Actress Kelly Hu talks about not having kids 

Or who physically can’t because of fertility issues.

@@briannalee1998 True.

Every kid deserves parents. But not everyone deserves or wants kids

The only place I ever talked to Kelly was on Twitter, but it was enough for me to know how unique and precious a human being she is.

She was in Red Alert 3

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Absolute FACTS!

She old as fuck now

And awesome.

@gurujr Kelly Hu is the true physical definition of Beauty No BBL's No Botox No Lip Fillers Basically no cosmetic surgery in ANY way shape or form... awesome stuff 😁

Facts

Word she rocking it

Agreed. Too many actresses do plastic surgery

she look beautiful age just a number u can be young as long as u want

Well, if the couple decides to wait too late to start a family, it kind of is their fault. That's why it's important to consider timing.

@@Billy-bc8pkExactly.

Hu Kelly? 😉

My cousin’s wife had an issue, so they tried IVF few times and finally a baby girl. My mum was also a miracle baby, after my gran’s miscarriage it would be hard for her. After some years my mum arrived, but after one adopted elder sister.

Exactly, same here

Ya kids is a must.

So long as they take care of themselves, most definitely. She looks really good for her age -- if she still had all black locks she could pass for late 30s, early 40s.

….who mentioned anything about plastic surgery

​@@devineggins4 The OP did and they're right. It's refreshing to see natural aging gracefully who kept themselves up. And believe me it's easy to see the plastic surgery look, because it's like a standard obvious look.

Me too

Well said 👏

Too many people having kids that probably shouldn't. If anyone thinks that kids aren't for them, they absolutely should not have any.

Happiness is overrated. Most people who think like that will become some kind of degenerate. Achieving goals and accomplishments that are worthwhile is what really fulfills people

Some people don't even know what really makes them happy, happiness should come from within, outside factors should only complement it.

@@juleswinnfield616glad someone said it. I can’t stand when people who have them go you’re not going to have kids? Your life won’t be complete. I look at them and their relationship have become like stale roommates and theyve let themselves go gained 20lbs and aged themselves a few decades ya no thanks

Why are you paying for your kids to go to college?

Shouldn't. Good on you for not doing what shouldn't be done

Amazing gray hair doesn't seem to have the power to hide beauty

I’m glad she doesn’t hide her grey. On her IG, she proudly shows her grey.

Always remembered her in X2.

Absolutely right!!!!

Sometimes I feel world is really unfair. Some guys with deadbeat personality easily have kids with women, but nice guys longing for kids we don't get any 😢

I’m glad to know I’m not alone. I’ve been married for 25 years and we did everything to try to get pregnant, but never happened. Hard at first as I was struggling with emotional roller coaster, but later on I learned to accept my fate and was able to move forward and find happiness with my husband without children. We do have two beautiful four legged children 😂

A man can produce sp3rm well off until his 80's or more. You got plenty of options, speed dating (women over 30 yrs are desperate than men), dating apps, moving into a new state location, or a different country where your appreciated and goldmine. I've had friends I worked overseas that are 50's or 60's and still having kids with younger gfs/wives. It's the lack of mindset, confidence, comfort zone, and being physically fit to attract a woman that hold many men back.

@@Haruzak1 Because women keep chasing after the top 15% of Chad/Tyrone who are usually deadbeats. Sadly the good guys (the 85%) are invisible to vvomen.

You can always Adpot.

@kamuelalee - Agreed, But it's all WORTH IT. Look at it this way. You were born and here we are.

@@Jagosix But that's not the point. Even if I wanted a kid -- which I don't -- can't afford them unless I have a rich benefactor supporting me. LOL

I think Kelly can afford it.😂

@kamuelalee no rich benefactor required. Just surround yourself with the right people and Familia and raising kids will be a sinch 🤔 But if you have a mindset like the one you're talking about then Don't give kids a second thought

@@orokusaki9161 Really? Thought you wise until you misspelled cinch... Thanks for playing though

52 and believe in eugenics.

Me too. But...

Yup. A lot of today's generation are learning this late and the hard way.

This is why I'd be reluctant to be with a guy who said he didn't want kids. He can change his mind while I can't.

@@Tania-fx4uzTo be fair male fertility also decreases with age, while it is not impossible, it does become highly improbable. Also with older men, the risks of miscarriage exponentially increase, as do the physical and mental risks to the mother and child. It’s not worth the risk to try with an older man, but rather a virile man, preferably under 40.

Huh

@@jinndiaz3752 Could have been put through ChatGPT maybe?

Too

Thank you from muslim

Team no kids is actually a misnomer. If you’re spending time with nieces & nephews, you’re providing them with an extended family which will help them later on.

@@tringuyen7519 No, it is not... people not having kids en masse (which is actually happening right now in most Western nations) it means you eventually have a collapse on your hand.

42, no kids, living the dream.

52 and practice eugenics.

I am 58 and no children. Drama-free is the way to be.

​@@MrBoyYankee I'm not

Im 44 and i have no children. When i was young i wanted 10 kids but by the time i got to be 22 i stop thinking about being a father. I have a niece who is 28 and a nephew who is 21 (my big sister's children) who i have been extremely close to since they were first born but having children has been definitely wipe out of my mind totally years ago.

