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Think of it this way. Right now, they are happy in this rebound relationship, well, they think they are happy. But give it a few months time, they will come crashing down. Providing you have reacted to the breakup correctly, you will now be stronger than ever. Take your time, allow yourself to hurt and allow yourself to heal. All your ex is doing by finding a rebound is patching over the cracks and covering up the pain, they are not healing.
JB95 so I have an interesting story, my ex and I were together for 4 years and had some rough patches here and there but we were in love, we broke up after 3 years got back together after 2 months and then broke up a year later around the same time, waited a month tried talking but she was to angry about the past (cheating, arguments, etc) so one night she came over drunk and was angry for no reason got into a shouting match, she ended up calling the cops saying I was abusive, no marks were found on her I was free to go and yeah, few weeks later I got a temporary restraining order, had to hire a lawyer fight the whole thing, a month and a half later got everything solved in court and then two weeks after that she has a boyfriend who she is posting how madly in love she is with him, like comments on everything he posts is his biggest groupie. Then my lawyer tells me she wants to try and take me to court again for nonsense, I don’t get why if she has this boyfriend now that she is head over heels for is she still trying to bother me and take me to court?
The dumper has in fact got 3 choices.... stick with their new partner in an effort to save face after realizing they made a mistake.... the old you..... or the new you, if you are strong enough to create one!
dbennett4 believe me depending if the dumpee will better themselves or stay the same it wont really matter since theyll come to you anyways but the moment your feelings for them fade, you know youre already a better person and they screwed up big times
I was the rebound. The rushing and over-flattering from the beginning didn't make sense to me already. I was just a stand in for his ex. The only thing I regret is not running away immediately from this self-centered moron. 😡
If you put her into a friend zone you win her...ofcourse she will go back with her ex it is inevitable but you do not need to care...and be yourself masculine strong stabil man also know what he wants...because it will take a lot of time to heal and many girls they will stick with her ex a lot until she will become more mature...and you just need to mind of your own business...it is happens to me and was take me almost a year to master this kind of emotion i failed a lot until i succeed but it will make you stronger....and i just put her into friendzone and i keep her there because she is not ready to be loved...it is difficult but not impossible...
@@TheKabanosPL about 9 months... I broke up when I discovered he had tried it on with younger girls..☹️☹️☹️.then was hoovered back in for a couple of weeks, then broke up again, forever this time 😁😁😁😄😄😃
Lexi Samuels deadass shes digging own grave deeper and deeper and i dont think hell wants to even accept her despite how deep shes digging. Honestly let her try to find someone like me but she never will
I ❤️ this, straight to the point ,and very true ,I feel so much stronger now ,9 months down the line , don't get me wrong I miss my husband like mad ,but I won't tell him that
ty so much. fab video. the visuals and msgs so on point. i really needed this today. 11 months since he monkey branched to his rebound, they moved in after a few months of a long distance relationship. id been doing good, but getting wobbles, so needed this. if ure the dumpee, remember ure taking time to heal and grow, while they use another person as a painkiller to escape. they will have to heal eventually, and by then you will be the biggest and brightest butterfly. you will get thru this. i never thought i would, but here i am. 💞💖💞
He left me for another girl & moved in with her, clearly he cheated for lust. The girl is totally the opposite of me! I found out about the cheating after 6mos. It was crazy! but I'm still thankful that it happened now and not later in life when we're married. The only sad thing is knowing that he was cheating on me since September of last year, we were seeing each other until I found out myself.
I was the rebound. He told me I was so much better than his ex. We had some great trips away. We were in in a ldr but silly me thought it was fine as it was a while after his break up with his ex.
@@MagnetofSuccess no as she's got a mental illness. He said he finished it because it was making him ill. I know he's still very much in love with her but he won't admit it , won't get counciling so he's stuck. He says I'm his best friend but I should just cut contact but I really like him. Just met someone else really early days but when I'm ready will tell him I can't do the friends thing. I guess at the moment I feel sorry for him and to be honest still have feelings. I'm hopeless at this as I have co dependency issues.
Free spirit live your life, better yourself, history will always repeat itself if he continues doing what hes doing. We’re all human beings theres no such thing as better or best, we’re all equally the same, focus on your life more and you’ll find someone who you can truly fall in love with
A honestly hope this happens with my ex .They not even been together long and they are trying for a baby we only split up last month .What the hell that is way to fast 😂
She was a friend ,But a didn’t trust here and here mum .He broke up with me to get with this friend talk about a slap in the face . But shit happens a just hope he is happy now
The same thing happen to me been with this girl for 9 years and last year i recorded her talking to another guy and than once she found out that i knew she started doing manipulation tactics such as crying for sympathy offering me all types of sex and she said she wasn't going to talk to the guy no more and after go into an argument she saw him again slept with him did everything with him really quick i was like damn wow he can have her
Omg after seeing this video I realized I was my ex rebound 😩. He put me on a pedestal, he showed me off. He wanted all his friends to meet me. These were all signs. Honestly I should’ve paid attention. But it is too late now. My option is to move on.
