Alexa Nikolas' deleted episode of Vulnerable, its fallout, and her hypocrisy 

As a lawyer… she is so insanely wrong. 1. An NDA cannot be broad or vague and the way she repeats that is mind boggling. 2. You can never be instructed to not tell your therapist and a therapist would never be subpoenaed bc it’s privileged information and protected. 3. An NDA is NOT enforceable if it is used as an attempt to prevent a crime from being reported. The way she said these things with her full chest is so reckless. If she actually knew what she was talking about it could’ve empowered her viewers by knowing they have rights.

I feel like it’s so insulting to reduce Jennette’s book to just being about her experiences on Nickelodeon. The book is literally called “I’m Glad My *Mom* Died.” It’s about Jennette learning to process the intense trauma caused by her mother, the person society says is supposed unconditionally love and protect you. The reason people loved that book is because it was thoughtful, vulnerable, and beautifully written, and many people resonated with it.

I had no idea she was a Sandy Hook denialist, absolutely disgusting. I know people in that school system and it’s so gross when people act like it never happened; it very much did. I wonder if she’s ever considered that maybe she’s just not super likable and maybe that’s why people didn’t treat her really nice on set.

Not to be too obvious but calling HR H&R shows how distanced Alexa is from regular workers and the type of work environment she’s discussing.

in a similar vein to “9 to 5 at starbucks” her saying “H and R” instead of “HR” also made me giggle

I definitely think Alexa referring to Dan as abusing her is valid because verbal abuse is real, however I do agree that they way she phrased it talking about being alone with him in a room is trying to insinuate a different kind of abuse that didn't happen to her

Also, why is it wrong for Christie to have Corey on her podcast, but OK for quiet on set to have drake on their TV show? Like Alexa seemed okay with the tv show.

sweet jesus it makes me so mad how alexa tries to paint herself as an expert on this stuff, despite having the weakest surface-level understanding of the concepts. she’s all buzzwords. she’s made me hate the damn word “survivor.”

I’m not a lawyer but I have ALWAYS been told that NDAs are immediately void if a law is broken and a large amount of NDAs are never enforceable to begin with but it’s job is just to intimate the victim who may not understand the legal system

I know this is very nit-picky and anecdotal, but as someone who has done performing arts my whole life hearing a girl say “my mom is my best friend” is almost always a red flag. It just SCREAMS emotional incest and almost every performer I’ve met that says that has an inflated ego.

Therapist here! Some of what she’s saying is true and some is definitely a misunderstanding. We are essentially sworn to secrecy because of HIPPA. What you tell us is confidential. However, we are also mandated reporters and do have to disclose some information, like if you’re threatening yourself or others, if a child is being hurt, or a dependent adult is being hurt, etc. We also CAN be subpoenaed for our notes, both physically written and electronic. In fact, it’s included in the social work code of ethics that it can happen. As a result, I keep my notes very vague and I never disclose information that is not explicitly needed. I’ve had to turn over my notes to the courts twice and learned my lesson fast. You keep information close to your chest to protect your clients.

There’s no middle ground with Alexa. In her eyes people are either 100% evil and abusive, or 100% wonderful and amazing. She can change her mind about someone in the blink of an eye and for any reason. Her outlook is dangerous and damaging when it comes to vulnerable people. She shouldn’t be advocating for anyone.

I need either you or Adam to make a " mean girl, mean kid, mean adult" shirt with the most inspirational font possible

OH MY GOD ‘mean girl, mean kid, mean adult’ is honestly so funny. I see you 😂

One thing that honestly always got to me was just how like excited alexa is to talk about something that is allegedly traumatic to her lol. She genuinely is frothing at the mouth to excitedly explain every detail with the most intense word choices as if shes explaining an exciting story and not accusing people of abuse. The energy is fucking WILD

She literally discredited people certified in trauma or advocacy by saying “it’s so easy to do” and that she’s a “victim enough” person to be a spokesperson and then doesn’t understand like anything about how trauma works not even her own. Doesn’t heal or better herself . Preaches nothing but buzzword word salad.

I love hearing a woman calling another woman unhinged because of their pregnancy 🙄

Someone not wanting to be your friend… is not abuse. 😬

I have seen Alexa spiral for years now. Tbh the thing with Jamie Lynn was so overblown. It was two immatureteens being immature teens. Alexa was not bullied or traumatized by Jamie Lynn. She just saw opportunity to spin a narrative.

