3 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive (Make His Heart RACE with Naturally Seductive Behavior)

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Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and the 3 feminine habits men find wildly attractive.
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@matboggs Год назад

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@terrymoore3021 Год назад

Why is it always a woman's responsibility to "Make his heart race" ??? It's rarely the other way around. If you sincerely care..... you would know that most women are just really tired of little or no integrity from men.

@1Sun111 Год назад

have never been like you describe, have never been single, self-employed woman, couldn´t be like that

@Queen-Mami Год назад

None of the links work for me

@feliciapillow5860 8 месяцев назад

Hi. Did you block my comments to receive no more likes?

@ericaroyster 8 месяцев назад

@Sun-lq6od never being single and being a wife are different.

@naowright9308 Год назад

One time my husband and I were watching a movie and the hero was really buff, every muscle was chiseled to perfection. My husband used to be into weight lifting when he was younger so he noticed it more than me. He started comparing himself to the hero and pointed out his own physical "shortcomings". I turned to him and said, "I would much rather have you. He has no compassion in his eyes, you are full of compassion and gentleness and I would much rather have you than a man like him." I saw his whole face light up. He seemed to sit straighter and held me in a very tender, protective way during the rest of the film. (Edit) Wow, thanks for the likes! To my knowledge this is the first time I ever got over 1,000!

@lyczious Год назад

Awwww! I love this!

@kenresire1791 Год назад

Aw....

@mercwindow Год назад

So sweet

@lizzetcastro73 Год назад

that was cute .

@EieiExamplEeiEi Год назад

Awww 🥰 he's lucky to have you around.

@TahoeSnowbird 4 месяца назад

For my husband, it was the way I looked at him (invitation in my eyes) and smiled at him that encouraged him to take my hands in his, and when I let my hands stay in his, he stood up, pulled me to him and kissed me. I had been kissed before but never like that. His kiss was tender and passionate at the same time, a promise that he would always love me, care for me and protect me. He kept that promise for all the 52 blessed years we were together. I was a successful professional woman, but with him I was just his wife, best friend and lover. My ex-secretary once said to me: " I notice when you talk to Jim on the phone your voice is very soft." He was and will always be the only one in all the world to me.

@AgnesVivarelli 21 день назад

Absolutely beautiful 😊❤ that’s love

@jeangill1187 17 дней назад

Sound’s just like my husband of 55 years. His name was Jim too. He was a real Gem❤️

@feliciapillow5860 Год назад

These things work, however I feel the problem some women are encountering is that they do not work on certain types of men. Men who are immature, irresponsible, emotionally unavailable. We must first learn to make good male choices. Men who are able to receive and appreciate feminime energy.

@AwakeningWarrior Год назад

And some men desire a dominant masculine energy in their female partners. Sometimes men want the same level of masculine energy they have... in their female partner. It doesn't mean they aren't able to appreciate feminine energy or they're emotionally unavailable. It's just not their thing. Masculine energy definitely does not repel masculine energy lol

@julieanna8495 Год назад

Correct. None of these would work on narcissistic men. If you said, ‘I would really love if you took me out this weekend’, the narcissist would say, ‘yes’ and when the weekend came around he would have forgotten about it, or would say he would take you out next weekend instead.😐. Only that would never happen. Keep future faking.🙃. Women need to see the red flags early. Thank you for this show because you show me how a normal man would act. I have been married to a narcissist for 34 years, so I haven’t seen the behaviors you are talking about. In my defense, 34 years ago there was no mention of narcissists, nor any RU-vid to warn us of these creatures. I am thankful young women today can see how you are acting about your woman and how a normal man reacts to her requests.🥰❤️👏🏼. If she sees the opposite behaviors-run as fast as Forrest Gump away from that man who only has eyes for himself.

@scalerup Год назад

@@julieanna8495 I'm sorry for you, may lord bless you w happiness. I have a question, if you dont mind, kindly help. Mostly, men in their dating phrase would go out of their comfort zone to woo the lady. In such situations, how to find the red flags? For eg: No guy would refuse a date during the courtship, but once after marriage all these tend to slowly change. How to find the red flags earlier in such case?

@scalerup Год назад

I'm 21, pretty new to dating world. Hence asking these stupid questions. Bear w me, please

@feliciapillow5860 Год назад

@@scalerup There are no stupid questions. Please pray regarding all life decisions. Talk to people who are in healthy relationships. Ask people who care about you what they think about people whom you are dating. Practice trusting your gut. Don't chase any man. Take time to get to know someone who is also interested in getting to know you. Never settle. Many blessings my dear.

@pamelaontiveros2794 11 месяцев назад

I’ve been married almost 37 years. Back when I met my husband in a bar and he asked me for my number, cell phones didn’t exist. I smiled and said “I’m in the book” and walked away. He found me in the phone book and called me a couple days later. The rest is history😊

@bolotabr12 10 месяцев назад

Sounds so mysterious. I’m glad you found the one.

@francinec9045 10 месяцев назад

Nowadays he would be labeled a creep!

@Amy_Stanmore 6 месяцев назад

You must've told him you full name. Not really the smartest thing for women.

@jeccym8715 6 месяцев назад

How did he found you? Am curious 😅

@pamelaontiveros2794 5 месяцев назад

@@Amy_Stanmore He knew my brother so he already knew my last name. We’ve been together almost 40 years so I’d say it worked out!😉

@rezotydnic Год назад

1. Stand your feminine ground. 2. Create invitations instead of directives. 3. Hero-size him, instead of criticize. Another great video! Thanks for the reminders.

@tarjidikarwanjohn2299 Год назад

Oij

@fionad6338 Год назад

Oh lord. Where are pearls an cardigans. Meet your man at door with a martini

@monicaduquette8453 Год назад

Oh no…I am so #2!! This explains a lot. Matt Boggs, is it too late to change the balance in a 2 year relationship?

@EMichaelBall Год назад

@Monica Duquette Never too late! Bonus Tip #4: Generously make love to him on his command. He will be far less likely to cheat, and if he still does, he will do it less.

@fionad6338 Год назад

@@monicaduquette8453 and don’t forget #5 Your man is never, ever wrong remind him often that so his masculine energy you were unable to make decisions, hold down a job, pick out a restaurant

@margiegandy9189 Год назад

One thing we can do as moms of little heroes is to start this from the beginning. I know people will hate on it but I taught my boys to be little heroes. Told them that they have different strength and characteristics that must be used for good and not evil. Taught them small things that would matter later, opening doors, killing the bugs, leaving the end of a straw wrapper on a drink when delivering it, and a multitude of things probably seen as sexist that they may or may not embrace. So far, they have made incredibly amazing adult men who desire to protect and lead.

