ABANDONMENT ISSUES and INNER CHILD HEALING WORK | Wu Wei Wisdom

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Abandonment issues explained: Do you fear being rejected or abandoned in your relationships? Do you stay emotionally unavailable to protect yourself? Abandonment issues are often a sign of unresolved childhood hurt. We explain how to heal your Inner Child… 👉 Work one-to-one with David: www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies...
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• The childhood causes of adulthood fear of abandonment and rejection.
• The ‘life lesson’ that you must teach your Inner Child for healing abandonment issues.
• Practical tips and guidance to support and heal your Inner Child.
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@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Did you enjoy this video ❓ Post your comments & questions below! ✅ WATCH OUR FULL INNER CHILD VIDEO PLAYLIST: ru-vid.com/group/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq 🌱 Want to work one-to-one with David? ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies-for-body-mind/ 🌱 Join our private Facebook Community Support Group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ 🌱 Sign up to receive a RELAXING GUIDED MEDITATION GIFT, plus our weekly newsletter + offers via email ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/signup/ ~~~ ▶️ OTHER VIDEOS YOU MAY ENJOY • How to Understand Your Emotions | Heal Your Emotions ➜ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9XuoL9pQSR8.html • DEALING WITH REJECTION | The Truth About Rejection ➜ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-mIlyn4MjDA8.html • BREAK THE SELF SABOTAGE CYCLE | Why Do I Self Sabotage My Happiness? ➜ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-8xOmnlLZ08I.html • The Self-Love Secret: How to Begin Loving Yourself ➜ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE--IRP62paGZE.html • Find Real Love: Inner Child, Mindset and Relationship Advice ➜ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-E_2BLQrmb-I.html • Inner Child Healing for Love Addiction, Codependency & Codependent Relationships ➜ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-J1olSZ1wyz0.html • Highly Sensitive Person Traits: MASTER YOUR 3 HSP SUPERPOWERS ➜ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-DY3jzYOvIwM.html • Letting Go of The Past - Childhood Trauma & Living in The Now ➜ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-eoiZex2C9SI.html • How to Stop Negative Self Talk - Inner Child Work ➜ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE--bzt4apHvl4.html • Reparenting Your Inner Child (Part 1 & 2) ➜ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-SndWtblVf2U.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-BYUxAQYpsKg.html

@CosmicHealingGoddess 3 года назад

Lol what I find so sad and funny at the same time is all the self talk you spoke about in this video is exactly what I’ve told myself for over 30 years. When I look back, I realize where has this self talk gotten me? Nothing but pain, hurt, horrible relationships, constant self sacrifice to please others, abandoning myself! 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m done with it! You’re right, it’s harder to be in that negative state vs healing yourself and this creating more pleasurable experiences (leading to pure bliss, peace and abundance in all areas). Thankyou 🙏🏻♥️ everything you state is 🎯🤗♥️👍🏻👏🏻🙌🏻

@CosmicHealingGoddess 3 года назад

David...I have a very interesting question. I’m a very compassionate and empathic person. Being highly sensitive and caring towards others, unfortunately, has left me hurt and abused time and time again. I believe it such a beautiful trait, to be a loving person. God wanted His ppl to have these qualities. For example, Ive been called gullible so many times and it’s not that I’m stupid (I’ve very intuitive), but I always see the good in ppl and seen potential in those who where operating at of a space of hurt and wounding themselves. I always sympathized with these ppl. However it has lead to heartbreak and disappointment, since childhood (I’m now 43). I’ve learned to set up boundaries. Now, as a result of being hurt so many times, I gave up on being so nice. Now I find I’ve swung the complete opposite way and become very isolated (which I do enjoy). I’ve many other videos about this topic, however, where I’m left confused is ... (I question often times), “why is that if I’m truly an empathic, sensitive, loving and caring person, ... why is it that I feel in order to protect my energy I need to be more cruel. I’ve witnessed so many ppl around me, who are incredibly narcissistic and inauthentic (put on a show for others), and meanwhile they always receive what they desire. Is that fair? Well you may be saying, “here goes her inner child talking,” and yes it may be that...but it’s what I see...mean ppl have it all and good ppl keep getting daggers thrown at them. I’ve felt like my entire life was a battle (til now). When you speak about being your true authentic self, I reflect on what my beautiful qualities are and all it’s given me was disappointment and pain. Now I’ve suppressed these qualities, but have to admit I’m sad because it’s not whom I am. Why can’t be we whom we truly are, even if it is being highly sensitive? From this standpoint, it gets confusing for me. Highly sensitive ppl have to set up strong boundaries, yes, but it’s been painful doing so. How can we change this? How can I be a HS person whom carries so much emotion without running the risk of hurt again?

