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I’m almost 40 and have not met a man who wants me and truly loves me like this. I know they exist bcoz I see them in relationships with other women, but my mr right has not found me yet 😢 I really hope I will experience this in this lifetime.
Unfortunately, getting older doesn't help in attracting a man. I'm almost mid 40s and remember thinking 5 yrs ago, when I was nearing 40s, perhaps I'll meet that guy who adores his woman like I've seen in public. No chance in hell. Just enjoy being single and carry on is what we have to do.
I'm 40, though I'm extremely picky and strict lol. All ages come, yet still have the mind of a child, smh. I haven't gave up as well, but I'm not giving in to a loser, ugh. Lol
I’m 40 also. I’ve finally given up. These types of guys don’t exist and fooling ourselves with a shred of hope at this age is absurd. Sorry but it’s the truth. The good men who are like this are already married or they are gay. He even said in this video **SOME men** really want love. So even HE knows deep down the things he said here are men who are clearly the TINY exception and not the majority of men today.
@@laundrybasket2689 don't give up, just travel and meet random people. If you can't travel far, I'm pretty sure you can travel to your surrounding city and/or states. I'll suggest doing both. It helps to take your mind off of finding him and more on finding yourself in him. Honestly I strongly love someone at the moment. Yet, because I love traveling, I'm taking it extremely slow 🐌 and waiting patiently for the moment of time lol. He's in his twenties. I actually wanted to be with someone around my age. Though, if he's a the one I'm looking for, who am I to refuse true love that was sent from heaven lol. I'm not, just want to be 100% sure. Lol I don't waste time in dating because I know what I want! 😉 it's all in the knowing. 😇💜💙
Loving me deeply, he : 1. Is Internaly forced to evolve 2. Feels the positive colours and impact of me in his life 3. Feels his life better and more beautiful 4. Not gets tired to get to know me and about me 5. Encourages me to see the best in me 6. Share his vulnerabilities 7. Finds ways to ease my burdens in life Proudly shows and presents me to his world and stands up for me and defends me Is present and close by when things are difficult Is mature humble and opened enough to ask for help
When he doesn't give up, but is also NOT passive/mind games he's mature enough to pursue relationship. Other half means working like a team. Equality! Open mindedness.
Best relationships are when you both meet at your worst and build up to being your best self over time. I have heard a lot of women saying they met a good partner when they had been sick after drinking so much and looking like they been dragged through a bush. I believe god gives you your soul mate when you're a total mess for a reason.
What are you Bernardo besides a genius. Are you a psychologist, relationship counselor, family counselor? How do you know these deep things that are so obscure which are our emotions. You're highly intuitive and a gem. Thank you.
Hello to you. I hope all is well with you and yours. This video is so on point (as all of your videos are), even the ones that don't pertain to me. My guy scores a touchdown with this video. He does all of these things and more. I always joke with him about being from another planet or being a unicorn 😁. I used to think I didn't deserve him now I know that I do. We're very happy and good to each other and for each other. I love the way you give topics and go into detail with each one. I love your honest and heartfelt presentations. You're informative, you speak the truth and you care. Thank you once again for another great video. Have a Beautiful Day 😍.
@@BernMendez Good day to you Mr Mendez. I hope all is well with you and yours. WOW 😲!!!! I can't believe you actually responded to my post. You have so many and I know you can't reply to all of them. I appreciate you and what you do. It's New Year's Eve so I'll say to you now "Happy New Year" I look forward to all you have to share with us in the coming year. Have a SUPER BEAUTIFUL DAY 😊😊.
I find it very difficult to understand women. My 51 year old perspective is that women today ignore guys that will love them for their "ideal". Alpha males who are tall and have executive positions generally treat women as possessions not as equal partners.
Thanks for sharing your perspective Russell. I can assure you if your stance is similar to what I describe in the video you will find many women who are up for it :)
@@SR77736 agreed...today's society is throw away. People in general are setting for the now while looking for better. The average guy will not likely look any further once he has found a decent woman who treats him with love and respect.
This are very nice words designed to keep lonely women hoping and therefore watching. Bern is clearly a nice guy but if online dating advice actually helped there wouldnt be so many coaches making so many videos for so many years 😕 its kind of nice to watch as escapism here and there. We all need a bit of that!
Laura, thanks for sharing your point of view. My experience is that advice that is applied helps (advice that is simply listened to, doesn't). The reason why many humans share dating and relationship advice isn't because learning new ideas doesn't work, but because we as a society seek more every year from a relationship but don't have the skills to enter or sustain one. If videos on their own aren't helping you seek out more help either therapy or coaching. Don't give up : )
I found love through Bernardos advice. Before that I haven't been able to make dating work (and I have been dating for maybe 8 years). If you apply his tips, they actually work.
Hi Bernardo my boo (I Wonder) is always flirtz with other women. I have not married him because I told him it bothers me. He still does it even on the ohone with me he flirts. He has never been married, I was once. Your thoughts?
Hola bernardo por favor me gustaría que me dieras un consejo! mi novio es extranjero, el y yo llevamos 3 años de relación, cada ves que salimos y pasa chicas al lado de el o en la otra calle el las mira hasta he visto que voltea su cabeza para ver de nuevo, el problema no es que mire, el observa mira lo suficientemente y si ve el que les corresponde la chica con su mirada, el les da una sonrisa! Le hablo de lo mucho que me molesta esto, y el solo me dice que el no está acostumbrado a ver está clase de moda o me dice que es por el color de pelo o por cosas así! Y que el lo hace cosa que eso no se ve en su ciudad! Y que la moda es diferente en su ciudad.! Por favor podrías respóndeme que piensas se eso? Hasta me llegó e decir que debeo de tener confianza en mi misma! Apreciaría tu respuesta!!! Bendiciones 🙏
Hola Rosalía, gracias por tu pregunta. No es cuestión de tú tener más confianza, es cuestión de él mostrarse con más respeto hacia ti. Ofrécele dos posibilidades. 1) Dejar de hacerlo 2) Dejar de estar contigo. Tengo la certeza de que si tú hiceras lo mismo con hombres, no le parecería aceptable para nada. Saludos.
@@laundrybasket2689 they do exist. My brother has been a great example of what a great man looks like. He is all of these things for his wife and kids. So men do need time to grow into their best selves. We didn’t have the best model for a father but we encouraged and challenged each other to be our best growing up.