@jayashiaco9476 Год назад

Imagine you taught them respect for living things and that girls don’t need saving. 😅

@shea5542 Год назад

That’s beautiful. That’s healthy masculinity

@robertacolarette1594 Год назад

That’s a great idea. Boys need so much attention to the little things like that when they’re young to grow into decent, wonderful, considerate gentlemen. Once these things are established it grows into bigger things. Their future wives or partners will be so grateful.

@keshakellogg5995 Год назад

@@jayashiaco9476 True, girls don't need to be saved, but do I want to live in a world where men and women treat each other thoughtfully? YES. Plus, there are just things I'd prefer not to do unless I choose to. There's power in receiving. ☺️ My boyfriend is strong and gentle (he carries bugs outdoors when my impulse is to smash it) and I admire his healthy masculinity in taking care of my desire to not have it around, however he does it. ☺️

@Cat-qo3ht Год назад

As a mom of three adult sons with their own families now, I agree with you 100%👍🏻We moms make such a difference teaching them how to be good men, taking our responsibility and opportunity seriously. Good job, mom👏👏👏

@goodgrief888 Год назад

My husband is the hero of my story. He isn’t very tall, and he’s soft spoken. But height and booming voice aren’t what make a man manly. He’s very capable, he’s so smart, he’s there for me when I’m having trouble and need a hug. He’s quiet and never needs to brag, because he has so much self confidence that he doesn’t need to tell others how awesome he is. I am so glad I watched this video because I have noticed that when I stop demanding and start asking, offering, he responds much more positively. I’ll do this more often. My mother emasculated my father by putting him down, mocking him, making him feel stupid and small. It made all of us kids treat him similarly. And I always felt terrible about that when I got to know him better as an adult and realized that he wasn’t stupid, that he was just lacking in self esteem from being pushed around by a wife who didn’t appreciate all of the great things that he did. I don’t want to be that way with my own husband. I want to build him up so that he feels good around me and acts in kind. ❤️

@sentimentaljourneyproductions Год назад

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@silkie09 Год назад

💖 Beautiful and rare how kind you are and that you did not have to follow the destructive mindset of the rest of your family! You are a light✨

@ninamarise237 Год назад

This is so beautiful!! I love how you're able to see what your mom did and how damaging that is and do the complete opposite to your husband! My sister in law criticizes my brother and puts him down and this is in front of the family I can only Imagine how she treats him behind closed doors on a daily basis. It makes me so sad how backwards relationships can be. The right kind of insight and compassion and capacity to grow is what we all need. Love your comment. Your husband is lucky to have you,😘

@bestlifeever4548 Год назад

Yes absolutely! My husband now is the manliest man but he isn't as tall or big as last husband or others I dated but they where all jerks who thought way too much of themselves without being any of it. My husband now is so amazing in everyway and I love and respect him so much. He makes me feel safe loved and cared for. He is such a great husband and he is truly my best friend. I hope everyone has that in thier life. I've always been very feminine and I'm retired military and know men very well years of working with all kinds and ages and learned a lot. I'm also not impressed by lots of men and many who are very handsome and other things most women look for turn out to be worst and think they can just get any woman and arrogant. I think I got the best one and feel so fortunate especially after my exhusband and that experience. We both came to table with a lot to offer and did things completely differently than I ever had. I took things slow and didn't get physical for long time and built it up and laid a great foundation in process and learned a lot. It also had an effect of making him only want and think of me when all these other beautiful women where throwing themselves at him. He would drop anything for me and even knowing that even if I stayed with him didn't mean he was getting anything when others where definitely going to, he chose me . He is the most trustworthy and honest person I've met and has good heart but definitely manly in everyway. It's not about just being submissive it's just being in your natural softer feminine energy and think lots of women are turned off thinking they have to pretend to be something not or too giving to man. There is also balance because men also like to see your Fiesty side without being a target of you being overly masculine. He didn't see my really loving softer side till I decided he was one. Now he will call me out when I'm being too aggressive or masculine lol but in playful way but enough to know that obviously I'm having trouble and it may be something external causing it. Not having my father around growing up I didn't see dynamics of marriage relationship and had to build my own.

@iamsofiaa_ Год назад

happy for you but i could never be w a dwarf

@maryrudy4046 Год назад

Guess that's what Mom meant when she told me, "You can get a man to do anything for you if you know how to ask him". .. and her man, my father did. He adored her til the end.

@AgnesVivarelli 20 дней назад

Wise words from a wise woman

@Briardie Год назад

Being a very feminine woman I was always drawn to very masculine men. I got my soulmate for 33 years, my love, a huge rugby playing, country sports loving man. 6' 3 to my 4' 11. I felt treasured and loved always. I miss him so very much. He told me every day he loved me very much and loved being with me. How lucky was I to be married to this wonderful man. Great advice on this video.

@Dbb27 Год назад

You were very lucky. To have a beautiful love is a dream in everyone’s life. Stay strong.

@novena8743 26 дней назад

Can you tell me what makes you feminine. Like what are some if your qualities?

@frannybanny9683 Год назад

To all the fathers out there: Take care of your daughters so that she will learn to lean back and be in her female energy.

@shannonk1351 Год назад

so right - when a man treats his wife & daughters with love, kindness, protection & great manners, the daughters will grow up knowing that's how men should treat them. be that guy who she'll compare everyone to. she won't be picking losers.

@happyhappyjoyjoy3275 10 месяцев назад

I picked losers. Dad abandoned me growing up. 😅

@dee1476 7 месяцев назад

YES!

@marma1983 6 месяцев назад

Woman stop asking men to do anything . Be that woman he stays or don’t at your own risk. If your here that’s because you know your lacking

@kristasmith8934 Год назад

I'm enjoying this so much. Everything he's saying is on the mark. I grew up the daughter of an NHRA champion drag racer. At age 5 I was gapping spark plugs. By the age of ten I was breaking down and rebuilding engines with my Dad. I'm very feminine, nothing masculine about me, but the fact I happen to know more about cars than the men I've dated lol. Except my late husband. He found this sexy. Because he was a car guy. He loved to listen to me talk all his car guys under the table. Talk about my first car, a 1970 Chevelle SS, 396 4 speed Posi rear-end lol. He loved it after I ran my Dads dragster down the quarter mile and took off my helmet letting my long hair fall down my back. Now this right here is a confident man who supported everything I wanted to do. I'm a tiny girl and he was this big handsome tall guy who worked on one of those big oil rigs in the middle of the ocean in California. I miss him so much. I wish all you single ladies are able to find your dream guy. I found mine, I miss him everyday. God Bless

@zsrz4877 Год назад

Your story is adorable, it’s almost like a Disney movie.

