7 Ways Unhealed Relationship Trauma Shows Up

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Relationships can be the most beautiful and nurturing experience. However, in toxic relationships, these traumas can deep wound us. Even though we might not be conscious of them, they can show up in subtle ways that create challenges for our future relationship, or even for ourselves. Relationship traumas can create stress that worsen over time, making it more and more difficult for us. They can leave us feeling powerless, and confused, as to why certain things trigger or affect us so much. Let's explore how unhealed relationship trauma can show up in our lives.
The goal of this video is to build awareness on the topic of relationship trauma and abuse. If you feel someone could benefit from these videos, do consider sharing!
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Also, if you want to learn more about the signs of unhealed trauma in general, we have a video on that too: • 9 Signs You Have Unhea...
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@Psych2go 2 года назад

Did the egg or the chicken come first? Comment below

@_isha1397 2 года назад

egg

@K1ngpin 2 года назад

Egg

@oliveispresent 2 года назад

Egg was first

@Hello-mz3wk 2 года назад

Egg.

@user-kw7ft7mk4f 2 года назад

chicken came first , cause you can't have an egg without chicken no matter what or how

@JollyJack1992 2 года назад

Good video with a lot of helpful insights, but the music is too loud, at one point it's hard to hear what the voice is saying because the music is in the way. Other than that, thank you for the great content!

@emily_kim 2 года назад

Yes!! Towards the end the music is overpowering

@Scott_34 2 года назад

It's also cuz the voice got quieter too

@ineptadept3251 2 года назад

Turn on CC

@chrisvo203 2 года назад

@@ineptadept3251 yah but it's not just about literally hearing and understanding what the person says. it's also about the experience and ease of watching the video. its called good audio mix.. imagine if you had to look up the lyrics every time you listen to a song bc the backing track is overpowering the vocals.

@ineptadept3251 2 года назад

@@chrisvo203 I agree

@Simon0501 2 года назад

0:59 Annoying physical symptoms 1:42 Your body and mind are disconnected 2:19 Your brain works differently 3:00 Major trust-issues, even with people you know and love 3:32 You might pick fights or engage in risky business 4:19 A constant sense of shame 5:02 You react physically to emotional triggers

@blablabla3762 2 года назад

Thanks smon

@Wakacious 2 года назад

Thank You 😊

@theurbangoose4411 2 года назад

These are all me. If you don’t mind, here’s my story. I was after 7th grade and I’m the summer when I broke up btw. He had been dating for 6 months. My ex would tell people that I didn’t like physical touch because of past trauma (which is true) but then wouldn’t respect my personal space themselves. They would also tell me I needed to eat more when I did certain things like putting my hands on my hips (I have Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder, so I can’t help that I’m skinny). They would also tell me I was less attractive when I wore certain clothes or did my makeup a certain way. This also only happened when we started dating. They would also constantly tell me that they loved me and asked if I would leave them like their other past relationships. I do react to loud noises or people tapping me on the shoulder. Im not saying I was perfect in the relationship either, however. Whenever I got mad at them, I wouldn’t talk to them for weeks. I also didn’t trust them fully. So yea, that’s my story. It’s been a very long time since the breakup and I’m still trying to heal from it.

@theambitiousduck 2 года назад

Sounds like me ✨🐢

@NaturallyTeeCee 2 года назад

Thanks Simon

@NoName-vo5wb 2 года назад

As someone who have been through a traumatic breakup, I can say that's is extremely overwhelming how trauma from years ago can affect at a high extent your current relationships, is something I wouldn't wish to anyone and, if you're going through something similar, I hope you can get over it soon.

@SuperBullet78 2 года назад

Number 7 is something that I'm dealing with.. been in a toxic friendship the last 7 months and Im still afraid of facing them. I recently figured out the toxicity and trynna work my courage to confront the person and kick them out of my life. The songs that we had, different places and stuff bring me anxiety now, short breath or making me on edge. I wanna enjoy those things again without these negative feelings. Without thinking of the person.

@antaraganguly222 2 года назад

I know it sucks, specially when the things we shared remind us of them and every thing shatters inside us but you are so brave to confront it and I wish God gives you hope and courage to move forward and try sharing it with someone you have always deeply loved and feel like really close to. I know sharing your story is really hard to the point where it feels very scary but believe me, once you have shared it with that person, many painful things start to heal more. I hope you feel better soon...💞😊

@eugenemurray2940 2 года назад

Don't confront them... Go 'no contact'.... Quietly... So they don't know it's happening... Or you will find yourself in their crosshairs... Abusers get a kick out of the results of their abusive behavior...like it's a drug... If you tell them you are leaving... They will pursue you...

@ivanalaiguana1131 2 года назад

I'm sorry your going through that, but just know what your going through was not your fault, and your not the only one going through this. Many people including I are going through a struggle, because people want to hurt us to make themselves feel better. Just know you deserve better and are no one's punching bag. If they want to feel better they should get some professional, they don't deserve our help. I hope and wish you luck on your journey to happiness my friend. Stick with the people that not only love you, but show it as well. Remember action speak louder then words. :)

@Venus_xx 2 года назад

Same I left my friend months ago and i can't get over it.. somethimes it feels like I'm the wrong one who decided to leave a toxic frendship and imagine being in a good relationship but slowly i think I'm getting over it not totally , still I think random things but slowly i can see the difference eventhough it's not big ..

@sawyerk641 2 года назад

As much as I do agree with everything everyone in the comments said about going no contact, as someone who's experienced that from the other side of things, I do think there's a right and a wrong way to do that that doesn't heap unnecessary trauma onto someone who you still care for. That's why these things are tricky to begin with--they hurt you big time, and you can't have them in your life anymore, but you do still care. So, my advice would be to write a letter explaining it to them without using blaming language. How you do that is by centering your feelings instead of their actions--i.e., instead of "I have been isolated because you're jealous of my friends," try "I've noticed that I've been hanging out with other people less and less. it feels like I can't strike that balance anymore, and that isn't good or healthy for either of us." For me personally, I know leaving room for them to come back in when they were ready was important to me, too. That's something I owed to myself, not them, because I knew if I didn't I'd spend months wondering if there was something more I could've done. The thing there is just that you need to be REALLY specific, and lay down boundaries and timeframes. But, I know that step ain't for everyone.

