This lady is speaking my language. I love all men yet have managed to find unhealthy men who are critical of my intensity, sensual, and playfulness. I love being an older woman who can accept myself therefore only wanting & attracting wonderful men.
Screenshot reminder 1. Playful. Be urself, play, dont be like on an interview. Have fun! 2. Wildwoman. Gestures, that fire energy, be free express! 3. Sensual.. mm-mm... well do u need to expalin more. That juicy sensuality. Moves etc. 4. Priestess. Inspiring the man. Adding value, helping men to step into his power. After for example uve known him for some time. 5. Queen. What do u want? What does ur kingdom look like? Vision. Lean into that boundry, be straight. Set boundries. Knows what she wants. 6. I missed it lol. But dont be a burden. Journal: 1-10 where is queen
I embody most often, naturally: Being playful, having fun, spontaneity. I have most trouble with #2 shifting energy/interruptions because, although being very passionate, I don’t want to come across as too emotional.
I don’t usually feel like I’m winning when I watch dating/relationship videos, but this one makes me feel like I am! I don’t particularly feel like I struggle with any of these archetypes (after lots and lots of self growth). I’m sure there are always more ways to grow and learn though. Thanks for the affirmation and information!!
Really helpful for those of us trying to develop our feminine energy. Especially when you asked her specific things to say or do to get into that archetype.
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I guess just be authentic and act naturally. Just be you! Now that Im 39, I dont like drama and toxic people. I want to meet people with good understanding and a good listener. Someone who will inspires you about life. Im not impress by status and position, although i dont have them both, (hahaha) Im happy where i am now at the moment but Im seeking and learning for more. Thanks
I was so happy when I've watched this topic. To my personal experienced and present love affair, the archetypes I have embodied naturally were 1) playful,2)sensual 3) Queen. These 3 are really very very True.By nature I am playful,funny, attitude of a child, it's like am with a man which is a playmates and wants to have fun, laugh with, talk anything without limit even though we have big age difference. Being playful for me will make a man feel relax and comfortable to see you as a good partner and not boring. And mostly guys I've met, in relationships, they like "happy moments" each day. Being playful,funny, gives a man an energy, and wants to be with you all the time., because boys are boys they want to have fun until their oldest day, and me as well because, laughing, having fun creates a good harmony. Second ,to be sensual- This is very very powerful and believe me the man I've been in relationship now, he told me he fall in love more deeply when he saw me in a picture wearing a simple floral dress and looked very sensual. Not a dress,,revealing any part of my body but, it shows my feminity in the dress I've worn. For me sensuality through dress code, gestures and staring to the eyes during videochat is really attractive to a man. and number 3 - Queen. Honestly this is really a great thing a woman should do., because it helps the man feel they are the "KinG" ,powerful, and you are the "Queen" to be treated special, and as a Queen, a woman should tell the "King" what she wants. In my relationship now, this number 3 "archetypes - Queen, makes me being spoiled a lot and feel more than a Queen, I've experienced things never in my dreams I could have it, only Now in my relationships, that I am a "queen" I felt different, like a baby being pampered compared to previous one. , and also the rest "priestless,warriorless I agreed with these, these resonated to me just recently. I am very very thankful to this video, because I didn't realized, I am almost in the perfect archetypes😊. Thank you so much Matt, I owe you my happiness to my relationahips Now because I've learned a lot from you. God bless you..and more power to your program.
Thanks guys!! Such an awesome tips to be playful with your boyfriend or partner to feel alive & happier life should be about fun & loving! Perfect conversation with you both ❤️❤️
This is such a great collab! I have never heard about these "archetypes" so it was really interesting and y´all complimented each other so well. Thanks!
Thank you Mat. You are so charming and forthright..your talks are always refreshing and of course informative. Great to hear your interaction with Antia as well coming from the woman's perspective.
Matt you are helping me with my man in Syria. He comes back from duty at night and I’m waiting. I talk him down and send him comfort and set him free from the danger around him. Many nights we sleep in each other’s arms after I send him to the moon. I’ve never experienced a long distance love affair. So good for us!! Thanks buddy!!🤗
Hi Matt Loving you work and videos, so valuable and like that you give examples. Could you do a video for mature 55 +....ladies who are looking for relationship, not necessarily marriage, healthy sharing with a man and enjoying each other’s company. Or does it not matter what stage in life you are in?