@kristasmith8934 Год назад

@@zsrz4877 Thank You, I feel so blessed to have had the most wonderful Dad along with my husband, the Love of my life. My Dad always called my husband son. They had such a great bond. My husband said it was because of how much they loved me. That alone still leaves me a bit speechless. God Bless

@SA-yd1xk Год назад

Can fell the love you had for this man. So special. Makes me miss my "teddy bear too. 25 years on I still miss my late hubby and best friend. Lost our only child 5 years ago. Life has been full of tragedy but those 2 men adored me. Its great to be so loved.

@rosiebottom3870 Год назад

@@kristasmith8934 so sweet and I'm sorry you lost him. Your story reminds me of that song from The King And I - "Hello Young Lovers". You had the best ❤

@kristasmith8934 Год назад

@@rosiebottom3870 Thank You so much. He really was the best. He didn't have to say much, the way he looked at me was a billion I Love You's. I would catch him just watching me with that spark in his eyes. It's a love that you can't move on from when there's a loss. You cherish it always, it's your treasure and you know nothing else out there can compare. God Bless

@FirstNameLastName000 Год назад

This makes so much sense. I'm super feminine, but my husband didn't have the masculine energy I was attracted to. I felt like I kept having to be the man in the relationship, making me deeply unhappy. When I met a masculine man after my husband and I broke up, and saw how he reacted to my femininity, I felt a million times better and like I could be myself around him. It was such a good feeling!

@hiannahgus574 Год назад

I understand completely. I got so tired of him being in his feminine energy ALL THE TIME, and didn't want to feel like I had to carry both the masculine and feminine energies & roles. When I first dated a few very masculine men, it was both such a relief and pleasure to feel like I could relax, but was also so much of a turn on.

@elainetucker2648 Год назад

@@hiannahgus574 🎃

@tamiz8895 Год назад

My husband oscillates between feminine and masculine energy…I do also, and it can be very off-putting and confusing for us. I’ve personally felt really weird about it for years.

@pegb8739 Год назад

Nice !

@dorenandsara Год назад

Yes. I have made the mistake of picking men who do not have masculine energy OR I have been taught (through the feminist movement) that I have to act like a man, be driven and focused, and be in charge which resulted in feminine men being attracted to me. Either way, it has not worked. I got tired of being the man while looking at my man who was afraid to be in charge. So now, I am diligently working on tapping into my feminine energy and also presenting myself much more femininely. It is late in my life but better late than never.

@LucijaViviana Год назад

I know this sounds manipulative but most people don't like you, they just like the way you make them feel. I truly believe this. Once I've realised this, I've become so much more successful in life and career. People aren't difficult to please😊

@nukacloud4219 Год назад

this is true in very basic and surface level relationships. this is not love. when you love somebody, you love them for who they are, not for how they make you feel.

@janpetsch620 Год назад

I agree with nukacloud as to some people. However, both in friendship and a romantic relationship isn't it always better to be positive? Why would we want to make somebody feel like crap. As you get to know another person, then you see that it is a mutually beneficial relationship. If it isn't...and someone is using you let them go. And NEVER become involved jus for what people can do for you. We can use little ways to even make random strangers feel good. If you are telling truth it is not manipulative! Walk up to somebody say wow your outfit is amazing. Or you are wonderful with your makeup...your eyeliner is fab.

@mariaarroyos2925 Год назад

As long as you don't fall into hypocrisy

@hiSmileyes 8 месяцев назад

I usually trust people who make me uncomfortable with their honesty. Manipulative people tend to be rly attractive so that is one thing I have learned.

@melissahale7806 8 месяцев назад

I've heard this as well and 100% believe it!

@zadokcoaching3528 Год назад

Ladies free yourself from getting lost in these types of relationship rules. Do not get lost in playing games. There are good men for everyone and if you want one that fits you, BE YOU! Not every man is a risk taker. In order for a man to feel his masculinity he needs to have it to begin with, and each man is an individual in how he gains his confidence so support him to be all he can be. He was initially attracted to you for a reason and you to him, trust in this. Listen with an open heart, communicate with honesty and always, always respect one another's space.

@haly_cohen 10 месяцев назад

At least one normal comment! Thank God! Be happy and deliver your message to every person you meet🙏

@angelinamichelle8474 10 месяцев назад

I agree. Thankyou for your comment.

@lovelace8702 8 месяцев назад

It's good to learn how men work in their masculine self. Too many women castrate men without even know what they are doing. This is something that is rarely talked about or learned. It's important to know this as it can pull you in a space of better understanding of how your man works. I get what you're saying, don't play games, but do try to understand a man's masculinity and how your femininity works.

@angelinamichelle8474 8 месяцев назад

@@lovelace8702 Thankyou for that better understanding...

@ai.luvichi 8 месяцев назад

AGREED

@brendadevries6087 Год назад

I have a guy friend who I’m kinda starting to develop feelings for. We hung out at his place last week. I’ve been single since preschool, and because I’ve had to do so much on my own for myself, I was so used to leading with masculine energy. I’m also a creative and love to build and plan and create. But I’ve been learning from watching relationship videos like this how to lean into my feminine energy when I’m around guys. Anyway, I was helping him transplant plants in his garden. It was already getting to be early evening, and all I had eaten that day was a handful of almonds and the keto equivalent of a candy bar. So I was kinda getting a little hungry. Perhaps a year ago I would have kept my mouth shut and suffered through the evening without saying anything, and grabbed something on my way home. But this time around I actually decided to voice what I was feeling, and do it in a way that wasn’t pushy, but still clear. After the second re-stating of my desire for food, he took me back inside and made me an amazing spread of food, and we talked the entire time he was cooking. I’m really grateful to have him in my life, and he’s teaching me what it looks and feels like to be cared for.

@missymischief1802 Год назад

That's so lovely 🥰

@cecilyerker Год назад

I ship it

@donnawhiteturkey7240 Год назад

That's kool!

