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How Porn Addiction Destroys Your Dating Life 

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We understand the struggle and pain that come with porn addiction, and we're here to reduce the stigma and offer support and guidance on how to stop porn addiction and rebuild a healthy, loving connection with yourself and others. Discover the hidden addiction problems that may be affecting your dating life and learn practical steps on how to stop watching porn. We hope this video not only provides more information, but also encouragement to overcome porn addiction problems, better your mental health and foster more meaningful relationships.
If you're struggling with how to stop watching porn or want to stop porn addiction for a healthier dating life, this video provides essential insights and guidance. We have more videos about this on our channel as well!
#addictionrecovery #mentalhealth #dating
Writer: Sara Del Villar
Script Feedback: Kevin Jonguitud Garcia
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Zuzia
RU-vid Manager: Cindy Cheong
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@Ivosferatus
@Ivosferatus 3 дня назад
Trust me: my dating life is already destroyed.
@demolisherplayz282
@demolisherplayz282 3 дня назад
Right there with you
@coat_cell_clouds
@coat_cell_clouds 3 дня назад
My whole meaning for life is destroyed.
@ShatteredRebel
@ShatteredRebel 3 дня назад
Right, I don't even genuinely enjoy porn but I just want to be close to someone so bad its the closes I can get to intimacy. Its not even about the sex.
@andrewgarfield9898
@andrewgarfield9898 3 дня назад
You guys have dating lives??? Can’t relate
@Keiron-pw6sl
@Keiron-pw6sl 3 дня назад
Sometimes it's better been single love hurts to much
@Nossined
@Nossined 3 дня назад
Important thing here in nowdays, as this is one of the most used coping methods
@jamesarroyo4136
@jamesarroyo4136 3 дня назад
trueee
@takki2747
@takki2747 3 дня назад
Well, women are too braindead to approach guys and would call 911 for a Cold Approach from a guy, who's less than a 9/10
@Mr.Wiggler_
@Mr.Wiggler_ 3 дня назад
It's an addiction and while it can make you feel better, it's like a drug. Nothing about an addiction can fix anything, and it generally makes your feelings worse.
@thesaddestdude3575
@thesaddestdude3575 3 дня назад
Its only gonna increase, women rate 80% of men as undesirable, most of us are completely unwanted so there is no reason to engage in actual relationships as an average man.
@thesaddestdude3575
@thesaddestdude3575 3 дня назад
Well, for the average man there isn't alot of reason to try to get into a relationship nowdays. Most of us are unwanted. Women rate most men as below average. Its only gonna get worse. 4/5 men are considered below avarage.
@cafecitoconazucar
@cafecitoconazucar 3 дня назад
I was just about to... Then my cat showed up and laid on my lap, then this video popped up. Perfect timing. Thank you!!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 дня назад
Glad I could help!
@idekaaaIC
@idekaaaIC 3 дня назад
me too lmao this came in like a police officer breaking down my door for a wellness check
@jamisonburton7598
@jamisonburton7598 3 дня назад
​@@idekaaaIC👮: STOP! DON'T CLICK THAT LINK! 🧑‍💻: ... what? 👮: We got a tip from Psych2Go. 🧑‍💻: AGAIN!? HOW?!?!
@alexolatl
@alexolatl 3 дня назад
deadass thought u meant u were about to stop watching porn then suddenly your cat laid on your lap making you feel something ☠️
@ChronarAutomaton
@ChronarAutomaton 2 дня назад
Mine almost lol
@yin5451
@yin5451 3 дня назад
This is something that i'm currently fighting, these videos you make have been very helpful to combat my addiction.
@luigidude3504
@luigidude3504 3 дня назад
that would make two of us man.
@retkvi
@retkvi 3 дня назад
Im watching right now HealthyGamerGG, and he knows what he is talking about.
@SpryzenStars
@SpryzenStars 3 дня назад
@@retkvi im watching 'Prince Vegeta Motivation' ik its cringe but it really does help sometimes
@CBTheCandid
@CBTheCandid 3 дня назад
​@@SpryzenStarsHey, whatever helps helps, man.
@zero5496
@zero5496 3 дня назад
its normal actually, keep finding new ways to change that and ever give up trying bro, you will make it eventually
@chucklesfromchuck470
@chucklesfromchuck470 3 дня назад
Seeing the words phych2Go and “porn” in the same notification threw me off😅
@newmoonmood9111
@newmoonmood9111 3 дня назад
I’ve seen it before lol but the first time yeah it threw me off
@produto_pirateado
@produto_pirateado 3 дня назад
Its not the first time... but is the first time i am watching one of this videos.
@brynner_boutique
@brynner_boutique 3 дня назад
Omg same lol
@chucklesfromchuck470
@chucklesfromchuck470 3 дня назад
@@newmoonmood9111 lol
@chesscrater6331
@chesscrater6331 День назад
New topic please.
@biggestsushisoucyfan
@biggestsushisoucyfan 3 дня назад
I am someone with a little porn addiction and this has affected my mental health. This makes me feel very weird and different. Not natural. I feel uncomfortable with porn but theres still a side of me liking it. Which i do not like that side. This side of me leaves me ashamed. I hope this video helps me. Thanks for making this video. Edit: why did this comment blow up
@Cheezyeditor
@Cheezyeditor 3 дня назад
Do not worry girl, your not alone, I also have a lil addiction still, and I wish for you to get better and find help, no shame about it, so keep in mind someone over the internet with one of the most religious family relates to you! ❤️🫶
@ashersmilesaluri7654
@ashersmilesaluri7654 3 дня назад
Keep trying you'll get there and know that you're not alone God is with you
@botmax98.28
@botmax98.28 3 дня назад
demonizing the addiction is what keeps you addicted, the brain is attracted to what is ''bad'' or ''forbidden'' as soon as you stop being ashamed of that side and stop thinking its a ''bad'' side the sooner you will make progress, think of porn as something neutral instead of something bad
@jamisonburton7598
@jamisonburton7598 3 дня назад
​​@@botmax98.28I agree about the demonizing talk. Also don't forget to love who you are and what makes you special! Replace that shame and fear with truth: you are amazing, you are unique, your feelings matter, you are not alone! Us Psych2Go'ers can be a community here to help one another. Even if you don't believe it yet, know that you are special
@sed.aba01
@sed.aba01 3 дня назад
You probably might just have a high sex drive 🤷🏿‍♂️
@andrewgarfield9898
@andrewgarfield9898 3 дня назад
Porn has literally ruined me. It made me feel like such a dirty pervert. I hate it. But honestly even without porn my dating life would still be nonexistent anyway lol
@Yoeyesonme
@Yoeyesonme 3 дня назад
If your off of it, you feel much better
@ErroneousTheory
@ErroneousTheory 3 дня назад
I'm sorry religion has so polluted your view of yourself. Repression breeds perversion. Nothing wrong with acting like a mammal
@Kajpaje
@Kajpaje 3 дня назад
Maybe the point is, the more you go out and socialise, the more eye contact. Really important for bonding, when hiding our eyes due to fear, shyness, means we don't connect. What lies behind the hiding might be one way of looking at it, but just reminding yourself to look might help. There's gotta be a compatible friend out there, maybe closer than you think.
