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A person who has decided to cheat will find a way to cheat. U can't police ur partner 24/7. If u have reasons to doubt ur partner's faithfulness, talk about it with them. When u feel u can't trust them, leave the relationship. Trust is key in a relationship.
Trust seems to be everything and why lie about these connections and what you are doing with these people?! I'm supposed to believe she took a shower and did above and beyond soft stuff like that to a friend? Spending time away from me like I was just as toxic as Covid is. And then she had a moment that she gave her affection and attention to another person and I felt that when I started noticing the shit she put up the biggest wall ever labeled, "memory problems" or even "depression" to get me to subdue to her will which is to bow to her or even let her go. Oh yeah, I proposed to her and she said "your clearly not ready for a commitment, instead of saying she wasn't ready or that she was afraid, true enough, this came during (covid season) and at the beginning nonetheless. I just felt as if my questions led her to being with someone else. Too smart or nieve I guess.
also....depend on her coworkers....what you dont know if she has "interest" in someone at work. Im about to get ready for work and will see IF she parks her car in front....OR she is again, parked parallel NEXT to her caucasian coworker.....she does this quite often. (btw...she is asian). the walk to the entrance is way closer in front than where she parks next to the guy....
That is so true, I have gone thru a marriage and divorce cause of trust issue. Recently we got back together and again I almost going crazy due to certain things that made me so difficult in trusting her, so I decided to end it for my own shake. I don’t want to feel that way and take care of myself seek a different relationship.
I’ve been dealing with this kind of thing professionally for over 30 years. As always, Jess’s advice is spot on. But I think some of her points are indicative of the fact that it has already crossed the line and has become physical. Guys, pay serious attention to point number 1 regarding appearance. When she is going to be around this person she goes that “extra mile” with hair, makeup, clothing, perfume, etc. I liken it to getting ready for a first date. If you see this before she’s in the presence of this person, friend, you’ve got a problem on your hands. You best get on it! A word to the wise.
Don't know how you do it Jessica but you are good at what you do and this time around, you hit the nail on the head. Every single point raised from 1 to 9 has just made me replay the last 4 years of my former relationship. It's just like you studied my ex and decided to give a summary of your observations 👌. The most intriguing thing I noticed is how she would continue to lie to herself about what she was doing and thinking that this would make her actions pardonable. At some point, I started to think that I was the problem but I eventually realized it wasn't me but her.
I am totally feeling you there my brother had alot of experiences and Jessica was on point full hundred and because of those experiences I started to learn who I love or who I'm just into and I did this in a very discreet way.
Hi Jess could my girl b cheating if I can't reach her when she claims to be with her friends am confused bt I do want her to have fun, just that when I call she doesn't pick up.
You are so smart lady I've filled in alot of blanks that I have thought was happening with my old relationship and I was gaslighted so badly that I believed the nonsense that she told me. I'm still shaking the poison by saying thought. It's facts not thought
Cheating is cheating. Women are more emotionally connected. So if she emotionally connects to another guy or person, she has been gone from you for a while and it has little to do with the other guy. Basically, you have been relegated from "main dude" to "side dude" status. You have lost her and she might even start blaming you for not even trying to save your relationship even though she has already left you emotionally. Everything else in your relationship is likely her going through the motions. Chances are there have been signs you missed in the process. Just as much as you are not supposed to get too comfortable at work or your profession, the same is true with relationships. Once you stop working at it, something better always comes along replaces you. Nurture your garden.
Shiii. I been going through this a couple times already.... And I agree...u need to keep it 100 as to what the boundaries are.....if she still ain't listening then withdraw , move on ..... your withdrawal will suddenly make you look more attractive.... Cuz ultimately... Women want what they can't have
Good morning Jessica. My name is George from Jamaica just wanted to say thank you for educating me in so many ways please keep up the good work that you are doing. May God continue to bless you in every aspect of your life.
Really sister I wish you told me this 1 year ago coz before she finally went to the next level with another guy I was seeing all those signs but I think I was so deep in love to suspect her
I experienced this once, what you said here is true, painfully true. I had a relationship some time ago, and we used to hang out with her sister and her boyfriend. But things began to go wrong when ex began to show interest in her sister´s boyfriend . Every segment of your video seems to me like different stages of the end of that relationship. As I'm listening to you, those bad memories cone to my mind. One day she dumped me, but by the time she did that, I was fully aware of the situation. So, I leave and never looked back since then. For one year and a half, she had been trying to contact me but I decided to apply the no contact rule to her, in order to heal myself. Now my mind is clear, and I'm fine. Thanks for your good work, it's really helpful!
