenario requires context. If the person threating to commit suicide or do self harm has been violent to you during your relationship. Whether that be physical, verbal, phycological, or any other type of violence, especially sexual abuse. Then DO NOT LISTEN to their suicide threat. LEAVE IMMEDIATELY! They are trying to control you and keep you with them. If they threaten you directly, "If you leave I'm going to hurt or kill you." then that's hard deal with I know, but you ABSOLUTELY MUST leave the dangerous situation and call law enforcement. The other scenario or context is if this person has not been violent to you, in your relationship. Take their threat of suicide seriously and make sure you call law enforcement. But remember, if you feel too uncomfortable to deal with this situation. LEAVE IMMEDIATELY. YOU'RE SAFETY IS YOUR NUMBER ONE PRIORITY! DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN DANGER OR JEOPARDIZE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID OF BEING A "BAD PERSON." YOU'RE NOT A BAD PERSON. Bad people take advantage of people like you! People like you, people who care, people who have good hearts. Even if they are a close friend or family member. That does not matter! What matters is how they treat you! And what matters is your own safety and health! In regards to the situation you're dealing with. Tell that person you can't help them. That they may need to see a professional to solve their problems. You can't solve it. You're not trained in that field. Apologise to that person and tell them. SEE HOW THAT PERSON RESPONDS! DECIDE IF YOU WANT THIS PERSON IN YOUR LIFE OR NOT! Remember if the situation gets dangerous or YOU'RE TOO UNCOMFORTABLE, then leave, your safety and your health is your number one priority. I really hope this helped.

Same happened to me too!

Yea my gf would use manipulation as well, lies, excuses, gaslighting etc, I just walked away without saying a word really

i was accused of doing these things by my best friend. and she ended our friendship just this week. but i knew i wasn't doing it because i was helping her out of this because someone else was manipulating her. i'll send her this video and explain my case and show her who is. this video already shows that it wasn't me. hopefully i can get through to her and fix this all

Congrats!

Everything here is what my 2nd best friend does.... He's not my friend anymore

Often when someone accuses another about something it is likely they are doing it themselves.

yeah i was accused of doing these by my best friend and she ended our friendship this week. i knew i wasn't doing it and someone else was, and this video proves my point. i'll send it to her and hopefully i can fix things

@@austinspears6254 best of luck 🤞

Divine timing from the universe. It's a very common thing

might be because these topics are so common in life and you feel like its just you but this topcis literally came up in my life about a month ago

Damn, now I think I'm noticing the same thing. I like it, these videos help me see myself. 👀they make me wanna change. For the better.

Thank you for your support

Very true ;/

But It's my parents and I live with them..

@@Lianna_Is_Me if it's parents u can listen from one ear and let it go from the other. If they say something that hurts u just understand they don't know you properly that's why they say stuff like that, Know who you are and never take anything that hurts you to your heart.

@@srujanpetumpuri2900 thanks but they say that all the time

@@Lianna_Is_Me wel we obviously can't change parents so just ignore:) but keep in mind that the only people who would truly want you to succeed in life would be parents, they may not understand you sometimes but they still took care you at some point in life right.......

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Fix the problem as in leave? They probably won't change

"Also, don't you guys hate it when people give you a choice and then get upset because you choose the option that's opposite what they wanted you to choose? So then why the hell even ask them to make a choice then!?! Smdh." It means you were never given a choice... lol

Ppl give opt to show u they are not caging you . They got upset because that's not what they wanted. U can't expect ppl not to get upset but if they don't want u to do that after giving u opt just because they got upset then yeah that's not a healthy relationship

@Fox see I call that bullshit because I often catch people who do that shit in the trap they create. If you're being asked a choice question, then you have the right to still make a choice despite what they wanted you to choose. And I just don't care if I choose "wrong."

That last line ... THE ACCURACY!!!

@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate There is no right or wrong there is only the "right" choice for you at the moment you took that decision.

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thank you! i honestly feel like im manipulating myself, cuz i dont know anyone who could be manipulating me, yet i relate to most of these

Please get out ASAP. That’s physical abuse and you deserve better. A good first step would be to work on separating your finances from hers. Start your own bank account and start saving up to live away from her. If she seems especially angry, you could call a friend or family member and ask to stay with them for a while.

Well that's not love is it that's abuse and if she does that to you she'll do it to someone else if you stay with her it won't stop

get out ! what are you waiting for ? this is not love.

First step, get separate finances save as much as you can in a bank in only your name. 2. Keep a duffle bag on your car or near your person filled with important papers. Birth certificate, ss card, ID, license. If you have Bill's in your name with an address on them, this will help you to shut off utilities when you leave there. Keep clean clothes and shoes in plastic bag. hygiene items. 3. Phone number to a shelter, keep your phone on you at all times lock the screen, keep the charger with your phone fully charged. 4 if possible record the argument with your phone, photograph any injury. Godbless you.

If it's getting complicated,subtle tactics behind the scenes could be affecting you,make you feel that your making mistakes,but your not at fault for being judged so cruelly,every situation is used to guilt trip you,a reason to justify your reality and question your sanity,compare yourself to others at your peril,be yourself don't be ruled by others expectations,recognise it and establish boundaries✔️

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I'm extremely selective about the friends I make.

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I love this song such a good song

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Yes, it would be. If one person is making the group toxic, it's important for your mental health to get out of there, especially if it's supposed to be a support group. In a support group you're at your most vulnerable, which means that the manipulator will Prey Upon that. One manipulator in a support group makes being in that support group literally unsafe. Plus the fact that manipulators will recruit other vulnerable people to do their dirty work, so at a certain point, it won't just be one person trying to manipulate you. You will all be manipulating each other at a certain point, just to serve the needs of that original manipulator. It's not that one person is being offensive, it's that one person is being dangerously toxic. If you're in a situation like that, get out. Things are about to get way worse.

Would you like us to make a video on this?

@@Psych2go Sure.

Are you able to find a job, post pandemic im sure you can find something and prioritize yourself over a sad and toxic person

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hey, i’ve got a question. how would you get out of a manipulative relationship if it’s with your sibling and your still a child? (a young child, i’m 10 years old) thanks! also, my grandma that lives with me shows most of these signs, and everyone in my close family shows at least two. is this ok? btw, it’s okay if you can’t answer these questions. i just wanna know what i should do.

I feel that. I also recently got out of a manipulative relationship.

@@sanije5955 well first off, find out why they are doing it. Second, talk to an adult you trust that can help you. Third, if that doesn't work, try talking to them directly.

@@cubez9964 shitty ass advice

@@cubez9964 ok, thank you!

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Aww, thanks!! Would you like to see more of this animation?