@liminalwanderer2347 2 года назад

Iv been stuck in a deadly loop for awhile, I'm glad more people can get this out there

@Nanachi556 2 года назад

@@mintysali1141 wow just wow

@Nanachi556 2 года назад

aa i hope you can get out of it! Either way I hope you have a lovely

@DMaria216 2 года назад

💝💝

@JJ-mh4xd 2 года назад

I can relate i tell everyone this, get on housing list if appropriate for you situation and use someone else address and go watch Dr Rahmani videos

@Mike_Rottchburns 2 года назад

Copy of another comment

@notadog9244 2 года назад

Both of my two partners ditched me for their exes after I helped them get over their exes. This video makes linking that and what I thought was unrelated symptoms so much easier. It all makes sense now

@ridocf 2 года назад

Man that sucks, i would like to know more. So how long did y’all date before they went back to their exes?

@OffGridInvestor 2 года назад

Just wanna say it's common for women to use "nice guys" as a rebound for their alpha exes, and use them for emotional support before running back to the ex.

@blessedsoul949 2 года назад

Sorry.Take heart....

@bluetreats1321 2 года назад

I'm in a similar situation, and I hope you'll feel better soon. Forget your exes and move on. They don't deserve you..🤍

@bluetreats1321 2 года назад

@@OffGridInvestor I'm sorry if such a woman did that to you, but not all women are like that, only a very few. You shouldn't generalise.. Its like me saying "it's common for men to use beautiful women for their bodies". It's really tough luck you got the trash.

@papersparrow899 2 года назад

What bothers me about relationships is not only how the relationship will go, but also the future of the relationship. There's a REALLY small chance the relationship will go on to the point on where you're a father or a mother with children. And there's a big chance that situations and problems, along with less trust and more stress can lead to a break up.

@OffGridInvestor 2 года назад

As a guy who wants kids, THAT IS THE THING. I couldn't be bothered with YEARS of this for EACH relationship to end and essentially amount to ZERO after all that wasted time. After SIGNIFICANT research, I come to understand why India has arranged marriages and has the worlds second biggest population. I'm kinda doing a series on this. It's come to my understanding that relationships just built on LOVE but not practicality are crap, and the only way they've worked on the past is because of COMPATIBLE PERSONALITIES/ mindsets. Also I believe life was simpler and people were FAR more willing to work together and less selfish and bought up with manners and consideration for others. Whereas today, it's just WANT WANT WANT and selfish behaviour.

@sm9305able 2 года назад

@@OffGridInvestor Many things go into the typical Indian match making business, like your father's social status, your beauty and age(for a girl), your salary (for a guy) how wealth of both the families are taken into account. And not to forget both should be from CASTE speak same language etc.. These are the parameters for compatibility here.. After marriage, working is optional for women here, which means no financial freedom.After motherhood, working is prohibited, she is meant to only give birth and look after her husband family. Arranged marriages in India are more toxic than you can ever imagine. Sometimes the girl's consent is neglected when it comes to marriage..

@gnarthdarkanen7464 2 года назад

@@OffGridInvestor No, you DO need more than Love to make a relationship work... There HAS to be some kind of teamwork arrangement, respect for each other, and responsible cooperation ongoing to build a couple into a relationship... That's true. AND likewise, the whole "what about me" and "I want" movements through the "microwave-bitch" population is exactly what's completely destructive to chances for a healthy relationship coming together for a majority of people... At the same time, if you don't have the patience to invest the WORK over YEARS to build that relationship, there's no amount of advantage that's going to help you. It's also going to take YEARS of building that relationship in a healthy way IF or When you ever achieve children... AND those children are GOING to waste your money, eat and waste your food, run amok through your life and house, push your buttons, cross your boundaries, disappoint your every expectation, and break your heart more than occasionally... AND then they'll grow up and build lives of their own that don't include you. THAT'S WHAT CHILDREN DO... AND it's the normal, natural, and proper way of things. If you can't handle all that, then you're not even fit to have children. If you're not capable of "being bothered" to invest the years of relationship and trust building with a single other person PURELY to make a couple and potentially a life together, then you're also not fit to bother with as a partner... Because it very well CAN end up to "nothing" for all those years and work invested... ...AND tomorrow, you could walk down the side of the street and for a simple little mistake by someone else, a fast-moving chevy make a mess out of you... done forever... pfft... That's just life. Stop being a coward. Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and FOREVER to rebuild. YOU have to be stronger than that. ;o)

@Mayfloweralways 2 года назад

After a lot of experience in life, I thought I was in good relationships because I didn’t know what a good relationship was truly supposed to be. I was comparing to other people who, in hind sight, weren’t in good relationships either. And then it happened. I stopped looking and stopped worrying and got to the point where I didn’t have time for BS but handled it politely. And eventually, the right guy stayed around. He stayed and cared, even when we disagreed. Even when I said I wasn’t ready for something. So here is what I would say. Get a good guy, the same way you find a best friend. A lot of it just happens naturally. You just click and you just want to be around each other for no other reason than you’re very content with each other. Don’t accept a relationship where you feel you’re doing more than you should just to keep it going. A guy that truly feels for you, he won’t make you feel that way. You’ll feel at peace. And you just know he’s there for you

@squeakssqueakers4905 2 года назад

As someone who’s mostly recovered from my relationship trauma, I just want to say this is an amazing video. There’s nothing wrong with you for struggling and one day you will be better. For now just take your time and know the symptoms ❤️

@Awkwardgr1 2 года назад

this video reassured me that i'm not "crazy" and that my trauma is very real and is something i want to continue to work on. I will just take it one day at a time.