@andrewtetz2198
@andrewtetz2198 3 дня назад
Loved your big comeback in No Way Home, but I think everyone’s dating life is kinda buggered theses days far as I can tell so you’re not alone
@A.D.540
@A.D.540 3 дня назад
agree
@MAzizMedhioub
@MAzizMedhioub 3 дня назад
When she said imagine someone and you realise you don’t have to imagine 😭
@noobzito2
@noobzito2 3 дня назад
Timestamp! (imma be on vacation for a month or so) -1:15 Unrealistic fantasies -1:49 Sexual shame -2:55 Fear of being stigmatized -3:43 Exacerbates negative body image issues -4:58 Lack of motivation See you on august!😊
@Iamatyourfrontdoors
@Iamatyourfrontdoors 3 дня назад
Have fun !🫶
@Steve-gz3sy
@Steve-gz3sy 3 дня назад
Smash! next
@noobzito2
@noobzito2 3 дня назад
@@Iamatyourfrontdoors you too! (Even if you don't have vacation,or if you do)
@noobzito2
@noobzito2 3 дня назад
@@Steve-gz3sy smash👍
@kimifw58
@kimifw58 3 дня назад
Wait, what? What do those have to do with dating?
@DangerousMoviestar
@DangerousMoviestar 3 дня назад
I’ve already solved my addiction. I’m living the best life.
@Caduceus444
@Caduceus444 3 дня назад
welcome to the club, fellow quitter!
@altaccount-jq9kj
@altaccount-jq9kj 2 дня назад
How did you do that?
@Caduceus444
@Caduceus444 2 дня назад
@@altaccount-jq9kj Determination, willpower and a cause. Repeat these 3 words every time you feel like relapsing. You've got this!
@ewrtnwtw
@ewrtnwtw 2 дня назад
It's hard to do. You gotta be patient with yourself as you are quitting
@ChronarAutomaton
@ChronarAutomaton 2 дня назад
Mine im in the procces of solving it lol
@francoisbessing
@francoisbessing 2 дня назад
I'm in recovery from porn, hookup, and sex addiction. It has destroyed my dating life. Been single two years and before that short lived relationship, I was single five years. I'm 17 months sober and taking my recovery one day at a time with therapy. I'm not going to let my past be the end of my story.
@JMSerbelII-sw3ck
@JMSerbelII-sw3ck День назад
Good luck bro
@Narko_Marko
@Narko_Marko 22 часа назад
Hooking up doesn't make you a sigma giga chad?
@freebooterluckless
@freebooterluckless 12 минут назад
How did you begin?
@noonegirl
@noonegirl 2 дня назад
When you're so alone that unfortunately porn is the closet you'll ever get to intimacy
@weirdbutnormal2295
@weirdbutnormal2295 2 дня назад
Yep true,more of negative engagement of mental state.
@xxcelr8rs
@xxcelr8rs 2 дня назад
Well you feel like you know "her", you have seen "her" picture a hundred times. Fortunately you never had to listen to 'her' talk. Silver lining, count your blessings.
@MorgueInTheVoid
@MorgueInTheVoid 3 дня назад
I always rush to these videos but not because im the one with the addiction. I'm hurting because of someone elses addiction and these videos help me feel less crazy/sensitive.
@andrexskin
@andrexskin 3 дня назад
Hi, I don't feel like I have an addiction to porn but I relied to masturbation for some emotional regulations, it is indeed one of the reasons why my last relationship ended. You're not crazy, you're not sensitive, what you're feeling is completely understandable. It's hard for both of you guys, I'm sure of it, just remember to don't create too much pressure around the topic itself since it can be overwhelming if your partner is already feeling a lot of shame from his actions. This said, if this is not already happening, I would suggest your partner to take a couple of sessions with a therapist, it might be interesting to see why there's the use of pornography/masturbation, understanding the root can help and destroy the tree itself, reducing drastically the porn use. I seriously wish you the best, remember that if there's patience, love and a peaceful bond there's nothing that you two can't deal with.
@caglabatur
@caglabatur 3 дня назад
You are not responsible for someone else's healing. Please don't forget this. You cant save them if they are not willing to change. They need to do the main and the biggest part of healing. So please stay mindful and dont waste yourself during the process. Be loyal to yourself first❤
@syzygy4365
@syzygy4365 2 дня назад
Same, in a world where porn is glorified and spouses are viewed as crazy or toxic. They don't see their partners feelings as valid. Only weakening their bond. You don't have to bend over backwards for your partner like some youtubers try to show, but just considering their feelings and how your actions made them feel. There's a point in relationships where the problems never get addressed and they can't be fixed. How are we supposed to have healthy relationships when you enter them with one foot hanging out the door?
@zayn6699
@zayn6699 3 дня назад
You don't know how many people you've saved with this video. God bless you guys
@aqilaiman9739
@aqilaiman9739 3 дня назад
No, were still here. This vid only encourage us to stop for a few days. Than we will be back to our normal habit again...
@zayn6699
@zayn6699 3 дня назад
@aqilaiman9739 That's why we have to work hard to break the habit. I believe you can do it just as I can.
@aqilaiman9739
@aqilaiman9739 3 дня назад
@@zayn6699 hope for me.
@codybriangalacticraft69
@codybriangalacticraft69 2 дня назад
Unfortunately this video spreads awareness yes but the people who needs saving cannot be simply saved by a video without action themselves thus only by themselves can they have control in regulating porn usage away from addiction . .
@filip4767
@filip4767 День назад
It didn't save anyone, as it is out of touch. The issues that they claim have their roots in porn addictions, were actually the reasons for why we turn to it. Self esteem, negative self image, etc. was there before anything, which resulted in a shitty dating life, which resulted in a disinterest in dating whatsoever and instead just watching porn to satisfy the need. As you may have noticed, it's the last step, not the first.
