@@MariaH-th9ct how is that rude he is being kind? He never said anything wrong he only said a quote that was kind of funny that's all and it's not wrong..?
my father lived to be 93 it was hard the last few years because he was just a shell of the man he had been but i loved him so much could let him go when it was time but he was ready
Killian carragher both my nan and pop have Dementia it’s horrible and so sad to see them deteriorate :( they were so good a couple of years ago but now their in a dementia ward :(( it’s absolutely terrible
I pray that no one in my family ever gets Alzheimer’s, that looks like the most heartbreaking, gut wrenching thing to go through. Sending love to everybody who has ever dealt with this. You are strong
@@diogod2347 may they hate diseases becoz they lost someone. some times videos trigger people bringing their memories, they just forget whats going in video, they hate or love video based on thier memories
@@bananko8668 Exactly what I was thinking my great grandfather had Alzheimers and he'd forget that his wife had past away so instead of telling him she hadn't come in to see him because she had died we used to say that she couldn't make it today as she was cleaning the house but she will be in tomorrow so he wouldn't have to break his heart every time. now my Nan has dementia 😢 such a horrible thing.
Why did you tell him everyday? Was he. On treatment? I wouldve just told him on the days that the therapy was scheduled and let him be a happy man other days
I know this is an old comment but just wanted to share a similar experience I had... My grandma crocheted these huge detailed afghan blankets, one for each of her grandchildren. She passed away from lung cancer before I ever got mine. It wasn't until after her funeral that her roommate and best friend came to me with a beautiful red and white afghan blanket and a loving letter from my grandma. She had hidden them away, probably to give to me at Christmas, before she ended up in the hospital. It was one of the last things she did before she died.
akiru bamiru Unfortunately my dad passed away in February. There are still no cures or treatments for Alzheimer's. It's a terminal disease so those afflicted don't get better.
I am sorry for your lost! Really, that really make me thinking to go back home at new year eve's, to make a little visit to my grandmother, she has 96 years, and she may pass away, soon!
Hiya FootyManagerTV: Don't you worry! My mom was on the worsening dementia side for 4 or 5 years, in a rest home then a "memory care" facility. But she always knew me. Then one day she did not recognize me at all. She went into a coma a few hours later, and died the next day looking ever so at peace.
My grandfather had Alzheimer and i was told that how many words they remember and what they speak of always depends on the individual and on the stage of Alzheimer they are at. My grandpa used to speak macedonian and turkish to us and even remembered a few russian words in the first few years. He then started to forget names really quickly only remembering 4.my cousin my aunt my grandma and himself. He could still talk alot tho but mainly in macedonian and rarely in turkish. As time went on he eventually forgot turkish and stuck to macedonian. The last 10-20 words he remembered were not names with exception of my aunts name. I also talked to my professors about it amd he said that because of the brain shrinking at different paces in different areas of the brain there might be a connection of what they can remember and what not so language and names that are used more often might stick woth the patience the longest but they still can be forgotten which at any time showing the irregularity of the process
It is likely the exact opposite. If you know you have it and are able to retain that knowledge from one moment/day to the next, there is an explanation for why you wake up in a bed and see a stranger and don't know what is going on. Coping with that is probably easier than coping with constant uncertainty and fear/doubt of what you are being told.
Yeah, it’s sad really. When you have dementia, it’s like being in a daze all the time, even when you’re cognitive. The severity of the daze, however, does increase at seemingly-random intervals. So much so that one moment you could be at home making coffee or something similar, and then all of a sudden you find yourself wandering around in some place you don’t recognise, still in a daze, with no idea of where to find your way back or what you were doing here. Dementia is one scary disease.
I had a grandma with Alzheimer’s who forgot everything. It was such a struggle for my mom to visit her, because she knew that she would return home wailing. As soon as she forgot who my mom was, we knew she hadn’t much longer. We told her we loved her and prayed for an easy passing. The final day we saw her, though, she was utterly euphoric; she remembered us and expressed her love to us through her beautiful, glinting eyes. She told me that she remembered me, and told stories from when I was a child and implied that my mom needn’t be worried when her time had come because she’d always be there. She even told me that my late dog had come to visit her and professed his wistful solitude, and welcomed her to the afterlife. I loved my grandmother dearly and it was quite tragic to see her suffer.
Tanviplayz, it’s been a while; I’m 14 now and was nine at the time. The lacerations have mostly healed. Just hard to retouch on it. Don’t worry about me: I’ll be fine❤️❤️❤️
@John Mchanon i don't remember anyone asking for you to say that you didn't ask either but okay- we all know you're just trying to act cool and it's not working lol
My grandfather has Alzheimer's and last month he didn't recognize his wife anymore. He normally does and he still does now, but back then he had just awoken from surgery and was still a bit dizzy. So my grandmother asked him if he knows who she is and his answer was: "I mean, you seem very sympathetic, I like you" This was so cute and heartwarming, after nearly 60 years of marriage he would still fall in love with her again. :)
EscapingTheRealLife What a beautiful memory you will have to cherish forever. Sending you all hugs filled with strength and comfort as you deal with the difficult path of dementia.