It really does trigger trauma response for anyone who’s been cheated on 😢.. it’s so painful. I don’t think anyone can get over the hurt that these POS cheats cause to their loved ones.
Jess, this is so spot on. This should be heard and heeded by anyone in any relationship including married. My x slipped into this continually for 20 plus years and eventually it led to divorce. Thank you so much. Many people dont ever want to admit this think about it or believe the subject is even real.
Pure Wisdom. She has never gone off point since I started paying attention. Unfortunately most ladies cheat easily today thanks to social media abuse. Guy get your body, finances and mind together. Money and womanising don't get along. Don't commit to any modern day woman, just focus on making money and a better life. Girls are additional benefits that come with this. Just keep 4 or 5 on a rotation later but don't ever make the mistake of committing to any. You are the prize because you bring way too much to the table
A lot of women are not friends with their husbands or boyfriends. Hence they start emotional affairs through tight friendship with the listening avaiable person.
That’s not a woman thing, it’s a people thing. The very reason I don’t like relationships moving passed the talking stage. Once the relationship changes to bf/gf the dynamics change. I’m no longer the friend and now I’m the gf and he’s talking to his female friend the way he used to talk to me and that’s where I’m out. I’d rather just be his friend.
Hello Jessica, my name is Ronaldo de Oliveira, Mozambican, it honor to be on RU-vid just seeing your contents, I feel blessed to hear you giving us advise .
It’s so crazy how my husband & I feel like we’re 1 of few that understand these principles in life as a unit & as individuals. It’s a rarity to find other ppl to have these conversations with especially with the ppl we know. Thanks to *BRIAN HACKS* for this powerful remote convo access. This will reach so many & we as ppl will become better. Thanks y’all!
Liked and subscribed. Listened to the entire video, I agree with a lot of the things you were saying but I can certainly admit that I sat here with a bubble in my stomach from start to finish.
SOLUTION: Challenge her emotional cheats by telling her how you feel about what you're observing and if she is DEFENSIVE and UNWILLING TO ADJUST FOR YOU; it's a big red flag 🚩! Walk away!
Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
Wish i had known about you way back 2002 to 2004 when i was studying in Regional Maritime University Accra Ghana. However, you're the next reason for my impromptu visit to Ghana just to see you. Remain focus.
100% Correct what she said all points exactly matching. my ex cheated me the same way. Now she wants to come back after dumped by other guy and I am not taking her back anymore. Guys Never ever date emotionally damaged women. They'll just ruin your life in a single day that you cant even imagine how it all happened. stay out of weaker emotionally damaged women.
With women you can never get it 100% but you need to have your own rules which she has to follow and have zero tolerance policy to bullshit behaviour, when she is at your place, she must never be on her phone, send her back if she does that.When you notice funny behaviour, just leave her, don't even ask her to explain, good thing you will still remain with God, never waste your time with someone who is not cooperative
I hv watched & listened to this video attentively i mst say it nearly threw me off my stance as i thot (with confidence) my knowledge along with experiences are on par with th other gender🤔... Im super gr8full for ths education, lookin forward to check out more of what u hv to offer. Jessica u are truly blessed to possess an in-depth knowledge&understanding abt matters of her heart & u willing to share with th rest of us God bless you🙏🙏🙏
As a survivor of 8:30 and 8:41 situations, I say you're a 100% correct on this one. And It doesn't stop there; coz they proceed to then make you think & feel insecure as a human. Lessons learnt though.
I've experienced all these signs with an ex-girlfriend but the real kicker was what she did to my business number. I went on vacation and I told her I don't want to hear a ring on my vacation. She asked if she could use my phone while I was gone to talk to a girlfriend of hers. I said yes, sure why not. Huge mistake on my part! She gave my number out to every one of her friends. When I came back from my vacation my business phone was ringing off the hook with her friends calling to talk to her. I'd be talking to clients, and it was her friends calling on the other line. I had to change to a new number and let her have my old number and left her never looking back.
My girlfriend recently shaved downstairs and I found that odd because she knows I don’t care and she’s communicated that she doesn’t like shaving, shortly after she started staying out late with coworkers and being difficult to communicate with or make plans with. We just signed a year long lease so I’m trapped regardless, as we say “living the dream”.