@joyl7842
@joyl7842 3 дня назад
Any addiction is natural in the modern world. Our brains crave the input, whatever the source (drugs, alcohol, gambling, porn, gaming, etc.) so we pursue it. The problem is instant gratification being widespread in the modern world. It's unnatural for our bodies to receive these rewards on such short timescales without any effort. That's what needs to be addressed.
@KWifler
@KWifler 3 дня назад
The only way it can be addressed is through having parents who are there for you and know how to parent and teach you life lessons and how to be an adult. Parents don't do that anymore. No one wants to watch porn in front of their parents. (Well some probably do, not going to kink shame)
@syzygy4365
@syzygy4365 2 дня назад
I think people with porn addiction don't address the problems in their relationship. Instead of addressing problems that hinder intimacy they make it worse by avoiding it. For non porn watchers it's very frustrating and their partners actions come off cold.
@siddathossain5781
@siddathossain5781 2 дня назад
i dont think games are one of them. games make me more fustrated and motivated to win, but thats from practising. not like all the other negative things u mentioned.
@ohanainterior958
@ohanainterior958 2 дня назад
​​@@siddathossain5781it is.. cc said about everything you crave for instant dopamine.. the fact is gaming can release instant dopamin after you acchieved your goal, or even after you learn some pattern, getting the collectible or that item you longing, you happy, ofcourse you need more of that happy feeling and that is addiction.. you can access to game without any hard effort (instant gratification, unless you game afterwork or limit your gaming time).. i do gaming, i realise this also.. but our brains work just like that.. i agree 100% to what comment creator was said.. gaming is not bad as long as you know how to manage your time
@VitoMusic88
@VitoMusic88 2 дня назад
The worst part is that for some people, it seems like it’s the only thing we have.
@cheeselord6090
@cheeselord6090 3 дня назад
I swear the person comforting the porn addict with a box of tissues at 0:56 is the most ironically funny things I have ever seen
@tommykawaii
@tommykawaii 6 часов назад
Yay, someone mentioned that! Haha yeah, I immediately thought the same lol 🤣. What a helpful friend 💀
@D.M.S.
@D.M.S. 3 дня назад
Please the same video about romantic comedies and romantic movies which promote the healthiness of toxic relationships. These hurt me way more than porn
@iiheartmel
@iiheartmel 3 дня назад
I had porn addiction at 7 YEARS OLD, surprisingly it’s pretty common to get it young but REALLY DAMAGING the brain is just developing and that is one of the info I got VERY YOUNG. I tried to quit at 9 and then I didn’t care. I remember the temptations I got "One more time" "it can’t be that bad!" It got worst at 10 when I saw the toothbrush scene in Ginny & Georgia…. Im still fighting those temptations and I don’t know how to break it to friends. At puberty, i didn’t know if I was really Omnisexual or if it was the effect of my porn addiction affecting my sexual orientation. This was why I discovered it 4:59 …. I don’t know what will happen when I get in a relationship but i will tell it my friends, future partner… i want you guys to know that porn addiction is completely normal as it runs into many people, it doesn’t mean you should lower yourself and your expectations for the futur. I know it’s hard, i really do. But soon you’ll be grateful you pushed through this.
@fibriantira
@fibriantira 2 дня назад
I feel you, it’s hard when my parents were not that kept up with technology and they didn’t observe what I when I was a child can be seeing online. Even more so on this day and age where almost everything is vulgar like game ads and the like :( I hope things are going well for you ^^
@iiheartmel
@iiheartmel 2 дня назад
@@fibriantira thank you VERY MUCH you don’t know how much i wanted to see this. Im doing well and i am crying since im watching the final episodes of Young Sheldon. You should watch it it’s amazing don’t skip ahead nor search it (spoilers) this is pretty out subject but yeah. I hope to be a singer and maybe sing about this addiction like Melanie Martinez kinda artist. Have a great day !!
@Imm0rtal24
@Imm0rtal24 2 дня назад
The worst thing to happen to me was unfiltered internet access
@JaxOnko
@JaxOnko 16 часов назад
I on the other hand didn't know what masturbation was until I was 19, and I truly wish I never discovered it.
@lulumarie1982
@lulumarie1982 3 дня назад
glad you posted this, everyone need to watch this!!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 дня назад
Thanks for being here early!
@Wooden_Vessel
@Wooden_Vessel 3 дня назад
Maybe not *Everyone* cuz some people don't actually care about porn, but somewhat 60% do, so the vid is still pretty useful! 🤝
@jamesarroyo4136
@jamesarroyo4136 3 дня назад
yepp truly usefull
@jamesarroyo4136
@jamesarroyo4136 3 дня назад
​@@Psych2gothank you very much
@spyrodavao6936
@spyrodavao6936 3 дня назад
@@Psych2go btw just asking what are the effects of having a porn addiction for nearly a decade
@GCBrawler
@GCBrawler 3 дня назад
I’m trying to stop my addiction…as time went on I started going to those websites more, up to 5 times during the day and many during the night. But as time went on I also learned how bad it was…I still watch it but now it’s at most 2 times a day, I try not to but the addiction is strong, so I do it at least once a day…compared to a year ago, I’ve made much progress. What makes it hard is how easy you can find things that show intriguing content on the internet, repeating the cycle once again
@vytis47
@vytis47 3 дня назад
Man I'm dealing with this now. I cut off the pron now that I'm with a new girl, but my general doesn't want to stand at attention for long because it's been so long, and I'm so used to just good ol' lefty. Things like oral that I used to even prefer over sex itself I can't feel a thing. The death grip is real. Then I get in my head about it happening again and it's an endless cycle. Thankfully she's patient but I hope the symptoms of death grip and pron addiction go away before she does.
@lynnfisher3037
@lynnfisher3037 3 дня назад
Keep hoping it will go away? You've got to be kidding.
