for the first time I don't agree with you sir .being an advocate , alimony , 498A , mental chaos, extramarital affairs, laws are very against men , dowary is illegal but alimony is there , fake feminism is at peak etc , Iam 25 and do poetry at kavi sammelan, work for society and for my hobbies , which gives me satisfaction n happiness which I find better than wasting half of energy on a wife for daily ki khich pich . I am awarded by honorable president of India too . Although my parents are really peaceful n loving couple which could ever exist. They are just perfect couple. I believe 90's was the best time for getting married, now things have changed a lot .
Boring life is necessary for high marriage rates, which is being destroyed by extreme competition due to population, gender ratio, courts, corporate, AI etc. Even if you make 1 million videos, it won't change reality
A generation which did female foeticide(completely destabilize the demography which also increased crimes as most crimes are done by unmarried male) , which did honor killings of their daughter for marrying outside men but they didn't kill and also accepted their own son for marrying other cast woman, as bahu toh bas bachha payda karegi jo hamare caste/religion etc ka identity intact rakhega (in this aspect conservative hindu muslim are all same), which treated their woman like Commodity. They better shut their mouth on how to live life as human because humanity is the thing they severely lack. I'm not saying new age modern genZ are good, I'm saying when u have messed up the situation by ur self then just leave it and change ur self first before commenting. The one who did female foeticide, honor killings they really deserve to have a bride and a next generation? I'm a man who have stayed in delhi for many years,met with people who from different parts of india, sometimes I really feel we as a society need to introspect a lot on all the shit we dumped on our society and shut our mouth regarding lecturing what is good or bad.
Even before watching the video I can tell why Indian men are bitter about marriage - They aren't getting a great deal like their dads got. No dowry, no submissive docile wife who depended on them financially or took the responsibility to feed, clothe , clean his house forever.
Aapka kehna sahi hai accident hua to kya gaadi Chalana chod doge par yeh divorce se compare nahi kar sakte kyunki usme ladko ko hi mentally financially barbad kiya jaata hai aurat aur kanoon dwara.
My mother never praised marriage thus I married late, but these married years have been the best years of my life as I worked on my thinking & believe system. Family, marriage, companionship is the best thing to strive for as a human being in this world. All the best to all
Peter Jordanson :) By the way i respect you, and my wife is big fan of you and we both laugh at your expressions and dialogues .... Hope your content will save/make some lives better. wish you luck.
Even if 72 hr OCP is not used, some women have a lot hormonal problems like PCOD, thyroid etc especially after 30 yrs of age. Even painful menstruations and PMS creates moodswings and cranky attitudes.
Are bhaishaab mai vo insaan hu jisne 12 saal ki umar se hi shadi k sapne dkhe the. Mje lgta h ladke nice hi hote h mger achi ladki milti hi ni aur average size ladkia bht demanding ho gyi h.. Bht competition h aaj ki date me ye mai tb bol ra hu jb i have, tried everything.. I am sure jo log b shadi krke khush h either they are extremely lucky or they have just accepted life as it is.. With acceptance also comes happiness.
Parents cribbing about marriage is very true and American corporate culture of locking people up inside office for long hours has destoyed the fabric of Indian society.
I agree to your point that none of us are right and marriage is growing stronger together, when I married at the age of 24 years 10 years back we both were earning less close to 10 lacs together, now in 10 years we are growing and earning close to a crore, we have a lot to achieve and I believe in the institution of marriage, it gives stability and support too
Marriage is not about acchi nd buri ... Marriage is all about responsibility nd companionship... it's very hard trueof today's that in today's generation they don't want to ready for take this responsibility...as U said My life My rules... who don't wants to marriage...he or she their life is all about Me, My nd My self
In my opinion....now girls are getting financially independent...so they are looking at marriage as burden .... society is shifting slowly towards their betterment...where the burden of Household chores child rearing is not a single parent job anymore....when they will see such...as a companionship...and not just day to day working for other family who they don't even know....i am more than sure 40 percent marriage to aise hi badh jayenge
Before Marriage I was not against the marriage as such, but I (including my parents) was fearful of those type of girls that you mentioned in the video who file false cases against their husband etc. Due to this I got married at 28, otherwise I would have married earlier than this. I found my partner online. I think that online you get more varied options than from the physical world. Me and my partner didn't care about each other's physical attributes at all. We only cared about mental connect and resonance with each other. When I took the decision to get married, then I didn't tell my parents about it because they had been bothering only about my 4 year elder sister's marriage for around 4-5 years. I thought that if I'll tell them that I want to get married then they'll obviously say that firstly your elder sister's marriage is a priority, but with time I was getting hopeless for the same, as my sister was taking a hell lot of time for the same. Her expectations were quite high and unreasonable. So after a lot of convincing, I got married before my sister's marriage, and I would say that it was an excellent decision made by me. As per my experience of around 2 years of married life, I would say that my married life is around 4-5 times more joyful than my bachelor life!!!!