Found out she basically started a relationship with one of those coworkers and I’m trapped here, acting like it’s ok but secretly just waiting for the lease to run out so I can break things off.
Bother I’ll say she’s cheating trust me so keep an eye don’t say anything but one day confront her in a calm way and say you think something is off and your spirit tells you something is off , if she says nah your paranoid say ok no problem , let me have your phone so I can download a software to recover deleted text etc if she gives you that phone with no fight yes she’s got nothing to hide if she refuse and says your controlling and paranoid run my brother just run 😅good luck
Hi Jessica thank you so much for the insight you are sharing I've just bumped into your vidios and I want to confirm that I'm motivated and I've experienced some of the experiences you are sharing in most of your vidios. I've subscribed and I've decided to follow you and you are the best.
I have been texting this young girl for a couple of weeks. I have never text no one else like that. Once, we started 05:30 until 21:00! The thing is she has her boyfriend. When I met her she was leaving with him. Now, she's back home with her parents. She won't tell me what went down. Anyway, we would be meeting this weekend and to go the movies next door. Well, I don't expect anything romantic. However, women like that usually end up one place!
Africans are a different culture.. the vibe over there is just different... so for a woman who is emotionally cheating it means it was never meant to last.. it was not supposed to be ... u can't force someone to stay with u.. anytime u are dictating affection and love and comfort these three are supposed to be natural... if a woman values her man she will stay but if he lost value then means she will move on and u cant stop that... women are attracted to good values among other things... it also depends on her upbringing... so u cant force a woman to stay with her partner... it becomes toxic ... it's not healthy... let a woman go if she wants to...simple... .
I think you'll find that things Jessica is saying here are regrettably pretty universal behaviours - and not just specific to Africa. And guys we are also sometimes guilty of it (the only difference being that women - especially the pretty ones - get a lot of attention heaped on them all the time. The men have to be more actively engaged in emotionally cheating).
My GF did the 'lie of omission'. She was texting and calling her Ex every week for 2 months before I found out. She kept on repeating 'I told you he is a friend, what did you expect?'. I gave her the ultimatum; him or me.
@@JessicaOS wow, God Has really Gifted You with An Amazing Voice And Your programs here are very important too. I'm gonna tell my village people that you are one of my closest friends. 😄
They all reinforce my existing beliefs. They don't even know they're cheating. It's not easy to come across such a wise woman in this part of the world
Hi Jessica, I'm my name is Prince. I wanna say thanks for the education u are providing here, I wanna know what you think of a married couple. A wife behavior that raise a red flag of not wanting the relationship, but buying time. What are sign to watch for?
I’m a over thinker and I did the phone thing with her and she started to get protective of her phone she even changed her password which we had an open password thing for the both of us to know our password even though we won’t take the other phone without permission but she started acting funny and keeping secrets and I eventually found out and got the truth out of her right we share a daughter together and I’m telling you trusting her like I used to before is very difficult ,what you guys think
Lately my girlfriend started hangout with so called coworkers more often and odd hours. She hardly answer calls when she is with them and she will give excuses that the environment is noisy. We had a fight about last weekend, when they went out for some tour which I later noticed that the other girls didn’t go but just herself and two other guys she claimed they are coworkers. I noticed a lot of suspicious that almost made me angrily said things I wasn’t supposed to say. I later came to her apartment to talk to her about the limits I’m expecting from her if she has coworkers as friends and males to be precise. We are kul now but this video make a lot of sense to me. I will continue to observe again from your advices. Any other additional advice pls?
Or if they are at work and they claim they were so busy they didn't have the time to call or text or check up on you in any fashion or not return your calls or texts yet you can see on her phone or call logs that she had the time or made the time to return communication to others yet insist she did not have time or was busy until you make your knowledge of the situations available they will have some silly reasoning for all the sudden having that time or making that effort, or simply get irritated at the fact you noticed this and are asking in a respectful manner, is a Surefire sign! Where my usual responses is..maybe you didn't have the time is because the time you did have or made was invested in other folks! The top BS lie is so I did not see your call or message when anyone with any kind of smartphone knows the messages are on the open lock screen of notifications 4 missed calls or texts... which simply by looking at text or call logs will tell you if the communication made elsewhere was before or after your attempt! Which either way is simply no excuse or furthermore anything to lie about