Matt in this Interview w Anita Boyd You Literally Had to RE EXPLAIN WHAT SHE WAS TRYING TO EXPLAIN. IS SHE BRAZILIAN ? HER EXPLANATION OF 6 WAYS OF THE FEMALE WASNT THAT QUITE EXPLANATORY CLEAR. YOU WERE THE ONE DOING IT FOR HER. NEEDS GENUINE CLEAR IMPROVEMENT TO UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE IS EMPOWERING US LADIES. YOUR AMAZING EMPOWERING US WITH YOUR CLEAR SIMPLE AWESOMENESS WORDING EXPLAINING SIMPLE WORDS AND BEING GENUINE BEING YOURSELF HELPS ALOT AND IT GOES ALONG Way too.
One word on the warrior lady. As a feminine woman I don't feel the need to do exactly what my man does. It would feel competitive and masculine to him and a lot of pressure on me. I feel that some women do struggle in being in charge of their lives. Unfortunately no one has taught us to be our own warriors. We do need more women to set examples for others sisters 🧛💜
I definitely need to work on some aspects of #5, especially boundaries! The empath/Cancerian in me is the Queen of forgiving & making those "giving an inch and they'll take a mile" excuses on their behalf--Not Good (and I know it). It's a process but I'm making progress!
@Matt Shaffer thanks much for all ur wonderful videos!! do u personally believe in manifesting everything u want,for example, the by we love trough meditation and the act of manifestations? If we do them well everyone and everything we wish will manifest in our life for sure!!
Was I wrong to call his bluff. Been talking this second time and more intense. But it dwindled after about 8 mths of talking serious, than it was no calls. For Jan, Feb & March . Still hadn’t met person to person. He bugged & bugged & bugged for about a year before I gave I’m the time of day. Then I hear oh not tonight hun . I’m crazy busy. Can’t call you . I’m sorry ! Why do guys do this? I was just fine for 8 yrs without a man . And he pursued until I fell hard. What’s wrong with 85% of men . Why pursue if their going to leave anyways.
Well I’m still stuck in limbo. IDK if I should leave him alone . I do know that there’s a lot going on. Business wise & virus wise. I hate to put added pressure on anyone , but my pressures aren’t being relieved either. Sitting here and not knowing anything. I just don’t get why we have to be wired so differently .
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🤗✋🙏❣️ Speechless🤗😊. I like Antia Boyd , very energetic, I like her laughter, I like her explanations🙏❣️🤗. Live, laugh, love Still stay safe every❣️ne 🙏 God Bless Us All. Be well Matt. Are you well ? How's the health ?
They chase... we choose..., what are men being told to do to appeal to us? Just because a man pays attention to me doesn’t mean HE’S THE ONE and I need to ‘adapt’ my life to suit him, eh?
what sucks is when all these things match up with the guy, boundries match, everything, and then he must think were molding to him or giving into him.. when in fact: we simply match. he runs because Im too comfortable and like him. but I am !! why is that bad???
Oh how I wish I had pretty hands! I know that sounds stupid but I have strong, wrinkled rough looking hands so I can't help but appear masculine and wish it wasn't like that - so when I try to touch a man I'm sure it doesn't feel that great😐 I'm sure I have something else to offer that I can accentuate
With her accent, and talking so fast, very hard to for me to concentrate on what she is saying. Did not enjoy as a guest. Really enjoy Clayton. Very good speaker, enunciates, much more enjoyable and very easy to understand. Thank you Mat.
Not having a clear vision for your future is totally fine. Many folks are in the same boat. Just take your time exploring different options and see what clicks for you
It's too bad women aren't taught this from childhood. We are taught the prince comes and scoops us up and takes us to their kingdom, and we then live for our prince after that. We aren't taught to hold our own and be equals. We need to teach your girls better.
Anita Boyd her weird Unclear Wording like example is " PRIESTESS " HER WORDS ARE SO WEIRD NOT UNDERSTANDING WHAT SHE WAS TO MEAN WANTS US TO UNDERSTA DING...??? 🤔
First you have get the man you want in person not in your mind. To be playful and sweet and a little girl. Not chase his ass around the earth. So if you don't have that what's use if he's interested. Speaking for a friend of mine.
You have good ideas, but I think older people would have have different ideas and more maturity. Yes sex is important but you two focus on the sex part, there are more ways to make love and show your love. I think your young ages are affecting your ideas. My opinion only. as ones energy lessens , you change on priorities.