Hello unkil, chahe garam tawe me baithalo , par apki baat aaj ka youngster ladka ladki nahi manenge. Baat khatam. Aaj k youngster k natak, dhoka ,nakre aur demand bahut hai. Bahut bahut bahut jyada demanding hai ji. Esse achcha single hi thik.
Thank you so much Amit Sir, aapne India ki us Problem ko bahut achche se highlight kiya hai jo Aaj ki Taarikh Par Japan and South Korea ( Late Marriage, No Marriage, Late Pregnancy, No kids , Decreasing Child Birth, Increasing Old age Population, less young age Work Force) face kar rahe hain and India is Following the Same Path, But Aap apne Desh ki Jo Prominent Middle Class ko Jagruk karne ka kaam kar rahen hain,uske liye Hriday se Dhanyawad Sir👍🙏
Kisi ki justification nahi chahiye. Hum to spread karenge. Aap video banao hum ground me work karenge. Aur aisa bhi nahi hai. Gobar log bhare hoye hai samaj he. Wo shaadi kar lenge aur economy ko continue kar lenge. Chinta mat karo.
Very true..when my son said what did you get in marriage ? i replied i got you... parenting is recycling of own life..we relive our childhood...😅😅😅why should I get marriage was the question and my answer is लड़ने के लिए। बहुत जरूरी है दिल खोल के लड़ना 😅😅😅😅
"I am against the normalization of thought - that not marrying is OK" - Sir, you are saving India from going down the same drain where great countries like Japan, Korea, and Scandinavian countries have gone, and China is on the way. What is the use of the huge prosperity and great life longevity if one is not willing to continue the God-gifted life form itself. Sometimes, I feel like not watching your videos because it is like a bitter pill, but I don't miss a single one because your videos are lifesavers to the families, common people, the nation and our civilization. I am not exaggerating at all. Take my bow in respect and appreciation.
He is telling the truth very bluntly. And this is the reality of todays scenario. We have to accept and find our way around it. Thanks for this video👌👌
Sir one question I want to ask. Your direction is focused on maybe small town and 2 or 3 tier cities. In big cities among middle and upper middle problems have different angles. You can easily say that people who are unmarried are not happy . I completely disagree to this. Many single men and women are way more happy and fulfilled in life than most of the married couples. Couples who have amazing alignment with each other in all different walks for life which I believe is less 10 % are the only exceptions who maybe are happier than single. This is a very hard and subjective debate and lot depends on the individual person. People who are independent have an individual strong personality, earn good money, have good education and open minded view of the world will always to be happier single than married unless they are extremely lucky to get a partner who aligns with them 80 to 90% of the times. Which is quite rare.
We are living in a democracy and the population of antisocial elements is rising in India soon no future is left for these types of intellectual in India
topic you bring forward are really unique and you understand the scenario what is going in society. you bring clarity about life , to the table. we can't deny it. The words you use like 'Behude, bawli puch, bakwaas, thick skin' are 😂
sir agape great ho,,,,,,,,,,, perfect and to the point ladies and men just follow blindly,,,,deceive me I have gone through he is exposing the risks after post delayed marriage impacts people ,,,sir love u
I struggled for 1st year in my marriage but later on me and my spouse became best of friends. We can't even think anyone else as our partner now. So my suggestion is that give some time to your marriage, things will change for the best!
That's a good way to present. Arguing from both sides to convince of something which is very easy to rebut otherwise. Well I like your way of putting things, but I don't completely agree or disagree with you, also, I am sure It won't be that easy for you if I or someone with developed arguing skills is pitted against you. I still congratulate you for being so entertaining. Keep it up.
Mr Sango u say I will not let this trend get normalised, but always remember, which thing is normal or abnormal in a society or culture is decided by majority...and we milenials are in majority thus we are the people who have power do this...number matters man🤟
Been married for 27 years. Both of us have grown with each other. I couldn't have been the person I am without this growth. There is no other way I could have grown this way without getting married. Our kid is a blessing. Life has a meaning and a purpose. We have our share of disagreements. It requires effort to become right for each other. That effort leads to personal growth. Our kid totally believes in the institution of marriage. Sir, you are very entertaining and very wise.
#amitsangwan make a video about how to protect your assets and properties and your present and future income sources incase a marriage goes bad, and the partner decides to throw the other under the bus.
Sir .. god blessings 🕉🙏🏻 I agree with you… can’t help d thinking of this 3D world people..because people need to understand that.. marriage is not just two people coming together.. but a lot of things attached to it.. So knowledgeable people can only guide in this respect..🌿👍1212🌱
Ye baateein na koi batata hai na koi discuss karta hai aapko koti koti dhanyawaad this is a very very important topic and the most relevant topic nowadays