Alexa's interview suggests that maybe she was too young to be working, which while a systemic problem in Hollywood, is not the systemic problem the name "eat predators" and aligning with Me too implies.

When you listen to Alexa talk about survivors and replace the word “survivor/suvivors” with the word “me”, it’s clear she’s only been doing this for herself and herself only. Also, the “you erased my trauma” when her vulnerable episode was her basically talking about what amounts to high school gossip

I'm only 22 minutes into this but I know NDAs are null and void when crimes take place so, as usual, I don't know what the fuck Alexa is talking about when it comes to them. NDAs are so personal information doesn't come out like medications, families, addresses, etc., but they absolutely do not hide crimes and if a crime takes place, it doesn't matter what you've signed unless it's in court after a trial or settlement, if a crime has taken place against you or in front of you, you can tell anyone and everyone.

She's lumping her childhood troubles with other children and her ex husband into one thing. Shes getting by by calling herself a survivor because she is on one hand. But the nickelodeon stuff she experienced isnt as serious as what she went through with Milosh. Hate to say it like that, but thats how i take it.

I’ve started using “mean girl, mean kid, mean adult” every day. Would 100% be in my vocabulary if I got on big brother

Mucker here! I stumbled upon you a couple of months ago and watched so much of your content and have been keeping up, and I smiled so much when Adam shouted you out during his live recently. Love the respect between the two of you as you talk about such sensitive topics. Thank you as always for your intellectual and well thought out out take on topics like this. You are such an absolute breath of fresh air. I’m a survivor, and Alexa has truly always given me bad vibes, but any time I’ve shared that opinion with my chronically online friends, they’ve called me out for feeling that way about another survivor. Two things can always be true at once though. She can be a survivor, and also be someone who exploits the pain and suffering of others who are too.

The way that Christy does a split-second “Jim-Face” into the camera when Alexa says the likely bs line about NDA’s that prohibit people from talking to a therapist tells me that was the exact moment she knew she’d have to be issuing a retraction or taking this video down 😂

Mean girl...mean kid...mean adult

“Youre allowed to think I’m mean, I think worse about alexa” Omg dead ☠️

Im not a lawyer and even i know NDAs are void when theres a crime involved.

Shoutout to you Ophie, not just for holding predatory people accountable but for not letting this die down at all. I feel like Alexa will inevitably try to rebrand and make her comeback in the future, her actions throughout all of this mess even beyond the Drake Bell situation should never be forgotten. Also shoutout to your cat..! 🤘🐈

I know this isn't related to this video- but your video about the AIDs work in your hometown was so so good. I watched it twice. The interviews, the care you and your friend showed. The history! It was just so phenomenal I've pushed it to all my friends. Thank you for making it. I cried so many times. If a follow up (not focusing on that grifter) is possible? I would love to hear from both of them again

Wait I missed the part where Paige Christie sent you some equipment! That's so lovely of her!!!

'not having to work a 9 to 5 at starbucks per se' is quite something, I had to write it down and will probably try to shoehorn it into conversations way too often from now on. thank you for another great video 💜

oh god i've never been this early to a video. just wanna say i saw your channel being heavily recommended in the DWKT subreddit!! your coverage of this entire saga has been so, so good, and it rules that people are recognizing you for it!!!

I became a huge supporter of Alexa, in large part because I resonated so much with her DV experience with her ex husband, within the music industry. So there is a strange tragedy that she has worked so hard to rebrand herself as a survivor of Nickelodeon. Because in Eat Predator’s original vision, in challenging the music industry, she really does have a story. But on the Nickelodeon end, it feels like she’s trying to claim other people’s stories. And that’s so weird and sad

I kind of think that Alexa rationalizes leaking that information to herself because she doesn’t think the minor is a victim. She probably believes Drake. And while that can be her (wrong) opinion, the girl was still a minor. And while they might not currently be a minor any longer, it is still disturbing to have released information that pertained to them as a minor. If someone put out my diaries I wrote as a child, I’d be mortified. Itd be a cruel thing to do. And those court documents are much worse than the depression I suffered as a kid. Like oh my god I don’t see why we have to explain that.

Christy’s reactions to Alexa’s stories about being bullied and getting yelled at are actually hilarious….

