I have been in her shoes before and watching Corinna throughout the years I developed a crush on her so knowing the pain and the exhaustion of a break up plus knowing that SHE, the person I like is hurting really makes me wish I could just give her a tight hug and remind her that she can get through it even if it takes a while. I really wish I could be there for her and not to gain anything out of it but because I genuinely care about her. Shit- no I've made myself really sad. I still send her so much love and warmth!
Just because people have feelings for each other doesn’t mean they should be together! I applaud her for recognizing their toxic relationship and having the strength to leave it. 👏🏻
The way Corinna looks at the relationship in my point of view is like when you love a long running tv show and it ends, you love the show so much and want it on forever but it has to end because you know the episodes will never be as good if it keeps going.
this was a KARMIC RELATIONSHIP. it happened to help them grow, there’s intense love and intense passion but its toxic, they don’t last forever but can last a very long time. a relationship sent from the universe to help her grow and heal
I don’t think she was crying over Todd. She was crying because for once she had somebody, aside from her father, that understood her anxiety. It’s sooo hard explaining anxiety over and over to people. Being with somebody who can knock you back into reality when you get stuck in your head. I also understand when she says she lost the feelings, as a lover, towards Todd but still enjoyed his company. I had a boyfriend for 7 years and lost feelings but i couldn’t get out of the relationship because i felt like he was the only one who understood my anxiety and knew what to do to help when i would have panic attacks. I was scared to be alone. Once i got out of it, we both still have love and respect for each other. Being alone helped me build so much confidence and I feel like the best version of myself. :-) I hope you feel better, Cor!
beastmasterbg because many people express it in many different ways in many different situations. It’s a complex thing. It’s easier to recognize anxiety in some people, and much harder to recognize in others. I have really bad anxiety at times, and as much as I wish other people could read my mind and understand why, they can’t and they won’t. I don’t expect everyone to understand it because anxiety goes a lot deeper than what you are seeing. Can’t expect everyone to understand it, but just that they respect it
she did for a bit during the election campaign, cant blame her for looking into other parties. but she mentioned that she ultimately didnt vote for him. who knows
I really hate how David portrays corina as the ditzy blonde in his vlogs. She’s an intellectual woman with emotions and recognizes what’s healthy for her. A lot of girls aren’t strong enough to do that,
Wow I had no idea about Corinna’s brother. My heart breaks for her 💔 Too often she’s seen as the “hot girl” of the vlogs and we don’t always get to see this raw side of her so it’s nice to see this real side of her
She speaks so much truth about how when you get out of a relationship you shouldn’t get right back into another one. Knowing how to be alone is so important. I just got out of a 2 year relationship where we talked about marriage and spending the rest of our lives together. When we broke up he moved on 3 days later. I couldn’t even get over it after 2 months because I really did love this person and I spent so much time with them I forgot what’s it’s like to be alone so I kept crying and having nightmares every night. But I’m learning that being alone is okay and it shouldn’t have to make you feel horrible. You don’t need to depend on someone else all the time.
This is painfully relatable. Almost 3 months since a 2.5 year break up and I don't feel any better about it despite that person now effectively being a stranger. She's been with people since and it's so nauseating to think about. This is so therapeutic to read, thank you! I know that things will get better - I just wish I could know when that starts.
I know the pain and I honestly wish you the best. I’m glad you know that things do get better. A positive mind is honestly one of the most important things in our lives.
Alex would treat her like a queen but Alex is already in a relationship he already had an amount of distaste as any of the people in the friend group when they discover her used to being with all these dudes which is why she’s a great friend of their eyes but not in a different perspective of having a serious relationship ship
I think people have misunderstood Corinna for a very, very long time, but when I first started watching her personal videos, I saw something that went far beyond her being just another superficial influencer. Corinna is a deeply sensitive, shy and at times insecure girl, and at first glance she might not seem like it but its the reason why I relate to her a lot. I don't want to bash him, but what happened between her and Todd is something that a lot of girls feel, being played with emotionally. I hope she finds a man who deserves her love and I hope she can move on from the hurt.
sephoralove28 yea I relate to her on so many levels and then relate to her and toddy’s relationship as well. I’ve never really felt I’ve had anything in common with any RU-vidd before
“A lot of girls feel” more like guys and girls. Both sides of the spectrum have many(always will be, there will always be people that are maturing) that are still learning, making mistakes, breaking hearts, hurting people... Growing, just saying.....