@MaryTheresa1986 Год назад

Hopefully your relationship develops into something more! 🤞🤞

@randomperson360 Год назад

Awww this is so sweet! You two have something so special. Rooting for you two! Let us romantics in the comments know how it goes!! 😊💗

@asiacallier1 Год назад

I literally wish I had seen this video in my 20s it would have saved me so much time and heartache from failed relationships not knowing how to deal with men and their different needs. I Didn’t have a father growing up so I very much learned to be more aggressive and in my masculine energy. It’s so amazing that you’re teaching this to clueless women like me.

@sakitoby1581 Год назад

So true, if women grow up without a father or brothers, we don't really understand masculinity that well, and we do develop that masculine energy of our own. For sure this has been true for me. I'm still struggling to find a better balance because I have realized men feel intimidated by my personality, and I don't want that.

@kimgordon3695 Год назад

You're not clueless. You've adapted ~ now go teach

@asiacallier1 Год назад

@@kimgordon3695 ♥️true indeed. Thank you sis🙏🏾

@christinayborland Год назад

I can definitely relate to your story too!!

@lionesswairimu6229 Год назад

You are not alone

@almeralicehe6169 Год назад

I had similar experience with my bf. He's never picky about food and never cares about wine and gourmet and all that things. And I'm a fantastic cook and growing up in a culture that food is 80% of life. So every time he asked me to pick restaurants because I'm picky and know what kind of restaurants have good food. But the thing is, I naturally dislike making decisions on where to go or do on a date. So last Valentine, I insisted on him picking the restaurant, which made him anxious at the beginning because he worried he would ruin the night. But he picked an amazing Italian place that surprised me and himself. That's one of the most impressive date night we had. Now he fell in love with making dining decisions and each of our dates are getting better ♥

@chriskiesling9387 Год назад

That's awesome! I also hate making decisions and love when the man makes the plans.

@Yvette40 Год назад

Great story! Thanks for sharing ❤️

@sallylemon5835 Год назад

Yeah I be suggesting 3 places and he'd pick the one. Seems to go well though.

@sarachan3396 Год назад

@@sallylemon5835 good idea for picky plp like me hahah

@deecee901 Год назад

Oh boi

@HappyCrone Год назад

I have always said the way you keep a partner happy is to treat them like a king/queen, pamper them, nurture them, and at the same time let them know if they treat you badly, you’ll kick him to the curb in a heartbeat. People are quickly bored by a “doormat”. Shifting from the feminine power to the masculine, when necessary, is important. I am a female who has more masculine energy, and my husband has even more masculine energy. I never ever treat my husband like my employee, I treat him like a king. But there is a line, and if he crosses it, I let him know and push back hard. He finds that irresistible.

@amarie-tp3nd 11 месяцев назад

I agree. With a spoiled man you cant be too nice

@mst2855 11 месяцев назад

In what ways do you push back? What techniques do you apply?

@allisona9490 Год назад

I had a guy offer me two choices on our first date after I told him i ate vegetarian. It was thoughtful and masculine and not pushy. I let him pick, but I liked he gave me the choice.

@ImranKhan-tj3dr Год назад

Hi 😍😍❤❤🌷

@judipierry549 4 месяца назад

What? Long gone are the days when men should be choosing what women eat when they take them to dinner. This is NOT a sign of chivalry. A man picking your date’s food for them is a red flag and a sign of a controlling misogynist. Also, most of this man’s blather is just that, blather. Just love, praise and talk to one another like human beings. Happily married for 37 years

@vickyscharf2555 Год назад

Hi Mat, Ive been happily married for 23 years- married since 18 and he was 21.....So I speak from experience when I say your advise is on the mark! I listen to you cuz everything you talk about are things I believe from experience are true This is something I've always believed that a man you love should be treated like a king and he in return will treat me like a queen . It's a mutual dance ! My man is very masculine I am very feminine - after 23 years and 6 kids we are still wildly attracted to eachother not just physically but emotionally ! Everything you say about hero-sizing him is true and he loves how I let him lead and he spoils me with his sweetness and love . You rune a great channel and I'm sure you help a lot of people have healthy well balanced relationships :-) Best of luck !

@C.C.369 Год назад

WOW you guys are SO LUCKY! I LOVE THAT ❤️

@rebeccacarter1914 Год назад

@@SirenaSpades Because you never stop learning!

@FPT84 Год назад

Please will you give us more examples of being on feminine. The more the better! Id love to learn to be feminine

@lifewithlarsandsusie8315 3 месяца назад

Sounds like us! 23 years and 9 kids. I think having a lot of kids has forced me to be more feminine because motherhood is very feminine.

@Mirandaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Год назад

I did those 3 tips without knowing that and he once said “ wow with you I can feel myself more like a man and it reflects on how you’re beautiful lady and that’s rare “♥️

@ImranKhan-tj3dr Год назад

😍❤❤🌷🌷

@cutechiangels Год назад

Miranda, I'm all in for that way of dealing with the masculine and feminine. But, can you tell me, how do you go about the fact when he choses the wrong venture, (bad food, bad surroundings, not your taste, etc..), or when he isn't from that place, and doesn't know the language or habits??? Thanks for any helpful advice. 🙏

@YourDreamLifeIsWaiting Год назад

Wow! I have lived for so long in masculine energy.. I had to take care of myself I grew up that way so this will be a challenge but I'm up for it!

@marthar4983 Год назад

Same here, but like you said, I'm up for the challenge as well!

@ImranKhan-tj3dr Год назад

Or u marriad ?? 👧😍❤🌷

@YourDreamLifeIsWaiting Год назад

@@ImranKhan-tj3dr nope

@ImranKhan-tj3dr Год назад

@@YourDreamLifeIsWaiting Ooh really far for me I love ❤❤love 😍😍love 🌷🌷so so much really I like u I want to meet you I m intrested with u S eriousely 💑💑💝💝🌹🌹

@fosteringleaders9872 Год назад

same here.

@lucyh.delaney8201 Год назад

I run my life, it doesn't run me and sometimes it's so easy to slip into masculine energy! My husband is a big burly man with grizzly bear tendencies that can definitely handle me... but what you said still resounds. He LOVEs to please me and giving him that space instead of directing him into that space makes things even more amazing!! Thanks for the great tips!

@mariahahn-silva7132 Год назад

A few weeks ago I texted my person of interest, asking to toot a tune on his sax while I would undergo a medical procedure. He gladly responded and requested that I keep him posted. I texted that I felt mellow and smiled during the procedure and asked what he played. He sent me a beautiful jazz rendition of "Peace". I responded that this rare gem transported me serenely way beyond the moon. He texted me a lovely heart emoji. This is from a man who makes sure that he remain stoic, not showing his feelings. Not this time...

