Yes. This is exactly what has happened. The level of occult, and the level of grave sin in the world have invited in demons that would,otherwise have been held back. They don’t have any more power, because demons don’t graduate in power, but it is up to human beings to live lives of prayer, virtue, and reliance on God our creator, that has all decreased. It is our own collective fault these demons have been allowed to wreak havoc on the world, in general.
It's funny but my elderly mother actually said that to my (narc.) brother a few weeks ago! He was complaining that she always took my side when he attacked me (verbally) & she said to him 'Yes I do, because one speaks the truth & the other one (him) doesn't.' - He immediately hung up on her & I felt a little shell shocked that my mother had said it. I don't know if either of us knew at the time how well she'd summed up the decades of abuse. Yet here is confirmation - and of course it's true when you think about it because the devil is a liar & has been a liar from the very beginning!
Someone said that when the devil cannot destroy you, he will put a narcissist in your path. I know it's truth. When we deal with a narcissist, we deal with a whole legion of demons. Thank you Paula for addressing this aspect. Knowing that light kills darkness helps a lot. 1John5:4-5
@@amb4855what do we do when it’s whole tribe of family of them even being away you can’t heal I have to let pain go forgive them get energy healing to release all stuck trauma body wtf I’m empath can’t handle abuse but mentally why can’t we let go some evil spirit from them follows you they won’t leave your mind…..
It's that their insecurities or superiority makes them think you're always right. So they play the "condemnation game with us..old Jedi mind trick my sisters use to play..riddled with the demonic spirits of envy jealousy, guilt, pride etc scriptures tell us these sins give the devil a place in our lives to devour believers or unbelievers.. he's always roaming about seeking whom..✌️
@@m24_4💯 My husband is a bipolar narcissist. I've had to deal with him for 26 years. I finally had enough and had him removed from my life and home 2 years ago. I wish I had had the courage to do it years ago. I've refused contact with him, cut all ties and my life has changed dramatically for the best.🙏
I recently found out my step father in law doesn't have a doctorate degree yet he likes being called "Doctor". Through the decades, I've gotten used to calling him that.
We tried for so long to convince them of our worth...Our presence in the relationship never meant anything to the Narcissist... The longer we danced with the Devil...The longer we stayed in Hell...
Omg, so true. I danced with the devil for decades! I'm telling you truthfully, the Lord suddenly opened my eyes. I can't believe I survived! And the beast is surely pissed off that I did! Thanks to God!
@@jennifergriffin5467 I am so glad you got out Jennifer...Now You owe yourself the Love that you so freely gave to the Narcissist...and believe in yourself and beauty of your Spirit.. Then the rest will fall into place...God Bless You..
@@annamariehewitt3173 Thank you. My healing journey is working out well. I refuse to deal with any BS, and can smell narcs/abusers from a distance now. No contact with any of them, whatsoever! For those on a healing journey, you can do this! God bless you all.
1. Lying and Deception 2. Envy & Jealousy (It's their primary motivator!) 3. Chaos & Confusion 4. Condemnation & Accusation (of who you are, your personhood) 5. Fear - causing fear in the other person 6. Cruelty and Pain (sadistic) 7. Pride - feeling superior, egocentric
That’s right. Satan was a narcissist and the narcs & psychopaths & sociopaths in our world today are his army… Satan’s army. The evil here on earth. Satan’s legion…
@malibu90265 I watched this person's eyes and facial expression suddenly change, as if they switched between 2 different evil personalities, one more evil that the other. Some would call this multi personality. I forgot what they call it. But it was as if they went into a trance and changed the way they spoke, like a mantra.. It's hard to explain. 😵💫
@@cookiemama4 I hope that you are well. When did you first observe the "look" of evil in the eyes? In my case, the narcissist had a seed of it when I met him and in the early years, which I failed to see because I was inexperienced, but I did experience red flag feelings. But once it started to take him over, the process of evil embodiment was quite rapid. Alcohol played into it, as well. (I love cookies!)
You are very correct. The only spark of life I ever saw in their eyes was when I was being yelled at or when they were doing something evil to me or others.
All the attributes of Satan! It always amazes me when I meet someone professing to be a Christian, who then soon turns out to, beneath the most 'loving' persona they first displayed to you, in fact be governed by these very qualities.
29 minutes in hit me hard!!! How can they fool so many people?!!! Why do they save their narcissistic abuse only behind closed doors?!!! It’s absolute torture. *** They serve in the church, they volunteer their time, they check on people that are sick, they go out of their way but behind closed doors!!! 😭 😢 💔
It's like a fantastic science fiction movie where people we love are turning into non human souls destroyers and nobody can see through their veneer and even if they do they refuse to see it fully until it's too late. @@kengaroo5170
This is how I literally described my escape from one. When you are in the "eye" of it, all seems calm and good. But yet you can "feel" the whirlwinds all around you. You just can't pinpoint what it is, so you ignore those senses. Until such time as you can no longer ignore it and you have to literally crawl your way through the flying debris of their REAL malestrom while it literally sucks the life out of you. when you get outside of it and look back, you see it for the black shroud of chaos it really is and then remain dumbfounded for the rest of your life wondering how the heck you ever got sucked into it.
I finally broke away from a Nacissists wife. I left my home, my kids, and everything we built. It got to the point that I had to tell my kids if I didn't leave I WAS GOING TO DIE. It took me 3 years to re-find myself. The coldness of her actions without empathy of how it affected me or our children was heart wrenching. Fortunately, I was able to hold on long enough for my last kid to graduate. It truly sucks the life out of you to the point you feel like you are literally dying. They also are very good with turning the kids against you to champion their behavior. I pray for those that are living under this type of abuse. It took the LORD sending me to the wilderness so I can hear his voice again and allow HIM to rebuild me (SPIRIT, SOUL, and BODY). All three phases were broken.