Austen M Of course I, like any sensible human being, understand that both men and women can feel as though they’re being emotionally manipulated or drained by a relationship. I really don’t see the point in you commenting that...
Corinna is so strong minded. A woman who so desperately wants to be with a man who is toxic for her, but is standing her ground when someone states maybe she should give it time or maybe they should be with one another bc they both still have feelings... that's when you know her mind is finally made. Bc it's so easy to find excuses to go back, whether it's emotions or someone telling you it's okay to do... or both. Corinna deserves to be with someone she isn't paranoid is cheating on her 24/7, because at the end of the day he can't really love her as much as she loves him if he's deceptive and she's the one who needs to put up with it.
It makes me really proud of her. So many people stay in relationships that aren't right for them and don't have the courage to end it and be alone. She deserves someone who loves her and isn't going to play the chase game with her.
@@sirih4085 hey, it's entirely possible that they could be together now and we just don't know. however, her not caving when Brandon suggested perhaps they give it another go is still impressive, even if she does get back with him.
At 17:40 watching the corner of her lips twitch, watching her hold back tears is heartbreaking You're strong Corinna and you can't say you aren't because you've already gotten this far
I don’t think anyone understood what Brandon was trying to say. He didn’t mean keep loving Todd no matter what! He meant keep loving in general. He clearly stated “whether it be with Todd or anyone else”. He’s saying to not forget the feeling and to know she has the capacity to love and be loved in return. That’s what I got from it, anyway. 🤷♀️
Don’t worry Corinna, you’re explaining it perfect. Brandon is refusing to believe that yous cant get back together. I know how you feel girl I’ve been there. You deserve to be treated like the queen you are, nothing below that
It’s not supposed to be happy all the time. But it’s not supposed to be toxic. It’s not supposed to make you doubt things all the time. That’s not okay.
9:18 This is honestly so true. Corinna you deserve better. Literally two weeks after saying I love you then he’s with someone else. It doesn’t make sense..
The cheating was pretty obvious but I get why she doesn’t just say it. It’s a shame. Also, Toddy has some anger issues fueled by alcohol that I’m sure didn’t help and also seems like he has a very controlling aspect to him. Corinna seems more confident single. I saw her IG stories the past few days. She seems happy, with her girlfriends and her new dog Carl. I hope she keeps focusing on that. Also I get her worry for Toddy. His best friend moved out with his girlfriend (Scott) and it’s the first time since High School Todd and Scotty haven’t lived together and u could tell he was feeling sad about that. Now the breakup, I get why she’s worried for him. Toddy may look 👀 like a jock meat head type but he is actually super emo but unfortunately he is a player who looks like he didn’t appreciate what he had till she lost feelings. I understand what it’s like loving someone so much but having that love fade away with every deception, every lie, every betrayal, every disrespect, etc. I wish them both the best. I hope Corinna continues down this path of self love and I hope Toddy can find what makes him happy because he seems a bit lost right now. Much love to both and Brandon for this amazing series 💚💚💚
@@michellexelise Seems like Todd was kind of stringing Corrina along for a long while and seeing other girls at the same time. He was playing with Corrina's feelings and mind. Never made it official for a while then when they did, all the jealousy and trust issues never stopped. And perhaps he even cheated when he would go to bars and ignore her. It seems like a lot..
A relationship should not get shitty. Relationships will have natural ups and downs but when one person or both start to feel that its shitty is when both need to make a change or its time to seperate. A relationship should not drain you emotionally, stress you out, or leave you feeling doubtful on a constant basis. It is not healthy for either person to feel those things. Setting boundries for yourself is the healthiest choice in a situation like this. Clearly todd and corinna are twin flames who have such an intense love for eachother, the back and forth, craving for eachothers attention, but is riddled with jealousy and trust issues when its all said and done. This kind of love will only leave you feeling less than satisfied. Best to love him from afar and move on. :)
these conversations are the best, opening up to someone who cares about you and understands how you feel really makes you appreciate a lot of things in life
So many girls feel this and it’s so sad, to have that inner conflict of wanting to be with someone and loving them so much but knowing it will hurt you to be with them so you don’t to protect yourself and then it still hurts, you feel like a lose lose situation and then adding anxiety on top of that. I recently got out of this situation but I didn’t do the healthy thing for myself after trying to for almost 6 months, got back with him and it ended badly, way worse than if I just would’ve done what was best for me. Now I like being alone again but it was so nice to hear someone relate and understand what that feels like. You’ll like being alone again Corinna and so many girls know what you’re going through. Heartbreak sucks but you find yourself in a way you never knew was possible after. You got this!! ❤️
@issa ceres Wow...that's a very tricky situation...I would say that you should just be honest and tell him that you still have feelings for him, and see what he says!! If he says that he doesn't feel the same way, then you'll know to move on, but if he does, then you can see where things go!! Either way, you're gonna be just fine!! I promise you that!! As cliché as it sounds, there are plenty of other people out there, and you can definitely find someone who supports you as much as he did, maybe even more, and it'll just be an easier, and because of that, probably an even better, experience overall!!
