For once I'd have to disagree with you on this. Guys should never pursue any lady who rejects them. Women are almost always ready for guys they like. If she comes back to give you a chance, it's likely it didn't work with someone else.
You admitted that women almost always… but that’s not true either. Moreover, you made another false assumption that if a woman comes back it’s because it didn’t work with someone else. The only girls a wise mature man would reject is a divorced woman or a woman who goes against what God teaches.
@@betiles1 She might also find the devil himself, what's your point? She made her decision which is fine.However, no man (or woman) should feel depressed over being rejected. He's equally important and as tough as it is to get over her, he should go about his life focusing on other important things and not trying to win over a woman who rejected him. Forcing to be with someone most likely won't end well for the guy in this case
If a woman feels that over time her partner has grown weaker, she will begin to look for another specimen to fit her needs, this happens when she's still together with their current mate. This is why women have no remorse when it’s time for her to dump her guy. She’s looking out for her own survival. She doesn’t care about how he feels or if he cries himself endlessly to sleep. Her wants, needs, and survival matter more than his. DO NOT Chase after Women who don't value your efforts.
That’s not always the case. Because I tried it your way and indeed what found me, wasn’t for me. I decided not to settle and instead dumped that ex suitor and waited for over a decade to heal and focus on God. God eventually lead me to another who is worthy of my time and we’re now married. I never went back, and even if I was single or a widow, I still never would go back. I’d remain only my husband’s widow. My response to all others - Noli me tangere for my only husband’s I am and for to hold and I reject all others for the rest of my life and I’m happy with that. God bless and find someone else! It’s what I did. :)
I am just one of those few guys who do not fear rejection, and that has worked wonders for me. In fact one thing i have learnt about women is that, if they reject you, back off. Do not say any negative things. Next time you find yourself in their space, never mention that previous conversation again. In fact, treat them as if you never said anything about love. And guess what, they will be the one who go back there. They are going to accuse you of not being serious about them, and that is when you strike again. WOMEN HATE IT WHEN THEY THINK THEY ARE BEING IGNORED.
That’s not always the case. Because I tried it your way and indeed what found me, wasn’t for me. I decided not to settle and instead dumped that ex suitor and waited for over a decade to heal and focus on God. God eventually lead me to another who is worthy of my time and we’re now married. I never went back, and even if I was single or a widow, I still never would go back. I’d remain only my husband’s widow. My response to all others - Noli me tangere for my only husband’s I am and for to hold and I reject all others for the rest of my life and I’m happy with that. God bless and find someone else! It’s what I did. :)
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf.............
That is not always the case. Not all women go back to the ex suitors or ex husbands they rejected. Some actually find peace and happiness with God and let’s be honest - God is the best.
Oooooh, Jessica! I tried it your way, and it’s a good way, but my best lesson learned is to walk away. No games. No pleading. Let it go. Cause, I believe what’s for you will find you. Hard to do, but sometimes necessary! ❤️
That’s not always the case. Because I tried it your way and indeed what found me, wasn’t for me. I decided not to settle and instead dumped that ex suitor and waited for over a decade to heal and focus on God. God eventually lead me to another who is worthy of my time and we’re now married. I never went back, and even if I was single or a widow, I still never would go back. I’d remain only my husband’s widow. My response to all others - Noli me tangere for my only husband’s I am and for to hold and I reject all others for the rest of my life and I’m happy with that. God bless and find someone else! It’s what I did. :)
Most of the best love experiences never came from rushing things. The phase patience is virtue is real. Going through this right now. Video is spot on!
Don't ever, ever do it, she will never respect you, don't waste your time. Don't buy into that playing hard to get nonsense, move on with your life. Spend your precious time and energy on someone else who , shows interest in you.
You can't. If she rejects you, she doesn't value you. So the best thing to do is focus on your career/purpose. Besides, no means no and you can't force someone to like you.
Why would I want someone back who rejected me, it’s not my lose, it’s there lost, forward ever backwards never. Rejection is protection. When someone rejects you it’s the universe telling you to leave that person alone.
Pretty Jessica's job is to speak life and hope into us, it's left for you and I to have faith and take actions. Lotta dynamism in this video though. Personally, I appreciate the hard work invested in giving us the best experience.
But Jessica once a girl dumped you for no reason I don’t think you should go back or try to find answers for your rejection. Once she left you there is someone who is willing to take you as you are. In general if a girl tells a guy we are not (compatible) try to leave immediately.
she dumped me recently, was hurt emotionally, tried to chase but in vain, sooner accepted d rejection, worked on maself, improved my work, completed my house construction...currently there 2 women chasing for me for marriage...am even confused whom to choose. moral. dont chase a woman.
Lots of guys say move on find someone better but this woman might be the something better. The woman that rejected me is actually pretty wonderful and has a lot of great qualities I would want and I think I have qualities she wants. We have the sigma male/female dynamic going. I didn't realize all this when we first met and she rejected me. But we stayed in touch and I've learned more about her. I hope one day we'll be in a relationship whenever I get the courage to ask her out without being rejected again.
Wow, today your work is extral ordinary. I love the way you inserted chapters in your description to help your viewers to quickly and easily visit points they missed. Keep up with the good work. Today lemme confess that you are the only female youtuber who has caught my attention to be watching your post regularly.
@@JessicaOS i have dating a lady for one mornth but she turn arrund an said that she want us to be just a friend but i love her so much . what will i do to get her back
Love is patient. So if whatever you feel is real, take your chances and wait it out until whatever you feel begins to fade. And if you want to give it another shot because you messed up the first, go ahead only if her reason for saying NO has nothing to do with not feeling attracted to you.
