Grounded yup, until you realise that she basically lied about being in a relationship with Jason during their Hawaii vlog yet became insanely jealous about him texting other women.
....or it's because she not with Jason. I'm sure most emotional abusers dont seem crazy when they're not with the victim. I know that most people could put on a mask.
His honesty was refreshing. I liked how he was able to be honest with her and straight with her without hurting her feelings. He worded things very carefully. Agreed with most things he said
Trisha is actually pretty intelligent and understands alot of things, she plays a certain character now a days because more views more money. It was good to see old trisha back
@@sabrinajazlyn I don't think she's that intelligent. I've never seen her have an intellectual conversation. I think this dude just saw that she understands things in a certain way and spoke well for that.
I agree with Trisha on that point. You should never talk shit about your significant other to your friends or family. Because at the end of the day it is easy to forgive and forget the fight with your significant other but your friends and family don’t have the same love you share with your partner so they will always see your partner as the person who did that horrible thing.
she trashed all his friends a lot...shes totally downplaying it in this video...Brandon in particular because he being the real person he is honestly told Jason that their situation is toxic...even from ehvlogs what they show just because they say they love each other or choose to say does not make the dynamic not toxic or extremely unhealthy. Especially for Jason she constantly puts him down, her extreme jealousy, clinginess, they all make her toxic and she is in dire need of professional help which she refuses to get
OMG I almost laughed out loud when she said that. NO, she may not tell her mom or sister, but she tells her 4 million subscribers ALL about it. He's a liar, he called me fat, he doesn't want to marry me, he never pays for anything, he never buys me little trinkets, he won't buy me a $300K ring but he buys his mom a car and hires assistants he won't let me eat he doesn't eat enough his car is not cool enough its just an infinity ew he doesn't dress right his hair needs better styling ... yadayadayada a constant stream of complaining ABOUT JASON! In fact, it's hard to find anything she says when she's with Jason that's NOT a complaint about him or something he's done or not done or someone he's talked to or messaged or looked at. He works too much he spends too much time with his friends he messed up the bedsheet and it looks like poo he shouldn't have moved to that house i'm not ever coming over there when am I getting my key I should be there all the time ... BABE!!! How could you? Act like you're interested, you never pay any attention to me, you never take me out on a date, you never ... BABE!!! LISTEN TO ME!!! Oh hi Brandon, you know what the problem is? JASON talks trash about me to his family and friends. That's so WRONG of him! I NEVER would do that because then the person always has that in their mind. And he never wants to go to Hamilton with me, even though he 's only seen it 3 times. He NEVER does anything that I want to do.
The fact Trisha talks about how insecure she is explains the craziness of her and jason’s relationship. I feel like the vlogs just show the fights. I love how Trisha tries to be open and I respect that.
her craziness comes form her untreated bpd that she is either unaware of or in denial about, she has said that she was diagnosed with it among other things but seems like she just disregarded it, people with bpd usually have various other co-occuring mental disorders. she has been saying the same thing for years unless she gets into longterm dbt therapy things won't change
shes always been this crazy its just the first time we are getting another perspective apart from hers because Jason is a blogger as well. But her wholeyoutube career she has been saying the exact same thing that she has no friends, she self sabotages, the binge eating, drug and alcohol problems, intense and unstable relation ships the only difference is she is 30 now. Her issues are something that she can't fix on her own she is in dire need of good longterm therapy and the right medications which can be tricky because it does take time to find the right doe and medication for what works. but her problems are more than just insecurities there is def mental illness more than 1
The fact she is open about her problems is a step in the right direction. People need time to heal and realize their problems. Trisha has changed over the years and you can see it through her channel. Of course she has problems but she learning to cope with it. Sometimes when people have trust issues find it difficult to go therapy due to the fact that you can’t trust the therapist, or that they’re judging you. Give her time. It’s her decision and life.
I feel like trisha is really self aware in some areas but in others she is either in denial or is just not aware at all of how she comes across or her issues
Holistic Mystic Astrological guide and counsellor I hardly see him in the vlogs. He wasn’t even in Zane’s intro. He’s always been pretty separated from them.
@@carolinas305 yeah, seeing more if that now.. I just think credit where its due and, the rest of their projects sometimes overshadowed I dividual talent.