@lightoflovehealer3199 3 года назад

I just realized that I am allowing my abandonment issues are affecting and harming my love ones because I'm so easy to give up for the fact that I have abandonment these abandonment issues. I usually pick lovers that have the same because I know how much they are hurting because I'm going through the same as well and I want them too prove to me that I'm worthy of them even when I push them away. Unfortunately, it's a hero/saver situation. Me, playing hero in the beginning always feeling as if I need to be saved in the end. Really this dinamic goes back and forth through out the relationship. I now see this because of my awaken of it. An awareness. Now I need to figure out how to transform this energy to a more positive way of perceiving it.

@lisasconsciousrecovery 3 года назад

#wu Wei wisdom David is it best to do this by writing it?

@judithc2335 2 года назад

111111111111q

@yohanessunjoko2837 3 года назад

Today I made a promise to my inner child that I'll be loyal to him and that I never ever leave him, never

@paulinehudner2615 2 года назад

You have to be your own best friend first. 😊

@sammyidris1002 2 года назад

you will be tested

@edithriosfranco1773 2 года назад

🙂

@sll110 Год назад

😭😭😭😭😭

@jesseligon9709 3 года назад

My mother and father loved me unconditionally. Even though I had a learning disability, they were patient with me. They made sure I had the best education. My mother wanted me to express my feelings. She did not judge nor condemn me for negative feelings. My speech impediment caused me to be frustrated, but my parents had compassion towards me. Mother thank you for your unconditional love and patience (Rest In Peace).

@lindafranco961 2 года назад

I recently just discovered re-parenting or healing my inner child. From being found wandering the streets in Mexico at maybe 2 or 3 and then ending up in an orphanage, getting adopted, growing up with physical and verbal abuse from my adopted mother, and then a broken marriage and family, needless to say I have faced abandonment, rejection, and fear all my life. My adult me overcame many things as I started to understand but I never realized until recently that my inner child had never healed until I ventured into a new relationship after 7 years of being single. I started noticing old triggers, me trying to self-sabotage, and run. I realized that I also had abandoned my inner child. Thank you for this video. It really made a lot of sense and opened my eyes to a lot.

@nickifreedom6250 2 года назад

I have this abandonment issue. I was married to a narcissist for eighteen years and he was my toxic support system. I left him two years ago. Now I am totally alone living in a new place..with cptsd conditions... At this point I would usually cling to husband. All the abandonment issues are arising. It feels like a living hell. I can see all the learning here...yet it's very unnerving.. especially when disassociated.

@prismonthethehorizon5793 2 года назад

3:50 "My inner child creates fear". Fear is a red light feeling. 4:29** Causes in childhood that create the inner child abandonment issues. 1. Domineering parent 2. Over protective parent. 3. High standards and expectations of a parent. 4. Abusive parent, verbally, emotionally, physically or sexually 5. Physical abandonment. Death in the family, separation or divorce, workaholic parents, parent working away all the time, being taken into care etc. 8:20 If a child experiences a lack of stability or experience a situation/s that makes them doubt their own ability to cope or undermines their sense of safety such as an emotionally unavailable/ absent parent.

@petestevens3970 3 года назад

There’s a range of childhood experiences which create IC chaos: Neglect, abandonment. Attachment issues. Sabotage/ betrayal. “Gaslighting”. Although most definitely healing, who I was/ am was severely undermined, the radical rupture at age twelve. The more of ‘me’ I heal and ‘recover’, the more aghast I am at my experience, the “family”, the “parent” ... nearly the whole ball of wax. What does one do if nearly all of one’s experience is way, way off - not merely an incident here, an incident there? At fifty-three, it occurs to me that everything past age twelve appears to be a “wash”; its as if I haven’t even been here. I was referred to this content, and I thank you.

@jenaya_laila2442 3 года назад

The child has the right to have normal "expectations" such as love, protection, attention and respect!

@machaelaproudley2055 4 года назад

Thank you once again David and Alex for your videos. This one, in my opinion, is by far the most helpful. I think it reaches out to a massive part of the population and could be life changing if people took your advice and had a chat with their inner child. The comment about not having to actually have been abandoned to feel abandomement was also an excellent point.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thanks for your kind feedback Machaela! Wishing you a peaceful week 🙏

@Mushroom321- 4 года назад

"Who's emotionally driving" your" life".. 🤔 Great internal question.. Emotional - self responsibility Yes!, it is the most crucial of development to know...

@johnzhang5114 4 года назад

completely have no idea why there are so little views.. it should be millions

@Blastingmike 3 года назад

23:00 I felt like that for a long time, that I'm a jigsaw and a piece of me is missing. Sometimes I also feel I'm the jigsaw piece trying to find the rest of the jigsaw, to fit in and belong.

@1ajtg 3 года назад

I remember thinking as a child 'it must be me'. To make things right I became a helpful fixer of all who I loved. I'm on a brand new path, late in life. Through your videos I'm trying to heal and have my 'own back', instead of everyone elses. Thank you...

@WuWeiWisdom Год назад

Thanks for sharing!! Kind regards, David.