I'm a simple person; I see yellow hair, glasses, and a dark lip and I click

Girl i swear i’m paying attention and appreciate your takes but i cannot stop staring at your adorable cat

Alexa really needs some help, I experienced what I'd consider toxic friendships and some degree of bullying as a kid but I don't hold it over anyone's heads or consider myself a survivor at all. I went to an all girls high school and girls are mean to each other, we can be catty and tear each other women with mental games. My "friends" weren't that good for me, often treating me like the baby of the group when I was older than most of them, all because I had interests that geared younger (a maybe autistic, I show a lot of traits) but I went to therapy, I talked about it with a professional, they're the one that suggested a may have autism and should consider being tested, I don't have aggression towards any of those girls, I don't know what they were going through. I don't want to be their friend but I also hope they are in better places and got any help they needed. It disturbs me that Alexa lumps these typical childhood experiences in with people who have survived serious domestic abuse cases etc... including the stuff with her own ex husband. Adults on set should have sorted out issues between the cast but it is in no way comparable to what eat predators originally stood for. The way Alexa chooses to speak about Victoria Justice over what appears to be a minor fall out, saying she was worse than Jamie on a podcast when Victoria spoke of Alexa respectfully to me shows how differently they've processed events and Victoria appears to be in a healthier place. I still disagree with a lot of what the Ned's Declassified cast said on their podcast but I definitely think they had a point when they referred to Alexa as "intense". I do think a lot of Alexa's issues on Zoey 101 was because she was home schooled and she didn't understand how to interact with kids her own age. It's likely Jamie wasn't nice all the time but her lack of social understanding probably made these situations seem worse than they likely were and she exaggerates it more because it gets her views. Lumping these issues in all together, along with her lack of promotion for therapy and instead just an apology is so toxic and she's losing control. Her lack of training for advocacy is leading her to do so much damage, she maybe a survivor but herself and Eat Predators is not a safe place for survivors.

I don't understand her support of Drake. He plead guilty, multiple other people say they were dating him while they were in HS. When he went missing they found him parked at a HS. Now He's moved to Mexico and dating HS kids. + his music is Horrid. Go watch his new by the ocean vid. I showed it to my co worker and he was all "Whys he still doing Nick stuff? Is he like Corey Feldman? Theres Drakes feet? Did Dan Schneider direct it?" nearly keeled over when he mentioned Schneider

OMFG - I literally just watched Alexa call Jared Leto a vampire multiple times, say he stays young with human blood in the same tone as she talked about his and other evil elites w/ islands and cults. She laughed a little, but not specifically there and she didn’t even bother to say “allegedly 😉 😉”.

Hey, *ex-lawyer* current filmmaker here lmao. As a disclaimer, I'm portuguese and studied law here, but it would be shocking if what I'm about to say is incorrect, considering fundamental rights, human rights and international law. As another disclaimer about the law in general - one thing is what contracts and agreements say, another is what the law says and even another is your ability to know the difference, have the money to invoke it or, even harder, the money to enforce it. So a lot of contracts and agreements contain illegal clauses in them, but a lot of people don't know they're not enforceable and when they do, they would be thrown into mediation first, which is a very scary context in which you can be gaslit into thinking right is wrong and wrong is right. Regarding specific questions: 1) NDA's cannot include crimes. They just straight up cannot. 2) The language of what a crime is can be very confusing, so signing one of these things can lead you to think NDA's can include crimes without them even mentioning the word crime. The legality of the inclusion of civil offences in NDA's is confusing (I don't know enough about this) and a civil offence can sound like a crime to your as a reader who is just normally informed about the law. 3) For instance, sexual harassment is a civil offence not a crime. So you might assume you can't report crimes if you see that or you might assume a crime is just harassment. Sexual assault however is a crime, but knowing when something is sexual assault or not can be extremely confusing or made to be extremely confusing. What I feel she could be alluding to is someone in HR or someone in a position similar to that convincing you that something is not crime but a civil offence and confuse you. But it would be weird for an NDA to be signed after the fact, I'd say most are signed before anything as part of the working contract. Or before you engage with that person in any capacity. After the fact is weird, but I guess not impossible and maybe glazed with money that can convince you in one way or another because you need it. HR can also make it seems like you could loose your job or have it suspended for the purpose of investigation etc - just make it really confusing and scary. This is also illegal, but it's done. 4) An NDA can express that you can't mention that there is an NDA - demand confidentiality -, but in the cases of celebrities people just assume there is one, so that clause becomes kind of nulified because of people's immediate assumptions. 5) An NDA could say that you can't mention stuff to your therapist, but I don't think that's legal, cause it would hinder your possibility of accessing healthcare which is a human right, and also is unenforceable because therapists can't disclose information. The only cases in which a therapist can violate confidentiality is if a crime has been committed or could be plausibly committed, or if the patient/client is in danger or endangering others. Apart from that, in other circumstances, the patient/client would have to agree to the disclosure of the contents of their sessions. Also, only the contents relating directly to this even or extremely relevant to the crime committed can be revealed. It's not like they just handover everything. 6) Some language mentioned cannot legally be in an NDA, but that doesn't mean it's not. People can not know any better, because they're young, cause society doesn't teach people about these things enough, etc. Also, the language included in the NDA can be purposefully confusing, so you can read one and be like "wtf, I don't really understand this, but I guess it means this or that". 7) Lawyers do include a lot of things in contracts and agreements in general to scare you and to discourage you from doing anything about anything or feeling like you can't. It's not legal for lawyers to harass parties of interest to a case, that doesn't mean they don't find a way of doing it. In conclusion, lawyers are scary and can be terrifying, we mostly don't know shit about contracts and legal language is made to be confusing since its inception and can be made even more confusing. Also, the circumstances of seeing in a room with people who know more than you telling you something is legal and real is very vulnerable. Also, the idea of going against a rich person or company is terrifying. And this is why what is legal or not sometimes is not important, because that distinction requires a lot of money or you to be a lawyer and will probably cost you jobs and contacts. Considering that networking is everything in the film industry or music industry, you would just sign the thing anyway and hope for the best and then won't have money for the worst. Sorry that this is all over the place, but I'm too lazy too re-read it lmao. Love your content and the work you do here. Cheers

