Amber talks about Sulli in CBS This Morning. She talks about how strong Sulli was in terms of the hate comments. Video Credits to: CBS This Morning CBSThisMorning: cbsthismorningchannel/?
Poor Amber. You can tell she's trying her best to talk about it calmly but looks like she wants to burst into tears but probably wants to remain professional for the interview. 💔
Amber take care of yourself , thanks for talking about Sulli . She is a kind person who listen to everyone problem and she is so lovely to her co workers! Please take care of yourself out there !
Dohwan Woo Was she supposed to be sad constantly? Like not even depressed people are sad for days at a time with no small beautiful moments. And isn’t that supposed to be like that? Doesn’t she deserve to be happy
@@nanakamaru2269 and knetz target is sulli ex boyfriend choiza,so many knetz hate comment to choiza because choiza made sulli like that actually sulli depresed because crazy knetz
@@miraayasaid9776 I just saw it in one of the video here in yt. Knetizens throw hates on her esp when she revealed that she's in a relationship with a man who is I think 14 years older than her. Then their hates became deeper when she posted sexy photos of her and some knetz called her slut. That's what I watch. She even said "Why are they so mean to me?" and "Reporters, please be nice to me."
@swatpolice911delta that's because some people just expecting an idol as a puppet aligned they can control what she has to do. Amber was right, an artist is produce an art and art has no limit to be expressed
“Why is this a big deal? It’s just a girl just living her life” this made me emotional. Because it’s true. We are all just trying to live our lives in our own way with our own expression. But when we don’t meet the expectations of outsiders.. the world suddenly becomes so cruel. Sulli didn’t deserve the treatment she got, she just wanted to live.
Crim Sin you can say it easily cuz it did not happened to you.. I am sure you will not just ignore if I say you are a creepy psychopath bastard who has no feeling of empathy.. don’t reply me then I will take your words..
@J H ,yes,without fan she aint nobody but what type of fan ,kind fan or bad fan.God make us ,to know,to respect,be kind to each other,because we just all the same,human,nothing high ,nothing below,without God permission.We dont know what each people going through,so be nice at least.We want people to be nice at us,so we also need make effort to be nice to others.Its doesn't take much to respect difference. Each people are not the same.Some people can beared hurtful word,and some people can't beared it.Word can be a knife and word also can be a flower/perfume to others.When keep repeat a hurtful word,its can destroy self confidence.Outside wound can be heal by time and treatment,but inside wound can't be heal quickly,maybe can make someone trauma.
@J H although its kinda late to reply i truly had to regardless of ur small amount of empathy.Sulli decided to follow her dreams of becoming a singer and actress, but here u r saying that without the fans she would be nothing.Guess what u r so damn wrong!Singers do not have to live the life fans expect them to and u know that.She does not need those fans, no she had a passion,a love for singing.Sulli was not in need to live for any other human being than herself although it was obvious that she both did adore and loved her true fans, who also loved her for her own personality and not for her looks that society constantly criticizes.Also,I hope u do never study psychology cuz u should know that no human being is a nobody.We have emotions, sympathy, empathy and are full of love as well as strength.Sulli was and will always be that magnificent person.I wish it could be as simple as ignoring hate comments but nobody is the same.Many years of being misjudged, bullied and what not is not normal or simple!I respect ur opinion but please stop describing her situation as easy and unimportant.If i would receive those comments i can ensure u that i would let them get the best of me cuz i am human and have feelings.So stop blaming her.Neither a mean nor a wonderful inspiration as her deserves that kind of treatment from society plus fake fans, which have certain expectations from particulary women.Unfortunately people like u still do judge her behaviour and decide whar she should have done.Nevertheless, she will constantly be reminded as a brave, kind, passionate, talented and lovely person. Sulli is a sea of joy , never will and had been a nobody regardless of fans. I feel like i have written enough even though my words will not cure ur cold heart.Just couldnt stand the fact that there are people who are this emotioally numb and have the audacity to be proud of their opinion.Unfortunately i do respect u and ur opinion(which truthfully should be considered as pure trash).
But to be honest, sadly she is not just a girl anymore. There is a huge different from being normal people and being a public figure, worst, an idol. When you decided to go public for chasing your dream, fame you should be prepared to loss something, everything came with price. Ones should really know what a celebrity means, do, bare and side effect before decided to pursue it, not all can be a celebrity and withstand the pressure. Idol industries really need to be control, they took in a lot of naive teen, gone through years of training and packaging them to be ready for debut. Hundreds of teenagers participate, only a few will debut while others who fail will be put aside. Those who succeed, debut without really knowing what is waiting for them while those who failed spent years of their youth training, end up hardly has any route to go anymore in the future.
