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@@WalterTheClown yeah.. I have the same problem.. I can’t ask my parents to pay for it and I can’t pay for it myself either because they track my bank account and well-
Jamie: "I don't feel like the other people would like the color combination of pink and yellow" Pansexuals who have these colors on their flag: *_"What a bold assumption."_*
Just a wholesome story: My school was supposed to be an all girls school, but they're progressive, so it's a girls and non-binaries school! If you have a preferred name, the teachers will call you by that name. Preferred pronouns? They'll use them!
The first one made me think of the time someone said “your are going straight to hell” and I responded with “actually I am far from straight so I will in fact be going to hell in a very squiggly line.” :)
I think that it's different for everyone, but bisexual usually means liking two or more genders. Pansexual I think means more that you don't think about gender (for the other person who replied to this comment)
I personally choose to believe that if a "straight" person is offended you don't like them when you come out, they're not as straight as they claim, have a crush on you, and just got their hopes up
Um I wouldnt go that far. I think its largely due to most people being insecure. We all kinda like the idea of anyone/everyone finding us appealing. And when someone kinda openly says they dont find you appealing, it triggers that "Awww wtf whats so bad about me?" Like, insults that hit your insecurities arent only painful when said by people who you like/find attractive. They should be, ideally thats how it should work. But thats not really how our minds work.
@@skeetsmcgrew3282 Yeah I know, I was kind of joking a bit, sorry for not clarifying! For what it's worth, a gay person not being attracted to you doesn't mean you're unattractive. Maybe you're just not their type, everyone has preferences. Personally if I think someone I've met is straight I actively try not to allow myself to feel attracted to them to avoid getting hurt or having an awkward friendship. Plus I've had to turn down straight girls a few times and it's super awkward trying to explain that it's not their fault, I'm just not interested because I'm gay, and I don't want to put anyone else in the reverse position (especially since I know if a straight person words such a rejection just a little off, some people will take it as homophobia, so it'd be even more awkward and uncomfortable for everyone involved) I'm rambling a bit. Point is, yeah I was just joking. If a real person claims to be straight I 100% respect that and take them at their word :)
@@skeetsmcgrew3282 If a straight guy (ideally he'd be pretty maculine) says "But you're not hitting on me, right?", I'll answer "Don't worry, I'm only into masculine men.". The one time I tried this the expression on that guys was priceless. Like a mix of a surprised pikachu and the "my disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined guy". But, he took it as a joke, and so it was intended.
Parents: We can't risk anything we're sending you to a all non-binary school Their pan child: **silent happiness** Edit: No offense to Bi people, Pan was just the first thing that popped into my head. You're all beautiful.
"I like yellow and pink, but most people dont like the color combination" Me, wearing a yellow shirt and pink (and little white) pants: 👁👄👁 That moment you have more likes than the pinned coment Edit:Wow so many likesssss thxxx whould you mind.....checking out my YT? Sorry for the ad here i just....starts on YT are hard😅
@@jay_art3032 yeah they are 🥺 they are my pijamas for good year i just wear them as my pijamas then in day to washer and again....i have so many pijamas but i only wear those😙🤚💞🐰
"Gentle homophobia" 😂😂 Gay person: I'm gay Straight friend: Ok but you better not like me Gay person: Don't worry I don't Straight person: "and I took that personally" Edit: thanks for likes guys :D
Just yesterday I realized that I've actually experienced that "just don't fall for me, okay" - classic, too. And I was always confused why every bi or gay person seems to experience that, but wow, that really does happen at least once :o
I was working on a paper with my friend last week and we needed to draw a diagram that included a straight line, and he asked me to draw it, so obviously I said, "I don't know how to be straight," like an idiot. I accidentally came out to my entire class and I am proud as fuck.
Jamie! Hi! Just wanted to say you’re amazing and such transition goals and a huge inspiration and you might’ve saved my life by showing me that I can make it some day. I’m a 14 year old trans guy
*Holy hell this is the most wholesome reply chain I’ve ever seen* *Also, uh, I don’t know if this is the right thing to say, but... congratulations? I’m bad at this*
@The Emo Demigirl Bimbo do want you want to do, listen yourself and come out if you want to when you are ready. i was diagnosed with depression when i was in closet
How to tell someone is planning a wedding: they look at a wedding photo and see how beautiful it is, then "that's a lot of people, and dresses, and buttonholes and expense..........😨"
you could probably find the video clip of it somewhere on here, ive seen it before and after he says he’s gay the host was just like “oh well boyfriend it is then” and backed away awkwardly
i thought the “only gay cops give me tickets” part meant that they got pulled over because the cops thought they were attractive,, got my hopes up for a second there but no, ✨homophobia✨
I came out to my best friend of 14 years the other day. This is how it went: Me: I need to tell you something Her: What? Me: I’m a lesbian Her: I’m 1000% straight Me: I know and I’m not trying to turn you gay Her: Okay. Just don’t flirt with me Me: I said I was gay not desperate Her: ....... Me: 😂
Instagram gave me an ad for a dating app that said: "are you attracted to both men and women?" and I just went sshhh I figured that out like 5 minutes ago, can you give me second with your terrifyingly accurate ad profiling?
