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I lost my triplets yesterday at 9 weeks😭😭😭 .. I’m devastated after 3 failed ivf … my babies are in heaven . I won’t give up , I’ll definitely have my miracle babies 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Dear Gloria, I just miscarried twins at 9 + 2 days gestation, I thought I was 12 + 2 when we found out. Had them naturally at home. Hope you are doing well ❤
A year ago today...💔 I had my 3rd miscarriage! My husband and I are doing respite foster care and it has helped heal our broken hearts! To love children who need love....We are Blessed!! Thank You for speaking about miscarriage.
I've just cancelled my 8 week private scan I think it was providential watching this... I just don't want to risk hurting my baby . I had a Chemical pregnancy in October but now due January trying to place everything in God's hands! Thank you for speaking about scans! Xx
Please do a video on missed miscarriage and also explain why some women don’t bleed during the miscarriage and if they have to go through dnc why they don’t bleed after that procedure too.
Me and my husband felt completely different persons(in a great way) after following your heavy metals detox protocol and our fertility really jumped up!!!
I confirm the point on ultrasound. I had one at 8 weeks 2 days. I saw strong heartbeats. My baby even moved their hand as they were waving at us 😭. At 10 weeks, I had another ultrasound just to discover that my baby stopped developing two days after my first ultrasound. After that, I did a lot of tests and received confirmations that everything was absolutely fine and there is basically no reason for what happened apart from me being “exceptionally unlucky”. I have strong doubts the early ultrasound caused this. I then did a lot of research and all existing scientific findings so far says: “there’s no evidence ultrasound harm the baby”. Well, if anything, this means there’s no sufficient research on the matter. If I fall pregnant again, I’ll never have an early ultrasound.
Yes ultrasounds are very and for pregnancy. It's heat radiation that's why the baby tries to move away from it. I believe it's the cause of most "heart beats stops" . I will never do ultrasounds ever, I have 7 healthy babies. I don't do prenatal, I don't do vaccines, I don't do hospital births. Natural birth is the purest and best I've ever had.
So informative and easy to understand! I didn't have an ultrasound with my third baby until 21 weeks and only because my midwife said I was measuring so big and they wanted to check dates. With baby number 4, I instinctively passed on any ultrasounds. Had the first and only one while in labor at 40 weeks, 3 days. I wish this information was as easily accessible while my own mom was trying to conceive. She had several miscarriages before and after I was born. Thank you for your very important work! 💗
where do you live? my midwifes in the area are required by law to at least have one ultrasound by 20ish weeks and mine made me get so many because my measurements were always weird. I couldn't decline them either because she would, "put her foot down".
I'm going to have to go check out the article on US. Anytime I get a BFP I feel like I NEED to see that little bean on a screen. We've had two losses and I actually didn't get to see wither one on US first. Both around 6 weeks.
9 chemical pregnancies. 3 timed intercourse cycles, 6 IUI’s, 3 IVF cycles, last two with donor eggs. My poor husband says he doesn’t want to continue doing this, it’s too much heartbreak over and over again 😞 we have two embryos left.
Some doctors can be the worst. I had to have a biopsy done on my cervix a few years back. The psycho without my permission decides to take a chunk out of my uterus to be "on the safe side". Yes, I felt traumatised.
Holy cow, I've never heard about internal ultrasounds can cause a miscarriage. Good to know and will be considering my options if I choose to become a mom one day.
I had a missed miscarriage in November, I should have been 11 weeks. I started bleeding slightly on a Monday and I knew. The baby had stopped developing at 5 weeks, which was exactly the week I foolishly had a early ultrasound to check if I had an ectopic pregnancy due to stomach pain. I had a internal ultrasound and afterwards I was so uncomfortable I knew I should’ve have done it. Whether it was the cause I will never know, but I regret it every day.
I got pregnant last December with baby #3 everything was great through January to February as soon as March hit I felt sick and a pop I had covid and they told me baby was fine heart was still fine by the next week I went to have a check up and it was gone.. I was 12 weeks I still can't get over how it happened I have 2 ultrasound pictures and they make me hold hope I can have a baby again.. this was my first miscarriage so im still confused.. we are trying this July again and I am praying for the best results 🙏 ❤
I’m so sorry Lindsey - I pray July is it for y’all 🙏🏻! This also happened with me too, 8 wk US baby was fine with heart rate good, got COVID, then started bleeding slightly, and by US at 10 wk baby was gone leaving me devastated. Doctors said it’s more likely due to egg quality diminishing at my age (39) and not getting COVID, but I will always wonder.