yup, i've had to do this recently. you don't want to break up with the person cause you remember all the good times and forget that you haven't had those good times in a while
hi please stop telling her to not let him go. clearly the relationship was toxic, and she even said that they both did shit to hurt each other. let her move on, stop telling her not to!! there’s legit nothing to fix, even if you truly love the person, if they completely obliterate your trust and hurt you badly, you’re entitled to move on.
Not only is this video so insightful of toxic relationships, the comments are some of the best pieces of advice that I’ve ever come across. Really glad I clicked on this video❤️
Every break up is hard:( I’m going through one, so this video helps !!!! Be strong Corinna! And Brandon when you said the fear of being alone, literally took the words out of my mouth ! This is so real and raw! Thank you for this !!!! Y’all are great ! Also it’s okay to not be okay ! Cry it out ! Learn and grow from this ! 🙏🏼
Brandon, Corinna was in a toxic relationship and it seems like you were trying to convince her “that’s love”. You should never convince someone to stay in a toxic relationship. I love this series but this was a hard one to watch.
Chrystal Irene I think maybe what he was trying to get across was that love can be hard and that there’s a lot of bad that can come with the good. I don’t think he was trying to convince her to stay, I think he was just giving his opinion on the situation
Chrystal Irene it also quite possibly might be your inference to his interviewing style. Where he reiterates their statement so either he can understand it better by vocalizing it and there by empathizing to the situation. It certainly is a style that is unique to Brandon yet isn’t necessarily journalistic per se because it’s kind of leading their answers in a particular direction. This interviewing style has occurred in many of the other interviews on this channel but in Corinna’s it’s the most prevalent. However, I think it totally works for this series & being that it brings an air of familiarity & makes them feel far more comfortable. The reason she was actually able to open up & cry not only in front of him but on camera makes it feel far more authentic as if the audience is sitting in the car with them. Whether that’s due to his style of interviewing or that most of his subjects are personal friends it totally works. Just as Brianna mentioned above he wasn’t trying to get her to go running back to Todd (in fact he tells her to go home & eat an entire cake lol) he was merely emphasizing that loving someone after you end things is hard even if you know that relationship is toxic it’s hard to separate the emotions in your heart from your Brain that knows you could do better.
I was in a toxic relationship and I feel what corrina is feeling. Brandon is right. It is love. Maybe not to you, but it is love. Even if it is toxic people still want to be in it. So wrong yet so right.
i'm not really caught up with all the vlog squad drama but the way she talked about having someone who finally understood her anxiety and shit really hit me and losing that regardless of what type of relationship you had with said person hurts so much... i really hope corinna can heal
this series is actually great. you're a phenomenal listener. you're actually using a major component of humanistic therapy, which is to reiterate what they're saying so that you can understand them yourself and so that they can work through it. this is an important thing to show people because we should all have these types of conversations with our friends where we are actively listening. so it's good you're showing people this.
I’m loving this kind of videos!!! Literally two friends talking about things that most of the people can relate to!!! It’s interesting as well to see the other side of people, Corina for example, I’ve never thought she was so emotional, I didn’t even had an idea of things that’s been happening on her life, and seen her opening about this topics it’s amazing, it’s to reach people in a more personal way!! Cause sometimes we can forget that people behind the videos, they are like us with real problems.
No, when u love someone, there are always going to be ups and downs and if the person still wants to be in that relationship even if it is toxic than they truly love that person
FlamingRavenMC ofc, but there’s a difference between “ups and downs” and toxicity. For example, if a guy constantly cheats on you, that’s not an “up and down” that’s someone who’s toxic and u should leave (not saying Todd cheated on her). Even if you love that person and they love you, it’s clear they don’t value you. “Love” isn’t just love, there are other aspects like mutual respect
i think brandon made a mistake by pushing his own ideas on her. she was very strong to tell him that she is sure that even with all the feelings she has for todd she can’t be with him. i love the series but i think sometimes the best way to support someone is to just be there for them.