@@soobaro5120 Ah no I didn't mean it as something bad. I apologize if it came out like that. I just meant like it seems that she hasn't fully realized that Sulli is gone and still thinks of her as alive sometimes.
"Let her live, let her be an artist let her be an actress" That's the point. Why can't other people let idols breathe and live in this world peacefully.
I don't understand what you're trying to say miss after you comment on what I've said let me tell you to understand my point is. What I'm trying to say is even her person interest in life, other people still judging her why? i know she's an artist she's a actress but it doesn't mean she can't make or do what she likes in her life. Yes let her be an actress, fans cheering her, support her nos tell me why other people still hate her even though she didn't do anything wrong? You know what we're living in this world with people who are always criticizing others. Tell me, can you stop someone who willl say something bad? No! Block them? Dude they're many. It doesn't mean you're an actress or idol you will live in this world with perfect life. Psshh no one is perfect we can make mistakes and others will talk about you because of that.
Princess Azarcon It’s cuz ppl have this perfect vision of how idols should be like, and if they decide to be themselves, they’ll bash out on them, raging in anger because of the perfect image of idols being lost and broken They can accept that, they can’t tell the difference between right and wrong
@@ballorawan7672 Yes i know that i will respect what you've said. but it doesn't mean idols can't make short or big things that will make them happy. It's just that how will other people react on their action. Because of the perfect vision of other people, they want idols to breathe in this world perfectly without errors or mistakes?. They can't do that. Their problem is the perfect vision that you tell me , they can't blame idols just because they have huge expectations that idols will be a perfect or free from mistakes. It's their expectations about idols, that's why some of them are disappointed. 🙁
@@mltdnandomo1986 I only kind of know about the Sulli and Jonghyun situations but I think that they're saying to stop hating on artists since they see these comments and are deeply hurt by them,They all commited suicide and one of the most known reasons for each are the hate they recieved.
@@mltdnandomo1986 Sulli and Jonghyun committed suicide because of pressure and hate. Cha In Ha, well, I don't completely know but I know he is an Actor that committed suicide not really sure why. And Hara, her ex boyfriend was kind of abusing her before and she got all depressed, and Sulli, the other one who committed suicide, was her best friend. She also tried to commit suicide before, but failed. I just feel really bad for these people, and hope to noy lose anyone else...
If this is in regards to her comments I hope you guys understand how disrespectful this is? She's talking about her dead friend, leave whatever opinion you have on her out of it.
Almond Shake wtf. We’re not saying it in a bad way I’m saying it like she doesn’t wanna cry and say something bad about Korean media. Why read something and take it as a negative? How horrible. And what opinion? No one say anything negative. When you’re with someone for so long and the die because they are being attacked you watch your words wisely. You can see she wants to say “fuck everyone that is beating her down” but she’s being respectful of Korean media and her how her fans would perceive what she’s saying. How gross of you to assume that we have no sympathy. Gross.
summer walker right. Idk how this person randomly assumed that. How horrible. Amber is a celebrity she’s has to chose her words wisely. Like what the heck. They just wanna start trouble.
PerrySport Excuse me what? Am I comprehending this correctly or are you trying to say that people should get over the fact that society’s opinions can literally kill people? It’s not social media that killed her either, it’s the people who used it.
PerrySport I’m gonna take back what I said, I looked at it from a different perspective and I’m going to say I’m sorry. I’m sorry that I said those things to you. I forgive you because that is what I’m supposed to do. I hope you find the path you were meant to find and hopefully understand humanity better. I hope you find what it means to be kind and respectful. Clearly you need more development and you need time to understands
I do agree with this. Internet which is also social media and so on. People misused the internet. Some people use for bad thing. In research that I have been doing looking for support in psychology, yes! Internet can be one of weapon killing people slowly by torturing their mentality. The most successful tool to do bullying in mentally. Some people use to leave negative comment, isn it easy? If u dont like it, pass. Dont bother to leave bad comment. You can just pm or dm that person individually to said what u didnt like about it..so why bother to show to everyone, and tell everyone, let put off this girl. If all people use internet in such a good manner, in good way, this will not happen. The intention of internet being exist to help us to search for information, link with each other but people...misused it! Is it happy enough become a keyboard warrior? Are they proud of it? What a stupid people. This is only my opinion
I can feel Amber’s pain in this interview. She’s so strong for being able to talk about Sulli like this. I had a friend who took her life very unexpectedly in 2016. To this day, I still find it hard to talk about her when people ask. I get very cold and brisk with my words when the topic comes up because I still feel that acute sense of loss and it’s like for a moment I step out of myself and I’m on autopilot. My tone of voice makes it clear to people that I don’t want to discuss it, especially those who ask just out of curiosity. I can’t imagine how hard it was for Amber to go into detail for an interview, knowing it would be viewed by thousands of strangers.