I was in it for 30 years. Married for 21 of those years. I couldn't figure out what it was. I just kept trying to do better, but it was never enough. I lumped everything together under the umbrella of family, and she was at the center of it. Therefore, I covered the majority of her crazy behavior and absence from the family. My focus was always to cover her. I just met her new supply a week ago today. I remembered him from just before I left the marriage. He had just gotten out of prison. She chose to replace me with him and tried to get my kids to accept him. It quickly went horribly bad. After speaking with my kids, they told me... Dad, it didn't take long after you left to realize it wasn't you. It warmed my heart and brought me to tears. From the time I walked out the door, I prayed my kids would eventually understand why I had to do what I did. Save yourself before you think about saving someone else.
I empathise with you, brother. I had tears in my eyes, reading the last two sentences ofyourcomment. I'm undergoing the same. My two sons are 14 and 9, and she is already poisoning my older son's mind.
At least you were self sufficient and. could afford to leave. My story is the same as yours but I was the wife. He did try to use our daughter to punish me and he ruined her. She was 9 when the problems were evident. He married his secretary as soon as both their divorces were final. I tried my best but best was never good enough. I never badmouthed her dad to her and tried to let her be a child as long as possible. I believe he would kill me if he could and all I did was give him what he wanted and my daughter was hostile against me and still is. She caught his disease. Sadly her son committed suicide at 32 leaving a wife and 3 beautiful daughters. She denied me any visitation with my grandchildren. I could see the handwriting on the wall and believe if my grandson had of not been turned against me - I could have helped him. Knowing how he was raised and treated it was not surprising to me. (My daughter worked at topless bars in Dallas/DFW - got married to one of her clients after. knowing him 2 weeks. I had my grandson between the fights she and her worthless x husband. She came and picked my grandson up saying I was trying to take him away from her. My son is 6 months older than my grandson. He resented having any attention given to anyone but him and treated his nephew badly. He is also a narcissist ... Hard to know what to do about any of it but in this day and age with these informative and educational videos there is no excuse not to do some serious self examination. I have been damaged beyond reach. I can not allow myself to become friendly with many who do seen interesting but I just can't allow anyone to get close enough. to me to hurt me again. I am a loner and prefer my solitude but I am never lonely. Jesus is always with me and brings me joy every day. So many waste so much time in life. I like to wake up every morning with a smile on my face and warmth in my heart. That is what I do every morning and all day. So much beautiful and pleasant times. Pleasant company is welcome but still can not allow myself to become to personal. Blessings
yep my monster narc mother would give me the look. However I don’t pay attention directly in her eye as it makes me uncomfortable. It’s that predatory stare whenever you are happy, or when things are good. It triggers her.
@@jmalik6191 Same.. it was the ex mil. All were afraid of her. She hated me because I didn’t relent. I would stare her right back until she broke contact. Greater is He who is me than the NOTHING ..within her. She was furious that she couldn’t get her claws into my children, my beautiful gifts from above. No ma’am. Took the children and moved states. Left her sonhusband behind with her. Let the dead bury the dead.
@alaia-awakened I worked with a young man who bullied one of my co-workers so I stood up to him and defended her. This got me in trouble because the supervisors were all enamored with him. One day, he and I were alone in a room and he looked at me, smirked, and his pupils suddenly went pin-point and he "disappeared"! The transformation freaked me out, and I knew he was possessed. I quit that job because one of those supervisors threatened me. She was a pastor's wife! She loved this horrid man! Three months later, he was fired for looking at pornography on a work computer.
Whenever you experience sadism be extra cautious. Get out as quickly & quietly as possible… without tipping this individual off. Pay attention to how you feel. Does the hair stand up on the back of your neck??? Is there a whisper of fear??? Pay attention to what your body is telling you. It’s a gift to keep you safe. Whenever you see sadism you’re likely dealing with a possible malignant narcissist. An antisocial personality… psychopath or sociopath. Your life is in danger.
Yes! Motivations of abusers are entitlement, survival, and sadistic. The later are the freaky ones. The more agreement with the demonic realm, the more dangerous they become. Blessings to you today! S
I wasn’t afraid - but I felt like I didn’t know who I was anymore and I didn’t know how to behave/act in the world. Interestingly, after I walked off and went no contact I discovered that a lot of people disliked the narc on first meeting despite the apparent affability and friendliness, and others who found the narc made them feel anxious quite quickly. Obviously these people have better radars than I do!
Especially if they play the christian card yet talk about passion , being hot , wanting to move fast and this is with in a first conversation . Then when you say you are not looking to give benefits a husband should have and they delete your conversation in the dating app. Watch out cause even demons use people to use the christian card .
Something else I’ve observed in the narcissists in my life is duplicity. They’re like a split personality of sorts. They can be very kind and loving with some and berate others mercilessly.
Because they wear a mask, and sometimes, they let it slip, so you see who they really are. Nothing supernatural here. It's just how people with that type of disorder are.
So very true My narcissistic husband was trying to kill me by physical abuse. I actually saw the demons in his eyes. I got out,thank God. The Lord saved me many times. He's dead now
I was married to a dark triad narcissist for 30 years. When I called her out and told her that her masked slipped, I wasn’t prepared what happened next. Her face changed to the most evil person anyone could imagine and then a demon showed itself to me for just a second or so. I had no idea this was even a possibility. But I saw it with my own eyes.
I saw this very thing myself recently with a relative of mine..i couldn't believe what i was seeing. At the time i thought i had literally seen the devil.. Now it all makes sense. It has changed our relationship for sure, but working on forgiveness. 🙏❤️
My intuition told me strongly that was a demonic possession of the indivifual. I ask the DIVINE what was going on with this family member that I recognize all the signd & symptoms of narcisism was in her. This very Night the DIVINE showed me that she was possessed by 7 EVIL SPIRITS, just as presented on this video. She's teaching the TRUTH concerning this SICKNESS. Finally the TRUTH is being told. Now, I can see hope at the END of the tunnel for THOSE vex with this kine of SICKNESS.