@lilfamily Год назад

When we are out and he ask what I want to drink... I look into his eyes and sweetly say "May I please have a glass of wine and a soft kiss?" He melts, and it lets me relax and be feminine and lets him know that I am giving him the gift to be masculine and lead strong, and I say "Thank you Love"

@lauralazar5806 Год назад

Wow, that's so romantic and inspiring, thanks!

@sharonj1294 Год назад

Beautiful!

@melssf7852 Год назад

So adorable 😍

@bubb5225 Год назад

🤮

@ethiopiazoldyk4667 Год назад

@@bubb5225 🤣🤣

@dawnbarnett401 Год назад

Great insight! So many of us were raised by single/divorced Moms who had to be strong so we didn't learn the feminine/masculine balance. Thank you for sharing this!

@dimples4yall1 Год назад

This is really good for us women that are used to doing for ourselves but want to get back in the dating world... This was really helpful for me. Thank you

@lceottk Год назад

I soften my voice when I go into my masculine energy when I have to set a respectful boundary. It helps to to invite him into a conversational tone where I can help him see where he is being stronger than necessary. It helps him to see he is still the confident man who is providing solutions in our relationship with my input.

@shellieblack528 Год назад

I know as a woman that I have had to always lead it seems. I have found someone who leads. It is such a breath of fresh air. All I have to do is just by being myself create this wonderful relationship. Thank you so much Mat for sharing this insight. I have actually said "You are the best at being my man" He was blown away!!!

@Abmarp Год назад

Aaaww

@vincentwaterson3480 Год назад

I never found a man that leads. It sucks. I’m not wasting my time and effort on a man child

@anne4002 8 месяцев назад

I feel the other way around 😂😂😂 be careful with all the hero stuff when he catches wings he might use it against you.

@pamkowal7464 Год назад

Great advice. I’ve also found that men subconsciously respond to seeing unabashed admiration shine in a woman’s eyes, because that admiration is an unprotected, vulnerable invitation into a woman’s heart and thoughts.

@thewindsoffate Год назад

That’s what I have found to be the main thing men want, admiration. Love the hero-cise concept 👍🏼

@MrMissfrida Год назад

Saying that I trust his judgement...has shown to be the rigtig words in many situatiations..just lige you described..his chest pumpts up and he walks like je owns the street 😄

@cynthiawadeson8843 Год назад

I also admire men as absolutely amazing creatures but it's never gotten me anywhere. Their response usually is "you're right! I am amazing!😊

@kristasmith8934 Год назад

That is so beautifully put. It's so true, a good man loves this and responds by loving and cherishing his special lady.

@ioannak.4690 Год назад

3 Feminine Qualities that the Masculine energy finds highly Attractive: 4:08 Stand your feminine Ground (1) 4:40 Example of this 7:17 Create invitations instead of directives (2) (making requests) 8:00 Example of this 9:59 "Hero-Size" him, instead of criticizing him (3) (Appreciate him, celebrate him)

@SmoBoo Год назад

Thanks my time is so limited and this helped me get the info in the time I had! really appreciate that.

@landers3700 Год назад

Thanks…this guy has to get to the point.

@ioannak.4690 Год назад

@@SmoBoo A little early to reply... I know... 😂 Thank you so much guys

@griselp677 Год назад

Thanks

@musicchick581 Год назад

Some men don't want to lead this way or they want the female to take charge sometimes. I suggest things I'd like to do and they don't happen.

@cyndimoring9389 Год назад

I think men want to be appreciated for what they do for women. Never forget to appreciate

@katrader9280 Год назад

Twice in the past three months I have found two different men who were extremely similar. They both had all of the qualities I was looking for, except for the fact that they were both emotionally unavailable. It’s just validation for me that the universe has my back and is letting me know that the man who IS emotionally available and has all these other qualities is out there, and he’s waiting for me too

@karmaleenash2841 Год назад

I am fortunate to have a husband who is confident in his gorgeous masculinity. He is a kick ass father, too. I can be a bit dominant, but over 40 years together, I have learned when I can lean into my feminine energy and when to lean into his masculine amazing self. We have a wonderful dynamic that continues to uplift both of us.

@dawnkelley5103 Год назад

I’ve always been myself and I give off very feminine energy !!!! I am a woman of 55 yrs old I’ve always been told they’ve never met a woman quite like me. You have to let them kinda think they’re “the man” and follow their lead. They love that, you can plant the seed and it will grow into his idea…….anyone else like this? Just be yourself if you’re soft feminine and if hard try being a little more soft ad let him take the reign!!! Sit back ad enjoy your man Just my own thoughts

@annehamill9573 Год назад

Thank you, Matt. I wasn’t aware of the concept of the masculine vs feminine energy. I saw this about 8 months ago and did a lot of housework on it. I reacquainted myself with my feminine side and it absolutely changed everything. I’m happier now. And the best part… yes, I finally found my man. He is absolutely everything I was hoping for in a relationship. Thank you for helping me figure out this part of my life. Love to you and your team and family.

@maix139 Год назад

We were having issues bc of my masculine energy. I never ask him for favors or even money...after so many things happened I realized that I need to show more feminine energy. I've started telling him what I want and what I don't like. I think the turning point was...I always win in arguments and even though he knows that he is wrong, he just wants to win once lol I let him win and well he start listening better now. It's always him being so against me on everything. So I learn that for him sometimes even if I feel my idea is better let him lead too. After that he leads and listen to me better now because he no longer feel so against me lol

@Nina-hk7ub Год назад

I asked my new husband for an allowance. He seems ok with it!

@maix139 Год назад

@@Nina-hk7ub yes do ask bc he will be happy to give you money. It will help build a bond between you two. Him investing in you will make him value you more. Men wants to be provider so it help his ego too. Back then I was way too independent...and learned the hard way. Now I ask him for money and he says yes most of the time unless he was really short then it'll be on the next paycheck. Saying thank you made him feel very appreciated 😊 truth is a man that loves you will be willing to spend on you as long as it makes you happy. Just say thank you and give him your brightest smile 😁

@eisenhower9069 Год назад

I thought men don't like women who ask for help

@kathleensmith8336 Год назад

@@Nina-hk7ub JFC!

@deborahdonnelly8423 Год назад

Married t0 years! The best advice I got in finding a husband was to marry someone who loves you more than you love them!