@sherececocco 2 года назад

I was 10 years old in 1986 and I failed my family. I held her and connected with her and she knows she was failed. I love her and understand her. 🎯

@ninah5938 3 года назад

You have saved my life! I cannot tell you how grateful I am for your wisdom. I have gotten to understand myself better than I ever have. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 🙏🏾

@5xakirax50 4 года назад

thank you so much for your work, and the amount of information you give out on youtube, its gold.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thanks for your support Qastal - we appreciate it! 🙏

@sandrashaw5891 3 года назад

Its 'I cant cope'. Only started to hear about inner child today. 20 years of panic.. I've alot to learn. I can see her clearly

@devallaved 3 года назад

I watch one new training daily and it’s been transformative to say the least... thank you 🙏🏾

@jcepri 4 года назад

I grew up in a home with a lot of emotional and physical abuse. I know that I share a lot of symptoms with a lot of others, but I struggle with three major issues that I don't hear much about. I am wondering if they are causes by unresolved inner child issues. The first is rage. If something doesn't go right and I get frustrated, I can fly into a rage and start slamming things. Or I lash out at a customer service representative on the phone, or road rage. My anger seems to be WAY out of proportion to the problem. Afterwards I feel like crap. The other is I get extremely overwhelmed with managing aduly responsibilities like paying bills, cleaning, dishes, etc. As a result, my home is a DISASTER. I feel like a child sometimes where I get overwhelmed and can't handle the stress of managing my own affairs. I live alone and so my house gets so bad that it can take me 4-5 hours to straighten my house to where I can allow anyone in. If someone comes to my door, I don't answer because I would die if they saw my house in that condition. I have struggled with this mess problem since I was a child. When I say mess, I mean it is REALLY, REALLY bad. Dishes all over the house, laundry on the floor in every room, papers all over. I am not a hoarder because I can definitely throw things out. It is more like I get overwhelmed by having to put things away and clean up after myself. This causes a lot of shame. The third is about panicing when I experience a sudden "crisis". If something happens and I don't know how to fix it, I freeze and obsess over it. Recently my diswasher started leaking water on the floor. I freaked out. I had no idea what to do, so I started to panic. I flew into a rage because it is only 1.5 years old. A "normal" person can think logically and remain calm, but I can't.. Could there be a connection to unresolved emotional issues?

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Hi Jeff, Thanks for your question. As you will appreciate it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. The issues you have outlined are typical of the Inner Child syndrome that we work on with the Wu Wei Wisdom, perhaps you could look at our RU-vid videos on this subject. Also, remember you are the creator of your emotions, not the victim of them. You may find that you have to do a little work on those two areas. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. David

@jenaya_laila2442 3 года назад

I would guess that you were completely overwhelmed as a child and you felt left alone at a very young age. That's why you may feel overwhelmed in adulthood. It's a self-esteem and self care issue as well. They are both connected to self love. I am saying all this because my story is similar!

@starseeds8121 7 месяцев назад

I understand.

@bugsea54 7 месяцев назад

I had so many people abandon me or die at a young age, I don't rely on anyone. I'm the opposite and have trouble bonding. So I've been single/alone for over 50 years. I raised my son alone, he's married now and I'm still alone. I'm so used to loss that I expect it and am extremely independent. I can't stand needy, controlling, or jelousy. I think in the beginning when a partner really needs confirmation from me they don't get it. I'm working on it

@WuWeiWisdom 7 месяцев назад

Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.

@barbaramassey3787 4 года назад

BEST video ever! Thank you! Not the discussion one might expect. When you approach the problem from a new angle, it becomes possible to solve the problem. Unexpected and unwanted events lead the inner child to say "I am defective." The inner child does not have the correct explanation. Unwanted events have other sorts of causes. Shen is never damaged or defective. So stand on your own two feet. Love because of love. Do not cling to other people because of the false belief that you are defective. Clinging is not love: it is manipulation that stems from false belief.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thank you Barbara! Great summary :) 🙏

@nancybiscello4141 4 года назад

I can't understand how I created my emotions, if I was abused as a child..I didn't choose to have these feelings

@ClaireJ89 3 года назад

They need to reword that sentence to say your brain created your emotions. Creating emotions is against our will so I too, do not feel I created the emotion. My brain created the emotion. What I understand from years of counseling, because I was an abused child, they mean your brain created the emotions. It is genetic for brains 2 have a natural response and in return create a reaction 2 ensure survival of the species. All boils down to survival of the specie to be able to procreate and keep the world populated. Our brains have an emotion and then a reaction to protect us from feeling that emotion again. Our reaction could be not trusting people. But then our brains hold on to it throughout our life. Not trusting people ensures that you won't be hurt emotionally and therefore Insured you will not be around bad people. Which ensures you will survive to be able to procreate and keep the earth populated. The second thing going on is that the brain will react, or justify to be able to understand a negative emotion. The brain tries to protect your inner core, "ego", "id". I think you also should understand that everybody's brain is built different. The part of the brain that handles danger and alert could be more sensitive in one child brain than another. Everyone's brain is built different which means people feel things at different levels and hold onto things differently. The anatomy of the brain and genetics are the reason why a brain is the way it is psychologically. Never stop learning.♡

@louisianaeu828 3 года назад

You didn't choose neither did I or any other victim. Those shity experiences get recorded in our bodies , neural system and our brains. When people say do not let your past to define your future, it is more about understanding the impact and damages it had on you and how it has impaired your capacity to love , building trust, accept love....and working in owning that past as a way of rewriting your future from your sould, from your true self and Not from that scar or scars that were left inside of us.

