A Toxic Guy's Extreme Reaction To Criticism 

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☠In stitches here

I feel like he probably comes across as as friendly and agreeable as he possibly can in real life while most of his resentment gets released behind people's backs... or on his girlfriend.

Announcing that man being overweight. That's really disgusting

😂🤣 good one ... hit the trap door!🤣🤣

"Hit the trap door on him" - I'm going to use that!

Yes! 😂

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Excellent customer care at that price!

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They may have paid 130 US Dollars to stay in the room, but they stayed in his head rent free for much longer than that, apparently 😁

And all for a measley $130

😄omg yes!

@@cm9317 Hahaha! 😂😂

Yes it always amazes me how many words they use. I couldn’t write that much about something important

This is what they do, they destroy themselves by desperately trying to destroy others.

@@miriam19651 exactly

That's good, becuse it sounds like he hates running his business.

thislisa yes, it's ironic. Yeah he's oblivious to how much he is damaging his business with his ramblings!

thislisa couldn’t have said that better myself!!

@@richy3084 Mike?

Zee Ur assumptions sound like good 1s to me! 👍🏻

OttawaAndy haha! That’s exactly what I thought! Who else would defend this guy??

same. the guy would be so petty. once he had an interview with a company and they gave him a tote bag. eventually, they didn't hire him, and he said to me "I'll use the tote bag for my gym shoes, so it will get all the stench"......... LOL

He was triggered due to ppl nagging him about being in the arts

@@tanit7741 being "triggered" is just a defence mechanism to avoid shame. Arts man, should be self aware enough to understand how his choices have their own challenges. All he needed say, was agree, with personal experience which could have been a vulnerable, intimate moment between them, instead he pushed summer away by ranting.

Sorry you went through this. I was dating someone like this - think he was a covert, cerebral narcissist - and one day he lashed out at me in public (totally humiliating and I nearly cried) when I'd said something he didn't like even though I think it was a totally reasonable comment like yours. He actually worked at the same firm as me so when I started to avoid him and withdraw from him after that incident, he would doggedly follow me for months. So creepy.

Thanks! 😊

It was actually quite funny! :D Concerning the wall of text, I also tend to do this a lot... 🙈 But I only do it to people who are hurtful or toxic. 😊 Which isn't helpful either...

Adela Setara lulz I doubt you are anything like Mike. There’s nothing wrong with words, as long as they make sense!

Hi Theresa, that's great, I'm glad they're helping you!

Theresa MacDonald me too unfortunate

It is hard when it’s a family member...My mother does this all the time to our family, that’s why no one bothers about seeing my mother anymore...I am the only one who sees her, because she lives alone in her house..My mother is 97 years old now, and I think she could died at any time.....I have put up with mother all my life, and I understand what’s going on with her now.....before I didn’t and I would walk away from her...I know to limit my time with her and not to take it personally...I know my mother has a disorder....😥.

Karen Collyer 👍🏻 Please continue what you’re doing with compassion for her, as best you can! May God bless her and you.,

Paula Buck thank you, I know if anything did happen to my mother that I won’t have any regrets, because I was there for my mother...Thanks again Paula..😘.

This comment killed me😆😆😆 Great sense of humor!

Melinda C 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 LOLLLLLLL

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Yes exactly like him haha! 😂

@@Dingle1234 - What a hoot, I enjoyed that show! I have lived half of my life in the South and (except for the humidity) loved it. Good people with common sense. 💜👍🏜️

Yes, you're blessed! Prevention is the best cure so keep watching out for it! 🥰

I noticed that a lot of toxic men try to lock a relationship down by getting the woman pregnant. Women should really learn that it is NOT always a good sign if a man wants to have children. Btw, good on you for getting out of that relationship.

I experienced the same thing but it was financially on the hook signing a lease together. Mask came off after 2.5 years. I thought he had a breakdown of some sort. Tried to get him help too. Then after 1 year of trying to fix things (hindsight I never should have done this) he stated something and I said to him “so this is all intentional?” And he basically answered “oh, yeah!” Then it took me 1 year to get him to leave because he wouldn’t.

I've been there. At one point I wanted to have a baby with him because I was so in love. I was discarded after four years because the only supply I had left was "unstable, emotional, fat old and needed to get out of the house" This was years of sabotaging every single relationship and lost my job because of his abuse. His last words to me were "sorry for leading you on" I went through hell fighting for him to see my worth and NOTHING was ever good enough. They want control. Period! No offense but I am so glad I didn't get pregnant. I could not imagine having his influence on an innocent child.

“It’s much easier to leave when you know the rules of the game” Well said!!!