Whenever i hear Alexa talking it sounds like a monologue for improv class, it never sounds genuine.

Referring to that podcast episode being deleted as being “punished for being a human being” when she was publicly feuding with the host (and many others) is… something. She’s certainly a pro at weaponizing therapeutic language. How can so many seemingly simple statements be twisted into something so manipulative and self serving?

Its scarier watching her live again after all this time. Alexa is so sickeningly...rehearsed. Its just hard to watch her and she just seems to do things on cue(crying, angry face, snarky smugness), even in the clips with Christy where her laughing is over exaggerated. Theres also times in the clips with Christy where Christy is trying her hardest not to zone out and fall asleep while Alexa just kept talking and talking about herself. I think Ophie is right that Christy was kind of lowkey roasting her with faux enthusiasm.

Hearing Adam say your name felt like a crossover episode

legal girlie here!!! NDAs do NOT and WILL NOT EVER cover **any** crimes! if a crime happens to you OR if you witness one and you've signed an NDA, you are 1000% legally allowed to report that!! plus, if you're subpoenaed to testify about things that are covered by an NDA then that NDA *cannot* prevent them from complying with the subpoena due to the legal obligation overriding ANY confidentiality clauses that may be included in the NDA's terms. that's why whistleblower protection laws exist! alexa is SOOOOOO misguided on this but unfortunately this is a commonly held incorrect belief.

I don’t want to doubt when victims share their stories, but some of Alexa’s anecdotes strain credulity to me. I feel like she may take one moment and build an entire story around it in her mind to be more than it was. I’m sure there are genuine points of trauma, but a lot of stuff to me is like and? That’s it?

thank you for giving me a nice long video to watch in the bathtub tonight

I mean the industry especially the child actor industry IS HORRIBLE to kids and was terrible when Alexa and Christy were there, even if they weren’t the worst stories there. The problem lies with Alexa blurring the lines between different traumas. Everyone’s trauma is valid but as you said in your video and Christy said in the interview; it was kinda industry standard and it’s not the same as what Janette or drake went through because of the industry

I hate how the amount of deceit and manipulation people like Alexa use makes it so difficult to extend a sympathetic, good-faith interpretation of them. I'm perhaps an overly trusting person, to the point that James Somerton's initial apology didn't even raise any red flags for me and made me feel bad for him- until it turned out that was just a bunch of additional lies! I don't want to be a jaded, mistrustful person but if I'd been following this story from the beginning I could imagine myself jumping on the poor-traumatized-Alexa-defense train.