My grandmother has Alzheimers, and it is just getting worse and worse. It is horrible and I pray for everyone else’s parents and grandparents to not be infected by it🙏
My grandmother died the day after having clarity... She said Oh Lord....what have I become. Please take me with you. She was bedridden for a year but didn't realize it. She was a very active lady before that and a beautiful soul full of love.
+Kelly Gunderson Hi Kelly, Thank you for your kind comment. My dad was 90 in this video. He was sweet and I tend to agree with you, I think many people who have Alzheimer's / dementias respond directly to how they are being treated. Unfortunately my father passed away February 27th 2016 at home with me. He made it to 91. If you are dealing with Alzheimer's / dementias with a loved one I send you and your loved one big hugs filled with strength and comfort, it's a very difficult journey. www.Facebook.com/PaintingToRemember
Yes my mother is 89 and has had it for years. It seems like she stays in each stage a very long time. She is in stage 7 now. She is the cutest thing ever. Even when she is upset and fussing. Sorry for your loss!!
You are such a wonderful person. With such kind words. I hope this never happens to your mother. Its not pleasant at all. Its quit sad. The mother you loved is gone. They are sick and can't help it. They don't even know who you are anymore. And no she isn't dead and is way worse. She is my mother not my grandmother.
+Kelly Gunderson , I don't know if that incredibly rude person is speaking to me or to you. Either way I'm sorry we are forced to see their ignorant post. Keep staying strong. Your mom is blessed to have you. 💜
I remember when my great great granny was in a bad condition in hospital with Alzheimer’s. My dad and I went to see her. Deep down we both knew this was going to be the last time we saw her. She was able to remember the names of her daughters the previous night and was able to remember for quite some time. When we entered the hospital my dad began to talk with her. I was too focused on the person in front of me that was going to pass away soon. I talked a bit with her. After we talked for a bit she forgot about the conversation. My dad turned towards the window and looked out. He cried silent, pained tears. I wanted to tell this story to say, appreciate everyone around you. I’ve dealt with lots of grief throughout my life and my only regret is the lack of time spent with the people I have lost. Be kind to your friends and family. If someone is rude to you, respond with a smile. My sister often refers to the saying “kill it with kindness”. Being kind rubs off on people no matter how they appear to react to it. So in summary (I know this is long and I’m so so sorry). Be kind, thoughtful and spend time with the people you love.
Thank you for your words, they touched me. My dad passed of Alzheimer's just over a year ago. We were lucky in that he never forgot those close to him. Very sad to see such a lively man fade away though....he forgot what he had always enjoyed and so ended up doing nothing much in his last years. You're right, try and be kind to others and appreciate those you love.
Don't be sorry (it's a "long" comment) - it's nice that you are saying this. I agree about spending time with people we love as much as we can. When my aunt was in hospital (after a fall) and had dementia, I was so pleased that it was a hospital near me, and I popped to see her when I could (sometimes very late at night because she was poorly then and it was allowed). Just spending time together is great, whether people are sleeping or aware of you. These older relatives we love, who were there for us, are comforted - I am sure - by our being there. As you say, it is time well spent.
In my grandfathers final months dealing with alzhimers I got to spend and entire week with him caring for him so my grandmother could take a break. That entire week he thought I was his nurse. While it crushed me for him to not recognize me he would always say I was the best nurse he had and he hoped they were paying me well lol... Knowing he felt taken care of even if not by "me" brought me such joy and it was the last time I got to see him before he passed away.
Omg i started crying yesterday when my grandpa finally remembered who I was after 16 years. I miss him so much I know how it feels for someone to finally remember you once again.
Heartwarming. My Mom had dementia for 6 years before passing. I had some amazing moments with her. When she'd remember things they'd come flying back to her in clusters. I made the choice to not mourn her until she died so I could wallow in every last moment with her, and I did.
I cherish the moments of clarity my grandfather had. They were few and far between but I can recall each time he remembered me. Sometimes it was only a fleeting moment, sometimes a few minutes, but I'll remember each of them forever. I wish we could find a cure for Alzheimer's.
My mom has a Parkinson. Its terrible to see her when shaking . To be honest , I get really sad when I see old people . Especially if they have a disease and if they are alone.. So please keep in my mind that one day we will be old as well.. So treat them like you want to be treated in the future.
Imagine having such a strong sense of humor that you manage to be witty with Alzheimer's. Reminds me of my late great-grandfather who, coincidentally, was also named Norm.
My grandfather had a moment of clarity a few days before his death. He remembered me and some long forgotten friends. Alzheimer's is a horrible horrible disease.