@jessica_moon 2 года назад

You are so right…

@davism8495 2 года назад

Oh, god… I almost cried when I watched it. I relate to this so hard. Literally all seven ways. I honestly had a rough personal time with a partner, and it led me to being so anxious I was shaking and crying. It was just a misunderstanding and she wasn’t really fazed by it, we just apologized and forgot about that particular moment, but I still felt bad and felt very shameful for myself, even though I did nothing wrong. Then I found out it could be linked with previous relationships I’ve had and friendships that always vanished after *one* thing I did wrong. Just one thing… And I think this may have proved it. Thanks Psych2go

@Awkwardgr1 2 года назад

Same here, i know exactly how you feel, something similar happened to me today over a little thing and it was just communication problems which turned into a big argument. Trauma really does mess with how your react and respond to situations. I hope things get better for you.

@matt-1989 2 года назад

I'm the same way with my boyfriend, my family, and group of friends. They don't flip out over the smallest things and always have to reassure me when I do something wrong. I always over-apologize, and they thankfully are very understanding and patient with me. Small things over which my ex would lock me in our bedroom downstairs, starve me, among a number of other things, everyone around me takes with a grain of salt and it's no big problem. It took me a whole year and a half to stop breaking down. I still apologize a ton almost 5 years after I escaped from that situation. I'm slowly but surely getting better, though. My mom and friends are saying the old me is beginning to come back. My boyfriend is in the military and is the biggest sweetheart and most patient person I've ever met. I hope you both on this thread heal from the past. There's light at the end of the tunnel. You are loved. You are worthy of love. It takes time to heal, but you are also worth that time. Much love to the both of you ❤️

@gbby2157 2 года назад

@@matt-1989 I relate to the over apologizing so much, I isolated myself as a result for years. Sending you love❤️

@erinmcmahon4553 2 года назад

I cried 😥 I been having chest pain and physical symptoms, disassociate when gets to overwhelming and overthink stuff, think of memories...

@CRONKYPIGEON 2 года назад

Yikes. Irrational guilt is the worst. Hey, just remember no matter what they did to you, you're still an amazing person and it's wonderful that you're brave enough to share that. Especially on social media with a bunch of strangers. Idk what created us, whether it was God, the big bang, or whatever, but they did a good job making you

@namethestars 2 года назад

#4 - absolutely. I relate to all of these but 4 is definitely deep. It's hard to reconcile that a relationship I held onto for ten years was a lie, that the person I thought I knew never existed. I'm not even sure my mind is healing atm, I'm just trying to keep busy so I don't have to feel. But my trust in everyone is no longer there, every kind gesture I see through jaded eyes so I question everything. I've been numb for the last year, I don't feel anything any more.

@curiousgeorge9164 2 года назад

Sounds like you could be suffering from a narcissistic relationship.

@boomber_96 2 года назад

I am so sorry for you. Hope you get healed in no time..

@jh5588 2 года назад

I can relate, I’ve been emotionally numb for several years now, it’s like once emotions shut themselves off it’s impossible to turn them back on.

@HoshPak 2 года назад

Sorry to hear about your loss. I've been in the very same situation, lately. The friend in question started distancing himself after finding a partner. In about one year our relationship devolved from best friends to acquaintances all the way back to strangers. I had to cut ties with him because it was hurting me so much and I was forced to rethink my definition of friendship. It's a dark place. However, just when I thought I would be all alone another door opened up. Another friend - in fact even older than the one I lost - took an interest in my case and helped me sort through this mess. Keep your chin up, man. The worst part is behind you and it's about to go uphill again.

@thnkspiritual2851 2 года назад

Everything will be okay! Find what makes you feel again. Maybe you're numb bc you identified with who you were when you were w that person which makes sense! 10 years is a good part of your life!!!! But try not to demonize them unless they did actually suck that bad....demonizing them and wondering if it was all a lie is just going to make it so much harder to let go...be grateful for what happened and look at how to be the best you

@forthesakeofsanity 2 года назад

"Trauma is deeper than being stuck in the past". Thanks for that ❤

@anubisgodess2353 2 года назад

I just want to say that sometimes it's a bit creepy that you guys manage to post videos specifically on things that I find myself going through. However it's also insightful and I learn things so I want to say thank you for just popping up at the right time. Thank you.

@L3MNZ 2 года назад

Literally describing my past few months. This was the last night though, God gave me a great realization. I'm ready to move on finally, and this video is the final capstone of my pain. Thank you for the amazing timing.

@littlemiss_dabi_simp 2 года назад

I'm glad you are. ^^ Thank the lord.🙏🙏❤❤

@manfredholt7329 2 года назад

@@cedi907 Please keep your opinions to yourself. This isn't a debate.

@jeykey3244 2 года назад

Same, you are not alone!

@lillierusso2666 2 года назад

i literally never go on youtube and i opened it to throw something on to listen to while taking my makeup off and this was the first thing on my feed when i literally had a dream w him in it last night. i feel like God is tellin me to talk to my therapist and current bf about this, it’s like a puzzle piece just fit perfectly in my brain

@creative_elf.official 2 года назад

Thanks for this video, I am experiencing most of the signs you've mentioned. It hasn't been an easy road and I still find myself fighting my demons everyday day, but I know this road will lead to my healing one day and I guess it's nice to know I'm not alone.

@crazystii 2 года назад

I can relate, while I was in an abusive relationship and couldn't say "No" to him with my voice, my body found every possible way to say "No" for me. Some of the symptoms I still have 2 yrs after the breakup today. I wasn't aware it's such a deep impact on every part of my body and mind. Let's hope we all heal from it eventually.

@blessedsoul949 2 года назад

Sorry for what you went through.Sending hugs❤️❤️

@crazystii 2 года назад

@@blessedsoul949 Thank you

@Awkwardgr1 2 года назад

right, hope everyone gets the help they need to heal properly and live a healthier life.

@sunflowerglitter9233 2 года назад

Same here. I’m so sorry you went through this. I pray that you may heal from it. I’m still healing from this trauma 8 years later so I know the pain. And the pain of isolation trying to piece together what happened to me. I’m in a better place now, but treat yourself with kindness, it helps to speed up the healing. I used to shame myself for allowing that narcissistic relationship last so long, until I understood how narcissists are master manipulators & I also grew up with a narcissist father so I couldn’t catch the abuse right away. It helped me forgive myself after coming to that realization. Sorry for the long comment. Hope this helps to know you’re not alone.