Dude I got so many ads on facebook for asian dating websites and I was like, Im not asian and how did you know that I still would use an asian dating website?! Get out of my head Zuckerberg!!
Hey Jamie! Could you make a video on ace/aro pride? A lot of people think that ace/aro people aren't apart of the lqbtq+ community, and I feel they need some pride and representation
Just as I watch this I received an email saying girls in my year have to attend this certain workshop and boys this other one, and I'm a transguy not out and just so annoyed they had to for no reason split us up based on gender. My school has gender neutral toilets and I think one openly trans person and one non-binary person, and there is probably more not out like myself. Just so annoying. My rant now over!
I kinda want to tell you to go attend the boy thing anyway because screw authority and you're already rebelling against gender roles by existing and all that, but you should only do that if it's safe and whatnot. Maybe discuss this with some higher-ups at the school or something.
@@seabassthegamer6644 Thanks, I would but I'm not out yet so but I am planning to challenge things like this soon! Hopefully anyway because I plan to come out before the next school year starts, here's hoping! Thanks for your comment anyway!
RU-vid gave that ad all day one day to my younger brother who recently came out. It gave him a break from the anti gay ads, sexual anime game ads, and constant anti smoking ads.
When I was growing up, things were very segregated, to keep us "pure" but when they discovered a love letter to a girl, they stopped letting me see people or leave my house...for a year...til I turned 18.
@Earl Jones because transphobia, idk what part this person is in and if it's in place where trans people are targeted minorities for violence, it would be safer not to make yourself a target by coming out. I'm just trying to look out for a homie cause people suck, I'm not saying don't come out at all just to those who well be accepting and someone he trusts.
Just me dying questioning my existence as we speak an not in a “mood” way like actually crying but not knowing if I’m even crying because I got so detached from reality Jamie: uploads Me: *this won’t solve my problem but it will help*
i just want to thank you. i was feeling very horrible today (depressed and numb but also crying every five minutes) but seeing this video finally made me smile and now i can breathe deep.
I came out to my dad and he already knew lol. It was like “Dad I need to tell you something” “You’re bisexual?” “Huh?” “I’ve known that for years it’s not exactly hard to spot” Needless to say I was happy lol
I think part of the threat of a "all-boys school" is that a lot of those, traditionally, were like military schools or "schools for troubled boys". So...yeah, the threat of corporal punishment (among others) is usually what's behind that as well as "keep you single"
@Very Deep Think bout it i dont hate myself or my identity. Im nonbinary and im quite happy about it actually. Im not changing myself at all i was born like this
Hello everyone, hope you are all well. Hope you all have a fantastic week, and I know I have said it before but you are all valid people and cared about.
The AM I GAY ads amuse me because every once in a while RU-vid decides I need to question my gender again by suggesting videos such as "how I knew I was nonbinary" and "how to know if you are gender non-conforming"
I knew two guys in highschool, one allergic to real strawberries and the other allergic to the artificial flavor. I was always afraid I would somehow mix it up and kill one of them.
It's also so hurtful to "opposite-sex" friendships when parents ban you from hanging out with them, creating idea that opposite Sex relationships are automatically "sexual" or whatever while same Sex are automatically platonic
Okay, usually I skip watching the sponsor of the video but THIS TIME i watched the WHOLE THING because this is what we need and it is good to know that there is a counseling place for LGBTQ
I am definitely going to check out the sponsor because I had a counsellor within the past 10 years that shot down the notion that I was gender fluid (which at that time is how I felt) because I couldn’t explain to her things that did that were overly masculine or overly feminine because I do what I do with no gender filter. Like I still honestly don’t know the difference. I am just me regardless of traditional gender roles. I have had a hard time opening up about these sorts of things irl and thought I could trust this woman. All that added to my trust issues with women. On a more positive, gender affirming, note. I got called young man buy a customer at work the other day. I think he could only really see my neck and up but it made that day less crappy.
One of the best things that I've read on Facebook...........Son talking to his father..."Dad, I'm gay". Dad's quiet for a sec and then says "same rules as your sister - no boys in your room". Love this.