I also had someone I knew committing suicide, I know what you mean. It was 3 years ago but still hurts a lot just thinking about her. It's just that she was so young and so good in hiding her own pain... She was always such a good friend and genuine listener that to this day I can't forgive myself not being one for her. Struggling is a human thing, don't be afraid to talk about it with someone. Your mental health is a lot more important than your job or school assignment. Please take care of yourself.
Get in loser we’re going jopping I get you tooo my friend did the same last year and Im still trying to process things. What hurts it’s that sometimes you want that friend back but you can’t do anything can’t their gone.....
It is not easy to explain our dear one's death and departure that happened normally. But if it caused by sucide then we can harsh automatically and the strange thing is people take it gossip not lessons. There must be a law for those who compelled anyone to take their lives like. A person is also has died inside and gossips and harsh words snatch the remaining strength glow of light changes into last burning flame. And the life becomes faded. Then they easily said this one already in stress and depression.
In April of last year I lost my friend who was an actress and it was so surreal due to how abrupt it had been. I'd literally spent time with her 2 days before it happened. She was honestly what seemed to be the embodiment of joy and happiness, she refused to put herself before others, and she was a beat friend to everyone which only made losing her so much harder. I hate talking about her because talking in past tense about someone so warm and vibrant feels so unnatural and wrong. It's like I'll be okay for months and think about her but not feel emotional, then I'll be reminded of her either by seeing someone who looked like her or hearing someone else's story and I'm back to feeling how I did all that time ago.
I too lost someone very close to me to suicide in 2018. My brother actually and it still hurts me to this day. I hope that all of you guys also experiencing loss know that there are people there for you. I go about my days normally but still missing my brother and it is hard to remember that he is gone but knowing that he is up there hopefully peaceful and happier makes me feel better. I really do applaud Amber for her strength. She is so strong to be able to talk about Sulli in such a calm and articulated fashion. Talking about my loss is so difficult and I get very tensed up. My heart goes out to her and others experiencing loss 💕💕
this was so hard to watch. it's so clear to me amber misses her a lot and is still trying to deal with it. i can't imagine losing one of your friends so young. thinking of her, krystal, victoria and luna, as well as the rest of sulli's friends and family.
@@YateenDayaram her parents fought over her assets and never really bothered caring about their daughter which is so sad. I'm seriously glad that she has her older brother with her during her last moments in life.
It’s so sad. People don’t realise that celebrities are real human beings with emotions, they aren’t robots. Words hurt and people need to realise that what they think are innocent “jokes” can actually hurt someone mentally and physically. Sulli didn’t deserve the hate she got, she was a sweet girl who was trying to do her career but the internet had to bring her down to the point where she couldn’t take it anymore. Rip Sulli, fly high Angel😔❤️
I wish people could be more careful in commenting or saying something to an artist / celebrity. They are human If you hate them, just miss em Dont stalk their social media Thats it, its so simple...
Deny Nurdiansah monsters don’t care about whether or not they’re hurting you, they have no empathy, that I can assure you as a former victim of cyber bullying
She hit the nail on the head when she said "Why is this a big deal?". Unfortunately, this not only pertains to Sulli but to every idol or person that's been criticized. People need to ask themselves this before posting something negative about someone. It seems idols get attacked for smallest of reasons but when it's constant, it hits a breaking point where they finally have had enough. Either they speak out, like Jihyo did recently or even worse, taking their own life. Even when they have every right to speak out, they get attacked for it even more.
This is reality of the world unfortunately. Toxic trolls everywhere, just wanting to bring others down behind their computer screens. I don't know why but they get a kick from hurting other people. From politicians to RU-vidrs, everyone in the public eye is getting bullied and criticized and trolled at some point. It's so silly...
jckncoke these idols either die from exhaustion or kill themselves bc of the constant harassment and judgment from strangers. And if they get married, oh bye bye all 20 of that person’s fan clubs.... I really hate people sometimes.