@yohanessunjoko2837 3 года назад

I'm so sorry to hear that you were abused as you were a child, but I also am congratulating you for your success in thriving through the difficult moment.... See, life hadn't been as beautiful as you might have expected, but you still managed to deal with it... It's time now to celebrate you and to create joy, bliss, happiness, green light feeling

@MichelleEstrada 3 года назад

@@BuddhaofBlackpool it’s actually not a breach of confidentiality because he’s not using any names. So he can say “my client” this and that all day as long as he doesn’t give away any personal information that would link us to that client as an individual like a name or an address or phone number.

@mauiswift6391 3 года назад

@@BuddhaofBlackpool they are speaking as an adult not as a child. They are referring to as a child but as an adult you are responsible for your feelings.

@cheryl3518 7 дней назад

🎉Breakthrough 🎉I do create my emotions! My emotions are innate. I believe there is a trigger… a look, smell, word etc which evokes the feelings, the emotions. Understanding this, I can now start to heal and become healthy. I will be devouring your trainings on a daily basis. Knowledge,Discernment , Wisdom ;❤ON My Way❤. You authentically care. My love and blessings to you both. Words are insufficient to express my gratitude. Thank you so very much

@WuWeiWisdom 6 дней назад

Hi @cheryl3518, 🎉 What a wonderful breakthrough! 🎉 Recognizing that we create our emotions is a powerful step towards resolving issues and fostering a healthy Shen spirit. It's fantastic to hear you're committed to deepening your understanding through our trainings. Your journey towards knowledge, discernment, and wisdom is truly inspiring. Thank you for your heartfelt words and blessings. Kind Regards, David

@Mushroom321- 4 года назад

Yes!, "divorce" is hell on a child's psyche.. 🙀 🙊 💔 Then the child takes it to "adulthood "... "A child looks externally for the stability.." 🤔

@sadiqaisha4057 Год назад

1 think my fear of abandonment comes from my pre-teen years where I had to form meaningless friendships to avoid the intensity of the bullying I went through. Those friendships lessened the name calling, insults simply because I wasn't a lone wolf. But in a way, I had to maintain the friendships by people pleasing, being overly giving etc. As a 23 year old today, I struggle with being committed to friendships. I can't connect deeply even though I crave it. Ironically, I can quickly make friends but I feel like l'm just pretending because I genuinely don't enjoy the person's company.

@WuWeiWisdom Год назад

Thank you for sharing your story with us. We are delighted that our videos are helping with your spiritual journey and emotional education. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

@lukalukadublin Год назад

You both are such a gift to the world

@sarahs3876 4 года назад

Just got done with an ACA 4th & 5th step and this wrapped it up into a life changing bow. Amazing. Thank you!

@jayong1977 4 года назад

this explains perfectly what happened to me when my 3 abusive siblings all in their 30's gave me the silent treatment for having my own baby (they are all childless out of choice). Now I've healed I can see the inner child in them which is the reason for their abuse. Thank you so much for helping me understand why we all behave in these unconcious emotional ways. It all stems from both our parents never being available emotionally, due to they their own neglectful upbringing.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Great personal insights Jason - thank you for sharing! 🙏

@xw6475 4 года назад

48 minutes of bless. Thank you so so much for this video. I related to it so much, my parents divorced with i was 10 years old. I always thought it was my fault, i was the cause that they fell apart and my self esteem dropped to the rock bottom. Hence i started to seeking external validation from others, specially from the guys i have dated. But it was just until recently, i discovered this little inner child was crying and she wanted me to be there for her. i know i need to be on my healing journey now. Your both are healing angels, please stay blessed and stay safe. #wuweiwisdom

@petestevens3970 3 года назад

God. I’m almost afraid to watch this! However, after only a few minutes, its apparent this is a strong channel. Thank you!

@cancerianlove262 2 года назад

This is huge for me. I was abandoned so many times as a child. Thank you Dave, I am working hard on this

@kevinlynch1227 3 года назад

Thanks for another great video. I am learning so much and learning to let go... mostly of the things my inner child was hurt and angry about because my inner little "Buddy" perceived it to be unfair and unjust.. He was hurt, scared, disappointed, angry, and he was very frightened of men but wanted another strong man to love him and save him, and teach him how to relate to men so he could be confident and not afraid and one of the guys!! This is the most important thing in my life and my little buddy was holding me back and making me afraid and needy and I didn't understand and this was causing rejection all over again. Now, since I realize. I am 100 percent in control of these feers and needs and explain to my little buddy that life is not always fair, and we have to move on, use bounce back ability and accept that it did happen to us, see what positive came out of it, and what are we going to do now to stop the carousel of dispare and move on to be ok and nurture ourselves so we can attract healthy people, and continue to grow as a free functioning adult? I am really starting to get it. Love your vids and explanations. THANKS AGAIN, SO MUCH!! THIS IS THE BEST THERAPY I EVER HAD, and I had a lot!!

