8 Style Lessons Everyone should learn in 2023 

In 2022 I decided to really get serious about taking care of myself - skin, clothing, etc. So, I did some research and figured out what style I was, what colour season, etc. I then went to my wardrobe and got rid of everything that I hated wearing, found uncomfortable, or was waiting to fit into. I then wrote down everything I had left. I filled in that list with essentials that were missing and items that would help me get my style (sort of a cross between kibbe and a capsule wardrobe). I then went out and bought skin care, makeup (who knew these things changed when you turned 50 lol) and the missing items on my list. Living intentionally has decreased my need to shop and increased my satisfaction with my lifestyle. I never think "I have nothing to wear" and I always feel good about how I present myself to the bigger world. Frankly, I feel pretty great!! Thank you for all the advice and thank you for your videos over the past year. They were a great help. I hope you had a joyous Christmas and will have a wonderful New Year!!!

Do not be afraid to walk out of a store empty handed. Just means that you did not find that item which wowed you. Not all items are meant for everyone. Save your money for the next time.

Very thought-provoking video! I would add: read your environment. I used to have a bohemian wardrobe: mixed prints, strong colors, lots of volume, and I lived in heels. I felt like a creative butterfly, lol! Then I moved to where that kind of dressing put me in "clueless crazy lady" category. So, I evolved my style: less volume, less bohemian but a little more nomad, a lot more solids; I toned down the color, I embraced the 1-inch heels. I still look creative, but more in line with my surroundings. What looks good in one city will get you side-eye in another.

Love this! One thing you touched on that is SUPER important. The best quality A PERSON CAN AFFORD is key. I have found that even midrange priced items work for me when I take good care of them. If I spend what I consider “too much” for an item, I’ll hang it in my closet and save it. (For what, I don’t know.) It NEVER gets the wear I paid for!

"You are the star and your clothes are the backup dancer" - Excellent way to put it! When I'm trying on new clothes (I have the new habit of always photographing myself in them before cutting tags) one of the things I'm looking at is: Do I notice ME or do I notice the Clothes? I would add that knowing your body type is immensely helpful in trying to figure out what will look good on you/flatter you.

1. Learn what labels are quality 2. Thoughtfully shop thrift stores / consignment for those labels. 3. Keep a list of what you have or a photo grouping, and make a list of what you are missing.❤

So true about the friends....learned that the hard way. Learning to love myself, sounds cliché but is THE only lesson we could ever learn that will bring all of this together. Ex, when you love yourself, you move your body, you feed it as healthy as possible and you invest in a few good pieces that bring you joy. Took me 65 years to learn that! Great video, thank you.

Definitely develop a personal style. Look at books, shows, movies for inspiration. Stop chasing every last trend. Try things on. Make sure you can wear the new pieces with other pieces in your wardrobe. Wear things that fit you, your lifestyle and your budget.

I am all about the capsule wardrobe as I have limited space, and I love clothes and dressing in a particular way for how I feel that day. This leads me to spend all day putting on this or that. So...my go to is a capsule that interchanges with the same or similar items. You can get dressed in 5 minutes...😊

Omggggg THE black sweater!!! I don’t know what it is exactly, because you’re always lovely, but you look so simply, supremely beautiful in that sweater!

Great video!! Happy New Year!! Style lesson’s I’ve learned at 60 years is 1) be comfy 2)dont follow Instagrammers telling you what to wear, 3) dress age appropriate 4) dont buy so much 5) enjoy your life, Happy NewYear🎉and Peace be with you

The lesson that spoke to me most was the "you haven't spent enough time trying things together" "I have nothing to wear". The scary area in my closet is the "dressed up for dinner out" and parties and this past season, really tried my patience!! I realized I don't even have any dress trousers that fit me! My daily life is casual outdoors with plenty of jeans, boots, amazing coats and jackets. I even get compliments on how "put together " I look. Then comes the winter evening out wardrobe and Im an insecure mess. Far too many statement tops with nothing to pair with and everything is uncomfortable or has some annoying quirk that constantly needs attention through the night. Statement top/ black bottom is becoming a curse and doesn't work anymore. random cool tops and black anything bottoms that I think might go together, usually don't. My new years resolution is spend some time, clean out my closet, and put together a winter evening out capsule wardrobe so at any given moment i can have great outfits ready to go and not be panicking about it!!

not only when you model but also the pictures you pull from the internet of other women are sooo helpful and inspiring! You've really changed the way i dress and see style from watching you all this year. love your channel!