@snkosen9798
@snkosen9798 3 дня назад
It just gets more brutal
@vytis47
@vytis47 3 дня назад
Im asssuming after no fapping or pron for a while, the sensitivity and build up of not busting in a while will make the general ready to stand at attention until the end without pron lol. ​@lynnfisher3037
@vytis47
@vytis47 3 дня назад
​@lynnfisher3037 to add this happened with my last ex years ago, eventually it worked when I just relaxed and stopped being in my head about it. After the first successful bedroom Olympics I was good then. Sadly after a few years it devolved into a dead bedroom (on her. Her libido died due to drugs) I resorted back to porn. Broke up once I grew a pair, and yeah. Back at square one but in my experience going cold turkey and becoming more comfortable with someone eventually does the trick. Problem is most women don't want to wait that long lol
@RodrigoAlgorta
@RodrigoAlgorta 2 дня назад
Relax and trust yourself and her. I've been in similar stituation, couldn't finish. After the third encounter or so I became more relaxed and confident and everything magically started to work properly. I think I had quit porn for about a month or so for that, and as I said it took a while to get confident and relaxed during sex but I got there. Sadly after breakup I started watching porn again regularly, but this video reminded me how bad the damage it does to me is.
@andrewnwokocha
@andrewnwokocha 3 дня назад
People forget that mainstream porn is literally like a tv show or acting. They pick people with perfect physiques and shoot it from certain angles. I feel that’s the biggest issue with pornography. Overconsumption will train ur mind into only being turned on to unrealistic situations.
@KWifler
@KWifler 3 дня назад
Really? I thought most people watch short 0-10min clips of saggy weird people trying to do freaky things. The actual movies cost money. Nobody actually pays for it anymore, so they????
@meeep9099
@meeep9099 3 дня назад
@@KWifler nah all that shits free. I wish there were strict paywalls, itd be a good deterent
@fjmackin
@fjmackin 2 дня назад
😊😂o😅​@@KWifler😅
@francoisbessing
@francoisbessing 2 дня назад
Beautifully said. This is real.
@Sanguinarius9999
@Sanguinarius9999 День назад
Should have mentioned the effects of literacy pr0n being pretty much as bad as visual.
@z1g3n52
@z1g3n52 3 дня назад
Off topic but I love how she posts on midnight in the Philippines :D
@The_Lute777
@The_Lute777 3 дня назад
Same here but almost at midnight in Indonesia
@Sithkiller
@Sithkiller 3 дня назад
Same in Aus
@spyrodavao6936
@spyrodavao6936 3 дня назад
Bro why are you people wake still
@DRIPSIRIUS
@DRIPSIRIUS 3 дня назад
Pre
@Somusicais
@Somusicais 3 дня назад
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
@FabioPioFersini
@FabioPioFersini 3 дня назад
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
@fakiriayoub8087
@fakiriayoub8087 3 дня назад
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
@user-nh5ze8hq5e
@user-nh5ze8hq5e 3 дня назад
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
@FabioPioFersini
@FabioPioFersini 3 дня назад
Is he on instagram?
@fakiriayoub8087
@fakiriayoub8087 3 дня назад
Yes he is dr.porassss.
@Mavis.Rosefield
@Mavis.Rosefield 3 дня назад
I agree. But I feel kind of worse without. touch and love starved. Lonely. Not even having hugs or much good social interaction. With porn, I can distract myself for a short time and this is so addicting. Distract myself from my worries. I have no love life and I don’t feel comfortable enough to search for real friends or partner’s actively. I don’t want anything to be ‘forced’ into. I want it more naturally. But I’m not even doing smth for it, like going out, interact with people outside of work, be more sociable. My comfortzone became so small lately. I also distract myself with playing games, watching shows/movies/videos etc, quite loud enough, so my feelings/my mind/my overthinking won’t take over. This is so frustrating.
@rxchard8004
@rxchard8004 3 дня назад
My exact situation rn
@sweetea6550
@sweetea6550 3 дня назад
i feel you, i relate really strongly to this. and i am very sorry. i am going through exact same thing. i dont have friends in real life. and my love life is non existent. actually i confessed to someone but got rejected and i cant stop feeling for them... because they changed my life. loneliness makes me think of death and ending it all every day. i feel exhausted, touch depraved and feel sucker for some social interactions. there are some illnesses i got because of the way i lived till this day, because of the creeping depression, so many unrequited feelings and dreams and longings. but you know what? i decided to accept that i am lonely, miserable, isolated, with no friends, love, human touch, warmth and affection... i am accepting my circumstances and problems in order to move towards fixing them, step by step, slowly but surely, reassuring myself, lying to myself in order to not give up. its ridiculous but what hurts me the most also pushes me forward. i have still hope left, it hurts but it also makes me feel cornered and desperate, with no escape. but exactly because i have nothing to loose, i let it burn me away, this pain makes me so much more courageous and convicted to do something, to make things better, even if i loose some battles, and sometimes there are smaller victories and bigger defeats. nonetheless, you will never loose unless you give up. so use all the pain you have as a fuel, an energy and channel it into changes. small changes at first, don't be too harsh on yourself, treat yourself better, notice even the smallest wins and achievements and pat yourself on the shoulder. give yourself that hug, dont wait until someone does it. everything will come when you focus on living your life first, doing what you like, being where and when you should and need to be. dont look for people, dont cling to people, don't expect anything from anyone, they wont and they cant even if they wanted to, to fix your problems and change your life *for you*. the right people will appear in your life, dear. just keep your heart open, and don't be afraid of pain, the fear keeps you from taking risks that are sometimes necessary. enduring pain and risking for the greater good is what makes us the warriors, fighters. either way think about it. you *are* already in pain and agony. and you are still here, that's something i would say worth admiring. more pain, less pain, what's the difference? don't drown in it, dont feed it. use it as it's worth being used to make you stronger
@andreimircea2254
@andreimircea2254 3 дня назад
I feel you. Socialising is so hard for me to the point that porn is just easier. I once tried very hard to use Tinder (as a gay man) to finally start looking for what I need while also trying to eliminate the usage of porn during masturbation. It didn’t work and I haven’t got any closer since. I did however, had both my worst “dating” experience and my best dating experience in my life during that time.
@escaptivist
@escaptivist 3 дня назад
Hey. I know I don't deserve to say or decide anything. But I just want to admit that yes you are right. I know that you and I are nothing alike. You are far better than me. You are the best. See I don't believe there is anything wrong to try and do something except for the stereotypes of the world. But it's about you right? It's about the way you feel, how you enjoy your life and and how you cope or counter with your problems. But it's the excess. It's about the abuse. Which is a slow poison which not only destroys you physically but mentally too. See I care about you. No matter what they think I am here for you. You can talk to me if you like or you can report me if you don't. All I know is I've been there and it's the worse. And I don't want any of you guys suffer the same. So I don't care what you think I will always try to stop you before you fall. Love and hugs❤
@sweetea6550
@sweetea6550 3 дня назад
@@andreimircea2254 that is something i aspire to as a gay man as well... to look for something that i need... but can't reach out for it because i feel unworthy and unattractive to anyone. i admire your perseverance and courage
@Atius8
@Atius8 2 дня назад
This video is very accurate. I also want to add that studies show that pron makes you less satisfied with your partner. It also makes you focus more on the physical than their character as a person.
