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7 Perspective Changing Tips to Being an Amazing Wife (With Time Stamps) | Black Love and Marriage 

WestIndieRay
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@lovelightb2603
@lovelightb2603 8 месяцев назад
“We don’t own people, we get to experience them” beautiful message! ❤
@tylerlately8055
@tylerlately8055 8 месяцев назад
I put my boyfriend’s baby picture as my screensaver over a year ago, and it truly has helped me hold space for his inner child and see a clearer picture of him. I’m so happy to hear you do that!
@babifaceluv
@babifaceluv 8 месяцев назад
Married six years and it took me/us like three years to learn these lessons and since I learned them, I am living the marriage of my dreams :D and I am like "and this is just the beginning???" it's exciting
@user-kn5kp8yu1l
@user-kn5kp8yu1l 8 месяцев назад
“Leading with curiosity and not defensiveness” definitely hit on another level when hearing it 😭
@CharminaeNicole
@CharminaeNicole 10 месяцев назад
I love this! What I have learned about partnership is to consistently be a teacher and student to one another as you are accompany this beautiful being back to themselves @ soul level. This can be one of the major keys to sitting WITH each others joys and pains of life. Such a gift! 🦄 🦄 🦄
@WestIndieRay
@WestIndieRay 10 месяцев назад
Yesssss! I love this. Thank you for your insight! 🦄🤍
@TheMakeupTraveler
@TheMakeupTraveler 10 месяцев назад
🦄 I'm so glad you shared this with us. I've been on my own healing journey both individually and in my marriage, and this has really been an eye opener for me moving forward providing great tools that are really going to improve my journey with the soul that I am choosing to continue this life with. 🦄
@WestIndieRay
@WestIndieRay 10 месяцев назад
I’m so proud of you! Intentionality is really the key and I speak that all of your dedication continues to manifest as a beautiful and joyful reality! 🦄🤍
@TheMakeupTraveler
@TheMakeupTraveler 10 месяцев назад
​@WestIndieRay thank you so much!!
@torianichole831
@torianichole831 4 месяца назад
This video popped up right after I wondered the advice I would give if anyone asked how I am able to have a successful and happy marriage. This is exactly what we are experiencing and something I am growing to understand. Thank you
@jazzybaybee0609
@jazzybaybee0609 10 месяцев назад
As a newlywed I appreciate this video. Let me get a notepad and take notes!!!
@WestIndieRay
@WestIndieRay 10 месяцев назад
Yessss! I speak that your marriage is full of blessings and ease! 🦄🤍
@LifesMagicalJourney
@LifesMagicalJourney 10 месяцев назад
I came for the loc content. I'm staying for the education on life! The playlist concept really resonates! I appreciate you sharing your energy! 🙏🏽
@Trinitea333
@Trinitea333 10 месяцев назад
Wow. This video helped me so much. Ive always felt thay my daughters father is my twin flame. He has been there for me in very hard times and I for him. We have both nroken each other's heart but for some reason God kept bringing us together b4 our baby. I have never ran into anyone the way ive ran into him in random places in Nyc. Now we are permanently tied with a child. Its easy to go blind in this reality even after waking up. He is the earth to my water. Keeps me grounded as I lift his energy.
@brenettasmith9338
@brenettasmith9338 10 месяцев назад
Some very good advice and you are so young, it was very good to hear coming from a young person, married person. I’m sure it will go a very long way to a wonderfully very long adventure of marriage and friendship as you said. Lots of jewels of wisdom.
@WestIndieRay
@WestIndieRay 10 месяцев назад
This comment means so much to me! Thank you! 🤍
@brenettasmith9338
@brenettasmith9338 10 месяцев назад
Your very welcome dear and many blessings to you and your husband!!
@DiamAhqui
@DiamAhqui 10 месяцев назад
We don’t live to own others but to experience them! I love that and have grown to learn that as well. Also, inner standing that concept has helped me to heal some. A lot of valid points in this video that can help you with any kind of relationship 🦄
@meaganometry
@meaganometry 10 месяцев назад
I love this so much! I’m newly engaged so this was definitely on time🥰🦄
@WestIndieRay
@WestIndieRay 10 месяцев назад
Congratulations my love! I speak that you both experience lifetimes of love, longevity, happiness and ease during this next chapter! 🤍🦄
@MissVenusMarie1
@MissVenusMarie1 10 месяцев назад
I really love the concept of “helping the people we love come back to themselves a million times.” This is sooooo honest and true. People adapt and try to cope with daily challenges which sometimes cause one to drift away from themselves. It’s truly love to help them on their journey and to remind them who they are! Truly a light in love! 🤍
@WestIndieRay
@WestIndieRay 10 месяцев назад
Yesss! Such a beautiful thing! 🤍🦄 thanks for watching my love!