YES, Inhuman behaviour. I've been around narcissist's all my life starting with both parents, believe that they are Halflings, not 100% human, serving the dark side, for sure. I'm a Christian 39 yrs. The only hope & Healing comes from God; Jesus & Holy Spirit for me. 🎉
One of my parents has NPD. I'll spare you all the details of my experience, but I will say they groom you to where you subconsciously accept their dysfunctional behavior/energy as the norm. As a result, when you're adult, you're primed to partner with other narcissists, in different aspects of your life, until you have the information and start the your healing journey. I've encountered my fair share and they all have a dark, demonic, toxic spiritual energy. Every single one and it's as if there is a code/script that automatically runs on their operating system that yields certain predictable behaviors. In the end, they try to destroy every being they encounter, WHILE destroying themselves in the process. Which is telling. These individuals are extremely dangerous. Stay informed and protect your energy.
@@NarcConI’m not sure if you’ve done a specific video on this before but, I’d love to learn more on the topic of how a narcissistic parent/mother “grooms” you as a child to then later in life allow in romantic partners who are abusive and narcissistic as well. Thank you for all you do for this community! 🌻
My mother and husband were narcisists passive aggressive. All my life was a hell. My mother died with 91 years old.....and I left my husband immediately after her death , after 30 years manipulation, lies, gas lighting, they almost destroyed me. The result...I had breast cancer, stomach problems, panic attacks and anxiety, high blood pressure....the hell of a life. I left him for 4 years thank God. Now I recognize one miles away. I'm healing. Almost died.
I’m glad you didn’t die, so you could go on to have a good life you deserve. I had a similar circumstance and now have terminal breast cancer. Living with narcissists can ruin your health. It’s so stressful . Bless you and may your the rest of your life be wonderful.
Deterred but not destroyed. 💕 Matthew 10:28, KJV And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.
@@maryanngarcia3080thank you for sharing your experience. I have suspicion that I might be dealing with one. Cannot say too much here,but thank you!! 💛😞💛
This is spiritual as much as it is natural. Demonic spirits are like sharks. When someone has been wounded, they are sniffed out by the demonic, and they are often easy prey. Sharks smell blood in the water, and go after the wounded because they are weakened by those wounds. Those who've been serially abused would do well to be in therapy, participate in therapy groups, read books on narcissistic behavior (and other abnormal behaviors), stear clear of "charmers", and most of all, read the Bible. It's the living word ... and its wisdom will jump off the pages in times of great need.@@Sm-ne8ff
I am 70 and this has helped me . I don’t have good relationships in my life now because of this ABUSE. Afraid to trust. At this age. Help me have a true life at this time😢
Thank you for addressing the demonic side of this. Some Narcissists are family, so we CAN’T completely escape them, but we can pray against these evil spirits.
YES YOU CAN ESCAPE THEM, narcisisist parents were never family, they were NEVER parents, family is no a circle of abuse where the parents get to suck the life out of their innocent kids, of course we must get away from them, it is us or them.
Please stay away I have narcissist tendencies and I was abused for 30 yrs and only date men that are damaged or have empathy. Showing vulnerability shows weakness it takes me to remembering the abuse I got so use to the abuse that it became normal and then one day I couldn't cry. I got use to ass beatings that one time I said Dad my friend is outside and I got an ass beating by a man 6'5 , I was 5"11 and he was like 320 pounds my own father punched me hit me bruised me. After the ass beating I walked outside and said sorry are you hungry she's crying I Said dont cry let's go to your house she's crying and I can't even cry in front of her, I do cry but alone. I have hypervilgence and paranoia. I've been molested by 2 uncles. My brother has narcissist tendencies and he belittles me. He thinks my dad is a great father. My dad was nice to everyone else but mean to us. I learned not to trust anyone since I don't know proper love I'm afraid because I don't know love. It has never been given to me. I don't hug ppl it's rare. I try to show affection it feels wierd. I'm just waiting on reactive abuse I have a sad life. I attract wrong men for them to treat me like my dad it's sad. But sometimes I find it being sad and I've been told I have bad energy but I do help ppl but I've been told that's how narcissist show love. I really don't know. So appreciate love, peace, and comfort cause I've never had it. I'm always afraid.
I spent my childhood outside, away from the chaos as much as possible. Reading books in nature was my escape. I often climbed the back fence and slept in the park at night. When I was forced to be in the house I hid under the bed, from age 5 until 17. My mother is a demonic covert narcissist and my step-father was a pedophile. I feel bad for my sisters as they felt forced to comply but to this day they blame me because I refused, in their mind because "I thought I was better than them". But back then they were rewarded and I was shunned by them and my parents. My mother knew about the abuse but pretended not to. I actually think she encouraged it. I fought to protect myself and my entire childhood was about survival. I left at 17 with no money and just the clothes I was wearing and never went back.
Good Lord, this sounds so much like mine and my sisters experience. After that I struggled with homelessness for 10 years, and while I went through horrible things during that time, it was still nothing compared to the hell God delivered me from out of that house! I cannot say enough, PRAISE and THANK GOD!!! PRAISE and THANK JESUS CHRIST/ YESHUAH FOR ALL HE HAS DONE FOR ME AND BROUGHT ME OUT OF, FOR ALL THE HEALING, AND ALL THE DELIVERANCE. Is life just easy peezy now?, no, but God gives me peace, love, and joy. There's just no way I would have made it without the Lord God, he saved me in every way! Now I spend so much time with God and I get to crying because of how beautiful, radiant, and wonderful God is, he is my peace, my everything, HALLELUYAH. And one day JESUS IS RETURNING SOON, and I will be with him in paradise, where there's no more pain, tears, or suffering, or evil. Only glorious love and purity of all things.