@ifureaddisugay
@ifureaddisugay 3 дня назад
0:14 aint no way someone drew that 😂
@hamiars.m.5180
@hamiars.m.5180 3 дня назад
😂😂😂😂
@Spencerphobiac
@Spencerphobiac День назад
The thing that looks like a ketchup bottle?
@JaxOnko
@JaxOnko 16 часов назад
pfff that aint nothin
@viramyar4259
@viramyar4259 3 дня назад
The timing of this video is insane. I’ve been struggling for a long time and even though my girlfriend is supportive of me and helps, damn does the guilt eat away at you!
@TheCosmicFear
@TheCosmicFear 3 дня назад
Same man same. 🫂
@infiniteaaron
@infiniteaaron 3 дня назад
There’s a video from an interview with Terry Crews on Diary of a CEO about porn addiction and his overcoming it only recently, even while being married for decades. I would also check it out. There are many videos that COULD help. Unfortunately, I’m in the same boat of still being addicted… Accepting there is a problem apparently is the first step to recovering.
@Bayofthe91st
@Bayofthe91st 3 дня назад
I somehow discovered a solution at least for myself. I used to play a Japanese adult game with a character creation option and put tons of mods to make it close to realistic design. After having a relationship, I put my gf in it. It slowly negates/overcomes all the points mentioned in this video, particularly the unrealistic fantasy and motivation problem.
@KWifler
@KWifler 3 дня назад
I think that anti-porn people don't realize that guilt is an exciting feeling that heightens the feeling of doing the thing we are guilty of doing. They give people guilt which actually feeds the addiction.
@syzygy4365
@syzygy4365 2 дня назад
​@@KWifler If remorse excites you then you're doomed. There's a point of remorse you can't climb out of and you have to get help to move on.
3 дня назад
As someone who keeps trying to heal and then falls into it again, this video makes me feel less loney. Even if I dont know how to help myself since im an hikikomori...Beautiful video, I see myself in 100% of it ❤
@w2719
@w2719 3 дня назад
Too relatable, thanks a lot for talking about it and pointing out the harmful effects, it helps in quitting as it gives good reasons to quit, as well as providing some great opertuneties for introspection in ones own life. Great video
@johnnygaiffe5134
@johnnygaiffe5134 День назад
I've been struggling with this since I was 8, and now I have been wondering why I have been acting the way I have been in social circles. This really helps with thinking about it and realizing what is going on when I am at that moment. Thank you.
@angelamurao8273
@angelamurao8273 2 дня назад
I'm still fighting this habit and I'm already dating someone. I hope to get better over the years
@Cheezyeditor
@Cheezyeditor 3 дня назад
Thanks so much, I’ve had a porn addiction for a while and quit recently, this video brought so much awareness to what was happening to me! And I’m happy I quit!
@pidexprogamer5793
@pidexprogamer5793 2 дня назад
Thank you, you helped me with this video. Ive struggled with this for a long time, but im working on fixing the issue. This video related to alot of thoughts I have such as not actively pursuing daring activities. Its because of a variety of gactors, but the main thought is that fixing this problem is a priority before I seek a relationship. I have to do that in time. Thank you again.
@jamesarroyo4136
@jamesarroyo4136 3 дня назад
am glad you posted it actually help me or should i say healed me so thank you very much the entire world needs to see this so that they can healed from their problem😭😭😭💯💯🙏❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏👍👍
@jackshapiro4668
@jackshapiro4668 3 дня назад
I’ve realized this now. I’ve been off of porn for more than a month now, and I do it for my current girlfriend. I need to be the best version of myself that can give her the partner she deserves. I realized all it did was cloud me, shape me into a person that was unhappy with his life deep down. Quitting it is gonna allow me to really work on myself and be better, and root out a lot of my problems.
@jaidenvera5371
@jaidenvera5371 2 дня назад
My boyfriend needs to read this comment. He thinks his addiction or him watching porn Is a "personality" thing.
@BerezniukMykhailo
@BerezniukMykhailo 2 дня назад
You should do it for yourself, not for girlfriend brother she's just a good motivation.
@jackshapiro4668
@jackshapiro4668 2 дня назад
@@BerezniukMykhailo Oh of course I do it for myself, but she was just one more thing that made me realize why I need to quit. I’m still going strong 💪
@StarlightBettaGamer
@StarlightBettaGamer День назад
@@jaidenvera5371 i know what you mean... it took until i caught my boyfriend trying to setup cheating on a fetish dating site while he was away ( didn't go through with it, actually found out almost a year after ) for him to stop looking at porn, after looking at it behind my back for years knowing i have ptsd tied to it, and catching him several times through the years. but now i'm so broken i can't trust if he's really stopped or not and i feel like i'm losing my mind with distrust. he didn't stop after seeing how hurt i was the times i caught him, so why would he stop now.. it's not a personality thing, its a choice. porn is not " who you are " that's such a crummy and frankly lazy excuse : i
@nobodycareha
@nobodycareha 3 дня назад
This helped so much thank you.
@lord.of.chocolate
@lord.of.chocolate 3 дня назад
Not how I wanted to realize I'm addicted but thank you, the video makes me feel less gross abt it
@AviMoreno
@AviMoreno 2 дня назад
This feels very insightful there are lots of details I didn’t recognize were part of this dangerous addiction I feel more equipped to handle the problem.
@thenerdyknight1559
@thenerdyknight1559 3 дня назад
>unrealistic fantasies I just want to feel loved
@ShinyLem
@ShinyLem 3 дня назад
Well, many assume that everyone sets unrealistic expectations, just for the reality to burst their bubbles. This reminds me of a video that says that many people are alone because they expect individuals without flaws. As you said, many times you just want someone to engage with, many times without sex or other things in mind. I can confirm by my experiences and how much I drilled down everything that the only thing that the vast majority of people want it's to be in good companion, not past that, although there are some that are a little kinky but that's another thing.
@CEOmagi
@CEOmagi День назад
That's so unrealistic 🗿
@dusanstojsin4938
@dusanstojsin4938 День назад
With how crappy dating is nowadays, that is unrealistic.
