You know, I totally get what you're saying here. The last guy I was with was very handsome. We were attracted to each other. We got along well until we didnt. I deserve better than him. Straight up. He walked out on me because he could. And came back everytime. And yes, I allowed it. I wanted it to work. He had anger issues. But now its too late for that. Crossed a line with me that I cannot let go. I want life with me to be easy. It was everything but. Started fights with me. Fork tongue. He has narcissistic tendencies. I kept thinking I was overthinking it all. Nope, I was bang on. Because I focussed on his looks, his charisma, our connection, my excitement when I was going to see him, all those things you say to ignore - I didn't ignore. But I started to see past those things you mentioned, he became ugly because he was playing me, miserable at the drop of a hat. So in the end, all the things I was turned on by, didn't appear any longer. The mask came off. I am so much better off. He pushed my buttons. I was triggered by him alot. Thank you for talking it out with us. I understand what your saying. 100%. Actions & words must match. All talk. Bullshit. We can say whatever we want. But if i dont follow through, my word isn't credible.
Thanks for introducing your wife. I've been following because I could hear your wisdom not just your advice so I knew you had the experience to back up your words.. btw, She's beautiful
I'm starting to understand better...I visualize everything you said and I see...I figure being alone untill I am right and then try what I'm learning out
I understand all of this. But what do you do when a man is butt ugly, doesn’t take care of himself and the belly is falling to the ground? I work out at 63 and I expect my potential partner to do the same. I know look’s don’t matter but in a way it should. If I got to look at you everyday I like to like what I see.
Perhaps you might be used to inspire and motivate him... people can have glow ups... a diamond starts off rough. I think more importantly is there any connection, compatibility, purpose, shared interests? When the genuine love is there, that should naturally motivate the other to rise to the occasion/ to bring their best! I know I've fallen for a man's heart, how he treated me... physically I wasn't attracted... months later he looked incredibly handsome. You could always meet someone and the opposite happen too. I think it's important to know what your standards and values are though. Wishing you the best.
tbh it’s not even about looks with this example, which even you are missing. you are someone who clearly takes care of themselves, and the example that you gave is of a man who does *NOT* you wouldn’t even be a vibrational match with this hypothetical person anyway, so why did you even ask this question? it obviously wouldn’t work for a plethora of reasons. kirk is obviously talking about people who are good for each other vibrationally, but may not check off every single superficial box.
I agree with all the points, except for the definition of intelect: I think what you describe is communication skills and capacity to influence. Real intelligence should be a green flag, I fact. Just my opinion. I really appreciate your perspective and thank you for all the time you give us, Kirk!
IGNORE THE FOLLOWING FACTORS- 1. Chemistry 2. Physical Attraction 3. Intellect 4. Feelings 5. Connection 6. Type 7. Charm/Charisma They distract from the truth/reality.
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@@Justalady054 we must have taken two different things away from the video then, because i’m not sure where it was implied these are the strategies of someone who seeks relationships for convenience.