I have been studying narcology for almost 3 years now ... Five different doctors ... A professor... Life coaches.... And just general people speaking out about their experience with the narcissist. ..... But there was always an unanswered bottom... An uncertainty that went on forever and did not make any sense.... But the one that makes the most sense to me is coming from this lady.... And coming from my friend who is a Christian man.... Satan is the biggest narcissist.. . So if you trace the behavior for sure the seven deadly sins will show up..... This lady here is the wisest ..
Hey Lisa. While i read your comment, my heart jumped, because i had exactly that question in my mind. I study this subject since my mum died last week. Father and siblings are narcists. My mum knew the lord, she was the only sunshine in my family. My father also has a religious demonic spirit, a really heavy combination. I miss my mum so much. She never knew what she was really dealing with her whole mariage. She just felt the pain. Now she is safe.
@dienahfee777 I am sorry for your loss. May your mum rest in peace. May her sunny disposition shine thru you always. May the gracious Lord above soak your father and your siblings in his restorative precious healing blood of Jesus Christ of Nazareth !!
My physician ex-husband is a classic narcissist. Living with him was hell every day he was home from work. The feeling of condemnation was overwhelming. I have cut off all ties with him, and he cannot find me anymore. This is the best way to handle a narcissist. Break all ties and start your life over.
Not how it is when ( younger kids involved ) even kids younger than 13/12 yrs old . Such a difficult decision and deeply painful for the non nac parent add to the ' threats ECT that the nac partner makes. Also , some nac ex's put car tracers on persons car , find the present address through hacking persons email address, and many other sneaky ways . Unfortunately, modern teck can be used in such a evil way .
You were lucky , he didn't want to find you my dear. If he had of wanted to _ believe me he would of found you . There are plenty of ways to find someone _ in this teck world we live in . Unknown to you he could be keeping tabs on you. It's quite a common thing that ex nac' do
@@williamrobbins-ru8wwI stayed in a women's domestic violence shelter that did not publicize its location. One of the women there had a husband who was wanted for murder and dismemberment of another man, several states away. While we were there, he found her! All he wanted to do was see his kids, which they let him do. He then left peacefully, but we were all scared out of our minds!
My mother is a covert narcissist. It took me until I was 50yrs old to figure out how evil and frightening she is. I decided to shut her out of my life with out adding drama. Long story short - that didn’t work for her with my options being conform or punished ! My signature was forged signing my house to her leaving me and my 2 kids homeless and got temporary custody of my kids . I’m still struggling with tremendous sorrow/anger which keeps me still yet a prisoner from a narcissist and moving forward. Complete devastation and hopelessness to my inner core!
My Mother is born under The same tree as your...took med also 50 years to get The point.. stand strong and good luck!! They are The real reason for burning witches!! 🎉
I and most other people get a queezy stomach around the narc we have to deal with, since she is gatekeeper to grandchildren. They get queezy too. When she is out of town, the air and everything in the house and area are palpably free of stress and confusion. You can feel it.
I can physically feel my gut tightening, a queezy feeling and sometimes shortness of breath just being near them, or even thinking of them. One in particular. In addition to the darkness, she also attacks me verbally, abusive. So, thinking of her elicits a Pavlovian response. It’s really horrible. Even for her own young children. 😢
@@BigRebel0802 I remember first getting together with a victim of a terrible narc, (male). I went to (their) his house while she went to her new guys house for the weekend. (she decided she wanted him out so he came to me.) I had my dog over with his two dogs- they all were getting along great. She unexpectedly showed up at the home and the 2 dogs immediately 'attacked' my little dog. No bites- but He had to be pried away from the big dog. That was my first sign that she was evil..
This is one of the best videos I've seen on the subject. It is a relief to go beyond trying to stick to the relatively new (less than 200 years old, perhaps) psychological viewpoint of narcissism. It is evil and it is ancient. I was born into a cursed family and I'm tired of talking to post modern therapists about it. They're all dead now or no contact and I'm getting old. I don't have the time or desire for anything but the truth.
I used to think a narcissist was like an energy vampire but the truth is they are joy vampire. They sabotage another’s joy, happiness and then wonder why one becomes unhappy and depressed.
Exactly! My ex narc would say "can't you ever just be happy!?" Meanwhile he was beating me down till I had nothing left to give. He stole my happiness and his misery was replaced within me.
They think that by stealing our essence that they will become us. Couldn't be further from the truth. Sure they might match our energy for awhile but it runs out and in the end they just become the boring sad and pathetic people they are.
Give yourself lots of time to decompress, express and heal. It will take awhile for sure. And yes, it will forever change you, but now that you are out, you can CHOOSE to pick back up the pieces of you that you want to rebuild yourself with. Places like this on youtube are a great gift to help you sort out the craziness and give you some idea of what actually happened. But as I am sure you are aware, it is VERY intensely personal what happened to you. They know how to find the core of your fears and weaknesses and use them against you and that is a very personal thing. But it CAN be used to rebuild yourself to a better version of you than you ever were, if you allow it. Take time and give yourself LOTS of grace (no shame or judgement upon yourself because they get to the BEST of us). Lots of gentle and healing hugs if you want them! 💜
Thank you Paula. I was married to a grandiose, malignant narcissist, for 30 years. I left him 9 years ago and have spent that time educating myself about NPD and healing my childhood wounds. I am finally out of that dark place and looking forward to the future. I have known for many years that they are driven by dark, demonic forces. I have seen the demons in his eyes. He did all of the things you described and more, until I was almost broken. My physical and emotional state was dreadful. I see him now for the empty, evil, childish creature he is. I am a very spiritual and caring person. People like us, children of the light, are the ones they target most, because they want to put out the light. Unfortunately for them "light always overpowers darkness" Bless you, and people like you, who help us find our way back.
This comment could have come from my own pen. Thank you, because I thought I was the "bad" wife. Yesterday I heard my food is awful 😢. Never a thank you or kind word. Only curses and blaming. Also heard I am a parasite. I'm so finished. Can't do this anymore.