@Lavendeer201
@Lavendeer201 3 дня назад
It's something that has hurt me a lot in the past. Always had a hard time connecting with people... and a lack of friends just makes this all the more easy to fall into. I didn't realize it ruined my life until it was too late. Please... whoever you are. You'll be okay... just please get away from this addiction. I've been able to break it, and it's better for my health. The consequenceare still tolling. I just need some help navigating healing trauma from this stuff...
@Th3-WhOwOl3y-TrEeNiT3a
@Th3-WhOwOl3y-TrEeNiT3a 3 дня назад
i think for many, it's not p0rn thats the problem but rather it's the lonelyness that they can't do( or they feel like they cant) anything about. so, some just drown themselves in their pleasure untill they can't feel anything and others take the path of chastity( no fap) to erase that desire altogether.
@skullking5259
@skullking5259 3 дня назад
This has helped me a lot thank you so much ❤❤ keep up the great work
@iamv3ngeance
@iamv3ngeance 3 дня назад
this is huge. thank you for making this video
@P-nutBD
@P-nutBD 3 дня назад
What dating life? I never had one to begin with. I am not what anybody wants and it's one of those things I am powerless to fix; I cannot fix opinions nor the people behind them. Porn itself is literally a coping mechanism for being rejected over and over because nobody found them attractive enough to even give them an milligram of opportunity. Porn exists for those who are unfortunate to only have fantasies of even a single touch from another human being because it's enigmatic and beyond elusive to those suffering from chronic and crippling loneliness. Porn is a symptom, not the cause.
@zanylyf
@zanylyf 2 дня назад
(Real) we may look good that Doesn’t mean we get girls
@isa7584
@isa7584 2 дня назад
It doesnt matter how you look sweetheart, YOU have to believe that you are worth being with. No one else can do that for you, you gotta believe in yourself. Wish you all the best!
@P-nutBD
@P-nutBD 2 дня назад
@@isa7584 I never said anything about my looks; been told that I'm "nice" in conversation and that's all they give me. Afterwards they ghost the hell out of me. I also did not say anything about me having any self-esteem issues about my beliefs of worthiness. I haven't had much issue with myself. It's the portions of the equation that I DO NOT have any input into the interdiction of others decisions; this is what we all are up against. I KNOW I AM WORTHY, you need to understand that it takes two people to proceed with a relationship and not one. If the any party to the situation does not want to proceed then that's it, it falls apart. Their opinions of me are their own and once they are made, that's it, it's done, move on. The rejection is just showing that I am not in demand; think logically in terms of economics. If a guy is sought after by many women, his image to them is highly valued, if he's just waiting patiently being thoughtful and respectful but not one woman wants him then the only thing he can do is go on sale with the others whom have been viewed as not valuable just like we do in the $5 DVD bargin bin at Walmart. Is this making any sense now? Think. Men are being passed left and right by all kinds of women because they want the fanciest eye candy. If some of us men improve our image (for some of us biology might like to have a word) can be difficult and by the time we are actually valued as human beings is when we dead and being put into the ground. Tell me again that I need to view myself as worthy. TELL. ME. ONCE. MORE. I need you to take a step back and think.
@Emilk0130
@Emilk0130 День назад
@@isa7584 And how is that supposed to be done when it's shown again and again that you are not? Believing the exact opposite of what is being shown to you is just straight up insane
@jnharton
@jnharton День назад
@@isa7584 What a stupid thing to say when it's incredibly important that other people value being with you.
@rousselinevictor9920
@rousselinevictor9920 3 дня назад
Thank you for this
@agator2149
@agator2149 3 дня назад
Man with how life is at this point, I think I’d rather clock myself out than to continue with this. The addiction sucks, the lack of love makes it even worse, I feel like Sisyphus pushing a boulder up a mountain, always close yet nowhere near.
@skep_curi
@skep_curi 3 дня назад
This honestly helped me a lot. It helped me sort my life in order and actually made me socialize more than only being at home watching p@rn and i want to say thank you 😊
@glennteguh5749
@glennteguh5749 3 дня назад
Picking the fight to not engage with any kinds of pornography content every single now and it has been 4 months straight, and IT IS resulting in a different perspective of romantic relationships especially how i view women.
@philswiftreligioussect9619
@philswiftreligioussect9619 3 дня назад
I use porn to actively avoid romantic relationships.
@susshikiss5551
@susshikiss5551 День назад
so sad
@philswiftreligioussect9619
@philswiftreligioussect9619 День назад
@@susshikiss5551 It's a sacrifice I am willing to pay
@The17171
@The17171 2 дня назад
Yea, this video is very relevant to me cuz I’m currently in high school and I’ve been struggling with this addiction for a long time and I’m trying to get out of it so far I’ve gone almost almost a whole week and I’m not gonna lie I’ve had some of these affects such as lack of physical interaction with other people thank you so much for this
@RedFella0115
@RedFella0115 2 дня назад
The point made in this video is ABSOLUTELY right with how the feelings of guilt and shame can contribute to a lack of motivation to pursue dating opportunities. There are many points made here that I can relate to and understand. Fantastic video @Psych2go!😁
@epicexplo
@epicexplo 3 дня назад
“It’s not an addiction it’s dedication”
@xxcelr8rs
@xxcelr8rs 2 дня назад
practice practice practice///cheech and chong.
@Ayzahaur
@Ayzahaur 3 дня назад
Hold on few videos ago there is "How dating today sucks" or something like that.
@user-zc4zj3uu3y
@user-zc4zj3uu3y 3 дня назад
Important video for young folks. We, old sailors, just used to hold our helms when it storms!
@infiniteaaron
@infiniteaaron 3 дня назад
Thank you for sharing this.
@Wheelz567
@Wheelz567 3 дня назад
Or the more widespread issue I think is rather that, people TRY to find relationships, but no one wants to actually date anymore. So all we're left with is porn to feel literally ANYTHING. I've had long term great relationships, and still watched porn. My last relationship ended for unrelated reasons last year, and its just so impossible to date now. It seems like everyone is emotionally unavailable, even if they're literally on a dating site. I can't meet anyone IRL, single people my age just dont exist in my area. So no, I'm not missing dating opportunities due to porn. There just are significantly few dating opportunities anymore.
@nickthompson1812
@nickthompson1812 2 дня назад
You don’t get it. What happens to society happens to us. What happens to your neighbor indirectly affects you. Once society becomes addicted or shifts mindsets, it affects you whether you partook in the shift or not.