I relate to Brandon's content because I think he's a wallflower. And wallflowers are the best observers. He's bringing that to life, while also calmly and pleasantly bringing some deep conversations to light.
You're very a emotionally intelligent person, Brandon. You seem very logical but also know how to keep people's feelings into consideration when you present your thoughts on things. Thanks for being so kind to Trisha about her relationship; her and Jason get so much hate about it but it was nice to listen to you two talk about it.
He even said that he was talking shit about her when she first split with Jason. So, if Trisha and Jason ever broke up again she would've exposed the entire squad who was talking shit about her behind her back lol
Brandon, your active listening skills are so great! People need to learn from this give & take conversation & most importantly, the listening aspect. Your interpersonal skills are bang on & it's very refreshing to see. Good videos!
Why doesnt she claim Shane or Jeffree? she is legit always calling them her friends but in videos like this she swears she doesnt have friends and im sittin here shook
they are friends what she means is like close friends like jasons relationship with Brandon for example...she is unable to fully open up with people in general
Because although they are friends, Trisha struggles with having healthy close relationships with anyone outside of her immediate family. She loves them but if she saw them every day she would end up having a major falling out with them, like she did with her best friend Angel. Shane and Trish used to hang out almost every day and it led to a major fight because Trisha started having feelings for Shane because of her need to be loved. It almost ruined their friendship entirely.
Trisha's insecurities are well-founded. Just imagine dating someone who only spent time with you for work and then left and spent of his time hanging out with his friends. You all would have a problem with that. It's not that she wants him 100% for herself, its her not being sure he is with her for real or for youtube.
Yea - there may be some validity to that but she literally said her "type" of guy is someone with issues who has little to no close relationships in his life. She also admits to isolating boyfriends in the past... How is any of that ok?
@@videofan1010 Yeah but she is also very aware of her issues. Perhaps she is trying to work them out. But you can sense from their vlogs that he only comes around for videos and isn't that into her. Anyone dating someone like that would have feelings of being used and discarded. He isn't completely innocent either, selfish, too afraid of being old and alone, he keeps her around. To someone like her - with those issues - that's enough to stay. So I think they both have issues but even if she admits them, he is enabling her delusions.
Woah! You are honestly spot on with everything you said. I know your comment is like a month old lol, but Have you watched Jason's new couples therapy video? He posted it a couple of days ago, and the video pretty much confirms everything you said in your comment.
Jojo it’s natural for friends. It doesn’t mean they love each other any less, just that there are other people/things in both of their lives that have gotten closer to them too. Hell me and my best friend aren’t as close anymore, but that’s because I moved out and she has a boyfriend. I was never replaced and nothing happened, but there are other things in life now that are prioritized higher than “hang out with x”. Doesn’t mean they can’t or won’t get closer again, just that they’re both busy with their own lives.
Kaitlyn M I never said they didn’t still love each other all I literally said was that it makes me sad that they’re not as close because he literally said that in this video
Jojo I never said you said that lmao it’s just that most people who are sad about this are literal children with no understanding of adult relationships. It’s an explanation that was clearly needed considering the amount of comments acting like it actually means something.
this was really good, i guess this kinda awkwardness with trish was really great cause even though you can clearly see she's also a little uncomfortable she actually opened up a bit and talked about stuff, really likethis series you're doing!
brandon the only guy who can actually have a serious conversation with trisha without she being naggy, rude or childishly boycotting the moment :) NICEEEEEEEEE!
ok but the title says that it’s going to be about the Jason stuff. I think it’d be really cool if he did a separate video about Trisha as an individual !
Brandon is so sensible.& cute.Trish seems relaxed with him & herself,I'm seeing her more herself & relaxed w ppl in general the more she shares ( not meaning subscribers) More self esteem than she's ever had & confidence. I'm totally into this chat!!!!
As a guy who subbed to iJustine, Shay Carl, Charles Trippy, and the whole Maker Studios crew in October 2009 - Trish is right. Be honest about ALL your shortcomings on the vlog. She's put out all that sordid stuff (even potentially career ending stuff) out there for 12 years. It's just translated to a massive, compounding audience - as far as daily routine vlogging. Others who have been caught not being forthcoming have paid the price. Won't mention any names.
Jeffrey A. Smith so god damn true. That was when i was getting into RU-vid as well, and watching some of those people (and a lot of UK vloggers and whatnot) had their real lives exposed and the perfect image of themselves shattered. It’s so much easier when you explain your fuckups yourself before you can get reamed out for them.