Sorry about your loss man. I lost my pops and my grandfathers heart transplant is failing after 20 years so he only has about two weeks at most. His severe dementia snatched him up pretty quickly towards the last year. One thing I wish I had power over was the advocacy of people with bringing light to these issues. It makes us weak to watch our families suffer and it really does change our perspective on life itself. I really hope there's something good after all this.
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your pops. I'm also sorry that your grandfather isn't doing well. Dementia is such a brutal disease for all involved. I agree that after experiencing it your perspective on life dramatically changes. Sending a hug filled with comfort to you and your grandfather while you're both having to deal with this very difficult journey.
I'm so sorry about your grandfather's passing. How beautiful that he was able to remember you, even though it may have been fleeting, and you are now blessed to have that memory to hold onto. Yes, I agree, dementia is brutal for all those it touches.
My parents would always do this when visiting my grandmother. Like "who's that, and what's their name" etc. I personaly found it started hurting after a while to constantly be reminded that she didnt remember us and constantly putting her through the stress of having to deal with the fact people are trying to squeeze out info that isnt there anymore. Personaly found it much more enjoyable to just listen to her and her stories, where her mind is taking her. Theres no saving what's already gone but that doesnt mean we cant admire what's still there. Also i found that by going on in their stories they usualy find some connections to their past memories that help remember certain details. Instead if answering questions try and bounce them back to the person and explore the answer with them.
My grandpa had Alzheimer’s disease... and passed away three years ago. I barely have any memories of him before he got this illness. I lived with my grandparents during the time he was at his worst, including the day of his passing. It got to a point where the only way he could consume calories was through piping liquids down a tube. For him to be able to breathe we had to suck the mucus buildup in his lungs several times a day. My grandma was heartbroken. The whole time he stayed at home (apart from the emergency visits at the hospital every 3 months), she was by his side attentively taking care of him all the time, and always thought of him. I remember the day she had to stop sleeping next to him in order to hire a helper to aid him while he sleeps (flip him every 4 hours to not get rashes, dump his urine tray etc). She would wake up daily, every 4 hours just to check if my grandpa was being properly treated, and the worker is doing what he is told. Although my grandpa lived his life on the bed for so long, he always had a great heart due to his younger active days. Ironically, he ended up dying due to a heart problem. My grandma never felt more empty afterwards, as she lost her 70 years long partner that she had spent 6 years of her waking moments entirely consumed with looking after him. Rest In Peace grandpa. May your suffering had ended. 我爱你
One time, like three years ago I was sitting next to my grandfather that sadly died last year, and he said my name twice while he was smiling at me, it was probably one of the most beautiful moments of my life.
I remember my mom telling me that my grandma wished if she ever got sick, she would pass quickly so she wouldn't be a burden to us. She ended up suffering from Alzheimer's for maybe 5 years, if I remember correctly... I was still in middle school when I would help watch her while my aunt and uncle were out. Sometimes she would cry because she felt bad we had to help her do things like go to the bathroom... she was never, ever a burden to us, and I always reminded her of that. She was the one who was suffering so much for so long, but still worried more about us... Alzheimer's is horrible...
Your dad is so witty and such a nice man despite his terrible ordeal it's important to think of him as still the same person. Don't let this disease take away from his human dignity. His spirit is still the same his soul ans heart. That is something Alzheimers can't undo. He deserves to be honoured and should he sense your grief it will sadden him. Praying that your family keeps strong for your sweet dad 🙏❤
Few months before my grandma died she starting having Alzheimer's (at the time i wasn't aware what an Alzheimer's was) she didn't know who I was (my grandma was the one who took care of me since birth and became my mother when my mom left us, I'm only 18 btw) at that moment I don't really know what to do, I kept asking her question, and pushed her to remember who I am, what hurts the most is that she knows and remember other people but not me, I started crying, she is completely clueless of who I was and thinks that I'm just some kind of stranger. I feel so helpless at that moment and did everything to make her remember me while I was crying. it just hurts to see the person you love the most doesn't even remember who you are. It's just plain painful, you began to treasure the memories you had together. She did remember me one time, and i was sobbing with happiness and gave her a hug, it was like some kind of reunion. I just miss her so much
My gramps had Alzheimers. Luckily he never forgot who we were but he was incredibly unresponsive. Unfortunately we lost him in March this year and I miss him every day.
SYNDRIC SYNDRIC My Gramps was 86 when he died so he had a long healthy life. He was in very very good health until he was 82 but unfortunately deteriorated a lot from then onwards. Your Grandma has certainly hit a milestone! It's amazing she's in good health :) I wish you many more happy years with her!