It is quite ironic isn't it? I have yet to meet one person who is not for kids advocate that their own mother should have taken that stance as well.

@@Billy-bc8pkAre you kidding? I have met loads that have, I’m one of them. My mother loves me but her quality of life drastically reduced once her kids were born and I got a front row seat to it. There were times I even resented her for bringing us into the world, because of the circumstances we had to endure and while it wasn’t her fault, I have definitely come to the conclusion that having children is for the financially stable and the selfish, no one else.

We just don't have the willpower and perseverance to deal with unnecessary responsibilities. Seriously, I could go child free and be happy for most of my life without having to go through the process of nurturing a kid that takes a toll on your mental, physical, and financial state. It really isn't worth it at all!

@@taraz6786 Was the father involved? Because if he wasnt then all the more reason things would of been very soul sucking for her. but with a good and responsible husband, I assume that would shift some of the burden at least.

@@vgjunkie8386 Thats a high level of fear which I believe thats for you to overcome in which you are responsible for. Plus if you find a good partner( which is also a responsibility), then you wouldnt be alone in the 'struggle' at the very least.

Their both moronic when they talk.

To count out straight couples that’s also capable does feel weird. It should be any couple.

You think JC loves yiu for hating others based on what they love? Disgraceful

Would you have the same mindset years down the line? That is the important question, putting ego aside.

@@cwoherem no one knows that, even for the parents so let's focus on now.

Kids eat all your food and drain your bank accounts.

@@user-er3ri6sc3j No lies were told here....lol.

Sort of, but when you look at places like South Korea, Japan, Britain, and U.S., you see that replacement levels are too low, and in about sixty year's time we are going to have some serious (and irrecoverable) infrastructural issues due to lack of said replacements.

​@Billy-bc8pk in sixty year's time most of us will be dead anyway and immigration is a thing.

And how do you expect things to go since she'd be your mother-in-law? Lol!

@@cwoherem She can always be my mother, my mother in law or big sister.

Yes and no for me. I would be overwhelmed at 50. When I was in my 20’s, I wanted kids but realized it would be difficult. I’m autistic, and can barely help myself.

whats even more sad is some people regret having kids, but will never say anything.

​@@jaAYnuMbeR5really? I never knew people regret having kids. But I know a lot people regret NOT/NEVER having kids in later life because they're lonely and they want descendants especially in Asian culture.

I'm unmarried. Do I want to get married if I find someone? yes. But I'm also fine if I don't. Do I want kids? It was a no when I was asked in my 20s and it's still a no in my 40s. If I were to suddenly get pregnant for some ridiculous chance. I would keep the baby and I'd be a great parent. I know I'd be great bc I was 23 when my baby brother was born and I did the whole shabang of taking care for a kid. He's in 3rd year college now. But being a great parent bc you end up having kids is not the same as wanting it. I know people who got married with kids and they grow old at 70 80s living alone, barley see their children and grandchildren. Maybe holidays and when they die. I won't be any diff. My nephew's kids and cousin's kids will visit me just as frequent. I think what's important than kids is having a spouse. when you're old like in 70s 80s, it's not your children that will be your companion, it's the person growing old beside you. I'm more worried about wanting some companionship when I'm 70 80 than if my grandkids be around.

@@Peechiness Finding a husband is easy, though, so long as you are approachable, caring, and peaceable, there are lots of options for people in their 40s. The thing is, though, the older you get the more baggage you accrue, and not properly growing up with the person -- only meeting to grow old(er) togetherm -- can have detrimental effects in the form of having difficulty forming a deep union beyond the surface level due to all the bones in the chest. There's also the risk that even if you do have kids, post-40 it's going to be a challenge to stay healthy to be a part of their life for more than just the formative years.

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You must be proud of that huh?

@@karangRNreally I got good good

Yes, some people shouldn’t have kids.

@@karangRNWhat does someone else’s decision matter to you?

I'm sure people regret not having kids when they are older. It's human nature. I probably would say the same when I'm older, but if I gotta be honest with myself, would I if time was turned back. I still wouldn't. I wish I was the type to want kids, but deep down I am tired of saying what is normal to say. I'm prolly going to be the same psycho who don't have the capacity to want one. I do enjoy watching parents enjoy their kids though. I don't want kids ever, but it's so lovely to see people with their family. It's a joy to watch. Just not for me unfortunately. oh and ps, I don't have pets or want pets either. Some people just aren't blessed with kids. I bet your kids are awesome ;)

@@Peechiness I have a family member been married for nearly 30 yrs now but at age 30 she was diagnosed with lupus and caused a series of health issues and doctors predicted she would have difficulty having kids. I'm sure that news devastated her since she loves kids. A few years ago, I heard her saying she's glad she didn't have the burden of having kids but I know deep down she thinks differently. Thank you for your comments about my kids. Good luck to you. Btw, just because you don't want kids do not make you a psycho...maybe just a weirdo 😜. Good luck to you. 🙏

Many of us don't regret it. I'm glad I don't have annoying expensive kids who will just disrespect & disappoint me. No thanks.

​@jinndiaz3752 😅 My Man! I am with you 😮🎉❤

@@jinndiaz3752 savage lol