@nickifreedom6250 2 года назад

Isn't it right to acknowledge that it wasn't fair. For the anger and hurt to surface.

@adam.bozo.wporzo 4 года назад

Amazing, this is one of the best RU-vid channels that i have ever seen. Thank you.

@jeanniegichigi2765 3 года назад

I just want to say thank you to both of you! I have know for years and years that my childhood abandonement issues have impacted my adult life so much. As a Teenager I was fearful of people, situations and things; terrified of spiders to the extreme! I have written to so much in my journals about how damaging this must have been to the small child that my mother physically abandoned at age 2.5 years old. As an adult I know that she meant no harm ( and if she did, also it was because thats all she understood). She left to go and create a better life materially for herself and her family - so yes she meant well, but the small, sensitive child that I was felt abandoned an from your videos, I am beginning to understand that the small child, my inner child concluded that they were not good enough and that's why they were abandoned. They must also have concluded that it was their fault why they were left. All this has manifested itself as: 1. A feeling of not being lovable. 2. A sense of not being good enough. 3. A fear of being abandoned in relationships and therefore expecting people to leave me. My teenage experiences compounded these feelings as I spent my time trying to get people to accept me; trying to change who I am so that I can be accepted; loathing who I am, as I saw myself as not good enough. I went around hiding myself and displaying a false self. It feels like I have been seeking whatever I felt was wrong with me everywhere but never finding it. The main block to really acknowledging what happened to my inner child is because I did not want to blame my mother as I know what she went through to get to where she got to and the sacrifices she had to make, such as leaving her 3 children for 10 years with their grandmother. (She was lovely, a very protective woman and I have no negative recollection around her - I held on to her skirt for dear life, perhaps because I was afraid she may leave too! THROUGH YOUR VIDEO AND THIS ONE IN PARTICULAR, i UNDERSTOOD FOR THE FIRST TIME, THAT I CREATED THOSE EMOTIONS TO DEAL WITH WHATEVER HAPPENED TO ME THEN AND ALSO THAT ITS NOT ABOUT BLAME BUT BECOMING RESPONSIBLE FOR MY FEELINGS, EVEN THOSE THAT APPEARED DURING MY CHILD HOOD, WHEN I COULD NOT FIGURE OUT WHAT WAS HAPPENING! THEREFORE IT WAS NEITHER MY FAULT OR MY MOTHERS, BUT I NEED TO OWN THIS NOW, THATS WHAT I UNDERSTOOD - CORRECT ME IF YOU CAN!

@Mushroom321- 4 года назад

"When you believe you create the emotion your life changes".. 😼 😺 ❤

@neetaarora7908 Год назад

Glad to see the way you two open up the unrealistic expectations, neediness, dependence, and so much that stem from feeling abandoned, living without addressing it. Thankyou

@WuWeiWisdom Год назад

Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. We are pleased that you found our comments helpful. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.Kind regards, David.

@ElvenIvy07 4 года назад

131 likes???? Wtf! I feel like this information could save people's lives yet it has 131 likes? I'm only 20 minutes in and I'm feeling the benefits of learning about my inner child and why she has me behaving in such unhealthy ways. I feel like I was a little bit overprotected as a child and it's taught my inner child that I needed that protection because I can't do anything alone. Understanding where that stems from helps me to see exactly what I need to work on and that my lack of trust in myself comes from something that shouldn't have really happened. I know my inner child interpreted that overprotection incorrectly which is normal at a young age and we are learning to reason. And I understand why I came to view myself a certain way. I feel like this information has given me direction and I can finally get on the right path to correcting my my views of myself.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thank for your positive feedback ElvenIvy07 and for sharing your story! :-) We have over 20 teaching videos on the Inner Child that you may find helpful (including one on the 'overprotected child'/'helicopter parents') - here's our Inner Child video playlist: ru-vid.com/group/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our RU-vid Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ ru-vid.com (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

@ElvenIvy07 4 года назад

@@WuWeiWisdom Thank you so much!!! I love the work you are both doing and I can't really express how much I appreciate it! Also the way you are so patient when each other are speaking...you just look like such a lovely couple 😊. Thank you again!

@selenefee7801 3 года назад

This is an amazing video. Shines such a bright light on recurring relationship issues... AMEN

@natalie.natalie.natalie 3 года назад

Thank you so much. You are lovely parent figures. After a big adventure with relating to others I am here to have a dialogue with my young part that feels depleted after a great event. Thank you 🙏🏼🌺

@WuWeiWisdom Год назад

You are so welcome! Kind regards, David.