Rebounds suck!!! I was his rebound, this video makes it again so clear to me! Thing is he did not do it on purpose! He should have told me, so I was able to protect myself, but he did not realise! I was the bandage to his broken haert, I made him feel good again, I made him feel man again... Now he has moved on back in the dating scène with a healthy attitude, looking for a healthy long-term relationship. The next girl will have him completelly the way I wanted him. I was healthy, single for 5 years, he showed up, I thought WoW he is the lan of my Dreams... yes it was a dream and now living a nightmare! I am left now with a broken haert! Have to start my rebuilding myself from square one!!! It is so disgusting to see that you were just used!!! Most difficult part for me is getting over him, while knowing I was used. Start over again with the trust I will not get used again!!! It is too painfull. So again closed tobguus who persue me. What were the most amazing 6 weeks in the past 5 years just seem to be NOTHING! He just broke me 😭😭😭
Hey Nathy, look a it from positive side, you helped someone, and pain that you feel is always a good foundation for making your self stronger and smarter for your better future 😘
@@jeremyfannon8537 dont worry about it, if you were good to your ex and you had a wealth of memories those cant be easily forgotten. Your ex will be reminded of you constantly and making comparisons. A rebound doesnt work because they are rushed, real love takes time to cultivate. Focus on yoursefl and improve all the qualities that make you awesome! One day you will wake up and see it is their loss and whether or not they realize their mistake you will be 10x more attractive when you first met your ex. Love yourself and find happiness within yourself, seek no validation from others. Enjoy life friend :)
My ex girlfriend tried to rub it in my face about how happy she is with her new situation, yet two weeks ago she invited herself over n was in my bed all over me even tho she was seeing this other person at that time lol I told her best of luck and left it at that. Now to move forward and let time handle it because I won’t be reaching out again.
Nodaysoff Gee how my ex gf was, dated a downgrade bootleg version of me, tells me how happy she is with her new rebound, now im here bettering myself being the real realist later on. CONFUSE THEM WITH YOUR ABSENCE SHOCK THEM WITH YOUR RESULTS
My soon to be x husband of 10 yrs. kicked us out our house, moved in his mistress he met on ‘Tinder’ and her spawns, and immediately started the 24/7 obsessive calls to me. I had to file a police report, restraining order & he was even arrested on a warrant for failure to appear. I made it very clear I want nothing to do with him. They’re still together 10 mos. later she must be stupid, blind or both. I know him very well & guarantee he is cheating on her just like he did to me. She doesn’t know he’s with her because she’s the low hanging fruit and because I rejected him. He’s not happy with her he’s pretending and he never will be happy with anyone that’s the type of person he is
Wow... I'm understanding things better now. About the 1st 3 stages is what I saw my ex doing after he left me for another girl. Idk about the other stages yet because I no longer look of what he's fling aka stalking lol, so right now I'm like in a no contact technique with him but with the intention of healing and moving on rather than getting him back... he did cheated and hurted me in ways and is time to forgive myself and him and move on and forward (hopefully I'm doing right😅). But 1 thing for sure is that recently he's been messaging me, being very sweet and asking how I'm doing or wishing me a good day a lot lately..i don't answer his calls or reply his messages which surprises me since at the beginning I would cry or desperately reply to him and he would ignore me or insult me but now he's the one contacting me and I'm ignoring... idk why. And idk why he seems to be looking for me now when he's now with the girl that he cheated on me with after being so many years with me!!! I truly want to thank you magnet cuz your videos have helped me understand my crazy situation more and I feel like I'm making progress. I wonder if you have a video of something like "Reasons why not get back with someone tgat cheated on u" or "why the person that cheated on you tries to het back with you" or "how to stay strong after someone that hurted left you... like you know stay strong and not look for him or get back with him after he tries to apologize or something" .. is just that I got a feeling that he wants to reconcile like he always does but I want to stay strong cuz I'm tired of his games...i just never understand why he always lies or hides a lot of things... not only to me but also to others.. he even make up stories to impress others.. point blank I am trying to stay strong... Omg what to do. And thanks a lot😍
This literally happened to me... it was a few years ago and I was a completely different person but basically when my ex dumped me he kept showing off all these new girls but literally a year later he started texting me trynna get back with me anol but I just ignored or was rude after everything he had done. Also when we had first broke up I used to be the one texting him and trying to win him back, so I guess we’ve gone through a similar thing
Ex moved onto new chick one day beginning officially telling me that there was someone else. Long distance relationship in another country. They met online and already the new chick is getting showered with expensive gifts after less than a month. Thanks to Covid, they’ll never meet in person.