@ngo7156 Год назад

This is such a great video and easy to understand. I love my husband so much and find that I sometimes already do these things. I grew up with an abusive father and my mom was a homemaker and felt unable to support my sister and I on her own. She felt stuck in an abusive marriage. My mother instilled in my sister and I to go to college, to earn money, to be independent. Luckily, I found a great man when I was in college, have since graduated, and am in a great career. My now husband and I have been together for eighteen years. I still have times where I'm afraid to feel controlled but trust him to also make decisions. Thank you for sharing this video. 💕

@alyssawright5863 Год назад

This has been hard for me at time. I raised both my kids on my own and so I have had to do everything and used to doing well.. Everything. I have had to play this masculine role that I don't want play but its hard to let the guy plan, pay, do things...

@rosemike1332 Год назад

I'm so happy having my ex fiance back , after being separated for 4 months . All thanks to Mr God's sent. who help me to get back my ex again , I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days

@maurapritchard1336 Год назад

Such valuable information Matt! I have found that letting a man know that you value him, his efforts, the big & little things he does for you is so important. Yesterday the man i am dating made a simple but wonderful lunch for the two of us. I loved that he did that without really even asking what do you want to eat. He just planned it & did it. I was so freeing for me. I am usually the one making all the decisions and the executing the ideas. its so nice to have someone else do that for me. ❤

@e11ionore79 Год назад

So true. Last time a man took care of me choosing places and food, and when he saw I am genuinely happy from his choice, he was soo happy too! And wanted to give even more🥰

@monicadinca2821 Год назад

Wonderful Matt 👏💎🇮🇪 Thank you. For me Feminine Energy is Moments with Silence. A lower voice to speak more softly. Let him some space. Kindness in every action. I listen more than I speak. 🌟💜🇮🇪

@lornapement8610 Год назад

This is wonderful! I find that when I truly put myself first and take good care of myself. My feminine energy comes out a lot more. I wear more dresses and a bit of makeup. He loves it… And so do I! Thank you!

@reach4stars864 Год назад

After more than four decades of marriage, I tell him how he has always been attractive to me, from the first time I met him till today. When we looked at a picture of our family a couple days ago I pointed to him and said, look at how incredibly handsome you are. My husband is a fabulous cook. Whenever he makes something I act like I’m eating something very delicious and tell him what a great cook is and how lucky I am. Like you said, it’s about focusing on the good things he has and not on things he does not have. Also, whatever you say has to be true. A smart man will dislike a phony compliment.

@ednabyler7132 Год назад

Good word.

@isabellapresley7614 Год назад

I love that you talk about the masc and fem energies! Not many men do and I am on a spiritual TF journey with my DM and this is very appropriate! Thank you! I learned to switch more into my feminine energy of flow, and let him come to me, to take the pressure off energetically! We are a long distance and kind of in separation but I can feel him coming closer, now that I've balanced my energy and letting him take the lead when he's ready :)

@italianjewelrydiva Год назад

Matt Boggs.... YOU THE MAN!!! I have been watching you for over two years, just when I started dating, now my husband. You were so helpful and now that we have been married for more than a year, I check in with you often, to make sure I am reminded and staying on course with my feminine side. Thank you for being so helpful. My life has improved so much through your behavior teachings, thank you!

@100daysofsunshine7 Год назад

LOVE this so much. ❤️ My masculine energy has always been more dominant. I am very independent and go after everything I want and really make things happen for me, so I have always approached everything with that same energy. Now I understand why some things didn't work out in the past when it comes to the opposite sex. Really going to try to increase my feminine energy and use this approach from now on. Thank you for this amazing insight. ☺️👌🏻💯🤗

@wendyshoowaiching4161 Год назад

Masculine Energy (Confident, Calm, Steady, Show of responsibility - the caring role, taking the leading front role etc etc)

@ramonaneyrinck2292 Год назад

Same here!

@kristinrichmond8185 Год назад

This is a huge problem with women today.

@allowedtotalk8910 Год назад

Words of affirmation and showing respect too. When he does a project - admire how great it looks and how much better the new (sink, wall, countertop, floor, anything) looks and will be for the future.

@carolynann7889 Год назад

Wow! I’m so happy I found your channel! This is just what I needed! I’ve been doing it all wrong. I am masculine energy and I want masculine energy. I am not attracting masculine energy from a man because I need to recharge my feminine energy. This makes so much sense!!! Thank u!!

@Holistretch Год назад

I relate..Check out Adrienne Everheart too!🥰

@lucyh.delaney8201 Год назад

It resounded with me too!! I need to be in charge of my life and career but I LOVE it when my hubs expresses that masculine energy I crave... so I'm taking Mat's tips to heart and it's so interesting how it changes the dynamic!

@ImranKhan-tj3dr Год назад

I m here for love 😍😍❤❤🌷

@ashleydamjanac1835 Год назад

Yep makes tons of sense. Ever get turned off by a broody, whiney man? I have, it makes my uterus shrivel up lol my ex was like that and I realized I felt like I was dealing with a moody women. So imagine how men feel when we act masculine? Obviously we have to be balanced and some instances require us to dial up one side more than the other, but this has been a learning experience for me.

@carolyntorres8171 Год назад

Me, too. And also, as a single mom of a young man, I can start using the same ideas to help my son grow into his power.

@callalilly63 Год назад

I subscribed just because you made me laugh out loud. You made my day happier. I will never see breadsticks the same.

@KG-bliss Год назад

Yes it's ok...obviously within reason and depending on how long you have been together... because asking straight out the gate, he's going to run!

@user-qy8gx3qs6k 2 месяца назад

Mat really knows what he’s talking about. Stroking a man’s ego by showing how much you respect him is exactly what our men feed on. Women need to hear their loved and men need to feel that they’re respected.

@kevabela6307 Год назад

I love how you use examples from your own relationship Matt...so helpful.

@rosemike1332 Год назад

@aeverdream2 Год назад

I love these tips and they are so easy to follow. Moreover, your concrete examples do help sooo much!

@arashikayda3560 Год назад

Yes! Thank you! Standing your feminine ground is a great idea. No one talks about this concept enough.

@jennysoderberg4273 Год назад

I appreciate that you said nothing about hair flipping or neck exposure! 👏❤ This was fantastic!

@KK-lj4lv Год назад

Oh thank you so much! This video is like gold for me. I stand really strong in my masculine energy, and want to balance it more. This was really helpful to me.