@smilel82 2 года назад

David’s ❤️ for Alex 👏🏼👏🏼

@jcepri 4 года назад

This is one of your best videos in my judgement. So powerful.

@hopeglory1286 2 года назад

So this is self talk Only with the inner child? Just what I needed.

@DREAMQ100 4 года назад

I cant thank you enough this is the most practical channel on youtube filled with wisdom and clarity.. May allah bless you .. I went through hell and now I'm here and well thank you. I was fostered in 4 homes and they all pitch dark hell and then lived with a narcissist for 18 years,I almost lost my sanity.to add I lost my mother in a car accident in 2016 and it was indescribable I saw her dead in front of me that was my wake up call. Thank you this helps me alot and take me out of all this craziness and depression.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thank you for sharing your story. We appreciate your support! 🙏

@scbuddoldschool5313 3 месяца назад

I love this ; it is really making me understand my inner child. Thank you very very much. Crystal Budd

@WuWeiWisdom 2 месяца назад

Hi @scbuddoldschool5313 (Crystal Budd), it's wonderful to hear that our content is helping you connect with and understand your inner child. This understanding is a powerful step towards resolving issues and nurturing your Shen spirit. Remember, every step forward is a victory, and you're not alone on this journey. If you ever feel like sharing your experiences or learning from others, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community is a place where you can find support and encouragement: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Keep exploring your path with kindness and courage. Kind Regards, David.

@Incognito-ju9dy 4 года назад

Thank you very much Wu Wei Wisdom. Love to you!

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

We deeply appreciate your support! 🙏

@dbj1111 9 месяцев назад

So profound , I just met my inner child. I am blessed! Thank you.

@WuWeiWisdom 9 месяцев назад

Yes you are! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023 Kind regards, David.

@nuday777 2 года назад

Yes. This led to me seeking emotional stability in external things. Mainly attention from relationships with guys

@LR-kj8ec 4 года назад

I can't explain how much everything you both said resonated with me. Thank you so much for explaining these concepts. Your sincerity and generosity on sharing this information is truly appreciated. I'm binge watching your videos. Setting my intention to work with David this year! :-)

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

You are so welcome Loriza! You can lean more about how we can help you here: www.wuweiwisdom.com/welcome/ x

@AP-ur1cd 2 года назад

So thankful I stumbled upon this channel and all the content that hits home with me , and actually give practical practices instead of stating obvious “symptoms “ on the topics and really like how she puts her self in the questionnaires shoes to play the topic out , unique and beyond helpful thanks to the both of you can’t be said enough

@DamesTravel 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your knowledge and techniques to help heal the subconscious inner child. ❤🎉

@WuWeiWisdom 8 месяцев назад

Happy to help! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.

@munkami 4 года назад

Absolutely brilliant

@yohanessunjoko2837 3 года назад

Thank you David and Alex... My takeaways after watching your video are that it's absolutely childish to expect that life should be what I wish, but through wu wei wisdom I can cope with it with my trueness, my genuine me...and that I am already complete, already whole, it's a bad lie I have been holding for so many years that I have to be with another to make me complete.. I'm already complete.. Thanks again

@REE71901 3 года назад

I was just introduced to your videos. Amazing! I can’t wait to listen to the others. Thank you! ❤️

@MichelleEstrada 3 года назад

I would LOVE TO WORK WITH DAVID!! Omg yes. Please help me and my inner child lol seriously.

@Mushroom321- 4 года назад

I can't comprehend how this doesn't have more "likes". 🤔 I seek & live for me.. 😞 😼

@laurayates4033 3 года назад

LOVE LOVE LOVE. You two speak such truth and are such a blessing in this healing journey. Thank you!!!

@chiquitabee1 3 года назад

You guys are soooo great and helpful. Omg! I love you and I am trying to heal my inner child and I really need this . This one was sooo helpful. I’m committed and dedicated to both of you. How I wish I could have visitas /mentors as you two. Thank you so much for caring, for trying to reach out to those people; like me are feeling so alone and I create my own isolation, due to my past. I feel stuck.

@tinafugere4886 4 года назад

Excellent points. thank you both for your contributions to helping to heal our brokenness.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thanks for your kind feedback Sophia... we appreciate you 🙏

@judithwallace2091 4 года назад

This helps so much. I was looking for memories when I was physically abandoned and couldn't find memories that matched my deep sense of abandonment. Understanding that could instead have been some kind of life event which overwhelmed me as a child is so helpful. Exploring the root childhood respond to an overwhelming event and developing adult resilience to the overwhelm it time well spent. I will watch this video again. Thank you.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Hi Judith, thanks for sharing your personal insights... we're glad the video help you!🙏

@kamineepatel6177 3 года назад

Thank you so much - this was exactly what i needed - the universe is definitely working for me.