Same story as have had. Married 33 yrs and divorced 7 yrs ago. As we were going to divorce I saw his eyes change one time and I knew I was doing the right thing. Praise God that I’m not with him anymore. God kept me one step ahead of him through the divorce 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Your story sounds almost exactly like mine. I left after 24 years of marriage. Satan uses the same methods over and over again to bring pain and destruction. I'm so glad you found your way out. 😊
Spot on. It is demonic. I was married to a covert narcasist. Out nearly two yrs now, there is hope. The freedom programme by Pat Craven in the UK does wonderful restoration work
My Narcissist GF kick started my spiritual journey 🙏❤👻 at 45 years. Once I figured her after 14 years I realised I had been raised by a narcissist mother! I'm now 47 free from Narcs for 2 years life is amazing. This is my journey x
My mom came to my door after years and my border collie, who she had never met, growled like she was going to kill me. I didn’t think he had that in him. It gave me the chills. He could see the evil I could not. He helped me realize the darkness. God help and protect us all.
Serpentologists who keep snakes at home have told me that venomous snakes are very, very good at distinguishing the essence of a person. They never bite a kind person in the soul and calmly, curled up in a ball, doze on his lap. But, right there, they feel an evil person a few meters away: they start to get nervous, hiss and try to crawl away quickly.
Dogs can sense people who have evil intent, I have had two dogs that identified millignant narcissists long before I did. Trust your dog they are more attuned to danger and malice than we are. Never doubt the loyalty of your dog they are looking out for you.
also trust your own feelings- when repelled or a thought 'this person is kind of weird' be careful. As an empath are nature is to take people in who are rejected or different, that is why we become victims. Love but verify
Thank you for teaching me, getting through my healing. It all comes together for me.I now know that I'm a loving, kind, compassionate person. Narcissists are just filled with evil. I got my self-esteem back. Please anyone out there listen. If you're in this situation don't let anyone destroy you. If you pray, keep praying. If you have a wonderful friend talk with them for comfort. My love goes out to all of you that are suffering. Don't give up and don't give in. You're God's child. You are worthy of love and respect!!❤😊
Oh Paula, the way you described the 7 spirits was absolutely my life. I remember in my marriage when my husband would grab me by the arm( he did this often) and it hurt and I told him so, he just looked at me and said, your just saying that, it doesn't hurt!!! When these things happen often in your marriage you just feel fear and are afraid to say anything. I remember my husband had pushed me because I voiced my thoughts on something that was going on, he gave me that cold look and I just cried for hours, he never tried to talk it out he just rolled over and went to sleep. He was such a cruel asshole, thank the Lord he is long gone.😊
Whew, I know THAT smirk/evil stare all too well. My step-daughter...her evil eyes were always on me. As a Christ follower, I had to vacate that entire scenario after my husband passed. Until then I wasn't able to. I could look in my car's rear-view mirror. Her face would be smirking and staring at me every time. Her bio-mom was WICCAN so you can extrapolate from there! 😂
I’ve been praying for wisdom and discernment. . . Holy smokes am I getting it. . . It’s like drinking from a fire hose. You are 100% correct on all of this. Thank you.❤
My author pal told me this last night)._ "The _end_ of a relationship with an NPD/ BPD is a plane crash." *When someone survives a plane crash, they keep walking away from it.* *They don't go back into it to get their 'luggage'.* 💫
My relationship with a narcissist ended today after I told him that I believed he was demonic. He’s lied and betrayed me so much and does not have an ounce of compassion. He’s accused me of plotting to harm him! I thank God that your video came up on my feed as I was starting to think I was crazy.😢
From a survivers. Mom... They are accusing you of what they may have done and planing to do. Every accusation they are deflecting on you.. Is what they are doing .or thinking . .. Of doing ..
Your last point about pleading with them to stop..... When a parent does this to a child, it could be translated like this...... it's like the parent puts a child's hand in a vise and begins cranking it down until it becomes extremely painful for the child, and the more the child pleads for them to stop, the more sick they become and the more they turn the vise. Graphic, but emotionally and psychologically, it's the exact same experience. Then after the parent has had their sick purging of torture energy, the parent goes away and comes back to the child a few minutes later as though nothing had happened - it had been a justified punishment because the child is so incredibly selfish, ungrateful, lazy, and shameful, and if only the child would "try" once in a while, the parent wouldn't have to torture them like this. And that sh*t repeats every 3 to 5 days, year after year after year of that child's life. Doing some math, that child will go through this experience - 45 minutes to an hour and a half of being tortured to the point they are beginning to loose consciousness - they will experience this between 100 and 300 times. To a six year old, a seven year old, an eight year old. They will later reflect and realize the "end" of each of these torture sessions was when the child's mind has shut down and actually turned off their ears - they are in so much pain that they no longer "hear" the words of the parent - they become an echo in the room as the child falls into the deepest darkest hole imaginable. It's when the child can no longer respond due to this emotional shock that the parent finally leaves their victim alone. There's no point in cranking the vise any further because the child is basically unconscious and can no longer fight back or plead. Then this demon will put on angel feathers and present themselves as oh so holy and virtuous and altruistic in front of a church and other adults. These are sick ass people. This is what happens when a person has no soul and the space is filled by pure evil. I've watched all your videos and this is one of your best yet. Exactly on point.
You've described what it felt like growing up and dealing with my Mother. There was no RU-vid then with this information, they make their victim of choice look like a liar to the community and as a kid/teen, I just counted down the years to my exit. I played basketball and was able to get a scholarship. Looking back, people woulda thought I loved ball and maybe I did, but it wuz my ticket out. As an adult, I am finally acknowledging that I was seriously abused and am working through that. I'm learning how to regulate my nervous system in sustainable ways. The abuse is criminal. It sets one up for all kinds of potential health issues cuz its not normal to constantly be in fight or flight.