Casual Yvonne Thank you so much, it hasn't been easy losing the "glue" of the family but now instead of crying over the loss we're at the point where we can smile at all the wonderful memories he gave us :)
My nan passed away in November 2018 and I feel the same. The funeral was in Northamptonshire and at the time I was doing my GCSE so I couldn't go. It doesn't feel like she is gone.
@@neorokov4970 yeah. Feel the exact same. And I don't know if I'm a bad person because it feels like I don't care. But surly if I'm questioning it then I do care? Confusing times
My grandma had dementia, she forgot everything , even her husband, son, daughters and grand kids, she couldn't recognize us at all.we have to push her and make her realise. But she remembers her father and mother name🤷♀️.During her last days, she used to say my dad's gonna come and take her with him, surprisingly at her last night she realized us, her grand kids 😭😭😭when we called her grandma she looked at us and said "Mmmmm" Since she didn't have teeth which she broke oneday by falling from bed😓😓😓. It was hard for us all, she used to be a tough, strong lady but during her last time, she became slim , got dementia, couldn't walk,talk and she couldn't even tell what is hurting her,got bed sores and wounds falling from bed, many things. She suffered a lot for last 3 years.we all used to prayed God why he is making her suffer??? Couldn't he take her with him and free her from her state. Now she is gone and I think wherever she is she'll be happy with her father and mother and be watching and protecting us. Love you granny 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
i'm sorry about any inconsiderate replies, i'm just here to say that you and anyone else who went through that with you are very strong. i'd hate to see any of my older relatives have to deal with a disease like that. in fact, i honestly don't think that i would be mentally strong enough to be able to get out of bed and go to school every day anymore. God bless you and your grandmother.
My Dad can no longer talk. He only mumbles a few random words, phrases, numbers and letters that don't make sense or mean anything. Every now and then though he will shock me, he will call me by my name. Then 30 minutes later he is once again spaced out in that zombie-like state.
I'm so sorry that you and your dad are forced to travel the very difficult journey of dementia! I believe that locked deep within their brain and soul they always know who you are. Sending you both a hug filled with strength while traveling on this path.
Those fleeting moments when they do recognize us are beautiful blessings showing they are still there. Wishing you and your dad the very best during this difficult time.
Painting To Remember He said your name, remembered you and the. said 'I love you' Wow!! What a moment to treasure. May this moment help to sustain you through this journey. G d Bless.
barbuty guja Thank you for your well wishes. Unfortunately my dad passed away in February 2016. Alzheimer's is a terminal disease with no cures, no one ever gets better. I appreciate your touching comments :)
I can imagine that in their mind they know everything that is actually happening, but they also know that when they speak it comes out in gibberish. So I can imagine that they are working really hard to save up a sentence for the PERFECT moment to drop at the perfect time. That joke he made I can tell was preplanned. ITs something he's probably wanted to say to make them laugh and assure them that hes still there, but he finally got it out.
My great grandmother has dementia and she only remembers me when i was 10 years old... She doesnt even know her son (my grandpa) but me when i was 10.. Thats soo sad.. By the way im now 18 years old ...
(Sorry for my english) My gradfather had alzahiemers and he died recently. He lived for 10 years with alezheimers and at the end, he didn’t know how to talk. A year ago he was at our place with my grandmother, who toke care of him and he didn’t know how to talk, but his smile when he saw my mother and me was priceless. This video reminds me of him soo much. I cried and laught at the same time. I wish you the best.
my grandmother died with alzheimer’s and it was so painful seeing her losing more and more memory and i see her in this so much. i relive the moments over and over from this video so thank you for sharing this. sending love
I see this all the time with taking care of my father with Alzheimer’s. He surprises us some days when he remembers things . But for the most part he only remembers the past .
See humans that is what we will be when we get old . Arrogance and big noises hurting making wars destroying cites will not get you anywhere humble i will be and respect the power of nature on me . Sorry for speaking out of the subject but i felt to say this peace all humans
In the darkest moments, is when the flicker of light no matter how brief shines the brightest.. even for such a sweet fleeting moment, it’s gift is heaven sent, to remind us to cherish the times we shared.
Perhaps they feel sad that the man has Alzeimer. Maybe they know someone that has this and it hurts them. They appreciate the joy in the video, but they also remember the pain...
This reminds me of my grandad - when he had good days he would crack you up with his cheeky outbursts. One day I went in to see him (he lived with us) and he was sleeping. "Hello Bronagh!" he says, sounding so pleased to see me but he isn't actually awake... never knew who I was when he was awake but he knew I cared and loved him so much, it didn't matter. Almost a year later and I still miss him every single day...
justBronagh How lovely that you still have those beautiful memories to recall. I understand missing the person even as time moves on. I miss my dad a lot! Your grandfather was lucky to have you, hugs.
My great grandma Nina had Alzheimer’s and she died a couple years ago on Christmas Eve. It sucked so bad seeing her and she didn’t know who I was or who her own son was. Love you Nina