Related to the conspiracy stuff - she has been friendly with Sloan, who pushes theories about celebrity deaths, suggesting murders and cover-ups just to get clicks. Also modern Satanic Panic stuff, the likes of what she's dismissing in this interview as ridiculous. Insanely, he is seen as a victim advocate as well; an honest and sensitive one. I don't know what it will take for people to see him for what he is. Maybe he needs to sneak into a morgue for pics (not to give him ideas).

The purpose of an NDA is to protect a company’s business secrets from being leaked to its competitors, not to conceal/cover up a crime or prevent whistleblowing. For example, if Squidward was offered a higher hourly rate by plankton to become an employee of the chum bucket, his NDA at Krusty Krabs would prevent him from disclosing the secret krabby patty recipe. The NDA does not, however, prevent Squidward from coming forward about unsafe work conditions, or if Mr. Krabs was denying wages to his employees.

As a preface: I want to be clear that I do not revel in the spectacle of victims calling out their abusers, nor that of victims being imperfect. Also, I understand that while you strive to be entertaining, your content is not driven first and foremost by drama. That said, I cannot lie, I am utterly and completely fascinated by Alexa, her crocodile tears, her obvious (let's call them) fibs and exaggerations, her false equivalencies, her clumsy grifting, and, honestly, the fact that, in her husband, she has a willing and enthusiastic collaborator in all of this. Since first becoming aware of this matter, thanks in largest part to your videos, I have been compelled to check in on it periodically. While I have no reason to doubt that Alexa is the survivor of various forms of abuse (I am, after all, as are a lot of people, sadly) her advocacy is transparently self-serving and the endless flailing to salvage her ever-dwindling credibility has been riveting to behold. I thank you for your excellent coverage of this whole matter. I understand why it is important to draw attention to this sort of opportunism as it exists within advocacy spaces, but I can't lie, this has all been one heck of a show.

You can't make advocacy your entire schtick and then spell out abuse instead of saying it. It's trivializing and feels like it's almost denormalizing being open about abuse and advocating against

your kitty laying down in the background is so sweet 💕🥰

What Jamie Lynn said doesn't sound to me like she's accusing Alexa of spreading rumots, but rather that she's saying someone on set instigated the feud between the two of them by telling Jamie that Alexa was talking shit behind her back. She specifically said "I got the sense that a third party was trying to stir the pot between us." Jamie-Lynn is basically saying that Alexa's claim of bullying was overblown, that they WERE friends in the beginning, that a third party lied to Jamie about what Alexa was doing but that Alexa's smug mom didn't help the situation, and that they had a very normal middle school falling out that did not involve any bullying or violence. She's accusing Alexa of exaggerating but she's not accusing Alexa of being a bully herself. That being said, as someone who got horiffically bullied and humiliated in school for like 5 years straight, seeing Alexa cry about it on streams again and again as an adult in her 30s always makes me go "that's........it?" whenever I hear her "story of abuse" and I feel really bad about it.

16:05 “I’ll get a DM or find a new survivor (…)” why does she describe it like a, f’ing, Pokemon game?! lol

alexis saying “h AND r” speaks volumes about how familiar she is with going to HR and report sexual harassment and having to teach the director of HR how a lesbian can be sexually harassed and subsequently being mortified once it gets out to all of your coworkers…. thank you for making these videos- she has pissed me off for so long and i really thought i was crazy until you made your first vids!

i never understood alexas story. so she’s a victim of hollywood, yes, everyone in hollywood is, but most of all a victim of bullying? for maybe two years on set at most? people go through bullying their whole lives and don’t have a victim mentality. if there’s something i’m missing from her experience pls lmk😭😭😭

over the past couple days i’ve been binge watching your videos and enjoying them all. thank you for speaking about this (loved your SWOOP video too) because i feel it’s very important to talk about these things!! i hope you have a lovely day 💕

I don't think I can ever get over her calling stuff like bullying, arguing, or just not wanting to be friends anymore abuse lmao. Also considering what I've heard from the bg, that Alexa has always been just as much of a mean girl, I have a hard time fully believing stuff happened between the girls the way she claims it entirely lol. It honestly just sounded like some young girls who didn't get along after awhile and bickered and weren't nice to each other and she labeled it as "abuse". The whole reason Brit yelled at her was because of shit that Alexa had said/done to Jamie. She's so strange, everything that ever happens to her is like the worst thing that could ever happen and she's always the victim. Now considering she called Adams "ratio" tweet abuse/bullying, I have an even harder time believing her entirely lol

I am a mucker haha, happy to be here Sophie 😊 and glad you are supporting Adam.