The narc in my life is long gone but the repercussions last a lifetime. I have, as you said Paula, lost a great deal of trust in others. As well as, I wait for the day when my children, whom the narc tried very hard to alienate from me .. see through the mask. I have to remind myself that I was unable to see it for many years. I did exactly what you described- wanted to give the benefit of the doubt or really, just couldn’t conceive that someone would feel so entitled that they would not want to contribute to the relationship working .. or contribute at all - and feel no feelings of embarrassment for their lack of contribution. Therefore, something is wrong (I thought), it cannot be intentional (I thought). Right up to the bitter end when the mask dropped and suddenly, I had to come to the realization that all those years, I had no idea who I had been married to. Years of marriage suddenly was nothing but a farce .. it’s a hard reality to face.
I know exactly 💯 % where you're coming from. I went through a similar description with my spouse whom I have separated from. It's like someone killed him off and took over his body. I can't say whether he's narcissistic or not, all I know is that he's developed bipolar disorder. I guess there is a family history of depression and such, starting from his Mom's side.😢
And yes, seemingly just like that, the way things were all seemed like dream sequence. Then afterwards, I fall back home to live with my Dad, only to find out soon after that he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, which he had battled for almost a year, until it took him just a couple of weeks ago 😢. Things just seemed to be spiraling downhill for my family and me since my Mom passed away from lung cancer in 2019. I keep wondering when there will ever come a day where I can come out the other side of all of this and even be financially secure. I'm hoping and praying that my future will turn for the better, and that all I want is to be able to fully support myself and my Dad's pets, and reach full independence.
I think the hardest part of this healing has been coming to the realization that I wasted an entire lifetime on an absolute beast, never giving up, thinking I was doing the right thing by being a dedicated wife. My mind is permanently blown. It was all a lie.
I could not agree more. This narcissism is 100% a demonic soul derangement. I just ran into this at my job, the CEO was trying to use every single one of these items, and thankfully I saw through it. He’s infested. I took this for 6months and had to resign,which set him off like a spoiled rotten toddler. They are pure evil creatures. He is filled with pride and ego, would NEVER accept accountability for anything. He would mimic things I would say and do with clients, but his words were EMPTY, void of any care, genuine concern or compassion. Clients knew. My Lord I exhausted. Survived a family of these demons, sadly married one. My poor nervous system needs REST. I would like to ask for prayers if you feel led to do so, for healing and a better, much healthier job.
Lord I ask for complete healing for our friend. Please open the windows of Heaven and shower peace, healing, wisdom and prosperity in all areas of her life, in Jesus name Amen
My experience was as a shipwrecked sailing ship with only the mast to tie myself to. The Lord gave me this vision during the early years to ride out the heavy storms!!! Only reason I survived, with the Lord's help. I didn't know who Id married for many years.
Hi Paula and Remy. You are correct, and I personally agree with you that the narc has a heavy evil spiritual and demonic aspect tied to the personality dissorder (psychological). My ex covert narc was very dark and disturbed. On a few occasions, I recall him whispering to me: “one day, I’ll have your soul”, and another time “Come to the dark side and give in”. At first I thought it was a joke or him just yanking my chain- but I eventually discovered that it was very real and worrisome. He meant it and said those things with such detachment and a smug and superior attitude. He sincerely thought that he was better than everyone. They are consumed with chronic envy, jealousy, pride, wrath (and spite) and when we stare into their eyes, we see a hollow bottomless black and dark pit. There is no soul that lives in there, only darkness. 8 years out but still eerily disturbing to this day when I think of him…
Your comment really made me shake cause same happened to me. I heard him whispering a couple of times. One of those he said “the evil” i was always in confusion but deep inside me I knew what I was hearing or seing
Chills. I remember his brother leaving our house and saying "Goodbye, darkness." He said "Goodbye, blackness." When I later asked him about it, he smiled and said "Welcome to the dark side, babe."
Agreed! Another thing to add, in my experience, is control. They have to have full control or they will start to spiral and lose their minds. As long as they control you they feel like they are on top. If you disagree or state a different outcome than what they want they try to get back at you and insult you and punish you for not doing or acting the way they want.
I'm 59 & have been through 3 narcissistic relationships, my mother, my 2nd husband and a lover. The lover twisted me up the worst bc I wanted him, desired him so, so badly. I had to let him go bc I knew that I would get deathly ill if I stayed. I live alone in a huge farmhouse on acreage in the North Minnesota Woods. I love it. I have people in my life. I now smell a narcissist miles away. I'm gaining ground. I'm seeking God for my joy and fulfillment. I wish you all 100% wholeness, soundness and true inner peace and self love. 💝
I hope and pray viewers realise how absolutely essential it is to cut ALL contact with the narc. This is the only way to escape the power and manipulation they exude. And as they NEVER change, that power and manipulation stays active and seeking connection for as long as they live.
Begging the narcissist to stop is like feeding the monster to make it bigger and stronger. When they get you to that stage you’ve given them exactly what they wanted. A feeling of power and control.
Reading the comments supports so much of what I endured growing up with a true evil sister. What two year old tried to kill a newborn till my parents put locks on my bedroom door to keep her out. The verbal and physical abuse lasted till my parents died. That was 45 years. But as much as she tried, I must of had angel protection as I did not lose my light of love and kindness.
The demons are everywhere attacking good people. I remember the important takeaway from Jim Rohn's lectures: "In this world everything GOOD will be attacked."
SO WELL DESCRIBED, they probably feel their actions as the end is worth the meant to attain their goals , but like immature irresponsible children every single only focused in the present time like is the first time they argue, all their lives without counting consequences , that’s how they spend their whole ruined lives, and ruining your life
Absolutely!! After I broke up with my ex fiance he had the nerve to ask if I was still going to give him his Christmas wish of nice flannel shirts !! This was only a small part of things he wanted me to always pay for! Even tho his salary was 3 times what I made!! His Mother was just as crazy because she literally wrote the Pope a letter to get her crazy son canonized to be a Saint!! What a NUT!!