@D3BILLION
@D3BILLION 10 месяцев назад
Your a very wise conscious women and I love your perspective about life. This is how a feel about life and this video is very helpful really. Thank you for being light and wisdom. I know me and my husband is one and inner connected for life times. Keep growing and building! This is amazing I’m so grateful for my marriage and family!
@Schwa99ySpic3
@Schwa99ySpic3 10 месяцев назад
This video was right on time ✨💕 Thank you for all these gems. I’ve been working on my healing journey and everything you said has reinforced all I’ve learned so far. 🦄✨
@trulyzaynah
@trulyzaynah 10 месяцев назад
This is a BEAUTIFUL video. Thank you for sharing. May your union forever be strong and peaceful 🤍
@aboveallXO
@aboveallXO 10 месяцев назад
i love hearing advice from you. feels like it’s coming from a big sister 🥰 thank you!!! 🦄
@WestIndieRay
@WestIndieRay 10 месяцев назад
Mission accomplished 🥹🫶🏽
@mikaylajeel
@mikaylajeel 10 месяцев назад
FELT that gift of life part
@queen_jaylo222
@queen_jaylo222 8 месяцев назад
🦄✨🦋 I love the information that you give on this video.. I’m currently in the process of becoming the best version of myself first so that I can manifest my divine counterpart. I believe that when we communicate with anyone we should always lead with love. Love is a universal language that everyone understands. 💕💕💕
@solsovereigntytarot
@solsovereigntytarot 10 месяцев назад
This was absolutely amazing. The tools you mentioned are great for maintaining a relationship and I’m definitely going to use that playlist idea.
@raissamouigni3023
@raissamouigni3023 8 месяцев назад
This is the first Time I ever post a comment on RU-vid but I just want to let you know how much I love your content, how grounded and loving you are ❤ can’t wait for you and Mr W to have a child cause he will be very lucky to be raised by you two
@lashoniab33
@lashoniab33 10 месяцев назад
🎉well stated and shared🎉 embracing maturity and joy! On point with therapy • continue being intentional.. clarity.. Jovialness about life's Joy! Happy for you and yours, Appreciate! 🦄
@juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988
@juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988 10 месяцев назад
12:39 Your hair looks so beautiful braided. You look awesome in this corset top. You are good looking with no make up
@Cocoamelanated
@Cocoamelanated 10 месяцев назад
Definitely appreciate this conversation. I love these tips🦄
@mizz308
@mizz308 10 месяцев назад
This talk about ownership vs experience with people sounds a little like villanizing attachment, the want of stability in a relationship and other very basic human things like being able to hold your husband accountable for things. What I heard you describe just sounds like giving him a space of acceptance which is an important part of building attachment/intimacy, and trust. Being a very spiritual person myself and having a long history with Buddhism that ideology that we should view other people as experiences or else we are acting out of “ego” is dehumanizing in a sense and also sent me down a rabbit hole of feeling guilty for having boundaries/standards as an already passive person. Some “gurus” will repeat this and make it seem like the idea of committed relationships are built off ownership and that that’s a inherently negative thing but I had to learn belonging is a good thing, attachment is a good thing, stability is a good thing and without those things we can’t really have trust and true love. Idk if that makes sense because what you described doesn’t really sound like what they teach just that you picked up the language but as somebody who’s been down that path it’s a little overrated and impractical lol.