So much sound advice in this video. It really does take time to reinvent your wardrobe. It is so worth the time and effort to find just the right pieces. Then, when you are dressing for the day, everything is so simple to match up because your purchases have been well thought out.

I’m 5’1” and enjoy being short 😊 I can’t think of anytime I’ve ever wanted to lengthen my legs in any outfit.

Happy Holidays! I have a lot of thoughts on this video (love it btw). I think you hit the nail on the head with the fact that we're confused about personal style, fashion, over- consumerism, low quality products, etc. This is really (IMO) where it begins. Human beings are very impressionable, we are so easily swayed by trends & what we erroneously think others expect of us. Once you know your personal style, this is often not the case. Figure out your personal style, your own budget, and what your values are around consumerism and this will get so much easier! 💙

Merry Christmas! You are so like me and my evolution in fashion. I have also learned the same lessons. My problem now is that I am semi-retired and have two closets full of beautiful clothes that I wore everyday at the office. My lifestyle has changed and I don’t dress like that any longer, but am having a hard time letting go! Sounds ridiculous, but I spent quite a bit of time and money accumulating quality pieces that are now just taking up space. I keep thinking …..but what if I go back to work one day? Ain’t gonna happen….not in that way….so what the heck is my problem? Ugh! I’ve donated a lot already, but my style has changed as well. I have to retrain my brain and just say goodbye to my former life and buy/keep only what works NOW!

I decided at almost 69 (don't look it, 5'7", 130 lbs) to revamp my wardrobe by buying new things over a few months. I prefer the classic look, but can be funky too (my 20-something sons get embarrassed lol) and I 'just happened' to come across your videos. What a hoot, you're hilarious as well as having great ideas 😎. Can't wear heels though 😶. Blessings from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦🎉

I think developing personal style is critical to putting together a wardrobe that you love. Knowing your particular aesthetic can help you save a lot of money! Just because a particular fabrication/pattern/color looks good on someone else, doesn’t mean it will work for you! I get annoyed by influencers who constantly promote colors like black, when (unless you have the coloring or makeup to balance it) black can totally wash out and age us as we get older. Knowing your color palette can make all the difference!

Thank you Anna for your knowledge, style, and teaching approach. So human and personable! I’ve been going through a transition the past couple of years (widowed at 56, body changes) and naturally style changes as I find my “new normal”. I am enjoying all your videos and your sense of humour is great! 😂❤

Who sells quality clothing anymore? I’d love some suggestions because all I see around me are fast fashion stores. I’m constantly repurchasing every season because the clothes don’t last. It’s so wasteful. I’d love a video on quality clothing retailers.

Clothes are so personal, when you said emotional clutter the light bulb went off. Thankyou ❤😊

Anna, I've been watching some makeup videos. They use a eyelid primer. You use your concealer. I've been doing that! Thanks for the idea. I'm currently using wetnwild megalast INCOGNITO all-day full-coverage concealer. My first concealer. And I like it. It was recommended by a makeup artist. I'm just starting to experiment with makeup. One good thing about it. Makeup doesn't take up as much room as clothes do. I'm kinda running out of room.💄

Your advise is always very thoughtful. I love the way you present ideas and your personality. I would also like to suggest the best way to build a kicking wardrobe is to buy quality basics at the rate you can. Cheap looks cheap. I buy the good trousers and coats first then add good quality fashion items. I never buy from Old Navy, or Zara, they exploit children in underdeveloped countries which I will not support I don't care what they show!

I love what you just said. Everyone has an opinion but the only opinion that matters is your own!

I found this helpful....unexpectedly deep for a fashion channel. Well done!🎉

I learned so much from you today!! Even though I’m 71, I still struggle with trendy vs long-lasting fashion. Thank you for all the tips!!

I loveeee this video. Once I started wearing what I made me feel comfortable and what I thought looked good on me, my confidence in social situations and just overall increased. I was dressing for other people and thinking "what will they say if I wore this? or I wonder if _________ would like this....". That mindset caused me to waste alot of money and be super awkward in social situations. I longer care what other people think as it pertains to my clothing. I will NOT leave the house until I AM satisfied with my outfit.