And narcissist usually don't like to take no for an answer and they are also too controlling. They live double lives. And everything always has to be about them all the time.
You’re absolutely RIGHT! My ex-husband, a pastor is a narcissist. Even lied in our divorce about being a pastor just to have his child support reduced & then asked for visitation and hasn’t seen our son yet. SICK! And yes, I’m the bad guy to the church. I can’t wait for Babylon to fall…
They get a hugh and intense high of seeing other people's misery and trauma. Know this sadism is a reflection of weakness, stemming from their hurt in their own early life.When they get this intense high, their behaviour is often child like, and to me is a sign of when their true narcissitic nature probably took over in their early infant years, and this arrested developement will never be broken.
Your comment just reminded me of a time when I blurted out to my ex "It's like you get pleasure out of knocking me down just to watch me pick myself up, over and over again." He smiled.
One of the funny things is seeing how uncomfortable a narc is around someone who they know is above them in any type of way (financial social etc) desperate for their approval
In the Bible, the Devil is the author of confusion, the Tempter, he is beautiful, vain, and cunning. Narcissists are his minions. A story as old as time. I had to learn the hard way. I am spiritual when it comes to the Lord, Jesus Christ. I felt that is exactly why I was targeted. The more I read my Bible, the more clear it gets to me that the Narcissist is a devil. I take my experience less personal now. It was much deeper than that. it was spiritual warfare.🙏🏽
I agree. “The narcissist” isn’t even really a person; they are a body that is inhabited by a dark entity or entities. Every major religion has a framework for this. It is why every major religion also has an outline for ways to keep these forces off and away from you. We ignore this need for strong and healthy boundaries (ethics, morals, refusing to participate, etc.) very much at our own peril. The devil is looking for any little crack to get in. We have to learn to take this seriously. If a narcissist serves any purpose, I suppose this is it.
That's exactly what it is. I always felt like something was trying to destroy my bond with my children. I couldn't put my finger on it but I felt it. It's a really difficult thing to explain. He definitely succeeded in ruining our relationships. Jesus knows everything and that's the very reason I have to hand it over to Him. Jesus is the only one who can help my children and myself to heal and reunite. It's been a long road. I'm feeling weary. 💜💌
You are so accurate. You are explain g my Mother complete. Didn’t start to really understand what I was dealing with until my 40’s. As she is aging her tactics are getting sloppy and the evil is showing more. There is no interaction with her anymore that isn’t an attempt at manipulation of some sort for no reason but to drain energy from others. I get physically ill by being in her presence. No wonder I struggled with stomach issues my whole life. And did she ever care about my struggles. Not one bit. Now she is conflicted with her years of lies and the double-sidedness. Ugly way to see your parent age. I knew for years it would get wacky in her older age.. but couldn’t have guessed how twisted it has been in recent years. Thank you for getting this information out there 🙏🏻 💛
Like my narc mother. In her old age it got worse day by day. Until the last day in September 2021, when she took her last breath. She made me physically ill until now. It's bad and its sad. My oldest sister has the same kind of evil in her. They will not stop until they die. One time my when my mother terrorized me omce again at the phone, i prayed psalm 23. Immediately she stopped blaming me and i heard her vomiting. I was shocked and irritated. But since then I knew, it was something demonic. So sad
I concur, dealing with this too. My eyes have been opened wide. Knew that there was something off, she always went with the wind, was duplicitous, triangulated. But omg, today in her old age .... a nightmare (and Ive only awoken very recently because the mask is not glued on that firmly anymore).
For years I knew something was off about her... But I obviously couldn't put my finger on it... Until recently. I ran from home the second I could get away at 18. And everytime I knew I would be around her I would get either psychologically ill or physically ill.
You are very accurate. So many people are suffering in isolation under these people. May God give them the strength, wisdom and courage to get themselves out of the hands of the wicked creatures.
Thank you! My former pastor is a covert narcissist. I’ve never experienced anything like it. My husband and I were very involved in leadership until I became a target. I know the Lord freed us, but it has been a difficult year of healing. Your teaching helps me know I’m really not crazy. What I experienced was not normal. It was not my fault. I am not a bad person. Thankfully, my husband finally witnessed what I was going through and saw the narcissist spirit too. It is demonic. It was like someone flipped a switch. I could not think or have a normal conversation with this pastor the last 6 months at the church. It was the weirdest thing I’ve ever experienced. Now I know why. So scary that he is a pastor of a growing church. The saddest part is no one in the church will believe me if I told them this.
The Bible talks about this. Sheep in wolf clothing, how the devil comes as an angel of light, & false prophets. If I were you, I would fast and pray about it. Curses that fall on the head of the house, fall under the household as well. Be blessed.
I was teaching a young women's Scripture study. It was mainly discipleship and before I knew it that pastor's leviathan spirit rose up and he chased me out. This was before I knew anything about narcissist and if my husband hadn't witnessed the lying and confusion I think I'd have gone crazy. It truly was abuse and it took me a while to heal. Now I'm all the wiser!
It's because they don't have the Holy Spirit in their minds (which comes only when one is truly converted). This is everyone's need, especially as demon possession is obviously very much among us.
Reinventing Jesus was the narcissistic intent of the council of Nicea. No Jesus was present during those times. Many accounts place a character named Isu...in that time frame... never was the name Jesus a thing till 1550 when the letter J was introduced into the Latin alphabet. Sad grammar error by POPE INNOCENT..