Jamie, you are one of the few things that keep me going every day, Thank you so much for being here as a loving and caring creator on youtube! From this trans girl, Thank you!
8:09 the way you write foreign words in japanese is with katakana, so you would write western names, countries etc. including the word homo! because its not Japanese, and "no" doesnt really mean much, and it most commonly connects nouns together, and comes after modified nouns, these are known as particles, "no" is possesive, an example would be "boku *no* hero academia" "boku *no namaiwa_____ des" (my name is ____) notice how it comes after the "my"? so you wouldnt usually see no before homo, unless you where saying something like "my gayness" but on its own id doesnt mean anything :) you have 3 writing styles in japan, kanji, hiragana, and katakana. kanji is where one symboll means a whole word (most of the time, buts its more complicated than this) and comes from china, hiragana is used for japanese words, where one symboll means a sound like "no" "hi" "po" etc and katakana uses the same sounds as hiragana, but different symbols, So like my actual name is Hayden, so you would use the katakana to sound it out like "ha-i-de-n" a better example is with john, "jo-n" or countries, so Mexico is actually said like "me-ke-shi-ko" ill provide some examples below using the symbolls: Mexico katakana:メキシコ ✅hiragana: めきしこ❌ (a tick next to the ones that make sense, and foreign words don’t have kanji) ✅❌ Boku: (my) hiragana: ぼく✅ katakana: ボク❌ kanji: 僕 ✅ Here’s a extra tidbit: kanji when used together mean different things, so separately 火 means fire, and 山 means mountain, but together 火山 they mean volcano China: 中 means during, or in the middle 国 means country, and together they mean China, this is hinting to the fact that, China thinks of itself as the center of the world, the most important (this is not my opinion, just what the kanji is alluding to) (and there are over 3000 individual kanji) and names mean things 未来 is Mirai, and it’s means “the future”. And of course that’s just skimming off the top, I’d really recommend looking into it, even if you aren’t bothered in learning Japanese, there are some amusing ones :) (The letters that make up penguin in Chinese directly translate to business goose, for example) For the Jojo fans reading this, the reason Josuke higashikata is called jojo is because the last kanji of his name can be read as jo, but with context it’s read as ta/kata
My summer camp had bunk beds, and we were often split into teams by which part of the bed you slept in. You haven't lived until you hear a counselor 100% seriously yell "TOPS VERSUS BOTTOMS, EVERYBODY!"
That contestant on Family Fortunes reminds me of the time a Tory MP tweeted an accusation that Scottish National Party MP John Nicholson was employing his wife as his parliamentary secretary. John Nicholson tweeted his response, "My boyfriend will be furious when he finds out."
That "Am I Gay" ad bombardment actually is kind of alarming. There's material risk with the level of hypertargeted advertisements that the ads a person might get could inadvertently (pardon the pun) out them. But I've always been a bit paranoid about algorithmic advertising and the invasive datamining that big ad companies like Google get up to.
About the last one, when I came out I was 16 and a few girls I was friends with didn’t want to hug me anymore (although that was common in our friend group) But they did want to hug the males in our group 🤷🏼♀️ Needless to say that friendships didn’t last.
The last one reminded me of when I came out as bi to one of my friends and she was like " wait but I've changed in front of you!" I said "okay and?" she said "I'm straight!no offense or anything it's just creepy knowing I turned a female on!" I said " oh you didn't ! Your not my type!" then my "straight" friend spent two hours wanting to know why she wasn't my type and why I don't find her attractive... I finally had to leave because I have no filter and about told her what I thought about how offended she was that I didn't 1ant her lol
@Fucking grass your awesome dad is a straight person (a person who is not homosexual or homoromantic), not A Straight™️ (homophobic, misogynistic, transphobic, probably racist, basically just a confused bigot). We absolutely stan your dad tho, he sounds awesome!
@Fucking grass Omg he sounds amazing. I'm really happy for you. And yea like the others said hes not one of "the straights" it doesn't include all straight people x
My sister just started to go through counseling and I knew she was worried that the person wouldn't be accepting since she's bi, but at one point she mentioned me, her trans brother, and the counselor was accepting and that was a big relief
A friend pointed out how the "no" in "no ho mo" kind of looks like a butt and now I'm wheezing because that just adds another gay layer to this whole thing.
A female friend of mine was supposed to go to an all girls school but didn't want to go and came out to her parents as lesbian. The father just asked:"Are you sure you don't want to go to the all girls school?"
I want to comment something but idk what XD Also please whoever is reading this, remember, or try to at least, that you arent a bad person, everyone makes mistakes (sorry I cant think of anything else to say ;w; )