Merry Christmas to you all

Merry Christmas Anna! This is a really smart video to post as we enter 2023. I made some major changes to my life this year and I no longer work in corporate america. I do still work but now in a home improvement center. Both good jobs and I really like my current role, however... My wardrobe needs have totally changed and I now have to figure out what I need for work vs. the business casual looks I used to wear.For example, I realize that I need to purchase a good pair of work boots instead of my riding boots or other tall boots. I am now starting to make new lists and reassess my closet. I will need to do a closet clean out this spring too! Thanks!

So I’m going outside my comfort zone this year ( maybe). I picked up so hot pink / fuchsia items. I’ve always worn dark colors but I fell in love with these bright colors. Zap! Gonna try it!

Love your new more relaxed and fun personality on RU-vid! Not so serious and much more engaging! 😊 Also love your outfit tips!

I had to buy a whole new summer wardrobe this year due to menopause & our burning hot summer..linen modal & bamboo but the pieces can all be mixed & matched & good quality...if it doesn't fit when i first try it on or I don't feel happy when I first see the clothes I walk away ❤❤❤❤

Very Merry Christmas. It takes time to find your best style. A really good full length mirror that shows the complete look including shoes helps. Quality counts! You are very entertaining as always.

Great Advice! Especially about taking your time and quality items. I carefully and selectively shop clearance for quality pieces that I love and will use for years to come!

I think it adds a lot wearing a belt when the slacks/jeans have belt loops and the waist area shows.

Merry Christmas Anna! Love your channel = i learn so much and you have helped me get my style (even at 68 yrs old!)

Merry Christmas! Enjoy your family time together! XXOO ❤️

Merry Christmas! Thank you for your videos. I'm a relatively recent subscriber and find your tips very helpful!

Thank you for this very informative video. I missed your funny remarks! But I totally agree with you on everything you mentioned. I loved that you didn’t tell us to throw everything out. C’mon that is NOT where to start. FIRST Make a board or several - to figure out what you like and looks good. Then tackle the closet. Making a list is a great idea. LOVE your videos

Girl I love a button down. So true! I had no idea I loved them until I found the right one!

Thank you for such great advice. I’m taking my time in buying quality classic clothes, but also thank you for stating that some good quality polyester clothes are still good to have. I love some of my pieces and I will keep them forever.

Only thing I have a problem with(maybe you can help me process this) is that is harder to get rid of quality items, and I'm afraid I will be even worse off a clothing hoarder than I already am!! Thank you for your fun and windsurfing personality, your tips, and I will try and use your sponsors more in the new year. Happy new year crim a fellow Floridian fashion lover!

Love this Anna, good practical advice without snark. Merry Christmas. I would like to add, that women agonize over sizes. Don't! You may be a size 4 in one brand and a size 8 in another. Try stuff on and no stressin on the size.

Getting life and fashion lessons! 😂 Thanks, sister!

quality over quantity and only one opinion matters. pure platinum...not just gold. platinum, girl.

Your illustrations always crack me up. I love your videos and your sense of humour.

Good video! Now I know why I don't wear crew neck tops! I just got this cute sweater yesterday and when I tried it on I thought, 'I don't know if I'll keep this!'now I know why! I do prefer round neck or v neck tops!

You are FANTASTIC. Reality vs Pretense…oh and freakin funny! Thank you.

I appreciate your advice! I would also like to advice that rounded jewelry, like the chain you wear, match with rounder lines on the shirt, while v neck would match better with pendants that follow this triangular V-neck line.

Love the Britney K-Fed analogy 🤣🤣

Merry Christmas Anna! Love your channel! Thank you dor creating wonderful content!

Yep

You need time to figure out your style - SO true! AND: as now a new era in fashion is really beginning, actually I need to REthink my style within this new environment!

Merry Christmas, Anna! Thank you for your amazing channel and all the content - so happy to have discovered you this year! ❤🎉

Love your videos Anna. I've been trying to get a clear sense of my own style for past year or so (wish I'd started sooner) but I'm realising that we're never actually done. We keep evolving!

What a great video. You made so many wonderful points and suggestions. I’ve been watching fashion videos for a while now but I really connected with your message in this one. Thanks. Happy Holidays! 🎉

I did that. Just went shopping all out.