Ophie dokie is relevant 😊

This whole POV story of Alexa on Zoey 101 vs Jamie Lynn's side is reallllly emphasiszing that thing people say about how a huge percentage of how happy your life is has to do with positivity rather than circumstance. She could have moved on from this years ago, but her bitterness towards any perceived wrongs is making her MISERABLE. She's so busy making everyone's actions about HER that she doesnt seem to realize that she doesn't live in other people's heads like they do in hers.

Clarification for those that might not know this: "Working 9-5" is a phrase that refers to a traditional American business schedule of 9 AM-5 PM, Monday through Friday, which is a 40-hour work week. She's just referring to a standard work week as opposed to one that's more demanding with longer hours/expectations.

I reached out to Alexa in a discord call with other members of eat predators and I informed her about Aaron Smith-Levins victim from the ex scientology SPTV community. She led me to believe she was going to expose him, then when 'the victims story was problematic' she declined to help because the victim didn't want to be on her platform either. It was heartbreaking. I kept asking Alexa about it until finally I created a ticket and she finally commented telling me that she felt the survivor should tell her own story. It was such bullshit.

9 to 5 at Starbucks is actually so hilariously out of touch

Watching Alexa has always made me uncomfortable, and I was never sure why. Especially since she was ,on paper, doing very good things. I just couldn't shake that icky feeling, and now I know why.

I remember in the beginning, before Alexa's reputation was publicly ruined, that the alleged stalker that she mentions occasionally came forward at one point and explained their side of the story. It was alleged that they started to see some behaviours from her that they allegedly called her out on and in return, she allegedly labeled them as a stalker. Does anyone else remember this?

So grateful for your content Ophie! You are the ONLY one covering this besides Adam!

I honestly understand why Christy took this mess down.

I am so happy that you have made it to 6.52K subs! I personally love your videos and try to watch them all unless I am triggered by them!

That mean girl-mean kid-mean…..adult? call-out was golden😂😂 thanks for dissecting this mess. I feel like so much Oof this boils down to ‘it’s okay when _i_ do it, silly!

You know that expression “they don’t know what they don’t know”? I think that applies to Alexa in many situations. Her “it’s just a quiz, it’s just school!” comment about trauma credentials, 9-5 at Starbucks, constantly talking about sign design and printing when asked about advocacy work. Like she very transparently has no idea what she’s talking about if you work in the field she’s pretending to speak from a place of authority on. I see the lawyers saying she’s got a bunch of legal stuff wrong - I worked a lot of organizing jobs in the past and it’s also clear she’s got no clue about what goes into actual organizing / advocacy work. Probably part of why she’s so dismissive of the role others played in the early days of Eat Predators - she has zero awareness or understanding of the heavy lifting they MUST have been doing if her only contributions were what she described in this interview.

So I’m rewatching (bc your commentary is top notch), and I noticed Alexa talking about going to “corporate H&R”, and I was thrown off and thought “Wait why is she talking about a tax company?” Then I realized oooh she doesnt know it’s actually called HR. She really just out here being unabashedly ill-informed. But that’s okay tho because obviously she died on the cross for our sins

Alexa is a person who when she was a kid, was sheltered and her mother probably consistently told her she was special or more than other people, this is indicated by her being best friends with her Mum. She went on Zoey 101 and her Mother probably didn't like the fact she wasn't the star of the show, and because Alexa is sheltered or propped up, she feels like this too. So her Mum hangs around the set starting trouble because she wants Alexa to be number one. Everyone else is aware of this, that's why the Network doesn't cave to their demands. Because of this, Alexa developed Narcissistic traits which are so insanely clear in all of her videos. Shes so damaged because she felt like she should have been rescued or people should have caved to the demands and she's spent all of these years being bitter about it. I still don't feel like she's mad about the "abuse", that's why she keeps doing this, she's mad that she wasn't number one and the world didn't fall at her feet. The ironic thing is she's actually become an Abuser like Corey and Drake. And she knows this inside herself, that's why she hardcore defends herself and her actions, she can't admit things to herself which is peak Narcissism.

Alexa was triggered by learning that she had shared a platform with an abuser. I think the responsible thing was to take down her episode to limit the risk of her being triggered again in the future by some other podcast guest.