@pageremick5504 Год назад

How to increase your feminine energy? Dress like a lady (not a tramp), walk like a lady, sit like a lady, wait for him to open doors for you and thank him when he does, take his arm when crossing the street.... BE a lady and he will be more masculine. Wearing ratty t-shirts, jeans with holes in them and flip flops is not going to ignite his masculinity. BE a lady and BE feminine by using perfume, doing your makeup and hair, having manners, not swearing - and asking his opinion. Why did men feel masculine around Marillyn Monroe, Betty Grable, Elizabeth Taylor? Those 1940's and 1950's woman wore dresses and were feminine in ways we've forgotten! We could learn from emulating them.

@crayolaclouds2696 Год назад

Nah. Nothing wrong with t-shirts and jeans, especially when dresses are either too cold or dressing up too much. Men don't want a high maintence doll, either. Many women, like myself, are allergic to makeups and perfumes so we can't wear them. If a guy needs me to be a stereotype and uncomfortable in my own skin, he needs therapy, not a relationship.

@lilibethnieto55 Год назад

So true,elegantly explained.Love this thought 💭

@dancer_traveler Год назад

Well, the 1940s and 1950s ladies didn’t have a choice. They had to look/dress really, really well, because they had to hook rich men for marriage or else it’s penny pinching for them the rest of their lives with limited career paths. It was survival for them to catch rich men.

@AudreyLuerding Год назад

Agreed minus the clothing part. Dresses, bright colors, heels are cute but femininity is much more and goes much deeper than the clothing girls wear. Whatever you wear needs to make you feel good and sexy and if thats in jeans i say go for it! Its energy not material clothing.

@fdsqueen5375 Год назад

Those ladies weee groomed and serialized as children 🤦🏼‍♀️ they were also thirsty for men attention.

@robynmarler3839 Год назад

I found this intensely moving for some reason. Our souls recognise truth.

@theartistjodievans Год назад

I really appreciate your channel. I have a wonderful man who is also my best friend and my caregiver as I go through some massive health challenges right now. Sometimes my meds or my disability itself make me a hot mess and he is so patient with me. I really appreciate learning ways that I can build him up and help him feel like the hero he IS, while also being reminded what NOT to do when he is already doing so much for me. Thank you. 🙏🏼

@JayP-kd5rc Год назад

Everything you have said makes total sense. I apparently did most things wrong during my 30 year marriage with my late hubby. Wish I had seen this video then.

@evangelina8888 Год назад

From my experience in past relationships, this is soooo true.

@dawnfrye4343 Год назад

I’ve been in my marriage 20 years now and these are some fabulous tips💯 I need to be more mindful of how & what I say to my husband💛

@fionad6338 Год назад

If you have been married for 20 yrs unless you both are miserable. You must already be doing something right

@jennyt7612 10 месяцев назад

I agree, I definitely need to be kinder & gentler with my husband

@chaquitanicolita4172 Год назад

this is so good. even after learning about feminine/masculine energy and understanding it through my own experience, I still need the reminder (which is why I am here) and this is super helpful & inspiring.

@jessica_g8719 Год назад

This was incredible. Everything. So pertinent in my life right now, and I could personally relate to so much. Thank you.

@annacotgreave8126 Год назад

Thank you Mat and Irene. Sending you love 😍 from the UK 🇬🇧. I will try all your hints today.

@lilibratic1330 Год назад

FINALLY SOMEONE EXPLAINED!!!! I tolld my man this: " a woman in me loves a man in you. And a man in me is in love with a woman in you".......now i hear this publicly...woow, fantastic!!!! Its the deepest truth, and helps a lot. All people should understand this!!!!! Man, you are fantastic, helpful and soo motivational, inspirational. Simply loooooove listening to you👏❤️❤️❤️❤️

@lorenaminuzzo5919 3 месяца назад

I am starting a love story with a man. It is true all uou said… asking him for help, listening to him an underlining how good he is, attracting him are things that make me and him happy ❤

@kellyknez5963 2 месяца назад

So helpful! Thank you! Love how you explain the masculine/feminine dynamics so clearly and give great examples of how that looks in real life.

@debracampoli3935 Год назад

You are truly one of the very BEST "Therapists" I have ever heard! I do LOVE so much of what you say & a realize so much of how I do so many things wrong! Your wife is a Lucky SMART WOMAN!!

@kristinditlevsen6693 Год назад

I’m not sure why I’m posting this but I just have to say I’m torn on this… I get what you’re saying and I really appreciate the insight… It’s important for men to feel they’re doing things right… It’s also important for women to feel that way… I completely agree that nitpicking and negativity are A total turn off and no one likes them… But if I am stepping up to help someone who can’t figure out where to go for dinner, in my mind I’m being polite, and what you’re saying is I am emasculating him… Maybe not overtly… So all this time when I’m trying to be polite and help solve problems what you’re saying is that’s the reason men pull back is they feel incompetent… I guess maybe the truth hurts… ouch sorry that was harsh… I appreciate your point And I am guessing I’m not the only one who did not know… I like the way you presented tue situation because what you suggest is really not hard to do… I had one boyfriend that I used to let order for me… And it made him feel like a hero… it works situationally… But I don’t think it’s some thing that will actually over come someones full insecurity.

@christinaduncan8285 Год назад

This was wonderful advice -- actually, original and unexpected -- and your delivery of it, Mat, seemed really genuine. I'm a new follower and look forward to future posts!

@mheuman 8 месяцев назад

I'm really into praising my husband of 39 years, I loved to hug him and tell him he's a hard worker and great cook. I love to see him smile and yes, his chest kinda puffs up. Great video!!!

@pipiyup Год назад

One of the best videos ! Examples really help!

@karynm3365 Год назад

Wow! This explains so much and I'm thrilled that I just happened to click on your video. I, like most women, want our men to be MEN- we seek and crave the masculine energy to compliment our feminine energy!

@psychicmediumtree8743 Год назад

I love this video! I send so many of my clients to Matt Boggs videos. He's helpful and such a positive influence.

@christine3 Год назад

Wow I really loved this video!! Thank you so much for the examples it was so nice to hear and really relate!

@redlaura85 Год назад

I loved the story of how your wife handled your first date together! That was such a good and helpful example of your first point!

@freeandfabulous4310 Год назад

I love this! Beautiful discussion of masculine energy balanced with femininity! Gosh, wish this could be taught to all young men and young women.

@lynj9088 2 месяца назад

EXCELLENT MAT!! Thank you again so much!!!