Great tips! Happy Holidays 🎄🎁🌲

You give really good advise. I wish I would have had a basic wardrobe years ago!

Ah, those .. "I'll fit into it later" items .. I've finally donated and you know, I feel better for it !! :-)

You have a great personality! I appreciate the down to earth thinking about style. Thank you. 😊

Thanks! My style has been helped by the counterintuitive piece of advice that a v neck is better for large chests. I'm not trying to minimize nor maximize my chest, just trying to wear clothes that fit my body shape (between hour glass and upside down triangle).

Very pretty,clearly and interesting speaking blogger. Thank you for really precious tips.🙏

Merry Christmas Anna! A perfectly timed video as we're staring down 2023! I'm excited about the new year and making wise clothes shopping decisions. This was helpful! I find it best to NOT be impulsive, check the stores' return policy and don't cut the tags off right away just in case you change your mind. Happy New Year!!

Awesome and you are so sweet. Thanks 🙏

Happy Christmas for you and your family...thanks for a lovely and fun year...oh doggy too still smiling at the antic.

Anna please share the split hem jeans you wear in this video. Thank you

Cute you taking the time out during the season to cover the lessons for pulling together looks for 2023. Thought you would be providing countdowns of your favorite looks for 2022. Love hearing young one in the background giving cheer for Christmas time. Thanks for sharing and blessings to you and all in the days to come. Hope you are enjoying the holidays and are looking forward to the coming of the new year.

I love this video. Side note the red silk shirt looks so beautiful on you!

VERY GOOD ADVISES ONE, THANK YOU AND HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR

Please please: where'd you get that beyond gorgeous big green sweater. I love green and have seen that before. I really would love to wear it ALL the time.

Merry Christmas Anna ! Love this video… Marion from The Netherlands.

Superb tips! Thank you so much! So into quality over quantity! I wear more and feel so much better in quality pieces

You’ve become my favorite stylist. Such great informative and common sense information! Keep it up!

Um 600 times doesn’t even seem to be enough! Fab advice…again!

I'm not so opposed to the sheerish blouses. If I love the style and think it looks good on me, I throw a cami underneath. I believe I can make some"cheap" pieces look like a million bucks once put together, and get many compliments.

I love ur advice and I feel the exactly the same as you!! Keep giving me tips ideas whatever u think of. I would love a household ideas or show ur place a bit more!! Looks lovely!!

It’s easy to wear all dark colors like grey and black, but if you’re a pedestrian you must have a pop of color or a flashlight or you’re dead.

Merry Christmas! 🎄It’s funny how I know all of these things and choose to ignore some just because I want to follow a style. But I am working on it and getting a lot better. 😂😘

Your haircut is fab

So helpful! I just watched this twice!

Thank you 💙

Hi Anna. You actually have some good fashion sense advice. I am glad I subscribed.

thank you

You make so much sense I love listening to you thank you 😊

thank you for the encouragement and excellent and well thought out advice.

In my mind fashion is constantly moving and shifting vs personal style will grow and change as you get older. Therefore find what fits you and what you enjoy wearing. Have a tailor or become a tailor so that your clothes are customized to you. I loathe neutrals like black, tan, and white while I’ll wear navy blue, brown, and multiple colors and patterns. If I like it I’ll wear it. Free spirit creator and writer.

Great tips

This video was very helpful to me, the light bulb 💡 came on. !!! Thanks for sharing 👍🏽 and have a 🎊Happy New Year 🎉

So agree with quality over quantity

Great advice! Thank you for giving me ideas! 🙂

Dear Anna, your videos are always helpful and you are such a nice and sympathic person - thank you so much 😘. I wish you and your family wonderful days an a good start for 2023. Greetings from Switzerland 🇨🇭😘

You are spot on! I love your one friend story. funny!

What do you think about high waist jeans for a small women 5 feet 2 ?

I love these tip reminders. Happy New Year ❤

Hi Anna, Great Video as always, love a refresh of style ideas coming into the new year! Hope you and your family had a great Christmas, you look absolutely beautiful as always, your inner light shines bright! 💕Dee

Thank you! Iam very glad I found your channel

Great job

Great style lessons Anna!! I hope you and your family had a Wonderful Christmas!! And Happy New Year 2023!!!🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳✌🏾