This is good information. However I don’t know what to say, like what consequences to set with a man who is oversetting my boundaries. Could you please give an example. Thanks Kirk!
Hello Kirk, why do people do this ? I am so fed up with this. Just be who u are. Omg! Stop playing the games. Life is too short for this. Too old ! Maybe if they stop, they will find happiness and a healthy relationship. Why why Crazy shit Kirk is just crazy. Thanks, we need more men like u. Endless cycle of crap! Smh!Hugssss
It all comes down to the saying: You teach people how to treat you. This is all based on control. It's amazing how many people feel they need to be in control of relationships. I believe it's based on failed past relationships or fear of being used. IDK if this is the case, but I do know that insecure people play these types of games.
0:34 yes! Had it done, subtle sign of disrespect I was gaslight to ignore . Then its just domino effect, one by one , month by month, year by year. Biggest lesson- leave at first sign of disrespect They know exactly what they are doing and testing you to abuse you
If a man hits or calls you out of your name, I don’t care if it’s the first time. At that point, there are no boundaries or ground rules to be established, you just simply walk away and leave. Those type of men have issues with women, it’s not personal. It’s always them. There’s no point in trying to talk it out - it will inevitably happen again.
Thank you so much reminds me of time when I was lost in the source and the sex.....I was so attracted to him, my high school sweetheart. I'm happy to be using my brains instead of my feelings❤
Just like when children jump all around saying, “Look at me, look at me!” And everyone turns around to pay attention and are entertained, every person didn’t receive that attention as children so negative behaviors are used in any fashion to garner attention. We must correct negative behavior and let it be known, not entertain it.
When you call me the B word- it’s over for me & it’s usually because I gave you a chance- but didn’t want you anyway.. Usually if don’t get in touch for days- he has other obligations. Broken promises- you get a second-time because we’re older and things come up. But that’s it
But why do they do this??!!! My ex was a narcissist and I felt like I really lost myself as he would constantly invalidate, gaslight me and disrespect me. 😢 there’s too much evil in this world
I let them do their thang and then let them know you showed me who you are. Go on about my business if it’s not going to work. People do what you allow. They will trip themselves up thinking they are so smart
I'm confused, if all men test you to see if you'll tolerate them, then what are the odds of passing. If they all test to where you have to leave then how do you get in a relationship. How do you put your foot down without breaking up