@crazystii 2 года назад

@@sunflowerglitter9233 Thank you for your kind words! I got help right after in form of a coaching which felt like it was saving my life at that point. But of course I sometimes still get triggered and stuff comes up. Sending a huge hug your way as well, you're also not alone!

@snjert8406 2 года назад

Time travel is a marvelous invention

@holly3909 2 года назад

woah

@ellacann7 2 года назад

How…?

@keinem1235 2 года назад

Wizard

@jimpor.6311 2 года назад

Nice

@rogersparadox8848 2 года назад

Teach me

@ItsFrans_ 2 года назад

OMG! I almost cry because of listening to it. It's describing how I feel every day day and night repeating on my head thinking about the bad relationship that I have been facing.

@shanw.2948 2 года назад

My healing journey only started a few months ago, I am most definitely experiencing a few of these symptoms. Thank you for shedding more light on the topic, I appreciate it 💜

@SaraUrb 2 года назад

hey guys , love your videos they help a lot but in this video the music is too loud its hard to listen to the voiceover at some point (4:20)

@imahallucination4532 2 года назад

I’m glad you pointed that out I didn’t see anyone else commenting about that so thanks!

@nasserineD 2 года назад

I thought my phone was acting up, had to turn on closed captioning for the remainder of the vid 😩

@cchintya_ 2 года назад

Exactly. This has happened to their videos from couple days back. Hope this wont happened again

@swatisaini6447 2 года назад

I thought there was something wrong with my earphones

@renee887 2 года назад

Yes I agree. Had to stop video because music overran person speaking. Super annoying. I always enjoy these videos otherwise.

@Yu-do2sx 2 года назад

Wow, Just in time, I needed to hear these. Thank you! I love this channel so much. I hope you guys have a podcast.

@cierrajoseph7055 2 года назад

Thank you for this. People talk alot about getting over a toxic relationship, right? You're supposed to run to your best friend. But what do you do when you finally realize your best friend is toxic? And even after you leave it still haunts you. You don't look at your songs the same, your social media posts, you feel isolated, keep beating yourself up, disassociation, even after months have gone by. It just sucks. But remember it's only temporary and you gotta take it one day at a time. I wanna just focus on me and my future from now on

@jennithebyrd4366 2 года назад

Holy shit you literally just described my scenario. Within 6 months I realized not only was my relationship with my still most recent ex boyfriend was extremely toxic, but also that my best friend of nearly 10 years was possibly even more toxic still. So many of these resonated with me heavily and I feel like part of it was because I got into my current (nearly 3 years, known each other closer to 6) relationship relatively quickly after finally breaking up with him completely. But I can't help but feel like losing who I thought was my strongest support also did some major damage that is still hanging over my head.

@cierrajoseph7055 2 года назад

@@jennithebyrd4366 yes! Exactly! And it makes me wanna just focus on myself for now. And when i am ready to make new friends i'll do it without rosy colored glasses on

@MaritinleYoshi 2 года назад

I definitely had constant nightmares about it for what felt like a whole year after my toxic relationship ended. Like I couldn't sleep without waking up in sweat and feeling broken as soon as I even saw her in my dreams. I'm still not entirely over it but I'm glad most of those symptoms have been occurring less often through the five years I've been dealing with trauma due to that relationship.

@aliosmandiyar7067 2 года назад

I hope you are ok now

@CRONKYPIGEON 2 года назад

I totally get it. There was a toxic person in my life that pulled me apart just being in my presence. I still suffer from her even though she's far away now and it hurts knowing that someone else has to deal with her. You don't deserve to be in so much pain. Just remember that. you are a walking miracle and often the only person that can't see that is yourself. Stay strong 💗

@aliosmandiyar7067 2 года назад

@@CRONKYPIGEON I'm sorry for that

@manh3647 2 года назад

I really like the second piece of music. The blissful solitude of being isolated from the rain of judgement like staring at the ceiliing on a sofa all alone at home with no light on but just the TV on and a can of beer.

@letyourselfbreathedeeper 2 года назад

Thank you for uploading ❤️ I just wanted to say that throughout the video, the music gets a bit too loud to listen to your voice comfortably (for me at least). Still great video! I’ll continue my healing journey ♡

@ellyhunter7252 2 года назад

Yeah I find it hard to hear the voiceover as well. Love the content though as always. Tbh I like these videos without the music anyway, bc the voiceovers are so relaxing, and the animations are so good.

@lebmanrocks3949 2 года назад

It bothered me as well. It’s around the 3:55-5:05 mark.

@robertharrison1058 2 года назад

Yeah it was practically drowning out the explanations of the last 2 points.

@tanvi5024 2 года назад

I'm in a relationship right now. A very happy and healthy relationship. And it's been 7-8 years for us. We were childhood friends, we grew up together - literally and figuratively. However, now we are in a LDR. Just yesterday we had a grave conversation about the future of our relationship. Some issues wouldn't let us to get married in the future. And reality hit me yesterday, and imagining him with someone else made me go insane. I cried a lot, slept myself to sleep by crying. My eyes are swollen now. We both are so much in love, yet our future is not in our hands. This breaks me so much. I don't know what to do, I've invested so much of my time, energy, efforts and feelings. The thought of 'us' not working out itself makes me feel my world is falling apart.

@kirstiepenman 2 года назад

I understand how you feel by having the future you had laid out for you completely rocked. I'm in something sort of similar - I've been with my partner for the same length of time, but our future looks more uncertain each day. I thought that we'd be together forever, but there are so many things telling me that our future isn't together. I've cried plenty over the past few months, and I'm scared to face the future alone. I'm starting therapy next week to address the fear of being alone and some other issues. Please know that you're not alone - sending hugs to you.

@OffGridInvestor 2 года назад

Long distance relationships ALMOST NEVER go well for a long time. You need to be together IN PERSON which means ONE OF YOU might need to compromise. 7-8 years is longer than some marriages. You might have to give up college but..... of you were going to be a mother most of your life, how much did college matter? Trust me, I have been thru the LDR nightmare.