Hope this is right cos my Husband left after 23yrs + went straight to a work colleague. He has been there ever since 18mths. I hope she leaves him with no one.
I have almost 7 years relationship with her, the worst part is she keep our relationship as a secret, never let her family or friends to know about me . What make me stay is because of her promises and hope that she give me, and after 6 years she moving to new place and work there, every one month i will go there to visit her, but after a year she stated to changed and i can feel she meet someone else there . Then we started to argue about it because i caught her on the phone in the mid night even after she said she wanna sleep . Until now i still didn’t any real explanation why she dumped me, the only reason she told me is because of our religion, but why now then mention because of religion . For 3 weeks i keep asking for explanation but what i get she just being rude and cold to me . Its really hurting me, never thought she will be this selfish and heartless to me . The pain,heartache and disappointment still there inside me but im getting stronger , its been 2 weeks i never find her or asking any explanation because im not deserver to be treat like this and i know im done my duty as a good bf this past 7 years , never hurt her, lie or betray her . I hope someday i will meet someone who proud to be with me.
I had been with her for over 4 years and right when we married she decided to walk walk away out of nowhere. I’m not sure why she did this. I’m not sure if she is talking to someone else. I’m not sure why did this when I gave her the world and treated her very well.
Honestly its how rebounds are but if you improve yourself, you know you can life a better life than your wife is, all shes gonna do is keep numbing the pain instead of taking responsibility for her actions
There's a behavior that I've noticed from several of my exes, it's happening rn with my most recent, that I am really curious about. Why is it that even after months or even years do exes reach out every couple months almost religiously to check in and see how you're doing or apologize or whatever? They dumped me, they are in both cases in new seemingly happy relationships, I haven't reached out or contacted them and have specifically made a point not to. So why the sudden interest? And why is it so consistent and short lived?
They're looking for an opportunity to take advantage of you by keeping an eye on you. Maybe they're looking for a way to get in your life again and use you for self validation or favours. Never expect something positive from someone who left you. They don't really like you most of the times, they're just lonely.
@@maepoblete8946 mine is like 3 months in rebound and he is spotlighting this relationship now .. I might never be back with him but I want he got karma
Damn it, i just got rebounded for 3 days and it hurt my god. in the beginning it's too good to be true that the infatuation of the girl chat me on messanger. then sweet talk win me over. I thought it'll be my first relation ship and i am happy that my long awaited love for me that girl sees me as me not only in my appearance. 40 minutes ago got dump because her Ex want to be them again. I thought this is it but.. go in the drain it goes.
Why does my ex of 3 months have extremely low standards for her rebound (possible monkey branch). New guy has cheated with several women over the past 2 weeks... mutual friends have provided her with evidence and she doesn't even seem to care... If a girl even looked at me, she used to lose her mind.
My ex did this... more of a monkey branch. She told me she was waiting patiently for this guy for the last 6 years... wow can you believe that? She dump me towards the end of feb. She was lookin for any argument. So the guy is older, ugly, fat, has kids, he going tona divorce.. i cant believe she left me for him... it just puzzle my mind. So yea ... i am so hurt rn and i hope their relationship fail.
How long does these stages go on for? My husband and i have been split for 9m but was working on things then this thing came along he told me he. Loved me when i said you Will regret this and he wont find another me he said i know then said love my drugs she's a druggie herself he was given a choice here he stays either stop with the drugs or his bail will be revoked well he moved in with thw slob its been 3-4 weeks hes posted songs about memories but is still with it i told him he Will not see his kids as long as hes with it she was mean to my daughter she knew about him and i he has a prison bid coming up which i would have been there after i told him hed regret it and he wont find another me he said i know how long does these stages go on for? How many months
My ex left me for another girl. However, he wanted to be friends. I knew this wasn’t the best thing to do so I decided to quit contacting him and ignore him. It drove him NUTS. He kept on begging me to talk to him. I remember giving in to his emotions and telling him we were still friends. He eventually saw through it when I started to ignore him again. He was so unhappy. He said he missed what we used to have together. He misses being my favorite person. He misses being a high priority in my life. He misses when I was excited to talk to him. However, I TRIED explaining to him that he’s not my bf anymore so he has to adjust. Then, he complains that my new relationship will make him forget about him. He seems jealous and he keeps on telling me and himself it’s a rebound. He tells me he just really wants to be friends with me... but he’s giving me mixed signals that he’s into me. Then, he said when we were friends before we dated that he was still my favorite person and a high priority (which is true). He then complains that he doesn’t like how he’s “just a friend I talk to sometimes” now. Is he into me or does he just genuinely want to be best friends? In this situation, what should I try to do?