Wait and have another man's leftover 😁😄😃😀. Guys! You need to go red pill. When a woman leaves you, it's the universe telling you, she is not for you. The next girl you meet will be better than her because yo will use her as a benchmark for any other future girl
@@mademenchronicles2335You omit the truth - he doesn’t have to be with another woman or girl. The same goes for women. Plenty of committed and, contrary to popular false presumptions, happy single people are a testament to show that you don’t have to have any romantic relationship and yet still lead a compassionate, caring, and fulfilling life. God aka The Bible demonstrates that more than once. In fact, happy committed single people are to be commended for having such self control and awareness of themselves. But as Christ said, not all can accept singleness.
Bruh!! This lady right here is the truth waouuh! Thank you so much for these advices. I am currently going through this harsh time right now but this video answered all the questions I been asking myself and reminded me the mistakes I’ve made when telling her about my feelings. Thanks a lot for this video and I’m definitely going to follow these steps
Lol Men are the prize let's focus on ourselves, if she truly loves you or care she'll do everything just to get your attention and be around you. she'll not play hard to get
Wow since I started listen to you, I have become very very smart gentleman. Proud of you and we love you from the bottom of the inner circle of our heart.
I thank God I subscribed to your channel and for a long time I have not calm down to listen to you,but what dragged me back today is miracle and I have learnt alot
Love the advice.. But people also need to remember that every journey isn't a straight line. Sometimes it's a complete circle. After 10 years I think we have an opportunity to complete the journey we started almost 19 years ago... I wasn't true to myself and allowed other people to influence how at times I treated my lady. I would do things for her from the heart and so called friends would say negative things about it. Whatever and whenever you feel like doing for your lady or for your man , do it. I regret not showing her how important she was to me. I'm never making that mistake again even if it doesn't work out. I'm going to go out being the man to her that I always wanted to be.... Hell or high water.
And also if you are a guy and your woman broke up with you, it doesn't really means it's all over. Maybe you both needed that separation to help you work on yourselves like Jessica said. I had a similar instance with my girl, I couldn't contend with her behaviour so I let go off her. But after 2 and half months I realised I really needed her back in my life, so I started everything afresh. I started a friendship with her for like two weeks and then after, I genuinely confessed my love to her again. Now I treat her like we never had a past and things are really working out perfectly between us. And a big thanks to Jessica for this project of saving and restoring relationships. I truly admire you, how I wish you were in my 20s 😄 🤣 😂.......
i had a relationship in 2mornths later she told me that she lost feeling of love with me that she want us to be just a friend. am confuse i really love her not for friend jessica what will i do please ??
Am feeling the pain right now like I did all I could but she went to someone else because I couldn't give her the support she needed,I don't know but I love her a lot I need her back.
Choose yourself first fellas. Be with a woman wants, celebrates you, and knows your worth. Don’t pursue females who reject you and can’t see your worth upfront.
I stand corrected here, but the thing here is, If she rejects you or leaves you, to maintain your frame as man DON"T EVER GO BACK! Just next her and wish her well. Let her watch you from a distance. thank you.
Blessed afternoon to you big sister ❤️ Thanks so much for all these steps and I'm ever thankful for your teachings to make an exceptional guy 🙏. God bless you ❤️
Well said and observed. I strongly agree to last point ( Patience) It works in all matters of life. It's easy to preach but practicing the same is way to difficult.
Never accept your ex as friend who broke up with you suddenly, if you truly love her then give her minimum 6 months of non contact before you start again.. Thanks for this masterpiece Jessica’s!
We ignored each other almost 1 year in public, only starring at each other :/ I know I couldve act better and say at least hi but it hurt too much. Idk if theres still hope
This doesn’t always work. I speak from experience rejecting guys who were not worthy and unlike most, I keep my word and never went back - even years later down the line.
10 years on and off....she never treated me well I was too blind to see it...I believe in forgiving people she came back was exactly the same so I dumped her and it was the best thing I ever did in my life...one time is all you need to see the truth
I work in sales, rejection is my middle name. Just gotta get comfortable with it. You shot your shot, and that’s all that matters. Just be confident that you managed to attract a great woman in the first place and as with all things in sales, work on that pipeline! It never stops. Your train stops for nobody.
Don't try to win her back, or get her attention, get her back by becoming very successful with a sexy AZZ new woman on your arms. It will teach her not to reject another man ever again or place him in the friend zone. She is not the only woman in the world. God blessed men with variety of women all over the world to choose from.
hey guys so there's this girl i knew for 4 years at school.......baam,she transferred in our last two classes to another state.....a year later i got the chance to confess to her.....but then......she told me that she already accepted someone else bacause i once "said"(which i can't remember)that i was in love..........makes me wonder,is this what i want......no. Now is my chance to make her come begging to me........final year of high school,so I'm going to push hard to pass all my major exams. wish me luck.
4years in a relationship with my girl later on she got pregnant she rejected me NO INTEREST in me ,she was a world to me i cried ....... till now can't STOP thinking about her. I always pray for her everyday i wake up. I have faith and hop someday GOD will restore me marriage/relationship . It really hurt when someone you really loves a lot walk out on you.
This is definitely not the best advice for men.If a girl rejected you she clearly doesn't like you and she has someone else in mind . Don't take it personally ,as a guy walk away and don't deny your self the chance to meet a woman who actually like you.
What's the use in a man continuing pursuing a woman who rejected him? What's in a woman that's so special that she could cause a man to think his brains out, trying to figure out how to win her love?