@VikeingBlade 2 года назад

LDRs can succeed. Learn online what to do. Best of luck to you fr, I understand bc I was in a LDR too. I hope it goes well

@into.the.wood.chipper. 2 года назад

I was in an LDR and she cheated with me over the phone with someone else once we got together in person. I had moved over there, halfway across the country, and she was having an emotional affair with a guy in Australia. We all met in the same chat room. So, sometimes, it's not the LDR that doesn't work...

@_love-ly 2 года назад

I lived in a toxic relationship and suffered just like that for several months. Even though I wasn't in the relationship anymore, I still felt fear, sadness and stress, as if my brain didn't understand that it's all over. It was months and months of anxiety, guilt, shame and fear. Nowadays, I am an extremely complicated person to deal with a possible romantic partner. I constantly find myself thinking about the past and can't look forward to it. It's difficult.

@bluefox175_ 2 года назад

I had very many bad/toxic relationships over the span of 5 years one after the other, and even after a year of no problems, all of this still happens very clearly... I cant help but feel like i should be able to just get over it but i know its not that simple

@Awkwardgr1 2 года назад

it sucks when people tell you to "just get over it" and " stop thinking about the past" as if it's an easy fix.

@TheAngryMarshmallow 2 года назад

Absolutely loved the content of this video. The art really makes it hit home for me, but the music playing over the voice felt a bit stressful to me. Also I'm in the not trusting anyone stage and feeling hopeless stage. Thanks for giving compassion to these subjects ❤️

@Awkwardgr1 2 года назад

same here.

@erickallert2114 2 года назад

My girlfriend has this because her last boyfriend groped her against her will, but she is actively working on getting out of it. She really shamed herself because she is not able to do certain things with me yet, despite both of us wanting to. She even feared i would leave her if she "made me wait too long for it". I could never leave her, no matter how difficult it gets.

@Nicole-rq8ix 2 года назад

where did you guys meet?

@Alia_q 2 года назад

Thank you for this comment

@QuietAsHeimdal 2 года назад

Man... I hope she works through this sooner rather than later. Be strong, open & kind; you'll both get there.

@erickallert2114 2 года назад

@@Nicole-rq8ix we met through a mutual friend of ours in the german city of karlsruhe

@thecatsbackyard4833 2 года назад

This was a superbly crafted video. Thank you. There are many of us who're growing out of the past. I turned 33 today and it's only been a few years that I've been feeling like normal was possible.

@Yudentheepicboy 2 года назад

I recently moved out of my toxic parents' house, and I can say with quite certainty I've experienced ALL of these.

@FreeVoic3 2 года назад

well this is telling of my mental state. I actually didn't expect to relate so much and now im pretty shook. thank you for the content it is a good thing to know even if it sucks

@0321Sjoerd 2 года назад

Little feedback for the next video: From 4:22 till 5:00 the music becomes so loud that it is hard to hear what is being said. Please keep a close eye/ear to the sound balance of music and speech! Other then that: great video as usual!

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Thanks! We will note that! Appreciate the feedback!

@VanityStarBeauty 2 года назад

I’m currently feeling ALL of these emotions. I recently got out of a four year toxic relationship. Thank you for sharing this.

@CelieCandy 2 года назад

Wow I am tearing up watching this. But thank you, might need to seek a professional help soon.

@akayla_me2010 2 года назад

I love this channel you have many things to learn in here

@aditiprasad4283 2 года назад

Looking for advice... My boyfriend recently broke my trust again and I ended things with him. According to him whatever happened isn't a big deal... but I can't trust people anymore, thanks to this recent relationship. I have sudden urges to ruin things for him, the way he had done with mine. This isn't like me. But, after all, that has happened, I am the one questioning everything. I am the one who doesn't want to interact with anyone anymore. I am the one with pent-up regrets, even though I am not in the wrong. He has full faith that I'll come back to him. I don't have anyone to talk to. Unlike him, I am a hardcore introvert.

@snazziera9407 2 года назад

Feel you sis...

@teenoush7489 2 года назад

Don't go back, friend. There is a slight resemblance with my case, just leave him, take time to grieve alone/with people you trust. Start re engaging with your hobbies and look for other things to do, don't check up on him at all (message/social media). In a nutshell, prove him wrong, show him that you are going to be better off without him. You can do this!

@aditiprasad4283 2 года назад

@@teenoush7489 Thank you so much :)

@teenoush7489 2 года назад

@@aditiprasad4283 Mention not ^^ And also, don't relapse; look for alternatives, but don't give into his attempts to break you or have you back.

@Zasz799 2 года назад

Thank you so much for those explainations, sometimes sympthoms pass unobserved and you don't know why you are alerted anytime, cannot sleep without medicine or shaking dramatically, suddenly out of nowhere. The music you chose matches perfectly with Amanda s voice, yes it is loud, but i love it...adds a sense of climax.

@kyoshious 2 года назад

all i need is some goddamn entertainment after a long day of voice acting, & archeology studies for school. this video definitely cured me. thank you for taking the time to make this video. the funniest thing about me watching your videos is that I always have sushi with me. i look forward to watching your videos everyday! i love you!

@KiallVunMyeret 2 года назад

It's been 4 years since my relationship ended and i still have nightmares about it sometimes I haven't been able to trust people and have closed myself off the world as much as i could It wasen't even a toxic relationship. She just went to study in another country and i fell in depresion which caused us to drift apart. I have pretty much come to the conclusion that love just isn't meant for people like me and that it would be better if i just stayed alone

@everettwatsonrazorearcwolf6553 2 года назад

I feel these. My ex broke up for me then got a new boyfriend in a week. Weeks after she cut connections with me

@artsydee.x803 2 года назад

I can feel you. The same happened with me. I hope you heal soon :') ❤️ xoxo

@cicciopallino11 2 года назад

You're not alone. 2 months of struggle with my ex, after almost 2 years together and a relationship that literally drained all my energies. She says she lost interest and so on. She breaks up with me, then begs me to go back together and despite me being fine without her we do get back together. After a couple weeks she leaves me again. Soon after j discover that the exact day she dumped me she got together with her friend that "i shouldnt worry about". I knew he was the reason for our problems all along but she just was too coward to admit that. That happened 6 months ago and i still have trust issues and feel shame for what happened. Don't worry, things will get better and eventually you'll heal, even if it takes some time.