@@mio7464 Just look at what's happening with Exo's Chen right now, not even six months after Sulli's death they're already criticizing another idol for having a life.
I’m like a ball of joy around my friends but alone I’m so different. I’m never happy and always sulking alone, but it’s not on purpose. I think this is the same for sulli.
BOOSTED Boosted im the same type of person. I also wonder a lot, who is the real me? The me with my friends, or the me when im alone? I Still dont know. It all feels real, but at the same time does not make sense..
They say that there's three versions or personas to oneself, the version of yourself your friends know, the one that your family knows and the persona of yourself you know.
The truth is humans are social creatures and we need others to be happy and healthy. Of course your thoughts when you are alone are you but they aren't really the best and most healthy you.
Igna Powers Really? Humans make me feel like trash and I have no faith in humanity. We are social beings but lone wolves exist who don’t need people to be happy.
@swatpolice911delta why? She grew as a person and as an artist and explored another artistic field. She neved did anything wrong and yet she got so much hatred
@swatpolice911delta wow i guess you only noticed sulli getting drunk, other idol do it too for gods sack. Go and search for that yeah can you believe that others get drunk too?
“This is a girl, just living her life.” It was suppose to be like this but YOU and your words destroyed that life for her. I just can’t understand all the hate that’s all been thrown at her. It’s all too late now, and I’m still heartbroken, what more amber and the rest who were close to her
This suicide wasn’t because this person wanted to be a bad person or anything. It was because people were disrespecting the simple right to let her live.
"Just let her live" People dont realize how bad words can hurt until they witness it themselves. Words can kill... Please think about what you say..You never know what might happen.
PerrySport “If you let words hurt you, you are weak.” You are a truly disgusting person inside and out. WE ARE HUMANS, WE EXPERIENCE EMOTION AND PAIN. When people tell you that you are ugly, YOU WILL BELIEVE IT,. WHY? BECAUSE THAT IS HOW WE ARE BORN. WE ARE BORN WANTING TO UNDERSTAND PEOPLE’S OPINIONS ABOUT OURSELVES WHETHER THEY ARE NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE. YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM, YOU ARE PART OF THE REASON WHY THIS HAPPENS. “Try experiencing physical pain.” EMOTIONAL PAIN IS WORSE. Physical pain hurts you but emotional pain is worse, and last longer to bleed into future generations.
I wonder why Amber said that she is like Sulli's "older brother"? Why not like older sister when she is obviously girl? That was weird but ok. Very sad about Sulli. Hopefully Amber isn't depressed :(
Pistachio i just suppose they regard each other as brothers since they both have strong personality, i.e. not the usual mushy, fragile or temperamental kind of girls
@@01Natalcia01 That's not weird. It's pretty common. It's for older girls who take care of younger girls as if what one could consider how an oppa would, generally.
When I lost my best friend to suicide back in 2017, it tore me apart. I felt like an empty shell for over a year. I felt as if everything was meaningless but I had to continue living for her because she was no longer around. It took me over a year to finally stop switching from present tense to past tense. It was too much for me to process. So, when news broke out about Sulli, even though I wasn't her fan, I still felt the pain of her loss. I understood her friend's pain. Having been the person to lose someone but also being the person who tries to take her own life. I truly wish for amber and all of sulli's friends to continue speaking about her, maybe not to us but to a therapist. It's the only way I found myself healing. Bottling those emotions, those memories away leaves even more heartache. I hope they're able to heal :(
The most important part is to remember who Sulli was. She was cute, friendly, brave & a rebel. Unfortunately she was a victim of the industry. Amber said when she went though an image change. It surprised her fandom. It was not what they wanted & not the men they wanted her to date. Image is such a big factor in kpop. She was a child when she started in the industry & Sulli fandom wanted her to stay a child.
I remember first getting into kpop and I instantly noticed Sulli, she seemed like a girl you just instantly wanted to be best friends with. She deserved the world and the world was so cruel to her.