It's Terrible although my doctor doesn't think it was covid I belive it was, I was in extreme amount of pain.. I'm really sorry for your baby too.. it's cruel to be tempted with love and then it be shattered..
I’m shocked with the ultrasound, I had a missed miscarriage and a ultrasound at 6 weeks 3 days external and internal and I was never told it was dangerous. The next ultrasound at 8 weeks my baby was gone. My baby should be going on 2 months.
I know I have low progesterone because I have a short leuteal phase. I am diagnosed with pcos, but I recently started taking myoinositol & I'm allergic, I break out in hives. I had a chemical last month & I've been spotting between periods in the last yr. Please Inge what do you recommend. I'm out of ideas.
Also what’s the reason if you’ve only had one period since u miscarriaged but the miscarriage was in October and a period came in January but I haven’t had one since?
Thank you for saying it was a pregnancy, I had a chemical pregnancy last month and it’s been hard. Question: how much L-methyl folate is safe in pregnancy. I have the the MTHFR gene and take a high dose (15mg) but don’t know if I should lower it when pregnant.
I had two back to back miscarriages. One at 16 weeks in 2018 and another one at 9 weeks in 2019. We stopped trying after that. Boom COVID happened and we found out we were pregnant again Aug 2020 and I have my Rainbow COVID Baby April 21 and found out I had Congestive Heart Failure soon after. Than boom Found out Dec 2022 I was 16 weeks pregnant again. Had my second Rainbow baby May 2023. It's all about God's timing ( or whatever higher power you believe in). Love and Blessings going into the New Year ❤.
Fleur - could you please please please do an in depth video on missed miscarriage. I fell pregnant with our first boba back in Dec and found out our baby had stopped growing at 5 weeks when i was about 8 weeks along and started bleeding. it is heartbreaking and noone was able to tell us what may have gone wrong 🙁 we are now ttc and I am terrified this will happen again😔
I'm so sorry lovely, yes sure that will be good. The 2 main reasons I see (there is more to the story though) are metal toxicity and ultrasounds. Take heart lovely
@@FertilityHomeopath Hello my lovely, thank you so much for responding. I actually declined to have my first ultrasound because I'd done some research on it and actually started miscarrying the day after. I had my very first ultrasound to confirm that baby had stopped growing :( I had no idea metal toxicity could also be an issue, I will look into it. Look forward to your video. Thank you for being such a positive, gentle and supportive voice in this very sensitive space
I've had several chemical pregnancies and found this video very helpful. I probably should do a metal detox and try to raise my progesterone. I'm a weird case though because I have PCOS, low estrogen and low progesterone. So far taking herbs and vitamins have helped me the most:)
You seem similar to me. Ive had aeveral as well, and when I have chemicals I usually implant late, which makes me feel like it's not a prigesterone issue however but possibly a chromosomal abnormalities which goes back to qualityof egg and sperm and I don't have a luteal phase defect (14days). Do you know when you implant when you have your chemical pregnancies?
Hi, how can I eliminate the damage/toxicity, of the contraceptive pill, I took them unfortunately for 11 year, I completly regret that, now my periods are light I'm 37 no kids.
I had a miscarriage in February and the doctor told me the cause was I had a infections call Chorioamnionitis that caused the baby to miscarried,I was 12 weeks pregnant,I ask the doctor how did I get that infection but he told me he don't have an explanation for that I left so confused.
I’ve been watching your videos for years and used many of your suggestions in our fertility journey. And quite a journey it has been. Our first pregnancy ended in a stillbirth at 40 weeks, due to Amniotic Band Syndrome. The band was wrapped around her umbilical cord. We then had two early miscarriages. Our 4th pregnancy resulted in a beautiful baby boy, who will be 2 years old in a few weeks. This year (2023), we’ve had 4 early miscarriages. I’m currently 41 years old. My question is about progesterone. If I’ve carried 2 babies full term, can it be possible that I’m having these early miscarriages due to low progesterone? Or does the fact that I’ve carried 2 babies full term mean that my progesterone will likely be normal for all my pregnancies?