@OffGridInvestor 2 года назад

@@cicciopallino11 what they do is take you as you are because THAT excites them. THEN they CHANGE you. Clip your wings, restrict you, push friends away, stop you from doing certain things, and basically CUT AND SHAPE you to something else. But THEN they see that you're no longer the person that ATTRACTED them, that EXCITES them, even though THEY'RE the one that changed you like that. Insane but that's what happens too often.

@OffGridInvestor 2 года назад

A week.... you gotta wonder sometimes. Like she was probably getting closer to him and you didn't even know. Some can be such damned train wrecks. Then they end up later on being the ones at age 43 who are crying that nobody married them and OF COURSE they blame the men.

@ICY_Illustrate 2 года назад

@Rohan Yara shut up no one needs this crap in this channel go do this crap some where else plz

@alyssacolley2694 2 года назад

That was the best video you could have ever made I understood more than all the other ones thank you so much for your great content your the best I hope you make more amazing content

@eloinpuga 2 года назад

I loved the music, and i needed this so bad today. Thank you for keeping me company with my trauma where no one has

@TheUnkindness 2 года назад

I think I made the mistake of getting into another relationship before I got to heal and it really just made everything so much worse. That added a second trauma on top of the first trauma and now I just feel terrible. It's been years and I just can't do anything, I'm paralyzed and I'm at a point where I don't care anymore what happens to me. There's just no way I'll ever be able to trust someone enough to be able to love again. I've been having trouble trusting my closest friends and family and I get mad super easily and drive people away. I don't even trust myself because the trust I felt was so strong shattered into pieces. If I was so far off while being so confident, how can I trust my own judgement now? I don't even feel myself, reality seems like a concept I cannot grasp. I'm having trouble thinking straight, I lose myself in the fog that resides in my head. I've lost interest in basically everyone and everything. I've been jobless for 2 years now and I'm about to go bankrupt cause I can't get a hold of myself and do what I need to do. I just wanted things to work so badly that I turned a blind eye on so many things and it backfired hard. I'm so far from the person I used to be, I don't even know what I am. Being alone makes me feel better and worse at the same time but I also cannot stand being around other people because I've grown to hate the presence of other human beings... If the person I trusted the most at one point played me like a fiddle, what will those who I don't even know do? What I once deeply desired is now something I try to avoid at all cost and it ruins me. I feel like they killed off so much I held dear in my heart that I have nothing worth left to live for. I just wish I could find myself again, get back in touch with my true feelings and passions because I feel emotionally dead and physically drained. I've been at home for so long trying to recover now but I can't get over it fast enough that I'm effectively stressing myself even more because I'm spoiling what should be the best years of my life. I'm at a loss.

@kairil5257 2 года назад

I feel you

@lucianac.2162 2 года назад

that sounds very hard, I send you a very honest hug, hope things get better someday

@pante7952 2 года назад

U're not alone, i' ve experienced this type of trauma in my childhood and only now at 17 i 'm still fighting for rescue myself from this blackhole. If i can , trust me ( and you don't have to trust me the way you trust others when you give your love) , you can too. We are not alone and we can help each other. I know how you are feeling and i have a stressful time right now but i know that I can live better a day if i overcome this. Thanks for sharing your story , keep going❤

@Kai-vq4qv 2 года назад

My entire life I had really bad friendships and one of the worst ones ended in me getting bullied so bad I started having mental breakdowns and panic attacks over small things, I have amazing friends now but I have trust issues and awful self esteem issues, I basically see myself as walking dirt but yea

@LexLeo_ 2 года назад

This is the most powerful video I've ever seen of yours.

@walkingcontradiction3962 2 года назад

It took me 4 years and I'm still not fully healed.. But I did my best and will continue to do so. Thank you for this amazing video

@likeag6216 2 года назад

I looked at this video to see if I still have any signs of unhealed trauma from my past relationship. Looking at this made me realize how far I’ve came in such a short time. It’s crazy how I used to have most of these, and I remember my ex always had me in a stressful and miserable mode whenever I was around him,im glad God provided me strength to put my foot down and leave. NOW let’s get to present tense, im so far in a healthy relationship with someone new. And I’ve been in smooth sailing with him ever since I met him, even though my ex tried to make attempts to shimmy back into my life,I refuse to allow him to get the upper hand again. I’m happier compared to how I was from March 2021- Oct 2021 when I was still having my ex in my life . Thank God for everything and put your trust that he’ll get you through any situation no matter how hard it may seem, Jesus Christ saved me from my past self and healed me.

@likeag6216 2 года назад

Forget everything I said,I spoke too soon.

@sandramary9155 2 года назад

@@likeag6216 wait what?..you’re back with your ex?

@missjddrage1111 2 года назад

0:54... My goal from watching this video is to understand and clarify what my underlining issues could be. The death of a partner is a complicated challenge to endure through. I hope for insightful and creative support through this video.

@estellebodha1424 2 года назад

I really needed that video. Thank you

@ivanalaiguana1131 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this video in glad I happened to find it randomly. I thought I was going crazy with these symptoms and they still are driving me crazy. I feel so bad because I try my best to be the best I can be around the people I care about but sometimes it's just so hard. I'm so lucky to have them in my life too. :'(

@Elmejor999_GT 2 года назад

This video made me on the verge if crying 😂💔, I'm better now but i still didn't fully move on and i can relate to all these symptoms

@cchintya_ 2 года назад

I cannot hear the narration, it masked by very loud music. This happened with couple of videos from the past days. Please QC before publishing the content.

@makitty_makeupxo 2 года назад

As someone with cptsd from relationships Thankyou for this. This is very factual and informative! I Love your channel sm❤️

@tatimarques7577 2 года назад

This animation is so smooth!! Congratulations, it's looking amazing!