My ex broke up with me 6 weeks ago. She was hot and cold during that time, we also met 2 Times after the break up and she said that she really liked it. Afterwards we kept talking and she said she misses me. 2 weeks after she started dating a new guy. She thinks hes so perfect and it broke my heart. Now im 3 weeks into no contact and im scared that she will never reach out. Any advice?
Gerrit Ch improve yourself, way of attracting an ex is to be confident, strong, and poised. You make yourself better makes her wanting to run scurrying back to you
Gerrit Christiansen Similar situation. She kept bread-crumbing me for 2 months whilst she was on and off with him after she’d rejected me. Then silence for 5 weeks, then she’s telling me it’s definitely over with him. Asks to meet me.. then changed her mind. Breadcrumbs for another couple of weeks, then she’s onto the next one. Now silence for nearly 4 months. She was using me to alleviate her guilt for breaking up with me, boost her self-esteem and sought validation. She’s proved she not loyal or girlfriend material, but I want the power back. I’m not being her emotional tampon, so she feels better about herself and then goes off to fuck other men.
Hi there. I just need some advice about my current situation. I’ve been with my ex girlfriend for almost 4 years. We were so happy during the first 3 years. But everytime I’m working, she is cheating on me. She did it twice. She was telling me I’m having no time for her and etc. I was very loyal to her and I still accepted her even though she cheated on me twice. I love her so much. But my mind cannot forget what she did and that was the start when our relationship became toxic. I keep on thinking about what she did to me. All of the struggles that I’ve been through. Last march, I cheated to her just to make a revenge and make her feel what I felt. (btw, my side chick and me didn’t last a month). We broke up for 4 months and we came back to each other last july when I am still working night shift. Yeah, I’ll admit I’m too busy with my job. I keep on asking for her understanding about it and be mature enough. She’s really really immature. We have different mindsets. She blocked me on messenger (not in facebook) last August 8th. I’m not reaching out to her until August 26th, and that was the time when she admitted that she is now dating a new guy who can see her importance and give her time and she even told me he is the reason why she is happy right now. It sucks man. It hurts. She was pushing me away to find somebody better than her. When we came back together I can feel that she still loves me. I know her from head to toe, I can read her emotions and I know what she’s feeling. I know she’s not telling the truth and I can really feel that she still loves me. I was his first boyfriend, first in all of the things that couples do. She is a muslim, as a muslim woman she is really restricted to have a relationship with a christian like me or else I’m gonna get killed. The new guy is a christian too. Do you think it is worth it to chase her or to get back together? I am now feeling better than before, I can feel that I’m moving forward to my life. I need your advice guys. That would be much appreciated. Have a great day!
It was feb2019 that he texted me we can’t be together since he has new gf (I didn’t contact him since oct2018 coz he moved out at my place i didn’t invite him for my bday though he greeted me) April2019 they’re engaged! and this june2019 he is getting married! How did I know?! His photographer friend told me that she took there engagedment pic and she will be there wedding photographer!
Also i meant to add i asked him if he wanted a divorce and he doesn't why is that if he's done with me then why not cut all ties with me its not just a piece of paper
He wants to keep you around as an option if his first choice doesn't work out or to continue to reap the benefits from being in a marriage to you, whatever those benefits are: money, house, family life, etc.
I agree with Reese. It's to soften his pain and avoid the consequences of choosing someone else. You must allow him to experience the full consequences of moving on. Serve papers and cut all contact...even if you still love him and want him back, this is your best move. As long as he keeps you in limbo he knows you're not moving on with someone else. While you're shelved and he's safe to play the field free and clear.
She broke up with me and said she is seeing someone else. They know eachother for 3.5 months while we broke up 2 weeks ago.. they were showing of so much and he got her a ring, they planning to marry eachother and they only know for 3 months.. we had a 4 year relationship and also a baby!!!!!! They are in stage 2 now
@Harry Pannu. still not together. She's chasing madly though. In the meanwhile I worked on myself, dating massively other hot girls which is so fucking fun. Also business/career wise is improved huge. I could go back to her, but that's for me a downgrade
@Harry Pannu. she figured out that she don't like him at all. And shes misses me so much. I do chill with her and have sex with her, but that's about it.
@@jairamramadas9117 she came back within the 30 days after I accepted that she was gone. Now we're not together but we're good friends. She's about to leave him