@Mushroom321- 4 года назад

👏 keep it up!! 😃 great team work!!

@clairem6596 2 года назад

Great video, Alex asks great questions, subscribed

@rubyanaya126 Год назад

Thank You ☺️💟

@cherylkeys1284 3 года назад

I enjoyed the brief bit of role playing and would like to see more. Excellent video. I am learning so much from you.

@thepromisedrib Год назад

everything you said i can relate to. hopefully i can see the life lessons. thank you for sharing this ❤️

@nzmikegibson Год назад

Great advice, very practical. Thank you for keeping it simple and concise. I’ve been searching for this for a long time.

@LoveLeigh313 2 года назад

I have severe abandonment issues and you’re dead wrong on thinking I’m looking to never make a mistake. Mistakes are how I learn. I just want someone to prove that they won’t leave bc I make mistakes

@lollipop3136 4 года назад

Thank you both for all of ur videos and information. I find you both so soothing to listen to.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thanks for your support Louise - we really appreciate it! 🙏

@melaniecaraballo5867 2 года назад

Wow an amazing video

@Mushroom321- 4 года назад

Same!, as the girl.. that s relatable.. certain Times, with the "Fairy god mother " thing.. Well explained!! 😺👏

@jenniferolson5345 Год назад

This was really good, thank you! I like what was said regarding emotional responsibility, an excellent point that I am going to take with me.💗🙏

@VikingJay17 4 года назад

This changed my entire day on my way into work this morning. I will train myself to remember this epiphany I stumbled upon to change my outlook on my life every day. Thank You!

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Hi Janet We're so pleased that we can help you in this way! :) We have lots more videos on healing old trauma and Inner Child work here that you may also find helpful: ru-vid.com/group/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our RU-vid Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ ru-vid.com (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

@deeagirdici-maher2483 4 года назад

Didnt even know why I was drawn to this one, but it's perfect for the feelings I've been experiencing for the last couple of days. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤

@innerworkpodcast9929 3 года назад

Thank you

@angiekitsonharris9495 4 года назад

You two are brillliant, thank you so much for all you share. Your help is the greatest thing since sliced bread!! 💓 Have so many questions to ask, but working on the wording and sorting out in my head so many years of creating all this.xxxxxxxxx

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thank you for your support Angie - we appreciate you! x

@sandrarachel9264 4 года назад

Thank you sooooo much for sharing your wonderful teachings and advice . I absolutely love your no-nonsense but yet loving approach , which touches me deeply. Happy Sunday Xx

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thanks for your kind feedback Sandra... we appreciate your support! 🙏

@taylorpresley4604 3 года назад

Another great video of TRUTH. Thank you David and Alex!!! Wonderful!

@WuWeiWisdom Год назад

Glad you enjoyed it Kind regards, David.

@littlelizzie5092 4 года назад

As always, a superb video teaching. I’m soo grateful for all of them. Learning and growing each day, You both are awesome! 💖💜🙏🏼👌🏼

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thanks Liz! You are awesome too 🙏

@thereseburns3309 9 месяцев назад

Thanks for all that ❤❤

@WuWeiWisdom 8 месяцев назад

You are so welcome. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.

@patriciakincaid3693 2 года назад

Thank you. I love what you doing. Very helpful

@WuWeiWisdom Год назад

You are so welcome. Kind regards, David.

@SunMoonDivinity 4 года назад

Wonderful Guidance❣️❣️❣️❣️

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thank you Alexandra! :) If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our RU-vid Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ ru-vid.com (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

@amayaraymond4486 4 года назад

Congratulations on 10k

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thanks for your support Amaya! We hope to see you again in 2020 🙏

@mariarichards5221 3 года назад

Thankyou your sharing benefits many. Blessings❤🙏

@WuWeiWisdom Год назад

You are so welcome. Kind regards, David.

@MichelleEstrada 3 года назад

I think to that clients point I can relate to that so much tbh (to be honest) what she said about wanting someone to have your back I think for me i want that because that’s what my ideal parent would be not so that I don’t ever mess up or make mistakes or get hurt but rather someone who can come in after wards and just say hey, you messed this up today let’s work on that. Or hey you did really great at this or that today. Keep it going. Sort of like an ideal parental figure would be like the perfect teacher.

@MichelleEstrada 3 года назад

Like a mentor.

@bthechange1633 3 года назад

@@MichelleEstrada yes I agree, someone to champion you/us on. Validating and reassuring.

@lpereira7866 3 года назад

Good stuff, guys!

@WuWeiWisdom Год назад

Much appreciated! Kind regards, David.

@tnijoo5109 2 года назад

Sounds like good theories but it doesn’t seem like someone with emotional problems can just decide to do this without having outside emotional support. It kind of feels like a lot of speculation on something that they might never have experienced the depths of. Like you can go from being all “red light emotions” to the point of being dysfunctional and then just heal yourself with these theories.