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Thank you so much!! Would you like to see more of this animation?

@lonedruid9869 2 года назад

Trauma from loss in relationship… I’ve had moments where I felt frail and weak and like an old man. Body moving barely. There was onetime I over heard a crush already having someone in their life. This was someone at work and immediately after hearing that, my body just couldn’t move. I stayed for another hour, sobbing, I was concentrating on work as hard as I could which helped half and half but my body? Just was shutting down. I felt dehydrated. I really tried pushing my body to move almost like screaming for it to move quick and average pace but it couldn’t. Simply couldn’t. I didn’t wanna walk out of work. I didn’t want it to seem I couldn’t control my emotions or I was a coward or I would give up easily. Wat really pushed me to call off was because my body wasn’t functioning properly like literally at all. Tried even drinking more water but didn’t help. Physical pain I can withstand Emotional pain? That will flay me alive

@OffGridInvestor 2 года назад

It's hard finding out they already have someone. But I've taken so many hits, it's like bugs on the windscreen now. I find if I never think about them sexually, I don't get upset for any more than 3 days of slight depression (feels more like 3 mondays) if they have someone. Also helps IMMENSELY when it comes to talking to them and looking them in the eyes. But as soon as you start thinking really sexual, all hope of a smooth recovery or even avoiding nervousness is gone....

@JosephYanni 2 года назад

Brother, I had the same thing happen to me and it sucks. You probably felt strongly because the way she made you feel and how joyful she was. The thing is, one average woman is able to attract and will date 6 men while single. While an average man will have only one woman to date, and so the odds are stacked against men. No retreat, no surrender!

@beauty.fromashes 2 года назад

Thats exactly how I feel. Luckily I will start with therapy the next month.

@aliosmandiyar7067 2 года назад

I'm so proud of you!!

@beauty.fromashes 2 года назад

@@aliosmandiyar7067 thank you :)

@aliosmandiyar7067 2 года назад

@@beauty.fromashes you're welcome!

@charlottemuylle1380 2 года назад

all these symptoms are so relatable. Thanks for sharing this.

@nael_tm 2 года назад

thank you, this makes me feel better, as I've been struggling for a couple of years now, after a very toxic relationship ended, now I see that it's okay that it's been hard for me to trust people, to focus, to value myself and to do things in general, also that I've been dissociating quite a bit.

@clara_02230 2 года назад

thank for all psycho2go

@dr.blast__2713 2 года назад

Crazy timing i was just dealing with a friend with one of these

@chenbenjen Год назад

I needed this. Thank you ❤

@261144185 2 года назад

#4 hits deep. After a 2-year abusive relationship, I feel I can't trust anyone. If I get close to someone, I put up my walls. There's someone I like at the moment, but I keep making excuses not to ask her out: not the right moment; she deserves better; she might reject me, etc...etc... I think it's just a cover for my trust issues. Thank you for these videos.

@snazziera9407 2 года назад

My bf betrayed me recently for flirting with his girl bestfriends behind my back and i found out about it when i was checking his phone.. (well, he did checked my phone too and read all the conversation, to show that i have nothing to hide) Both of us are in silent treatment and i've been hurt and alone... I tried to cope myself with distractions but i ended up crying so hard.. Wish if i hadn't checked his phone.. (sorry for my english)

@OffGridInvestor 2 года назад

If you checked his phone or did not.... he was still flirting. Some people flirt with everyone, but not many are like this. Most are cheaters. On future do realise you need someone who you can trust and not NEED to check their phone. Because to most people, checking their phone goes against their privacy.

@jacobmeans7612 2 года назад

......... it's been almost 2 years, and i still react strongly with all of these....... number 3 made too much sense to me. I might like to see a video on how to get your mind out of working so differently having those chemicals in your brain constantly. like personally, I try to be productive, but I already had ADHD, and now, I can scream at myself to get up and do something productive, but I just can't

@jonasknockaert9806 2 года назад

Thank you so much, i personally think the first step of healing is just to accept that you aren’t feeling allright and these fantastic videos with that wonderfull voice helped me with that ❤️❤️

@ismetheguyfr 2 года назад

Thanks for this informative video, I somehow felt relieved

@Leannababe 2 года назад

I relate to all of these 😢

@Musiyca 2 года назад

Brain fog for sure. That makes it so hard to come back to one of my hobbies, because I just can't stayed focused. And my shame shows more as anger towards myself, that I saw the signs, yet stayed for so long. I also have phisical reactions to emotional triggers, but that one comes from being raised by narcisist parents, so unfortunately my trauma is mixed and entagled.

@teenoush7489 2 года назад

Totally relate with you. Take care out there ❤

@kellyfields3061 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this video. I subscibed to this channel in 2018 and I've since used this platform to help learrn more about myself. I thought I was just be crazy for having most if not all the symptoms listed in this video now I understand I just need to work a little deeper and bring this up to me theropist thx again.

@loquaciousjd 2 года назад

Very relatable content. Thank you. The healing journey isn’t a straight line, but I need to pay attention to progress that I’ve made.

@Nayeon_is_everything 2 года назад

Thank you for the video because i am now experienced unhealed relationship trauma. It is very hard to move on and i never told anyone about this. But i really need some advice on how move on. It is already been since 2019 i experienced unhealed relationship trauma and i don't know how to ged rid of it. I want to tell to my parents but they said there is no such things as unhealed relationship trauma and said that there is no such things about betraying. I want to tell this to my friend since my parents dont believe it but since i have trust issues i cannot tell. So now i really dont know should i just let it be or should i trust my friend and tell her :(

@tails0389 2 года назад

I’m sorry, I don’t have the slightest ounce of what you feel, maybe try going to therapy if you haven’t, it really does help.

@Nayeon_is_everything 2 года назад

@@tails0389 i really want to but i dont know any therapy :(

@eltiobry3859 2 года назад

Seek help, from a professional, being brave is tough, only you know your family and friends, if you cant open up with them, seek help

@OffGridInvestor 2 года назад

My sister has a psychology degree and this is exactly the kind of stuff that requires therapy. I know life hasn't been great for anyone since about 2019, but it sounds like you're seriously effected by something deep seated.