Interesting. My self therapy resulted into a complete rejection of Christ, God and religion altogether. Once I started to read the Bible, it came to my understanding that God might be a demon who convinced Adam and Eve that He created mankind and that it is why He needs to be worshipped as such. Only because the Word was with Him. And because He claimed to be the Word. This is narcissism 101. The Serpent only wanted to feed Adam and Eve's curiosity, their hunger for knowledge. So the Serpent showed them the Tree of Knowledge. God forbid Adam and Eve to eat from the Tree of knowledge to prevent them from outsmarting God, and seeing him for the manipulative narcissistic demon that He is. Let's skip God's flood and plagues and His jealousy of his own people. Deuteronomy is straight up blackmail. Either you accept God as the highest power, or else you and your children will be severely cursed with whole pages, whole verses and chapters of curses and doomed to burn in hell for eternity. Narcissists do the same. Narcissists think they are God. Again, it's a demon that convinced you that he is God or almighty/has power over you. They kill your spirit so you won't be able to rebell against or outsmart them. Religion kills your spirit and demands you to let go of your pleasure, your vices, and your sexuality. While demonizing the act of love and the creation of life. Mankind created God. Not the other way around. And they did it to invent a religion that controls the mass. God is only as mighty as the words you might attach to him. From my perspective, God is the narcissist.
I have just realized in the last few weeks, I have been with a narcissist. Everything you are saying hits home. She has abducted my 6 year old daughter on 11/15/23 and have not seen nor heard her voice in over 3 months. Please Lord almighty... Everyone listings take heed and run for your life!
It's a hard place to be in! I was with a narcissistic, ex-partner and the father to our children. I understand him because I know the abuse he endured and we both had lost our mother at the tender age of 3 years old. As I went on to heal from this trauma bonding experience between us, unfortunately he went on to substance abuse, gambling, intemperance, the lies, cheating (including with prostitutes) and our relationship collided into domestic violence! He was no longer safe for myself and children to be around. No matter what I cared for or understood about him, I couldn’t fix him and wasn’t my responsibility to do so. I chose my children and myself. The best thing I could have ever done was to leave him for good. I wouldn’t wish my situation with him on any one. If anybody here is going through DV, I pray for god to protect and guide you bringing you to peace, safety and happiness 💕💕💕 🛐
I understand this. By the grace of God is who saved me. I thank God I was raised in a Christian family where I was brought up knowing God's word. I'm done with the Covert Narcissist and I will never go back. I didn't understand at the time what was happening but thank God I made it out. It took me 3 yrs but yes it is possible. I knew him for 9 yrs and he was just a friend but little did I know who and what he really was. Besides all that I'm a super empath and he can never win with me.
I’ve seen behind that mask. I’m out now but I can't unsee it or unlive it. I suffered PTSD, lost my business, nearly lost my life and now fighting to save my house while I continue to heal. I've come a long way but it will take years to recover. I hope someday I will be the strong, Independant, content and happy person I was all of my life. My prayers are healing for all who have encountered such evil creatures.
After living with a narcissist for 3 years, I’m still affected in the way he tortured me with never complimenting me and noticing and thinking every other woman better and prettier than I was and showing attention to them over me. The affects of this I’m still left with even after a year away from him is when I see a nice looking woman, I say to myself, Eric would like her. Happily I have blocked him and appreciate my good friends and family even more.
The goal of narcs, is to dim your good and your potential! That is demonic to me, because our job in life is to become fully who we are meant to be and to accept ourselves, flaws and all.
I grew up in a narc environment and I found God again...I rebuke and bind all of this demons to cause no harm anymore in Jesus mighty name! Im in a relationship with a narc right now and I cant go to my parents or anywhere else. I dont trust anyone anymore, but I pray for breaking this vicious cicle in Jesus Name! Please heavenly Father, in Jesus name I ask for deliverance and a smooth and healing escape out of here to have a loving, healing and compassionate environment. I know with you everything is possible. So I count on you Jesus to take me to a place I can call my own and be free of this oppression and become happy again. I BELIEVE IN YOU JESUS. You are my rock to keep my sanity and not get completely lost in this and endure through it with grace. I love you Jesus. Please show me the way out and give me the strenght I need to do so. I desperately need your hand to guide me out of here. Please be quick and stop my suffering. AMEN ✨️🕊😔🕊✨️
Ask the Lord to deal with this narc in Jesus name and watch what happens.Next get you a good support system.That's what a narc what's to separate you from others and not trust.That way if you aren't strong or in healing they can come with the final blow.
@@easylivingwithniecy4317 Thank you, but its in Gods hands. Im weak, but Im strong too. If Gods wants me to been blown out, its ok. I prayed that he may deal with them since years. I fasted, I prayed, I did everything I could. I also asked the holy spirit to pray for me, when it was so hard I didnt even knew what to pray anymore. Im tired and exhausted and now its in his hands, I only can hope that God has mercy with me and everything will be fine one day. ✨️🕊✨️
@@Mudpie68 Cant run...it needs time, but God makes the way. I have a Catfamily I care for and I waited for God to show me the way out and thats exactly what God is doing now. But thanks for the well meant advice. 🙏
I just prayed for you, dear child of God. Continue to wait on the Lord. God is working on your behalf and clearing a path for you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. ❤
So intelligently put together. I was in the dance with the devil for 27 horrific years. Then when I got out, "it" turned our children against me. Run from them...there is nothing but heartache with them.
You have described my life with a nsrc for 25 yrs ;,& this is 💯 him. Pure unadulterated demonic evil. There's no other way to describe their level of destruction they inflict. If you don't see this in them, you will drive yourself crazy trying to figure out why you are nothing but any empty shell, - a dark abyss, With no hope of life
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Listening to your dog’ snore as a background noise, was priceless 😍
I have experienced everything you are talking about. The minute I left my ex my life changed almost instantly, especially my mental health. No more anxiety, no more depression, no more confusion, no more questioning myself, my life or future. I can sleep through the night. I feel light and clear. The hurt and humiliation he put me through is hurting less and less and seeming more like a long nightmarish lesson.