@@fortytwocrayons3485 I agree. These predators feed off of what works to get a reaction and then amp it up to see how far they can get and then use those tactics on the new person with timing and sneakier ways. It's sick. No offense to anyone but I thank God I kept my own place and don't have a child from satan's spawn.

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Karl C. Indeed.

CrazyCatLadyInc9 I know. Can you imagine. He sounds like a lunatic. I can’t see anyone ever wanting to stay there after seeing his responses to a little criticism.

@@alisade127 People who think they are so intelligent are apparently blind to their stupidity, because this is not business smart to publicly post such comments where possible clients can see it!

@@crazycatladyinc9559 Yes, it's so ironic that he thinks his replies will actually help improve his reputation!

@@crazycatladyinc9559 yes the size of his blind spot beggars belief!

Toxic personalities do seem to be so caught up in their grandiosity that they dont see how they are perceived..they think they are managing our perception but they are actually making it completely obvious to us that they are toxic.

That's meee.

Thats my ex :)

Haha! Hello!! 😀

You should tell the guests to turn around before it's too late when you see them walk towards the building! 😂

@@LiveAbuseFree I wouldn't dare! He has it in for me as it is!!! Thinks he own's the entire building and if he gets a bad rating he somehow finds a reason to blame me for it (mainly because I have dogs and he doesn't like them) Have scoured his reviews for complaints of dogs and nothing about them, but plenty about his bad service.

@@LiveAbuseFree There was even one bad review that someone left that he replied to months later, and his opening sentence was " I have been thinking about this review for months trying to find reasons why you would tell lies...."

Thank you! 😊 It sounds like the person needs attention and plays the victim. Narcissists can do this but you don't have to be a narcissist to do it. I will make a video about it, thanks for the idea!

I noticed the 'pity me' exaggerations with Meaghan Markel's semi-sister. Not whether or not she needs a wheelchair etc, but the acting on top of it - the slumping over, and (was it struggling to write?) something with her hand. It's akin to the intermittent tearless wailing/sobbing of the post-homocidal narc. I don't want to gift them any tips, but... 1. less is more 2. acting school

Carers have told me stories about elderly people exaggerating or inventing illness or disability. Usually this is because they've been living on their own and they hoped appearing needy would convince their offspring, they needed to be with them. But what happens is the children get them carers because either they work, or they just don't want their toxic parent in their home. The elderly parent can't now say I'm not really as poorly as I said, it doesn't matter if you are not at home all the time - well they could but it wouldn't get them what they want. So the elderly parent will make things as difficult as possible for the carers, by being unhelpful and mean and refusing to do things they can actually do themselves. They will then call their offspring to tell them how horrible and nasty the carers are, and make as much trouble as they can for the offspring concerning the carers. They may also hope that If they can get the carers to refuse to do the call, their children will have no other option but to take them in. This scheme never works though. Because now the offspring are grown up they no longer believe the parent has life or death power over them, and they will have ceased blaming themselves for at least some of the abuse. The parent/abuser though hasn't changed, and they only know one way to behave, and they continue doing that, with minor adjustments, hoping their wicked child will eventually respond in the emotional manipulation. I think some narcissistic parents as they age realise they are going to need their children if they don't want to end up in a care home, but they also realise they have injured and harmed their children to such an extent, they might just do that and abandon them in a care home. They can no longer yell and threaten physical violence to get their children to do what they want, so they resort to emotional blackmail, and playing on the normal person's empathetic responses to a person in pain and in need. Don't be manipulated.

Unfortunately narcissist end up with codpendents alot because the codependent has been taught in their upbringing to tolerate other peoples inappropriate behavior. If she is still with him then I'll bet she is miserable.

Thanks! Haha! People like that remind me of Basil Faulty from Faulty Towers!

Yes, he’s called Basil Fawlty 😄

Joan, that's the first thing I thought, too.

Yeah..or considering, that the other guests mentioned that the water was rusty brown, it might be a simple case of someone having gone to bed after a shower ..without bothering to dry with a towel first, all that well. ;D)

@@hsk2909 😂 yes!

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Diane R thank you 😊

Yes I agree, much worse!

I don't think the guy can help himself. If he is a narcissist they have to hit back they can't stop themselves.

My pleasure! 😁

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I was looking for this comment!

Yes, I was also looking for someone who noticed that! And wasn't his name also Mike?

Thank you! 😊

I know! 😂 After reading those reviews I can't imagine why anyone would stay there!

@@LiveAbuseFree 🤣

roseyrosita101 haha! 😁Thanks for sharing, it’s a shame we weren’t all laughing together!

@@LiveAbuseFree oh we were 😂 laughing love from Australia

Thanks Marie! 😊

Reminds me of fawlty towers

J ACY Aw! Thank you so much! (As always!) ❤️

Hahaha! 😂

Hi Paula! 🤗

Lana Muir wow!