@Nayeon_is_everything 2 года назад

@@eltiobry3859 ik im trying but i have trust issues thats why i dont have many friends the other reason its because im introvert :(

@gorajoo2975 2 года назад

Actually,I miss my twin flame so much.I never had any romantic relationship till now.I would like to meet her soon. Pray for me and her,please.

@Simon0501 2 года назад

Hope you see her again ❤️

@gorajoo2975 2 года назад

@@mintysali1141 enna wolarureh? Enna paatha unakku kindalaa irrukka?

@gorajoo2975 2 года назад

@@Simon0501 Thank you for your kind and encouraging words

@mysterioereneditz466 2 года назад

Yea I wish u all the best ❤️✨✨🌎

@isabellekippenbrock6886 2 года назад

This is healing for me to see my dad explained in a video. I've projected all of his own shame and guilt onto myself from a young age. To a point where I not only see how he relates but how I also portray these signs. The result of his life up to this point is the consequences of unhealed relationship trauma and I've watched him push away his long-term career just months before retiring, his marriage to my mom, our father/daughter relationship, parental/familial connections, age advancement, self-confidence, physical strength, savings. I've always known and seen that he can temporarily put these habitual reactions to the side when a circumstance calls for it, but my sympathy would always grow as I watched how he wasn't equipped to even handle this life because of his own childhood trauma. I understand that my father disassociates to comfort himself during the parts of his life where he doesn't understand. His life is meant for different, but better and aligned habitual actions. And it feels like I can lay this burden down here in this comment section. I feel as if the amygdala part of my brain is satisfied after 20 years of searching. After all that time full of lived experiences-- I can just send him this link. Thank you.

@Moon_Savior Год назад

This helps me a lot, tysm for this video's existence, as I recently had a toxic friend and I'm cutting free from the strings that she controlled me with

@morgue.n444 2 года назад

How do you always post videos about issues I’m going through as I go through them? It’s getting creepy 😬

@mariacopca4443 2 года назад

It's funny how my exes were all people who claimed not wanting to hurt me when they left because I got all of these from them. Also, I think that I used to pursue love too much, so I ended up engaging with anyone who gave me whatever looked like it, even if it wasn't. Healing is too hard, but we have to keep on going and try the best for ourselves. Like BTS said, I'm the one I should love.

@daridee4756 2 года назад

This really helped, thank you

@morbidme7673 2 года назад

Thank you for this info. I relate to all of it. I'm currently on my healing journey so I don't carry this baggage with me forever. I appreciate you 💕

@fam_af6998 2 года назад

Me and my ex just broke up again right now

@shinitori5018 2 года назад

Same

@mysterioereneditz466 2 года назад

They just get back and then break up again like a cat coming for food then leaving 🤣🤣🤣

@fam_af6998 2 года назад

@@mysterioereneditz466 we didn’t even break up honestly we have been broken up for months but this was the “last time” we are going to see each other I honestly hope it is the last time! It was just funny bc when I got home I seen they posted this 3 min ago.

@mysterioereneditz466 2 года назад

@@fam_af6998 all the best to you just know that u are not alone and there is still love and hope waiting for u ☄️ ❤️✨

@catsneeze 2 года назад

This channel videos are getting a little too personal 😭

@Jess-gu3fe 2 года назад

Love your content! The music in the video was a lil much for your soft voice. Just found you earlier this month💖 Thank you for helping me through my mind~ 😌 💕🍃🌻🌦

@havencallaway6688 2 года назад

Love your vids and their approach to psychology the cute cartoons really help with digesting sometimes hard to chew info it's a beautiful balance thanks for being here

@Vlex24 2 года назад

The guilt and shame … everything really - was spot on 😞 I’ve been trying to learn more about myself and as strong as I feel… I am going through trauma mentally everyday not realizing it? Thank you for sharing this, now I know where to begin. 💗

@Awkwardgr1 2 года назад

Just saw this video pop up in my fyp in the right time. I am having relationship issues and I notice and am aware of my actions, i want to better myself and not only better myself but also my relationship with my partner and others.

@londym. 2 года назад

Thank you so much, this is exactly what I was feeling for so long but I am in a safe relationship now and I just need to let it all go and try to put it all behind me. 🥰🤗😘

@Absolhunter251 2 года назад

This is very informative.. thank you for this

@Spooktuberz 2 года назад

Seeing the animation quality increasing has been one of my favorite parts of following this channel

@BCHODOSH01 2 года назад

I can relate to the majority of these relationship trauma symptoms. I was in a toxic, abusive relationship for several years, and this video has helped to explain the anxiety, brain fog, and muscular tightness, etc. i now have after the relationship ended.

@j_nerner2746 2 года назад

Number 4 really hits me very hard. When you really try your best for someone you love but someone you love just playing heart with you it felt really hurt(a lot), since then its hard to trust people especially when you show your feeling about something that you want to share.

@TinySamaa Год назад

Thank yous omuch for this video. I have been on my path to healing from numerous aspects of trauma in my life. I have been diagnosed with fibromyalgia which is ALL of the symptoms mentioned here as well as BPD. I have a been managing my BPD to the point where at times I feel I am almost at that point I have been trying to achieve; yet there has always been a part of me I could not reach and didn't know how to reach... I can only say thank you, so much because now I can look at this particular aspect of my life and unknot that knot that will finally untangle the the remaining tangles left.

@shv9029 2 года назад

thank you so much for this

@michaelhansenjr.9661 2 года назад

I been going through unheal relationship trauma for months now. Because is hard to try to get over with my ex seeing her talking or giving other people attention, but after watching this video it helps me understand some of the symptoms I am facing. Also, I been praying to god lately to try to find answers and relieve myself from these feeling

@sheshe8595 2 года назад

Thank you for this channel I was told last year I was still suffering from trauma for extremely stressful family fighting - over money.. the result of someone dying All blending in with poor choices of personal choices