@Redfire422
@Redfire422 3 дня назад
What about online dating?
@QBITASSASSIN
@QBITASSASSIN 3 дня назад
Thank you for talking about this. These side effects are sometimes that most people overlook, or don't care to understand. I have been struggling with this addiction for more than 25 years. I have tried many times to stop. But every time I have tried talking to people about it. I get nothing but beratement, harassment, and criticism. Witch just aster bats the problem. And yes, this is coming from professionals that are supposed to help. I hate my addiction, and there for I hate myself for somewhat enjoying it. Only because I find it to be my only comfort. I try dating. But I can't tell you how many people just get up and leave when you try and bring it up. I can't tell you how many times I have been treated like a disgusting thing. Witch in the long run make the addiction even worse. And on the other side. I find porn completely revolting, discussing at points, and completely disrespectful to everyone involved that be those watching or the ones making it. There have been times where I considered castrating myself to just remove the problem all together. People that have only had this addiction for a short time, have no idea of the psychological destruction it will do to you over decades. And at this point I have been dealing with it for so long, I have pretty much given up on trying to stop. And now I just live in my own discomfort and lack of self-worth. Well, you wanted to know what people thought. Well, this is what I deal with almost on a daily basis. Weekly if I'm lucky.
@enginear1157
@enginear1157 День назад
Praying and wishing luck to anyone who's in recovery. Went a day today without looking at porn after several days of relapse. It is legitimately a daily battle and it takes a lot of effort and concious energy to avoid it. For me I noticed that it was making me isolated and unproductive, so any time the thought crosses my mind I try to go and meet up with friends and do smth I want to do but have been putting off.
@JAPANESE_MAPLE
@JAPANESE_MAPLE 3 дня назад
Amazing topic I agree
@redchris4568
@redchris4568 3 дня назад
You didn't even watch the video fully!
@hashemalhamly5759
@hashemalhamly5759 3 дня назад
Its a 7 min video
@JAPANESE_MAPLE
@JAPANESE_MAPLE 3 дня назад
@@redchris4568 good point but I watch a lot of other videos like this .
@elandavenport1534
@elandavenport1534 3 дня назад
I got over my addiction like a year ago but it is still ruining my life. also I am Aromantic but not asexual because of it witch makes me feel like a bad person.
@samboes8785
@samboes8785 3 дня назад
I really needed this today.
@shenghu6651
@shenghu6651 3 дня назад
Thanks for this great video!
@Qamalek
@Qamalek 3 дня назад
I have neither of these
@Sorinoir
@Sorinoir 3 дня назад
You're so lucky
@tgs1766
@tgs1766 3 дня назад
Why did this guy 0:51 bring a box of tissues? 🤣🤣
@SomvenIsHere
@SomvenIsHere 2 дня назад
IDK about anything else but your voice is so soothing that now i feel sleepy
@clixxygold
@clixxygold 3 дня назад
Thank you for this video I felt down today and almost related with everything that was said in this video
@GogetaSuperSaiyan61
@GogetaSuperSaiyan61 3 дня назад
Bless you for making this video. A lot of people like me were deeply affected by pornography at a young age, and we don’t learn the ramifications of these actions until it’s already too late. Luckily these effects are 100 percent reversible and videos like this remove the stigmatization of talking about the effects of relying on porn as a crutch. 8 days free of porn!
@Akito_Yamada870
@Akito_Yamada870 3 дня назад
I mean, p0rn is definetly bad, but I think a lot of people go, because they don't have another way to fullfil their love life, I'm one of them I gave up on dating around 2 years ago and kept with my waifus, it kinda helped me to feel less sad, the problem is that my adiction with p0rn increased. So now I have this adiction plus the sadness of the person that I love not existing...
@PSIwolf39
@PSIwolf39 3 дня назад
Step one of quitting any addiction is admitting there's a problem.
@tiyorakaiz3059
@tiyorakaiz3059 2 дня назад
This video is very relate to me, and If I have to speak boldly and honetly, I still find struggle for help because of I keep it secret to everyone around me and I don't know who to seek and where to find the help that I need.
@ZeroCGR2
@ZeroCGR2 3 дня назад
I can relate, sadly very much. Getting rid of this addiction is so difficult
@JariahxSynn
@JariahxSynn 3 дня назад
As an introvert im kinda hosed anyway. I want people connection but im so conditioned to being alone uts painful to try.
@AdpaticleFlaw
@AdpaticleFlaw 3 дня назад
Help 👍
@ChrisHops22
@ChrisHops22 21 час назад
I've never seen a video that I would relate so much to and would describe my situation so precisely. It is spot on, especially the bits about not feeling worthy of love or able to form a relationship. For a long time I didn't know what caused those feelings but now I do and it turns out that almost all of my mental and social problems are caused by porn consumption. The funny thing is that I was well aware that the periods my mental health was in the toilet coincided exactly with the periods of porn consumption but I was living in denial and didn't want to admit it. I had one of these periods just recently and I was majorly depressed. Then I didn't watch any porn for two days and now I'm good as new, happy and super motivated. It's time I stop lying to myself and stop listening to those defending porn and saying that it's no so bad or even beneficial for you. Thank you, Psych2Go. You have no idea how much you helped me with this video.
@tot.tot.tot.
@tot.tot.tot. 3 дня назад
Your soft voice is sometimes the only thing that heals me.
@emo6irlfriend
@emo6irlfriend 2 дня назад
i had a partner who was addicted to porn . he told me he never watched it &’ that it disgusted him . i always went to sleep before him so i never really cared if he was up late on the game . until one night i heard moaning coming from his phone . i woke up and was shocked at first and confused and wondered if i was just dreaming or if it was real, but it was in fact real . the next morning i had confronted him about it and he simply said ‘ it’s not like i was cheating on you or anything ‘ and that made me question if he was right or not. he then proceeded to say that he ‘ thought of me ‘ while doing it , that he only watched ‘ a certain kind ‘ so it wasn’t like it was other women and it still made me uncomfortable because it wasn’t me. he made me feel so terrible regarding i already have problems w/ my body and self image so for him to not only lie but somewhat compare me to them in a way .i fear that a lot of people now just talk to me because i resemble someone they might have fantasized about, or that they’ve compared me to one of them.