@Asht558 4 года назад

thank you guys

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Hi Charles We're pleased that we can help you! We have lots more videos on healing old trauma and Inner Child work here that you may also find helpful: ru-vid.com/group/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our RU-vid Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ ru-vid.com (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

@rajitakumar8811 3 года назад

this video is phenomenally transformative for those facing abandonment issues. many thanks for sharing the teachings.

@WuWeiWisdom Год назад

Glad you enjoyed it! Kind regards, David.

@bhumikaupadhyay3581 4 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing these teachings. This video really helps and provides me with a direction and answers. Working with inner child is the most gratifying experience ever.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Bhumika, we're glad the teaching helped you! 🙏

@runwiththewind3281 4 года назад

Happy good Sunday morning wu Wei.

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Wishing you a peaceful Sunday 🙏

@joena. 3 года назад

Thank you for your videos. I'm realizing how I have to open up and acknowledge my inner child. Having unhealthy patterns with my family as in my childhood. Thank you for lesson you create your emotions and have the energy to have thoughts running wild but no energy. It clicked. Would love to do work with you. Thank you 🙏

@WuWeiWisdom Год назад

You are so welcome! Kind regards, David.

@elliepascoe5954 4 года назад

I agree with Tim. He said it all :-) But I made notes, and we will talk about it soon! Wishing you a sunny Sunday!

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Thanks for watching Ellie... looking forward to discussing this with you soon! 🙏

@Alsoechtjetzt 4 года назад

Hello Alex and David, this is really mindblowing! I'm going to translate this teaching into my german language for my friends who should at least have the chance to listen to this teaching. In german language and videos everything seems to be a bit more complicated. I love the english language because it's so clear for my heart. German is such a brainlanguage. But I try to translate with the help of a friend, who's an englishteacher. By the way, I will repeat and listen carefully, because I feel this is a coreteaching. When I listen I breath out and feel, yes, you only wanted it another way. And that's ok. But you have to accept it, if you want to get rid of all these thoughts of unfairness about your past and if you want to live your best live NOW. Thank you so much!! Claudia

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Hi Maria, thank you for your support in translating our work - we really appreciate it! We're glad the teaching has resonated deeply with you. 🙏

@loucasntounas8952 9 месяцев назад

I would like to thank you for this psychological upgrade with self worth and the spaces that we have to fill with ourselves as responsible people. Did I miss something? Sincerely Olga

@WuWeiWisdom 9 месяцев назад

Hello Olga, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.

@sulpicije 2 года назад

How can someone not feel unloveable if both parents tried several time to commit suicide, mother three times, father two and on second one he succeded... And father told his son when he was 6 that he will kill him if he moves under the blanket.. And living afterwards with mother who was deppresed all the time and felt like i was living with a dead body.. And ofcourse in relationship all that stuff is coming up.. And wreack havoc.. But i see a light, while working with inner child finaly i can give to that child care, family and friend that wont give up on him and who will be there always.. So i wanted to say, sometimes there are really heavy indicators of those feelings of abandoment, unloveable and emotional dysregulation.. Thank you for this..

@helenmilner2313 4 года назад

I’ve been working hard over the last several weeks on my 8 year old inner me who lost her father. I’ve been soothing my scared child every time she panics over trust, lies and abandonment to finally have a little inner peace and normality in my relationship. I’ve learnt today that he has been unfaithful... how do I heal my inner child now?

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Hi Helen, Thanks for your question. As you will appreciate it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. Well done for the work you have done so far. It seems as though there is still a little more Golden Thread Process work to do with her. Especially on her creating her emotions. There is a process of soothing her but then you have to emotionally educate her so that she understands that she *creates* her emotions and is not the 'victim' of them. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. Please subscribe to our RU-vid channel and don't forget to click the BELL icon. David

@christophersmethurst3001 4 года назад

I believe that you have to love yourself before you can love someone else!

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Yes! x

@chelsea6207 4 года назад

Hello David and Alex (it's Chelsea from the online group). I'm taking a wee break from social media but of course am keeping up with my inner child work and your videos❤ Wow, did you two make this video just for me? I am always astounded at how sometimes the discussion is so on point with my own experiences - but this one really hit home, almost as if I was in another private session with David. I can tell I have made great strides from where I was a year ago, but I still have a fair ways to go as I have realized after seeing this. I'm so grateful to both of you for sharing these teachings. 🙏💗

@WuWeiWisdom 4 года назад

Hi Chelsea... we're glad the teaching helped you! #stayawesome 🙏

@chiquitabee1 3 года назад

Is there any possibility that we can heal our pain , inner child, after we’re adults. I have more than few traumas. It hurts so much. A case of so many reasons. It only one one red light , there’s are sooo many. You guys touched me sooo much. I’m still stuck and can’t trust and find myself in several situations now as adult and don’t know any better than shut down. I’m married and I feel my family and hubby are tired of my pain. I feel they don’t take me serious at all. Think I’m making up and I have control and can get a grip on myself and fix things!