Oh lovely, what a heartbreaking journey you've had and what a JOY your son must be to you, but how much will you miss your daughter and other children daily. To answer your question, I don't know. It depends. The way for you to find out is to chart and look for progesterone deficiency signs. It is possible that you have become estrogen dominant and progesterone deficient following your pregnancy with your son. With these amount of losses, I think there is more going on though than "just" progesterone deficiency. If you were my patient I'd start with the heavy metals detox and analysing your charts as well as consider trauma remedies.
Hi Ingefleur! I went through a missed miscarriage last year and have been charting my cycles very carefully ever since. There is one thing I am unsure about - is it possible to have a long time difference (almost 20 days) in between ovulation and a temperature rise? I´ve always had long and irregular cycles. I usually feel like ovulating around days 13-14 (by mental state, mucus symptoms), but my temperature keeps low and doesn´t rise (sudden spike) until about day 33 and menstruation about 12-14 days after that. I always thought it is impossible to have ovulation early and temp.rise that late, what´s usually being said is your ovulation happens right before your temperature rise, but - Might it be possible for a body to ovulate and then take such a long time (20 days) to build up progesterone and only then have a temperature spike? I will very much appreciate your answer, I am pretty much desparate with finding an answer to this. Thank you again very much in advance ♡
Don't know if this helps but wanted to share my experience. I have felt similarly to this but my cycles aren't necessarily irregular but my follicular phase (after bleed through ovulation) does vary quite a bit. The follicular phase can naturally vary based on hormones, stress, lifestyle, etc and that's not necessarily cause for concern. My last cycle I thought I had ovulated on day 17 but had no temp rise, we're TTC and my temp rise came on day 22 of my cycle, we thankfully had sex on right day and got pregnant. You're luteal phase (after ovulation) shouldn't vary and I believe should last 10-13 days, which it sounds like is happening for you. Seems like you may be experiencing delayed ovulation.
@@rchase3000 Yes, it very much seems like a delayed ovulation. I am wondering though, since I often feel like ovulating much earlier then the temp rise (even 20 days earlier), if it is possible that the ovulation happens early, but then the corpus luteum doesn't form in 24 hours but in a very very long time, and only after that the temperature rise happens? 🤔
😓 I'm scared... Sometimes it worries me that I should've started trying @27 or even at least 30...I'm 35 now...still trying to conceive. It's not as easy as teen dramas make it.... I wish u all the baby dust soon!!🙏🏽💜
When do you suggest getting an ultrasound? I just recently had a miscarriage that started at 11 weeks and I went in for my first ultrasound because of the bleeding. There was no baby there and it was a suspected molar pregnancy. I can’t help but wonder if I caught it sooner it would be a lot less trauma to my body. But I wanted to be safe and not do any ultrasounds for the baby and then later found out there was no baby.
Great question - I hope Ingefleur answers because I’m in the same boat 🙏🏻 I don’t want earlier US if I can avoid it, but I have history of multiple miscarriages (possible ectopic, possible molar) that I can’t help but worry and want to get an early US to treat early and prevent possibly enduring additional trauma (i.e. D&C, methotrexate shot, etc). I guess you have to just weigh pros and cons individually? 🤷🏻♀️
@@lauraellerman9443 my miscarriage required a d&c and it was so traumatic. It didn’t work and I continued to bleed for two months and THEN finally passed the rest of the tissue.
@@adoeandfawn omg that is awful - no words just no words … I’m so very sorry … I just don’t understand why there isn’t more science and medical advancement in this arena
I had the almost the exact same experience and will not be skipping any medically necessary ultrasounds…. sometimes ultrasounds give lifesaving information. Obviously you want someone properly trained and using the preset well-studied settings.
It’s been 2 years since I had myomactomy and removed 21 fibroids. Largest was 10cm. Should I still use Arnica? I miscarried twice after surgery. Before that I was unable to conceive.
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was more information on fibroids and treating them without surgery. :( I just had ectopic pregnancy/emergency surgery and they told me I have a 10cm fibroid, they want me to get a myomectomy but I am hesitant to go through with it. I pray God blesses you with a healthy baby soon. ♥️
@@courtneyinchrist4442 Thank you so much. Do you have other children? the chances of conceiving is higher once fibroids are removed is what the doctors say. I’m having a new growth sadly and now I’m on intermittent fasting for the last one month. I don’t wanna go through another surgery. It’s proven to shrink fibroids
