Sir sir sir itni deep bate bahut hi badhiya example d a nice video Kash aapke videos pahle mile hote life change hoti sir history would have been different.
I know people who are suffering in marriage for 20-25 years and still suffering. It is not bad times , sometimes the husband or wife is psychotic and it is better to divorce the psycho husband or wife. They don’t change .
Yes.......he is not talking about that type of people.... people getting divorce for silly reasons , have no patience, financial problems...etc..etc..this video belongs to .. those 95% of people...ok
In some cases , I have seen that the problems start from saas side but time ke saath vo saas to bol bol kr sb kuch bigad degi aur chup hojati h fir husband wife ek dusre se hi ldte rhte h humesha kisi na kisi baat pr
Sir I am really thankful to you for the inspiration.I m facing many problems due to health issues of my husband,even after 28 years of our marriage.Today morning I was totally fed up, after seeing this video I feel much better.Ye waqt guzar zayega. Thank you so much.
Samay accha ata hai to kharab bhi aata hai. Kuch thoda lamba chalta hai par kat zarur jata hai. be brave and fight the battle of life. Zarur jeetengi aap
Thank you very much sir, after delivery i am facing lot of issues... Fights with mother in law .... Not able to handle myself and others as well.... I used to keep quite in my 5 years of marriage... After delivery had some arguments with mother in law , then husband started his own drama my mother bla bla bla .... Feeling lil better after your video.... But one thing i don't know whether i m doing right or wrong i have stopped talking to my mother in law because she trys to control even on phone and give instructions and guidance according to her ... But as i am a working woman , new mom and wife ... I can't follow her guidance and her rituals and way of living ... Also generation gap is a reason.. She is always shouting in the house i did that , 3 bachhe pale ghar banaya Duniyadari pta ni kya kya .. Aur bahuo ko sabse jyada trouble krti wo .... Subah 5 bje uth jati Aur bolti tum bhi utho .... Bina nahaye kitchen me mat jao , khana mat banao , Agr fresh hone gye to aake kapde change kro ... Jb naha k garam garam banaoge tabhi mai khaungi ... Subah ka sham ko ni , sham ka subah ni ... She had countless drama and nakhra Esa lagta h jese kisi janam ka badla le rhi ho hmse .... Merese ni hota manage Husband hamesa bolta h meri maa h ye wo wahi drama ... Ek din subah 5 bje utha k mujhe boli chai banao mere liye ... bahot gussa aaya mujhe Bolti h mera ghar h mene banaya h .. Naak me dum karke rakh deti h ... Aur kuch kaam ni krna hota ... Uske hisab se dinbhar kitchen me khade rho ... Jb bole utho jb bole so jao jab bole beth jao .. To mene baat hi krni bnd kr di .. Ab apna ghar aur apna bachha apne hisab se chala rhi hun ....aur apni capacity k hisab se ... Mujhe bolti h padhne likhne se kuch ni hota .. I am working with bank of america as data engineer... Abhi mujhe farak padna bnd ho gya h ... and i am happy 😊 Chahe koi mujhe achha bole ya bura bolta rhe ... farak ni padta
I'm already 30 now. Me and many of my classmates are still not married. I had financial and some minor health issues. So I could not marry in time. But my friends did not have any issues but they are still not marrying. I suggest people to get married before at least 27 and average 25. That'll help you in your love life.
Can u tell how to check on these personality disorders? My husband stops talking every 15-20 days without any reason. And on asking he would I don't have anything to say. What to do I don't understand.
Very true. Everyone has to go through bad phases in life be it career or marriage. Sometimes if you marry again then the second person turns out to be even worst. This has happened to someone ..
Absolutely right advice sir... Marriage is never a smooth ride... It depends on the patience and commitment of the couple to not let the marriage break down.
Sir, very nice advice of bad roads and slowing down to second gear. You are doing a great work to make the young people of this country understand deeper aspect of life. Thank you so much for your gyaan
I was also going through d phase in my married life..which u described.... but after watching ur video got motivated to fight d bad times n not escape from it...
Mahatma ji Though you ask for comments after every discourse but as far as I think you do not need any. Since observations/solutions are indisputably correct! Are of the highest order, Even on subjects which are never ever covered or dreamed of by anyone!🙏
Tq sir 7 yrs after marriage struggling for having children, but still continuing with my husband, hoping he will change ,only to keep my father happy as mother passed away iam single child and father stays alone
The main question here is himmat kab tak rakhein? Jab day 1 se kharab ho aur improvement ka koi scope nahi dikh raha. Kabhi kabhi ek ganda fruit saare fruit kharab kardeta hai to us fruit ko fek Dene mein hi samajhdaari hai..
Thank you so much I m going manopause as well as rough marriage at same time. I feel like all my life is slipping out of my hand. Your advice did not help me solve my problem but gave me patience to bear the situation. And patience is only solution which ll help this situation 🙏🏻 Thank you so much sir🙏🏻 today u gave me advice like my father.🙏🏻
Whatever you are speaking out is good to listen to But mostly it's the wives who have to put with all the insults, humiliations, threatenings and beatings. Today, times have changed and the girls are not interested in suffering such marriages
Yes, u r right. Initially v had problems too. My wife ancestors were from Bombay, and they used to cook alot of chicken and meat and fish , rather bhuna Hua chicken. And my ancestors were from UP who used to cook chicken or meat with daal and sabzi and some times with sabzi and daal alone. Gradually, my wife becomes a UPian style bawarchi in Karachi. And yes in life bad phases comes, we have to pass that with quietly and with minimum interaction with in laws rather cut off. Other people interferences should be avoided at any cost. But yes u need to marry same culture wife, I had to also made many adjustments in life too.
Sir I very well agree with the RIGHT PEOPLE BUT WRONG TIME (KAAL) concept ... Sometimes astrological planets are such that they can cause situational grievances.. And it is expected that since the time situation is DIFFICULT for the other person, the spouse should be understanding and adjust for the time being.. I am in favour of this statement. But my question is.. What is the limit? Like to what extent should one tolerate? For example if I know that my spouse is of a very calm nature but in the bad times if they becomes aggressive and offensive it can be understood. But if the spouse cheats on the other JUST BECAUSE THE TIME IS BAD... If they do something UNETHICAL which goes against the foundation of marriage DUE TO BAD TIME(because I understand that circumstances can actually play with your mind) .. Even in these situations should the other spouse tolerate? So what should be the DEAL BREAKER in this situation?