I watched that live Alexa made after her fallout with CCR and I was fully on her side then. However watching the clips you showed knowing what I know now, is very weird because I can see the red flags now. CCR was still in the wrong, but now I kind of get why she didn't want to deal with Alexa anymore. Happy to see how much your channel has grown! Keep it up!

LOVE THE GRAPHICS OPHIE!!! And THANK YOU! The Nuance Corner gives me regulated energy :)

Damn I wasted so much time watching her videos when she was still uploading 😭

I’ve been engaged in community-based/collective organizing and what might broadly be called activism (a term I sometimes cringe at but that’s a whole essay in and of itself) for most of my adult life and what gets me about Alexa is that I feel like she made a series of extremely common mistakes for someone coming into community organizing from a privileged, somewhat out of touch background to make… and then just seems to have relentlessly doubled down over and over any time she gets any kind of pushback. Her eagerness to talk to reporters and be the one interviewed in all the news articles is such a big red flag for anyone who has worked on real protest campaigns. Nobody running an actual protest campaign in a serious way talks to reporters and media like she does. You know who does? College kids getting their first taste of leftist protest culture. They get all hopped up on the righteousness of their cause and start telling themselves that anything they do in service of that cause can’t be criticized without criticizing the cause itself, then they run their mouths to reporters who are eager to spin a narrative around their bold claims because that’s their job. That’s why actual community organizers running protest campaigns will do media training, sometimes with other key volunteers and protest leaders, and agree on talking points together before engaging with press. I’m positive that with her relatively high profile and the level of attention and mobilization around her cause at the outset, if Alexa had fostered relationships with other activists in the space she was in instead of treating them like her competition (another HUGE faux-pas on an organizing level, and one that shows how little she understands about community organizing and collective action) she would have had conversations with people who would have told her how to better handle all of this and been willing to steer her in a more useful and, dare I say, relevant direction. But that would have required her to not make her whole group The Alexa Show and clearly that’s beyond her. I have to admit when you started covering this, I thought, oh, another social media famous woman behaving badly while everyone wrings their hands about how bad she is until she inevitably has a nuclear meltdown on public social media platforms that the commentary channels may feast upon. Meh! But I think the celebrity/child star angle of this is really the least important or interesting angle. In Alexa’s behavior you can see so many examples of things that bougie white people do wrong in community organizing, famous or not, lmao. Really this could be a case study that aspiring social workers have to write a paper on in their first year of an MSW degree.

Jojo is so right, such a good kitty

“i respect your time” pls disrespect my time i watch your vids on repeat 😂😂

Seeing you my glorious friend getting 1000 views in 1 hour, credit from Adam and Paige... it's so fucking beautiful.

I am loving watching your channel grow, Ophie!!! Keep up the good work, I'm really excited to watch the development of the nuance corner ❤

I’d be curious to hear a lawyer’s take on the claim that (1) NDAs prohibit people from talking to their therapist and (2) that companies are going after people for talking to their therapists.

Can i ask, genuinely, beyond the alleged bullying, what else happened in the set of Zoey 101? She's talked in so many circles I don't actually know what she references.

We will likely see even more videos purged from the channel, so the time to archive them is now.

I’ve been having a terrible day and have ended up binging your eat predators videos while at school and I just finished watching the “my last video about Alexa” one when this was posted 😂

oh wow you're already at 7k congrats!!!!!💜💜💜

i literally check your page everyday for new videos, I love your content! keep going!!! 🥰‼

I wonder if it's because Alexa is absolutely using her trauma for clout. While Christy is using her trauma to help others. Christy rarely mentions a lot of what she went through because it's not the point. The point is to help more people dealing with the same thing. While Alexa is telling her story over and over again but doesn't really look to help anyone at all. She just wants clout. I've been a fan of Christy since I was a child, I even met her and have spoken to her over insta dm's multiple times. She's a kind mom that just wants to help more people. I love her. Alexa however seems to always be in a Poor Me mentality.

I love the girl kid adult reference XD especially because you said it so casually so it felt like a little secret inside joke XD

IMO Alexa doesn’t like metoo & compares it to EP bcuz she thinks Alyssa Milano started it.

alexia is fake crying in that live stream, thats insane. sniffling but its dry and there are no tears. truly an actor

Can you make a video how she screams about explioted children but posts her children constantly on her public IG

I have JUST been thinking of this situation thinking what would happen next, thanks this is great timing lol

That mean girl mean kid mean adult call-out was golden😂😂