7 Signs Of A True Friend | Buddhism In English | Ep 20 

Thank you sirji and God bless you sir!!!

What happens if only one of these have been.. I don't know how to say this but not there? (Trustworthy)

@@eessa1727 Thank you for your awareness as true guidance but I want to tell you one thing is that we the human unable to find accurate and true friend outside but we can make our true own friend first. It is easy. Please watch madam ji a Ted talk on it titled "Befriend Yourself by Nivedita Thomas" available on RU-vid for free. Please madam because no one like you!!!

in a nutshell yah xoxoxoxo🥰.

@@bethetruth6428 Good Luck sir! Have a nice and loving life you live on your own terms and conditions like every software works after the accepting or give the agreement with it. No one like you on this planet Earth 🌍.

lol agree on that...

Some people didn't that fortune to have such parents

OMG

We'll I found that friend❤️🤝🏻🙂

We have to look for simple and humble people. Don’t go after the rich, popular people

@OSKA. ABSOLUTELY MY DARLING 🙏😇💖

💯🌸✌🏻

Absolutely, I have a friend who gives me heart breaks . Time to leave him. Being alone is better❤

I am happy for you 😊

Wow

God bless both of you with good health always.

So she’s your cousin or your friend? Your comment is confusing.

@@brothertn708 the cousin is the good friend. Your friends can be family members..

We can find many good friends if we inculcate qualities of a good friend those Bhante explained

Yes..same..

Me too...same as u..😀

@@prasadbinuwara7519 yes, sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏☺

Same 👍🏻

True to say that its still in our family that we find our True and real friends

at least you have some folks. you are lucky. there are so many abusive parents.

You're so lucky to have had a sister, really Lucky you're Having a sibling is a blessing Very sorry to know u parents left but God had already given u a blessing called sister.. i dnt hv my mom ,my dad aged but I neve had siblings I always cry y I Nev had siblings

It is super hard to betrayed by a person's own family. I know people who allowed their daughter to be molested. I am trying to be a good friend. I will practice the points in the video. Let it begin with me.

@@nishiketubhayakar5870 when someone has a sibling who causes them much grief, they feel guilty when they die. There is finally peace. My parents died, it is hard for me to be sad especially for my father. He seemed so happy and full of joy when he died. It is hard for me to not want him to have that. Around his birthday or holiday. I will get little reminders he is still with me.

You shouldn't share all your secrets to your friend as one day he could be your enemy

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Good 👍 lesson..I'll flow 👌 Namo Buddaya, thanks 😊 🙏

So true!!!

VK JAJU i agree with you 100 percent

That’s exactly what I was thinking before he said “if you don’t see this 7 quality from your friends, live alone” I believe people generally tend to be a good friend if you are one, even if that’s not how the friendship at the beginning. I believe if you show this 7 quality to your friends, you will start seeing them from your friends as you grow together.

I am here if you need a friend

Yes they are watching over you for sure Kimberly, just pay close attention to your dreams between 3am ~5am and follow your intuition or guts.Take care

Can hv some hobbies.

Hard to get such person

same here. I also have two "true" friends that "have all of the above", but have passed. I have many friends, but I know they are not "true"....I call them acquaintance(s). Some only call when they need help or something. I miss my "true" friends 😪💗🙏

@@jupiterherranz-wilkinson3787 Yes I understand about just acquaintances and not real genuine friends. These days your lucky if you have 2 true friends. Most people don't have true genuine friends. I learned that really quick when I got sick and couldn't do everything for everybody else anymore. They don't even call to see if I'm alright. I just learned it's their own character ungrateful, selfish, disrespectful and unappreciative. I rather just be alone then to be around fake friends who talk badly and spread rumors and lies about me behind my back. I rather be alone. I can do bad by myself.

Hi winner

You are right for this. there's a point in that, and I've thought so

Most people have imperfections. As a friend you can inform person to overcome their problem of jealousy. Sometimes we don't see yourself.

yes, there is another text in which the Buddha describes who a 'warm-hearted friend' is this way: 1. he who is a helpmate: (i) he guards the heedless, (ii) he protects the wealth of the heedless, (iii) he becomes a refuge when you are in danger, (iv) when there are commitments he provides you with double the supply needed. 2. he who is the same in happiness and sorrow: (i) he reveals his secrets, (ii) he conceals one's own secrets, (iii) in misfortune he does not forsake one, (iv) his life even he sacrifices for one's sake. 3. he who gives good counsel: (i) he restrains one from doing evil, (ii) he encourages one to do good, (iii) he informs one of what is unknown to oneself, (iv) he points out the path to heaven. 4. he who sympathises: (i) he does not rejoice in one's misfortune, (ii) he rejoices in one's prosperity, (iii) he restrains others speaking ill of oneself, (iv) he praises those who speak well of oneself.

that is so true. the same I say every day

My blessing for your friend.

@@JessMaccain thank you ❤️

Never found one

Do u really hv Happy to hear I wish I could be good too Anyway,Congrtz for hving him/her I hv one too,with aaalll these 7 qualities. God bless😊💜️🌸

@@user-jf7gq9gg2k ahhhh yes i have one , and I'm grateful to have her 🌺💫🍃 , a d may be your friend thinks that you are good 😊💫

@@Thankyou1608 may bee 😊🌸

@@user-jf7gq9gg2k i guess im saying the truth 🙂

@@Thankyou1608 mm i guess too 🌸

Dat zien kinderen tegenwoordig vaak niet zo helaas. Ouders hebben het beste met hun kind voor.

Dat heeft u zeker.

Als je een goede vriend heb mag je tegenwoordig al blij zijn.

Happy that you are alive … every day brings new hope .🙏

What a positive moment to know that you are okay

Same feelings here...

Dan is er geen gelijkwaardige vriendschap.

Change your circle , go other places and meet new people

So keep away from them

Same boat, but with beautiful Teachings of The Dhamma, i do with no expections but a heart filled with loving kindness.