He literally is though. He's having a conversation. He's playing devils advocate here and there and asking her certain questions for her to answer in different ways. It's a conversation, not an interview.
"You want to be with someone so bad and you know you can, but you know that you shouldn't." That made me cry because I'm going through the exact same thing right now. :(
I actually thoroughly enjoy these videos. They really show the humanity behind each of these "vlog characters". I definitely wouldn't be upset if these continued
I love them. And I think Brandon really makes them great. I hope it helps people realize that we are all human and humans fuck up all the time and go through things but we love the same!
I legit relate to corrina so much on so many different levels. Her situation is similar to me and my ex and its nice knowing I'm not the only one who feels this way. Thank you for showing us a vulnerable side of you and being open about your break up.
Corinna’s situation with Todd is something so many of us have gone through before. I really appreciate her putting these feelings into words. It’s therapeutic.
I liked Brandon's other videos like this, but this one specifically rubbed me the wrong way. He kept pushing that they should get back together, that her points actually meant it was "love", then she was constantly saying it was a bad and toxic relationship but it was like he wasn't even putting her feelings first. She has chosen to move on and for you to keep hinting that they are meant to be together is offputting. And saying you cant let love go away with Todd? Come on man. Enough. Let her heal.
Very interesting to see how things were and how they are from another perspective. Reminds me that we never know what other people are thinking/feeling, unless we’re vulnerable enough to communicate honestly in the present
why? it was very black and white in their video. they gave us an explanation and regardless if it was the truth or just some story, they gave us a reason. no need to dive into it more because we don’t deserve to know everything about it.
Krystal Nieves it’s been 10 months let it go. Every interview Liza does, they ask her about it. The conversation should be if she finally has all her self love in check
It takes a lot of strength to accept and move on from a relationship with someone that you love but a grownup relationship needs more than love to survive and thrive, it needs purpose. Corinna is a beautiful human being, (so is Toddy) she and Toddy are still very young and still evolving and maturing so they may need some time and space. Women generally cannot ‘eat the cake’ without expectations so its best for Corinna to leave it alone lol.
Nina Neenaah: They sort of do... If you don't have similar values to whomever you're sharing a life with, it can quickly become problematic. Basically, if our actions aren't in line with our values, that creates cognitive dissonance... & Sometimes we can be with people that make it harder to live a life in line with our own values... Love is wonderful, & enough in the short term... But long term there are definitely more facets that come into account ❤
Yeah I think Brandon missed part of the point of the cake thing. But he was doing a big job just getting her to talk things through, which is a lot harder than me sitting here watching.
I literally get everything that corinna is saying. Legit. It happened to me recently with someone and I still think about him and care about him but I know I shouldn’t. It’s hard to forget about someone that made an impact on you so much. I love you corinna ❤️
brandon seems like such a kind genuine guy to be around such postive energy and support, this video shows the other side of corinna the more honest and open minded part of her i’m glad you made this video brandon keep up the hard work!
Brandon is a natural counselor, obviously. Good to see Corinna feel a sense of release. Love this Brandon, keep these coming. And Corinna, so much love and sending prayers for you 💕
Corinna, just admitting that you know it’s toxic is growth. Time actually does heal, while maybe not completely... you might get more upset later, you might feel better later, it ebbs and flows. You trust your intuition and do what makes your heart and head feel right. I will say that sometimes “out of sight, out of mind” in the beginning is super helpful, especially when you’d be seeing them with someone else. You brain has to “detox” for lack of a better word from this constant that has been going on in your life for a year. I’m sure you’re getting plenty of advice but just know that you’re not alone girl.
I LOVE THIS SERIES SO MUCH. I've said it before, and I'm going to say it again. It's such a beautiful series/concept. It's creating a conversation. I appreciate everyone involved being an open book
I love these videos you do, Brandon. I would love to see you get back with all of these people and watch these videos together, asking their opinions of what you can do to improve in the future videos, follow up with them what they were feeling during the video during times there was difficulty in understanding what they were trying to communicate. Seriously I looove that you do these. Hope to see more soon. 😊
"You're emotionally invested but he also brings you pain. I think that's love. " NO. Brandon is right about relationships having ups and downs and needing to work through them. But like she said, there was so many downs. You should not stay with someone who is repeatedly causing you pain. I know that is not what Brandon meant, and he had good intentions. But it came out all wrong lol
I love these genuine conversations Brandon is able to have with people. This is my favorite one so far. I also really love how Corinna actually got to show her real and true self in this video. Well done.