@xxcelr8rs
@xxcelr8rs 2 дня назад
They all watch porn, the doctor, the lawyer the Indian chief. Everyone has body issues. Don't feel terrible, He has shame issues and doesn't trust you either. You are not on same page. It is sort of cheating, you are not the only women in the world Do you enjoy dolling up for him? Or do you shame him if he wants you in a sexy outfit? Be his star. Do you really want intimacy?
@justinestes6400
@justinestes6400 3 дня назад
This is one of the best videos I've seen on the subject. The characters do not indicate gender and they actually used the "M" word... masturbation. I would recommend this video to anyone who wants to end their dependence on pornography or hopes to begin a dialogue with someone they care about. Well done!!
@Kajpaje
@Kajpaje 3 дня назад
Thanks, really helpful.
@Th3-WhOwOl3y-TrEeNiT3a
@Th3-WhOwOl3y-TrEeNiT3a 3 дня назад
i think for many, it's not p0rn thats the problem but rather it's the lonelyness that they can't ( or they feel like they cant) do anything about. so, some just drown themselves in their pleasure untill they can't feel anything and others try to take the path of chastity (no fap), as far as possible to erase that desire altogether.
@E4439Qv5
@E4439Qv5 3 дня назад
...fasting helps, but loneliness doesn't go away unless you invite people in. And, strangely enough? Most aren't worth befriending. All too busy or self-absorbed. Even my own _parents_ are like this, and they didn't use to be.
@dullbananas9901
@dullbananas9901 3 дня назад
The more I live without porn and masturbation, the more terrified I become of wisepread use
@E4439Qv5
@E4439Qv5 3 дня назад
The silent drive killer.
@Shawntheguy333
@Shawntheguy333 3 дня назад
Thank you, this makes sense.
@davidwanc11
@davidwanc11 3 дня назад
In my case, my lack of social interaction stems from years of being used and unappreciated by others. Being around others literally makes me want to blow my brains out. So I use off-brand to help get my pent-up frustration & aggression out so I don't act up in public. It's not the healthiest of coping mechanisms but I make do with what I've been dealt with.
@michaelkaiser1758
@michaelkaiser1758 3 дня назад
What dating life? But about the video : The most useful advice someone told me “if dani devito got pu$$¥ while not being famous I think you also can” 😅 this really made me think of my insecurities as not important and started to look about my outlook in life and to start quitting my bad habits like porn or drinking I don’t know if this is useful to someone else but it was for me.
@anthonywalker6268
@anthonywalker6268 3 дня назад
See I don't have this problem, because all I get are scams.
@zuzzori
@zuzzori 3 дня назад
As a person with zero dating life, this was extremely useful
@Trivator-mi8hx
@Trivator-mi8hx 3 дня назад
I'm still working on quitting my addiction and balancing my life out
@werty9288
@werty9288 3 дня назад
im cooked😭😭😭😭😭
@nonhlanhlazondo2726
@nonhlanhlazondo2726 3 дня назад
Same☠️☠️☠️☠️
@thenerdyknight1559
@thenerdyknight1559 3 дня назад
F
@shadow92105
@shadow92105 3 дня назад
Me as well
@CruzingAroundTheBlock
@CruzingAroundTheBlock 3 дня назад
Is that Yuri in the thumbnail??
@jacobduke360
@jacobduke360 3 дня назад
From stranger things?
@CruzingAroundTheBlock
@CruzingAroundTheBlock 3 дня назад
@@jacobduke360 From Doki Doki Literature Club.
@NatisiMaker
@NatisiMaker День назад
Watching this only truly made me realise on how this has affected me. Although I have known I have always tried to control the urge but always go back to it eventually. The longest I have lasted is a week now which I am not proud of myself although it is an improvement of how long before I can last
@drakkon2zshadowsz909
@drakkon2zshadowsz909 12 часов назад
Me at 3am, with no porn addiction and no dating life: "Damn I should watch this"
@SPEAKERFORLIFE
@SPEAKERFORLIFE 3 дня назад
Gen z,watch this
@JAPANESE_MAPLE
@JAPANESE_MAPLE 3 дня назад
First (second(wait no there’s 7 other people claiming that there first never mind )
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 дня назад
Thanks for being here early! ;D
@JAPANESE_MAPLE
@JAPANESE_MAPLE 3 дня назад
@@Psych2go thank you so much for replying ,one of my favourite and helpful channels
@-_-STARSLover
@-_-STARSLover 2 дня назад
Thank you this was help full
@A55a551n
@A55a551n 3 дня назад
Timestamps 1). Unrealistic fantasies 1:14 2). Sexual shame 1:49 3). Fear of being stigmatized 2:54 4). How do you address the topic of porn addiction 3:06 5). Exacerbates negative body image issues 3:42 6). Lack of motivation 4:57 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
@Kilvieo
@Kilvieo 3 дня назад
I've never watched porn, but whenever I watch something with two people overcoming challenges that make their relationship stronger, I become envious with even realizing. Whether it's a show, movie, or real life, watching couples, either both are fighting challenges, or one is facing a challenge and the other stays by their side and helps however they can, even if it's just simple support, makes my really good and happy. But afterwards, those feelings fade and I end up feeling depressed. Sometimes I feel like I'll never find a special someone who will make me that happy. I'm pretty much happy without feeling the need to be in a romantic relationship. But whenever I watch deep emotional bonds grow, I end up feeling much worse than if I didn't watch them. After that, I take a break for several days at a time, because it starts to become a reminder of something I'll never experience outside of being a third-party viewer. But I always go back to it, because of how wonderful it feels, and so the cycle continues.
@Asteriaismypookie
@Asteriaismypookie 3 дня назад
hi
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 дня назад
Hi!! :D
@Asteriaismypookie
@Asteriaismypookie 3 дня назад
@@Psych2go Ty for replying
@djkhaledaltaccount6500
@djkhaledaltaccount6500 3 дня назад
YOUR ENTIRE VIDEO IS BASED ON THE PRESUMPTION THAT I FEEL ANYTHING TO BEGIN WITH
@kentucky_ken
@kentucky_ken 3 дня назад
A war that is too hard to overcome. 😔
@ANotSoPopularMan
@ANotSoPopularMan 3 дня назад
I'm being called out in this video and I don't fucking like it...
@a.reskii184
@a.reskii184 3 дня назад
I mean... It probably contributed to the destruction of the one shot I had online. Sexually pleasing a partner seems impossible at this point in time.
@justinestes6400
@justinestes6400 3 дня назад
The blessing will be outside your comfort zone!!
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