@@jesslynch94 Yeah! Charles Trippy got killed over that - the crash test dummy for the first RU-vid divorce. (I also follow funforlouis and Mr. Ben Brown, and Casey Neistat since 2012,....& PVP since 2010). It's a long term job, so honesty is the best policy. Not saying you can't be private about a lot of stuff. You should. But, at least warning the peeps about things in a relationship going downhill. At least, a heads up is key.
Trippy literally lost his whole audience over his lying. Whatever happened to Olga Kay. After her relationship with Toby (who really killed his RU-vid career - holy crap) her channels all kind of died. She used to be big in gaming videos too for a while!
@@THEdowntowndoll Views yeah - Like most OG vloggers. Subs no. He's only down by 50,000 out of 1.5 million which isn't bad. If your above 1 million your still doing fine.
Also the talent on RU-vid now - Liza, David, Jason, Josh, Brandon, etc is a step up. It's floating to the top, lets face it. It's sucking the wind out of OG guys who don't have enough to compete with them views wise. You can only sub to so many people, really.
I think Trish gave everyone a bad taste in their mouth when Jason and Trisha broke up and she pretty much said she didn’t like anyone except Liza ... lol
she def downplayed it in this video...she absolutely trash talked all of them and said she would never see any f em...she got all upset that none of them texted her when she made those expose videos obviously they are all on jasons side cause they are his friends and everyone knows her reputation which is shit and rightly so....this relationship is gonna end really bad and there will be dozens of videos trashing him because she is mentally sick
She conveniently forgets that part then wonders why his friends don't like her anymore. she trash talked his friendson who had nothing to do with their petty arguement on her vlog just for fun.
No she knows why they dont like her, when they are talking about it she gets visibly excited at the fact that they are "scared" of her. I genuinely now think cause of this video she thrives and enjoys that drama she ensues because hello she wants Jason to herself
Thank you for being such an attentive driver!!!! Too many times people film in their car and take their eyes off the road while the car is moving for ridiculously long periods of time or too often. I was in an accident caused by a Person who was filming he and his friend while driving soooo I can appreciate this video.
I’m glad Brandon, one of Jason’s close friends stated the obvious .. THESE TWO HAVE CHOSEN TO BE TOGETHER THIS LONG AND WANT TO BE TOGETHER.. So enough of the making Jason a victim or anyone a victim they are grown ass adults. If any of them wanted to leave the relationship they would’ve by now.
This series of video conversations is the first thing of Brandon's I've enjoyed. It works really well. He's found a niche that's gentle yet entertaining, deep without unnecessary drama and something that makes for really comfortable viewing. I will happily watch him talk to absolutely anyone as he drives around LA.
Watching this made me realize that I self-sabotage my own relationships and friendships damn...Also i love this series' that brandon is doing! Very interesting look into the Vlog Squad.
This is you Brandon, do this more with as many personalities as you can. Listen to me, you are very good at this, don't stop doing this. I truly truly enjoyed this and the last few you have done. Awesome awesome awesome
Why she doesn't go to therapy & work through her past trauma is just so beyond me. Scared of change I guess? But damn it's gonna be better to change than to continue living with all that unresolved trauma.
she uses that stupid excuse to continue her shitty toxic behavior....being abusive there is no excuse for it mental illness or trauma whatever especially when you are aware of it
Why would she want to change, she can literally try to ruin people's life online then go sit down and cry about her issues and use them as a shield to deflect any blame and she gets pity points from people who don''t think she is doing wrong. And she makes money off it too...its a win lose situation for her, she is gonna have a lot of stuff but be alone with no one but her computer screen to love her.
even admitting a little to her flaws might completely destroy her fabricated sense of self and absolute lack of self confidence: why consider therapy if you are a perfect human being?
Brandon, i just have to say that I’ve been a fan of your stuff for a very long time but there’s something very raw about this series that I absolutely love. It’s honest and real and it feels like I’m just hanging out with 2 friends. Keeping going, you’re doing amazing and I can’t wait to see what else you come up with!