This is so sad... as fandoms we always imagine “the worst” as a member leaving or our groups disbanding, no fan ever imagines that their idol will pass way. It’s such a tragedy and I hope everyone is taking care of themselves rn
I remember when I found out my childhood best friend took her life. I remember how numb and how guilty I felt. I remember being angry and being depressed for along time. I still miss her everyday. It’s a wound that doesn’t heal correctly because if you let yourself those emotions come rushing back to you.
what i learn from sulli in this video : reading hater's comments is NOT the same feeling when you were riding a roller coaster.. so, we should ignore negative comments from other people.. your life is more precious than you think.. thank you amber to told me about her.. i miss sulli so much..
You could see in her eyes, she’s so sad. It really hits you hard. Imagine how hard it is for us that an idol passed away, but imagine how hard it is for Amber?
Her member really miss her so much. Amber and Sulli are in the same group so it's like, it making her remind of the memory of she and Sulli. And, Sulli is looking them from above and all of us. Let's just her rest.
You can tell she's trying her best to remember her with so much love. I can see that Amber is still processing not having Sulli in this world. Her death must have hurt Amber a lot. Rest well, Sulli 🕊
I applaud her for sharing and talking about Sulli. Thank you Amber and hope your doing well so far. F(X) will always be 5. Let's remember Sulli during her happier times
I believe that everyone's experience in life is different. You would never know exactly how that person felt and what they were like when no one was around. Sulli's death was unexpected, no one knew she would do this. Humans can be the cruelest and the most welcoming creatures, try not to leave bad comments, no matter how bad you think they are. You would never know, even if they are your family. Don't hurt others and make sure to be there for each other, somewhere out there there is always a hope to live another day. No matter how empty it feels, there will always be hope, another reason to continue living. R.I.P Choi Jin-ri, Sulli
I watch this again and I want to hug Amber so badly, you can tell she truly loved Sulli so deeply. This is so heartbreaking to watch. I thought I was over this tragedy but then RU-vid recommended this to me and I broke down. I feel so bad for both of them. #Ripsully #staystrongamber
PerrySport And what if it was her passion to sing, dance, and be an inspiration to guide people who otherwise have been convinced that success on that type of career path wasn’t achievable? Again, you’re part of the problem.
Thank you for sharing with us! You and the rest of your peers go through so much as artists and it must be hard sometimes.. know there are fans who truly love you
This vid was recommended by YT for like 5 times but this is the first time that I cave in. And I can't stop crying right now because as a fan I feel like I failed her. I was just one of the many who despites love her but wasn't able to really help her. And what happened next to Hara just opened that already swollen heart of mine. I'm sorry Sulli, I failed you. I'm really really sorry.
Y'all need to understand idols are humans too, they have feelings just like us, they get hurt just like us and just because they entertain us doesn't mean that we have control over them , they are just NORMAL PEOPLE LIKE US.
Amber and Sulli were so strong. Sulli delt with the pain so well, she deserved none of the hate. She was amazingly well at everything even after she received the hate. I really really admire and love her for that. Amber is such a strong amazing sweetheart. After the death of her best friends, she still manages to stay strong. I have and will always love every member of F(x).
One day a friend of mine said "live and let live" because that's how it always should be, no one should live in base of the others expectations, just respect and live your own life.
me not supporting sulli more when she was alive is one of my regrets, I know I am a random person she didn't knew but I still feel sorry like I used to like her but I didn't recognized her the way I think I should have, now I miss her and hold her so dearly in my heart but she is gone
I'm glad numerous K-pop entertainment companies are putting this into consideration. Like after the suicide cases of numerous celebrities, many companies have been letting idols take psychological rest and help during thought and tough times. *For example Jeongyeon, Mina, Haseul, Scoups, Han-jisung, Daniel and Jooheony.* Now that all we can do is move on, respect and learn from the past, we should take care and always respect one another in the future.
Poor Amber, losing two people she loved so dearly to suicide. Amber, please don’t go down the same path. Live your life for the people who love you so we can all honor Sulli and Jonghyun.
You can tell she’s watching her words really carefully. Because there are toxic people who would try to find reason to hate, even when they are the one murdering people
You could see amber didn’t wanna talk about sulli, you can see that amber is holding back her tears, but at the same time she wanted everyone to know about sulli and she was important💜
amber is a strong woman, talking about someone who doesn't exist anymore, and someone we lost that was so close to us is real hard, you just don't wanna speak about it like you just wanna cry thinking about cuz you fell like they r still here, but then you realise you aren't gonna see them ever again, not everybody has the power to put that smile on their face even when talking about someone who they lost ,so amber hatts off, stay strong as you r