@EMPRESS_ERA 22 дня назад

Thank you so much for making this. I’ve learned more from your video than I from anyone anywhere in my whole life. Like please don’t stop making these no one is talking like you. How to be a full woman and make room for a full man and the fact that we have both energies within. I cannot express my gratitude. Truly feel enlightened. ❤❤❤

@nataliyademidova7002 Год назад

I love your channel and your examples -- it's just amazing. Thank you Mat

@homesteadgmad8223 Год назад

As a mom of 4 adult males (youngest 18 yo) I feel that these principles would be great for ME to use when interacting with my sons. I want to empower them and I celebrate their masculinity; However, after watching this video, I realize that I have disempowered them to a degree with my masculine energy in those years they were under my care. I am 60 now but I never stop trying to improve myself. I will be using the insight provided in this video towards my sons, as it seems like it would be a good strategy for moms to bring out the best in their sons. Tragically, so many young men have been feminized by our modern culture.

@kholt5256 Год назад

We moms train our sons for their future wives. Then the wives work with our sons to become the best husband for the DIL. My son is teachable and adores his wife. He’s not perfect, but works with her to make their life the best it can be for them.

@soul2soul399 Год назад

I completely relate to this. My husband left when our son was 4. I’ve been a single parent, and as such, I’ve been in my masculine energy providing, doing all the decision making, and making all the directives. My son has autism and is 17 now. He’s stopped growing 5’3”, so he’s tiny for a man, and he’s gay. However, he does have a lot of masculine energy. He’s an Aries and would like to be the initiator and driver of things. I really need to be more aware of how my masculine energy is holding him back.

@lisadefries6718 Год назад

Funny I was thinking similar with my son…….so how does that work with household chores? 😂

@llr1961 Год назад

I relate to your comment so much.

@senaittewolde6429 Год назад

Good for you!!! Love to see this

@carolynkenney3982 Год назад

Thank You for doing this! I know that it is your business and your interest, but it is all that matters at the end of the day! Or so I believe it is. Who you have in your life to hold and support you through life's good days and bad days! Amazing reading all the open honest sincere responses from people, made me cry! My husband is very supportive but not emotional at all. In fact he flees when I get emotional because he feels uncomfortable and does not know what to do. I realized that he grew up in a family where he was told to go to his room or go be alone and deal with his emotions on his own and don't share it with anyone because it was not their problem, it was his. It's sad. And he assumes that I should do the same. I was raised in a completely different type of family, where we openly loved, screamed, laughed loudly and shared our emotions. But at the end of the day, I know that my siblings and my parents had my back, empathized with me and felt loved and supported by them regardless if I told them everything or nothing of what I was going through. I am not saying that my family is perfect and we definitely have different views of the world and hold different opinions, but I know at the end of the day that they love me unconditionally. I know that my husband does too, although when I ask him after one of our bitter arguments, why he does, he always answers me, yes I love you!

@emilyc7381 8 месяцев назад

Topic aside you are an amazing teacher. I love when “teachers” teach with passion and real insightful knowledge.

@DreamingCatStudio Год назад

Tips start at 4:07. ☺️ I love these! Great job and thank you. I struggle with these cuz I “do it all”, but recently due to an injury have needed to ask for help. I love appreciating the great jobs men are doing. It feels good to me too to “hero-size” them. I started practicing in my mind saying, “I would love if you…” for my someday future man. ❤️

@pittsburghgirl9898 Год назад

Love your videos ❤️ matt you should write a book on feminine and masculine energy.

@tracylynn75 Месяц назад

Wow this is really good. Never thought that, me planning or suggesting the date, that I was being in my masculine energy.

@sharonqaranivalu5152 Год назад

Wow, excellent twist, you're spot on, delivery is key. Good job man.

@eros4570 Год назад

The key here is the man has to be confident. He would take advantage of a women who gives her “feminine energy “ to him. Example a narcissistic man.

@casvicpoqzan1955 Год назад

This is amazing advice! I’ve been happily married for over 25 years and have a great husband. I’ve been waking up to how incredibly lucky I am. I want to double down on making my man happy. This will be put to use!

@pandabear6906 Год назад

Intellect, confidence, positive, energy, and curiosity

@KJ99otis Год назад

VERY helpful!! Especially the behavior examples. Thanks!

@marthaadams8326 11 месяцев назад

So right about the masculine/feminine energy. I see all of these long marriages where two people just are with each other. The female decided early on that he was not doing what she thought he should, so she took over. It destroys the balance long term and also affects the children.

@iamtlc4u 10 месяцев назад

Yep. That’s what happened in my marriage and I regret it. 23 years married and 14 years divorced and now I want him back. 😢

@eonlinehelp Год назад

This was all great advice..wow!! I have experienced everything you have said and you are 💯 % correct. Ive done some of the corrective things you said before this video and they worked most times, but I learned a new aspect and approach from this video and now I totally understand. Even some of the men wld tell me exactly what you said, as far as the masculine energy, i never quite understood what i was doing wrong exactly or how to fix it or make the right adjustments in the way you describes. Thx so much for sharing this knowledge. Much appreciated ❤️

@nancyinthegarden3160 11 месяцев назад

great video well executed instead of dragging the info. I loved how you taught me so many things in minutes about my husband. I regret being forced into the masculine role bc he was at work all day. I had to do so many things bc I wanted to help him bc he was exhausted. He’s now, let me continue while I work a lot and am exhausted and the house is a mess. he’s a feminine zodiac sign and maybe I could learn many lessons in distribution of chores regardless of our 50’s mindset. so thank you for your time and great way to switch our behaviors after 39 years of marriage. God bless everyone reading this

@RadicalValkyrie 2 дня назад

I legit followed through all three steps yesterday with a guy, it was new for me to do and not take charge (lean into my feminine energy), and he sounded so pleased and motivated in his plans for us to go out and hang out. This is someone I do not want to lose as we finally have our timing right later in life to come together, and Im not gonna do my old habits that didn't attract the masculine man I wanted.

@boomshakarlaka7237 Год назад

This was such good points. I’m very assertive and such, but I’ve learned that taking over and saving people weakens them unknowingly. It was hard at first, but I’ve come to the conclusion that having primarily feminine energy doesn’t make you any less powerful/assertive (weak or small), but it allows different opportunities that having only one set of energy does not. Empowering people is always best for everyone.

@ImranKhan-tj3dr Год назад

Or u marriad 😍😍❤

@molly1117 Год назад

That is such good insight!

@fuzakali9083 Год назад

So true. I do this a lot and especially men tend to dislike it. If I give them advice or information to better their lives it makes them feel weaker and more defensive. One thing is them asking for it and another is giving it when you think you should.