@WestIndieRay
@WestIndieRay 10 месяцев назад
Hi! Thanks for your comment 🤍🦄 I feel that I provided all the context I needed to explain what I was actually talking about and by your comment, it seems like you understood me very well so I am happy about that! I understand that the way I worded it was triggering to you based on past experiences, but I wanted to be clear that I personally haven’t gone down that rabbit hole myself or heard it being used in that way. I’m sorry that the way that I worded it impacted your interaction with my content. Everything that I said here is from a perspective of feeling accepted and liberated within relationships and reciprocating that as well. My husband and I definitely hold each other accountable and have communicated boundaries within our relationship. We are also making it a point to intentionally bond ourselves to eachother for lifetimes because of the love that we have for one another. I hope this helps and I hope that you are feeling well in body, mind, soul and spirit! 🫶🏽
@gfergie18
@gfergie18 10 месяцев назад
Right on time love. Thanks 🙏🏼✨💜🇦🇬🦄. Definitely Praticing Mindfulness & Self Awareness, Moving With Intention, Working On My Self Concept, Self Love & How I Show Up For Myself Etc Has Definitely Changed the Game For Me xx.
@marthazziwa1273
@marthazziwa1273 4 месяца назад
6:18 girl you preaching to the choir.
@briniapearson4138
@briniapearson4138 10 месяцев назад
This was so inspiring
@WestIndieRay
@WestIndieRay 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much love! 🦄🤍
@cupofchi_
@cupofchi_ 10 месяцев назад
Shoutout to chichi! That’s my nickname as well 😂 I haven’t gotten through the whole video yet, but #1 changed my wholeeee perspective of relationships when I first learned it.
@mekamiller2557
@mekamiller2557 10 месяцев назад
We need a part 2 Sis 😂😂🫶🏾🫶🏾
@perrihogan
@perrihogan 10 месяцев назад
Heavy on the appreciation of hair, body, skin..etc 😂❤️
@Nubian828
@Nubian828 10 месяцев назад
I enjoyed this video thank you
@sunnyjones2659
@sunnyjones2659 10 месяцев назад
Hunny! This was good!! 🦄
@qcouple4930
@qcouple4930 8 месяцев назад
Listen y’all need to post more lol miss y’all .
@oliviareann
@oliviareann 10 месяцев назад
🦄 love this 💕 thanks for sharing
@oliviajonale
@oliviajonale 10 месяцев назад
💥💥💥💫💫💫💫❤❤❤❤💛💛💛 Wishing you many more happy years together!! I understand this 100%%%% Still rocking with you!!
@thelightofmay
@thelightofmay 10 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing ♥️✨
@katelannewman9390
@katelannewman9390 10 месяцев назад
I love this content. Thank you
@JessieStrong
@JessieStrong 10 месяцев назад
I needed to hear 🙏🏾
@inspirethedreams247
@inspirethedreams247 10 месяцев назад
Great video ❤
@karendaubon9776
@karendaubon9776 7 месяцев назад
Hi , I’m thinking of locking my hair so your videos are very helpful . Are you from the West Indies ? If so which country?
@bettyeames6812
@bettyeames6812 10 месяцев назад
good talk🦄
@florencee
@florencee 10 месяцев назад
Beautiful necklace, is there a meaning behind it? The No. 9 has been a very significant number in my life lately.
@WestIndieRay
@WestIndieRay 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! It has many meanings but is also my life path number and an inverted 6 which is my Mother’s 🤍
@florencee
@florencee 10 месяцев назад
@@WestIndieRay Wow that is so so significant! What a beautiful sign for me because both No.6 and No.9 have been leading me lately (I wish I could get into it). This is yet another acknowledgment. Thank you! 💜
@epd0126
@epd0126 10 месяцев назад
i imagine the blond may be damaging but it is really attractive on you...are you gonna maintain it or are you going dark?
@chanellaDaboss
@chanellaDaboss 9 месяцев назад
Lol wow time is not real? I didn’t get that ? Can you elaborate ?
@streetlights7464
@streetlights7464 10 месяцев назад
Beautiful girl
@heyykristee
@heyykristee 9 месяцев назад
🦄 ❤
@Ravenelvenlady
@Ravenelvenlady 6 месяцев назад
💖💖💖💖💗💗💗💗💗💖💖💖💖😄
@alibijan888
@alibijan888 10 месяцев назад
🦄🦄🦄🦄
@Channel_dri
@Channel_dri 5 месяцев назад
A lot of the things your saying have been put on my heart over the last few month ❤❤❤ My angels heard me. 🥹 When I’m upset I listen to Selena, India Arie or Lauryn Hill her voice soothes me and keeps me grounded on gratitude 🙏🏾
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