*BRANDON! Are you kidding me? THIS is what everyone's been wanting & you knew it. You went with it. BRAVO! Shane's got nothing on Brandon. THIS was so GOOD! No dragging it out to make it more. Right to the point. Look at you! AMAZING!* 🤗🤗🤗💕 *ps. Jason's right... She really does inflate numbers. She said they've known each other for a year & half? Didn't they meet at the end of last July?* 🙄
Their first date was June 24th it's october... so a year 4 months... she didn't exaggerate that much lol but she did when she said they been dating almost a year , it's been 8 months lol
+Shad MadRad Yeah~I just looked it up, you're right. June 24th. My bad! I thought it was in July. I was just going off of what Jason always says of her inflating dates/times. Sorry! I missed the part about how long they had been dating or I would've probably complained about that, too. Something about her just rubs me the wrong way. At least she was honest about wanting to be the only person in a guys' life she's dating... So, there's that! lol! xo.💕
Brandon you are a really good interviewer. These car vids are so damn interesting. P. S. The one with your MoM was the best. She was so real and honest. I really enjoyed it. Thanks for the entertainment. Keep up the good work !
Yo Brandon, can you make a video about how you've managed to help yourself and some tips when it comes to self sabotage and self hatred. I struggle with it too. Haaardcore. Keep on rocking it bud!
Your honesty and sincere curiosity show immensely, which is great, and you ask real questions. I see real potential in this format and hope to see more with more of the vlog squad. It gives a real perspective into the real emotions that I think a lot of us are craving to see.
First time watching Brandon since he used to be on vine, wow I’ve never seen a RU-vidr seem so mature and be so honest to the camera, it’s cool to see. He’s super well spoken, I just developed a crush on this man. New subscriber
@Ashley E she is not entertaining to me lol. The only time I've seen her is in vlog squad videos and she isnt funny and is just kind of bitchy and annoying lol
I don't watch many youtubers. Just david, brandon, scotty, zane, toddy, jeffree and just started watching shane dawsons channel. I never watches youtubers until like last month 😂
It's so refreshing to see someone that can actually hold a conversation! Brandon, you are deep, and compassionate person... it's so nice to see those traits coming from a guy! I'm totally obsessed with this series! Ithink you've found your niche on RU-vid! 😊 Keep up the good work!
This is the content the people want! So enjoyable watching someone being so well spoken and elaborate. Keep doing this stuff Brandon, also great work in Playboy.
Brandon this is the series thats going to blow your channel up. Keep at it. Utilize your arsenal of friends!! These are conversations that no one ever gets to hear from social media stars!!
@@jonathanbelmares1306 I'm not an active fan. Anyways I'm assuming he left when he was young because he doesn't really have an accent. Weird he still doesn't have a passport.
I loved this. Typically we don’t get to see you two interact and I always had the impression you didn’t like each other. So it was really great to see you guys talk and see that you both can come together because you both love Jason
“By definition, a toxic relationship is a relationship characterized by behaviors on the part of the toxic partner that are emotionally and, not infrequently, physically damaging to their partner. ... Keep in mind that it takes two individuals to have a toxic relationship.” It has nothing to do with the fact that Jason can leave. It’s the fact that their relationship is harming both of them in an emotional and mental way. Yes one of them could leave but I’d obvious that both of them believe that their relationship is fine. 🤷🏻♀️ And sadly Jason refuses to listen to any of his friends even though they are giving sound advice bc they just happen to be younger than him 🙄.
Usually I study with these vids on in the background because they’re calming and a dose of reality. The way Trisha talks makes studying impossible lol but I loved the vid. Very insightful and honest. I’ll just rewatch this video when I’m not studying :)
14:33 She talks about how she doesn't tell her family when anything bad happens with Jason...but tells the whole internet. Even Brandon laughed in disbelief.
trisha is bpd possibly narcissistic as well and codependent often attract narcissists and hence the super toxic unhealthy dynamic. The reality is that the relationship is honestly toxic and unhealthy
yes Jason being the co-dependant. Plus relationships are so complex she says he can leave but obviously there are feelings involved and like just because he stays does not make it any less toxic because it is...her behavior is toxic she tries to downplay it but even the vlogs show so much toxicity, her unbelievable jealousy over literally anyone in his life. and even random people, she def has paranoid thoughts, shes quite delusional its sad because I truly believe with the right treatment and therapy she would get better but she refuses to seek out professional help. And it makes me sad cause you know its gonna end really bad they are both gonna end up really hurt with even more baggage than before
