ADHD Coach Ranks TikTok Advice: BEST to WORST! 

Always! Plus five topics that are on the backburner in my mind 😅

Yes! Love this and so true

I call ADHD me Carl so: Me with them, them with me and Me with Carl.

Yes! I was planning to talk about relationships (like romantic ones), but a general communication video like that would be awesome! I'll definitely work on it, I just have to figure out what the best ways to communicate are... don't want to speak badly on our behalf ❤️ if you have any ideas and specific questions I'd love to hear them too 😊

@@AntoniasUniverse I'm newly diagnosed and still learning about how I function so I don't have anything additional than what is already discussed in this video. I have no concerns about you speaking badly about our traits - every response you gave in this video was positive and informative, just keep doing what you are doing!

Let me tell you that the psychiatrist (who said was a specialist in Adhd) I was going to for my meds, was very irritated because I interrupted her.. 😢 but there were so many things she (wrongly) said about me, I had to...I couldn't wait🤷‍♀️ Everytime I did she was silent for a few seconds and said..."I wasn't finished"... 😔. She also told me that 'other people with adhd didn't need so much help as I did...' when I finally dare to ask for help for things I really knew other (nórmal) people could do themselves. But now she told me that in hér opinion also adhd-ers were not as invalid as I am...😢 I know it is not true, but it hurts so much. Also because I thought Adhd-specialised professionals would understand you (more) than not specialised ones... my expectations were (too) high and I was litterally in shock and tears when she told me those horrible and judgy comments. She also wondered why I could do the few things I cán do and not more...I told her in my opinion I try nów (after periods of depression and burn-out) to feel and react when I reach my borders and not go over them to please others...In hér opinion I had to stretch out those borders because when I was (intellectual) able to do it, I could not ask for help or delegate it.... It was (and is) very painful to meet people who are supposed to understand adhd-brains, hearing say that you just have to work harder to reach the neurotypical way of living (that's where the meds are for!) and not complaing so much and acting as if I were a victim...😢

@@c.neleman6630 Sending you hugs. That doesn´t sound nice. I would expect that she´d knew better than this. Our brain is unique and you shouldn´t change it, just because society wants us to function differently. Maybe you should find someone who understands ADHDers better and would actually encourage you instead of putting you down for the things that are hard for you to control.

@@terezahlubuckova1646 thank you for saying this and put some effort in reacting...💖 I still go on, till I find someone who understand me😅

Thank you so much, Simone ☺️

That's such a great idea!! Thank you for sharing 🥰 that's a prime example of how awesome externalising is

The root cause is important, not the expression of the symptoms, so it's hit or miss with those symptom videos. The big win is that people learn more or get a diagnosis for themselves after that at least.. so don't worry if you don't present the way people expect you to. Get answers if you can - your struggles are valid❤️ I wish you looots of luck ☺️

lmao!😀 I also looked up the guy after and saw that he's not like a psychiatrist or even a relevant doctor in the field and I was like.. why do some people feel the need to have an oppinion on everything? And why does it always have to be such a strong one 🙄 He's a perfect candidate for the diary of a CEO if he hasn't been on there yet lol

@@AntoniasUniverseI had to check now, lol. Apparently he hasn’t been. Yet. But he *has* been on Jordan Petersons 💩show, and that tells you a lot…